The worst part about this, to me, is that the woman who invented gender reveal parties only did so because she had previously had multiple miscarriages, and she wanted to celebrate the fact that one of her babies had survived long enough to the point that its sex could actually be determined. It was purely meant to celebrate life and joy, and people have taken that concept and completely fucking ruined it.
If this is an agreement paper, I'll sign it multiple times. Almost all people on earth went crazy since COVID-19 pandemic. Who invited this extreme level of gender reveal parties (not that woman in 2008, which started this trend; it was purely meant to celebrate life and joy.) should be ashamed.
It’s basically people trying to one up each other and see who could have the coolest reveal. When my sister was born, we found out her gender through ultrasound. Afterwards, my mom called everyone up and told them. Gender reveals don’t need to be so extreme.
The worst part about these gender reveal parties is the amount of waste they create and the harm they cause to the enviroment. I wonder how many animals and trees died in the wildfire and how many fish died because of the blue dye. What these people are doing is horrifying. Edit: Watched more of the video and it just gets worse. The pidgeon dyed pink reminds me of those chicks dyed blue to be sold and die a week later. Absolutely horrible
@buzgucu4594 I was just talking about in a different comment thread the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
like if i have a kid, i just want a simple cake and like those little smoke things at my own house. there’s no need for all of these things! edit: the little small fireworks smoke balls is what i meant* not those big ones in the video.
@buzgucu4594 Isn't gender reveal only to for pre/newborn babies ? I mean, a baby doesn't care about the color of his/her reveal and while, yes, pink for a girl and blue for a boy is stereotypical, it's pretty normal to associate these colours for these gender. After all, we associate white for wedding and black for funerals.
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
8:34 you can even hear in the background someone say “I wanted it to be a boy” so now the guests are pissed bc the baby isn’t the sex they wanted. Absolutely wild
I hate people like that :( they can't accept that the baby is a sex they didn't want, LIKE GROW UP JUST BECAUSE IT'S NOT THE GENDER YOU WANT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GET ALL MAD ABOUT IT
2:23 You can see only five people running to the plane, checking if everything is alright. FIVE FREAKING PEOPLE. While the others are cheering. Thats just sad. May the pilot rest in peace.
When I first saw the video, I saw the version of the one person that was recording that was actually concerned I never saw the version where the girl turns back like a plane crash. It’s no big deal. It may look like it’s a graceful crash, but there’s no such thing as a graceful plane crash And just because it’s a small plane doesn’t mean it’s not going to be bad if they crash it’s actually worse
I know everyone is entitled to their own feelings, but something about couples with multiple healthy children being so disappointed with a gender reveal makes me feel a bit sick, knowing how many people struggle to conceive at all or have sick or severely disabled kids. A child's gender seems so trivial compared to any real issues. When my partner and I found out we were having a daughter, we got multiple remarks from loved ones as well about how much trouble she would be. Some people around us were visibly disappointed. Why does it matter? She is a healthy baby and she's so wanted and loved...
I couldn't agree more. And why would anyone say something like that to you instead of just being happy for you? I'm happy for you, stranger. Congratulations! 🎊🎉
As someone that can't get pregnant (I'm not bitter at all... Promise 😊), I feel sad for children with parents that feel the need to be upset bc they couldn't get the gender of choice for their next baby. I'd be happy with one or multiple of the same gender of children. It sounds like a fun way to grow up and less expensive.
The irony is that the inventor of the gender reveal party (who was briefly mentioned in this video) did it because she was celebrating that her child survived to the point where their gender could be determined. She'd had several miscarriages before then. It's sad that something with such nice intentions has devolved into this mess.
If people are going to be disappointed about having a girl or a boy, they should not have any children at all. Also those mothers whose partners choose to celebrate with their friends, should prepare the divorce, because that's not a healthy relationship.
6:48 Is this guy serious? My dad has three daughters. Me and my older and younger sister. Not ONCE has he complained to us wishing he had a son. He loves his kids and even has a shirt that we bought him a few years back saying "You can't scare me, I have daughters" as a joke. This is disgusting to know that people are genuinely getting disappointed in what gender their child is. GENDER.
@@Manuelwww78 It's fine to want a specific gender of child, every parent has had that thought before. But being genuinely upset when you don't get what you want is child-like behavior. He came into adulthood knowing that no one has control over what gender their child comes out as. So getting pissy over it is disappointing to see a grown man do. He also doesn't need to pretend. If he genuinely can't bring himself to love a female child then he should leave and not consider becoming a parent
@@cosmic_ghostbruh _childish_ , not _child-like._ Childlike behavior typically includes having a bright imagination, wanting to play with nature and stuff, and so on. It is actually _childish_ behavior that is described as being immature.
It's sad how many fathers get disappointed when they know their child will be a girl, "oh, i won't be able to play football with them and teach them how to fight" as if girls can't do that, it's not 1950 anymore. Honestly, i don't think men like the idea of having a child to love age care for, they love the idea of having a MALE child who can "carry their name" i know there is also mothers who get sad when their child is a boy, but those are pretty rare. Most of the time the man is the one getting triggered because their kid won't have a penis.
For what it's worth on the "oh I won't be able to teach them how to fight" part, I'm AFAB and partially a girl, my male cousin and I both did karate at some point and only one of us ended up getting our black belt, wanna take a guess as to which one of us it was?
I've given birth twice and we went the old school way of revealing the gender. It's when you give birth and the doctor tells you. Easy peasy and no glitter involved.
I don't think it's a old schooled..it's sensible one.. because in old schooled one ,u can able to tell about what gender they will be getting and if there is a girl they would abort it..which make these telling gender banned
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
For those wondering the waterfall couple a realitive of theirs was fined about $1933 for environmental damages. Thankfully the chemical they used did not change the physical property of the water or harm the wildlife. They used the blue dye swimming pools use to dye the water blue. Only the realitive was charged as the couple apparently had no idea their realtive was going to do this (or so they claim.)
September 15 was my birthday and that year my family wanted to visit Sequoia national park but we couldn’t cause the Forrest was on fire at least now I know the cause.
my mom didn't even gaf about my gender, she was just like "wow, baby" and never even hosted a gender reveal party because she thought it was a waste of money and that it was useless 💀
These gender reveal parties should become a relationship test: if your significant other acts disappointed by the thought of the baby having a different gender than the one they desired, or if your significant other prioritieses their friends over you, then it’s time to pack your bags.
I absolutely LOVE how hayley is SO passionate with these videos. its absolutely horrible about the neglect that follows these sorts of situations, but like every video, she doesn't suppress her emotions and if they viewer doesn't understand the logical side of things, she MAKES them understand after a 8-14 minute long video. Outstanding!!
I have a son and daughter. My son was the first born and it didn’t matter whether it was a boy or a girl bc I was just lucky to get pregnant after having ovarian cancer at 17 and told time and time again I would never have children.
i really do think these people should be held accountable in the legal sense, i think they also should pay for reperations for anyone harmed or anything damaged during a gender reveal. im so tired of the human race.
I went to a home gender reveal party (uk), and it was actually simple. My aunt and uncle had a balloon they'd pop, and me and my grandad had these things that shot confetti when you twisted them. It wasnt overboard like these ones. There wasnt any gender dissappintment. People can just be normal, so why dont they?
To add it up with Funkyfrogbait's most recent video about gender-reveal parties, this world's humans' obsession with their future-offspring's gender is insane and dangerous. People who make too big a deal over their child's gender at birth should neither biologically nor adoption-wise have children or non-human companions.
Yeah I saw that video too. It's kinda disgusting how these kinds of parents react when they don't get the gender they wanted. That's just a recipe for parental neglect or worse, abuse.
