I relate so much to this. I got married last year, at 24 and my husband 30. If tell you this man will advise me on everything and I’ll take it in. And it has really helped me to grow and change, I believe because vision is clearer.
@@AmberDennis001 Everything you must do to fall in Love with yourself, do it, then another person can fall in Love with you. Focus on building yourself and personality to a lovable one and you will attract same kind of person.
I love this video Lisa. I'm 21 and getting set for my wedding. But my mom and most family members feel I'm making a mistake. The criticisms are just so hard to deal with🥺
As long as u are sure of your spouse the rest is background noise just turn a blind eye on them and focus on your happiness....I was married at 22yrs will be 24yrs this Yr a young mom of a 3 month old and happy marriage
I subscribed immediately after watching the video.Been contemplating getting married for some months now, I guess I listened to people's opinions too much and guess what Im done.........Im going for it.Thanks Lissa!
Getting married in my 20s was one of the best decisions I ever made! My plan was to get married in my 30s but God had other plans and as they say God's timing is the best.
You are very lucky to get married young. I am 46 single and childless. I have been taking care of my sick mother for many years now, Reason being nobody asked. When I was 23, I had to raise my two brothers and make sacrifices for my family. I think this was God's plan, But I still resent the plan. Getting married young is the best. Those who don't get married really suffer from social pressure and disappointment.
Ooh sorry dear...we kinda the same just bcz me am 28 now and HV been doing sacrifices for my family even right now I left the country.. to a tyme I was to settle with my boyfriend it's soo hurting babe but God is good
Got married at 24 and my career was never on hold, I would never trade my career for anything. Not every one who gets married early put their career on hold. You can do both tho its crazy.
You are killing it sis keep doing great I loved the video plus you are glowing.. I like the fact that you took a stand and you did what your heart desires regardless
Living life on your own terms is the best decision ever. People can be having different opinions according to what they've been through. I believe marriage works.
Wow…I’m not yet married but I’ve always wanted to get married young🤗thanks for this deep insight Lisa I’m really grateful and I’m now bold in my decision to get married young👌🏽
Ohh my God your story is so familiar marring young relocating to another country loosing friends, kinda slowing but i dont regret anything 😍😍 atleast i have grown and improved alot of my life Alhamudullilah
Got married at 24, i totally relate to what you are saying. Thanks for sharing. Marriage is beautiful with the right person, it's not about age (being young)
You are full of wisdom. I too believe in marrying young, I was 25 years old but I say I have so far lived my best life. Yes I agree to spicing up things, living in the moment and not being too serious! Thank you Lisa for letting us in
Seeing all these makes me feel like there should be a support group for ladies marrying young 😂. Coz the criticism can get very nasty very fast… but thank you all for sharing. God bless ✌🏾
I got married (cohabitation) at 22 too,to my high school sweetheart,got our boy at 23,I wasn't sure of marriage but I decided to choose it because I had belief that he is the one,we are still together but the only thing I regret is that I missed youthfulness silliness,I never dated anyone since highschool it was only him I knew, I also pray that fixation doesn't catch up with me and that we get richer and spice up our marriage coz poverty and marriage don't tally.
Wow.. all your words carry wisdom, you remind me of the virtuous woman in the book of proverbs, blessed is your husband and children.. Thank you for sharing
I relate to you on every point. I too got married young. I was 23 yo. I thank God for the blessing and that it came at the time that it did. Thank you for the great content, Lisa. D.
My wife & I have been Married 22 years I was 30 my wife was 24 I love my wife she is my world. Marriage is a work in progress Lot of sacrifices. I’m 53 now we have 4 kids 2 dogs 1 cat a house Stay committed put your spouse first
I got married at 26,that was last year. Marriage is beautiful. God blessed me with twins. And yeah .by 30 amma get done with giving birth and age like fine wine with my babies.
