😂😂😂😂😂😂and he is actually right lol I watched it and because it's Nota we gonna bash him but what he was saying neh it makes sense in a funny way yoh 😂😂😂
Nota is such a polarising character. He has no filter and his perspective can be jarring and sometimes borders on the delusional. I enjoy him purely because of his honesty.
Ppl don't know what they want,when someone is too quiet UYABORA.. ..I am sure the wife 😅 one day will have the regrets why she left him...The only problem I see is the smoking of dagga.Nota'brain has too much of Cannabis he doesn't need to smoke it ,his is destroying his brain ..too much of the thing it kills or destroys..My advice is that he must completely stop Cannabis (dagga)He is the best GOAT with all the achievement the guy is super intelligent but this supplement is an overdose to his brain..Plse Nota for your age and achievements you're the GOAT..Well done young man ♂️
NOTA is what we call a narcissist! People will just laugh at his actions until they meet one! Being in a relationship with one has taught me a lot about these kind of people, if you see how he was behaving on Twitter after separating with wife, then you will understand what a text book Narcissist is!! He is exactly like my ex... NOTA will never stop all the public humiliation, he sees that people did not support when he did with Berrita's character, then he is moving to her family. This is because they are not giving him attention, when Berrita moves on NOTA will come for his bf or her future husband even if he himself gets married! This behavior is seen on all narcissists! It is unfortunate that people give him the platform to do all this! Promise should not promote such behavior, it is counter productive in this patriarchal society! If Promise really wanted to talk about Berrita she could have invited her because this interview was basically to tarnish her and her family name!! People like NOTA always think they are Gods gift to human kind! I am glad Berrita left!!
Eish Nota!!😮 so he’s actually saying he made her “the wife” , He sounds like he’s obsessed with her though 😢 and that’s scary. Also I thought he is in his 40’s😅. Yho ai Nota!!
Nota we don't tell our partner weaknesses in public. That's how you protect your wife. Your honesty does not have to disgraced her. No no no human being will allow that. Humble yourself ask for forgiveness.
Maybe it's true that " too much of anything is not good for anyone". This man has too much information that he somewhat comes across as crazy. Great guy Nota I like him.
NOTA airing out Berita's family business is just so wrong, such betrayal and he still hopes to reconcile with her? 😭😭not to mention him talking about her fart😭..like seriously?
Yep! He is trying by all means to convince the whole country if not the world,that he is the best husband. He is convincing everybody but not the wife. He says he love her,but he says all the bad things abt her. How can she go back to a man who hang his dirty laundry to the public. Instead of having these conversations with her,he decide to have it with public. This is not love but,8 see a man who is sad that he allegedly helped someone to build her carrer.Then a person left. Most of the time he talk abt her career,and how was he involved. He is suffering frm "I made you" ,"You belong to me,I own you,You are nothing about me".
He's not delulu, coz none of us were in that marriage you would be surprised that the wife was worse, people who appear like angels in public are often the worst.
Yoh this is how Introverts feel when an outspoken person blabs on and on and on and on. It's actually energy draining when you sit and listen to a person speak like this, you cannot even engage.
I had to go read up on the comments first to get a feel of how the interview was, I'm scared to watch because Nota is Nota, I can definetly believe that Promise was not part of her own interview
Bathong Nota can talk the whole month without a break, like the 1st 20 minutes he took over, Promise was just mmmm yah 😅, How do people get energy to interview this guy Mara? Bcoz u will end up not asking real questions ⁉️
Nota is just telling his story. I see nothing wrong in this conversation. For the longest time, women come on such platforms to bash their ex partners and in laws, but they are not crucified. Let everyone be allowed to tell their stories the way they feel it's right.
Nota is grown up physically and mentally, but inside, he still remains a little child. He might be stuck at age 4 sana he needs to visit his childhood there's something there.
I loved this interview, here's why, most people like to talk about the negative sides of marriages and forget that there was time when it was good. Berita wouldn't have married Nota if it wasn't good at some point. While Nota might have his faults he tried to be there for Berita, he loved her still does. Let's celebrate the good accomplishments in marriage the same way we frawn upon the faults. Nota might be over the top but he tried to give his wife the best.
When you have not been with a narcissist, you will never understand that the good times come with the most pain because they weaponize it for their good. You will hear things like I made you,,,,
I’m so glad Barita found her Mojo and left this unhinged over arrogant empty psycho!! That woman is a gem💎 and Nota was a downgrade of epic proportions. No wonder he can’t let go and still rants about her on all platforms despite her getting away from his abuse, tantrums and meltdowns. Good for her ❤🥂
Guys please don't be nasty, if you dont have something true or positive to say please dont comment. The guy is a gent and he is human, I havent heard him insult or swear at anyone therefore does not deserve ugly words.
