The Catch Up Effect (Why We Really Fear Change) - Teal Swan -
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- It doesn’t take a genius to see that there is so much fear around change. Most of us resist change like the plague. We would so much rather stick with what is familiar to us, even if it is causing us pain. In this episode, Teal exposes the REAL reason that we fear change, a little thing she calls “The Catch Up Effect”
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It all comes down to resonance. When I went through my awakening years ago my vibration changed so much that many people faded out of my experience. At first I thought I did something wrong but then I embraced the fact that as I change so will the people that resonate with me. The good part about it is that it makes room for people who do resonate and have similar interests. Great video Teal.
+Aaron Doughty You took the words right out of my mouth.
Well said
Aaron Doughty going through this now, Teal's video (and yours) are so helpful for this process! 🙏🏻💖
But where do you find them?
@@cleopaehua9337 follow your dreams
I love how she doesn’t wast any time with long intros and promo talking bout “like and subscribe/share “ etc. She gets STRAIGHT to the point lol
True never noticed but I'm sooo with you fr fr
She also shortened the intro in her newer videos.
I’ve never noticed it but makes me like her even more
damn good video, The Secret is the watered down version of the law of attraction. It's good for beginners, but Teal is where you go for your masters degree.
yes so true
Yes, indeed.... 💜♾🙏🏼🕉
yep
You should look into David R. Hawkins. That’s your PHD!
She is so damn authentic... idk how anyone can have a negative thing to say about this woman. I guess we only see what we want to see and some people are not ready. Its nice to have a spiritual teacher who keeps it real and shares her flaws man!
She's truthful. For some people that's absolutely terrifying, they'd rather believe lies.
Amen.............she is a master..
@@takealilpill347 you are correct i belive in that belife,she IS real...
100% agree she so damn authentic.
It's just amazing how I get myself in a situation and seek advice on your channel, and boom! here it is.. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Yay!, no coincidences, your call is being met by the universe )
IT! That's exactly the kind of relationship I want to have and always wanted, being together so as to expand together and stay a match as long as possible, so when it ends, it should be for the best of the two with no hard feelings, we're simply parting ways, no need to hate or blame each other.
But each of them should strive to expand especially if they want to stay together. It's a beautiful motivation if you ask me, expand for as long as we can so as to stay together. That's the ideal type of relation ship if you ask me, a relationship that aligns with your life and soul purpose.
+thaik56 me too :)
:)
Why do you want relationship that pulls apart over time instead of getting stronger for both people? Sounds like a waste of time ending in someones heartache
@@evernynemarions567I never said or implied that. However, the constant of the Universe is change so nothing is permanent, it's a universal law whether we want like it or not. When two person move apart it's not because they want to. It's the natural order of things. So rather than fighting that law, one should flow with it. Everything changes and people too for the best or for the worst. Either way they change. They could be together and be a match for their lifetime too. That's why both should strive to be their best version and if they're still a match, that's wonderful. However I'm against staying together just for the sake of it and limiting one's expansion and evolution. Relationships are partnerships, not slavery, for mutual personal growth. Ultimately that's what relationships are for, to me at least. :)
Mugiwara
Your laugh, it kills me lolololol
Especially when it follows some hard truth 😩😂
It creeps me lol
@@b_light i know right it sounds cringey
I love it
Teal, Your clarity of expression, and empathy and understanding of our human psyche, particularly with regard to our emotional lives, is helpful and healing for me. I look forward to your videos. Aloha
I might add that this "link" can also be to a younger self of you. I other words you suffered some trauma when young and your subconscious is maintaining a link with that younger you, forever trying to "fix" that event or events which effected you. Thus you fear moving forward because you'll disconnect from that younger self, forever leaving behind the possibility of "fixing" the younger you. Hope this makes some sort of sense.
God.... This resonates with me.
