@@thakanesenwedi3740 Amen Amen Amen Me and my family are praying and we trust that God will answer our prayers for this couple. He listening, we need to ask with conviction.
May God remember couples who are facing Infertility, may He bless the, with children🙏🙌. May God remember their plight the way he did Elizabeth Zechariah
@Boikanyi Kabelo.., it's always all the time that men leave. Men who really appreciate thier women will no t leave rather they will work to fix he issues..It's just a big deal in the african society because of the culture. In the western world there are couples who just say oh they dont wanna have children
May be not all mens leaves but mostly men leaves or have children's out side, and disrespect the wife a lot. Even having only girls is an issue for most men.
I pray that God blesses you with a child sooner or later. Having gone through infertility myself, l can honestly say I know what you are going through. Was blessed with a son after trying for 7 years. In God's timing you'll have your child in your arms. With God nothing is impossible, will keep you in my prayers.
Relebogile you are everything we need in a talk show host and more, very respectful, unjudgemental, and all your guests are always comfortable. . As a journo myself I am learning a lot from this show ❤️❤️
This couple will have beautiful children and they will forget about all they went through and help, advise and motivate others who are taking longer to have kids. GOD'S TIME IS ALWAYS THE BEST.
A child is a God's Blessing, even a doctor will not be able to tell when you are going to have one or if you are not going to have one at all, and I know you guys are going to have one remember my words today. My parents was told they would never have a child after trying for years more that 9 years long story short now it's 4 of us 1st born who is now 31 us (Twins) 25 and last born 17
Mmmmm our ignorance has us here we take things fir granted and we think our knowledge is enough, at some point God want to teach us that He is He and nothing and no one can move Him expect the moment He decide to move to come to answer our request, if we can give God his time and stop thinking with our cleverness and bother people when are they having their baby.
Mi parents in law had kids after 7 years of their marriage and had 6 of them with set of twins last born, the other one is my husband. they are all still alive and healthy. I stayed 3 years in marriage without kids , now i have 3. kids really are a blessing from God!
I commend this couple for being so honest. Infertility is a topic african families don't always discuss openly. I have a 2 year old and it took me 5 months to conceive him...naturally but never did I ever think I would be unable to to have him. My husbae paid damages and a portion of magadi before I gave birth and that's when our families truly got to know each other. What I have learnt from this episode is everyone has their own journey to walk and its not always going to be easy. We plan to expand our family soon and I pray this couple receive their blessing...those who want to be parents deserve to be parents.
People dont care shame, they judgemental kakhulu. I always tell my surrounding to never ask people when they having kids, cause some cant conceive and some just dont want to have kids. Nobody said you should have kids when you reach a certain age.. Hai abayekwe abantu
The interview was so educational, people are honestly cruel and so insensitive, let's hope this will change their attitude towards people who struggle with something beyond their control
Relebogile you are God sent. This work you are doing is a gift from God. It's not everyone who can do this Ike you do. You are unpacking well. Educating the world and also setting people free through them opening up and sharing their stories. You are a gift!
I'm Here already. Yoh this Conversation is so Touching and Deep that People don't realize asking Certain Questions triggers People. They didn't do this to themselves. Both men and women can struggle. I've seen women being blamed alot. However I loved this Couple and This conversation. Very enlightening. Sis Lebo As amazing as always. Love♡
Learnt a good lesson to be sensitive with other people despite our curiosity. I have a testament of some cousins who had been married for over 25 years, adopted a child and at age 50 were blessed with a fruit of their womb. Miracle right. Miracles happen.
I am 33 years old, been with him for 14 years and all along he and everyone around me believe I was the infertile one. Last year December I did an HSG amongst other test and found that I dont have any issues.
Children are not the be all, and end all in a decent relationship. Society needs education and basic humanitarian feelings. There are millions of children out there who needs decent loving parents. 🙏🙏🙏
There is something about God's timing. I fell pregnant when I had given up and didn't even want to take that pregnancy test. I pray that God will bless you with a child 🙏
I pray for the emotional well-being ya Thabo naNosipho as they navigate their way through this journey.May your love for each other remain as strong.We will be praying and interceding for you even when you no longer have the strength to….may you hope always remain alive.Above it all,you are blessed to have each other💕
I will start saying that"We are struggling to have a baby", Sometimes it's hard but we just be strong for each other. They are my role model from now on.