I always thought I would be married and had kids before 25 ,here I am 29 no man, no kids and no husband but God is a good God and he knows what's is best and when it should happen, . Blessed Marriage dewr
i wish i had got married young because i went through a lot of bad relationships, fornication drinking, clubbing mental breakdowns but i think if i had married then i would be divorced because i was mentally unfit i got married at 28 after God had done some work on me im 33 wih 3 kids and im happy
I got married at 20 after my f.6 and everyone was worried that I am still young. Someone Said that they are marrying her off because she is pregnant 😂😂. But atleast I got support from my aunt (my uncle's wife). Girl what you went through is what I am going through up to now. But # I am glad I am married, I love my hubby and I love us building each other
This is my first video of yours that im seeing, i really love your videos. You're so vibrant . videos have great quality, you look beautiful . Well done . Love iy
Today I took a day off, been feeling depressed from a relationship I thought would settle with, but been cheated on my entire relationship of 5 months now only to realise the gal is 23 years n he was been with her for 3 years , it hurt me soo much , but been praying for grace n am not angry at him but I find my self sick, my pressure low, stressed ,crying n wondering many things but waiting on God's timing but nothing hurts like being cheated on n walking on the person 3 times
Am so sorry about this. It’s gut wrenching. From every bad situation, I always try to see the light. You have been saved from settling with someone like this. It’s his loss. Remember he who finds a wife finds favor from God! You are the one that Carries favor🥳. It’s a hard situation so take time to heal, draw closer to God, find yourself, your worth and things will get better ❤️🩹
Its really hard, thank you my dear, I pray God heals my heart n prepares me for the next journey, I want to start a family of my own and be ablessing ,
If you have found someone you want to spend your life with and grow with, why shouldn’t you get married young? It’s great that this perspective is getting room.
Its the lost friendship for me..When I conceived,I got real insults from people I considered to be my close friends..I was so broken down that letting go of the pain upto now is hard but I found all I wanted in a friend in my husband even if its gossip😂😂😂😂.. Getting married is awesome😍..thank u Lisa😘
@@LisaKusiima but everything went well eventually because my husband has been so matured, he stands for what he believes in. Thank you, Lissa, you are changing lives.
Was looking for this comment, I married a guy much older than me, but he ticked all the boxes and trust me it’s amazing, he also doesn’t expect me to be a pro. But ppl were all asking why i didn’t marry a younger one 😂😂
1. Friendships - am really trying to make new friends or rekindle those that are now in tjr same space. 2. Career - I took a step back and put huge career advancement on hold 3. Criticism - I got the advice i could and also relied on God to take me through💜
On 19th march this month I will be making 36 years, but no wife and kid yet cause at first I want to do so, I got disappointments along the way, but pressure too much from my parents including the grandies!
I think if I would do things differently I would travel first and enjoy being bf/gf before marriage. It's beautiful dating. After marriage things change wowe😂
Faced the same abit..my big sister who had put on my parents shoes after they passed had a hard time accepting that am leaving to get married..she thought I was too young ..most people did but anyways I always say marriage has no formula u get in and just purpose to make it work
If you are marrying a good man (30+, Virgin, With a degree+, works, devout Christian) the advantages out Ways the disadvantages. Though I prefer marrying a lady between 23-27. The mental immaturity of pre25s is sickening. The best ages for getting married are 25-27 for ladies.
Ati trap ! 😁😁😁😁😁 Ati you are a baby! (From my family). Meanwhile, I was making 26 the month I got wed.🤭 Our culture is starting to live in denial when it comes to age. Someone in their 20s is not young at all!
I got married at 26,that was last year. Marriage is beautiful. God blessed me with twins. And yeah .by 30 amma get done with giving birth and age like fine wine with my babies.
1. You say you were 22. How about your husband? 2. Can you have a guest over to also talk about marrying when "older". So that we get views from both sides. Otherwise, I love that you took the leap and you're happily enjoying your marriage. Most people ain't that lucky.