I had so much pain as an adolescent, and I know I can't go back in time and fix that. And that truth gives my present self so much pain. But "moving on" feels exactly like I'm admitting that no resolution will ever be possible.
Ugh. Well said my friend.
@@breakingthemasks actually, you CAN go back in time and fix those things. this is what teals "completion process" is designed to do. and any other shadow work / integration / process work method.
I got emotional! This is my fear!!
Have you guys tried the completion process on this fear??
I feel like I keep looping back and retrieving more and more aspects of self. I sometimes wish I saw the changes faster…. But clearly not all of me is Agreeing with that ;)
@@apprenticeofsilence Hi my only advice is keep moving forward. One foot in-front of another. When I wrote this statement 6 years ago(!) I was a lot more 'stuck'. I still have issues with procrastination and having lack of drive but I'm also a lot more calm in myself. For me the universe opened up a meeting with a spiritual healer who was able to (as in her words) put my broken inner-child on 'life support'. From that point onwards the broken child inside me, which was holding me like an anchor, was gone. So I can't say I fixed myself, I did try for a very long time, but it seems it was enough for the universe to go ok we'll give you a helping hand at this point. Is my life shangri-la at this point? No, but again I'm just a lot more calm and really the motivational issues I now face are more 'normal' (?) rather than the insurmountable damaged boat anchor I was dragging around. I really, truly wish you all the best in your healing journey.
@@zbdot73 I love you so much! The Shangri-la made me laugh haha! I appreciate your honesty about where you're at! I admire that and I feel much more positive! Thank you x
Just her voice alone feels like a hug to my inner child
This video applies so well to my life right now. I've taken a leap of faith and made a huge change in my life right now.. it did cost me my (ex-) partner. It's so scary but I know I've done the right thing. Now I'm just in this zone of uncertainty, the transition to my next new phase. I'm excited and I'm scared.
How did your new phase turn out if you don’t mind sharing? 🙏🏻
I even resisted to continue watching this video, because I knew once I did there's no way back. And I was right. Thank you so much Teal. Always exactly what I need to hear when I need it most. Thank you.
That's beautiful. Expansion should always be our number one priority, its for our highest good and for the highest good of all
LoL . . . How on Earth do y'all know what video to guide me to ? I'm shedding tears more and more with every video ! Thank You ! This is sooo strange !
Thank you, Teal. I needed to hear this. Just ended a 6 year relationship with my boyfriend. We are both in different paths in life right now.
Do you regret it?
ooof! I love your mind set :) So arr you saying that we need to disconnect from ourselves to a greater connection with ourselves? I will continue to commit to change...and embrace death of the old so I can be reborn anew
Thing I noticed when I was a little kid: when I experience a lot of joy, the lives of the people around me start falling apart 😬
Thank you for sharing
We fear change because we don't want to loose people that we have around, we don't want to be the odd one out.But when we realize that change is good, that is is catalyst for our growth we loose fear, instead we embrace it;) Sending much love to you Teal, thanks;)
OMG, I just had this conversation with my ex. Highest experience of love I've ever felt and it couldn't be, at least for now. When does awakening become worth it? I feel like Neo when he first got on Morpheus' ship...this may be the real world but what a dump!
Kevin Goodwin ... “When does awakening become worth it?” Oof. That is the question for me at this phase. Awakening has meant so much loss, heartbreak, and isolation for me. When do I start attracting people I do resonate with?
Thank you Teal this is the second week in a row you've some how made the perfect video for my current situation! :)
Thank you Teal! My whole life changed recently having to move from Indiana to Connecticut, leaving behind my 27 year old daughter. I know I will never loose her but we now communicate by phone. It will.be hard when she has a child and I can't be there. your video helps me realize that there is a reason for all this! Thank you so much!💖
I grew up in a trailor home so its "Ketchup Effect"
+Dirt Poor I getcha. For me, being mexican, it's the salsa effect.
🤣🤣🤣 Heinz 57 all the way!!