How about maybe set up a "go fund me" platform and try the IVF, just know that we are all praying for you and never loose hope. God is able to turn things around...
I had to watch this twice , first on tv then here on TH-cam . They’re strength to be each other’s support system and composure is unmatched ❤️ . I hope one day they do get to conceive .
My God I can relate nd I've been going through the same journey and when Thabo says he can't pray any more, I really can relate.. People must stop being so rude towards people who are struggling.. God bless you
My prayer for this lovely couple and all others that are facing this challenge. Is that may this time be the devine timing and may the Creator remember their prayers and bless them with the Gift they've prayed for, for years. May they come back and share their testimony. 🙏
I have this aunt, and her husband who have been married for 3 years now and known each other for 12. Being ol nosey people that we are, folkz are/ were always on their neck about having kids including myself.After learning about infertility in school and learning more info about it , I stopped being a Nosey ass and stopped asking things that didn't concern me,and I just wish People educate themselves about how sensitive and serious this matter is and MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS!
I feel for them. I hope he sincerely apologized to his wife for putting the blame on her and accusing her of taking birth control behind his back. Also, I hope they ditched those "friends" who made the barren comments. They do not need such people in their lives.
I just want to encourage Mr and Mrs Nkosi there is a God up there and He answers prayer. But in His own time. So don't loose hope. I was told by a doctor that the type of fibroids I will never have children. But today I am a mother of three. I will keep you in my prayers cause I can feel your pain
Thank you for sharing your story..I have hope that one day God will give you your heart desire...Am 37 years old, single, no kids yet..I also get crazy questions like when are u having kids? When are you getting married etc, am also like Thabo I put people to their right places, but it is boring that people ask crazy questions ntjeee .
I learned to listen to myself and forget about other people's Expectations. Everyone around know I'm struggling people take that and use to hurt you intentionally. So now I don't bother myself. If she telling you about her child and you advice. They will you won't understand because you not a mother so I decided to be not part of those celebrations as end of baby shower they will say who next we sure it's you. I'm not attending I'm sending gifts but I'm working on being comfortable and accepting where I am so that I won't care anymore.
This is so painful 💔 😢 I'm also facing this problem in my marriage and its realy heartbreaking when you struggle to have a child when you most wanted and you've been trying fir years and still nothing 😭😭😭
What a strong couple. Bra Thabo Wow your openness and honesty about this is amazing. It's the first time seeing a man who is not controlled by ego. you look like a cool,kind man. What I know is that this will happen when you least expect it.Relax and stop being anxious about it. it will happen. Gods time is the best. My sister God will reward your understanding,love and Patience.
This hurts, it hurts a lot because even when you have made peace with the situation yourself, people make it so difficult and never think about the other people's feelings.
I can only sigh after watching this episode of a couple that is pressurised on a situation they have very little control over. There's a lot that we have to unlearn in the our black communities and a lot more to learn. Who said anyone has a right to throw assumptions around pertaining to other people's circumstances? Is it that difficult for some people to mind their business? Anyway, all the best to the couple.
I like the way this lady is. She is so mature and God have given her grace to handle the situation. I understood her when she said, some days are good and some days are worse
I love this couple♡♡♡Keep teaching us Relebohile.I am happy that this topic was discussed.Let us educate our parents and in laws to never ask if they see no baby bump. INFERTILITY WILL ALWAYS BE A SENSITIVE AND PERSONAL...For future talks..can we have SUCCESSFUL stories on fertility,fibroids and PCOS.Just to motivate those that have lost all hope
The friends were completely wrong stating their friends as "barren" ones should use this car. God will bless this beautiful couple. Hang in there, I can pickup pain in the guys voice more than the woman. Keep the support 🥰🥰🥰
I love how Lebo processes and articulates information give by the guests. She just summarizes everything so beautifully in the end. Great job and a very informing segment❤👏
This is a sad story I do feel about this couple. I love the fact that his wife she’s still around. Yes sometimes men doesn’t know if they have issues until they go to seek help. So as long they love each other that’s all matters. Godx can do miracles, just keep faith, hope that one day someone will bring a infant to you guys hanging there
Dear Jesus I am praying for a miracle for this couple. In you all things are possible.
