Unexpected D&C before Christmas… My D&C experience after 2nd miscarriage.

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  • @thelaundrychat
    @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    So deeply thankful for our doctor and surgery team 🕊️ I hope this gives you a little peace if you have to go through a D&C too. Whether it happens during Christmas or on a random Tuesday, it’s heartbreaking all the same. ❤️‍🩹 Remember God will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)

  • @simplified_faith
    @simplified_faith หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Praying for you and your husband.
    I’ve had 3 miscarriages and my first two were “missed miscarriages”. I also waited for them naturally, which worked for the first one but I took misoprostol for the 2nd one.
    I found out I have MTHFR gene mutation. Would definitely recommend looking into that. Once you’re ready to try again, I recommend taking NAC, low dose aspirin, and progesterone(even if your levels were good.) these are the things that helped me stay pregnant with my son. (Currently 20 weeks pregnant after a 3rd miscarriage).
    Please let me know if you want any more information. But take time to heal and reset. The Lord is good! 🙏

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so sorry for your loses 😢 I definitely have been looking into progesterone! Thankfully my new doctor is willing to prescribe it! I’m so glad that it’s working for you!! That’s such a miracle 🩵

  • @racquelweaver4216
    @racquelweaver4216 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so sorry. I’m sending lots of hugs and prayers for you and your family. I had 3 back to back D&C’s back in 2019-2020. Very painful and emotionally exhausting.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh I am so sorry you went through that 🥺 It’s so much to go through… I hope you’ve found so much healing since then 🤍🤍

  • @Marissassippi
    @Marissassippi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😔 I cried so much watching this. Praying for you and your hubby.
    It means so much that you are willing to talk about this. Bless you. ❤️

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aw thank you for crying with me 🥺😭 I know God sees and cares about every single tear 🤍 Ugh it’s been quite the year. Thank you so much for the prayers! I hope you have the merriest Christmas! 🌲❄️

    • @Marissassippi
      @Marissassippi หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@thelaundrychatthank you! Merry Christmas! 🎄🎁❄️

  • @AnnBeyer-h6g
    @AnnBeyer-h6g หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Merry Christmas Molly and AJ! I wonder if God wanted to give you the gifts of a successful surgery, closure to this pregnancy, peace that your babies are happy in Heaven, and a fresh year with truly many options? You also still have LOTS of time to heal and decide what is the next step forward. 29 is so young! Lots of love, hugs and sprinkles of cheer tomorrow. 🥰💖🤟🎅🤶🌞🌠🎄

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree 🤍 It ended up being for the best and like you said, we get a fresh start in 2025. Still a lot to figure out but at least it’s mostly over physically. Sigh…What a year. Merry Christmas!! 🌲❄️

  • @LeahValerie86
    @LeahValerie86 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for posting this. I just experienced a miscarriage a few days ago. We lost twins. It's been a hard experience. I've watched several of your other miscarriage videos, and they've been a comfort to me. I feel very similarly to how you feel. Praying for you.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh no, I am so so sorry 😢 It’s so terrible and the grief is so so heavy. I’m so glad that you have found comfort in my videos! I feel the same way hearing other people’s stories too. It can be such a lonely thing to go through especially during this time of year ❤️‍🩹 I’ll be praying for you too 🤍

  • @JilesFamily
    @JilesFamily หลายเดือนก่อน

    I went through several of these. I had one naturally and tried to do the second that way but ended up with lots of infection. The next was done earlier to avoid the complications I had had before. I am so glad you were blessed with an awesome care team. Thank you for sharing this video - my experiences happened nearly 20 years ago now and I wish I had access to this time of video at that time.
    I am praying for you! May the Lord comfort you at this time. ❤️

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Ugh it’s so tough to go through. Thank you for praying 🤍🤍

  • @Dannie_Mae_Jay
    @Dannie_Mae_Jay หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so sorry. I love baby's name. So precious. I had a D&C and an ablation because of constant heavy bleeding for many months on end. I had really bad cramping when it was done. I hope you are feeling OK and you have a good Christmas.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🤍 Aw that sounds terrible! I’m so sorry you went through that. Miscarriage is hard enough 😞

  • @adriennebrown687
    @adriennebrown687 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Praying for you and your Husband, for peace, and smooth recovery. May you be blessed with your Miracle Rainbow Baby this year.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🤍🤍 So far the recovery has been exactly that!

