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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here and in this video, we're going to be talking about petty divorces. Divorce is never easy, but sometimes people take it to a whole new level of petty. From fighting over who gets the family pet to dividing up the DVD collection, we've all heard some pretty ridiculous divorce stories.
In this video, we'll be exploring some of the most outrageous examples of petty divorces out there. We'll be diving into the legal battles, the emotional turmoil, and the downright silly disputes that can arise when two people decide to go their separate ways.
We'll also be discussing the impact that petty divorces can have on children, friends, and family members. Divorce can be a difficult time for everyone involved, but when the focus turns to petty arguments, it can make an already tough situation even harder.
So get ready to join me on a journey through the world of petty divorces. We'll be sharing some outrageous stories, providing some insights into human behavior, and maybe even having a laugh or two along the way. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of our channel. Let's get started!
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My divorce wasnt petty, but his mother ADORED me and wanted us ro get married since we were in highschool. So when she found out he cheated, she immediately sided with me and said she would still be my mother, no matter what. She called me once at Thanksgiving and kicked my ex out of the room because, "I'm talking to my daughter right now." She also calls my boyfriend her son in law. Given how much my ex adores his mother, knowing that she loves me so much and theres nothing he can do about it DOES fill me with a bit of petty pride.
At that point she should just drop him and let him suffer. Disown him. Like “How’s your son?”
“What son?”
You must be a really nice person ❤
That's just horrible 😢
Winner energy 🙌🏼
Go Mom!! 😆 🎉🎉
My husband didn’t find out that his ex didn’t sign the divorce papers until about two weeks before our wedding. He got a lawyer, she did not contest and it worked out. (Still married after 16 years and three children.) But on paper he was divorced on a Tuesday and remarried the following Saturday.
Same happened to us. We didn’t find out his ex hadn’t signed the divorce decree, until we went to the courthouse to get a marriage license.😳 It took him another six months to get it finalized, needless to say, our youngest son is illegitimate.🥴🤣 We have been happily married for 32 years now, and actually pretty good friends with his ex. We’ve been on vacations, celebrate holidays, planned weddings, with her and her husband and of course all the kids. Neither of them did anything to cause the divorce, other than, they simply weren’t suited for each other. ✌🏼🥰
How do you not know that they didn’t sign the divorce papers? Lol. Like did he never make sure that his divorce was finalized when he didn’t receive the letter, I’ve had to provide my decree for several things 🤣 That’s crazy though
My husband didn’t even bother to tell me he was married but separated. We had been together for 5 years and had a child. When we went to get our marriage license, he pulled out his divorce papers showing he had gotten divorced a month prior. Yeah, I was pissed, but didn’t say anything.
If it wasn't for the "still married after 16 years" part, I'd think you were talking about my former step grandma. Grandpa changed legal marriages like business suits, quite often.
@@GenaGilderoh! 🌝
The still legally married thing happened to my grandma.
Her first husband vanished without a trace leaving her with my oldest aunt. She later met my grandpa and they had three kids together (my mom being the oldest) all while unmarried.
When computers became a thing, she went to the police station to find her first husband to send him divorce papers.
Turns out, he was in jail for fraud, and would be staying longer cause he got REMARRIED whilst still married to my gran.
At the time, I think the law stated there was a period of time, like 6 months, in which you cannot get remarried after a divorce. The judge said forget that cause my grandparents had been together for so long, whats the point of waiting😂
I am watching this on my 30th anniversary while my husband is making us lunch and getting dinner prepared. We ended not doing anything special but just spending the day together. I got a card, pearls, and a lucky bamboo plant also from him. It has been a very nice day and after hearing those sad stories feeling very happy.
Congratulations!
Congratulations Linda and Mr Linda 🥰
Congratulations! We are fixing to turn 29 years. Pearls are so thoughtful! I'm going to have to put a bug in my husband's ear. What did you get him?
Just celebrated our 24th anniversary on the16th, raised a lot of kids, still have 3 grandkids in our home that we raised since birth. The grandkids are absolutely fantastic people, the oldest is 23 and received a full scholarship to a private university in Nebraska, the middle is in his second year at EMU full ride scholarship and the youngest is Drum Major in her senior year of high school. I’m having some serious physical issues right now, but I thank God that I love my husband and my life is exactly what it should be, peaceful.
Congratulations! That's amazing! Care to share your secret?
Former family law clerk here. You’d be surprised how many people fail to finalize their divorces. One time a dressed up bride and groom showed up at my counter to get copies of their final divorce judgment that didn’t exist. Whoops. They were there (with guests) to be married by one of the judges who directed them to see me for copies before he could conduct their ceremony. Fun time for me bc I had to tell them that…, yeah, you’re not getting married today bc you’re not single yet. 😬awkward. Cue the screams and tears. It was so awful for everyone involved- including me 🙃
Both of the people were not legally divorced or only one?