How anyone can be so obsessed with the genitals of their unborn baby is beyond me. Humans are way more complex than girl = pink and dolls/boy = blue and cars. What happens if their kid is intersex? Or later turns out to be trans? Can't people just be happy if they are lucky to have a healthy child?
@xxstroyer yeah ive seen them and most of what they say is not fact it's mostly just biased usually very rude and sexist ideologies, i see more men than women podcasts but there's almost seem to be just as bad, just wish people would hold hands and sing Kumbaya, that's what id do if i had control over everythin, people hating to hate drives me crazy
@@sylverscale Corrections- 1. If the child is trans, the child is trans. That happens later in life, there's no need to worry about it when they haven't been born. 2. Pink/Blue are just colors associated with those things, not hard requirements. I've never seem someone complain that black is associated with death or evil while white with love/life, for example.
2:11 did you people know that babies' heating abilities can already be damaged in the womb? And that they already can be frightened from sudden loud noises or screaming while in the womb? Isn't it a great idea to do such a loud gender reveal party then? Bro I swear to god everyone who celebrates a gender reveal deserves their kid to get their hands on SCP-113 if it was real or come in contact with SCP-6113 if it also was real.
The thing is... whether it's a boy or a girl DOES NOT matter. The gender of the baby doesn't determine their whole life nor their personality. It's A BABY. You can still have just as much happy memories with a boy than you can with a girl. It does not matter!!
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
We overlook a park. One day I heard what sounded like a fun, looked out the window to see pink smoke rising in the air with a group "Nóooooooooooooo!" People were covering their faces, kids running around shaking fists and the look of disappointment on every face except the weeping pregnant woman. I couldn't help yelling out the window "Woo hoo!!! The world needs more women, you go girl!"
I would say something along the lines of an OG Dick Masterson quote as a joke, but then I realized there’s a Boy Mom epidemic, so I’ll shut the fuck up.
idk I'm not American and I find a concept of a gender-reveal party to be very sweet. BUT! I imagine it to be a little homeparty with relatives and maybe little treats with pink/blue colours or a little funny competition. And I think that the whole point of those parties should be a reason to get together and celebrate the miracle of giving new life independently of gender 🥺 Also, I think that mothers reeeally need to see support and care and it is a nice way to show it
I m not American and I find this parties totally narrow minded..in one side playing human equality sh*t and then doing such things only to be disappointed
I remember one of my elementary teachers was pregnant and would sometimes give us updates on the baby's size. She also put on a mini-party towards the end of the year that was just a fun little reveal since we were all curious. We got blue candy canes and vanilla cupcakes with blue icing, and that was pretty much it. It was fun.
For us people usually mash together the baby shower and the gender reveal, "we're having a kid, the gender is inside the cupcakes, please for the love of god give us your old baby clothes" 🤣
5:14 whoever was recording and or said to take the baby has my full respect as that baby was most likely suffocating before anyone else…. What is wrong with these people making gender reveals…
My friends just had a joint birthday/gender reveal. It was just a nice simple event that was mainly to let close friends and family about the new baby and celebrate a birthday at the same time. They had stickers for people to choose team boy or team girl, then later in the evening they pulled a small hand-held confetti-cannon and cut into a cake. Nothing left the event space and it was an easy clean-up. Honestly the worst part of the event was the fact the restaurant messed up the food lol. I can appreciate these kind of gender reveals because it's on such a small scale and really just a get-together with a theme. These crazy over-the-top stunts are just ridiculous.
I chose not to find out with either of my 2. There was nothing that could take that moment from me. Seconds after birth I took my newborn in my arms and the midwife said "Look and see what you've got". It was a beautiful, magical personal moment. Nobody got hurt, died or trashed the environment.
Yesss! I did this with my second (last) child. And I wish I had done it with my first. The experience and suprise was so fun! Made for a fun game at my baby shower where everyone voted what they thought the gender was by wearing a pink or blue clothes pin. It was cute and fun. And the day my daughter was born, I remember just holding my tint baby on my chest and crying. And since I pulled her out myself, no one knew the gender for a moment. She just laid on my chest until everyone in the room was like "WHAT IS IT??" And couldn't wait any longer. I just said "IT is MY baby and I don't care" lol. I eventually looked after a minute or so. I just wanted to snuggle her...
Gender reveal parties are not a thing here in Malaysia, and I am absolutely grateful for that. I can't imagine all the crazy things some people here would do if it was a thing. But after looking at this video, I think we aren't as insane as we thought.
For my gender reveal party I would 1. Bake a cake 2. Food color the cake blue or pink and white frosting 3. Invite people over to eat cake That can literally be it. It doesn’t need to involve explosives or try to one up others. Just be with your family. That’s what it should be about.
AGREEDD, why tf do these parents think it’s all about flexxing instead of just love and wishes for a healthy pregnancy. This is supposed to be an event for you and your family/community not social media 🤦
That sounds like the original gender reveal including cake pops I think And many people just used balloons with colored confetti and food But how did it become this
my gender reveal party was literally just my mom and dad visiting our relatives calmly saying “it’s a girl!”. our celebration? a house party with food. A LOT of food. it was a tiny house party in a tiny apartment complex. it was also only filled with women.
I have a boy and a girl. Our “reveal” was the ultrasound. We called our parents after. No stupid party involved. Honestly, I didn’t really process it at that point that I’m really glad it was never taped. I didn’t get excited until they were there because I very anxious with both pregnancies. I had a baby shower with the first child and went garage sell shopping with the second. Both are teenagers, so I think it turned out fine.
my family’s gender reveal party is just sending the members the baby’s gender in text apps and that’s it. 😅 we celebrated when the mother was actually pregnant. i don’t mind gender reveal parties, they can be fun. but please for the love of every holy deity and textbook don’t make them as risky as whatever this people were doing.
I'm pregnant with my third currently but during my first pregnancy the girls at the office threw me a gender reveal, we had a simple cake that I cut into and the color inside the cake was the reveal as well as a pamper party which I thoroughly enjoyed. My boss spent a pretty penny to treat us all to a nice BBQ lunch as well. I'm thankful I did it but I only did it during my first pregnancy because I was surrounded by women who were older and involved with in my business as they witnessed the whole three trimesters lol.
@@chrisgomez1262 well, can't you just be grateful what you have? We can't pick or chose what gender we want, it depends on the sperm (Y/X). Be grateful, because there are couple that has been trying to have a child for years, and then these fathers/mothers aren't just grateful.
I remember going to my baby cousin’s gender reveal party. You know what it was? Cake. Just blue cakes that they brought out when the time was right. It was simple and we all loved it. My other uncle’s girlfriend just went on Facebook to announce his baby’s gender and was like “Yeah we’re having a boy”. Again, no environmental damage. Why do people have to go so overboard for a gender reveal…?
I never thought I'd be glad I grew up poor. But I am glad my parents were too poor to do shit like this. (Because they are tacky people, they probably would if they could.)
I don’t get why it’s so difficult for these parents to just order a cake with coloured frosting inside, or getting a balloon filled with coloured confetti. You still get to find out in a fun way and it doesn’t hurt anyone.
@@Gnexz.Well if it’s done indoors where they can clean it, it’s just find!
8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1
If I'm ever pregnant, I would want to know the gender immediately but might buy neutral clothes. Not going to throw a baby shower. I'm pretty sure I'll be considered high risk so don't want to get excited in case of miscarriage
It’s like who needs to go through so much to reveal the baby’s gender and put people’s lives at risk when you can simply share the news over a nice meal or a phone call, or just keep it a surprise until the baby is born.