I relate so much to this. I got married last year, at 24 and my husband 30. If tell you this man will advise me on everything and I’ll take it in. And it has really helped me to grow and change, I believe because vision is clearer.
Also got married young at 23 years old and I don't regret it even for a second. The Lord gave me a gift in my husband.
This is beautiful❤️
Great testimony 🙏❤️
Tell me everything I need to get a man to fall in love with me.
@@AmberDennis001 Everything you must do to fall in Love with yourself, do it, then another person can fall in Love with you. Focus on building yourself and personality to a lovable one and you will attract same kind of person.
great video. loved hearing the experience. i got married at 24 and we celebrate 6yrs this year.
That is awesome!
I love this video Lisa. I'm 21 and getting set for my wedding. But my mom and most family members feel I'm making a mistake. The criticisms are just so hard to deal with🥺
I would really appreciate your advice on how to deal with all of it
As long as u are sure of your spouse the rest is background noise just turn a blind eye on them and focus on your happiness....I was married at 22yrs will be 24yrs this Yr a young mom of a 3 month old and happy marriage
Got married at 20
Trust me the criticism gets old with time
@@herself7545 I really appreciate this 🥺❤️❤️
@@sherifahnambozo2595 Thanks a lot. I appreciate this 🥰
Wow 🥰 I'm now 22 years and I got married I'm sure this is what I want and people still talk .. Thanks for this video ❤️😍
What a coincidence!! Looks like we all married after dating for just a year 😄
To me, it's the best decision I've ever made!! ❤
Right..😍😍
I subscribed immediately after watching the video.Been contemplating getting married for some months now, I guess I listened to people's opinions too much and guess what Im done.........Im going for it.Thanks Lissa!
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Love this! Everyone is so different. You need to do what works best for you. Thank you for sharing
Truth😭😍
Getting married in my 20s was one of the best decisions I ever made! My plan was to get married in my 30s but God had other plans and as they say God's timing is the best.
Surely Gods timing is it❤️
@@LisaKusiima I hope with God's timing my wedding night will be here in the next 5 years. I am still a virgin at 27.
You are very lucky to get married young. I am 46 single and childless. I have been taking care of my sick mother for many years now, Reason being nobody asked. When I was 23, I had to raise my two brothers and make sacrifices for my family. I think this was God's plan, But I still resent the plan. Getting married young is the best. Those who don't get married really suffer from social pressure and disappointment.
Ooh sorry dear...we kinda the same just bcz me am 28 now and HV been doing sacrifices for my family even right now I left the country.. to a tyme I was to settle with my boyfriend it's soo hurting babe but God is good
May you experience the Lord's presence more than ever before
It's called hitting the wall
❤❤❤ hugs and lots of love, you're selfless and that's big darlings ❤️💕
Got married at 24 and my career was never on hold, I would never trade my career for anything. Not every one who gets married early put their career on hold. You can do both tho its crazy.
Yes it can be crazy.. well done to you👏🏾👏🏾😍
Thank you dear I got married at 23 now two years in marriages but yes what yo saying is literally true
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You are killing it sis keep doing great I loved the video plus you are glowing.. I like the fact that you took a stand and you did what your heart desires regardless
Thanks girl❤️❤️ taking a stand with wisdom indeed
Thanks girl❤️❤️ taking a stand with wisdom indeed
Living life on your own terms is the best decision ever. People can be having different opinions according to what they've been through. I believe marriage works.
Marriage works❣️❣️
I will definitely get married at the same age love u Lisa❤
Hahha get married when you find the one
Wow
Lisa am 23yrs and getting married soon just waiting for my graduation.
But you inspire me alot dearest
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Thanks for the video 💗I’m getting married at 18!
Wow…I’m not yet married but I’ve always wanted to get married young🤗thanks for this deep insight Lisa I’m really grateful and I’m now bold in my decision to get married young👌🏽
Ohh my God your story is so familiar marring young relocating to another country loosing friends, kinda slowing but i dont regret anything 😍😍 atleast i have grown and improved alot of my life Alhamudullilah
Marriage brings so much growth 🎉
Got married at 24, i totally relate to what you are saying.