I’m currently “half divorced” in that I have a decree nisi but not the decree absolute. My ex is dragging his feet over a financial settlement but since I have all the money from when we sold the marital home, that is his loss not mine. I have no intention of remarrying so although it is awkward I’m ok with it
Some people are gonna die early for those grudges they keep.
@@eugeniaskelley5194 both of them had undone divorces ! So sad
That's what I was going to say: how can people get married again if they aren't divorced yet? As you've said, the judge couldn't marry them, so how did the guy from the video get married to his new wife?..
My aunt's husband cheated on her, and she won their apple stock (that they bought when apple was just starting) in the divorce. So she gets to live comfortably and enjoy life with her amazing doggos, travel the world, and spend as much time with her kids and family as possible, and he will never be able to retire while being basically kicked out of the family. We stan a Queen.
That is literally the best outcome I can think of. Your aunt is awesome
If I were him I’d just unalive myself. There’d certainly be no point in living. Your aunt is my favorite person
I looooove that for her ❤
Now that’s some gracious poetic justice 😊
@@kayleighandhercat1351erm, I get the support for the Aunt but that's a bit extreme.
I dated a girl who was a "truth stretcher" and into astrology. One day I told her "It's ok, Leos are prone to confabulation." She didn't seem to like having the astrology used against her. Also, she had to ask what that meant. Hilarity insued. 😂
Not me googling confabulation 😄
As a caprisun I just don't get it.
@@Astara_star Word of the day! I had to Google it too...
Confabulation is a neuropsychiatric disorder wherein a patient generates a false memory without the intention of deceit.
So, prone to confabulation AND uneducated! INDEED, HILARIOUS!
Confabulation is a neuropsychiatric disorder wherein a patient generates a false memory without the intention of deceit.
You’re Welcome
My divorce was due to my then husband cheating with a teenager with whom he'd been having an affair for over a year. He claimed to be on a "guys trip" for a long weekend but was actually with her. I had suspected it all along but got proof while he was away on this trip. I called him and told him he'd been found out and when he got home he could pack up his things and leave. Here's where my petty revenge came in. I took his entire drawer full of underwear and rubbed poison ivy leaves all over the inside of them (I was wearing rubber gloves), folded them up nicely and put them back in the drawer. About two weeks later, I spoke with the mother of the girl he cheated with (we knew each other) and she informed me that the girl and my ex had a "very bad rash" they couldn't get rid of and both had to go to a doctor. I was so happy knowing how uncomfortable they must have been! I mean poison ivy on your arms or legs is bad enough but having it down there!! This was over twenty years ago and I still never confessed to it.
Ayo, was the teen UNDERage?! Please tell me you reported him if she was cuz that's fluffin disgusting
@@thatonewitch By the time I found out about it she was about to turn 18.
Lmao, that's a new one! 👏
@christycreates1731 that's still reportable and more than deserving to be imprisoned over.
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What have I learned, you ask? I’ve learned to stay blissfully single and drama free!
@@rayagray6321single does not equal lonely. Judgmental much? Or lonely maybe???
@@jennifermcgoldrick6323 thank you- I was too lazy to write exactly what you said 😁
@@jennifermcgoldrick6323 The loneliest time of my life was the 15 years I was married to my ex. It was more like a hostage situation, with a big side helping of gaslighting and emotional cruelty.
@@rayagray6321 Well aren't you a judgemental piece of work.
@@rayagray6321 You had the same option of preference and still decided wrong. It smells like desperation to me with a tinge of pick me with subtones of projection.
I love how charlotte just has so much energy and can speak confidently to a camera u have a real talent girl
Aw wow thank you my dear!
@@CharlotteDobre your welcome
She’s a natural for sure! I’m soooo bad at speaking to people or to a camera, and I am the opposite of funny lol
@@alexisrose4221 me to lol
I agree 💯 ❤
Charlotte, your hair looks AMAZING!
I’ve been through a messy divorce from a narcissist after 20 years. Life hasn’t been better ✌️ Blessings yall!
Was about to comment the same about the hair.
And great for you! Smooth sailing from now on for you!
Yes!!! My current fiancé was married to one for 20 years, and I was married to one for 6
So happy for you!! 🎉🎉
Congratulations! Every ending is also a beginning. Now that you are free from that situation, I hope you begin a fulfilling adventure that brings you everything you hope for & makes all your dreams come true. The beauty of life is that every day is a brand new opportunity to begin again a little wiser & start anew.
Good for you ❤!
Charlotte's gorgeous hair and beautiful hairstyle today deserves an award.
Things I learned today: lotion definitely has even more extra uses hahaha, having former friends of your ex and a cop present to make the ex uncomfortable, make sure you sign the papers, and red sharpies are excellent in revenge plots against adulterers.
So great 😂
Just a tip for anyone who's planning to try that "balloon" with lotion prank, the absolutely most convincing lotion to use is Corn Huskers Lotion. That stuff looks and feels exactly like jizz!
