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Ma'am, I have no intention disrespecting your opinion in anyway but as a woman don't you ever think why only the women have to wear sari or salwar ( you did say they can wear suits too but saree is more preferable) but it is not said to the men that dhoti is preferable. Why only women ma'am? Please be open to my question. And I love my culture, and totally take pride in wearing from my culture but why aren't these statements made on men too?
@@P.S.... sir/ma'am, you're not getting my point. I'm not trying to make it any gender issue or discarding the male officers' dress code. I'm just asking why aren't these dress code on the same standard. Why only for women sari is preferred. On the other hand why dhoti isn't preferred for men? Have you seen any of them saying they prefer male officer with Dhoti? Kindly try to understand what I'm trying to say instead of getting offended.
If some women are not comfortable wearing saree but feel most confident wearing a western suit, she can't do that without being judged as she has the peer pressure of following a biased dress code. I know men (a majority of them) won't feel comfortable sitting in an interview in a dhoti. Same is the case with alot of women who have grown up NOT wearing indian attire on day to day basis. This is like an attack on freedom of choice tbh. It's bad for men too. A man cannot wear dhoti in an interview even if he wants to in fear of being judged. But the thing is, the number of those kind of men is comparatively very less. Who cares anyway, right? Afterall molding the comfort of women is a norm in this society
Do u think ias aspirant women care if they want to wear saree or not they do not care they only want the job I have never seen any ias even talking about this matter even after getting job u need to wear saree or salwar and they without compain wear it .
@@doodlymation if u don't even talk about it publicly how this matter does not go way ??? Many does not even know there is a matter like this . Even if they know why they wear it ???
@@doodlymation just saying, few of my friends who went for interview, they love wearing sarees most of ias aspirants dont have issue with it so idk why making small issue so big.
Arehhh.... Obviously you can wear suit/ kurti . Interview nehi dekhi kya ?? Ma'am bhi keh rahi he ki suit can wear. Sab ke liye kuch rules regulation he usko manna hoga. Agar koi kisiko nehi manega toh desh kese chalega. Saree/ suit acha hi he tumko shorts pehne he kya interview me bhi. Agar ek din bhi koi interview me yeh nehi kar sakte toh woh IAS jese pado ke liye kabil hi nehi
I don't understand if there is a line called "don't judge a book by it's cover" it doesn't matter what we should wear they have see our knowledge and character
Don't judge a book by it's cover, is the appearance of a person, like we shud not term them ugly or beautiful or decide on it, their inner beauty is diff. And definitely dressing matters to show ur maturity.
Uniform sabka barabar hona chahiye girls log traidditional mein ayenge boys agenge coat pant aur shirt mein shirt is not traditional nehru gala coat kurta pajma is traditional jaise nehru ji pahtanti thi agar dhoti nai ata h pahne tho but shirt pant is not traditional
@@pallavigupta2934 you are not getting my point. Dhoti is not worn in all the states. Men's traditional attire is different in different states. Dhoti is worn in different styles also it will be difficult for all the men to wear dhoti in a similar style. Kerala Tamil kannada people wear dhoti in different styles, Bengali and Odisha people wear in a different style. Rajasthani men prefer poshak , Maharashtran people wear dhoti in different style. Similarly Northeast States have different traditional attire some do not wear dhoti there, so Dhoti is not common in all the states but saree and salwar is common to all the state .
Your comment shows your childish mindset. Its not faking anything, the interview literally marks the beginning of adulthood and responsibility of the highest order in Indian administration. After landing the job, you wont have the time or energy to focus on such silly issues as spending money lavishly on shoes and clothes, your family will enjoy the benefits, you'll be proud of being able to provide it for them, but wont have enough time to sit back and relax.
Formal wear for Women = Saree Formal wear for Men = Suit Why Women are supposed to wear a saree to show their culture and heritage? Why Men can wear western wear? Aren't they supposed to wear something of more ethnic? Like dhoti vesti etc? That concludes ethnic wear for female is considered a formal wear, whereas ethnic wear for male is a festive wear. Is it a joke?!
But its not important every women wears saari on interview we can wears what we want Western or tradition main important thing is aur dress-up should be perfect and good for interview with body language and main thing is aur skills and knowledge
@@Neethanbellary2004 I know what every woman wears on interview. I'm asking why men don't wear our traditional outfits in interviews? Aren't they considered formal enough? I mean dhoti, veshti all these carry our culture and heritage, still ethnic wear considered casual or informal in case of men
For the people who are saying like why men not wear a dhoti She is saying about the impression what looks good and about the first impression For girls sarees or salwaars gives a good impression but for men the suits give a good impression thats what she is saying
i get that, but why is it so? thats like basically saying "a woman who wears indian is better than a woman in a blazer" but the exact opposite for men. why the double standard? considering the exam, which is a civil service exam, dont you think the interviewee's mindset matters more than what they wear? i understand the need to look professional, but that can be done with both styles of dressing can they not? so why is one "prefered" for the woman, and other for the man?