  • @whateverislovely8654
    @whateverislovely8654 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing all this. It’s hard to talk about these things. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through all that. Of course none of us hope or want that for our story.
    The blip of the devo you shared hit me too. I’ve been dealing with infertility for over 2 years and my younger sister just had the family’s first baby a few days ago. We’ve never had a miscarriage which we are thankful for not having that pain and grief but I also have no idea if I even can get pregnant. All of this is painful and complicated. I’m glad you have family who help you through it.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oof I very much feel you. It’s so hard to see people close to you walking through the stage of life you thought you would be in too (like Hannah!) Sometimes it’s crazy how relatable the stories in the Bible are! I will be praying for you! Infertility is its own journey/grieving process and mind game just like a miscarriage! Both are so incredibly frustrating so I’m right there with you! And when no one has answers for you it feels so helpless some days. Ugh. Hold on to hope! 🤍

  • @veritym8951
    @veritym8951 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keeping you in prayer ❤
    Take your time on this journey of recovery.
    I had two miscarriages before our son was born. He’s a very healthy 4 year old today, when I was ready, between his conception and our losses, I listened to as many miracle baby testimonies as I could and I fasted 1 day a week seeking the Lord. 3 months later we conceived and carried with no issues. I’m praying and joining your faith for a miracle baby for you both.
    This not an easy road I know, but He carries us ❤️❤️❤️
    Psalm 91
    Pslam23

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow that’s amazing! I’m so sorry you had two miscarriages as well. So devastating. But that’s such beautiful story and miracle! Psalms 23 has definitely been a verse to come to life for us during this time 🐑🤍

  • @AnnBrennan-v5u
    @AnnBrennan-v5u หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry my friend ❤ Love you and praying for you and AJ this Christmas. Lifting you up! You’re a wonderful mom to your babies and have carried them so gracefully and lovingly ❤

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re the best Ann 🤍❄️ Thank you so much! This makes me cry 🥲

  • @shelbycaldwell6296
    @shelbycaldwell6296 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad that you got to finish this process before Christmas, even if it wasn't how you'd hoped. ❤

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shelbycaldwell6296 I couldn’t agree more 🥲 As sad as the timing was, it could’ve been worse. And I’m really grateful for that 🤍❄️

    • @shelbycaldwell6296
      @shelbycaldwell6296 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thelaundrychat This is a little silly and parasocial, but I have been following your channel since your color analysis video and have loved getting to know you and see your videos, so I am glad to have an update and that you aren't waiting anymore.

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shelbycaldwell6296 Aw! No I totally get that! That’s so sweet 🤍 I definitely thought I’d have a different kind of update but we’re just grateful that part is over now too. It’s been so long.

  • @SV-vx9ss
    @SV-vx9ss หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Hugs. 🙏🏻💐💕

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🥺🤍

  • @ADG247
    @ADG247 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry for your loss. If you can look into a functional doctor they can do some private testing on the side and look into your diet. I also went through miscarriage and it took me few years to grief that little life. I now have two healthy baby Boys. I went fully gluten free both pregnancies. I also had a D&C has I never managed to pass the baby. It went well 😊keep going and focus on the end goal. Good luck

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! We have been wanting to do that and will start testing next year once my body is back to normal. I hear a lot of good things going gluten free! I’m so happy that you have been able to have two healthy babies 🩵 Thank you so much for sharing!!

    • @ADG247
      @ADG247 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ take care

  • @lorimoser3145
    @lorimoser3145 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I did this same thing with my first 2 pregnancies. The first miscarriage happened on its own, but for the next one, I ended up with a D&C too. I was afraid that I would never have a baby, but I ended up with 7 precious children after that! I had some of the same feelings that you are having, doubts, fears etc.
    Prayers are with you as you go through this loss.💔❤️‍🩹

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! That is truly incredible! 🩷🩷 This gives me hope to try again. Thank you for the prayers!

  • @dorothypowell3561
    @dorothypowell3561 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💔❤️🙏🫶
    You're so precious

  • @lucycabrera7907
    @lucycabrera7907 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m sorry you’ve had to endure all this trauma. Praying for you. I’ve been meaning to ask you if you’ve checked you post box? Merry Christmas ♥️

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lucy, yes! We finally got it this week! I was blown away by your kindness 😭 My husband and I couldn’t believe it! I love the books! I can’t wait to read through them 🤍🤍 I’ve been meaning to send you a thank you letter! But thank you soooo much! 📦 You are such a blessing! I hope you had a Merry Christmas and that your New Year is so special 🪩

  • @mori.kurogawa7936
    @mori.kurogawa7936 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you are eligible for additional testing now, due to recurrent miscarriage. There is genetic testing - sometimes shifts in chromosomal arms in one parent cause recurrent miscarrige - then IVF with embryo PGT might prevent more heartbreak. Sometimes a septum in the uterus, or hidden endometriosis - where adhesions prevent the uterus from expanding, without typical endometriosis symptoms, and other reasons that might be looked into. I wonder if they offered you testing on the embryo/fetal tissue and placenta - this may give indication. Of course, at miscarriage rates of 20-25%, two in a row can be bad luck, but I'd be proactive about it at this point. I hope you will have your wonderful rainbow baby soon 🌈🍀

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw thank you for all of this! 🤍 Our doctor mentioned genetic/chromosome testing too but it sounds kind of expensive? And maybe something we’d do if it happens again! Sigh it’s so hard all this… I just want to have a baby and it feels so overwhelming to try and figure out why I can’t.

  • @JJ888-k2x
    @JJ888-k2x หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤🫶

    • @thelaundrychat
      @thelaundrychat  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! 😭🤍

    • @JJ888-k2x
      @JJ888-k2x หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ hugs