Black Love Live | Getting Through Infidelity
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- When ‘broken’ meets ‘broken’ it can affect everything surrounding it. "Hurt people, hurt people," and when the game starts it can be difficult to put it on pause. On this clip of Black Love Live we sit with couple Alicia & Todd to hear what it took to get to the core of their issues and turn their mess into a ministry. Have you dealt through infidelity? What's one thing you wish someone would have told you about it?
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I hope they stay together so that the rest of us remain a little safer
😆 Fix it Jesus. Jokes aside them just seeing it as something they had to get through and not a disaster of a marriage is what is most concerning. We made it through it!!! But at what cost? 🥴 would either of them want their children or other loved ones to endure decades of relationship trauma and stds because you know there were std’s and pregnancy scares and everything else that comes with cheating especially multiple times.
😂😂😂😂 right because we would be in trouble.
I’m glad they went through it and got it right…. Restoration is beautiful.
I was watching like “struggle love.. 🤦🏾♂️ “…. Like its not a badge of honor to destroy your marriage and rebuild it
@@MaroonTiger true but this was their story and it can help someone who is struggling…and Also teach those who don’t want to struggle
Sorry...know your worth. I will always love myself more than waking up to a cheater everyday. My vaginal and mental health are worthy of so much more
Exactly. My husband would have been divorced. I told him before we were married. I am not to be messed with.
Men always leave women if they cheat, so why are we staying?
@Elyse George That could be America?
I'm Jamaican so that statement is way off from I'm used to.
Our men provide and take care of their families. The F**k boys don't, that's why you stay away from them.
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Preach!
@@Perfeccionista89 Preach!
A councillor slept with my husband. She told him to take out an injunction on me in order to have my house, which I solely purchased. I divorced him and they only lasted 3mths, where we were married for 14 yrs.
Be wise, check if your councillor has marital issues before sharing your story.
Roseann Dunkley Well Damn! My sincerest apologies that’s fucked up
Sounds like malpractice to me. She should be sued.
Roseann Dunkley and I’m sure he came running back to you.
Jesus !!!
Wow I'm learning that most of the counseling, therapist need therapy themselves 😩😩
I wish this couple would stop being featured on these Black Love channels. A woman was literally murdered as a result of an affair he had. Their marriage has bodies and negative energy.
Oh my! That's terrible! What woman?
That's why I'm confused as to why people are trying to justify this. Someone died. At the hands of infidelity. They should have separated.
Shit the mistress and the person coming to help them. Damn this is sad all around. Talking about “I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy” but you put your WIFE through this!
Yeah that’s true, and then the Good Samaritan died too. This story is heartbreaking
Yes, this is nothing to be proud about. These people are not superstars! Make it stop! Cheaters, murder, death and arson. Smh. Stop the struggle love!
Do people go to counseling before marriage cause we need to make that the norm.😒
A lot of catholic and Christian couples go to counseling before getting married. But unfortunately no one is ever TRULY ready for marriage.
Yep my husband and I did pre-engagement and premarital counseling. Extremely beneficial. It matters who you do it with as well. We did our counseling with couples in the church who had been married a while. One couple about 30 years and they other almost 50 years
I peep that flag🤗🇧🇸
They should and some churches or pastors require it.
@@lsucollegelife ayyyyyyyy🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸
Yhoo guys!! Normalise going to therapy, healing, helping your own self BEFORE going into a relationship. Cheating should not be something you get used to, can we start building healthy relationships?!!!
No one wants to do the self work just get into a relationship so they aren’t alone.
Lmao "My mom died so I'm gonna be so toxic,disrespectful and cheat on my my wife"
exactly lol. What a joke. the pain wives go through smh.
Why do these black love shows keep popping up and the common theme is the man keeps cheating and the woman stays ,
Then 10-20 years later they worked it out? Can we see some where the men don’t cheat otherwise I’ll pass.
Eish 😥
Exactly. I'm tired of being told to expect struggle love. This is nothing but narcissism and Codependency
YESSS!! I think people are already aware that marriage/relationships are "hard." Cheating and struggle relationships are already rampant in the community. So, people actually need GOOD examples to aspire to.
Thank you for saying it! One more time for the people in the back! Cheating is serious! Especially if you watch your best friend die of brain lesions caused by Aids because her husband liked hookers. Church people too. They always want to talk about God being the reason they stay. I’m pretty sure God didn’t want your spouse tippin out in the first place. These conversations keep some people in bondage because they think they’ve failed God because they don’t want to stay when in reality it is the cheating spouses failure.