When I worked in printing, all 4 of us employees used Corn Huskers because handling paper and using solvents causes fingertips to crack from extreme dryness.
I pointed out one day that I noticed none of us would squirt that lotion into our hands in front of another person, we'd wait until we were alone or we'd leave the room to apply it. Even the sound it made coming out of the bottle was embarrassing! Maybe "coming" isn't the best word I could have used. "Splurt" kind of describes the sound and appearance of this imitation spunk but I don't think it's a real word.
It's funny how we were embarrassed to be seen using an innocent common product. Kind of like being embarrassed to say "penal code" or avoiding using the word "sects" because it just sounds dirty!😏🙊
@@LazyIRanchLotion with dead sea salt also looks and feels a bit questionable 😂.
Perfect summary 😂
I was engaged to man for a few years. When his supposed "ex wife" found out, she sent me a message that they had been married for almost 20 years even though they tried to divorce a few years after their marriage. He signed the papers but she filled out most of the paperwork. They hadn't been married long enough for her to know his birthday. The divorce was thrown out until he could correct it, but he went off the grid and she couldn't find him until we got engaged and I posted it on FB. He also owned her 15+ years of child support. He's now in prison. I had no idea he was that kind of person
Damn, lucky escape!!!!
She didn't know his bday?😅
@@_Julie_Bee yeah. Apparently they weren't together for very long. Being young and dumb, they only got married because she got pregnant, then split up before the baby even turned one
You dodged a bullet there! Glad she was able to reach you before you got married and became jointly liable for his debts... Also, it was decent of her to give you a heads-up so that you weren't dragged into their mess more than necessary 👍
@@chypearce8457that’s crazy, I would think his bday would’ve been on the kids birth certificate or their marriage cert. Or at least come up in conversation before making a person together lol
Years ago, when I worked in a life insurance office, there were so many cases where the husband never changed the beneficiary to his new wife. So the old wife got all the insurance money.
😢
The projecting when you're the one cheating is so unbelievable. I've experienced it, but my first ever memory of someone like this was a family member, asking a child at the time (6-7) if they thought their partner was cheating on them at work, little did I know. My little self spoke up "actually I had a nightmare last night that YOU were the one cheating on my family member." Guess who got caught with multiple women later. Doesn't matter anyways, some women just choose to stay and I don't understand. I would never and still never have
Sunk cost fallacy and it’s hard to turn off feelings even after tragedy such as infidelity, also codependent people don’t cope well alone and usually choose toxic relationships over healthy singlehood
Aleja, it surprises me that the adult didn't ask you to go get Las Chanclas to whip your ass " ha ha ha ha
I heard the "is it worth it to throw away good memories, just because he made a mistake" spiel. I wouldn't defend any cheater. And the longer I live I have the feeling it's never "just a mistake". They do this on purpose and then they lie.
And the choice of staying or not is not even about whether or not I still love my partner, it's more about whether I could trust him again.
So no, I would never stay.
Those dreams are real!!!
3:55 What she did though, I respect her for it lol. She didn’t cheat back or stoop to his level but she got back at him mentally pretending to do it. Respect for her man, she’s a genius lol
For the "forgot to sign divorce" story, here in America you can collect ssi benefits from your ex spouse if their amount is higher than yours, even if either one of you remarried and even if the ex is deceased. Stay petty and get that bag!!!
My grandma received her husband’s benefits and they hadn’t been together for over 30 years when he passed. He had a whole other family as well.
That's true to an extent. You have to have been married for at least 10 years, and it's ok if the ex is remarried, but if you remarry you forfeit the ex's social security.
@@suzanne8284They never got divorced, I wasn’t aware until he passed that they had children and relationships with other people. I don’t know what happened. My mother had his last name, but he wasn’t biologically my grandfather. I didn’t meet my real grandfather’s family until I was 16.
😂😂😂😂😂😂My mom is a "Truth stretcher" lol I always called her a pathological exaggerator.
yeah I think I would rather have that than the unabbashed narcissism and BPD and just the whole like "I'll destroy everything that you are and then I'll turn around and I'll fake cry and everyone will feel sorry for me!" the best was when I had a new person over and she would start it. I'd lean in and whisper the next line that was coming out of her mouth. THAT was always funny but the pinnacle is when the wad of tissue comes out to wipe the tears that aren't there that made anyone laugh really hard because how could you not? We got cussed out. Which made it even better! Shit man, you gotta laugh to keep from fake crying with gross tissue.
😂😅❤ you all!
@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast IKR it would explain the 5 divorces too😅😅
My mom actually forgot to mail in the paperwork for her divorce from her first husband. She needed her divorce papers for something not too long ago & when I read the date I asked her about it. When she told me I laughed my ass off. Her divorce was finalized in September of 1989... she married my dad that next month.