😂😂😂😂
That's beautiful. I needed to hear this.
This is what happened with me and my husband of 11 1/2 months as of now. So sad to realize this. I was going through Dark Night of the Soul when we got engaged and on the tail end of it when we married. Our marriage gave me the safety to feel able to expand and oh was I expanding. Empath Claircognizant, INFP, Virgo, automatic writing, downloads, all of which did not exist consciously a year prior. I remember where I was. I was in the kitchen, that moment I felt at my highest vibration. I didn't know at the time what I was feeling was a rise in my vibration. I do now. It took several months to associate that feeling with vibrational change.
Over the next couple of months, things started feeling "off" - he was provoking me to the point of tears or anger. Subtle things, minor things on their own, but combined, it was apparent. When I sat down with him to ask him why (he had never hurt me in our 12 years of knowing one another) his mind "snapped" and I saw his shadow side (and this was before I knew what that even meant. I didn't need words). We've been in hell ever since. I'm at "Choice Point" as Teal calls it. He has wounded me so much in the last 10 months and I've hit some lows, but as of right now, I'm completely void of any reason to hang out on earth anymore.
Him: CPTSD, CEN, Alexithymia like signs, oh and Alters, and if you've never met someone and gotten close to them and one day they act like a totally different person or shift personality patterns in the middle of a sentence because their fragments are so intertwined withe their core personality, it's a f***g shock,. pattern that he keeps replaying in our relationship thus creating this push pull love me push me away energy (and as a survivor of sexual abuse as a child and adult etc this behavior is corroding my soul. He also says he has alexithymia, information I found but I don't feel that the way he does. It's the inability to describe or know what you're feeling in the moment, he calls it a "delay" but if someone is familiar with this, please tell me if it's possible to have intermittent alexithymia, i.e, he doesn't always have this problem and it seems like it's always conveniently heightened when I need to talk to him about something that hurt my feelings or that is emotionally intense for him. If it's emotional but not emotionally intense to HIM or if we are having s*x, zero alexithymia.
I feel so duped. So conned. He says he didn't know any of this before we married yet I've caught him in long conversations talking about how his alters and and concerns that he was "broken" some how and that this was why his relationships had failed prior to me (although up until recently, he always blamed the woman for why the relationship failed). Marriage triggered all of this and I am miserable. I an an Empath and just like Teal, I could snap my fingers and pop this energy bubble and all would seem warm and fuzzy and lovey dovey again but what's happening is a cycle, so I begin to vibrate higher again, feel emotionally safe again, and no sooner does that happen does some off the wall behavior change occur from him that catches me emotionally off guard and can also trigger my childhood traumas of "abandonment" (more like an environmental of there/not there love/not love)
Worse, I toggled intuitively between this being a genuine disorder or some sort of misfiring in his brain as a result of severe childhood emotional neglect or vulnerable narcissism which I'm currently studying. I am so shattered and 2 years ago I was on top of my game professionally making great money 100% independent needing no one (for years, which I know is a trauma response too)
But in one year, I went from liking him as a best friend (total friend zone) to over a few months falling in love with him when I let him live with me for several months when his place was permanently damaged and not repairs me. I never felt this way for him - EVER.
I have a theory: Because he lacked a self identity due to childhood abuse and emotional neglect from fetus to age 16 (punishment for feeling or showing emotions) he HAD/HAS no identity. He never had the environment to develop his identity.
So, whatever I wanted in a man, I imprinted on him and he saw me light up and he’d do more of THAT. I fell in love with someone who does not exist. Yes... I'm definitely at choice point, Teal.