Thanks for sharing.
Marriage is beautiful with the right person, it's not about age (being young)
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 exactly ❤️
You are full of wisdom. I too believe in marrying young, I was 25 years old but I say I have so far lived my best life. Yes I agree to spicing up things, living in the moment and not being too serious! Thank you Lisa for letting us in
Thank you for sharing😍😍. Cheers to living our best lives🥂
We thank God that it's all working out for you. Many plan but it's God who implements. Wishing you the very best in your marriage dear.
Yes! Thank you!
You can even rap! Great insights shared. Thanks Lisa.
Too bad😂😂
Seeing all these makes me feel like there should be a support group for ladies marrying young 😂. Coz the criticism can get very nasty very fast… but thank you all for sharing. God bless ✌🏾
We definitely need a support group sis😆
I got married (cohabitation) at 22 too,to my high school sweetheart,got our boy at 23,I wasn't sure of marriage but I decided to choose it because I had belief that he is the one,we are still together but the only thing I regret is that I missed youthfulness silliness,I never dated anyone since highschool it was only him I knew, I also pray that fixation doesn't catch up with me and that we get richer and spice up our marriage coz poverty and marriage don't tally.
Great video here Lisa😍. It was nice meeting you yesterday.
Awww Daphine it was nice seeing you😍😍 thanks for always watching🥳
Wow.. all your words carry wisdom, you remind me of the virtuous woman in the book of proverbs, blessed is your husband and children.. Thank you for sharing
Thank you so much
This was so helpful ... I'm glad I came by this video
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Good stuff, well done to yourself and Stephan....
Thanks thanks😊
Great and informative video, Lisa! The light bulb moment was funny! lol.
Thanks thanks. Hahah ❤️
Just landed on this and am not turning bk. U jst won urself another subscriber
Happy to have you😍😍😍
Age doesn't match with readiness
One can be ready at 22 ,18, 28 whatever age
I am 28 yrs ,29 yes this yr still single...I usually ask myself when is the right person coming along?
But I believe God's time is the best
God’s timing always
I relate to you on every point. I too got married young. I was 23 yo. I thank God for the blessing and that it came at the time that it did.
Thank you for the great content, Lisa.
D.
Thanks Daisy for sharing😍😍
You just earned yourself a new subscriber.....nice video right there
Thank you so much🥳
Whether you marry young or old, as long as you have found the ONE...no formula.
So true banange
I’ve always wanted to marry young 🥺, I’m twenty now and I pray it’s comes true 🙏
Don’t rush..
The right person will come in the right time
Same🥺
My wife & I have been
Married 22 years
I was 30 my wife was 24
I love my wife she is my world.
Marriage is a work in progress
Lot of sacrifices.
I’m 53 now we have 4 kids 2 dogs 1 cat a house
Stay committed put your spouse first
Beautiful 🤩
Alooooo❤❤❤ am 22 now and before April ends kilina okuggwa Inshaa Allah.its good am done with my diploma and he is also ready for me
I lost all my friends when I got married at 21,,, up to now am struggling to get good friends to connect with,,, mother's and wives,,
I feel you.
Get into marrieds fellowships
When you on a jouney you will loose people and gain others.
I'm 23, turning 24 and dating my guy is the best thing have ever made and inever regret asecond because he's a gift we yet to get married
Wishing you all the best🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thankyou mummy
This is a very nice message, thanks for sharing Lisa 👌
Glad you think so! :)
I also got married at 22 five years ago and it has always been beautiful
Wow
I got married at 26,that was last year. Marriage is beautiful. God blessed me with twins. And yeah .by 30 amma get done with giving birth and age like fine wine with my babies.
Don't know how I missed this ! Congs on the twins
Well done Lisa
Thank you Erinah😃
I always thought I would be married and had kids before 25 ,here I am 29 no man, no kids and no husband but God is a good God and he knows what's is best and when it should happen, .
