it’s sad when one stops fighting for a r/s. r/s are not easy and both have to work tgt, it’s understandable if they are aware of the problems and have actively tried to resolve it but to no avail. but as what they said, if only one sees the problem and doesn’t communicate (be it thinking if that person is the right one or being confused abt the r/s), it’s hard to get rid of the thought that it might not be the right one and makes it harder to stay in the r/s, especially if ure dealing with that thought alone. a successful r/s is reminding urselves that it’s always both of u against the problem and u have to fight for the r/s with that mindset.
You have to put in effort in a relationship, but I don't believe you need to "fight for a relationship". It should be relatively smooth if both parties are compatible and on the same page.
OMyTian. I am officially obsessed this channel! Like the discussions of different perspectives put out there and discussed. Most importantly, respected.
Is the reason why as ppl grows older, they tend to find it harder to find a soulmate because they have so many expectations like stability and etc? compared to when we're younger where anything goes as long as he/she is good looking...
Make space for perspective - I completely agree because that's what me and my bf are giving each other, especially knowing both of us are in the state of focusing on working ourselves - career wise, so we can be better first before being better for each other
Thank you for all these "ketchup". It must have taken lots of time and effort in preparation. Appreciate the open opinions and thoughts. Which we discuss amongst close friends but never never social media.
Since I came to Singapore I'm addicted to your podcast specially with the entrance "The daily ketchup" ahahahah can you do a segment about is it ok to have boy bestfriend or girl bestfriend even if you are already in a relationship.
4:00 Doing something that makes your partner break up with you because you don't know how to break up 6:30 Break up Trauma First 2 weeks - "Im free" Weeks after - "feeling the lost of a person" 9:30 clean break up needs to do through text 14:00 Pat and John cannot threaten break up, cannot joke about it
Hang on, hasn't the majority (of at least half) of this panel watched Friends? "Look, maybe we should just take a break." In response to 19:43: "What's heads and what's tails?" "If you don't know that, then I don't want to do this with you." That episode (3x15) was gold. All of the abovementioned quotes were from it lol. But on a more serious note, I think your discussion brought up many good suggestions about how to approach conflict or just voicing out what you want, but I think ultimately it depends on the personality of both parties. I realised that when I heard the "I hear you" thing brought up by Dan. A superior once randomly said it to me before, but I felt really awkward about it because we were just having a regular work discussion, brainstorming and all. I'm sure she was putting something she had just learnt to use, but man, was it funny and inappropriate. Perhaps a different person would have appreciated it? But ultimately the most important thing is to know your audience.
it may not be entirely true that people are bad at breakups as they're non-confrontational but it could just be that they have not witnessed enough meaningful and mature breakups hence, they chose the easy way out i.e ghosting or becoming a dick.
it’s sad when one stops fighting for a r/s. r/s are not easy and both have to work tgt, it’s understandable if they are aware of the problems and have actively tried to resolve it but to no avail. but as what they said, if only one sees the problem and doesn’t communicate (be it thinking if that person is the right one or being confused abt the r/s), it’s hard to get rid of the thought that it might not be the right one and makes it harder to stay in the r/s, especially if ure dealing with that thought alone. a successful r/s is reminding urselves that it’s always both of u against the problem and u have to fight for the r/s with that mindset.
You have to put in effort in a relationship, but I don't believe you need to "fight for a relationship". It should be relatively smooth if both parties are compatible and on the same page.
OMyTian. I am officially obsessed this channel! Like the discussions of different perspectives put out there and discussed. Most importantly, respected.
There is definitely a reason why people in relationship breakup as there is no point to stay as friends after breakup
Is the reason why as ppl grows older, they tend to find it harder to find a soulmate because they have so many expectations like stability and etc? compared to when we're younger where anything goes as long as he/she is good looking...
Make space for perspective - I completely agree because that's what me and my bf are giving each other, especially knowing both of us are in the state of focusing on working ourselves - career wise, so we can be better first before being better for each other
Thank you for all these "ketchup". It must have taken lots of time and effort in preparation. Appreciate the open opinions and thoughts. Which we discuss amongst close friends but never never social media.
As long as person name are not mentioned, should be ok.
the act toxic thing until other party initiate breakup is so f-ed up ngl
Interesting to hear yall talk about Kat Von D's lawsuit on tattoo copyright!
hi ! been watching your videos for a while and love all of them,, just wondering whether it would be possible for u guys to do captions ?
I feel like the taste of the Mcdonald's curry sauce changed.. can you guys please investigate if it's really the case? thanks! XD
Since I came to Singapore I'm addicted to your podcast specially with the entrance "The daily ketchup" ahahahah can you do a segment about is it ok to have boy bestfriend or girl bestfriend even if you are already in a relationship.
4:00 Doing something that makes your partner break up with you because you don't know how to break up
6:30 Break up Trauma
First 2 weeks - "Im free"
Weeks after - "feeling the lost of a person"
9:30 clean break up needs to do through text
14:00 Pat and John cannot threaten break up, cannot joke about it
Do about closure -Post breakup..
I choked when JP said Da Vinci code.
I like to choke. ;)
Hang on, hasn't the majority (of at least half) of this panel watched Friends?
"Look, maybe we should just take a break."
In response to 19:43:
"What's heads and what's tails?"
"If you don't know that, then I don't want to do this with you."
That episode (3x15) was gold. All of the abovementioned quotes were from it lol.
But on a more serious note, I think your discussion brought up many good suggestions about how to approach conflict or just voicing out what you want, but I think ultimately it depends on the personality of both parties. I realised that when I heard the "I hear you" thing brought up by Dan. A superior once randomly said it to me before, but I felt really awkward about it because we were just having a regular work discussion, brainstorming and all. I'm sure she was putting something she had just learnt to use, but man, was it funny and inappropriate. Perhaps a different person would have appreciated it? But ultimately the most important thing is to know your audience.
Article 34 - Bros cannot make eye contact during a devil's three-way
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But if your partner do not want to communicate, & has been cheating, do you still want to be in the relationship?
No-the partner obviously does not want to try anymore. But it is easier said than done
"only the Sith deals in absolutes" HAHAHAHAHH sohai DAN!! nice try though!
Thanks man, really tried
it may not be entirely true that people are bad at breakups as they're non-confrontational but it could just be that they have not witnessed enough meaningful and mature breakups hence, they chose the easy way out i.e ghosting or becoming a dick.
Ah you guys are so timely... I literally just broke up sigh
I love John
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Hi Andy, fancy seeing you here!
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