I think in some cases, from personal experience doing less is doing more. If she's not reciprocating, responding or making me a priority, then it's better to do nothing. She'll come back around at some point if she feels like it. I had this happen with both Slavic, and western women. But I would still not count on, or expect her to come back.If I have communicated with her for a while, I'll just check on her if she's ok, or make sure nothing happened.
Women have 100s or 1000s of options more than ever in history. They found a better option. Better looking better texter better status. No matter how much effort you put in or do everything right you can be replaced by another man at any time for any reason with no explanations.
The internet has created a global dating market so it's a tumultuous time for dating. I think things will settle down in another 20 years but for now we men are stuck with this challenge, IMHO.
And many of these ladies are corresponding with many men at the same time. Even if they tell you, they're not. Women are always looking to upgrade. Well, most men won't necessarily settle but be happy with what they have if they meet the minimum criteria Most want a calm household with no confrontation or drama. A reasonably clean house, A home-cooked meal here and there, and regular sex. The list that women want and think they need takes up several pages, Which we try to fulfill, but with too much, if they need and want, We can't be perfect. In my experience that is.
I had never been on any dating website till May 2024. So I played it by ear. On the Ukrainian website I could pick the age range and I created a profile. There were about 150 beautiful women in the young age range. So I made a list of three women I felt attracted to by physical appearance and by their profiles. All I did was to look at their profiles and photos and all three of them responded/reacted somehow within two days. That made it easy for me to get started. But I learned from previous videos and books that I need to avoid at all costs from appearing needy, so that’s how I’ve dealt with long-distance dating. So, now I am in love like never before and it has been a relatively smooth process. I love your podcast and can’t get enough of it. I’m so I love with the Ukrainian culture.
As always, both of you, do not disappoint!The humour, confusion and just the simple banter between you, makes for another amazing and informative video. Thank you! Respectfully, i must also, just point out, that Greenwich... as in Greewnwich-mean-time, has a silent "W" and also pronouced as "Grenich"... I had to smile when you both tried to pronounce it haha
This is a good video, the basics can be the easiest to forget. I would read all messages to my lady before hitting send so that there would be a minimized chance of misunderstanding.
What a wonderful video guys, I’m laughing so much here in Brasil right now😂😂 at the same time so much valuable information as always, both of you are great in your job and both of you deserve the highest success for sure, it is a pleasure for me watching your videos and absorbing so much good information from both of you, greetings from brasil😊✨❤️😎
@8:33 If they've heard it a thousand times before ... then just don't say a thing and walk away until they get their act together Women no matter what country they are from will walk all over you if you let them.
Angilina tells me she will text me when she gets home from work or being with family friends. She also says you text Mr when you are up in the morning. She calls me.
I'm confused...how could any man listening be upset/offended by ANY of her comments??? Any guy who is, should just remain living in his mother's bsmt, eating pop tarts and drinking Jolt cola. Dating ANY woman, let alone women from a foreign culture/language, is just not in the cards for you. Is there a Play Station 6 out yet?? Stay vigilant.
exhausting, trying to be perfect. Just be yourself, and if she plays games and plays hard to get, dump her!! life is too short and she will try and manipulate you in the future.
I was once dating the most intoxicating sweetest Russian girl (sorry!). And one of a sudden she went from 0 to 100 cause i would not buy her bottle of perfume to the point of wishing me ill, and bad luck. Talk about some crazy soviet mentality. Man o man I fled so fast didn't look back. Perhaps Ukrainasn are different but based on these videos seem very nuanced given our west and eastern Europe traditions, that anything can be misinterpreted from both sides.
Men have to remember the reason why they go to Eastern Europe to find wives. Appreciate the differences that she brings. Even if men have to learn her ways. Because once she moves to the west, she may become what men don't want. She'll become westernized. Don't turn her into something you're trying to get away from. Great topic!
Narcissism is global and when your hot and a woman in ukraine you are a very savy dater. They know their value however they are MORE likely to let it go to their heads, not less.
I have to disagree with your idea that is completely on the guy if she wouldn't respond or ghost you online. We're in 2024 where women on online dating platforms think they have unlimited options aka suffer the paradox of choice! If she doesn't respond for a couple of days, or even ghost you without any reason, it's normal these days, unfortunately, and can happen for reasons that have nothing to with you. It's frustrating and people are burning out online, having to strike up new conversations that eventually lead to nowhere. But these days it rather seems to be the rule than the exception. And again, this happens even without the guy having done anything wrong or being boring.
