How I got HIV

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  • @ryanblack2986
    @ryanblack2986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My 1st bf at 19 intentionally kept it from me he was poz. It's awful to not be forthcoming with that information and to put ppl at risk. All the best! Xoxo 😄

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

    • @carreviewer6345
      @carreviewer6345 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah people who don't tell their partner about their sexual health are pricks

  • @_letstartariot
    @_letstartariot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for your courage. It’s not easy to post a video talking about something so personal. But you did it to educate others. Its commendable. Cheers mate.

  • @XxxX-wx3er
    @XxxX-wx3er 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    People have unprotected sex all the time. You did it just one time. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

    • @Henry.Wallace
      @Henry.Wallace 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or so he says

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But one time is higher risk for that demographics.

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They have had 10,000 new cases in Pattaya people think it won’t happen to me , I’ve lost 3 friends to this , thankyou for talking about this

    • @DrAriba-rt8zo
      @DrAriba-rt8zo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Bri-nc8yphi

    • @DrAriba-rt8zo
      @DrAriba-rt8zo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Henry.Wallacehow do you do ?

  • @MichelleisMarried123
    @MichelleisMarried123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Hi, Back in 2020 I was tested for HIV and I was HIV negative. I only got tested for the nasty migraines I was getting. Dr said Have you ever been tested for HIV? I said no why? Well she said your a married woman and have severe migraines, and migraines usually are a sign of HIV. I was scared as f•••! Took my blood sent it too the lab and in 2 weeks I got my results and thank god I was HIV negative🥰❤️ My husband told me babe if u ever had HIV I wouldn’t love you any less😭 we would always be together! 16 years of marriage and 2 boys later! Now that’s true love❤️ Thanks for sharing your story and I hope that your doing ok? God Bless and stay safe from Covid-19!

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you received a negative result and that your husband is supportive!
      All is well here, thank you. And hope you are too. Sending love 💙

    • @colleenstack210
      @colleenstack210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very common chronic migraines in women for a doctor to do a work up for Multiple Sclerosis from the lesions on the brain. Just responding to the one lady that mentioned migraines. God Bless you Matt and stay strong!

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I took a negative HIV test and got the results in 20 minutes last year. Why did you have to wait for two weeks in 2020?

    • @MichelleisMarried123
      @MichelleisMarried123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Naijella86 Hi, I guess my Dr’s office is slow😂

    • @MultiMcgurk
      @MultiMcgurk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sinisitis maybe?

  • @Luvforalll
    @Luvforalll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’re helping a lot by telling your story. I love watching your vids. Thanks for helping others learn

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! That means a lot, thank you for watching

  • @AMPFIELDVISION
    @AMPFIELDVISION 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    For you to get it the very 1st time having unprotected sex with that one guy, he must've been VERY sick and had a super high viral load because it doesn't spread that easy

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It depends on the sexual act. Receptive anal sex hiv transmission occurs approx. 1 out of 72 times. That could be the first, the 18th, or the 72nd. Or his partner could have been recently exposed. He told him he was “clean” and he may have believed he was. During stage one of the virus, HIV is rapidly replicating and thus, leading to more HIV in the body. The person may not even experience symptoms during this phase of transmission and if they do it may be a light headache or a cough. At this point, the person is highly contagious and more likely to spread the virus. Just because a person doesn’t appear sick does not mean they do not have HIV.

  • @doncrossfield7636
    @doncrossfield7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love this. Honest and open and super informative as always. Keep up the awesome work Matt 🖤

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ahh, thank you! Means a lot. 💙

    • @markfox566
      @markfox566 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meandhiv Hope you are doing well. Thank You for this video. Know that many people respect you.

  • @ela536
    @ela536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for spreading awareness! You are an incredibly strong man ❤

  • @nicsinger18
    @nicsinger18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow very brave for putting yourself out there! 💪🏼 young people need to be more educated on the subject of hiv and schools shouldn’t shy away from teaching it just because it’s a taboo subject. great video well done ❤️

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Totally agree that schools and the education system need to be doing more! 💙

    • @mollysteel142
      @mollysteel142 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meandhiv have you eaten any fecal matter or used poppers during XXX??

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

  • @maldives-joshuajoseph6032
    @maldives-joshuajoseph6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    4.15 " I got HIV from having sex ". God bless you, live a full life !