I think it's not a double standard ... She not said with a hatred .. we have seen women in sarees more official and vibrant in sarees rather than in blazzers But we haven't seen a men in dhotis It's not about culture it is about looks and opinion She not said to wear a blazers If you want to wear ... Just wear it She said it on her opinion
Why do you hate females embracing their Feminity? Feminity is such a mystical beauty. If you dont want to wear bindi, sure! But dont be too sarcastic over females loving their Feminity.
Hinduphobic 😂 well honestly bindi actually adds to maturity on face ,if you don't like her advise it don't follow it ,why are you crying in the comments section ,looks like you are really frustrated due to prep !!
She is talking about civil services interviews right To unhone ye bhi to bola h ki aap Western suits me comfortable and confident ho to you can definitely go for it Dont make it messy Msg is just that make it graceful so what's wrong with that
The Saree wearing style is almost same in all the states . So girls of all the states can have a similar look without any controversy. But wearing dhoti is not common to all the states . Bengal and Odisha people wear same dhoti style but in Kerala Tamil Nadu they wear it differently also in many states dhoti is not worn by men they wear different traditional attire like In Rajasthan they prefer poshak , similarly in Jammu and Northeastern states ,the dhoti draping style is also different. This would create a controversy. To prevent such issues men wear the western shirt pant . Its not mandatory for girls also to wear saree, they can wear salwar/ suit/ saree. Bcz the styling is same for all women.
It's not about why can't a woman wear western or clothes of her own choice. It's just that for every ocassion we need to chose what fits appropriately. Girls prefer lehenga gowns and sarees or traditional wear in weddings.. saree in farewell.. western in after-party and birthdays... We wear uniform for school... Female Pilates and police officers have their own dress code.... In the same way saree and suits are preferred for interviews Tanu Ma'am is saying absolutely correct.. and for those who face problems in saree or suit.. she even said clearly that if they are confident they can wear western formal wear Debating on why can't we wear clothes of our choice is so childish Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice.. no person will stop you from doing that. NOTE: The above comment is in reference to debate on women wearing western or saree or anything else It's not about if women are asked to wear saree then men should have asked to wear dhoti. The two topics are totally different.
In the first lines itself you've made it clear that for a wedding function girls prefer lehenga, gown etc... It is a preference there. Preference definitely becomes their choice. However, asking someone to wear what they don't like to isn't a choice. A person must be judged by his/her character and how good he/she is at his/her work. Not merely by the clothes they wear, despite it being hygienic. This is a kind of conditioning where we correlate formal clothes with discipline and professionalism. Before in Kerala, it was mandatory for govt school teachers to wear saree in the name of discipline, professionalism and so on. But now it has gradually changed where teachers can be in any other attire too. Before it was a must for students to braid their hairs to school, it being the way to showcase discipline. There has been discussions on this issue here in Kerala as braiding was mandatory even if the hairs was wet. The purpose of addressing your senior officers or boss as sir/madam is also being questioned by even some ias officers itself here in Kerala. So yes, the mindset of the coming generation are changing for the good at a faster pace. And there will definitely be a day when society as a whole will start looking at this from a different perspective as that is what we've have seen in the history too regarding various other erstwhile discipline norms❤
@@sandrarhari Read carefully... I have also written that sarees and suits are PREFERRED for interviews... I have never said that they are bound to wear that... And I have also written that if they don't wanna wear saree or suit they can go for formals
@@sshreya0820 I've read through the lines, dear. 'Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice' 'if they are confident they can wear western formal wear' 'Debating on wearing clothes of your choice is childish' All these are the sentences that made me think and write about. Is it that only when you are on a trip you can be on a clothing of your choice? What is the so-called 'formal' wear? I think it's high time the perspective on putting things unnecessarily into boxes in the name of being formal and decent changes. Once Zuckerburg, the founder of Facebook was criticised for wearing a hoodie to a highly professional business meeting. Yet, he was always the Zuckerburg. From my point of view, this 'wearing formal to meeting or interview' stuff has to change sooner or later. And how can 'debating on why we can't wear clothes of our choice' become childish while you still have people even those ones who are educated, qualified and at higher positions judge others on the basis of their clothing? Even when they say it is not mandatory to follow a dress code, they do judge you and their demeanour will differ accordingly.
Just a thing that womens look more elegance and empowered well mannerd in sarri and as of mens suits are indication thats he has something that would guve him an confidence. Its not always about our culture , if other country is having some thing to take it from them..