Amen
In the name of Jesus every knee shall bow. They will conceive... We agreement with them ❤️❤️
@@thakanesenwedi3740 Amen Amen Amen
Me and my family are praying and we trust that God will answer our prayers for this couple. He listening, we need to ask with conviction.
AMEN
Amen
In Jesus name Amen
Thabo: "I'm no longer worried about having a child."
This is where it's going to happen, when you least expect it. God bless you
I fully agree with you. Twins. One time. God restores.
Amen. I am praying for them 🙏🙏🙏
So true, God in most cases blesses people when they have accepted their fate.
May God remember couples who are facing Infertility, may He bless the, with children🙏🙌. May God remember their plight the way he did Elizabeth Zechariah
when we ran out of options, God begins....Im waiting for their testimony
If it was the other way round the man could have long left. Women are so strong, I respect them so much
Clearly you don't know me, I love my wife. LOL!
So true
That's true a Man would have left a long time ago or made a child outside 🤞🏽
@Boikanyi Kabelo.., it's always all the time that men leave. Men who really appreciate thier women will no t leave rather they will work to fix he issues..It's just a big deal in the african society because of the culture. In the western world there are couples who just say oh they dont wanna have children
May be not all mens leaves but mostly men leaves or have children's out side, and disrespect the wife a lot. Even having only girls is an issue for most men.
I pray that God blesses you with a child sooner or later. Having gone through infertility myself, l can honestly say I know what you are going through. Was blessed with a son after trying for 7 years. In God's timing you'll have your child in your arms. With God nothing is impossible, will keep you in my prayers.
Amen 🙏🏽
God's timing is perfect. I am happy that you story had a happy ending
Ohh my, the way I relate to this couple. Infertility is so lonely and painful because society treats its like a shameful topic.
True hey
I have pessed the same path for 8yrs.but God is faithful He came through.I am a mother of 3yrs daughter. I believe God will do it for you.
Nosipho such a strong woman Thabo such a great guy look after her she's so beautiful
this is what should be discussed real issues that affect us as humans
I agree with you Thuto, society must be educated on infertility
Thabo you’re representing us well, may God grant you the spirit and power you need in dealing with this situation....
One thing about Relebogile, she'll UNPACK unsaid conversations 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yeah she can ask all the right questions
Don’t stop praying my dear brother.
Let others also pray for you
I will keep praying for you everyday
Relebogile you are everything we need in a talk show host and more, very respectful, unjudgemental, and all your guests are always comfortable. . As a journo myself I am learning a lot from this show ❤️❤️
I love this I agree. Today here she made me love her forever!!
I love her shz soo good
This couple will have beautiful children and they will forget about all they went through and help, advise and motivate others who are taking longer to have kids. GOD'S TIME IS ALWAYS THE BEST.
A child is a God's Blessing, even a doctor will not be able to tell when you are going to have one or if you are not going to have one at all, and I know you guys are going to have one remember my words today. My parents was told they would never have a child after trying for years more that 9 years long story short now it's 4 of us 1st born who is now 31 us (Twins) 25 and last born 17
Mmmmm our ignorance has us here we take things fir granted and we think our knowledge is enough, at some point God want to teach us that He is He and nothing and no one can move Him expect the moment He decide to move to come to answer our request, if we can give God his time and stop thinking with our cleverness and bother people when are they having their baby.
Mi parents in law had kids after 7 years of their marriage and had 6 of them with set of twins last born, the other one is my husband. they are all still alive and healthy. I stayed 3 years in marriage without kids , now i have 3. kids really are a blessing from God!