Polka Dotte And Glitter Spots right! Terrible ! That’s how I look at it , a cheating man could cost you your life and in our community it seems as if it’s the most normal thing to get over it. I don’t get it. And it’s usually happens to most loyal and “god fearing “ type of women too.
So y'all were both trying to fill voids and had a toxic relationship of which a person lost her life due to infidelity? Wow...
"he has had a lot of affairs" ...are we just gonna.... hell no
No respect for this foolishness
I appreciate them even willing to get up here and share their story/testimony with the world. You never know what couples go through behind closed doors. I think every one is always so focused on thinking marriage is supposed to be perfect 24/7 365 days a year. It isn’t always rainbows and sunshine. Don’t judge this couple and further more be careful saying it could never be you because it honestly could be you one day.
They are telling their story so others won't make the same mistakes....these comments 🙄 I don't get how some people feel they're promoting toxicity. This is their story and it's TRUE when you're broken, you attract broken. Heal yourself first.❤💯
This is so damn toxic can they please stop portraying struggle love relationships as normal because this nonsense is not Ok!! and I do not want black women thinking this is what you have to deal with in order to have a man. No!!!! Ladies always remember "You should never have to suffer in order to receive love" If a man disrespects you or harm you leave they ass immediately and find someone else. You can do bad all by yourself.
You know this is real life. A lot of married couples cheat on each other, damage other people and then get back together like nothing ever happened. IDK what to think about marriage. I NEVER want to get married and go through infidelity. I hope my man has done whatever he needed to before he even meets me. PERIOD!!!!!
That's unrealistic
@Chanel Wafuana theres infidelity in EVERY relationship. You don't know what your partner is doing when they're not with you. No relationship is perfect. Sorry but the Cinderella story doesn't exist in real life.
@@lilouliving NO. infidelity is NOT present in every relationship. Some people don't cheat at all.
@@PHE-nomenon yeah okay if you say so
@Bari Vule no but you did
That man is demonic, if this is black love I don’t want it.
exactly
🤦♀️ smh they got it right….. that’s the beauty in it. LISTEN and LEARN instead of digging up evil that he did in his past. He is beyond it and sharing is mishaps with others to help them. If you can’t benefit from it then keep it to yourself and allow others to get help.
"Broken meets Broken" then, you have broken this, that and the other. That's a word sis. I thank them for their honesty. I take age and family background into consideration. I heard growth and *God* . They'll be blessed
The men do it because they know we won't leave. See that big beautiful house? She can't afford that on her own plus when your over 40 or 50 it will be harder to find a mate. 50 old men WILL always find another desperate woman. There's lots of them
You said a mouthful, preach!
I feel as adults me and my husband sat down and was 100% honest with each other. How he felt how I felt. And we with the help of God we made it through and are happy 17 years in.
Toxic marriage. She should have left you. This type of mess is not good. It’s tragic. I reject this...
I think he cheated too
That why u still single
something wrong with them
@@biv1174Because she doesn't want to be cheated on?
Lmao This goofy ish. Bw please leave once the loyalty is shown to be false. We are free !!
Black love and infidelity in the same sentence? Can you block and delete a whole channel?
Thank you. This mess is what keeps people in bondage. This is nothing to look up to.
This is why I don’t watch any of it, it’s literally all the same
Did you listen to their story? Marriages are not perfect you go through stuff.
Angela's Travel Adventures yeah but why does it always have to be a ton of cheating as the stuff they are went through . Cheating can affect peoples lives and it’s usually women disproportionately being affected. No thanks!
@@AngelasTravelAdventures Yes, you go through stuff. You get sick, or lose loved ones. You lose jobs. You get in accidents, kids get sick or have behavior issues. You lose patience and can argue. Those are the things you go through in a marriage and should overcome. Cheating is a straight up deal breaker no one should ever tolerate.
I'm myself dealt with infidelity in my 13yr marriage (currently going through a divorce) during my self healing I realized that we were 2 broken people. I tried to swept my hurt under the rug & my ex acted his out (I'm an introvert he's a extrovert). I didnt realize but I was trying to be everything for him while giving myself nothing. He's a marine so catering to him and his career I got didnt recognize myself I had no identity. Once I started working the infedility continued it became a norm. But we all have that breaking point and it was then that I realized I couldnt continue down this path & grow. I took 2yrs to dig in that nasty suppressed pit, acknowledge my pain, validate it, heal (from marriage & childhood traumas), forgive and release. Though this is a transition (I've been with him since I was 16 am now 33) I know that I will be just fine. I have since met a beautiful being. And the difference now, is that the bag lady I use to be is no longer weighing me down. I wish healing and immense blessings to you all!!!
