Not odd and many women would really appreciate this very much. And barring this war it would be a great place to live. I feel the same way. I’ve visited a few times including this summer
Not odd, I’ve been twice in 2023. I’d like to live there at least part of the year. Right now with my job, that is not possible. Once I retire it will be.
I feel the same. I have attended university in Ukraine (yes, since the war started). I have been seriously learning Ukrainian language and volunteer as an English teacher for Ukrainians both in Ukraine and USA. Being able to communicate in both languages is very helpful. Yes, I hope to meet a Ukrainian woman for marriage, but I would much prefer that it is me who moves, not her. Even if I do not meet someone, I want to use my abilities to help Ukraine however I can.
The second point really speaks to me. I'm currently talking with a Ukrainian worman and my friends brought up the same points. Except, she already has family here. She doesn't need me for a green card. She isn't after my money because, frankly, with her education she can easily out earn me if she wanted to. She's not trying to scam me because she even offered to help cover MY translation fees. She just likes me. Hell if I know why but she does and I can't wait to meet her in a few months. Thank you to both of you. I didn't even realize the catch 22 of thinking like that. I somehow managed to sidestep it by pure accident. But I could definitely see myself walking into that trap.
All true if you don't know her well. In my case all we talk about is where she will live. Congratulations on winning your award. You guys work very hard and deserve it.
Please forgive me, but the first question is very valid. He is looking for a relationship. How she responds will let him know if she is interested in him and be willing to move in with him. But, of course, this question should come up after they have spent significant time with each other. And most importantly, if two people are uncomfortable talking about intimate things then they are not meant for each other.
I was a nice way you handled the tricky subjects. I went to live and work in the USA from Australia, and I think some people overrate living in America. My attitude at the time was why go to America it is always on TV. I went and enjoyed things there that are not in Australia. I would never marry to get citizenship anywhere, and I think the Ukrainian lady might just be the same. One thing if you married someone from another country, you should be in a situation to be able to visit that place from time to time for special family events in her life.
To me if two people from two different countries both should be open to moving to be with each other. As a family they need to figure out where is the best for everyone involved.
The Ukrainian women have the right and should ask questions regarding his financial situation; especially if they plan to have children. And the men should be willing to be honest with them. I think the phrase gold diggers has gone too far. There is nothing wrong for women to want to be with a man who is financially stable. This should be one, among others, of their criteria for a man. These women are not gold diggers. A gold digger would be someone who brings nothing or very little to the table.
Hi Luba/Stryker! Your first question came up in my Zoom Group. Most women said they are willing to move a second or third time for love/serious relationship. There were women who did say No. They started a new life, job and if they have young children they do not want to uproot them again. The women said they would not be offended and would rather be honest with the man rather than waste both of their time. Also, it was mentioned a matchmaker may ask that question if the man specifically says he can't relocate and is looking for the woman to move. You are correct though, if a lady is willing to talk to you and she knows the man lives in the US, then for the man to play head games with himself should not be looking to date overseas. That person will always have doubts and most likely self sabotage the relationship. Lastly, Stryker is right, the man with the house was a total overreaction and probably has insecurities & again would self sabotage the relationship. Just my thoughts.
A lot of women in their 20s : 26 /27/28 did leave and they seem VERY capable and adaptable in England .... but underneath things are hard for them and they have no security or belief in the future - often their father could be 50 + and fighting on the frontline , but they usually hide their anxiety. Definitely : "Don't mention the war" , as Basil Fawlty says in " The Germans" .
You're missing the point of that 1st question; most men (I know I would), want to know if she plans to go back to Ukraine some time. Ukraine's women all leaving the country in droves, and deserting their men, will hand Ukraine to Russia in a few years, because the Ukrainian men will have very little to fight for. The flip-side of that is once Ukraine starts rebuilding MANY Ukrainian women will rush back, and leave the men who looked after them in another country.
Ukrainian women are leaving their men in droves? Where do you have evidence of this? Married or otherwise partnered Ukrainian women are not on dating sites looking for men. You are clearly ignorant about the situation. You are the type of distrusting, paranoid guy who they are addressing in the video.
No its not the wrong question to ask if she want to remain living where she is. If she doesnt know that she is willing to move to another country if she meets the right guy, then dont waste your time with her. If she says she doesnt know whather plans are then this is acceptable. The huge problem is with your site and others is that these women will lie to the end of the earth and tell guys they are looking to move to another country even though they know they are not willing and want to always remain where they are. And it is very hard to get a lady to leave Ukraine, because they always consider this their home.