“In 2008 the Zimbabwean economy crashed and then your father was unable to provide for your family because the money in his pocket shrank on his walk to go and buy bread, so he could afford the bread when he left his house and by the time he got to the shop he couldn’t and that was the end of everything”🤣!!! Nota is really something else
There are people who go to therapy consistently to gain tools to manipulate the people around them. Nota is one of those people. He believes that he did nothing wrong as a husband because he believes his wife’s success is because of him. He is a narcissist who does not even let people finish their sentences before jumping in to play victim and blow his own horn
Nota sound like a loving, caring, supportive and protective husband. I like this dude. I wish Nota and his wife can fix things and be a happy family forever ❤
The most genius guy I know,hence I ignore his arrogance,I look at the positive side of him,because if I will pay attention of negative side,I'll end up being a psycho,
a narcissist makes for a great story teller, they know how to win hearts of those observing from the outside. the person who carries the sword's edge of such a narcissist is the one who lives behind closed doors with them. I Doubt that Beritha was perfect. but I am certainly sure she wasn't crazy either.
I love Nota so much, he's intelligent MARA he disappoints me everytime he answers questions on his marriage. His reasoning capacity just switches from good to bad 😔 I guess you can't be a genius in all departments
Nota is a genuine good guy... Yes there is a lot of arrogance and a superiority complex of some sort, however he knows his position and stands with an upright posture..... Ei go gontsi maan.....
My dear Promise... You've displayed so much maturity on this episode. I'm your day one subbie from Kenya and I've watched EVERY SINGLE episode since this podcast started. This man is delusional, he has refused to be accountable and he portrays narcissistic traits. Just by looking at him, his nails, his hair, his beard shows that he is unkempt, meaning he is battling huge internal battles. He needs to see a PSYCHIATRIST this one is beyond a psychologist. I don't know how you did it girl.. but good job! 👏🏾👏🏾 Your poise, your calmness and maturity has indeed proven to us that you were born for this Mrs Law❤
I cracked up when he covered his academic failure by claiming his sisters academic success 😂😂😂 Guys Berita saved herself. Any woman would choose to scramble through life than to be tied down to this mess. Money is not everything and she taught him that ngenkani 😅 I stan that queen👑
Yoooh! I thought Nota has changed after visiting America but neeh,he is still the same. His x wife is never going around talking abt him.But he find comfort in embarrassing her,every chance he get. How can she really go back to him. He doesn't acknowledge that the wife is Talented. He pretend as if her songs were no 1 bcs of him doing some calls.I think he is holding on her bcs he think he made her,so he think he owns her. I dont see him anywhere where he show deep love for her without talking abt her music carrer. He act like her music manager,but not like a husband who love his wife. Yonke into ayishoyo udicilela phansi isithunzi sakhe. Its all abt "i made you",I made calls so that her songs can be no1,I,I,I. Nota without making her no 1 in music,but the woman needed a husband and love. Nota has ready answers for everything. He doesnt wanna listen to understand but he listen to respond. Always in a defence mode ay ngeke yooh! asoze.Isdina sendoda akukho thando la,lo ukhalela imali yakhe shwem.
Way to go Nota. AKA died having been labeled as some violent abusive guy because he cared about preserving his 'wife's' legacy. Now he is not here to defend himself. Truth to power!
Iyhooo Nota xhem, he is a confusion, typical Narc, he can be extremely nice to his wife but Also bad....Poor Berita xhem, her life was confusion everyday. One moment he is good, the next moment its toxic. And I wouldn't be surprise if she can go back becauase when he is good its extremely good. She needs therapy to keep herself together.
nope, not always the case for narcissist as the aim is to tarnish the image of another and never account for their part. Their speech is rehearsed and replayed because repetition wins more audience and attention that they thrive off@@tshephomanyothwane1916
Why comparing yourself with black coffee, you dont even exist in his world....keep yourself busy Nota, go and help SAPS with AKA case, you are very good with analysing
No I didnt grow up soft but I grew up going to family vacations all the time😂😂😂😅😅😅 Tiktok is the downfall of my marriage...😂😂😂 All my exes see a father figure in me cos they have daddy issues.... Guys you can be brilliant at your craft but be terrible at life😬😬I'm not saying Nota is terrible at life but I can see why Berita keeps her distance😂
You have a gift that you're not aware of. Please consider a private consultation on marriages and relationships. There's a high score of marriages that are currently falling apart due to miscommunication and misunderstanding. Please request a private and confidential one on one session/consultation with Nota and Berita. This doesn't have to be published or aired.