I think it's so important to hear/ see these stories. Marriage is not easy, we need guidance and support and when you don't have what you need within your circle its okay to look for what you need from professionals.
Toxic culture will say YOURE wrong for being upset/judge mental with this mess. Demand better!!!
I don't think this couple is saying that it's okay to go through a toxic relationship. They made it known how it destroyed their lives. They are speaking on healing and growth. There are a lot of toxic couples out there that don't know how to turn things around for the better. This relationship gives someone hope if both parties in the relationship are willing to work through it. But no one should allow anyone to mistreat them. That's not the message that is being given. If the rest of us were perfect, then we wouldn't need a Savior.
As a certified faith based clinical therapist, I hope to see more couples like this. Usually, the couples I have met can't get passed the idea that the infidelity is a symptom of a much deeper issue and those who do get that are fearful to go that deep. As counselor of any kind, it's our job to provide that safe space for revelation and healing to take place; a safe place for people to fall apart and to rebuild themselves.
Finally. I agree. I'd have left em but kudos for getting passed the drama
You want to see MORE couples like this??!
We focus on quantity instead of quality of relationships in our culture. I would rather have five amazing years of a great marriage than to emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually, etc suffer for DECADES just to say "We've been together for 35+ years". If you're never happy and having to force/fake it for so long, it changes who you are as a person. Glad they are able to help others through this, but...🥴
She could have divorced him 30 years ago and had a great marriage with someone else . 32 years of struggle love. Murders and heartbreak
All these comments out here are petty and negative. People saying she should have left, this is a toxic marriage, this is messed up, but y'all have never stepped one foot into their shoes or their lives, so don't judge people unless you have been where they have been. To me this is a success story of true human life. This is what a lot of people go through, but never share in the public. This couple went through hell and came out of it alive. And they are giving God the Glory cause only God could take them out of that. So please be quick to understand and slow to judge! Not just on here but with your loved ones too! I bet you there is someone out there thanking God that they heard this testimony because they want to fight for their marriage instead of walking away like most people would!! Remember this, hurt people, hurt people! It doesn't make it right, but it makes it real! Get out of here with these negative comments man! Just saying, no one needs to respond lol!
I think everyone is of the mindset that you should work on and fix yourself before getting married. He did not and cheated on her multiple times during their marriage wasting years of both their lives. She then turns around and cheats on him after over 10 years of marriage. And they didn’t mention it here but if there were children involved, how effected were they? Because I guarantee you they were. I’ve seen the effects it has on children in my own family. And sleeping with multiple people while married puts you at risk for std’s and outside children. Nothing healthy about that. Even though they are saying it’s a ministry now, the fact of the matter is you should not purposely go into marriage with that much toxicity and that is why they are saying the marriage was/is toxic. Sounds sad and miserable when they could’ve put in the work beforehand and not wasted years with multiple people in and out their beds and business.
Ummmmmm. How the hell being put at gun point with your own gun and you mistress get murdered right in front of you and your wife house get burned down not toxic?
Happy they worked it out. Who am I to judge... Continue to be Blessed!
WELL SAID...AMEN!!!
Its sad she stayed. Yes we can judge stupid behavior. 10 years to heal, a murder, a fire...girl please. . Only bw love this BS. Anything for a man right?
@Elyse George they put up with bullshit they just dont tell you
@@lilouliving because they have enough sense to not air dirty laundry until divorce court
Amen
Love conquers all...God’s love is is untouchable...and when we don’t draw near to God...we’re left up to our own devices...which is not good...I’m glad y’all got Him..:and I’m glad that y’all made it 😇
Many obviously have not watched this channel. There is more than just cheating being discussed. It actually is very informative. You learn a lot if you're open to actually learning.
at 1:17 when he puts the blame for his behavior on his friends SMH
I’m so shocked. Why would they put them on the same stage as Tamia and Grant. 🤢 Not the same lane
I get why everybody in the comments is feeling the way they are. Cheating is wrong and it’s very unfortunate that someone lost their life. I can’t judge their marriage because God knows I made mistakes of my own but I have learned that faithfulness whether to God or to another person is not the absence of mistakes but is the ability and determination to persevere through the mistakes and keep fighting for what matters most.