Blessed Marriage dewr
God has a plan👌🏾🙏🏽
Another wall victim
i wish i had got married young because i went through a lot of bad relationships, fornication drinking, clubbing mental breakdowns but i think if i had married then i would be divorced because i was mentally unfit i got married at 28 after God had done some work on me im 33 wih 3 kids and im happy
I got married at 20 after my f.6 and everyone was worried that I am still young. Someone Said that they are marrying her off because she is pregnant 😂😂. But atleast I got support from my aunt (my uncle's wife). Girl what you went through is what I am going through up to now.
But # I am glad I am married, I love my hubby and I love us building each other
Bambi ka baby 👶, you really are full of wisdom for your age!
🙈🙈🙈 haha 😃😃
From TikTok up to your TH-cam channel 😃
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i can relate with you Lisa. thanks for this video.
This is my first video of yours that im seeing, i really love your videos. You're so vibrant . videos have great quality, you look beautiful . Well done . Love iy
Welcome here🎉🎉
Thank you so much
thanks for this advice.
To each their own for sure...
So true
Wabula Lisa
That break🥰🤪🤣🤣
I Love that you made this video ma❤
I'm glad you like it
@@LisaKusiima Sure I do ma and I'm grateful cause it's so relatable,I'm getting married at 23☺️
Love from Nigeria ❤️
Today I took a day off, been feeling depressed from a relationship I thought would settle with, but been cheated on my entire relationship of 5 months now only to realise the gal is 23 years n he was been with her for 3 years , it hurt me soo much , but been praying for grace n am not angry at him but I find my self sick, my pressure low, stressed ,crying n wondering many things but waiting on God's timing but nothing hurts like being cheated on n walking on the person 3 times
Am so sorry about this. It’s gut wrenching.
From every bad situation, I always try to see the light. You have been saved from settling with someone like this. It’s his loss. Remember he who finds a wife finds favor from God! You are the one that Carries favor🥳.
It’s a hard situation so take time to heal, draw closer to God, find yourself, your worth and things will get better ❤️🩹
Its really hard, thank you my dear, I pray God heals my heart n prepares me for the next journey, I want to start a family of my own and be ablessing ,
@@monicatayebwa5410 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Very very true..👌
You make my day you woman.🤭😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 On taking things less seriously!😁😁😁 I'm keeping this video.
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If you have found someone you want to spend your life with and grow with, why shouldn’t you get married young?
It’s great that this perspective is getting room.
Yaass👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 truth. If youve found the one.. go for it🥰
Thank you for sharing.
Me I got married at 21. In my second year at campus
Please can we talk
me too
Now you are a lost soul
I feel you dear
Great work dear
Thank you 😊
Thanks for sharing
Its the lost friendship for me..When I conceived,I got real insults from people I considered to be my close friends..I was so broken down that letting go of the pain upto now is hard but I found all I wanted in a friend in my husband even if its gossip😂😂😂😂..
Getting married is awesome😍..thank u Lisa😘
Love that last part. I found all I wanted in my husband 😭😭😭 beautiful 😍😍😍😍
I relate completely
Not everyone is blessed to be able to get married at a young age. Women are still looking for the right spouses with no hope
In God’s timing it will come to fruition❣️
It depends...Got married at 23 with so may expectations from my parents in law
So sorry 😞
@@LisaKusiima but everything went well eventually because my husband has been so matured, he stands for what he believes in. Thank you, Lissa, you are changing lives.
I am here for the make up and the glow 🔥❤️
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Blame it on the ba ba ba ba bacteria🎶🎶
@@priscillamugerwa9075 😂😂😂
FYI, you are already super fine 🔥🔥🔥🔥...
I agree with you, we can never be 100% ready.. We just have to take a leap of faith..