NOTE: If you get divorced, remember to change the name on your life insurance. The company is legally obliged to give the money to whoever's name is on the document , even if you have remarried. They have no choice, and (in Ontario) all the case law and precedents side with the insurance company giving the money to the NAMED beneficiary.
What would have been a real topper to the guy that didn't sign the divorce papers would be if he was paying alimony the entire time. He can't sue her to get it back, because he would be admitting, in court, that he was a bigamist, and therefore likely to face jail time and/or hefty fines. This is the definition of "stupid tax".
My friend got divorced. Remarried 2 years later. She found out the elderly judge who granted their divorce had dementia and had not signed or even filed a bunch of divorces, so her current marriage was annulled. After the divorce was finalized she decided to not re-marry #2 and has remained blissfully single.
My ex embezzled an enormous amount of money left by my MIL for the kids. I was cut out of the will, so nobody "had" to read it to me and I simply never knew the money existed. My ex died of emphysema. That's the closest to revenge any of us will ever get.
Wow! That is awful that the kids were cheated of their inheritance
I never wish a bad divorce on anyone, but damn it’s interesting to hear how bad things can get!
It’s like a car accident you’re horrified but can’t look away lol.
I normally feel that that these stories are just showing how long the ex remains in the persons head rent free especially the ones that go on for years but the one that arranged the party to try to make her walk through them all to get her stuff was inspired :)
I'm a women's soccer fan and and currently there is some divorce drama. Two of the players got married 4 years ago. One was a goal keeper and the other defense player. The defense player is retiring this year and two days before what could have been her last game, news broke out of the divorce. Interviews where she was set to talk about her career were canceled. It was the worst timing to announce the divorce
Megan Rapinoe? who got her fame and wants to ruin the chances of future female athletes by letting subpar male athletes cross dress and play in the women's league.
Ugh that’s awful. Now it’s just going to be centered around the drama instead of celebrating her accomplishments.
@@addiemejia8276 it comes off as very spiteful. The couple played together for many years. I kind if want to see Ali win the championship to show her ex that she could get the win without her there. They are Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger if you get curious and want to look into it.
Love you, Charlotte! Thanks for the reminder to not react and to instead move in the SHADOWS. I am personally working on not reacting so much when I get upset.
Concerning the story of not actually being divorced drama, was I the only one thinking Mom was gonna clean up with past child support payments ? Or am I a worse person than I think ? I was never petty until I started following Charlotte's vids , I swear !!
Child support OR a prenup with a clause about being together for a set amount of time = wayyy more money.
I thought she was going to report him for bigamy as he didn't sign the papers so technically his fault and he got married again so there's legal ramifications
But child support isn’t dependent on marital status or am I missing something
@@ida6950 it kinda is... child support court settlements are not established until separation or divorce is reported to the court (depending on the state/country)... unless they had a verbal agreement submitted to the court, then it's handled separately and independently of marital status.
@@Y3w3lz I get that in the case of separation, said couple has also been separated. So divorce can apparently take years to be completed and you can be stuck with a child and no child support? Damn, another reason never to get married and have kids I guess.
Charlotte low-key is how I keep my cool when I’m pissed off ngl.
It’s the “we move in the shadows” thing that keeps me from just going ballistic in the heat of the moment 😂😂❤
Chef's kiss on the first 3 stories...especially the mom still being married and unloading the news after 2 years. My Lord, those were truly amazing! 😂😘
The bed story reminded me of my husband’s best friend Tara and her divorce about 15 years ago.
When Tara was a little girl her dad who was a woodworker made her this beautiful queen size bed for her 10th birthday since she was a “big girl” now and big girls need a big girl bed. He put so many loving details into the bed and told her it would last her the rest of her life.
Sadly less than a year later her dad died in a tractor accident.
Tara obviously cherished her last gift from him as any daddy’s girl would.
Well fast forward to her being married for 10 years and heavily pregnant with their 3rd son. She was supposed to be spending the weekend with her mom, but instead she was going to surprise Nick, her husband, with a romantic kid free weekend before the new baby came.
Well, in reality Nick surprised her because when she came home she walked in on him having sex in her bed…the bed her dead dad made her.
That bastard starting cheating on her when she was 3 months pregnant with a baby they very much tried for and suffered a miscarriage to convince. He told the girl who was also married they would both leave their spouses once the baby was born since her pregnancy was high risk he didn’t want her to lose the baby, what a saint I know.
To make it even ickier, hard to believe but yes it gets worse, the affair started when the other woman was 7 months pregnant herself! So he was sleeping with a married woman that had another man’s baby inside her all while his own wife was also pregnant!!!!
The mistress was not only pregnant but just married her husband that same year when they found out she was pregnant. That was her 2nd marriage and she also had 3 kids, just all by different men.
We all really rallied around Tara, everyone in the friend group took her side and cut him off. My husband had been friends with them both for about a decade so it felt like Nick died to us. He kind of did bc that was not the Nick we all thought we knew.
Sadly she just couldn’t get over what he did in her bed. Luckily her oldest son wanted it after he moved out as an adult so it wasn’t a complete loss.