20 minutes in and Nota is definitely narcissistic. I don’t like using this word lightly; but the inability to sit still; exaggeration of his accomplishment; telling Promise to not compliment Berita because she doesn’t know her. What is he even wearing? This man must see a psychiatrist ASAP
Everything I know about Betita’s family I heard it from Nota without asking yet he wonders why his mother-in-law preferred talking to Berita in private.
Bring Nota again, here does have some valuable points. Those that think he is delulu won't watch especially for young musicians I think he'll make a great mentor. He might fail as a husband but he knows his job I remember he picked up Berita's song Ndiceli Kiss, and it blew up. Bring him back to share hie expertise.
Marriage is a beautiful union between two people who commit to sharing their lives together. A wedding is a celebration of this commitment, filled with love, joy, and cherished memories. It marks the beginning of a new chapter in their lives, where they create a future filled with happiness and togetherness.
I am glad they don't have kids, the only weapon he has after the failed marriage is these stupid interviews and tweets to try and tarnish her name. If you aren't strong enough such a psycho can drive you to health complications and depression. Through it all she remains graceful, beautiful and everyone can see ubani ohlanyayo😂😂😂
I honestly feel like deep down Nota probably feels betrayed by wife that after "all the things he had done" for her she still left. And he kind of still feels owed. That's just my thoughts...
Nota that chat about Berita's family was uncalled for. It was not your place to talk about her parents like that. All promise asked you was for you to elaborate on how tik tok affected your marriage.
Thank you Nhlamulo for inspiring & upholding the institution of marriage. It is still my prayer that you re-unite with your wife. What God has joined together LET NO man separate Matthew 19:6. Thank you to the host as well for allowing N the platform to express himself & for speaking an unpopular message & yet very constructive. I love Gugu very much by the way. Thank you to the two of you for 'Keys of Love.'
One thing is for sure Nota loves his wife and Berita ntombi fix nohlanya lwakho because even if he moves on I can’t imagine the torture of him always referencing you to that poor woman…he’s really a lot but He loves his wife 😊😂😂😂😂😂😂
She knows better,she was the one staying with him. He can call her poor woman,or any names he want,but she doesn't need to go back to him for that. If she doesn't love him anymore. She can't be forced jst bcs he says he love her,but doing an opposite. It's OK for people to separate,than staying in toxic relationships. When things end in tears,we ask people why they didn't leave each other.
@@zuzuh5755well I’m not saying she must go back for being called poor woman I’m using that on the third party that he might meet in the future.and anyway marriege is a place where people are allowed to separate and fix again as they agree since it’s a lifelong commitment.so me saying they should fix is solely on the stance that anyone can see and hear he loves her and that’s what God wants from a man the extra weaknesses he portrays can and should be fixed by them,families and professionals it’s not abuse to fix things.once you have a house you don’t demolish it when there’s cracks you plaster and paint it to fix it…unfortunately Nota and berita have not given us a sit down interview for us to know what really happened and my opinion is based on his mannerisms and consistency in how he speaks of her each time they ask about it.its not taboo or abusive if she would be back with him and they journey towards healing together
Any interview with NOTA in it, I can't miss. Any interview with PROMISE in it, I can't miss.Nna I'm educated ke sana😂😂😂😂😂.
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😂😂😂😂😂😂and he is actually right lol I watched it and because it's Nota we gonna bash him but what he was saying neh it makes sense in a funny way yoh 😂😂😂
Wherever there's Nota check the views kkkkk
Nota is such a polarising character. He has no filter and his perspective can be jarring and sometimes borders on the delusional. I enjoy him purely because of his honesty.
This man talk too much no woman will ever tolerate him
He is a woman trapped in man's body...