A very sensitive subject, but well handled and shared 👏
Hi Emma ☺️ I hope you are doing well
@@preciousnotico hey! Great bumping into you here , I'm well thanks and yourself?
Handled with care.😇
I like how you defended the insult on Caster... You are so good Rea
I commend this couple for being so honest. Infertility is a topic african families don't always discuss openly. I have a 2 year old and it took me 5 months to conceive him...naturally but never did I ever think I would be unable to to have him. My husbae paid damages and a portion of magadi before I gave birth and that's when our families truly got to know each other. What I have learnt from this episode is everyone has their own journey to walk and its not always going to be easy. We plan to expand our family soon and I pray this couple receive their blessing...those who want to be parents deserve to be parents.
With God Nothing is Impossible
Its the consistency for me. Keep it up with educational topics
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Infertility e bohloko hle💔😢. I pray that as a black community especially could be more sensitive to it.
People dont care shame, they judgemental kakhulu. I always tell my surrounding to never ask people when they having kids, cause some cant conceive and some just dont want to have kids. Nobody said you should have kids when you reach a certain age.. Hai abayekwe abantu
Black people need serious intervention if it's not fertility, it's depression or it's ethnicity. We need to learn more empathy in addition to ubuntu.
Can this be a lesson for everyone not to be insensitive when it comes to having kids❤️❤️
unfortunately, it is the most comfortable topic to those who can conceive
May God show off to this couple. May he show them why we call him the God of Miracles. 🙏♥️
Amen
The interview was so educational, people are honestly cruel and so insensitive, let's hope this will change their attitude towards people who struggle with something beyond their control
They will get pregnant when they least expect it! Never lose hope, miracles still happen ❤️
This man is brave to be talking about this. So many men wouldn't be able to do this. I appreciate him for taking the time to educate us.
Real man
Relebogile you are God sent. This work you are doing is a gift from God. It's not everyone who can do this Ike you do. You are unpacking well. Educating the world and also setting people free through them opening up and sharing their stories.
You are a gift!
Praying for complete contentment and joy for this couple Lord! child or not... please bless them with peace of mind.
I'm Here already. Yoh this Conversation is so Touching and Deep that People don't realize asking Certain Questions triggers People. They didn't do this to themselves. Both men and women can struggle. I've seen women being blamed alot.
However I loved this Couple and This conversation. Very enlightening.
Sis Lebo As amazing as always.
Love♡
People are inconsiderate and insensitive to be honest.
I pray for you Nosipho and Thabo
Thank you so much mama.
The problem is when people ask when are you having a child😢. Male infertility it needs a awareness.
Jooo guys just Trust God, 🙌❤
The guy is so honest uyati. Siyabonga bhuti ukhona Nkulunkulu
Learnt a good lesson to be sensitive with other people despite our curiosity. I have a testament of some cousins who had been married for over 25 years, adopted a child and at age 50 were blessed with a fruit of their womb. Miracle right. Miracles happen.
God s time is the best, nothing is impossible with God, keep on praying...
I am 33 years old, been with him for 14 years and all along he and everyone around me believe I was the infertile one. Last year December I did an HSG amongst other test and found that I dont have any issues.
Love this couple ...i watched their journey on TH-cam.
This is the most painful struggle a couple can endure. All of the best to the couple and others going through this.
Children are not the be all, and end all in a decent relationship.
Society needs education and basic humanitarian feelings.
There are millions of children out there who needs decent loving parents.
🙏🙏🙏
I wish there can be a Doctor who can perform IVF for them for free just for sharing this challenge with us. Al the best!!
We need more of these conversations. I wouldn't like to see this show end anytime soon, the content here is so rich and meaningful❤️
There is something about God's timing. I fell pregnant when I had given up and didn't even want to take that pregnancy test.
I pray that God will bless you with a child 🙏
God is great
I pray for the emotional well-being ya Thabo naNosipho as they navigate their way through this journey.May your love for each other remain as strong.We will be praying and interceding for you even when you no longer have the strength to….may you hope always remain alive.Above it all,you are blessed to have each other💕
Thank you so much. And to everyone thank you so much. May God bless you all .