Tell that to the woman who was murdered behind their bullshit.
You cheat, I'm done
You may end up being "done" alot in your lifetime! 🤣🤣
@@stacyjd2759 or you cheat, I cheat.. I can have an entanglement.lol
On God mane
Okay! I told my husband early on cheating and beating is a deal breaker. Celebrated 30 years in July. We've never and still don't have these issues!
@Jason u kidding?
So he's promiscuous in the marriage and she's ok with it. None of this is love. They are committed to staying together no matter what. That's not love.
They have millions of excuses for why he was constantly unfaithful. She feels triumphant for staying in an unhealthy, abusive, unsafe public/community marriage.
Y'all?!
This is more than just infdelity. That first couple had too much going on. Nothing for us to learn from. Avoid these men at all costs.
So glad they were able to get counseling and work through it. Also happy to hear him say what he did about people telling people God took their loved one. That shouldn't be a go to statement to tell people.
YOUR COMMITMENT AND COURAGE ARE BEAUTIFUL. Yes I am shouting because your honesty and love are worthy of celebration. Thank you for modeling marriage.
This story should make people think before they cheat . Don't play with people heart it can cost u ur life
Struggle love at its best!
I appreciate this couple for being honest, transparent and open. Marriage is HELLA messy. It’s so easy to say “they’re toxic” when your on the outside looking in. Obviously, adultery isn’t to be condoned or taken in an lackadaisical manner. And YES, they rightfully could have chosen to quit! ( Tbh, I would’ve left🥴) But this is THEIR story, so who are we to throw stones? 😒
They DECIDED to make the decision to reconcile, change, and NOT stay in malfunction. And now they are using their story to help other couples struggling. 🙌🏾
I applaud this couple for CHOOSING to fight for their marriage. 🥺🥺🥺 “Love conquers all.” 💕
👀. I dont know what to make of this. If this couple is ok with blaming it on spiritual attacks and absolving full responsibility then who are us... but this is wow 👀. I don’t feel empowered after watching this. I don’t see them as a success story. I see trauma bonding won out over self preservation and common sense.
True
This is not love and nothing to aspire to whatsoever.
I agree that cheating at any level is wrong, but they made a commitment to one another. Despite the bad, they continued to follow that original commitment. Now, yes it was broken along the way, but they seem to have repaired it. The beauty in this conversation is that they have grown through it enough to share their testimony with others and prevent some of the heart break they endured. That’s the bigger picture that most people are missing.
It's great to see a couple overcome toxicity and infidelity through the grace of God. This cam help alot of people if they can understand the message
People can be so judgemental. The purpose of their marriage testimony is to share how they made it through THEIR storm. Y'all need to stop it in these comments
Facts!!
no❤️
Girl Boo
Had anyone read the actual news story about this? The death is considered suspicious because he said he was set up by her but she is the one who died. Furthermore, there are plenty of struggles in relationships that have nothing to do with serial infidelity, arson and murder and it is not inspiring that she stayed with a man whose actions caused this type of trauma. 🙄
Fact
It’s crazy how we make bad decisions and mistakes in life and yet some people feel as if marriage will be isolated from these things ... people are unrealistic IMO .. no need to judge them learn from them
would you stay if your wife cheated on you for 2 years?
I don't know these two personally but I get the sneaky suspicion that had the tables been reversed and had SHE had "a lot of affairs" and had SHE been living in the same house as the person she cheated with, they probably wouldn't even be anywhere near cuddled up on anybody's couch talking about a success story. But hey. What do i know? 🤷🏽♀️
Smh that’s a negative assumption that probably doesn’t come from a HELPFUL place like their testimony did…
@@PharmacyTechLessonsMost men make it very clear that they won't take a woman back even if she cheats ONCE...EVEN if they (the men) cheated first and/or multiple times prior to.
They are too broken to get with anyone else. No one else would put up with the BS.
That struggle love shit.... Black men expect black women to deal with this shit.
Hot mess. Our mess. Stoppppp
Thank you for sharing and keeping it real.. We need to hear it...💯❤
The counselor was right. She should have left. They should never have gotten married. Both were broken people and should've healed before getting married.
It's so funny to me. Unbelievers call the church judgemental but will get on here and judge this couple because they decided to work it out lol . This is why ppl are afraid to be transparent
Yep, judge this hot mess all day and every day. He still don’t get it after all of that grief and trying to tell people not to judge.