I'd divorce him singakashadi
After divorcing him and divorce him again yheeey this is too much😢@@katlehoseutloali6985
Ppl don't know what they want,when someone is too quiet UYABORA.. ..I am sure the wife 😅 one day will have the regrets why she left him...The only problem I see is the smoking of dagga.Nota'brain has too much of Cannabis he doesn't need to smoke it ,his is destroying his brain ..too much of the thing it kills or destroys..My advice is that he must completely stop Cannabis (dagga)He is the best GOAT with all the achievement the guy is super intelligent but this supplement is an overdose to his brain..Plse Nota for your age and achievements you're the GOAT..Well done young man ♂️
He is a danger to his Wife
NOTA is what we call a narcissist! People will just laugh at his actions until they meet one! Being in a relationship with one has taught me a lot about these kind of people, if you see how he was behaving on Twitter after separating with wife, then you will understand what a text book Narcissist is!! He is exactly like my ex... NOTA will never stop all the public humiliation, he sees that people did not support when he did with Berrita's character, then he is moving to her family. This is because they are not giving him attention, when Berrita moves on NOTA will come for his bf or her future husband even if he himself gets married! This behavior is seen on all narcissists! It is unfortunate that people give him the platform to do all this! Promise should not promote such behavior, it is counter productive in this patriarchal society! If Promise really wanted to talk about Berrita she could have invited her because this interview was basically to tarnish her and her family name!! People like NOTA always think they are Gods gift to human kind! I am glad Berrita left!!
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NOTA is the only guy in south Africa who took the words "in sickness and in health, until death do us apart" literally😂😂😂
He understood the task
His delusional
Eish Nota!!😮 so he’s actually saying he made her “the wife” , He sounds like he’s obsessed with her though 😢 and that’s scary. Also I thought he is in his 40’s😅. Yho ai Nota!!
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The only thing more dangerous than a narcissistic man is a narcissist man that knows English
Legit😂😂😂
I almost spilled the tea l was holding when l was reading this comment 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
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😂😂😂I have Neva laughed like this
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Nota we don't tell our partner weaknesses in public. That's how you protect your wife. Your honesty does not have to disgraced her. No no no human being will allow that. Humble yourself ask for forgiveness.
What forgiveness dude😂 calm down
Maybe it's true that " too much of anything is not good for anyone". This man has too much information that he somewhat comes across as crazy. Great guy Nota I like him.
I like him too😂❤. Only a few people understand people with this kind of 🧠
How on earth can one be married to this man without depending on antidepressants 😢😢😢😢
Shes very strong😂
I would have called weskoppies to wait by the door for him 😂😂😂
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His a pyscho, I am so scared of him...his even speaking over the lady @@valanci.official
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We need more pupil like Nota who is honest free speech
NOTA airing out Berita's family business is just so wrong, such betrayal and he still hopes to reconcile with her? 😭😭not to mention him talking about her fart😭..like seriously?
That's what classic narcissist do! He is a text book Narc! My ex is exactly like him!!
Lol why you concerned about farting
Yep! He is trying by all means to convince the whole country if not the world,that he is the best husband. He is convincing everybody but not the wife. He says he love her,but he says all the bad things abt her.
How can she go back to a man who hang his dirty laundry to the public. Instead of having these conversations with her,he decide to have it with public.
This is not love but,8 see a man who is sad that he allegedly helped someone to build her carrer.Then a person left. Most of the time he talk abt her career,and how was he involved. He is suffering frm "I made you" ,"You belong to me,I own you,You are nothing about me".
He's not delulu, coz none of us were in that marriage you would be surprised that the wife was worse, people who appear like angels in public are often the worst.
🤣🤣i should not be laughing at this
this was a true monologue, he could've recorded himself speak alone. He loves hearing the sound of his voice.
Yoh this is how Introverts feel when an outspoken person blabs on and on and on and on. It's actually energy draining when you sit and listen to a person speak like this, you cannot even engage.
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Imagine watching a podcast and expecting the guest to be muted
Guys stop 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is a conversation between Nota
& Nota. 😂😂
I had to go read up on the comments first to get a feel of how the interview was, I'm scared to watch because Nota is Nota, I can definetly believe that Promise was not part of her own interview
So true! 😂😂😂
So true... He likes the sound of his own voice🙄
Amanda wee😂😂😂😂
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Bathong Nota can talk the whole month without a break, like the 1st 20 minutes he took over, Promise was just mmmm yah 😅,
How do people get energy to interview this guy Mara? Bcoz u will end up not asking real questions ⁉️
Narcs don't have a self. They don't see anybody. Just mannequins.
@@LesegoMadisaEllesGwell said.
He is one honest man!!
I love his honesty!😂
I love his honesty 😂
Nota is just telling his story. I see nothing wrong in this conversation. For the longest time, women come on such platforms to bash their ex partners and in laws, but they are not crucified. Let everyone be allowed to tell their stories the way they feel it's right.