If there are so many restrictions on what we should or shouldn't talk about, then, pethaps, just perhaps, this isn't the time to start a new romance, for the long term, at least?
I think this, it's a minefield talk to any woman from any nationality outside of war. Men give women leeway if they steer it somewhere boring or sensitive. It just doesn't seem worth the time and effort they lose feelings because the topic was a little awkward.
I'm curious if you have the data. How many marriages with Ukrainians end up in divorce. And what was the main factor. I wonder if religion plays a major role, because Ukrainians are Orthodox marrying a Protestant.
Oh Jesus Christ. Do you plan to stay here? = Is it worthy for me to spend time with you or expect an LTR with you? Valid question. Why is it we have to protect women's feelings all the time? What about the man's feeling. If the guy starts falling in love with someone who is most likely to leave, he is wasting his time, not to mention he will be heart broken when he leaves. Scr3w that that is a reasonable question.
So - do NOT ask the most common sense questions? She might get offended by genuine & kind questions? She’s a war refugee, who may, or may not - stay in that country, meet you in yours, or have a job there or here? But all this is all off limits? Instead: pay $16,000 bucks to make small talk with a woman who might never meet you? Or will be offended by simple important questions? Who are these people?? If she’s so easily offended, you won’t have a comfortable relaxed life with her!
Please Don’t Insinuate that Western Women sit home why the men work. There’s reason some women may stay home, and others are lucky to stay home with there children. But most families have 2 parents that work. Especially now that we have a awful inflation. Don’t believe everything you see or hear on TV shows. Thank and be careful ladies.
While the war is on forget dating Ukrainian women. They could want to return home, then there's family, children will probably be involved and say anything other than the Ukrainian point of view you are out.
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Thanks for covering a difficult subject, but a very important subject, with skill and sensitivity. Great work.
I've been dating a lady in States from Ukraine, and these videos are honestly incredibly helpful for this situation too.
Thank you so much, for reminding us of good manners and tack.
I guess I'm odd, I want to move to Ukraine. I want her to stay involved with her family and friends.
Not odd and many women would really appreciate this very much. And barring this war it would be a great place to live. I feel the same way. I’ve visited a few times including this summer
Forever?
Not odd, I’ve been twice in 2023. I’d like to live there at least part of the year. Right now with my job, that is not possible. Once I retire it will be.
I feel the same. I have attended university in Ukraine (yes, since the war started). I have been seriously learning Ukrainian language and volunteer as an English teacher for Ukrainians both in Ukraine and USA. Being able to communicate in both languages is very helpful. Yes, I hope to meet a Ukrainian woman for marriage, but I would much prefer that it is me who moves, not her. Even if I do not meet someone, I want to use my abilities to help Ukraine however I can.
The second point really speaks to me. I'm currently talking with a Ukrainian worman and my friends brought up the same points. Except, she already has family here. She doesn't need me for a green card. She isn't after my money because, frankly, with her education she can easily out earn me if she wanted to. She's not trying to scam me because she even offered to help cover MY translation fees. She just likes me. Hell if I know why but she does and I can't wait to meet her in a few months.
Thank you to both of you. I didn't even realize the catch 22 of thinking like that. I somehow managed to sidestep it by pure accident. But I could definitely see myself walking into that trap.
All true if you don't know her well. In my case all we talk about is where she will live. Congratulations on winning your award. You guys work very hard and deserve it.
Please forgive me, but the first question is very valid. He is looking for a relationship. How she responds will let him know if she is interested in him and be willing to move in with him. But, of course, this question should come up after they have spent significant time with each other.
And most importantly, if two people are uncomfortable talking about intimate things then they are not meant for each other.
I was a nice way you handled the tricky subjects. I went to live and work in the USA from Australia, and I think some people overrate living in America. My attitude at the time was why go to America it is always on TV. I went and enjoyed things there that are not in Australia. I would never marry to get citizenship anywhere, and I think the Ukrainian lady might just be the same. One thing if you married someone from another country, you should be in a situation to be able to visit that place from time to time for special family events in her life.
To me if two people from two different countries both should be open to moving to be with each other. As a family they need to figure out where is the best for everyone involved.