This is so painful 😭 man I found myself crying, praying for a Miracle one day you guys shall testify God is a wonder working God 🙏🏾
This one really hits home 😢😢
I will start saying that"We are struggling to have a baby", Sometimes it's hard but we just be strong for each other. They are my role model from now on.
May God bless you with a bundle of joy. Been there and it's not easy.
Luke 1v37
Say the gents that probably aren't even looking after their children in anyway
This guy is a man amongst man. I like that you tried everything. Althou none of it was successful but u tried. Now we let God do His magic
How about maybe set up a "go fund me" platform and try the IVF, just know that we are all praying for you and never loose hope. God is able to turn things around...
I had to watch this twice , first on tv then here on TH-cam . They’re strength to be each other’s support system and composure is unmatched ❤️ . I hope one day they do get to conceive .
Wait it's on tv?
My God I can relate nd I've been going through the same journey and when Thabo says he can't pray any more, I really can relate.. People must stop being so rude towards people who are struggling.. God bless you
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Same!!! and its annoying when people think you have not tried every option!! People must just STOP asking these questions
So much respect to this beautiful couple. So honest and relatable.
Indeed there is still hope.
My prayer for this lovely couple and all others that are facing this challenge. Is that may this time be the devine timing and may the Creator remember their prayers and bless them with the Gift they've prayed for, for years.
May they come back and share their testimony. 🙏
Thabo Nosipho I pray for you guys..this is so hard but you can do this
I have this aunt, and her husband who have been married for 3 years now and known each other for 12.
Being ol nosey people that we are, folkz are/ were always on their neck about having kids including myself.After learning about infertility in school and learning more info about it , I stopped being a Nosey ass and stopped asking things that didn't concern me,and I just wish People educate themselves about how sensitive and serious this matter is and MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS!
I feel for them. I hope he sincerely apologized to his wife for putting the blame on her and accusing her of taking birth control behind his back.
Also, I hope they ditched those "friends" who made the barren comments. They do not need such people in their lives.
Yes they need new friends honestly
I’m definitely going to tell them straight up now. Because infertility hurts and we are going through the same
Marry me 😆 🤣 😂
@@matshidisoanastaciampotsan2642??? And then???
@@Nokss87 just a joke
I really feel sorry for the couple, but God knows their needs ,one day
God will bless them,I'm with them in prayers!
I just want to encourage Mr and Mrs Nkosi there is a God up there and He answers prayer. But in His own time. So don't loose hope. I was told by a doctor that the type of fibroids I will never have children. But today I am a mother of three. I will keep you in my prayers cause I can feel your pain
😁, I’m always looking forward to seeing sesi Lebo 😘 and getting enriched with information 🥳
Friends saying "the barren ones" no those are not friends
They better not have those people as friends anymore. 🚮
Some people are stupid
Definitely
I'm shook!
Thank you for sharing your story..I have hope that one day God will give you your heart desire...Am 37 years old, single, no kids yet..I also get crazy questions like when are u having kids? When are you getting married etc, am also like Thabo I put people to their right places, but it is boring that people ask crazy questions ntjeee .
I learned to listen to myself and forget about other people's Expectations. Everyone around know I'm struggling people take that and use to hurt you intentionally. So now I don't bother myself. If she telling you about her child and you advice. They will you won't understand because you not a mother so I decided to be not part of those celebrations as end of baby shower they will say who next we sure it's you. I'm not attending I'm sending gifts but I'm working on being comfortable and accepting where I am so that I won't care anymore.
At times it's people who aren't married themselves asking such questions and some aren't responsible parents for that matter
Why are you single?
I CANNOT wait to celebrate they miracle baby, I believe that God will see them through
True that, in his good time God will make miracle
Praying for this couple. I hope God can remember them and bless them with a child.
My heart pour out for you Nkosi's le tlo mothola ngwana ka matla a modimo.
I wish we get to the point where Society let's people be and live the lives they want to or meant to live
May God provide the money for IVF for this lovely couple.He will do it for them.