But his partner never bashed him. She actually answered respectfully on Podcast and Chill
People dont like NOTA because he's honest and speaks without a filter. This man is a genius 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Nota is grown up physically and mentally, but inside, he still remains a little child. He might be stuck at age 4 sana he needs to visit his childhood there's something there.
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Spot on❤
Not 2 years???
@@LesegoMadisaEllesG 🤣🤣 eish.
Good morning woke culture
I loved this interview, here's why, most people like to talk about the negative sides of marriages and forget that there was time when it was good. Berita wouldn't have married Nota if it wasn't good at some point. While Nota might have his faults he tried to be there for Berita, he loved her still does. Let's celebrate the good accomplishments in marriage the same way we frawn upon the faults. Nota might be over the top but he tried to give his wife the best.
Are you for real? This is bullying by Nota, I swear one day Berita is going to sue him
😮and you know this how?
Facts.
When you have not been with a narcissist, you will never understand that the good times come with the most pain because they weaponize it for their good. You will hear things like I made you,,,,
@@nolubynature9513 Because she described the best times of her marriage in an interview. It's public knowledge
I’m so glad Barita found her Mojo and left this unhinged over arrogant empty psycho!! That woman is a gem💎 and Nota was a downgrade of epic proportions. No wonder he can’t let go and still rants about her on all platforms despite her getting away from his abuse, tantrums and meltdowns. Good for her ❤🥂
One thing this man will do is talk sana!
Uninterrupted
Dude!😂
Basadi NOTA a re when we see his wife on the streets we must tell her to go back to her marital home, a tla re tshepela a huge task.😭
no man nota is so funny 😭
Imagine 😂
55:26 is the moment Promise was regretting inviting this guy to this interview. Waze waisola 😂😂😂
I love the professionalism in sister Promise ❤ keep it up Sesi😢
Why am i watching this Ntate Molimo 😂😂😂😂😂
Lo when I saw this I was like I thought we stopped giving this guy airtime, but here I am watching 🤦🏾♀️😂
😂😂😂I'm actually asking myself the same question
Same but somehow i’m still watching 😂😂😂
Dude! 😂
😂😂😂 That's me
Not a lot of people commenting and only focusing on the negative and ignoring some important points he made
He is telling the truth... Uncomfortable truth
@@innocent.amchechesi276 and one thing I've learnt recently is that women and the truth are like oil and water
He is thelling the truth. Those who are in darkness will always oppose the truth
Guys please don't be nasty, if you dont have something true or positive to say please dont comment. The guy is a gent and he is human, I havent heard him insult or swear at anyone therefore does not deserve ugly words.
Just because you haven’t heard it?
You are also delusional
“In 2008 the Zimbabwean economy crashed and then your father was unable to provide for your family because the money in his pocket shrank on his walk to go and buy bread, so he could afford the bread when he left his house and by the time he got to the shop he couldn’t and that was the end of everything”🤣!!! Nota is really something else
Hey hey 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Theboywiththeplan 😂😂😂😅
The narration is outstanding 😅😅😅😅😅
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It sound like a movie but it's true events recorded and shit😅😂😂
There are people who go to therapy consistently to gain tools to manipulate the people around them. Nota is one of those people. He believes that he did nothing wrong as a husband because he believes his wife’s success is because of him.
He is a narcissist who does not even let people finish their sentences before jumping in to play victim and blow his own horn
Nota sound like a loving, caring, supportive and protective husband. I like this dude. I wish Nota and his wife can fix things and be a happy family forever ❤
The most genius guy I know,hence I ignore his arrogance,I look at the positive side of him,because if I will pay attention of negative side,I'll end up being a psycho,
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a narcissist makes for a great story teller, they know how to win hearts of those observing from the outside. the person who carries the sword's edge of such a narcissist is the one who lives behind closed doors with them. I Doubt that Beritha was perfect. but I am certainly sure she wasn't crazy either.
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I do not speak Xhosa but I feel like saying, "Hayi bethunana"😂
I feel you😂😂yhu hayi hayi hayi bethunana!
@@sinikiwembangi1867 kuthafu oe😂
@@phelosikhakhane comrade took me out when he said "there are women throwing themselves at me"😂😂😂 hayini bethuna!
@@sinikiwembangi1867 heyi issa lot, nginethiloma😂
Mntase issa lot😂so much thiloma bathong😢ngaze ngay'sola bo😂😂
Nota has delusions of grandeur
He is a danger to society and himself.