Ma'am what you are suggesting for a girl from Arunachal Pradesh.... Since in our culture we don't have a saree.nd salwar too....i do like women who wears saree especially in an official things...
Maam I have seen IAS interviews and most of then used to speak in English is it there that we can only speak in English can't we use our mother tongue or even hindi because I think most of people in india know hindi can we use our own language
The dumbest take anyone can have is saying english is western. English language is to be known by every person. It is part of our history too. Accept it and don't mock others for speaking English. The question here is about attire and dressing style. Address that first.
@@PreetiSaharan-ly5tq my point still stands. No point in being so defensive and living in such a small world. And yes, it is part of our history. U still haven't accepted it. English is the most useful language we have. But again u can do what u want.
@@inside_out1112both Eng and western attires are foreign ..and yeah they've become a part of our culture...wht she wanted to say...that if giving interview in eng is preferable...why ain't western dresses...
Thank you mam for posting a video about this topic.Actually I am a 6th grade student.My aim is that I want to be a IAS officer.So when I am going for the interview, I can follow what did you say.
An IAS aspirant here, I suggest you stick to your studies till graduation, and then jump into preparation for CSE.. also, a word of advice, don't count your chicks before they are hatched !
@@vinitatripa7766 I guess I don't need to explain my situation to you. Rest assured, it has been my childhood dream too. And what makes you say that this "still" aspirant might not have cleared the first few stages or is still unemployed .. I might be someone who's already in the services 😂 it's funny how people who literally have no idea on a certain topic find themselves eligible to dish out information. 😂😂 how much do YOU remember of your 6th grade studies after 10 years, would be a question worth seeking answer too, as well. Peace !😂
Beta ap ap dono pado or khub pado me graduation last year ki student hu mene upsc ki taiyari shuru ki hai avi ..okk so ap dono achhe se pado jo bhi subject lena chahoge 11th standard me ,so I think you can go for social science subject ok and jo bhi ap abhi NCERTs pad rhe hoge bo sab ache se padna bo bhi upsc ka hi part hai use waste nhi samjhna...
Soory. Pastel clours look very bad n sad looking. Its not good. Its your opinion. We indian have right to wear bright good colours in handloom. Officers dont look good in pastel. I agree with jewellery should be moderate. Well dressed person is appreciated. Poorly dressed person looks shabby. The type of clothing you speak does not suit everyone.
Exactly. I think always wearing sarees in such occassions seems inconvenient. Female diplomats should also be allowed to wear suits imo like male diplomats. Standards shoukd not always be put on females.
An underpost MLA transferred the IAS officer in Tamil Nadu, Cuddalore District. This is the most power only IAS has in our country. A politician won't allow IAS officers to serve.
I m still wondering why in North India there is so much demand for this post?people wake up there are plenty of things in the world. Start your own business and become entrepreneur. See we cannot make a civil servant over a time. It's right from the childhood their activities and wat are they interested in matters. It's a trap by the coaching centres. Those 1000 selected people already know the strategy mature enough they know the books to be read. It can be read on own and cleared. Other people are wasting their precious 4 to 5 years. Can't believe. You don't know entrepreneurs are making 100 to 200 crores in their business and still people want to clear upsc? . Just a chat centre owner earns 50000 per month. Just start a tution coaching centre it's enough. Even though you earn enough knowledge once you don't clear it ll be vanished over a period of time. I m not telling to try. Try something wat world wants. Set up your own factory of anything.
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See guys how much ever you argue or feel biased about girls dressing what she said is 100% correct .. Indian dresses on Indian women represents our culture and gives good vibes in interview and respect too .
@@Riya77775 obviously they don't. How many men a day do you see wearing dhoti? Almost never. But you will see plenty of women in saree in just a min. It's just hypocrisy of our society and govt
@@amreenkazmi2637 agar aap saari aur bindi mein obsessed hain toh pehne niye koi zabardasti nahi hain aap saari aur bindi na pehno agar aap bindi laga rahe ho aapke pe religion ko koi fark nahi padega yeh aapki choice hain aap kaunse kapde pehente ho kaise rehte ho kya karte ho kisi ko koi haq nahi aapke choice pe haq jataye agar aapko koi Aisa kahe toh unke baaton pe dhyan mat do
Those who are debating about saree and dhoti in this comment section some can't even clear upsc prelims and they are debating about interview round😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please stop with the incorrect pronunciation of the word “wear”, especially at such a reputable position.. No offence..it could be a mistake, but doesn’t seem to be as you’re pronouncing it the same way all throughout the video.. P.S- you need not mention long hair(s), just long hair (more or a less a collective singular)
We request all respected Mothers to guide their daughters to wear dresses which is acceptable by our society. We must avoid europian style and must not promote nudity. Jai Bharat. Jai Maa Bhavani. Jai Maa Ambe. Jai Maa Mother India. With regards to the Mothers .