I was reluctant to get married because of how my parents were but now I've made up my mind.
So whatcha choose... curious minds wanna know 😊
@@mayaross9607 no marriage. I'm good
😅💯
Wow awesome insight from the husband!! Its all about growth💯💯💯
He had to reach for her..... she’s not healed from his bs.
People are people, this is real life and people fuck up, they made it through and learned from their mistakes and NOW ARE HELP OTHER!
Blessings to all… Really grateful for being able to witness this couple’s story, here, and in-person. There are many comments on what should have been done before they got married… I AM gently offering the following: Work is an on-going, ever evolving process. While it is possible to “work on oneself before marriage,” doing so is only to a certain extent. None of us is perfect; therefore, regardless of “the work we do, or THINK we’re doing on ourselves,” we will have flaws. Marriage and other situations sometimes reveals “stuff” we weren’t aware of “while we were doing the work before we got married.” Also, after marriage, we have to (then) “be committed to working on US, while we’re still working on ourselves individually.” Again, work is an on-going, ever-evolving process. May we embrace it openly, learn to discern God in the process, and be grateful for the growth and joy that is possible for each of us. Continued peace and blessings 🙏🏾💞
My husband came with love and been nothing but love we talked about divorce one time because of my smoking but that was one day and I'm trying to stop smoking its hard but I'm trying
Fuck going through smh I would’ve had to leave. This is just too much to put someone through, too much for someone to go through 😔say no to struggle love.
Y’all are missing the point. It’s easy for us to judge them on the outside looking because we’re not in the thick of everything. However, they both made bad choices and have worked to correct those issues. Both sides have taken responsibility. We don’t have to glorify their infidelity, but let’s celebrate their testimony and how they are using it to help others. Of course their reality isn’t the most ideal, but look at the bigger picture. Who are we to judge them? We have accepted and done things that we shouldn’t have in relationships. Check yourself too!
Whew gosh these comments 🙄 judgemental and critical like yall have never been in relationships that had infidelity and toxic traits...at least they've owned it and healing from it... we've all tolerated and overlooked things in relationships.... yall need to realize things like this happen, hopefully yall never have to eat your own words.... throwing stones smh this is why people don't open up
Man lord knows I needed to hear this so much I've been dealing with alot with a break up and I keep goin back to when we both entertained others how dangerous it was to the relationship also he was my first real boyfriend and I can honestly say I didnt have a clue how to be with a man so everything he did to me i made sure I did it to him didnt solve anything but lesson learned
Thanks for sharing these with us, grateful
"My grandparents have been married 76 years, this is why y'all women can't keep a man" .
The Grandparents:
Y’all crazy for listening to these fools. This is toxic.
Great testimony!!! Blessings to ALL of the beautiful couples up there!!! New subbie here!
1:18 Really, dude? So it's on your friends to tell you that you're a married man? WOW! No wonder his wife looks like a miserable corpse. Smh.
ETA 9:46 Spiritual attack? 😂😂 I can't. I'm out. Smdh!
I’m glad it worked out, I just hate that it’s always the double standard and the women being in that position of hurt. Society does not equal the standard!
Is she ok? She's breathing too heavily on that seat.
You’re right
reliving all that hurt
I honestly think that before you get married you should have all that out your system before you truly commit to a person. Once you take them vows you have to take them seriously . You’re not just committing to your partner but also to God too.
♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️thank you for sharing your story.
Soooo she's bothered that a therapist asked what her plan b was?
Proves that they didn’t want a counselor they wanted someone to just agree with them. There’s nothing wrong with laying out your options.
I don't even know what to say
I'm just sitting her 😳
Reading these comments I can see why so many people are miserable and single. "Brokenness" or whatever you want to call it is real in our community. We are not taught how to be husbands or wives. We are not taught how to recover from our mistakes or that we can recover. Most of all, we are not taught forgiveness.
This couple worked through their problems. Sure they could have gotten a divorce and become another statistic but they decided to work on themselves and their marriage. Now they are counseling other couples. 32 years and after everything, you can still see their love and commitment to each other. Beautiful!😍
Turning your Mess into a Ministry!!!
janelle henderson LOL 😂😂😂😂
Love these short clips
Todd and Alicia I love you guys Can you guys please make a TH-cam or something y’all need your own show you guys would blow up I can’t get enough of u guys I watch this Over and over along with the other few clips
Wow awesome video… I pray that God will make their marriage wholesome.
For better or Worse are the vows they took. Not justifying it at ALL but they honored it.