I am happy to see that Stryker is giving Luba new words. Adding the vocabulary words of “sugar tits” and “pudding tits” to “spank bank”, will benefit anyone! Hahahaha Would a woman be offended by “pudding tits”? They might think you are referring to their Grandmother. Lol
Do you have a consulting service? I've had about 7,000 women write to me and it's overwhelming trying to figure out how to chose a conservative woman who is a long term match. I think there are some cultural differences maybe I don't understand about Ukrainian women, as a US citizen. I was married to a Chinese woman so I know about cultural differences in general, but it seems there are more distinctions I need to understand.
I'm confused. Be strong, not assertive. Say hello, but don't ask how she's doing. Dont say b Baby or dear but beautiful is ok Don't you think a. Certain amount of tolerance on her part should be customary? I mean, we're men; we step in dog poop constantly, even though we try our best. The other things that we bring to the table, like the three P's, should be more important than a hi babe. How are you doing? If you've known her a little while, I mean she is a babe, right? I can see; I'm going to have to watch this the third time and make written notes. A lot of the points you made, you were going back and forth with what was right. What was wrong with girls here? Girls there you got a little confusing at times.
The West is NOT right... Stryker you said a mouthful. Unfortunately, all you have to do is take a look at the current President to know that America has issues. Luba, as far as pet names go, I was born raised and still live in the South (America) and have always referred to girls and women as "Sweetie". This is a habit that I had to break when I was in Europe and Ukraine because I realized very quickly that my typical greeting was inappropriate and that people were looking at me like I was retarded. 🤣
First of all, Ghosting by a man or women is "NO CLASS" ! No Excuse, as if I am not interested I would respectfully say such. Now on messaging a man should ALWAYS take the lead. "Man Up" :)
Angilina is also very insecure over she's a model who ended up with a prosthetic leg. She refers to it as a condition. She feels not pretty I think now.
I think in some cases, from personal experience doing less is doing more. If she's not reciprocating, responding or making me a priority, then it's better to do nothing. She'll come back around at some point if she feels like it. I had this happen with both Slavic, and western women. But I would still not count on, or expect her to come back.If I have communicated with her for a while, I'll just check on her if she's ok, or make sure nothing happened.
Women have 100s or 1000s of options more than ever in history. They found a better option. Better looking better texter better status. No matter how much effort you put in or do everything right you can be replaced by another man at any time for any reason with no explanations.
The internet has created a global dating market so it's a tumultuous time for dating. I think things will settle down in another 20 years but for now we men are stuck with this challenge, IMHO.
And many of these ladies are corresponding with many men at the same time.
Even if they tell you, they're not.
Women are always looking to upgrade.
Well, most men won't necessarily settle but be happy with what they have if they meet the minimum criteria
Most want a calm household with no confrontation or drama.
A reasonably clean house, A home-cooked meal here and there, and regular sex.
The list that women want and think they need takes up several pages, Which we try to fulfill, but with too much, if they need and want, We can't be perfect.
In my experience that is.
So do we. And we don't age out at 30!
I had never been on any dating website till May 2024. So I played it by ear. On the Ukrainian website I could pick the age range and I created a profile. There were about 150 beautiful women in the young age range. So I made a list of three women I felt attracted to by physical appearance and by their profiles. All I did was to look at their profiles and photos and all three of them responded/reacted somehow within two days. That made it easy for me to get started. But I learned from previous videos and books that I need to avoid at all costs from appearing needy, so that’s how I’ve dealt with long-distance dating. So, now I am in love like never before and it has been a relatively smooth process. I love your podcast and can’t get enough of it. I’m so I love with the Ukrainian culture.
As always, both of you, do not disappoint!The humour, confusion and just the simple banter between you, makes for another amazing and informative video. Thank you!
Respectfully, i must also, just point out, that Greenwich... as in Greewnwich-mean-time, has a silent "W" and also pronouced as "Grenich"... I had to smile when you both tried to pronounce it haha
Yeah, I knew it was something like that!
This is a good video, the basics can be the easiest to forget. I would read all messages to my lady before hitting send so that there would be a minimized chance of misunderstanding.
Yes. Mistranslation. Culture. And regular man woman stuff. Lots can go wrong !
What a wonderful video guys, I’m laughing so much here in Brasil right now😂😂 at the same time so much valuable information as always, both of you are great in your job and both of you deserve the highest success for sure, it is a pleasure for me watching your videos and absorbing so much good information from both of you, greetings from brasil😊✨❤️😎
Thanks for watching!