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No body believes you...uyazikhohlisa😊
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Real. 💯
Promise you were born for this, your interview skills keep improving and I pray you grow and get more brand deals
I love Nota so much, he's intelligent MARA he disappoints me everytime he answers questions on his marriage. His reasoning capacity just switches from good to bad 😔
I guess you can't be a genius in all departments
Real
Facts
Nota is intelligent iyoo I don't agree this is a madman he needs psychiatric sessions 😢'you know what I mean'😂
@@Moetemokgobo1243 Real
Noma angahlanya he's still an intelligent 🧠 guy 😂
Been going to therapy since I was four.😂😂😂 You didn’t stand a chance promise gale a thoma this
According to this Psychologist, narcissist usually manipulate, lie and twist things even with their therapists.
It's really pointless
@@hlengiweyourstruly 🤣🤣 that’s why I was saying his a professor at this
Nota is a genuine good guy... Yes there is a lot of arrogance and a superiority complex of some sort, however he knows his position and stands with an upright posture..... Ei go gontsi maan.....
No he talks too much and thinks he is always right. Just this too much talking will make me leave man. Too much noise. He gives trauma with noise
Go gontsi ngwaneso😮😮😮
@@nandimzanzi coz you'd rather be with a nonchalant serial cheater than an outspoken man who really cares
Yena he is smart but something is off...ekare he's on the spectrum.
You might be onto something herr
I try not to laugh mare😂😂😂😂. I mean should we be worried?
I think he is
Ray, I just laughed out loud after reading your comment because you summed up everything in one short sentence and you are so right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree. Mild apergers?????He just talks with no filter. Something is just off
My dear Promise... You've displayed so much maturity on this episode. I'm your day one subbie from Kenya and I've watched EVERY SINGLE episode since this podcast started. This man is delusional, he has refused to be accountable and he portrays narcissistic traits. Just by looking at him, his nails, his hair, his beard shows that he is unkempt, meaning he is battling huge internal battles. He needs to see a PSYCHIATRIST this one is beyond a psychologist. I don't know how you did it girl.. but good job! 👏🏾👏🏾 Your poise, your calmness and maturity has indeed proven to us that you were born for this Mrs Law❤
I cracked up when he covered his academic failure by claiming his sisters academic success 😂😂😂
Guys Berita saved herself.
Any woman would choose to scramble through life than to be tied down to this mess. Money is not everything and she taught him that ngenkani 😅
I stan that queen👑
Mntase that's when I knew that I'll need a drink to finish this podcast😂😂haibo are qualifications contagious na? Are my sister's degrees also mine?
@@sinikiwembangi1867😂😂😂
Same here mtase🙏🏾 I'm so glad she left! Sheesh
he said it his father's sperm- lol. the logic?! I am dying@@sinikiwembangi1867
his the only guy that can go toe to toe with a Lady and still win the Argument #AUTHORITY
Period 😂😂😂
That's why he's the GOAT
Happy Birthday LavidaNOTA. We really appreciate you.
Textbook narcissist, poor Berita 😔
Kore Promise cannot even finish her question without this guy interfering...Huu eee Promise I respect you sham
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Addicts tendencies
Yoooh! I thought Nota has changed after visiting America but neeh,he is still the same. His x wife is never going around talking abt him.But he find comfort in embarrassing her,every chance he get.
How can she really go back to him. He doesn't acknowledge that the wife is Talented. He pretend as if her songs were no 1 bcs of him doing some calls.I think he is holding on her bcs he think he made her,so he think he owns her. I dont see him anywhere where he show deep love for her without talking abt her music carrer.
He act like her music manager,but not like a husband who love his wife. Yonke into ayishoyo udicilela phansi isithunzi sakhe. Its all abt "i made you",I made calls so that her songs can be no1,I,I,I. Nota without making her no 1 in music,but the woman needed a husband and love. Nota has ready answers for everything. He doesnt wanna listen to understand but he listen to respond. Always in a defence mode ay ngeke yooh! asoze.Isdina sendoda akukho thando la,lo ukhalela imali yakhe shwem.
Everything is about what he did. No tender memories.
I don't know why Nota remind me of Young Sheldon 😅😅he is really smart
The level of delulu keeps worsing every year
It's the only solulu for him my dhiye 😂
This is very serious and dangerous but your comment my sister in Christ 🤣🤣🤣😭
Every second of every minute😂😂😂
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It's "worsening" 🤺
Way to go Nota. AKA died having been labeled as some violent abusive guy because he cared about preserving his 'wife's' legacy. Now he is not here to defend himself.
