A year ago, I broke off a long-term friendship, very abruptly, I might add. I was furious at something that took place that was enough for me to call it quits. I didn't realize, until listening to almost all of your videos, how I had abandoned my SELF in a search to fulfill a void. You have been one of the most critical contributors to my healing process. The relationship was only a sign of a bigger issue. Thank you again for your voice of reason and peace. I have absolutely no regrets for letting the relationship go..I was not authentic. If I had been (authentic), I doubt the "friendship" would have lasted that long.
It’s starting to dawn on me just how ingenious young children are emotionally, finding ways to secure their connection to their loved ones by self-punishment. It seems so odd to me now how as adults we have a hard time seeing through patterns we created when we were 4 years old. Thank you for making these matters so clear and practical! 🙏
I am in love with this woman. I have a narcissistic sister, parents, in laws, they are everywhere. I am moving away from all of them and it feels great. I love those who are innocent and suffer, the world suffers and they don't see how and why. It's all cause and effect. I seen light beings before this life and I was tasked to come into this family. I am still not sure why because those who I broke my back for spread hate and lies about me. The world is full of jealousy, hate and materialistic ego. Even narcissism is a bi product of materialism.
I almost thought this was going to touch on PTSD lol. I'm 60... Just found out that it was PTSD I've been dealing with most of my life. Similar concept.. I ignored my mental health because family and job etc was more important. I am just now learning to unravel things. It is painful because a lifetime of putting others first became habitual. It started out replacing the real needs I had, but became an addiction. When I am better, I will go back to helping people.. but not because I have to. This was a great post. Thank you!
I absolutely love your videos. your videos are so unique from others simply because not only do you give tips, you relate to me/ us in a way that makes us feel understood. so that the advice you are giving, isn't from a place of just knowledge, but wisdom & true compassion. Thank you so much
I needed this video right now. Been in a 12 yr relationship with two kids, and it's been constantly us both self abandoning...I'm at a point in my healing that I'm seeing we aren't aligned and I can not self abandon ANY MORE. I will share with him this video so he can hopefully understand my choice in separating. Thank you so much.
Magical synchronicity! This is everything that is alive for me right now and that I have been experiencing and struggling to move through. Thank you for sharing this gift and assisiting in my self-healing
I LOVE your videos!!! Thank you for expressing your truth!! I am finally allowing myself to identify those who feel like my tribe. People who think deep, feel deep and express truthfully. You are a great example. I wish you immense success, its what our planet needs now. Self Inquiry, love, self responsibity and wholeness empowerment. Thanks again!
dseer13 that’s me exactly!! I think I have no value without giving ? I am working on myself and it’s bringing so much pain!! My family isn’t being supportive nor understanding. I am working on myself to become the best version of myself !!! In the end I know I will at least love and trust myself enough to not allow their words of hurt won’t consume me!!! I have never chose MYSELF!!! I am an extreme people pleaser and I am alone unless others NEED something .
Another great video Candace. I can relate so much to everything you said. I had a very unhappy childhood and always remember getting hit by my mother for reasons I still do not understand. But you really help me understand myself so much. I have been in a very codependent marriage for over 30 years now and am becoming increasingly unhappy. Think the reason we are still together is because of the fear of being alone. But I feel your videos are making me stronger and will eventually help me lead an authentic life. Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for your videos. It's helped me a lot because I can relate to self-trust issues I learned when I was young. And now with self awareness and meditation, I've been doing my best to unlearn what I learned, and that I'm enough.
It is 3:14 am i couldnt sleep cause i had a fight with my unhealthy non functioning fam. (Majority narcissists) so is did some journaling and ask my self why is it why I have to forgive everybody just to have peace. And why are these people so selfish and do I need to be selfish put my self before the collective family, but this isnt love. (I have an extreme fuckedup understanding of what love is) closed my journal and open youtube and saw this video. Guess this was the message i needed from the universe thank you
Oh my God narcs have affected ways !!! Help help help !!!!!! I love narcs with all my heart i wish them , i will never stay narc ever again !!!!! Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe !!!! Know your worth and increase your value!!!! Take care i wish you a terrific healing Miss.....
I always find value in your videos. I just came across an amazing new journey over the weekend. When time came to pay my financial dues to this company, so many people close to me happened to be in need of money and donations. I immediately felt guilty for putting myself first and had a tough time dealing with it myself. But what came up for me is that to help the many, I must live in my power as my true self and be empowered by knowing I am becoming who I am truly meant to unfold as. I did put myself 1st and realized I am lovingly evolving. I celebrate myself now and acknowledge myself for learning from the past. My growth is impacting many.