❤❤great content 😌
A better option came along.
I love how he has to say over and over again “something that YOU did”. Um 😐. How do you know it’s not something SHE did?? Stop simping
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If she ignores you DUMP HER she's not worth your time.
Less is more with women, dont chase.
@8:33 If they've heard it a thousand times before ... then just don't say a thing and walk away until they get their act together Women no matter what country they are from will walk all over you if you let them.
@24:28 I would prefer on top yet that's me
Angilina tells me she will text me when she gets home from work or being with family friends. She also says you text Mr when you are up in the morning. She calls me.
I'm confused...how could any man listening be upset/offended by ANY of her comments??? Any guy who is, should just remain living in his mother's bsmt, eating pop tarts and drinking Jolt cola. Dating ANY woman, let alone women from a foreign culture/language, is just not in the cards for you. Is there a Play Station 6 out yet?? Stay vigilant.
exhausting, trying to be perfect. Just be yourself, and if she plays games and plays hard to get, dump her!! life is too short and she will try and manipulate you in the future.
Luba seemed triggered by this topic. 🌻
I was once dating the most intoxicating sweetest Russian girl (sorry!). And one of a sudden she went from 0 to 100 cause i would not buy her bottle of perfume to the point of wishing me ill, and bad luck. Talk about some crazy soviet mentality. Man o man I fled so fast didn't look back. Perhaps Ukrainasn are different but based on these videos seem very nuanced given our west and eastern Europe traditions, that anything can be misinterpreted from both sides.
No it’s not unusual at all as most Russian woman I’ve dated hint to buy them things every time we would go out.👸
Men have to remember the reason why they go to Eastern Europe to find wives. Appreciate the differences that she brings. Even if men have to learn her ways. Because once she moves to the west, she may become what men don't want. She'll become westernized. Don't turn her into something you're trying to get away from. Great topic!
Narcissism is global and when your hot and a woman in ukraine you are a very savy dater. They know their value however they are MORE likely to let it go to their heads, not less.
I have to disagree with your idea that is completely on the guy if she wouldn't respond or ghost you online. We're in 2024 where women on online dating platforms think they have unlimited options aka suffer the paradox of choice! If she doesn't respond for a couple of days, or even ghost you without any reason, it's normal these days, unfortunately, and can happen for reasons that have nothing to with you. It's frustrating and people are burning out online, having to strike up new conversations that eventually lead to nowhere. But these days it rather seems to be the rule than the exception. And again, this happens even without the guy having done anything wrong or being boring.
I am happy to see that Stryker is giving Luba new words. Adding the vocabulary words of “sugar tits” and “pudding tits” to “spank bank”, will benefit anyone! Hahahaha
Would a woman be offended by “pudding tits”? They might think you are referring to their Grandmother. Lol
I wouldn't recommend it until the second date is confirmed; at the very least 😜
Do you have a consulting service? I've had about 7,000 women write to me and it's overwhelming trying to figure out how to chose a conservative woman who is a long term match. I think there are some cultural differences maybe I don't understand about Ukrainian women, as a US citizen. I was married to a Chinese woman so I know about cultural differences in general, but it seems there are more distinctions I need to understand.
I'm confused. Be strong, not assertive. Say hello, but don't ask how she's doing. Dont say b
Baby or dear but beautiful is ok
Don't you think a. Certain amount of tolerance on her part should be customary?
I mean, we're men; we step in dog poop constantly, even though we try our best.
The other things that we bring to the table, like the three P's, should be more important than a hi babe. How are you doing? If you've known her a little while,
I mean she is a babe, right?
I can see; I'm going to have to watch this the third time and make written notes. A lot of the points you made, you were going back and forth with what was right. What was wrong with girls here? Girls there you got a little confusing at times.
The West is NOT right... Stryker you said a mouthful. Unfortunately, all you have to do is take a look at the current President to know that America has issues. Luba, as far as pet names go, I was born raised and still live in the South (America) and have always referred to girls and women as "Sweetie". This is a habit that I had to break when I was in Europe and Ukraine because I realized very quickly that my typical greeting was inappropriate and that people were looking at me like I was retarded. 🤣
First of all, Ghosting by a man or women is "NO CLASS" ! No Excuse, as if I am not interested I would respectfully say such. Now on messaging a man should ALWAYS take the lead. "Man Up" :)
Angilina is also very insecure over she's a model who ended up with a prosthetic leg. She refers to it as a condition. She feels not pretty I think now.
so what? who cares