I cake. A simple cake with food coloring. Classic. Also saw one with cupcakes that was adorable, but you always have the one-biter that might forget what they’re there for. 😂
5:49 bro this couldve been done so cute AND eco friendly, get some pink wildflowers or blue wildflowers or buy some white flowers and dye them to blue or pink with food safe color in their water. Then find one of those balloons that won't pop into a bunch of pieces but will stay in one piece of plastic to clean up so it wont fall in the water, and fill it with petals instead of glitter or paper or plastic pieces like ...
For my gender reveal, i hid in a bush and had my husband do a countdown (3, 2, 1) and i popped out of the bush with a pink shirt. We all had so much fun WITHOUT killing anyone.
I'm so glad you spoke about this. I was watching TH-cam shorts and was horrified to see a big plane with loads of pink smoke for gender reveal it's just not needed I think cutting into a coloured cake or something is just fine people go to far .
Omg the waterfall makes me want to cry! I found out both my kids gender at the ultrasound, then text the ppl who would care.. these stupid reveals have been spinning put for the last decade plus. So crazy OK I got to all the deaths , holy ish 😮 they really didn't care when those planes went down! 😢
@sunnytsuu I know, I'm sorry. I know it's a bot, I just felt like speaking up because there's a time and a place to promote yourself, and under a comment mourning someone's death isn't one of them.
my best friend is 8 months pregnant right now and her gender reveal was: her and her bf went to get a set of boy baby clothes and a set of girl baby clothes from the store, he knew which she was having before she did, picked the corresponding outfit and put it in a gift bag for her to open. they both decided on this together, I watched from facetime too and we all laughed a lot and got very excited and had a joyful time. when you don’t crave attention from the whole world memories are made safely :’) idk what these ppl are on about
30 years ago, I was pregnant. Due to some medical issues, I needed an amniocentesis and I went to a specialist for it. I was asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby and we said no. We loved waiting and finding out on the day he was born!
When my mother was pregnant with me, she didn't have any gender reveal party, she knew already what gender she's getting. These people are polluting the earth way more. It's heartbreaking.
As someone who has a mom who said she never wanted girls and ended up having 2 daughters after she had a boy (my older brother) … yeah let’s just say my older brother is the favorite child. I know my mom loves me but every time she brings up How she never wanted girls because they are “too much” really tells me a lot about how my parents just should of never had more kids if they couldn’t handle the idea of having daughters.
I'm so sorry for that. I know how it must feel. I remember a conversation came up about what our mom thought when she was pregnant with each one of us. My two brothers all she could say was how happy and excited she was. For me the only girl all she could talk about was how it would be great to finally have someone help her around the house and do all the chores.
It’s all good! I think our parents just don’t know better. It still hurts as the oldest daughter but I just have learn to do better then my older family members and call out the bullshit.
The fact that the last time I had watched a gender reveal was people eating cake pops, and a random one had either blue or pink icing. Now I see them, and it’s literally KILLING and injuring nature AND people.
People shouldn't care whether they are having a "boy or girl" with BS gender normative colors. I'm a guy and my FAVORITE color is pink. Always has been. The ONLY thing that should matter to a couple having a child is whether or not it is going to be healthy.
I agree with you. My friend had two miscarriages and a stillborn before she was able to have two beautiful daughters. She and her husband were grateful to have children.
True. I'm a woman and my favorite colour is blue. I don't like the colour choices for the genders as they are too stereotypical, but it's a tradition, it has always been that way and i don't think is changing. I think it's not harmful as long as these gender normatives stay on the cake only.
I'm pretty sure my parents didn't even throw a gender reveal party when they found out I was a boy. I'm sure all they did after hearing this was just be happy and wait until the moment of childbirth; when I was just inches away from being brought into this world. I am just being grateful for that.
Having a child is a blessing and it doesn’t matter whether it’s a boy or a girl its still a blessing and I’ve been trying for two years and it is so aggravating to see people and TikTok getting disappointed over a boy or a girl when some people can’t have neither
I was told that when I wasn't born yet. I was seen to be the opposite sex that apparently they were slightly surprised when I came out. Imagine having a gender reveal party only to find out OOPSE, THAT WAS WRONG XD
My mom didn't even have a gender reveal party. She just gave herself and my brother a pink cupcake. BUT AT LEAST THAT'S BETTER THAN CAUSING A FIRE OR A PLANE CRASH.
2:27 imagine being a kid, find out that someone died at your gender reveal party and you’re parents instead of worrying were just cheering because “im going to buy my baby barbies”
My gender reveal was Harry Potter themed. A pink onesie folded underneath a sorting hat. Wasn’t the coolest thing ever, but it had no effect on the environment. To be completely honest I had no desire for a gender reveal, but my sister really wanted to throw one. I can totally understand the want for gender reveals, but like maybe bake a cake with blue or pink under the frosting you cut into? Or just one of those simple things. The gender of your child should be something to be celebrated yes, but never to such lengths and extremes. The fact that a man lost his life. I don’t care how much money I spent or how excited I was, If i see the plane go down I would be running to see if he was okay, F the gender reveal my baby’s safe inside me, that man in that mechanical death trap is NOT. People’s priorities are absolutely insane.
I'm so glad, my parents never threw those and just smiled in joy realizing our genders. May the people who have been victimized rest a beautiful graceful life in heaven.
I remember being at a gender reveal party before everyone took it too far it was a small party inside the house with family nothing big or life threatening just a small party
My mom didn’t have a gender reveal party for me, but for my brother’s gender reveal she literally ate blue cake and sweets ecc and popped some confetti that was blue. That’s it.
One thing that wasn’t mentioned was that the first gender reveal party happened because the women had so many miscarriages that when she finally got a pregnancy to where she could tell the gender she wanted to celebrate, so it was more of a celebration of life than anything
8:26 i dont think anyone understands that THE DAD IS WEARING PINK…. he wanted a girl while the mother wanted a boy CUZ SHE WAS WEARING A BLUE DRESS, the father kept painting because #1 he has expensive equipment in his hand so he cant break it. the father WANTED a girl while the mom did not, the father should get no hate what so ever
This is absolutely getting out of control! Like you said, what's wrong with a simple cake reveal? Not caring about others getting hurt or dying or even the environment just bugs the hell out of me! Starting a wildfire costing millions? Dyeing a bird pink causing it to die? I have no words.... Love your videos and look forward to each one!
the ones where the dads are so pissed about having a girl is just so fucked. Idk if my dad cared this much (we didn't do gender reveal parties) but they were trying to get a boy, had 6 (or 7 to count out deceased sister, never born). It felt like they were just continously pumpin' out kids to get a boy and were disappointed everytime after like. the first 3 kids were afab. It is not a big deal, i would be so hurt seeing them freak tf out or be so openly disappointed. I am glad they never did these for me to see -_- it would be crushing
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
@@GarudaLegendsThat's the same thing. You don't "have to try again" because you didn't get a boy. It also means the other "tries" were a failure to them. That's pretty disgusting.
@sylverscale stop being dramatic. It is common for many parents to want a son or daughter. If a father wants a son but gets a daughter, he wont hate his daughter or treat them any different than if she was a boy. If i ever have kids i want a son. If i get daughters i wont treat them any different than my son when i finally get a boy. Stop being fake mad for no reason, because it is cringe.
@caitlingill I imagine it may also have to do with the care each gender takes. With a boy they'll generally have to protect him against himself & the weird stuff he may get himself into & otherwise they'll just let him do his own thing, while with a girl she must be protected against the weird things other may try to do to her even into adulthood. (Both things apply to both genders though it's generally disproportionate) Along with dealing with periods (in general as well as in terms of extra costs). I can understand those who just want to experience both sides of parenthood but it is a bit messed-up seeming when they only aimed for one gender & are visibly upset over not getting them.