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely. Being diagnosed with HIV has taught me we need to live our life to the fullest

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 ปีที่แล้ว

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN RAW FOOD THERAPY. You can try & SEE A MAGIC.

  • @skyisthelimit9897
    @skyisthelimit9897 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you that you live a full! Confessing your truth and educating us! God certainly has a purpose for you!! People with HIV are outliving people without it! Thanks so much for your courage and testimony! Love this.

  • @growmance2191
    @growmance2191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Man that the worst luck ever just doing it once unprotected and getting hiv. .

    • @Sadude13
      @Sadude13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right. Some people fuck for years unprotected and never get it. This poor guy fucks once raw and he gets it!!!

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @julianaguirre5882
      @julianaguirre5882 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know that is the worst? I hadnot sex, i touched a vagine with mi finger. That is bad luck :( .

  • @rooweb
    @rooweb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good video kid! Keep informing people and im sure it will help people with hiv and help stop people getting it. Well done for putting the message out and being open about it.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks brother! Appreciate your comment 💙

  • @kvngkhii6819
    @kvngkhii6819 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ive had unprotected sex twice .the first time was2 years ago and last time was march 15 this year. Ive had no issues symptom wise not flu like symptoms nothing. I hope im all good and ill never be reckless like that again. Its bad to be Young and naive

    • @mingakinsgibayuxds7542
      @mingakinsgibayuxds7542 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And many of the times, people live with the disease for decades without symptoms.

    • @killerStranngle
      @killerStranngle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hiv symptoms take 2-7 years to show, after 7 years you will almost have aids.

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey buddy, just found you and subbed. From the USA and want to thank you for this video, it will save lives I am sure. Thanks for your time and effort in producing it............God bless.............Ray

  • @daviddinkins7009
    @daviddinkins7009 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In 2020, there's no reason not to remain vigilant about your own health, so good luck.

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Balls of Steel...sending love

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 💙💙💙

  • @rachelgracedelariarte3027
    @rachelgracedelariarte3027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    HiV/AIDS is treatble now a days. 😊

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 ปีที่แล้ว

      NO....! ONLY IN RAW FOOD THERAPY.

  • @luishenriques7246
    @luishenriques7246 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Matt, for sharing your experience, I know what you went through 😔 To me, it happened like you.

  • @marquese1960
    @marquese1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good luck very everything mate ! Stay well.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. And you too!

  • @richierichnumber1
    @richierichnumber1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Matt and your a beautiful man also glad you educated yourself about the disease HIV & Aids, yes we were all ignorant in the beginning, and after new medications out there gay men can live a longer, happy , productive life with these new medications. As an old timer now these days I lived negative existence from the disease for fear at first and after educating myself and with the help of an honest loving partners it hasn't stopped me from dating positive men who take care themselves. Honestly, if I'd feel I had met my soul mate it wouldn't have been a problem making our relationship long term. Peace.🥰

  • @susangodblessuratemo2485
    @susangodblessuratemo2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    U are Strong guy and you are open

  • @le.7644
    @le.7644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Matt, all the best we got u

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My pleasure! Thanks for watching 💙💙

  • @ravishdhir972
    @ravishdhir972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sir if men sex with other men but both are not infected with HIV does they get hiv

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If both parties are negative for HIV, then it can't be transmitted. There is still a risk from other STI's and/or HIV as they can be asymptomatic

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 ปีที่แล้ว

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY.

  • @onnislee1
    @onnislee1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How do they know how many people have it and don't know? Are you saying that the doctors or government know and not telling people? Otherwise how would they know over 6000 has it and not know? Make it make sense to me. And why do people comment that they are negative on everyone who does these types of videos?

  • @jaleosupply9145
    @jaleosupply9145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Matt dont worried about anything ok??? Now is not a death sentence. you wont died from this but if with this, dont forguet you pill, sleep good, look after your diet and take care of your sexual life. I wishyou all the best,...Best wishes. FROM Valencia.............................................