She couldn’t bare to toss it so she kept it in storage for years.
She’s now remarried to a great guy who also came into the marriage with three kids, modern day Brady Bunch!
She’s an amazing person and handled things so much better than I ever could, the fact she’s not in prison shoes that 😂
This post is already too long, but there are more gross details, this was the short version! Sorry it was so long!
She lost her husband, her life AND a cherished gift that her father lovingly made for her with his hands. Poor lady. So happy to hear that she's doing better and the bed wasn't a total loss.
Don’t be sorry, that’s wild thanks for sharing
Hey, not long enough, get us the details! I'm so glad she found the one!
Cheating on her was bad enough, but to do it on a bed that he knew was so important to her was sheer, abject cruelty. He sounds like an utter b-stard - glad he's out of all of your lives now 👍
That's super awful thing to do on her ex. I'm glad that she divorced him.
Charlotte: "Who forgets to sign divorce papers???"
Me: Helen Hunt's character in "Twister," Jo. 😂 Great movie. Still one of my favorites! ❤
I love the way that the entire comments are divorce story’s. It’s like “oh yay there’s more”
How can someone forget to sign divorce papers?! I couldn't wait to confirm that I was free of that manipulative 💩!
When people talk trash about what someone else has done they are often doing through the lens of what they would do in the same circumstances, hence their suspicions. If you get a partner who is always accusing you of cheating, they probably are!
My ex husband would come home early and not tell me he was coming home to “surprise me” them proceeded to go through our house looking through rooms and closets and I could tell what he was doing and I’d go “ooops just missed him, he just ran out the door” 🙄 turns out he was the one cheating the entire time lol So yea I agree it’s usually the ones doing the cheating that are the one’s always accusing others of doing it.. 😂
Yep. My mom says "You wouldn't think to look behind the door unless you've hidden there yourself."
...sounds like my ex husband
Charlotte's diabolical laugh is like chef's kiss 🤌
Interesting how the Jealous ones are actually cheating? -- Naw, hunneh. In reality, a HUGE number of cheaters try to throw you off the scent by claiming you're cheating on THEM, first. Don't be misled. If they're accusing you and accusing you - check things out. They're probably hiding something.
That's what my father did to my mom
Anyone else experience a moment of silence at 8:18 while Char was talking?
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@@esmooth919 Yeah, I didn't now what it meant either.
am i super drunk at 3am? yes. am i super happy charlotte posted? yes. absolutely.
Its that she never found the violin for me. Charlotte just clean it up!😂😂😂
I found out I wasn’t divorced in my state 18 hours after I had a baby with my partner and he was not allowed to be put in the birth certificate. In my state you have to PROVE PATERNITY if you aren’t married, at a pretty hefty cost to you. My ex has been remedied twice. Has 7 other kids (8 with our son) and we have had zero contact in 18 ish years. I’ve tried to tell him, but he just blocks me…
10:33 I’m sorta doin’ the same, he’s ex military and I’ve never remarried
Move in the shadows!!! 🖤✨️
Edit to say the joy on Charlottes face with the "collect everything when he died" line was everything! I echo that girl!
Ah, yes. The best part of my day is seeing QUEEN Charlotte!! 👑
I've been out of the loop... Are there any updates on Charlotte's show she shot a pilot for?
I dont think so but I may have missed any updates
She hasn't posted anything about it in the past few months that I've seen. Hopefully we'll get news soon!! ❤
You have a really great “evil laugh”. I had to go back and watch it a second time. 10/10.
If she knew the names of the women who slept in her bed, she should have included their names on the mattress,too.
If someone is controlling and always accusing you of cheating, it’s more than likely projection.
Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ It's 9 am here.
My Petty notebook is ready to go!
@@RochaArchoit’s different time zones for everyone
Good MORNING ☀️
My Dad and mother separated back in 1970 or so, we headed to Alabama, and he went to Clarksville, Tennessee. Where his new wife was from, all the other in between stuff is not relevant. Fast-forward to 2010 or so, he tells me, "you know, you can be married to two women at the same time". I immediately knew who he was talking about. He had married his 4th wife while married to my mother, his 3rd wife. May God have mercy on his soul. He's been dead now for about 2 to 3 years, mom passed on about 8 years ago, she never knew. Back in the 70s you could get by with a lot because there were no computers.
Bahahahaha Charlotte your delivery is always gold 😂🤣 keep up the awesome work girls 🇦🇺💜🇮🇹
During a split (nearly a year), I was dating a woman for about 9 months who swore I was encouraging / flirting constantly with men and women. I'm from NC and even when we are just being courteous, some think we're flirting. So not true. It literally got to the point where one of my friends who asked me about clothes and such to spruce things up to impress his girlfriend was "apparently" trying to hook up with me. Associating with choreographers and dancers and artistic people, I am around and have a lot of gay male friends. She swore up and down I was sleeping around. I was not! I've never cheated in over 50 years, and I'm not about to start.