Truth to power!
😅😂 lol Nota said AKA pushed Anele after the incident happened...relax and STFU 😂
@@nolubynature9513 No one knows what happened behind the scene Yes AKA is gone cannot answer to this.
Iyhooo Nota xhem, he is a confusion, typical Narc, he can be extremely nice to his wife but Also bad....Poor Berita xhem, her life was confusion everyday. One moment he is good, the next moment its toxic. And I wouldn't be surprise if she can go back becauase when he is good its extremely good. She needs therapy to keep herself together.
Berita is in therapy. She spoke about this on podcast and chill
I'm sure the wife, keeps on saying haibo now and then listening to his. Surely thanking the Lord for taking her out
This... As I sit here, not even being the wife, saying haibo every 10 seconds 😂
Thank God that she left...yhoooo
Good move by the wife... His just too much, no full stop...I hate these types of man who thinks whatever they do is always right
One thing about Nota his story is the same on every interview.
If it's the same it means he is telling the truth
nope, not always the case for narcissist as the aim is to tarnish the image of another and never account for their part. Their speech is rehearsed and replayed because repetition wins more audience and attention that they thrive off@@tshephomanyothwane1916
Why comparing yourself with black coffee, you dont even exist in his world....keep yourself busy Nota, go and help SAPS with AKA case, you are very good with analysing
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Stop commenting, you are exposing your stupidity to the world!
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Noooo😂😂😂😂
"I don't want you to be like Beyonce." yho hay mna I would never have left Nota 😂😂😂😂
That Beyoncé comment killed me 😂
No I didnt grow up soft but I grew up going to family vacations all the time😂😂😂😅😅😅 Tiktok is the downfall of my marriage...😂😂😂 All my exes see a father figure in me cos they have daddy issues....
Guys you can be brilliant at your craft but be terrible at life😬😬I'm not saying Nota is terrible at life but I can see why Berita keeps her distance😂
Imagine being married to Nota .... I can't imagine it 🤣🤣🤣
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Yhooo will ask for unpaid overtime at work, cause hayibo😢😂😂😂
Please show us who u are married to
@@Longfellow12 def not Baloyi ...
We are proud of you promise...every episode is growth mami
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I love Nota. ❤❤❤
I love your stance on your marriage. I pray that your marriage gets restored.
Enjoyed this interview, always enjoy listening to Nota.
🤣🤣🤣😂ai shem Berita must Run away angeke.
You have a gift that you're not aware of. Please consider a private consultation on marriages and relationships. There's a high score of marriages that are currently falling apart due to miscommunication and misunderstanding.
Please request a private and confidential one on one session/consultation with Nota and Berita. This doesn't have to be published or aired.
This man makes so much sense🥺🥺 just listen to him. He’s the modern day YE.
Nota is Nota...he is himself and unapologetic.
He asked himself questions and answered them... Promised asked around 5 questions🤣🤣🤣🤣I can never interview this little man!
Your comment made me LOL😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 YIIIIIIIIII 😭 BATHONG WENA!!!! Even telling her how to question him
Nota is a Narcissists. Talking about his in-laws recklessly and still expects to gix his marriage is just crazy.
Great interview. Not everything said was perfect but if u listen to understand you will get closure on what is happening in this guy's life.
If he is telling the truth, he is a great husband, he might have his flows but husband wise he is
A great husband going around telling the world how her wife's fart smells??
@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt you didn't get the point he was making
for the fact that you use "if" tells a lot about the vote of confidence in his statements
@@MbongeniTshuma-ld4kt😂😂😂😂I've never laughed like this bathong!
@@tshiamondlhovu1243 😂😂😂
I love your marriage content and your bold and unapologetic approach to marriage and ultimately family....
Ok Promise you tried, you listened, you offered advice indirectly... Nota always wants to be right and have the last say ai
Nota is just a danger to loved ones around him and himself.
Nota's story has been the same on every interview, he has never changed, he is telling the truth tle.
And he's very intelligent. He's one of those people who might not have a degrees but very intelligent.
This guy needs an appointment at Tara Hospital ASAP Rocky.
20 minutes in and Nota is definitely narcissistic. I don’t like using this word lightly; but the inability to sit still; exaggeration of his accomplishment; telling Promise to not compliment Berita because she doesn’t know her. What is he even wearing? This man must see a psychiatrist ASAP
OMGlol
ME ME ME ME ME ME ME
Everything I know about Betita’s family I heard it from Nota without asking yet he wonders why his mother-in-law preferred talking to Berita in private.