This is so painful 💔 😢 I'm also facing this problem in my marriage and its realy heartbreaking when you struggle to have a child when you most wanted and you've been trying fir years and still nothing 😭😭😭
Let us NOW give God a chance NOTHING is IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD
You will conceive b4 the end of this year...
Thabo is very brave. It is not often that men open up about such issues
True he is a brave man
What a strong couple. Bra Thabo Wow your openness and honesty about this is amazing. It's the first time seeing a man who is not controlled by ego. you look like a cool,kind man. What I know is that this will happen when you least expect it.Relax and stop being anxious about it. it will happen. Gods time is the best. My sister God will reward your understanding,love and Patience.
This hurts, it hurts a lot because even when you have made peace with the situation yourself, people make it so difficult and never think about the other people's feelings.
I can only sigh after watching this episode of a couple that is pressurised on a situation they have very little control over. There's a lot that we have to unlearn in the our black communities and a lot more to learn. Who said anyone has a right to throw assumptions around pertaining to other people's circumstances? Is it that difficult for some people to mind their business? Anyway, all the best to the couple.
Always good to see locals rocking local footwear brands ✊🏾✊🏾
Always!
I LOVE the transparency and honesty of this couple..Lebo good advice("ps send your husband"). Another job WELL DONE sis.🌺🌺🌺
I like the way this lady is. She is so mature and God have given her grace to handle the situation. I understood her when she said, some days are good and some days are worse
This show is going far.
Hi! I wanted to let you know that Thabo N Nosipho have a TH-cam channel. Please let's support them. 😘😘😘 I just love them and wish them all the best.
I love this couple♡♡♡Keep teaching us Relebohile.I am happy that this topic was discussed.Let us educate our parents and in laws to never ask if they see no baby bump. INFERTILITY WILL ALWAYS BE A SENSITIVE AND PERSONAL...For future talks..can we have SUCCESSFUL stories on fertility,fibroids and PCOS.Just to motivate those that have lost all hope
Let the couple go to Steve biko,maximum is 25k
At God's appointed time everything will be perfect 🙏🏽 He will bless you with the joy of your hearts.
Not having kids is not the end of the road guys. Just love another
Infertility and depression those are things that are just never taken serious in African societies.
Relebogile guys❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...
This is the topic that most men avoid. Thank you guys
I totally have more respect for this man, and I pray for God's intervention
Ohhw marn this is so touching and I love how they support each other, it’s beautiful.
It will happen In Gods time.
Real life issues indeed❤️
The friends were completely wrong stating their friends as "barren" ones should use this car. God will bless this beautiful couple. Hang in there, I can pickup pain in the guys voice more than the woman. Keep the support 🥰🥰🥰
Jesus bless this beautiful couple with a miracle 🙏 We believe you have already done it!
Honest conversations that our society needs to hear. Worth hearing very educational thanx so much
😭 Pressures of this world come in many forms.
Oh my good Thabo and nthabisengs story is so touching I love how Thabo is so honest indeed.
I love how Lebo processes and articulates information give by the guests. She just summarizes everything so beautifully in the end. Great job and a very informing segment❤👏
I am trusting, praying and believing God to come through for you both.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love his honesty
Konke okusemhlabeni ngokukaJehova God bless you both with inner peace and acceptance
I pray for this couple to ha e their own child/children. Dear God, please bless this couple, in Jesus' name, AMEN.
This is a sad story I do feel about this couple. I love the fact that his wife she’s still around. Yes sometimes men doesn’t know if they have issues until they go to seek help. So as long they love each other that’s all matters. Godx can do miracles, just keep faith, hope that one day someone will bring a infant to you guys hanging there
God is faithful. One day you will give your testimony. I have walked that journey. God answered me when i had given up.
GOD WILL MAKE A WAY FOR US 🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
God knows how much this is affecting you. Don't give up. Keep on praying about it and God will answer
Trust Relebogile to leave no stone unturned... Incisive! 🙌🏾
Jireh-The lord will provide. God bless this couple.
They are such an amazing couple, they are lovely, may God hear their cry.
May God remember this couple.may this blessings locate you.