She is not saying what is right and what is wrong shenis saying how to be more capable of being selected and probability of being selected, dont put ever think in feminism, this is the problem faced by pseudo feminists actually, think what is important being selected in any dress or being selected in that dress only in which you wanted to be selected , as you cant say that dont take interview of introvert if you think about extrovert who love being expreessive why to demand introvers also to be expressive and give interview, select us without posing anything extrovertist thing on us, if extrovert's like expressing introverts dont like expressing select akus as we want to be selected,,, thinking in this pattern IS MERE FOOLISHNESS AND NOTHING ELSE
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Ma'am, I have no intention disrespecting your opinion in anyway but as a woman don't you ever think why only the women have to wear sari or salwar ( you did say they can wear suits too but saree is more preferable) but it is not said to the men that dhoti is preferable. Why only women ma'am? Please be open to my question. And I love my culture, and totally take pride in wearing from my culture but why aren't these statements made on men too?
correct
Exactly my thoughts, why not dhoti or kurta for men?
Correct.
@@P.S.... sir/ma'am, you're not getting my point. I'm not trying to make it any gender issue or discarding the male officers' dress code. I'm just asking why aren't these dress code on the same standard. Why only for women sari is preferred. On the other hand why dhoti isn't preferred for men? Have you seen any of them saying they prefer male officer with Dhoti? Kindly try to understand what I'm trying to say instead of getting offended.
@@P.S.... I'm not saying dress code is wrong. I'm saying be fair. Have same boundaries for both the genders.
If some women are not comfortable wearing saree but feel most confident wearing a western suit, she can't do that without being judged as she has the peer pressure of following a biased dress code. I know men (a majority of them) won't feel comfortable sitting in an interview in a dhoti. Same is the case with alot of women who have grown up NOT wearing indian attire on day to day basis. This is like an attack on freedom of choice tbh. It's bad for men too. A man cannot wear dhoti in an interview even if he wants to in fear of being judged. But the thing is, the number of those kind of men is comparatively very less. Who cares anyway, right? Afterall molding the comfort of women is a norm in this society
Do u think ias aspirant women care if they want to wear saree or not they do not care they only want the job I have never seen any ias even talking about this matter even after getting job u need to wear saree or salwar and they without compain wear it .
@@football_Zx Just because They don't say it publicly, the matter doesn't go away
@@doodlymation if u don't even talk about it publicly how this matter does not go way ??? Many does not even know there is a matter like this . Even if they know why they wear it ???
@@doodlymation just saying, few of my friends who went for interview, they love wearing sarees most of ias aspirants dont have issue with it so idk why making small issue so big.
Arehhh.... Obviously you can wear suit/ kurti . Interview nehi dekhi kya ?? Ma'am bhi keh rahi he ki suit can wear. Sab ke liye kuch rules regulation he usko manna hoga. Agar koi kisiko nehi manega toh desh kese chalega. Saree/ suit acha hi he tumko shorts pehne he kya interview me bhi. Agar ek din bhi koi interview me yeh nehi kar sakte toh woh IAS jese pado ke liye kabil hi nehi
I don't understand if there is a line called "don't judge a book by it's cover" it doesn't matter what we should wear they have see our knowledge and character
Actually dress depend too , it shows respect and dignity
Don't judge a book by it's cover, is the appearance of a person, like we shud not term them ugly or beautiful or decide on it, their inner beauty is diff. And definitely dressing matters to show ur maturity.
because in an interview we are judged on the basis or our looks and personality because nobody can see our knowledge and inner beauty in few minutes..
Wear a dresses like frock that's simple ...or any Punjabi dresses if not sari or salwar.
Yeah and then don't selected 😂,babe there are certain formal wear that are preferable .
Uniform sabka barabar hona chahiye girls log traidditional mein ayenge boys agenge coat pant aur shirt mein shirt is not traditional nehru gala coat kurta pajma is traditional jaise nehru ji pahtanti thi agar dhoti nai ata h pahne tho but shirt pant is not traditional
What about dhoti for men?
If they want to wear indian attire?
Why not women pay the bills then
@Quicksilver12345 What is the connection between dhoti and bills??
Bcz dhoti is not common in all the states, but saree is
@@Goodlypiru Why?? Dhoti and saree are our culture.