What also baffles me, is the fact that it is just the gender of your baby! Why is it that the gender of the baby will decide how excited you’ll be to have them? You should love your baby either way!!
Seeing these types of videos of gender reveal parties makes me grateful that my parents were never disappointed about having a boy or a girl, they never cared about whether having a son or a daughter. They're happy with having 2 daughters though they wanted more children but they're still happy with me and my older sister :)
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
My niece (5 at the time) was dressed in a bright summer dress against her will, she kept shouting "I want shorts!" My sister wouldn't change her, UNTIL five minutes later the little princess came into the house with dirt in her hair, and all over her dress, and she had the sweetest grin on her face. My sister wasn't pleased, but after that my niece always seemed to have shorts on. 🤣😂
Yes!! My brother used to wear dresses when he was younger and he has long hair now, i'm a girl and i'm not intrested in makeup and almost never played with barbies
3:40 I think it's a cultural kinda of thing, a lot of Mexicans joke about disturbing topics as a way to cope but they rarely mean it. I think they were actually really fucking scared and they were just taught to joke about stuff of that nature (it's still completely inappropriate to do that don't get me wrong.)
Can confirm, they will joke about anything it's not out of ill intent it's just a coping mechanism. They're the sweetest kindest people I've ever met and they've taught me to not take life so seriously. It does take some getting used to their type of humour and I've been told many times when something was spoken out of turn and I looked horrified that "we're only joking"
Yeah. It’s obviously a VERY different vain than the clip of the people just laughing and continuing to celebrate not acknowledging what has just happened.
The worst part about this, to me, is that the woman who invented gender reveal parties only did so because she had previously had multiple miscarriages, and she wanted to celebrate the fact that one of her babies had survived long enough to the point that its sex could actually be determined. It was purely meant to celebrate life and joy, and people have taken that concept and completely fucking ruined it.
If this is an agreement paper, I'll sign it multiple times. Almost all people on earth went crazy since COVID-19 pandemic. Who invited this extreme level of gender reveal parties (not that woman in 2008, which started this trend; it was purely meant to celebrate life and joy.) should be ashamed.
This
It’s basically people trying to one up each other and see who could have the coolest reveal. When my sister was born, we found out her gender through ultrasound. Afterwards, my mom called everyone up and told them. Gender reveals don’t need to be so extreme.
Aww I never knew that. That's so precious.
That poor lady.....😢 She just wanted to celebrate her baby living long enough in her womb that she could find out the gender....I feel so bad for her.
The worst part about these gender reveal parties is the amount of waste they create and the harm they cause to the enviroment. I wonder how many animals and trees died in the wildfire and how many fish died because of the blue dye. What these people are doing is horrifying.
Edit: Watched more of the video and it just gets worse. The pidgeon dyed pink reminds me of those chicks dyed blue to be sold and die a week later. Absolutely horrible
No, the worst part is that these pilots passed away for no reason.
@buzgucu4594 I was just talking about in a different comment thread the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
like if i have a kid, i just want a simple cake and like those little smoke things at my own house. there’s no need for all of these things!
edit: the little small fireworks smoke balls is what i meant* not those big ones in the video.
@buzgucu4594
Isn't gender reveal only to for pre/newborn babies ?
I mean, a baby doesn't care about the color of his/her reveal and while, yes, pink for a girl and blue for a boy is stereotypical, it's pretty normal to associate these colours for these gender.
After all, we associate white for wedding and black for funerals.
Fr like why can’t people just do a simple cutting cake or popping a balloon?
anyone saying "normalize gender disappointment" should NOT be having children. you're having a child, not buying a pet. you can't pick and choose bro
Not to mention if the child ever finds out one or both their parents were disappointed by their gender that could make them feel less loved or worse
Imagine the child growing up to see the video and sees the parent to be disappointed, just because they weren’t the gender that the parent wanted 😢
@@SnoozleTheWaterWizardyuppp :(
IKR all they need to care about is sharing the fact that they are having a baby with their family members PERIOD.
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
8:34 you can even hear in the background someone say “I wanted it to be a boy” so now the guests are pissed bc the baby isn’t the sex they wanted. Absolutely wild
They're probably just dumb misogynists. 💀
And they said it DUMB LOUD SO EVERYONE COULD HEAR IT
I hate people like that :( they can't accept that the baby is a sex they didn't want, LIKE GROW UP JUST BECAUSE IT'S NOT THE GENDER YOU WANT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GET ALL MAD ABOUT IT
@@Esco_slays FR AND IT WASN'T EVEN THEIR BABY!!
people need to understand the concept of "you get what you get and you dont throw a fit" instead of making these insane parties
Yeah
yooo is that byte from TH
@@Bitter_butter608of course
I think “You get what you get and you don’t get upset” fits better, or it’s just what I’ve heard most of my life
@ same concept tbh
2:23 You can see only five people running to the plane, checking if everything is alright. FIVE FREAKING PEOPLE. While the others are cheering. Thats just sad. May the pilot rest in peace.
I feel bad for that pilot, and his family, all because some dumbass parents wanted to tell everyone about their kid's genitals
RIP😔
Those five ppl are my last hope to humanity
When I first saw the video, I saw the version of the one person that was recording that was actually concerned I never saw the version where the girl turns back like a plane crash. It’s no big deal.
It may look like it’s a graceful crash, but there’s no such thing as a graceful plane crash
And just because it’s a small plane doesn’t mean it’s not going to be bad if they crash it’s actually worse
That's just crazy.
I know everyone is entitled to their own feelings, but something about couples with multiple healthy children being so disappointed with a gender reveal makes me feel a bit sick, knowing how many people struggle to conceive at all or have sick or severely disabled kids. A child's gender seems so trivial compared to any real issues.
When my partner and I found out we were having a daughter, we got multiple remarks from loved ones as well about how much trouble she would be. Some people around us were visibly disappointed. Why does it matter? She is a healthy baby and she's so wanted and loved...
I couldn't agree more.
And why would anyone say something like that to you instead of just being happy for you?
I'm happy for you, stranger. Congratulations! 🎊🎉
As someone that can't get pregnant (I'm not bitter at all... Promise 😊), I feel sad for children with parents that feel the need to be upset bc they couldn't get the gender of choice for their next baby. I'd be happy with one or multiple of the same gender of children. It sounds like a fun way to grow up and less expensive.
Misogyny 💔
@ville__ damn nobody asked for that.
The irony is that the inventor of the gender reveal party (who was briefly mentioned in this video) did it because she was celebrating that her child survived to the point where their gender could be determined. She'd had several miscarriages before then. It's sad that something with such nice intentions has devolved into this mess.
If people are going to be disappointed about having a girl or a boy, they should not have any children at all. Also those mothers whose partners choose to celebrate with their friends, should prepare the divorce, because that's not a healthy relationship.
The place which is infamous of divorce for everything..I think they need to see what they see as red flags
Idiots are not allowed to have babies.
6:48 Is this guy serious? My dad has three daughters. Me and my older and younger sister. Not ONCE has he complained to us wishing he had a son. He loves his kids and even has a shirt that we bought him a few years back saying "You can't scare me, I have daughters" as a joke.
This is disgusting to know that people are genuinely getting disappointed in what gender their child is. GENDER.
Gender doesn't matter when it comes to your children.
Not everyone is the same, some parents dream is to have a boy because of various factors
But of cause is wrong to curse and stuff, he should just pretend for the time being
@@Manuelwww78 It's fine to want a specific gender of child, every parent has had that thought before. But being genuinely upset when you don't get what you want is child-like behavior.