😂great observation there
Bring Nota again, here does have some valuable points. Those that think he is delulu won't watch especially for young musicians I think he'll make a great mentor. He might fail as a husband but he knows his job I remember he picked up Berita's song Ndiceli Kiss, and it blew up. Bring him back to share hie expertise.
Nota i know exactly what you are talking about. I can relate like fully. Thank you for explaining this so nicely more than i could have had
'They see a father figure in me' Hehaake🙄🙄
Hahahahaha. This is comedy shem. But let's admit, he is intelligent. Crazy but intelligent.
exposing sama corruption in the process. no one is spared, this guy is funny
we need a podcast called LIE LIKE NOTA
I really wish Nota and berita get back together. . . ❤ He clearly loved this woman 🎉❤
Same here ❤
Marriage is a beautiful union between two people who commit to sharing their lives together. A wedding is a celebration of this commitment, filled with love, joy, and cherished memories. It marks the beginning of a new chapter in their lives, where they create a future filled with happiness and togetherness.
Women throwing themselves at me🥹. Women who are you ? Niyashlaza.
Bayasihlebisa nje
His level of narcissism is scary 😨
Done watching I really enjoyed it.😊
I thoroughly enjoyed this interview...
Berita must thank her ancestors because there was no child here!!!😢😅
For real
Blessed Up King Nota
Its high time Men start speaking up for themselves
Power
And when men speak we have a problem 😢
I am glad they don't have kids, the only weapon he has after the failed marriage is these stupid interviews and tweets to try and tarnish her name.
If you aren't strong enough such a psycho can drive you to health complications and depression.
Through it all she remains graceful, beautiful and everyone can see ubani ohlanyayo😂😂😂
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I honestly feel like deep down Nota probably feels betrayed by wife that after "all the things he had done" for her she still left. And he kind of still feels owed. That's just my thoughts...
He can't even realise that his exposing himself, telling the world how he was abusing the wife.trying to play a victim mxxm his a narcissist
Love you Nota don't ever change my guy😊
him talking about his in-laws separation says alot about him🤥
Aah Jehova Nota can talk 😢jerrr this guy can talk 🙆♀️Promise ausy take your 🏆if is me aah I will stop cz jooh monna enwe ke trompeta
55:48 got so irritated on this part, I mean Black Coffee ungenaph?? Nota aowa hle
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He clearly has issues this one 😅
Well spoken Nota. I'm not sure why he's always criticized. I think he's just telling his truth
Nota that chat about Berita's family was uncalled for. It was not your place to talk about her parents like that. All promise asked you was for you to elaborate on how tik tok affected your marriage.
Yazin 💔💔💔🙄😤
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I love you Promise and I'm happy to see your growth and progress. I'm motivated indeed
Thank you Nhlamulo for inspiring & upholding the institution of marriage. It is still my prayer that you re-unite with your wife. What God has joined together LET NO man separate Matthew 19:6. Thank you to the host as well for allowing N the platform to express himself & for speaking an unpopular message & yet very constructive. I love Gugu very much by the way. Thank you to the two of you for 'Keys of Love.'
❤❤❤❤Bless you
One thing is for sure Nota loves his wife and Berita ntombi fix nohlanya lwakho because even if he moves on I can’t imagine the torture of him always referencing you to that poor woman…he’s really a lot but He loves his wife 😊😂😂😂😂😂😂
She knows better,she was the one staying with him. He can call her poor woman,or any names he want,but she doesn't need to go back to him for that. If she doesn't love him anymore. She can't be forced jst bcs he says he love her,but doing an opposite.
It's OK for people to separate,than staying in toxic relationships. When things end in tears,we ask people why they didn't leave each other.
@@zuzuh5755well I’m not saying she must go back for being called poor woman I’m using that on the third party that he might meet in the future.and anyway marriege is a place where people are allowed to separate and fix again as they agree since it’s a lifelong commitment.so me saying they should fix is solely on the stance that anyone can see and hear he loves her and that’s what God wants from a man the extra weaknesses he portrays can and should be fixed by them,families and professionals it’s not abuse to fix things.once you have a house you don’t demolish it when there’s cracks you plaster and paint it to fix it…unfortunately Nota and berita have not given us a sit down interview for us to know what really happened and my opinion is based on his mannerisms and consistency in how he speaks of her each time they ask about it.its not taboo or abusive if she would be back with him and they journey towards healing together
Nota is the master of digression