When you are traumatized you are attracted to and attract people differently and don't realize it because we are not conscious of it many narcs and abusers appear the most charming in the beginning, the hardest thing to get over is deep confusion
damn
I wish you provided an example of losing someone that isn't as committed to self-growth as you. Or even worse, someone that is so struck with fear of where you are growing towards that they do everything they can to keep you from growing. At that point, I lose my desire to keep them in my life. Your video doesn't provide any solutions to this problem that don't involve deleting that person from your life altogether and the "catch-up effect" no longer applies. In my case, I've progressed to a point where I don't have any more friends and what remains of my family connections are shallow and forced. I don't have any qualms with separation and had little issue with making those changes that create separation. According to this video, I'm doing all the right things, yet, no one is catching up to me.
I think the catch up effect can still occur even if you have "deleted" them from your life....the thing is we don't know when its gonna occur for the other person that's why we have to be truly be willing to let them go.
FlezzDurjis, I know what you mean. I once made this much progress. Fell back a lot though when I severed ties with the partner I was with at the time. The stress of the break up impeded my growth just as much, if not more than my ex partner had been, surprisingly. Its not exactly that black and white, but I think get the gest of what you are saying. Being in a healthy place can be a very lonely spot in such a dysfunctional world. Especially if you started far behind with the cards you were dealt, and were brought opportunity and/or worked hard to advance quickly. I'm not sure what the solution to that is.
I dated a guy that did everything he could to try to impede my growth. I understood that it was just his fear making him behave the way he did. Being an INFJ, I tried everthing to help him understand what was happening but to no avail. It was with great sorrow that I had to give him the "INFJ door slam" :( We were so connected and it hurt like hell but I know it was the right decision. I still mourn the loss but I have grown spiritually by leaps and bounds ever since we parted. I just wish he had wanted to grow along with me :/
You had me at 'dead jon snow pic/isolation worse than death'
Great video as usual- thank you 💙
I am becoming more aware of myself by watching teal I cant stop watching her videos now i am shock by her work.
Since am doing self awarness I have notice how I react to my family or other people and am starting to look things so different and It takes some balls to take other direccions but We cant just be trap in someplace that we dont want to be anymore
Teal, hunny, you always speak straight to my soul!!! I am for ever greatful, Sister. Namaste💚✌🌈🌐🌈
Most of what you said about fearing change, was about fearing change that was positive. What about fearing negative change? Like what if you were forced to make changes you don't want to make, that negatively impact your life, and take away some of your freedom and independence? I'm in that current situation. I happen to be a personal what spinal cord injury, I've used a wheelchair due to the paralysis it caused since I was 20 years old, I am now 40. I live independently in my own home with the help ofPeople who come by and Help me every day. I'm not sick, and I don't need a nurse. The current situation I am in, it is a new insurance/state regulation thing. I am being forced to do things I'm very uncomfortable with and to manage my life in a way that give me a lot less control over my own life, But don't have any other choice. The the stress And anxiety of it is really bothering me. I feel defeated. Knowing that there is no way to stop the change, makes me feel like less of a human being. Like my opinion doesn't matter, and that I am no longer in control of what is best for myself. I feel stressed out because this option that's being forced on me is not a stable situation like my life is now before the change. I'm not sure if I explained it right because I was trying to be vague about my personal details, but if you have anyAdvice that you can think of, I would appreciate it. I might not suppose to feel resistance to this change? If I can't do anything about it and it changes going to happen anyway, how do I not feel miserable while the changes taking place? How do I not worry about this change so much?
+SomebodyIusedtoknow (Mariam Paré) I can't give you an answer to your question but I want to give you a big, a long and tight hug. xxxxxxx
+luticia thank you so much for reading my comment and even if you can't offer advice, I very much appreciate the Kindness and empathy.
SO REAL!!! MUCH LOVE SIS
And that means (one more time) that soulmate does not exist, baby, once you change your frequency, he or she will be gone if they can’t reach you. LOL
What if you are opposite? I dont want to connect. Loosing everyone through this has even been a bit of grief but also relief as ive become more and more myself. but now im at a point that when I raise my vibration further through positive changes, people are wanting to connect with me, the changes also require further connection.. I dont like it.. I loose my true self each time, loose sight of myself.. Its retraumatising. I would rather have myself than connection, any day. Ive gotten to a point where I dont want to expand anymore, my brakes are on (I thought I was truly committed to personal growth but lately, no way). And yep major life consequences are rolling in, till I have nothing too loose, how is it not bullying (which ive experienced so much of in life already) that the universe forces expansion?