He came into adulthood knowing that no one has control over what gender their child comes out as. So getting pissy over it is disappointing to see a grown man do.
He also doesn't need to pretend. If he genuinely can't bring himself to love a female child then he should leave and not consider becoming a parent
@@cosmic_ghostbruh _childish_ , not _child-like._ Childlike behavior typically includes having a bright imagination, wanting to play with nature and stuff, and so on. It is actually _childish_ behavior that is described as being immature.
It's sad how many fathers get disappointed when they know their child will be a girl, "oh, i won't be able to play football with them and teach them how to fight" as if girls can't do that, it's not 1950 anymore. Honestly, i don't think men like the idea of having a child to love age care for, they love the idea of having a MALE child who can "carry their name" i know there is also mothers who get sad when their child is a boy, but those are pretty rare. Most of the time the man is the one getting triggered because their kid won't have a penis.
And men who actually do say they want a daughter are scrutinized as if that makes them a pervert.
so happy my parents were always thankful for any gender :)
For what it's worth on the "oh I won't be able to teach them how to fight" part, I'm AFAB and partially a girl, my male cousin and I both did karate at some point and only one of us ended up getting our black belt, wanna take a guess as to which one of us it was?
@@aromanticfranziskavonkarma Your cousin?
At this point, gender reveals are starting to become a danger to life.
starting?
@@blackgirlprincess oh wait its not even starting anymore it IS already a danger to life
@ville__wow spam your so much better than actual good TH-camrs
Oh so these people just living their lives and having a good time are a threat to society yet you people harassing them for doing such arent?
@@midnight_x_edits im not harrassing im just saying
I've given birth twice and we went the old school way of revealing the gender. It's when you give birth and the doctor tells you. Easy peasy and no glitter involved.
I don't think it's a old schooled..it's sensible one.. because in old schooled one ,u can able to tell about what gender they will be getting and if there is a girl they would abort it..which make these telling gender banned
Ey, that's what my parents did!
That was my parents they got everything in yellow , white and green and then they found out my gender the day i was born and then came the pink stuff.
How it should've always been
@@Tigressvanah02yeah, like all knitted blankets I got were purple/yellow
BYE WTF IS UP W THESE PARENTS 😭 DO NOT TRUST THESE PPL W CHILDREN…
The child will grow up as iPad kid
@@Jak2617-yn9lo fr lmfao 😭🙏
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
@@caitlingill so true!
@@caitlingillI love you for stating facts.🔥🔥🔥
For those wondering the waterfall couple a realitive of theirs was fined about $1933 for environmental damages. Thankfully the chemical they used did not change the physical property of the water or harm the wildlife. They used the blue dye swimming pools use to dye the water blue. Only the realitive was charged as the couple apparently had no idea their realtive was going to do this (or so they claim.)
Imagine being born and finding out your existence into this world is the reason why a huge forest fire happened 💀
I’d feel so bad
@@njeljammal8146 I'd be so mad at my parents
Yeah literally
He or she will find out first day of school too😂😂😂
September 15 was my birthday and that year my family wanted to visit Sequoia national park but we couldn’t cause the Forrest was on fire at least now I know the cause.
my mom didn't even gaf about my gender, she was just like "wow, baby" and never even hosted a gender reveal party because she thought it was a waste of money and that it was useless 💀
LMAO 'wow, baby'
'oh yes this thing came out of me thats nice'
SAME THOO
My dad just wanted to throw me in the garbage when I was born.
OH-💀💀@@CodeDusq1
Ya moms and dad were steel back then. You get what you get
It is insane how people are losing their lives over these parents need for attention
Mostly Americans. Disgusting.
Cuz they think their baby is so important but they’re no
There are so many innocent souls. 😢
@ville__ Already seen that on another channel. one button wont do anything to me
@@victoriapawlicki3341their baby is important, but there’s better ways to show it
These gender reveal parties should become a relationship test: if your significant other acts disappointed by the thought of the baby having a different gender than the one they desired, or if your significant other prioritieses their friends over you, then it’s time to pack your bags.
Oh yeah. Right before the baby daddy stays in your life.
@@qwmx the test is real but it's way too late unfortunately
I’m not getting pregnant to test our partners. We should do other things than getting pregnant to test them.
Funny how the ones who care about the kids sex more is actually the moms. There would be a lot more single moms if men actally did what you said.
Seriously. I'm 9mo pregnant with my 2nd girl and if my partner had reacted like these guys I'd literally be broken up with him. So gross.
I absolutely LOVE how hayley is SO passionate with these videos. its absolutely horrible about the neglect that follows these sorts of situations, but like every video, she doesn't suppress her emotions and if they viewer doesn't understand the logical side of things, she MAKES them understand after a 8-14 minute long video. Outstanding!!
I have a son and daughter. My son was the first born and it didn’t matter whether it was a boy or a girl bc I was just lucky to get pregnant after having ovarian cancer at 17 and told time and time again I would never have children.
i really do think these people should be held accountable in the legal sense, i think they also should pay for reperations for anyone harmed or anything damaged during a gender reveal. im so tired of the human race.
I went to a home gender reveal party (uk), and it was actually simple. My aunt and uncle had a balloon they'd pop, and me and my grandad had these things that shot confetti when you twisted them. It wasnt overboard like these ones. There wasnt any gender dissappintment. People can just be normal, so why dont they?
@ville__ why did you curse me? Not a bro moment
@ville__ It's a hoax. We all know, boohoo, I'm so scared.
@ville__I’ve seen this comment millions of times and I’m still here
To those who believe this, please don’t. You’ll live I promise 😭
gender reveal parties don't need to exist. Its gay.
It's basically the escalation of coolness.
To add it up with Funkyfrogbait's most recent video about gender-reveal parties, this world's humans' obsession with their future-offspring's gender is insane and dangerous. People who make too big a deal over their child's gender at birth should neither biologically nor adoption-wise have children or non-human companions.
Yeah I saw that video too. It's kinda disgusting how these kinds of parents react when they don't get the gender they wanted. That's just a recipe for parental neglect or worse, abuse.
It is deeply concerning, especially since young boys are internalizing misogyny spread by manosphere podcast bros
How anyone can be so obsessed with the genitals of their unborn baby is beyond me.
Humans are way more complex than girl = pink and dolls/boy = blue and cars.
What happens if their kid is intersex? Or later turns out to be trans?
Can't people just be happy if they are lucky to have a healthy child?
@xxstroyer yeah ive seen them and most of what they say is not fact it's mostly just biased usually very rude and sexist ideologies, i see more men than women podcasts but there's almost seem to be just as bad, just wish people would hold hands and sing Kumbaya, that's what id do if i had control over everythin, people hating to hate drives me crazy
@@sylverscale Corrections- 1. If the child is trans, the child is trans. That happens later in life, there's no need to worry about it when they haven't been born.
2. Pink/Blue are just colors associated with those things, not hard requirements. I've never seem someone complain that black is associated with death or evil while white with love/life, for example.
2:11 did you people know that babies' heating abilities can already be damaged in the womb? And that they already can be frightened from sudden loud noises or screaming while in the womb?
Isn't it a great idea to do such a loud gender reveal party then?
Bro I swear to god everyone who celebrates a gender reveal deserves their kid to get their hands on SCP-113 if it was real or come in contact with SCP-6113 if it also was real.
That's true. I had new flooring put in at 8 months and my baby definitely freaked out with loud sounds
Our gender reveal parties where cool. They were in the hospital, directly after the delivery. I can't think of anything better than that.