@@pallavigupta2934 you are not getting my point. Dhoti is not worn in all the states. Men's traditional attire is different in different states. Dhoti is worn in different styles also it will be difficult for all the men to wear dhoti in a similar style. Kerala Tamil kannada people wear dhoti in different styles, Bengali and Odisha people wear in a different style. Rajasthani men prefer poshak , Maharashtran people wear dhoti in different style. Similarly Northeast States have different traditional attire some do not wear dhoti there, so Dhoti is not common in all the states but saree and salwar is common to all the state .
After getting job we can wear anything we like and spent money lavishly. Right? I hate people faking good at interviews to get job.
After becoming an officer what would you wear , a hoodie ? 😂 dress code shows the discipline so it's necessary
Your comment shows your childish mindset. Its not faking anything, the interview literally marks the beginning of adulthood and responsibility of the highest order in Indian administration. After landing the job, you wont have the time or energy to focus on such silly issues as spending money lavishly on shoes and clothes, your family will enjoy the benefits, you'll be proud of being able to provide it for them, but wont have enough time to sit back and relax.
As it is said interview is a conversation of lies between two persons😂😂
You are so inspiring mam. Thankyou mam.
I am in 6th standard and I want to also become an I.A.S officer.become an ias officer it is my passion ❤❤
Formal wear for Women = Saree
Formal wear for Men = Suit
Why Women are supposed to wear a saree to show their culture and heritage?
Why Men can wear western wear? Aren't they supposed to wear something of more ethnic? Like dhoti vesti etc?
That concludes ethnic wear for female is considered a formal wear, whereas ethnic wear for male is a festive wear.
Is it a joke?!
But its not important every women wears saari on interview we can wears what we want Western or tradition main important thing is aur dress-up should be perfect and good for interview with body language and main thing is aur skills and knowledge
@@Neethanbellary2004 I know what every woman wears on interview.
I'm asking why men don't wear our traditional outfits in interviews? Aren't they considered formal enough? I mean dhoti, veshti all these carry our culture and heritage, still ethnic wear considered casual or informal in case of men
@@cia1894 true they also wear dhoti kurta
Exactly..
Yes😂
For the people who are saying like why men not wear a dhoti
She is saying about the impression what looks good and about the first impression
For girls sarees or salwaars gives a good impression but for men the suits give a good impression thats what she is saying
i get that, but why is it so? thats like basically saying "a woman who wears indian is better than a woman in a blazer"
but the exact opposite for men. why the double standard?
considering the exam, which is a civil service exam, dont you think the interviewee's mindset matters more than what they wear?
i understand the need to look professional, but that can be done with both styles of dressing can they not? so why is one "prefered" for the woman, and other for the man?
I think it's not a double standard ...
She not said with a hatred .. we have seen women in sarees more official and vibrant in sarees rather than in blazzers
But we haven't seen a men in dhotis
It's not about culture it is about looks and opinion
She not said to wear a blazers
If you want to wear ... Just wear it
She said it on her opinion
Bindi a sense of maturity oh my god!!! What the hell?? Let's put a sindhoor too for feminity
Why do you hate females embracing their Feminity? Feminity is such a mystical beauty. If you dont want to wear bindi, sure! But dont be too sarcastic over females loving their Feminity.
RIghttt! a sense of maturity and she has the audacity to say it's just what's preferable when in reality they judge the hell out of the person 🙄
Crazy traditions.
Hinduphobic 😂 well honestly bindi actually adds to maturity on face ,if you don't like her advise it don't follow it ,why are you crying in the comments section ,looks like you are really frustrated due to prep !!
@@snehajagajith6409 yeah wear hijab then
Mam u r skin looking very pleasent can u tel me what u r wearing less makeup
She is talking about civil services interviews right
To unhone ye bhi to bola h ki aap Western suits me comfortable and confident ho to you can definitely go for it
Dont make it messy
Msg is just that make it graceful so what's wrong with that
The Saree wearing style is almost same in all the states . So girls of all the states can have a similar look without any controversy. But wearing dhoti is not common to all the states . Bengal and Odisha people wear same dhoti style but in Kerala Tamil Nadu they wear it differently also in many states dhoti is not worn by men they wear different traditional attire like In Rajasthan they prefer poshak , similarly in Jammu and Northeastern states ,the dhoti draping style is also different. This would create a controversy. To prevent such issues men wear the western shirt pant . Its not mandatory for girls also to wear saree, they can wear salwar/ suit/ saree. Bcz the styling is same for all women.
Thank you . The video help for all kind of interview
It's not about why can't a woman wear western or clothes of her own choice. It's just that for every ocassion we need to chose what fits appropriately. Girls prefer lehenga gowns and sarees or traditional wear in weddings.. saree in farewell.. western in after-party and birthdays... We wear uniform for school... Female Pilates and police officers have their own dress code.... In the same way saree and suits are preferred for interviews
Tanu Ma'am is saying absolutely correct.. and for those who face problems in saree or suit.. she even said clearly that if they are confident they can wear western formal wear
Debating on why can't we wear clothes of our choice is so childish
Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice.. no person will stop you from doing that.