@@priscillamugerwa9075 😂😂😂😂😂
Awesome sharing 👌👍🤝
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Please I ❤this please make another video of marring and older man
Hahha thanks. Will look into this
Was looking for this comment, I married a guy much older than me, but he ticked all the boxes and trust me it’s amazing, he also doesn’t expect me to be a pro. But ppl were all asking why i didn’t marry a younger one 😂😂
@@duduviola3557 how did you cope with your parents and siblings agreeing??
Thanks for sharing Lisa. How did u overcome the cons u have shared? Did u regret your decision?
1. Friendships - am really trying to make new friends or rekindle those that are now in tjr same space.
2. Career - I took a step back and put huge career advancement on hold
3. Criticism - I got the advice i could and also relied on God to take me through💜
I also got married at 22 yrs and for real it was so lonely its like all my friends disappeared
Your videos are the best
😆😂😂😂🙌Lisa......I hear too serious...life has hit you hard
So true ☺
I’m 21 will be turning 22 coming November and I’m getting married soon what’s your advice for me 🙏
Get mentorship… someone who is married to share/guide/encourage you😀
What's the best age of getting married?
Whe you are ready
On 19th march this month I will be making 36 years, but no wife and kid yet cause at first I want to do so, I got disappointments along the way, but pressure too much from my parents including the grandies!
I think if I would do things differently I would travel first and enjoy being bf/gf before marriage. It's beautiful dating. After marriage things change wowe😂
Heheheh
I will be 22 and i am ready for marriage, i dont have a partner sadly
In God’s timing ⏱. Wait on Him
This is very interesting, i dnt care about the cons even😃😃😃😇
Hahahhaha
First comment 😉😉yaaay
I see you i see you🥰👀
Why doesn't Lisa have a TV show!?
Hahah I wonder 💭😂
Wau you are doing a great thing
To each their own, bt I would not advise anyone to get married at 22nd.
Why not? What age do you think is best?
Faced the same abit..my big sister who had put on my parents shoes after they passed had a hard time accepting that am leaving to get married..she thought I was too young ..most people did but anyways I always say marriage has no formula u get in and just purpose to make it work
Yes no formula.. God is thr author and He makes it work for us😍
As a single lady, I feel doomed because I have not got married young🥺🥺🥺
Please don’t.. Watch the video on marrying late
@@LisaKusiima thank you
You're doomed already. The wall will hit you hard
You're pretty!
Thank you
If you are marrying a good man (30+, Virgin, With a degree+, works, devout Christian) the advantages out Ways the disadvantages. Though I prefer marrying a lady between 23-27. The mental immaturity of pre25s is sickening.
The best ages for getting married are 25-27 for ladies.
Everyone has their choice 👏🏾
U will orient me maama 🤣🤣🤪🥰
I have enjoyed and learnt the same time
I will be waiting for you haha❤️
Am glad you picked something❣️
You have a beautiful smile plus you look Rwandese
I love u❤❤❤❤
Thank you 🌸
On it 😉😉😉
Pl stay connected friend
Ati trap ! 😁😁😁😁😁 Ati you are a baby! (From my family).
Meanwhile, I was making 26 the month I got wed.🤭
Our culture is starting to live in denial when it comes to age. Someone in their 20s is not young at all!
How old was ur husband, hard to start afamily when of you are Jobless
He had a job😃
and what about you?
Vary beautiful friend
Thanks 😊
I got married at 26,that was last year. Marriage is beautiful. God blessed me with twins. And yeah .by 30 amma get done with giving birth and age like fine wine with my babies.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thanks for sharing
I tap those blessings in Jesus'name
Amazing ♥️
Bless you more
Same thing happened to me at 25
Are u reading from my script??? Got married at 22
Yes
1. You say you were 22. How about your husband?
2. Can you have a guest over to also talk about marrying when "older". So that we get views from both sides.
Otherwise, I love that you took the leap and you're happily enjoying your marriage. Most people ain't that lucky.
He wasnt 22 hahah
Yes will talk about getting married old.. its in the pipeline😃