Omg..... nobody worth going thru all that behind Damn 🙄🙏
Question? Why are all the women light skin?
finally, someone said it. This channel is fugazi af.
Thats the struggle love trademark
I feel like sometime some people misunderstand God reasons just to make sense to there situations. I'm not saying things couldn't get better after the infidently and everyone has their own breaking point, but you don't have deal with infidently either..... it's a choice that you make. Once it happen you have every right to leave and be remarried (in biblical sense) now there story can probably help those who choose to stay after infidently has enter into their marriage.... but you also can leave with no regrets as well, you don't have deal with it.
Exactly. She was offended that the counselor asked her what she wanted to do as a plan b. There’s nothing wrong with running down your options. No therapist is going to
Suggest divorce they are going to help you to see all the options when you’re unhappy in a situation. Changing counselors so many times is a red flag, they were looking for someone that was going to tell them
What they wanted to hear as opposed to what they needed to hear .
WowZer 🤩 how God can turn what the enemy meant for evil to good so that others might be blessed and glorified
10:01 what’s wrong with that ? As a human you should have options instead of putting yourself through turmoil.
They killed his mistress is what Twitter is saying
I failed to see the exemple and inspiration in this couple...this is a travesty and toxicity at its best. NOT (black) love 🤦🏾♀️
I’m appalled that they mentor other married couples . I’d rather them get ahead of the infidelity and find out when
Ppl turn to
Cheating in the first place instead of just finding ways to pick up
The pieces afterwards
Yes people can grow from cheating, but trust is broken. Instead of working on your issues you chose to step out of your marriage. That's the issues a lot of people have. I don't think it right to judge people that choose to move past it, but he needs to stop acting like they didn't choose the easy way out first.
All that are married hit like. I’m curious to know how many that are married are in the comments.
WHOA! Alicia & Todd may be the strongest people on the planet! "for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes." Prov 24:16 GOD BLESS THEM WITH CONTINUED SUCCESS!!!!
They are strong indeed but cheating occurs in more marrigaes than society is willing to admit.....sad but true.
@@ap8009 oh wow!
So glad to hear that the woman cheated ... these no good men
They are still together ...woo woo!!!
😂😂😂😂
I am not sure I could deal with being cheated on smh
All these negative comments. It really is tragic that someone lost their life but don’t you guys know that God is a redeemer. ❤️ Don’t forget to remember what God did for David when he developed relations with Bathsheba.
chichi oguoma lollll🤣
A man needs to disrespect me ONE time for me to 💨💨💨💨 Say something offbeat to me? 💨💨💨💨💨 you play me, you play yourself
Ya say this but be disrespectful with no remorse
@@TheLunzDen you making assumptions you seem hurt
@@TheLunzDenbro what? Were you in a relationship with that woman?
This is the biggest crock of toxic bullshit I have ever seen. Your therapist isn't wrong just because they tell you things you don't want to accept. They should have divorced 25 years ago. Their poor kids.
These people are not any kind of goals. #EndStruggleLove
Inspirational and beautiful couple.
For everyone in the comments thinking that their story is a story of triumph. Please do your research. In addition to your research, ask yourself how did he call the cops if his hands were nailed to the wooden board ? 🤔
A lot of us want to walk away when infidelity is involved and that’s ok. It was so nice to see a couple survive it. Many times we say leave him/her because there is no change, acceptance and willingness to make to work. These two put in the WORK and that’s why it’s work-ING.
Sorry but murder was also involved. There isnt enough therapy that would make me stay
Thank you! Folks just going to conveniently skip over the killing of two people. Infidelity you can come back from, but a murder/death, not so much. Peace ✌🏾 out.
And that’s the commitment that people say they’re looking for but not willing to accept that this is what comes along with it
That’s great, but how about we start doing right from the beginning till end so that there is no need for all the extra work. Just be right and do right by your partner.
Praise God that you didn't give up. People think its auto. over due to infidelity but its not God's plan IF the couple is willing to repent, work through it. God is glorified & the devil is shamed if healing, forgiveness & change can come to restore the marriage.
Only the cheater needs to repent, but I agree with the rest. People always ready to quit on marriage, but will stay in a negative work situation for years. Life isn’t always easy. Fight for what you want
V.B Toxic af. Like you talking about infidelity doesn’t mean your marriage is over, no when 2 people died your marriage should have been over. Crazy.
2 ppl died as a result of their infidelities. This shit is toxic.