In a nutshell, she tried to destroy my reputation, made it feel weird around the dance community, claimed I was cheating, made the whole art of choreography feel grueling to the point that I didn't have any desire to work. My friends knew she was full of crap. Later, I found out that she was the narcissist cheating on me! She lost interest in me when I started standing up for myself against her accusations. One finger pointed at me falsely; FOUR fingers pointed back at herself accurately!
There's already a problem with the first story because if you're going through a divorce but you live in the same roof, you're still going through a divorce and you're not together so why couldn't that person bring somebody home?... Just still feels like a sense of control and that you're not over the situation. So much toxicity and complication with staying in the same place and saying they can't bring anyone over??? Maybe only because it would be super awkward to explain who the other person was But that's the only reason
Fishy to me too. They're divorcing anyway. The grudge she been holding to mess up his date ?!! Omg! Y? I don't understand how people move on so fast also.
Some people are wild, they'll do awful things to others but will play victim if you give it back to them. My ex lied, cheated, had smear campaings agaisnt me, and when I told him "You know, you told me all your exes are crazy, did you ever think that maybe you're the one making them that way?" He CRIED, and told me I went TOO FAR.
Wow...pettiness level is high here 😂😂
The couple who thought they were divorced but the husband hadn't signed the papers should have lived in Ontario Canada. My ex found out the hard way that waiting more than 30 days to sign or respond means the divorce proceeds as uncontested. He didn't sign the papers to screw me over and ended up actually helping me divorce him easier. Looks good on the pedophile sob.
Charlotte never disappoints 🙌
To the lady who cancelled her brother’s wedding… bravo. I would have done the same thing if I were in your shoes. That fiancé of his is the A-hole not you. 😁
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this might be long but I would love to express this.. First: I want to know how did the clerk n judge did not catch that he did not sign the divorce papers because you have to sign them in different areas and some divorce papers. You have to initial spots also! GREAT and sad STORY:
My divorce was so easy because we thought we were better off being friends, and we had no house (we were renting in Hollywood, CA) And we did the paperwork online printed it out signed it went downtown Los Angeles filed it and went out to lunch and we did live together for another three months and got along perfectly as friends! It happens, but it’s rare! Until he went to visit his mother in Indonesia, and he overdosed, and she did not like me very much and I was the FIFTH person to find out. 20 years and was n will always my best friend and I know I’ll see him again. Now evil:
Mom had him cremated there, and I never got to say goodbye..😢 been 2 years but like always (I’m of course crying now) this feels comforting to vent n if anyone sees this…hold on to your loved ones.. please 🙏 thank you for reading
Oh no! I'm so sorry that happened to you. Big healing Texas hugs to you! 🫂
Charlotte "I DONT APPROVE THIS!"
Also Charlotte **Approves with an evil laugh**
I got a call about 2 weeks after my divorce, from my ex. Seems the paperwork didn't reach the judge. He was in a panic because his wedding was set in a week. He wanted me to go walk it to the judge to get it signed. I said no. He was furious. I told him since he was the one who needed it done, he should go get it done. I wasn't planning a wedding after all. While he was there though, I told him to get 2 copies since he was already there. Which he didn't, and I still didn't care. His new marriage lasted about 6 months longer than ours, so about 18 months. She got pregnant. He had a severe allergy to pregnancy and kids. I guess at least he paid her child support, but also made her life pure hell. I lucked out, he said our son wasn't his (because his son had blue eyes and his were brown).
Is anyone else concerned that the world’s smallest violin is missing? How can potatoes be truly petty without our tiny violin? 🥔💜🎻
Hi Charlotte, there was a time you did humble brag videos, I would love for you to bring them back, I thought they were interesting! Other ideas: entitled rich kids, bad with money, funniest animals ever! Also, I love how you doll up, you always look pretty, your hair reminds me of Disney's "Brave"
I totally agree! Celebrities exposed 2 was a good one.
Loved that Disney Movie.... Floating wavy red hair ❤❤❤, just like our potato queen's mane
The videos where Charlotte reads the stories are my favourite ones ❤❤
I love this and yes, I am ready for this petty!😂
If I may, I would like to tell how my parents actually did their breakup the right way.
I'll do my best to be succinct..I'm the youngest of 6, and our family is a hers,mine and ours blend if that makes sense. (Will clarify if asked)
I was 3 years old when the separation happened and not one of us kids were privy to the details because it's between mom and daddy. BUT, it was made quite clear that this had NOTHING to do with we children.
Once daddy was settled and had a place big enough to accommodate my sister and I (the 2 youngest) daddy could have us every weekend, holidays and summer breaks from school.
We were sent home with envelopes of money for mom (child support?) and given any extra if mom needed more, no questions. They coparented beautifully and were really good friends, just couldn't live with one another.