NOTE: The above comment is in reference to debate on women wearing western or saree or anything else
It's not about if women are asked to wear saree then men should have asked to wear dhoti.
The two topics are totally different.
True
Then it should be applied to men only. Hypocrites
In the first lines itself you've made it clear that for a wedding function girls prefer lehenga, gown etc... It is a preference there. Preference definitely becomes their choice. However, asking someone to wear what they don't like to isn't a choice. A person must be judged by his/her character and how good he/she is at his/her work. Not merely by the clothes they wear, despite it being hygienic. This is a kind of conditioning where we correlate formal clothes with discipline and professionalism. Before in Kerala, it was mandatory for govt school teachers to wear saree in the name of discipline, professionalism and so on. But now it has gradually changed where teachers can be in any other attire too. Before it was a must for students to braid their hairs to school, it being the way to showcase discipline. There has been discussions on this issue here in Kerala as braiding was mandatory even if the hairs was wet. The purpose of addressing your senior officers or boss as sir/madam is also being questioned by even some ias officers itself here in Kerala.
So yes, the mindset of the coming generation are changing for the good at a faster pace. And there will definitely be a day when society as a whole will start looking at this from a different perspective as that is what we've have seen in the history too regarding various other erstwhile discipline norms❤
@@sandrarhari Read carefully... I have also written that sarees and suits are PREFERRED for interviews... I have never said that they are bound to wear that...
And I have also written that if they don't wanna wear saree or suit they can go for formals
@@sshreya0820 I've read through the lines, dear. 'Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice' 'if they are confident they can wear western formal wear' 'Debating on wearing clothes of your choice is childish'
All these are the sentences that made me think and write about.
Is it that only when you are on a trip you can be on a clothing of your choice? What is the so-called 'formal' wear? I think it's high time the perspective on putting things unnecessarily into boxes in the name of being formal and decent changes. Once Zuckerburg, the founder of Facebook was criticised for wearing a hoodie to a highly professional business meeting. Yet, he was always the Zuckerburg. From my point of view, this 'wearing formal to meeting or interview' stuff has to change sooner or later. And how can 'debating on why we can't wear clothes of our choice' become childish while you still have people even those ones who are educated, qualified and at higher positions judge others on the basis of their clothing? Even when they say it is not mandatory to follow a dress code, they do judge you and their demeanour will differ accordingly.
Great Mam
Just a thing that womens look more elegance and empowered well mannerd in sarri and as of mens suits are indication thats he has something that would guve him an confidence. Its not always about our culture , if other country is having some thing to take it from them..
Firstly don't watch this 😅if you are not into people telling what to do and what to wear no offence at all.... Why so many restriction on females only
True
Girl for tredition looks and for boy they wears what they want 😂😂😂 nice joke
Thank you so much, mam. It will be helpful for all Girls.
And mam what about the Tilak !! Is it allowed??
Excellent
Mam, pls do a Vedio on things to carry while we go to lbsnaa ….
What should be for Muslim girls ?
Suit
Ma'am what you are suggesting for a girl from Arunachal Pradesh.... Since in our culture we don't have a saree.nd salwar too....i do like women who wears saree especially in an official things...
Saree is the culture wear of India if u are thinking of becoming ias u are representing india not only arunachal pradesh
Can women wear formals (coat and pant) for interviews like women wear formals for nda, cds,etc
Mam , what about Burqa ? If I do complete veil even to my eyes and hands . Is that okay?
Maam I have seen IAS interviews and most of then used to speak in English is it there that we can only speak in English can't we use our mother tongue or even hindi because I think most of people in india know hindi can we use our own language
You can use either Hindi or English.
South indians don't know hindi may the panel contains south indians,,,only simple english is enough for interview
It is called.. Dress modestly.. In just two words. When are people going to understand?
English language Western culture nhi h 😂😂
This is a gender biased rule.Western for boys and traditional for girls.
The dumbest take anyone can have is saying english is western. English language is to be known by every person. It is part of our history too. Accept it and don't mock others for speaking English. The question here is about attire and dressing style. Address that first.
@@inside_out1112 नहीं, अंग्रेजी हमारी संस्कृति का हिस्सा नहीं है यह पहले थोपी गई थी
@@PreetiSaharan-ly5tq my point still stands. No point in being so defensive and living in such a small world. And yes, it is part of our history. U still haven't accepted it. English is the most useful language we have. But again u can do what u want.