It all sounds like a happily ever after scenario. I haven't found this for myself. Connections are as remote as ever. I know there are people out there - Teal being one, David Icke and David Wilcox are others but they aren't available for connection. It feels really lonely out here.
What's interesting is that as I expand and grow, others around me have the opportunity to expand and grow as well, too.
Wow. This makes all true spiritual growth really super special.
Amazingly encoded with wisdom!
My husband told me many times that if I left him he would not make it. I care about him so much that I could not abandon him. But I suffer like Hell. We live in total isolation and have no friends.
Riddle me this Teal Swan: why did we have to fragment in the first place?
You forgot something Teal, there is another option. You can change and then help those you are connected with to catch up- you don't need to leave them hanging. If you advance spiritually, you can help those you love to catch up and support them on their inner journey ...unless of course they don't want to grow at all, even with your help.
Either way there is no need to fear, eventually they will catch up, but sometimes it may take them a few lives to do so.
Have a good day/week :)
+Jacob IAm Sometimes that will work and sometimes you will need to leave those others behind or they will drag you back down. It is good to help others but at the same time sometimes you just need to move on. This is a good time to know and recite the serenity prayer:
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.
You can insert whatever you like for god.
+Jacob IAm NEGATIVE JOHN, YOU CANT DOIT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT STRONG TO HELP, IT HAD COST A LOST TO GROW YOURSELF, FOR SURE YOU FEEL SOME INSECURE ABOUT YOUR ROAD, SO IF YOU TRY TO HELP YOU CAN HURT OTHERS, MAYBE THERE WAS NOT THEIR WAY AS YOURS, THE MUST FIND THEIR OWN WAY. YOU ARE NOT GOD TO SAVE OTHERS
Varg Strong we are god but that’s the point we are god so only we can save ourselves
My friend shared this link with me, and I loved your channel! Also: the music that you have at the end of each episode is mesmerizing.
Thank you Teal! You saved my sane mind with this video. I was so scared, cause I feel the expansion coming on so strong and I really want my partner with me. Well.... I guess we will see. But at least I am not going crazy.
I loved this video. So enlightening! This reminds me of Dr. Spencer Johnson’s “Who Moved My Cheese”. Sometimes in life, we need to get out into the maze and search for new cheese before the existing cheese disappears, which I suppose is similar to looking for a new vibration. In Jane Seymour’s book, “Remarkable Changes: Turning Life’s Challenges Into Opportunities”, she says, “I don’t believe we arrive anywhere in life. We, as well as our circumstances, are constantly evolving, constantly changing in large ways and small”. I find that, if I decide that ‘I am who I am, and that is final’, I get to resist change potentially, so I remain stagnant. If, on the other hand, I get to see MY constant change as ‘who I am’, so to speak, then change can become the norm and so my growth becomes the norm, I don’t have to fear that change - I hope! ---- I had been in a relationship where the growth in me, the change in vibration, was welcomed and I embrace it. Indeed, the relationship itself fuelled my wanting to grow. My then girlfriend, after leaving our relationship said, “I know who I am”. I think that she resisted the change in her and chose to remain ‘safe’, like she was Hem pacing up and down Cheese Station ‘C’, saying, “Who moved my cheese. Who moved my cheese”, thereby keeping her ‘safe’ vibration.
I found this video at the right and perfect timing...maybe on the edge of a new beginning that may cause me to lose a connection. Not sure if the connection is really the best relationship for me but i realized a few minutes ago that i am energetically pushing the opportunity away because I am afraid of losing the connection. I'm not even sure if the person would really care, yet still the fear of loss scares me even tho i have been wanting this opportunity for a long time.