The Ukrainian women have the right and should ask questions regarding his financial situation; especially if they plan to have children. And the men should be willing to be honest with them.
I think the phrase gold diggers has gone too far. There is nothing wrong for women to want to be with a man who is financially stable. This should be one, among others, of their criteria for a man. These women are not gold diggers. A gold digger would be someone who brings nothing or very little to the table.
Hi Luba/Stryker! Your first question came up in my Zoom Group. Most women said they are willing to move a second or third time for love/serious relationship. There were women who did say No. They started a new life, job and if they have young children they do not want to uproot them again. The women said they would not be offended and would rather be honest with the man rather than waste both of their time. Also, it was mentioned a matchmaker may ask that question if the man specifically says he can't relocate and is looking for the woman to move. You are correct though, if a lady is willing to talk to you and she knows the man lives in the US, then for the man to play head games with himself should not be looking to date overseas. That person will always have doubts and most likely self sabotage the relationship. Lastly, Stryker is right, the man with the house was a total overreaction and probably has insecurities & again would self sabotage the relationship. Just my thoughts.
Very good advice!!!!😀
It sounds like both sides when getting to know each other should give the other person the benefit of the doubt.
A lot of women in their 20s : 26 /27/28 did leave and they seem VERY capable and adaptable in England .... but underneath things are hard for them and they have no security or belief in the future - often their father could be 50 + and fighting on the frontline , but they usually hide their anxiety. Definitely : "Don't mention the war" , as Basil Fawlty says in " The Germans" .
You're missing the point of that 1st question; most men (I know I would), want to know if she plans to go back to Ukraine some time. Ukraine's women all leaving the country in droves, and deserting their men, will hand Ukraine to Russia in a few years, because the Ukrainian men will have very little to fight for. The flip-side of that is once Ukraine starts rebuilding MANY Ukrainian women will rush back, and leave the men who looked after them in another country.
Ukrainian women are leaving their men in droves? Where do you have evidence of this? Married or otherwise partnered Ukrainian women are not on dating sites looking for men. You are clearly ignorant about the situation.
You are the type of distrusting, paranoid guy who they are addressing in the video.
100$ to start the dating process? I don't spend 100$ a date around here. Is there a guarantee?
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No its not the wrong question to ask if she want to remain living where she is. If she doesnt know that she is willing to move to another country if she meets the right guy, then dont waste your time with her. If she says she doesnt know whather plans are then this is acceptable. The huge problem is with your site and others is that these women will lie to the end of the earth and tell guys they are looking to move to another country even though they know they are not willing and want to always remain where they are. And it is very hard to get a lady to leave Ukraine, because they always consider this their home.
If there are so many restrictions on what we should or shouldn't talk about, then, pethaps, just perhaps, this isn't the time to start a new romance, for the long term, at least?
I think this, it's a minefield talk to any woman from any nationality outside of war. Men give women leeway if they steer it somewhere boring or sensitive. It just doesn't seem worth the time and effort they lose feelings because the topic was a little awkward.
Give the correct worded questions ... meanwhile, all these are proper questions, from either direction
I'm curious if you have the data. How many marriages with Ukrainians end up in divorce. And what was the main factor. I wonder if religion plays a major role, because Ukrainians are Orthodox marrying a Protestant.
Oh Jesus Christ. Do you plan to stay here? = Is it worthy for me to spend time with you or expect an LTR with you? Valid question. Why is it we have to protect women's feelings all the time? What about the man's feeling. If the guy starts falling in love with someone who is most likely to leave, he is wasting his time, not to mention he will be heart broken when he leaves. Scr3w that that is a reasonable question.
So - do NOT ask the most common sense questions? She might get offended by genuine & kind questions? She’s a war refugee, who may, or may not - stay in that country, meet you in yours, or have a job there or here? But all this is all off limits? Instead: pay $16,000 bucks to make small talk with a woman who might never meet you? Or will be offended by simple important questions? Who are these people?? If she’s so easily offended, you won’t have a comfortable relaxed life with her!
Please Don’t Insinuate that Western Women sit home why the men work. There’s reason some women may stay home, and others are lucky to stay home with there children. But most families have 2 parents that work. Especially now that we have a awful inflation. Don’t believe everything you see or hear on TV shows. Thank and be careful ladies.
While the war is on forget dating Ukrainian women. They could want to return home, then there's family, children will probably be involved and say anything other than the Ukrainian point of view you are out.
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