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on TH-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 ปีที่แล้ว

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY WITHOUT MEDS. & MONEY.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry you had to learn such a hard lesson, but bless you for putting out this video.
    #BeWell

  • @Tainted3840
    @Tainted3840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're amazing.
    Simple as that 👍

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw, thank you so much! 💙

    • @Tainted3840
      @Tainted3840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meandhiv Keep doing what you're doing, your response to this is tremendous, courageous and inspiring. This could happen to absolutely ANYONE irrespective of gender, race or sexuality, a virus doesn't discriminate whatsoever. You did NOTHING wrong and have since done everything right in your attitude since your diagnosis. You, of course, know all these things but I just wanted to reiterate and show my support. I think you're fantastic, how eloquently you speak and educate and I hope I haven't come across as patronising. My intention was to elevate what you already know - you're a warrior 👍. So happy you have the support system you have too 😀

  • @markfox566
    @markfox566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am curious. Can you contract HIV if you are only a bottom, or can you contract HIV is you are bottom or top?

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You can get it either way

    • @markfox566
      @markfox566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ryanblack2986 Good to know. Thanks.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ryanblack2986 absolutely. Anyone is potentially at risk of HIV, no matter whether you're top, bottom, vers. Anyone can get HIV regardless of gender, sexuality or sexual preferences

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@markfox566 👍

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meandhiv 👍

  • @fp5940
    @fp5940 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pls inform if you have suspicion at all whatever it maybe. You need to save lives and use condoms.

  • @adriandc9761
    @adriandc9761 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you have any symptoms?

  • @gamestriker3705
    @gamestriker3705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    After exposure when you tested for HIV?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For me it was roughly two to three months after exposure

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@meandhiv but you had symptoms two-three weeks later. Wow took three months to find positive. Yet you probably had sex in between that time and transmitted it to others.

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is informative thank you

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for your comment!

  • @ghalicobain8893
    @ghalicobain8893 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How is 2.7 % unknown what do you mean ?????

    • @MeldrineOrtiz
      @MeldrineOrtiz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      2.7% of people with HIV do not know how they got it.

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some people may have engaged in multiple risk areas or do not wish to disclose how they contracted HIV.

  • @imgurkirat
    @imgurkirat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did u got any symptoms or after that u go for test?

  • @chrisallen6362
    @chrisallen6362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Matt I would love to know more if you were open to talking about your experiences

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Chris. Absolutely. I'd be more than happy share my experiences

    • @chrisallen6362
      @chrisallen6362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meandhiv I'm not sure if you saw the link I left below in the comment section but if not, could you please fill out that quick survey and leave a form of contact and I will get back to you. Your feedback means a lot Matt. Thank you sir.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry - I missed that! All done.

    • @kingslong5937
      @kingslong5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meandhiv do u know what ur symptoms was if u don’t mind sharing sir?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kingslong5937 of course. For me I had kind of flu-like symptoms; muscle aches, headache, nausea, night sweats, and fever. I also ended up with a rash down my arm

  • @FlavioMarceloSousa35
    @FlavioMarceloSousa35 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Unprotected sex, in my case. I was taking PrEP but got careless and didn't take the pills everyday, as I should.

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You were taking the appropriate steps! We are all human. I hope you don’t blame yourself. It sucks that this virus exists.

  • @xelefonte
    @xelefonte 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only time negativity is a good thing is when it comes to std testing, you want to remain HIV negative.

  • @nuage9727
    @nuage9727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Matt I hv a question

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey. What's your question? Feel free to ask anything.

    • @nuage9727
      @nuage9727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meandhiv hey what are the odds of getting hiv through oral. It's been 6 weeks I've not experienced anything out of the ordinary. And he was negative then.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The chances are very low of contracting HIV through oral sex

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/sexual-health/improving-your-sexual-health/oral-sex

  • @Mech20900
    @Mech20900 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got HIV 💔

    • @Keepthepeacesharethelove
      @Keepthepeacesharethelove 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Everything will be alright. Take the medication and you will have a normal life.

  • @stephenobudho4538
    @stephenobudho4538 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Repent, the end is near. God save this world. John 3:16.

  • @kittykat135
    @kittykat135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    u take long to tell us

  • @upendarkumar22
    @upendarkumar22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dwarka sarve ka dikha do didi Badi Sundar Hogi Badi

  • @ERICANDYJASMINE
    @ERICANDYJASMINE ปีที่แล้ว

    All lim activate

  • @killerStranngle
    @killerStranngle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    if you are going to go against god's command and do they unnatural you should be using protection.

  • @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn
    @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello , like your vídeo .is it possible to chat with you in private?