The thing is... whether it's a boy or a girl DOES NOT matter. The gender of the baby doesn't determine their whole life nor their personality. It's A BABY. You can still have just as much happy memories with a boy than you can with a girl. It does not matter!!
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
The kid who the gender reveal was invented for is gender non-conforming. You can't make that shit up.
It does not matter? Well let me introduce you to the concept of gender and marriage😮 shocking right?
@@Waskotorowy ya never know, the possibility of even getting married isn't guaranteed.
We overlook a park. One day I heard what sounded like a fun, looked out the window to see pink smoke rising in the air with a group "Nóooooooooooooo!" People were covering their faces, kids running around shaking fists and the look of disappointment on every face except the weeping pregnant woman. I couldn't help yelling out the window "Woo hoo!!! The world needs more women, you go girl!"
You were probably the only person to congratulate her that day, good on you for trying when others won't.
I would say something along the lines of an OG Dick Masterson quote as a joke, but then I realized there’s a Boy Mom epidemic, so I’ll shut the fuck up.
I would say an OG Dick Masterson quote as a joke, but then I realized there’s a Boy Mom epidemic.
@@DanialTarki🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@DanialTarki🤡🤡🤡🤡
idk I'm not American and I find a concept of a gender-reveal party to be very sweet. BUT! I imagine it to be a little homeparty with relatives and maybe little treats with pink/blue colours or a little funny competition. And I think that the whole point of those parties should be a reason to get together and celebrate the miracle of giving new life independently of gender 🥺 Also, I think that mothers reeeally need to see support and care and it is a nice way to show it
I m not American and I find this parties totally narrow minded..in one side playing human equality sh*t and then doing such things only to be disappointed
I'm American and I'm glad none of my parents did anything like this. To be honest, I think they're totally useless.
I remember one of my elementary teachers was pregnant and would sometimes give us updates on the baby's size. She also put on a mini-party towards the end of the year that was just a fun little reveal since we were all curious. We got blue candy canes and vanilla cupcakes with blue icing, and that was pretty much it. It was fun.
For us people usually mash together the baby shower and the gender reveal, "we're having a kid, the gender is inside the cupcakes, please for the love of god give us your old baby clothes" 🤣
@@naolucillerandom5280 I read that as "we're having a kid, the gender is the cupcakes," 💀💀💀💀
When my parents wanted to know my gender, they just opened an envelope given by the doctor.
same bro-
atleast no casualties
5:14 whoever was recording and or said to take the baby has my full respect as that baby was most likely suffocating before anyone else…. What is wrong with these people making gender reveals…
My friends just had a joint birthday/gender reveal. It was just a nice simple event that was mainly to let close friends and family about the new baby and celebrate a birthday at the same time. They had stickers for people to choose team boy or team girl, then later in the evening they pulled a small hand-held confetti-cannon and cut into a cake. Nothing left the event space and it was an easy clean-up. Honestly the worst part of the event was the fact the restaurant messed up the food lol. I can appreciate these kind of gender reveals because it's on such a small scale and really just a get-together with a theme. These crazy over-the-top stunts are just ridiculous.
I chose not to find out with either of my 2. There was nothing that could take that moment from me. Seconds after birth I took my newborn in my arms and the midwife said "Look and see what you've got". It was a beautiful, magical personal moment. Nobody got hurt, died or trashed the environment.
Kinder surprise. 😂
But no, that's really sweet. Congratulations! ❤️
@@sylverscale KNDER SURPIRSE LMAOOO HEHEHJAHEJ
Yesss! I did this with my second (last) child. And I wish I had done it with my first. The experience and suprise was so fun! Made for a fun game at my baby shower where everyone voted what they thought the gender was by wearing a pink or blue clothes pin. It was cute and fun. And the day my daughter was born, I remember just holding my tint baby on my chest and crying. And since I pulled her out myself, no one knew the gender for a moment. She just laid on my chest until everyone in the room was like "WHAT IS IT??" And couldn't wait any longer. I just said "IT is MY baby and I don't care" lol. I eventually looked after a minute or so. I just wanted to snuggle her...
@@sylverscale"kinder" means Kids/children in German.
A gender reveal party is when you cut a cake and see blue or pink not cutting down trees and fireworks everywhere 😍😀
fr
I like that idea
:( people have no regard for nature
why those colours im a girl and i hate pink and black is my favourite colour
Or you pop a balloon with some confetti inside
This is what my parents did
Cupcakes, plain and simple
THATS IT
NO FLAMING FIREWORKS, OR SACRIFICING ANIMALS
Thank you for your time 😊😊😊
After hearing about all of these. I changed my mind. Not about having kids. I STILL DO want kids. Just about the gender reveal parties.
WHY DO YOU NEED TO RENT PLANES FOR GENDER REVEAL PARTIES like OMG
@ville__ K
@ville__Bullshit
@ville__uno reverse
Gender reveal parties are not a thing here in Malaysia, and I am absolutely grateful for that. I can't imagine all the crazy things some people here would do if it was a thing. But after looking at this video, I think we aren't as insane as we thought.
Lucky
Right, our government is kinda suck but yeah, we should be grateful living in here, without stupid chaos caused by small things.
For my gender reveal party I would
1. Bake a cake
2. Food color the cake blue or pink and white frosting
3. Invite people over to eat cake
That can literally be it. It doesn’t need to involve explosives or try to one up others. Just be with your family. That’s what it should be about.
UH HUH except I'd add games for lil kids n ya know the fun
AGREEDD, why tf do these parents think it’s all about flexxing instead of just love and wishes for a healthy pregnancy. This is supposed to be an event for you and your family/community not social media 🤦
That sounds like the original gender reveal including cake pops I think
And many people just used balloons with colored confetti and food
But how did it become this
For my gender reveal party I would:
1. Not host a gender reveal party.
I'd do what one of my cousins did. Fill a pinata with blue or pink candy.
my gender reveal party was literally just my mom and dad visiting our relatives calmly saying “it’s a girl!”. our celebration? a house party with food. A LOT of food. it was a tiny house party in a tiny apartment complex. it was also only filled with women.
I have a boy and a girl. Our “reveal” was the ultrasound. We called our parents after. No stupid party involved. Honestly, I didn’t really process it at that point that I’m really glad it was never taped. I didn’t get excited until they were there because I very anxious with both pregnancies.
I had a baby shower with the first child and went garage sell shopping with the second. Both are teenagers, so I think it turned out fine.
my family’s gender reveal party is just sending the members the baby’s gender in text apps and that’s it. 😅 we celebrated when the mother was actually pregnant.
i don’t mind gender reveal parties, they can be fun. but please for the love of every holy deity and textbook don’t make them as risky as whatever this people were doing.
@ville__ Babe im pregnant
I'm pregnant with my third currently but during my first pregnancy the girls at the office threw me a gender reveal, we had a simple cake that I cut into and the color inside the cake was the reveal as well as a pamper party which I thoroughly enjoyed. My boss spent a pretty penny to treat us all to a nice BBQ lunch as well. I'm thankful I did it but I only did it during my first pregnancy because I was surrounded by women who were older and involved with in my business as they witnessed the whole three trimesters lol.
That's definitely the kind of gender reveal I'd prefer, also congratulations with your third baby🥺🫶
Congratulations🎉
I hope God will give you an amazing child
These parties are stupid. I would’ve said no. Especially if it’s nobody’s business
@anongirl1874 Thank you so much, I appreciate all the well wishes. Thank you guys!
7:16 cursing because your child is a girl is absolutely ridiculous. Not to mention he’s doing that in front of his already existing children!
He wanted a boy because he he’d two girls already
Probably cuz the girls are annoying
@@chrisgomez1262 that's not a good excuse.