11:09 important
the connection you are afraid of losing doesn't compare to the connection you'll have on the other side of the change.
I have watched this a few times in the last year but this time I noticed a few different perspectives of mine after healing quite a bit, and learning how to not abandon myself.
Regarding people needing to catch up: Doesn't this mean we are too focused on the destination? Maybe we don't exactly want the partner completely as they are and we are so focused on fixing ourselves and not accepting that change will happen without rushing and forcing that we need to rush everyone else to catch up too? We feel the need to rush the whole process, because we don't feel we are healing quickly enough. But rushing doesn't always work..
Now I see why I'm so scared of changing. Thank you Teal
Hi Teal what a powerful message... After loosing relationships with friends and family, what if the lady thing you were scared of losing was your formal self :(
Wow, I fond myself going through this right now. I had to end a relationship in order to move forward...i spent a long time in misery because I was afraid to lose someone. It was so hard but such relief when I finally stepped forward.
Hi Teal; thanks for the great videos! I find it funny when you laugh at the universe's ability to be violent lol; your laughter is contagious!
Lately, I've been very intrigued with the notion of self-improvement and goal-setting/achieving. In that light, I have some questions regarding self-improvement:
Is "self-improvement" equivalent to "expansion"?
Does expansion manifest itself as the creation and elimination of habits (both psychological and behavioral)?
If so: how do we facilitate expansion?
Is it a purely emotional process (per your emotional healing video)?
Or is it at least partly a mechanical, animalistic process (e.g., the cue-routine-reward model or the Fogg behavioral model)?
Thanks again for the videos!
to me this video is a proof of the law of attraction, as I'm currently facing this exact 'issue'! thank you for the guidance Teal.
Your getting so popular now teal! I've just had two old friends that I have not spoke to in a long while contact me to talk about spirituality, because I "accidentally" shared one of your Facebook posts onto my news feed and they both saw it, and realised I was also into this kind of thing. Now finally have friends to talk to about spirituality. Good to know I'm not a loner in this 😀
That literally was the message I needed . Maybe it's a good thing to have explosive life patterns. I just have to ride the wave no matter how big and surprising the wave might be. Thank you , you are so helpful
I am very addicted to change, I do like it and I try to hold on sometimes too , but it always push me and reminds me that I have to go. Always when I trust that change amazing things are happening.
WHO PUT JOHN SNOW IN THIS VIDEO?? Too soon....too soon.
Teal is the type of woman I wish I could find.I haven't had any kind of relationship for over 14 years its a nightmare.
I don't know how your doing 5 years on but things may seem like a nightmare when they aren't .
I'm feeling this deeply. Especially the story about the relationship.
I am 53 and that's what me and my husband did we grew together in love, and education and careers and it was awesome being each others best friend and growing together
again - Teal hits my "situation" right on the head - my frozen essence is awaiting the specific change - now that the decision has been made - my Pain is so great I have to - and I must trust all is in divine order for all .
I´m a totally match to this ! Thank you very much for this - i will do the change :-)
I´m very excited :-D
Thankkkkk you for your existence in this time!!! Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge and reminding us of our spirituality!!! Thank you Teal for helping me soo much in my life! You are my inspiration! Have a wonderful week.
This is beautiful, I always wanted this but never had the words to allow anyone to understand me. Have a good week Teal!! Wishing you the best in your development as well.
Thank you for encouraging me to keep going
dammit teal youre so fucking awesome thanks for the advice!
Unbelievably impeccable timing! 😅🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 thankyouuuuu!!!!
Specifically designed and designated for me. Thank you.
You explain things really well in your videos!! :)
This video was amazing. The night before I was thinking about how afraid I was of the positives changes that were happening. Love you Teal!