Candace, this is amazing. I feel like I had a vague idea of what you said but you put it together for me seamlessly and now it makes sense. I am so grateful for you and your incredible insight. Thank you for gifting these videos to us. Hoping to take one of your classes soon. Love you so much! 😘😘😘😘
Thank you for this video, Candace ❤ I will be looking into your programs, especially the Emotional Rehab one that is coming out. Proud and inspired by the work you are doing for all us humans trying to figure things out and live in better alignment with ourselves especially with a society or family dyanamics that play against it at times. Xoxo
I love your videos so much.Could you please make a video about not trusting in our capacity?I just cant believe I can make money.I feel extremelly lost dont know which way to go.
Great video! I am at this stage in my life this week. I am looking forward to more. I’m glad you mentioned that understanding where it came from is key to healing, but beyond that I’m interested in how to prevent it if I ever have kids. How can I make sure it doesn’t happen to people in my life and to end the cycle of not meeting someone’s emotional needs? That’s what I want to understand. It’s a fear that if I can’t do it for myself how can i meet the needs of others...
How would you recommend becoming a counselor myself? It's early yet, but I know I am meant to help others. Where do I start. Thank you Candace for aligning your self and helping others to aswell.
A year ago, I broke off a long-term friendship, very abruptly, I might add. I was furious at something that took place that was enough for me to call it quits. I didn't realize, until listening to almost all of your videos, how I had abandoned my SELF in a search to fulfill a void. You have been one of the most critical contributors to my healing process. The relationship was only a sign of a bigger issue. Thank you again for your voice of reason and peace. I have absolutely no regrets for letting the relationship go..I was not authentic. If I had been (authentic), I doubt the "friendship" would have lasted that long.
It’s starting to dawn on me just how ingenious young children are emotionally, finding ways to secure their connection to their loved ones by self-punishment. It seems so odd to me now how as adults we have a hard time seeing through patterns we created when we were 4 years old. Thank you for making these matters so clear and practical! 🙏
I am in love with this woman. I have a narcissistic sister, parents, in laws, they are everywhere. I am moving away from all of them and it feels great. I love those who are innocent and suffer, the world suffers and they don't see how and why. It's all cause and effect. I seen light beings before this life and I was tasked to come into this family. I am still not sure why because those who I broke my back for spread hate and lies about me. The world is full of jealousy, hate and materialistic ego. Even narcissism is a bi product of materialism.
I almost thought this was going to touch on PTSD lol. I'm 60... Just found out that it was PTSD I've been dealing with most of my life. Similar concept.. I ignored my mental health because family and job etc was more important. I am just now learning to unravel things. It is painful because a lifetime of putting others first became habitual. It started out replacing the real needs I had, but became an addiction. When I am better, I will go back to helping people.. but not because I have to. This was a great post. Thank you!
I absolutely love your videos. your videos are so unique from others simply because not only do you give tips, you relate to me/ us in a way that makes us feel understood. so that the advice you are giving, isn't from a place of just knowledge, but wisdom & true compassion. Thank you so much
I needed this video right now. Been in a 12 yr relationship with two kids, and it's been constantly us both self abandoning...I'm at a point in my healing that I'm seeing we aren't aligned and I can not self abandon ANY MORE. I will share with him this video so he can hopefully understand my choice in separating. Thank you so much.
Magical synchronicity! This is everything that is alive for me right now and that I have been experiencing and struggling to move through. Thank you for sharing this gift and assisiting in my self-healing
Yasmine Miles 💛
I LOVE your videos!!! Thank you for expressing your truth!! I am finally allowing myself to identify those who feel like my tribe. People who think deep, feel deep and express truthfully. You are a great example. I wish you immense success, its what our planet needs now. Self Inquiry, love, self responsibity and wholeness empowerment. Thanks again!
a lot of people think they have to give to have worth but they don't know that the truth is that we choose to give because they have worth.
dseer13 that’s me exactly!! I think I have no value without giving ? I am working on myself and it’s bringing so much pain!! My family isn’t being supportive nor understanding. I am working on myself to become the best version of myself !!! In the end I know I will at least love and trust myself enough to not allow their words of hurt won’t consume me!!! I have never chose MYSELF!!! I am an extreme people pleaser and I am alone unless others NEED something .
Another great video Candace. I can relate so much to everything you said. I had a very unhappy childhood and always remember getting hit by my mother for reasons I still do not understand. But you really help me understand myself so much. I have been in a very codependent marriage for over 30 years now and am becoming increasingly unhappy. Think the reason we are still together is because of the fear of being alone. But I feel your videos are making me stronger and will eventually help me lead an authentic life. Thank you so much!