@@inside_out1112both Eng and western attires are foreign ..and yeah they've become a part of our culture...wht she wanted to say...that if giving interview in eng is preferable...why ain't western dresses...
Thank you mam❤
Mam mine too ❤
Thank you mam for posting a video about this topic.Actually I am a 6th grade student.My aim is that I want to be a IAS officer.So when I am going for the interview, I can follow what did you say.
An IAS aspirant here, I suggest you stick to your studies till graduation, and then jump into preparation for CSE.. also, a word of advice, don't count your chicks before they are hatched !
@@shivanigoyal2937 the reason why u r still an aspirant is clear
@@vinitatripa7766 I guess I don't need to explain my situation to you. Rest assured, it has been my childhood dream too. And what makes you say that this "still" aspirant might not have cleared the first few stages or is still unemployed .. I might be someone who's already in the services 😂 it's funny how people who literally have no idea on a certain topic find themselves eligible to dish out information. 😂😂 how much do YOU remember of your 6th grade studies after 10 years, would be a question worth seeking answer too, as well. Peace !😂
@@shivanigoyal2937 itna bada para likhne se better hai tayari krlo shyd nikal jae
@@vinitatripa7766girl she is just sharing her opinion and trying to help no need to be rude won’t be a officer with that attitude
Agar tradition matter karta hai to interviews Hindi mein honi chahiye.
Thank you ma'am
Why not dhotis for men and only saree for women
Maam can we put tika
Thank you so much ma'am.. I'm shakuntala you are role model of me..❤
Fine
Why bindi
I did my hair colour and it is visible,,, is it kkk or i shld remove it
U can't judge anyone on basis of one'attire
What about Hijab
Good morning Ma'am
Ma'am please help me i have lots of health issues still i m preparing for UPSC. I feel so low. Please Ma'am help me 🙏🙏
Mam I m in 9th standard and my dream is become a I .A.S officer 💖
I am in class 7 and my dream also to become an IAS officer 💖
Beta ap ap dono pado or khub pado me graduation last year ki student hu mene upsc ki taiyari shuru ki hai avi ..okk so ap dono achhe se pado jo bhi subject lena chahoge 11th standard me ,so I think you can go for social science subject ok and jo bhi ap abhi NCERTs pad rhe hoge bo sab ache se padna bo bhi upsc ka hi part hai use waste nhi samjhna...
Soory. Pastel clours look very bad n sad looking. Its not good. Its your opinion. We indian have right to wear bright good colours in handloom. Officers dont look good in pastel. I agree with jewellery should be moderate. Well dressed person is appreciated. Poorly dressed person looks shabby. The type of clothing you speak does not suit everyone.
It's better to go in normal dress 😂why to waste time in searching salwars,sariess .....😂😂😂😂
Saari is also good for girls but in blazer the girl so cool
okay you may become IFS after service then how will a female officer represent our country in an international summit/ organisation..?
Exactly. I think always wearing sarees in such occassions seems inconvenient. Female diplomats should also be allowed to wear suits imo like male diplomats. Standards shoukd not always be put on females.
On the neck 🫥
However, if you are an IAS officer but should keep quiet with politicians, then why this much drama?
Thank-you so much mam 💯💯💫👍
Ma’am what about sindoor?
This and all doesn't matter.
What about hijab mam....
will a lip piercing cause me any problem during the interview or in civil services generally? pls I need to know
You can remove it....on the day of interview
An underpost MLA transferred the IAS officer in Tamil Nadu, Cuddalore District. This is the most power only IAS has in our country. A politician won't allow IAS officers to serve.
May i wear the burqa in the interviews
Don't judge any book by its cover
THANKYOUUU SOO MUCHHH🎉🥳🎊
Mam my aim is IAS mam please give me some suggestions what can I do my for my aim which Books are studied for my aim please suggest mam please
Can you please clarify the media that you are not IAS .
How beautiful she is
Colour of bindi
Omg....when is all this going to change...Why can't a woman just wear whatever she wants to
Cause you’re going in an interview, you gotta keep it formal.
@@thisisasignyouaskedfor1111 did she mention anywhere for boys to be in traditional wears ??