I do know that there have been many times I've traded a stable but socially unfulfilling and toxic home environment for literally uncertainty as I fled my home in search of .... something!? Many times have I entertained the idea of taking a frivolous action because it promised more connection to a person or group of people I deemed as being able to meet my social needs. 9/10 times I will trade being with partners I feel happy with over having OTHER needs met but lacking a social life. I desire connection, intimacy and belonging. I think that's at the root of ANYTHING I DO, really.
Spot on with the collective, as always! 💙
Oh goodie...good timing with the video Teal...I just got home form a magnificent bike ride.Endorphin rush aside,I hope I'm eloquent enough...
I feel sticking with someone is the best option.Monogamy...in other words.An excellent tool toward Enlightenment.In the past I've been jumping from pussy to pussy and let me tell you...it's a hellish existence.Trying to chase a high all the time and the thrill of the hunt...it can really take a toll on you.Sure,it feels awesome in the moment...but there's a subtle sort of suffering that builds up over time.It's sort of paradoxical...but that's the universe for you in a nutshell.Hehe.
So at some point,I'm gonna have to make a Stand,I'm gonna make this relationship work come hell or high water.I don't care how much pain comes up...eventually it will run out.So we will be "stuck" with each other and will be forced to grow together.
I'm agoraphobia & have ptsd,chronic pain.
My MOTHER passed suddenly in March ,after moving into a small town house 2 yrs ago.to retire.
Now the house is going into foreclosure. I haven't any other family nor friends, they walked away w the agoraphobia.
I'm suppose to,move into an apt ( that I can afford) w an unknown roommate.
I'M SCARED SH"TLESS!
This is so profound! I am so glad I listened to this today, you are something else Teal Swan. Thank you!!!!
"Vibrations" really.. "law of attraction" really?! I do not agree with using mumbo-jumbo words that not have a definite meaning, but there's much truth in this talk nonetheless.
Teal, just by hearing you say this helps me so much. It shatters me from the inside to face my deepest fears, but growth is about learning and acknowledge every part of yourself. It isn't the easy way out, it's the necessary way out.
For me getting a job is maybe my change that need? (harassed a lot by parents) But I don't want that because I don't care as much about the money and all the hours sounds like torture. Should I just make higher thoughts so that when I do get a job it is fulfilling? Need clarification thanks :P
interesting. Time doesn't mean the same thing to me, and this gets me into trouble with relationships. I was away from like four years, and I came back. The people who'd once considered me a friend, hated me, said it was a long time ago. To me, it was a few days. I wandered on. It's weird because I am not part of society. I've been isolated several times. I don't mind it too much because I can stop taking my medicine and have all my voices back, which will entertain me for hours, even though many are evil. The army, old friends and Putin did a number to my heart. I try to be good, but I don't do it properly.
05:18 "...the katsup-effect." Hmm...what about the mustard effect? The mayonnaise effect? The relish effect? Hey, put that down. Don't hit me...
So my dead family can return if I stay connected ? How do we know which of us is more expanded? I think they were more awake and so they died because after they died I woke up to who they were -so clearly they were more awake first. So. How do I get into their reality? Without killing myself? I think it’s arrogant to think you’re always growing and expanding and it’s a slippery slope to believe that others are less ‘expanded’
when you and your partner resonate at the same frequency, you both create a flux. Everything is the light.
Ok, I watched it, it wasn't as bad as I thought it wld be... Thank YOU, Teal, you gave me validation for what I needed a s what I am trying to do. I Namaste 🙏 & I Love you!!! 💖💞💖 🙂
I keep accidentally emotionally starving people very close to me and don’t realize till they die . My son. My husband. My lover . It’s like I can’t see them!! Until it’s too late .. so painful
Omg!! I so get this .thankyou once again for your brilliant explanation....everyone needs aTeal in their life 😉💗👌
Teal Swan, could you make a video for then spiritual significance or the meaning of mental and psychological disorders like OCD ? I have been suffering from obsessive compulsive disorder for ages and it has really affected me badly. I can't interact freely with my family and friends or go through a day normally like many people. I am suffering terrible from OCD and nothing seems to cure it. Could you share your wisdom with me...I would me forever grateful. I'm just 16 and a teen please if you can help me......if anyone here has any wisdom or thoughts to share with me please do...I'm near to giving up on life...