@@chrisgomez1262my grandparents tried for a girl till they 8 boys.😂
@@chrisgomez1262 well, can't you just be grateful what you have? We can't pick or chose what gender we want, it depends on the sperm (Y/X). Be grateful, because there are couple that has been trying to have a child for years, and then these fathers/mothers aren't just grateful.
8:56 The wife looks so fed up
I remember going to my baby cousin’s gender reveal party. You know what it was? Cake. Just blue cakes that they brought out when the time was right. It was simple and we all loved it.
My other uncle’s girlfriend just went on Facebook to announce his baby’s gender and was like “Yeah we’re having a boy”. Again, no environmental damage. Why do people have to go so overboard for a gender reveal…?
the video with the pilot made my heart drop thats so sad...and people were cheering and didnt even seem to notice
Just imagine the horror these future children will experience when they find out that their gender reveal party killed people
i can also imagine them confronting their parents about that gender reveal party
I would have been furious at my parents. Thankfully my parents would never organize anything that killed people.
Honestly I would run for the hills
I never thought I'd be glad I grew up poor. But I am glad my parents were too poor to do shit like this. (Because they are tacky people, they probably would if they could.)
If i foud out that the revelation pf my gender caused a forest fire id just die of embarrasment
I don’t get why it’s so difficult for these parents to just order a cake with coloured frosting inside, or getting a balloon filled with coloured confetti. You still get to find out in a fun way and it doesn’t hurt anyone.
You're right
Maybe not the confetti one, many of them don’t clean up after popping it
@@Gnexz.Well if it’s done indoors where they can clean it, it’s just find!
If I'm ever pregnant, I would want to know the gender immediately but might buy neutral clothes. Not going to throw a baby shower. I'm pretty sure I'll be considered high risk so don't want to get excited in case of miscarriage
It wouldn't look as good on Instagram.
The biggest gender reveal I’ve ever seen was. A balloon popping, and either blue or pink, giant, easy to be cleaned confetti coming out
3:37 oh, that’s not a joke. That’s sickening.
what the hell. Why did someone say that. That is disgusting
it’s Mexican humor you wouldn’t understand 🙄
It’s like who needs to go through so much to reveal the baby’s gender and put people’s lives at risk when you can simply share the news over a nice meal or a phone call, or just keep it a surprise until the baby is born.
I cake. A simple cake with food coloring. Classic. Also saw one with cupcakes that was adorable, but you always have the one-biter that might forget what they’re there for. 😂
5:49 bro this couldve been done so cute AND eco friendly, get some pink wildflowers or blue wildflowers or buy some white flowers and dye them to blue or pink with food safe color in their water. Then find one of those balloons that won't pop into a bunch of pieces but will stay in one piece of plastic to clean up so it wont fall in the water, and fill it with petals instead of glitter or paper or plastic pieces like ...
For my gender reveal, i hid in a bush and had my husband do a countdown (3, 2, 1) and i popped out of the bush with a pink shirt. We all had so much fun WITHOUT killing anyone.
2:29 in the background for a split second, you could see ONE person running over to help. ONE PERSON.
I'm so glad you spoke about this. I was watching TH-cam shorts and was horrified to see a big plane with loads of pink smoke for gender reveal it's just not needed I think cutting into a coloured cake or something is just fine people go to far .
Omg the waterfall makes me want to cry! I found out both my kids gender at the ultrasound, then text the ppl who would care.. these stupid reveals have been spinning put for the last decade plus. So crazy
OK I got to all the deaths , holy ish 😮 they really didn't care when those planes went down! 😢
ok but seriously, rip that guy at 2:20 🕊️ hes in a better place now and probably x20 happier i hope
@sunnytsuu I know, I'm sorry. I know it's a bot, I just felt like speaking up because there's a time and a place to promote yourself, and under a comment mourning someone's death isn't one of them.
@sunnytsuu But yeah, I'll delete the comment.
@ville__ it's disgusting using death to begging for likes
@JulianAlonsoCoya What did it even say?
@@bealea1127 transate it , but no un google translate
7:02 He only has to blame himself because the gender depends on the man, not the woman.
does it? i didnt know that (im dumb)
@@addictedmelanie_fanaccountit does💀😅
Yeah it’s something to do with the X chromosomes and the Y chromosomes
Personally, I think a gender reveal party is cute if it’s just like a backyard barbecue and popping a balloon, but any more than that is crazy to me.
Omg I love in the States and cant sleep, I'm so happy you uploaded! I hope you and everyone who reads this has a wonderful day!
Thank you ^0^
You too
thankssss
Sameee
Another one, eh?
I'm in the same boat, insomnia sucks! Hope you can fall asleep soon and have a good day too!!
my best friend is 8 months pregnant right now and her gender reveal was: her and her bf went to get a set of boy baby clothes and a set of girl baby clothes from the store, he knew which she was having before she did, picked the corresponding outfit and put it in a gift bag for her to open. they both decided on this together, I watched from facetime too and we all laughed a lot and got very excited and had a joyful time. when you don’t crave attention from the whole world memories are made safely :’) idk what these ppl are on about
30 years ago, I was pregnant. Due to some medical issues, I needed an amniocentesis and I went to a specialist for it. I was asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby and we said no. We loved waiting and finding out on the day he was born!
❤❤
8:57 CANT YOU JUST TO BE HAPPY YOUR HAVING A CHILD. YOUR BRINGING LIFE IN THIS WORLD BE HAPPY FOR THAT
1:47 OMG OFF TOPIC BUT I HAVE THIS BARBIE
OMG I HAD ONE EXACTLY THOSE COLORS AS A MERMAID🫢🫢🫢
SAME LOLL
When my mother was pregnant with me, she didn't have any gender reveal party, she knew already what gender she's getting. These people are polluting the earth way more. It's heartbreaking.
8:15 the dad to be right here makes me laugh because it's so awkward he doesn't know what to do so he just keeps on painting 😭😭
I would get up and join him. I’d feel so bad!
As someone who has a mom who said she never wanted girls and ended up having 2 daughters after she had a boy (my older brother)
… yeah let’s just say my older brother is the favorite child.
I know my mom loves me but every time she brings up How she never wanted girls because they are “too much” really tells me a lot about how my parents just should of never had more kids if they couldn’t handle the idea of having daughters.
I'm so sorry for that. I know how it must feel. I remember a conversation came up about what our mom thought when she was pregnant with each one of us. My two brothers all she could say was how happy and excited she was. For me the only girl all she could talk about was how it would be great to finally have someone help her around the house and do all the chores.
It’s all good! I think our parents just don’t know better. It still hurts as the oldest daughter but I just have learn to do better then my older family members and call out the bullshit.
@@yenfr5306 It's just disgusting how parents treat their daughters like personal maid, just because of gender😢
The fact that the last time I had watched a gender reveal was people eating cake pops, and a random one had either blue or pink icing. Now I see them, and it’s literally KILLING and injuring nature AND people.
If I was at those gender reveal parties I would say “you’re not fu.cking special 385,000 people give birth everyday”
my soul woke up after this video, thanks Hayley.
5:18 The fact that it sounded like people were LAUGHING is absurd 😦
Poppy playtime chapter 3
@@tjautomatin4145 What
@@raulandfriends130 hes just some kid
People shouldn't care whether they are having a "boy or girl" with BS gender normative colors. I'm a guy and my FAVORITE color is pink. Always has been. The ONLY thing that should matter to a couple having a child is whether or not it is going to be healthy.
I agree with you. My friend had two miscarriages and a stillborn before she was able to have two beautiful daughters. She and her husband were grateful to have children.