There was never courts/custody or any law involved. The ONLY reason they actually got divorced was because mom wanted to marry my step dad (to be called dad from now on). Daddy and dad became friends so, no problem. The child support and shared custody never changed.
When mom died unexpectedly in '91 we found a keepsake box with every birthday, Mother's Day, notes and letters about us kids plus personal conversations between the two.
10 months later in '92 daddy died (also unexpectedly), and we found a similar box with the same things from mom to daddy.
THAT my friends, is how you do a separation/divorce RIGHT.
Sorry so long. I did my best to keep this short but also give important info.
Much Love to you all!😘💖🫂🫂🐾🐾
I just realized I don't watch any other content creator with this style of content. Literally the only one. And its not just because I live in the GTA, but I genuinely like you and your content
I am hooked. 🎣🎣🎣
I've been binging on this channel for the past week.
It's like Reddit & Audible in one for me, lol. 😂
Petty REVENGE is perfection😁😁
When I decided to leave my ex I waited until he had left for work (or so I thought) and called my sister in law to come bring boxes and to help. She and I boxed and bagged everything and then my Dad came with a trailer and we moved it all to a storage unit. When I packed I took everything except - his clothes and personal items, 1 pot, 1 bowl, 1 plate, 1 cup, 1 fork, 1 spoon, 1 knife, 1 bar of soap, 1 roll of TP, 1bottle of shampoo. I left all the can food but took off all the labels. I took everyrthing else because I had a 1 year old to now raise alone. He is now 25, so this was a bit ago. Now for the part where I thought he had gone to work. Turns out he had lost his job a week before and was just hanging out at his Dad's bar during the times he was supposed to be at work. So I guess he decided that day was the day he was going to tell me because my cousin who lived across the street called and told me this. He had come home probably about 2 hours after I had left, which would have been about 5 hours before the end of his shift. She said she watched all of the lights get turned on and then one by one they all got turned off except 1. I had left him a very long letter explaining why I left. I had people tell me that I was being petty for taking everything and leaving him nothing. I informed them that I had left him all his things, the food and 1 of everything else, I could have taken it all. And that as I was the one now raising a child alone that I needed those things to take car of him and make him a home. I never got 1 damn dollar of child support from him and could have been a bigger bi%$h but I didn't.
Nah, the fact that the first OP didn't actually have naughties makes it more beautiful. They had an agreement, and she honoured it. It's by the book. And that's lovely.
The guy that didn't sign teh papers could have been in a state where spousal support on fault is a thing. Maybe since he cheated, he'd have to pay her a % of his paycheck. Getting remarried was just digging a deeper ditch LOL
living in the same house after divorce: I know a couple from my home town that did this. The husband was not a nice person, and I think he verbally and emotionally berated/abused his wife. He died, and she pretty much came undone. I heard that she later suffered mental illness because of her husband. It's the saddest part because she was intelligent and knowledgeable: we were both in the same field. I hurts my heart so much.
I’m glad the first hubs is getting therapy, sounds like he needed it badly.
Why on earth did it take twelve years for a divorce to be finalized? Daddy just kept forgetting to sign the papers and lost them or something?
the one where to mother waited, chefs kiss
Before I can even watch this video, gotta say our Potato Queen's hairstyle today deserves an award! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Also can 💯confirm the controlling/jealous type is prolly the one doing the cheating, while projecting the guilt onto their partner. Burned _that_ tee shirt when I ditched the cheater.
Here are two great revenge stories. I read many years ago in a national newspaper, UK.
1. An air hostess on returning to her apartment, which she shared with her long-term pilot partner. found a note from him saying - I have gone on a long haul flight and will be back in one week. I have been having an affair with another air hostess and want you to be gone by the time I get back. When he arrived home a week later, he found the phone (old-fashioned landline) off the hook. He picked it up to the sound of the New York speaking clock. Which had been dialled over a week ago when his partner left the apartment. The phone bill ran into thousands of pounds.
2. Similar situation. Husband went away for a couple of days, leaving note that he wanted his wife gone. When he got back, she had obliged, but not before stuffing all the hollow curtain poles in the house with PRAWNS!!! and replacing the curtains. The unbelievable stench that followed remained and lingered for weeks, the husband, unable to find the source of the smell was forced to leave the house. Not sure of the long-term outcome as there was no follow-up to these stories, but I thought each one was ingenious 😃😂😂😂
Was waiting for 12 not like I don't look forward to 12 o'clock daily but I needed a good video today. Potato Queen Charlotte never disappoints. 🖤🖤🖤
Ha, during my divorce in 2019 I quickly moved out and didn't want to see him so I'd move stuff from the apartment we shared while he was at work. I lived with a friend and did start dating people once I gave him the papers. It was a small town, and maybe I was wrong for it, but it was my coping mechanism at the time. He found out I was with this one guy and threatened to sue me for adultery. Some states have that. Thankfully not in the one I was in. I was laughable because of other things that happened while we were together which involved another woman once or twice. So *eyeroll* men become so possessive yet allow themselves to have double standards.