True I agree
Patta bhi hai topic kya hai
Ya jate hai comments 💬 krne😢
Thank you mam
What about bangles mam
What if a girl rides on bike
Mam I wanna ask that can girls wear a western suit for the interview session if they aren't comfortable in sarees and Salwar suit ?
ias aspirant does not care about dress they only want job if they aren't comfortable do not go for this job
Mom study tipis and tricks tell me please
Yar kya ias sindur or bangles pehan skte h academy me
I m still wondering why in North India there is so much demand for this post?people wake up there are plenty of things in the world. Start your own business and become entrepreneur. See we cannot make a civil servant over a time. It's right from the childhood their activities and wat are they interested in matters. It's a trap by the coaching centres. Those 1000 selected people already know the strategy mature enough they know the books to be read. It can be read on own and cleared. Other people are wasting their precious 4 to 5 years. Can't believe. You don't know entrepreneurs are making 100 to 200 crores in their business and still people want to clear upsc? . Just a chat centre owner earns 50000 per month. Just start a tution coaching centre it's enough. Even though you earn enough knowledge once you don't clear it ll be vanished over a period of time. I m not telling to try. Try something wat world wants. Set up your own factory of anything.
Mam advised from boy's please
Mam using kannada Longauge in interview
Nyc mam
Mai to aise dekh rhi hu jaise mera mains clear ho gaya hai 😂
Formals?
Love you mom
I don no english language 😢 iam kerala olly malayalam
Read english books everyday. It definetly helps.
@@ASG-b9i but english ആശയം അറില്ല ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് വായിക്കാൻ അറിയാം മലയാളത്തിൽ ആശയം ആകുവാൻ അറില്ല
Books vaayikkumbol arinjoodathe words dictionary il nokki manassilakki vaayikkanam. Pinnea english movies okkea kand nokk pathukkea pathukkea improve aavum.
@@ASG-b9i movies tharumo
@@ASG-b9i telegrame undo
See guys how much ever you argue or feel biased about girls dressing what she said is 100% correct .. Indian dresses on Indian women represents our culture and gives good vibes in interview and respect too .
And not indian men?
Then that should be applicable to men too. Men must wear kurta too if he's not comfortable he can wear kurta pajama.
So, Indian men don't represent our culture? That's a ridiculous and sexist (for both sexes) thing to say.
@@Riya77775 obviously they don't. How many men a day do you see wearing dhoti? Almost never. But you will see plenty of women in saree in just a min. It's just hypocrisy of our society and govt
@@Riya77775 come on if you are so concerned then wear a dhoti and go , who is stoping you ?
You wear a saree and put a bindi you’re decent… wahhha
Can a Muslim girl wear bindi.....
As long as you are comfortable and like to wear it
Ya offcourse its not restrictions for putting bindi you can put bindi
@@Neethanbellary2004 mujhe small si bindi bhut psnd h but mujhe lgta h ki muslim hone ki wajah s kbhi qus pr qus kre
@@amreenkazmi2637 agar aap saari aur bindi mein obsessed hain toh pehne niye koi zabardasti nahi hain aap saari aur bindi na pehno agar aap bindi laga rahe ho aapke pe religion ko koi fark nahi padega yeh aapki choice hain aap kaunse kapde pehente ho kaise rehte ho kya karte ho kisi ko koi haq nahi aapke choice pe haq jataye agar aapko koi Aisa kahe toh unke baaton pe dhyan mat do
Mujuko English nahi aati i am sociology student hu kya mai this subject me ias exam
Those who are debating about saree and dhoti in this comment section some can't even clear upsc prelims and they are debating about interview round😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please stop with the incorrect pronunciation of the word “wear”, especially at such a reputable position..
No offence..it could be a mistake, but doesn’t seem to be as you’re pronouncing it the same way all throughout the video..
P.S- you need not mention long hair(s), just long hair (more or a less a collective singular)
Namaste mam I am from Karnataka i studied in kannada midiam can I take ias exam
what is that pronounce we-a-a-a-r😂😂😂
You are very sweet..madam
We request all respected Mothers to guide their daughters to wear dresses which is acceptable by our society.
We must avoid europian style and must not promote nudity.
Jai Bharat.
Jai Maa Bhavani.
Jai Maa Ambe.
Jai Maa Mother India.
With regards to the Mothers .
Any boys here😂😂
I am an IT Engineer but some how am a big fan of tanu mam
Mam u r right ,actually girls think that half of interview marks on his Getup and makeup🎉😂
Aisa tumhe lagta h
@@farhintabassum1789 true facts but against u so u nrv accpt that
First go and learn some basic English grammar 😂 fir aake Gyan batna😂😂
She is not saying what is right and what is wrong shenis saying how to be more capable of being selected and probability of being selected, dont put ever think in feminism, this is the problem faced by pseudo feminists actually, think what is important being selected in any dress or being selected in that dress only in which you wanted to be selected , as you cant say that dont take interview of introvert if you think about extrovert who love being expreessive why to demand introvers also to be expressive and give interview, select us without posing anything extrovertist thing on us, if extrovert's like expressing introverts dont like expressing select akus as we want to be selected,,, thinking in this pattern IS MERE FOOLISHNESS AND NOTHING ELSE
But after getting job every one use this .why