Things are rough, I can feel my state of mind changing and it just seems like no one around me sees the way I do , I don’t feel like me and my friends are on the same level anymore that’s been causing me to feel alone a lot. I want more ppl around me who feel like home and who are on the same level as me but how do I make friends like this how do I find ppl that understand me and are on a spiritual journey as well ?
Thank you Teal. So much love to you, your team and everyone watching this video!! ❤🙏🏻🌎💫🧜♀️💕
Going through that now..... it is a lonely path for a while until universe starts sending u matching vibrational ppl ...thank u thank u thank u Teal 🖤💚🖤 I love u 😎
Hitting the nail right on the head. As usual. Thank you so much 💜
Thank you Teal for all of your videos and your amazing insights. I have learned so much from you and it has helped me tremendously! I am so much happier and self-loving because of what I learned. I'm so grateful for you and your videos!
Humanity and its weakness without understanding:
"...Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should
not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all
experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while
evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms
to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and
usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to
reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their
duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their
future security."
I've been making changes. I'm committed to expansion, cause I'm in pain. But in this new life of more comfort and less pain I lost most of my friends. Where's the new pack, idk.
this resonates with me so strongly. I feel like all of it I have a personal testimony to
Every day I listen to Teal and I'm still getting more than I can perceive out of it. It's been a good four months already and your insights, while I am relocating to a new country, are helping me in growing so much. Thank you for everything you do, Teal!
Instead of "group species" I prefer "family species". My catch up effect kinda operated in reverse; I felt I was never a "match" to more people than I was. I was the one who had to catch up. Recently MUCH has been achieved to create a feeling of synchronicity which, nevertheless scared the crap out of me also.
Had Teal spoken anything about the election? Especially Bernie Sanders? I feel like he's changing the whole world.
With what happened in Benghazi and then what the American voters pulled in 2012? I've got change going through my mind every minute!.
Something in this video is special. I don't know what but It IS special and not only for me. Thanks for this one :) Peace, love, and have a good week little girl!
If I could have seen the future, the challenges I would have to face, because I made the changes Teal talks about, I may have changed my mind, I would not have thought I had the strength. BUT if I had the future further along those challenges, and saw the woman I ended up being because of the changes I made, I perhaps would have not believed it possible. I am that woman now, and I welcome more expansion, as it never stops. She is on the button. Expansion is beautiful, Trust is something you can't think, you learn it while trusting. Life is amasing, the moment one realises, we are amasing.
My daily concussion. That's what I gave myself everyday when I had my previous job. I was there thirteen years. I should have quit after five. That was when I hit the highest and flattest part of my learning curve. That job was a very bad fit from the beginning, I didn't see that, I was fearful of change, but everyday I went home like I had just slammed my head into a wall several times. Change doesn't freak me out as much now. I still fear to an extent.
Christ, this is fucking deep, like it is the main and central question in all our lives
Bloody hell.
One issue, which doesn't really affect me : miss swan rightly says again and again that positive masculine energy must lead any relationship, and by massive supportiveness make it a safe space for the feminine woman to blossom into her freedom and sunlight.
So how can the woman move forward fearlessly and 'trust' that the man will become encouraged to step forward also, to join her there.
Surely the woman can't really move forward alone without being alone.
Surely she needs to find a man at a higher frequency than the one she is currently with, who can help hold her and protect her emotionally, which will make her expansion and liberation into self hood actually feasible and sustainable -- not a scary dash into the future, alone, with fingers crossed
I needed to hear this, you are amazing. Thank you Teal.