True. I'm a woman and my favorite colour is blue. I don't like the colour choices for the genders as they are too stereotypical, but it's a tradition, it has always been that way and i don't think is changing. I think it's not harmful as long as these gender normatives stay on the cake only.
I'm pretty sure my parents didn't even throw a gender reveal party when they found out I was a boy. I'm sure all they did after hearing this was just be happy and wait until the moment of childbirth; when I was just inches away from being brought into this world. I am just being grateful for that.
Imagine your parents telling you that because of your gender reveal party people died!
Having a child is a blessing and it doesn’t matter whether it’s a boy or a girl its still a blessing and I’ve been trying for two years and it is so aggravating to see people and TikTok getting disappointed over a boy or a girl when some people can’t have neither
Right, always be grateful when you have children, no matter what gender they are. There are couples who couldn't have one.
I was told that when I wasn't born yet. I was seen to be the opposite sex that apparently they were slightly surprised when I came out. Imagine having a gender reveal party only to find out OOPSE, THAT WAS WRONG XD
Cute pfp
@@yourtrashtalkingbro9118 THANKS, it was a gift someone made me for my birthday, years ago.
On a positive note, I LOVE that hoodie you’re wearing!
My mom didn't even have a gender reveal party. She just gave herself and my brother a pink cupcake. BUT AT LEAST THAT'S BETTER THAN CAUSING A FIRE OR A PLANE CRASH.
2:27 imagine being a kid, find out that someone died at your gender reveal party and you’re parents instead of worrying were just cheering because “im going to buy my baby barbies”
My gender reveal was Harry Potter themed. A pink onesie folded underneath a sorting hat. Wasn’t the coolest thing ever, but it had no effect on the environment. To be completely honest I had no desire for a gender reveal, but my sister really wanted to throw one. I can totally understand the want for gender reveals, but like maybe bake a cake with blue or pink under the frosting you cut into? Or just one of those simple things. The gender of your child should be something to be celebrated yes, but never to such lengths and extremes. The fact that a man lost his life. I don’t care how much money I spent or how excited I was, If i see the plane go down I would be running to see if he was okay, F the gender reveal my baby’s safe inside me, that man in that mechanical death trap is NOT. People’s priorities are absolutely insane.
I'm so glad, my parents never threw those and just smiled in joy realizing our genders.
May the people who have been victimized rest a beautiful graceful life in heaven.
bring back the white cakes with the pink or blue icing bruh 😭
Exactly.
I remember being at a gender reveal party before everyone took it too far it was a small party inside the house with family nothing big or life threatening just a small party
My mom didn’t have a gender reveal party for me, but for my brother’s gender reveal she literally ate blue cake and sweets ecc and popped some confetti that was blue. That’s it.
One thing that wasn’t mentioned was that the first gender reveal party happened because the women had so many miscarriages that when she finally got a pregnancy to where she could tell the gender she wanted to celebrate, so it was more of a celebration of life than anything
5:40 they could've used pink rose petals to replace the confetti. At least that wouldve been biodegradable
It would look a lot more beautiful
6:57 a TH-camr called funkyfrogbait said this guy is in his henry the eigth era
😂
We Stan funky frog.
Bro I love ffb
Furry hi
9:11 NOT THEM HANDING *HER* THE PHONE TO TAKE PICTURES OF *THEM*
EXACTLY, LIKE ITS NOT COMING OUT OF THE MANS ASS
4:21 IS LIKE A HYDROGEN BOMB VS A COUGHING BABY
8:26 i dont think anyone understands that THE DAD IS WEARING PINK…. he wanted a girl while the mother wanted a boy CUZ SHE WAS WEARING A BLUE DRESS, the father kept painting because #1 he has expensive equipment in his hand so he cant break it. the father WANTED a girl while the mom did not, the father should get no hate what so ever
They just wanna assume to make their arguments “better”
This is absolutely getting out of control! Like you said, what's wrong with a simple cake reveal? Not caring about others getting hurt or dying or even the environment just bugs the hell out of me! Starting a wildfire costing millions? Dyeing a bird pink causing it to die? I have no words....
Love your videos and look forward to each one!
the ones where the dads are so pissed about having a girl is just so fucked. Idk if my dad cared this much (we didn't do gender reveal parties) but they were trying to get a boy, had 6 (or 7 to count out deceased sister, never born). It felt like they were just continously pumpin' out kids to get a boy and were disappointed everytime after like. the first 3 kids were afab. It is not a big deal, i would be so hurt seeing them freak tf out or be so openly disappointed. I am glad they never did these for me to see -_- it would be crushing
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
It is actually common. They just are mad because they have to try again and not because the baby is a girl.
@@GarudaLegendsThat's the same thing. You don't "have to try again" because you didn't get a boy. It also means the other "tries" were a failure to them.
That's pretty disgusting.
@sylverscale stop being dramatic. It is common for many parents to want a son or daughter. If a father wants a son but gets a daughter, he wont hate his daughter or treat them any different than if she was a boy.
If i ever have kids i want a son. If i get daughters i wont treat them any different than my son when i finally get a boy. Stop being fake mad for no reason, because it is cringe.
@caitlingill I imagine it may also have to do with the care each gender takes. With a boy they'll generally have to protect him against himself & the weird stuff he may get himself into & otherwise they'll just let him do his own thing, while with a girl she must be protected against the weird things other may try to do to her even into adulthood. (Both things apply to both genders though it's generally disproportionate) Along with dealing with periods (in general as well as in terms of extra costs).
I can understand those who just want to experience both sides of parenthood but it is a bit messed-up seeming when they only aimed for one gender & are visibly upset over not getting them.
What also baffles me, is the fact that it is just the gender of your baby! Why is it that the gender of the baby will decide how excited you’ll be to have them? You should love your baby either way!!
Seeing these types of videos of gender reveal parties makes me grateful that my parents were never disappointed about having a boy or a girl, they never cared about whether having a son or a daughter. They're happy with having 2 daughters though they wanted more children but they're still happy with me and my older sister :)
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
Agreed. Our society isn’t black and white
My niece (5 at the time) was dressed in a bright summer dress against her will, she kept shouting "I want shorts!" My sister wouldn't change her, UNTIL five minutes later the little princess came into the house with dirt in her hair, and all over her dress, and she had the sweetest grin on her face. My sister wasn't pleased, but after that my niece always seemed to have shorts on. 🤣😂
Yes!! My brother used to wear dresses when he was younger and he has long hair now, i'm a girl and i'm not intrested in makeup and almost never played with barbies
@@Olgabceot I agree. It’s insane how the gender reveal parties are insane
3:40 I think it's a cultural kinda of thing, a lot of Mexicans joke about disturbing topics as a way to cope but they rarely mean it. I think they were actually really fucking scared and they were just taught to joke about stuff of that nature (it's still completely inappropriate to do that don't get me wrong.)
Can confirm, they will joke about anything it's not out of ill intent it's just a coping mechanism. They're the sweetest kindest people I've ever met and they've taught me to not take life so seriously. It does take some getting used to their type of humour and I've been told many times when something was spoken out of turn and I looked horrified that "we're only joking"
Yeah, ours are the same.
Can confirm this. Major coping mechanism.
Regardless of race some people will laugh out of nerves or anxiety so it may be a similar coping mechanism
Yeah. It’s obviously a VERY different vain than the clip of the people just laughing and continuing to celebrate not acknowledging what has just happened.
DYING!?!💀 my jaw actually dropped
Nice language dad- I bet the 2 daughters feel really great now.
my Dad didn't give a fuck if I'm a Girl or a Boy. He said once: it's my kid.