How does one absolutely amazing and fantastic woman be so funny, you are quite literally my therapy loll. Love you
Love you!!!
4:10 "Those that are the most guilty are the loudest in protest" - Unknown
Girl I got quite the story myself but it was a year ago so I don't feel like talking about the details much, but let's just say I caught him cheating 4 times through text messages in his phone. He would always have the worst excuses and he would say the stereotypical most fuckboy boyfriend things and I never realized that until I left and was done with him. He was very petty, insensitive, and childish on how he handled things. When I finally left our place living, it was spontaneous. He didn't even know I was leaving nor did I until that day. I scrumbaged to pack up everything and left. Next day he texted me saying I took something that wasn't his even (the bed box) claiming it was and saying I owed him $200 for it (it was gifted to us and he never made it clear he ever wanted it). He also never paid me back for the $700 he had indebt to me so keep that in mind. Honestly he made me angry so I went back and trashed some stuff I left behind so he'd be forced to clean it, I destroyed a painting he made with my art supplies, then I also made a mess of his room (it was already messy not much more you could do) by spilling rice he had in it all over it (dry rice), opening all of his product bottles and leaving them tilted on the floor, and then misplacing a bunch of stuff he cared about that he probably has still yet to find since he's bad at searching for stuff. Afterwards I blocked every link of contact he had with me. Guess he got his revenge though too since he stole my $400 bike bc I didn't think to get a new bike lock forgetting he still had the key to it. I was gonna take him to court for it and have a warrant for his arrest but the court didn't send a form of communication the way I was told they would (by email or phone number) I don't know how they sent it.
I'm sorry he stole your bike, but at least he's gone! Good riddance to bad rubbish.
I love your word, "scrumbaged"! I vote that it be accepted in all dictionaries because it perfectly describes that situation of packing in a hurry under stress! I'm assuming that it's two words combined; "rummaged" and "scrambled".
There's even a name for combining two words into one; portmanteau I just now learned that from Google...
"The French word portmanteau describes a two-part suitcase. It combines the words porte, which means “to carry,” and manteau, meaning “cloak.” Like the suitcase, a portmanteau word holds or carries the meaning of two or more words."
Blocking him like you did is a wise move. I had to do that with my ex-husband who left me 8 years ago. I love never having to deal with him!
I just remembered a portmanteau that describes our cheating exes, CREEPAZOID!😤
i love when Charlotte posts, its always a pallete cleanser ❤
Charlotte i hope you keep making these great vídeos for us. I appreciate your hard work so much. You're so funny, thank you for bringing so much joy everyday to our lives. I wish you the best. 🤗
My bf who was living with me got back with his ex wife, while all his stuff was in my house. I packed it all up nicely and in one of the clear tubs of his things, I arranged HIS toys, right up against the outside of the box, so the world can see. Then dropped it all off at his moms house 😌
🩷Good morning, Miss Charlotte! it's always a good morning when I get my alert for your reactions! My messy divorce was so bad, there's no way I'd live with him during that 💩!! Love ya girl!!💗
Mary, you turned off the hoover when you heard the notification. dropped everything and ran to the computor.
Finding the little violin 🎻 got me 😅😂😂😂 and proceeded on finding stuff under her desk 😅😂
Charlotte I love your content ❤
I can confirm that yes, sharpie does come off of mattresses, especially when there's no sheets on said mattress on a hot sweaty night. My older brother, who got the mattress after I colored on it (I was tired of seeing it be white and I thought the embroidered flowers were pretty), can attest to that. It can also stain you're skin if you forget sheets during those summer nights. He did not enjoy waking up blue, green, and red.
Marrying your side piece is wild and delulu. They WILL do it again!!!!
😂😂😂😂 I was like, Charlotte!😮 you do have a tiny violin😂😂😂 and then you said you have one and proceeded to search for it. I am here talking to you like you could hear meee😂
Hey Charlotte👋 Thank you for todays video. 😊 I love your content. Have a great dag❤
I looked it up...'The typical punishment for a bigamy conviction involves a prison sentence of up to 10 years and a fine.'
Okay but what did you say at 8:17??? I can't lipread! Lmaooo
Right?
The 2nd one was priceless
I’ve been a divorce paralegal for 25+ years and I have heard every crazy story in the book. Sorry to ruin the petty revenge for the woman who waited two years to tell her ex they were still married, but divorce judgments can be back dated, at least they can in California.
I LOVE the idea of waiting until he died to collect everything🤣😂But then again they probably would’ve found out on their own eventually lmao
Hey Petty People 😄 have and good day ❤️😄
Charlotte has to be one of my favorite people on TH-cam😊 her commentary along with her amazing evil laugh is awesome ❤ also is it me or does Charlotte's hair style in this video remind y'all of a lioness with a powerful presences 🥰
That evil laugh was Queen tier!
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