Yes i can relate to this not feeling comfortable putting myself 1st whn around others. I have to work on myself.
Thanks for your words. I’m about to see a client and that’s exactly what I need to tell them. Love and peace
Thank you so much for your videos. It's helped me a lot because I can relate to self-trust issues I learned when I was young. And now with self awareness and meditation, I've been doing my best to unlearn what I learned, and that I'm enough.
Thanks for this. I really needed to hear the message/validation today.
It is 3:14 am i couldnt sleep cause i had a fight with my unhealthy non functioning fam. (Majority narcissists) so is did some journaling and ask my self why is it why I have to forgive everybody just to have peace. And why are these people so selfish and do I need to be selfish put my self before the collective family, but this isnt love. (I have an extreme fuckedup understanding of what love is) closed my journal and open youtube and saw this video. Guess this was the message i needed from the universe thank you
👍sounds right to me... about this being your answer! Good luck!
Oh my God narcs have affected ways !!! Help help help !!!!!! I love narcs with all my heart i wish them , i will never stay narc ever again !!!!! Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe !!!! Know your worth and increase your value!!!! Take care i wish you a terrific healing Miss.....
I love your videos Candace 💜 thanks for sharing your gift 🌟
Tracey Lynn xo💫
Great video, please keep making more. You helping no only other but also communities or people who feel hopelessness.
May the lord bless you for the rest of yiyr life .....
You’ve changed my life , god bless u❤️😘
I always find value in your videos. I just came across an amazing new journey over the weekend. When time came to pay my financial dues to this company, so many people close to me happened to be in need of money and donations. I immediately felt guilty for putting myself first and had a tough time dealing with it myself. But what came up for me is that to help the many, I must live in my power as my true self and be empowered by knowing I am becoming who I am truly meant to unfold as. I did put myself 1st and realized I am lovingly evolving. I celebrate myself now and acknowledge myself for learning from the past. My growth is impacting many.
Candace, this is amazing. I feel like I had a vague idea of what you said but you put it together for me seamlessly and now it makes sense. I am so grateful for you and your incredible insight. Thank you for gifting these videos to us. Hoping to take one of your classes soon. Love you so much! 😘😘😘😘
Love this so much
I have developped an addiction to her vids ;-) 1000 thnks
Thanks C, beautifully put and appreciated. Big love
mf13x 💛
Fantastic, insightful video, thanks!
ABSOLUTE TRUTH! LOVE YOU CANDACE! Needed this, thank you 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Thank you for this video, Candace ❤ I will be looking into your programs, especially the Emotional Rehab one that is coming out. Proud and inspired by the work you are doing for all us humans trying to figure things out and live in better alignment with ourselves especially with a society or family dyanamics that play against it at times. Xoxo
Thankyou
Wow...I'm seeing this at the perfect time...thank you 🙏❤
Beautiful. Thank you.
I became a abandoholic.But no more ever.❤️
I love your videos so much.Could you please make a video about not trusting in our capacity?I just cant believe I can make money.I feel extremelly lost dont know which way to go.
Perfect timing as always 💜☮️🌈🙏🏻
Thank you
felt a shift on awaken
i love you and your videos
Great video! I am at this stage in my life this week. I am looking forward to more. I’m glad you mentioned that understanding where it came from is key to healing, but beyond that I’m interested in how to prevent it if I ever have kids. How can I make sure it doesn’t happen to people in my life and to end the cycle of not meeting someone’s emotional needs? That’s what I want to understand. It’s a fear that if I can’t do it for myself how can i meet the needs of others...
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Stand in your truth.
Thankx for sharing 😍
I love that shawl! Where did you get it? Sorry #randomofftopicquestion
How would you recommend becoming a counselor myself? It's early yet, but I know I am meant to help others. Where do I start. Thank you Candace for aligning your self and helping others to aswell.
I like your energy ❤️🇨🇦
I am always alone?
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➿good informative video.
I never knew excetted was another way to say it
❤ shared
THE TRUTH ROOM TRIBE does let me connect with you directly ? i need help ..seriously
When are you taking new clients
i love you
This sounds reasonable to me, but it's another way of saying "we need to change our bad habits"
Holy shit this is me.. Love avoidant at the. Moment because i know i abandon myself in relationships
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*You can't believe how many comic book artists draw you right now ^^*
Whoa deeiep
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You are in the collective. Wouldn't that mean we are all growing together in almost a pattern?
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You're goddess
reality check?
O yes,
how about I give you permission to buy me coffee?
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Lol yaaae
There goes them eyebrows and them long fingers haha