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Just left my girl for the same reason. People make time for who they want I don't care what they schedule look like. I refuse to give my all to a person and they only meeting me halfway
Guys basically abundance mindset. A girl that wants you will make time for you. And match your energy, if she’s not leave. I promise she’ll be left speechless.
I love how you're out there looking after the interests of men. Since the women's lib movement which was definitely needed, men's needs have been diminished to zero. So thanks for speaking for men as a woman.
No problem! When they introduce me as a friend, I don't say anything, I just roll with it, stop trying, and I introduce her as a friend to EVERYONE else, especially other women. Oh, she's just a friend.!
Jess I think you left one important point out, that's is if she interested, she will try and reciprocate very kind gestures even if its very little. I have this saying, if they love you, move a mountain for you will be like moving just a finger, but if they don't, moving a finger for you will be like you asking them to move a mountain for you. Thanks for sharing such great wisdom. Bless you
Don't "fall" in love with a woman. Be kind, responsive, and caring. But overall keep yourself and your own life in check. Think of straightness within yourself, not emotional mergence with her. Let her follow as she chooses. Listen to her views, but be the one that makes the decisions. - Never accept flakiness or disrespect, and don't be afraid to walk away.
Love the content Jessica. Truthfully, In the past i have been so blinded by the physical attraction toward certain women that i failed to recognize her obvious lack of interest in me. Part of the reason for this incognizance was a lack of a healthy relationship with myself. I’ve learned that it is absolutely necessary to realize a healthy nurturing self-caring relationship with myself before bringing another person the picture. Often times people look for others to fill a void in our lives. In my opinion, a partner should compliment us rather than complete us.
1. Takes long time to respond 2. Avoids dinner plans constantly 3. Calls you a friend before others 4. Tells you she's not ready 5. Not interested in a conversation 6. Not attentive to your serious talks 7. Blue ticks you regularly 8. Body language (not focused)
I came here to say that everything you said is true! In GH, men are taught to be the pursuers, and usually most of the things you mentioned are seen by the men as a challenge, or to try harder (I know some of the girls usually do this to "pull legs"), but I call BS on it and I see it as a sign of immaturity. I urge the men to take your sage advice, if the woman you are interested has the characteristics listed, please, do not think your patience is being tested, just move on quickly
Too true! Also... When her only compliment to you is "You're a nice guy". When she asks for money, early in the relationship. A history of abuse and abusive relationships.
(1) This is one BEAUTIFULLY melanated SISTER! (2) Fellas, don't take it personal when you find yourselves being rejected;just thank them for their conversation and keep it pushing!
You're a God sent woman to enlighten men about the complexity of different women...bcoz it's hard for 1 gender to speak negative truth about the same gender
Women want equality I'm all for that. Let them pay for their own darn drinks. Give them a wheelbarrow full of bricks a bag of cement and build there own darn house. Oh yes equality could not come soon enough for me. And yes get them to pay for there own darn meals on a date as well. Let's see how eager they are to jump on the equality band wagon then.
Out of all the things you said in this video. If a man does these types of things to a woman, they say we are Playing Games...... But when a woman does these same things its called not being interested... 💯
Thank you Jessica. Contrary to popular belief, there are really nice guys out here who just want a good woman to be in a mutually and equally committed relationship. Seriously, our intentions are honorable. Well, life continues. Keep up the good work!
Tip no.2 & 1. I've just dumped her less than 24 hours now. Today, I sent her clothes to her. Men see these red flags but some still choose to stay and finally, it ends in premium tears.
Number 1 is accurate. My BF and I text each other throughout the day though we are both busy at work. Messages do not get unread or responded to. Nobody is too busy for someone if they gave a crap.
I like that a woman is out here helping us out. I met someone online, we chatted heavy..exchanged numbers. But one day I came to the conclusion that I was always initiating contact. I put her on ice. I feel so much lighter now. 💯
Another tip gents...if a woman cancels on you but she is interested, in her text or call telling you she is sorry she cannot make it on the agreed day she will seek for alternatives. If she does not, move on
I bit of advice I read that has served me well in life! "Stop taking advice from women on what women like or want in a man! If women were truly honest about what they want in a relationship, bad boys would not be so successful with them." (The Basic Instruction Before Lovin Eve). Now do with that advice as you please.
The major problem that creates all these actions is Indecision, which happens when she has other options. So don't be in a relationship where you are tolerated be in a relationship where you are celebrated.
I had a friend that I simped over for years. I did literally every red flag you stated because I was hoping for something to change. After taking some time to really address my own attachment issues, I told her I still care for her after 3-4 years, but I don't care to fight for it anymore. Walked away from that long term friendship. She tried calling me a few times to "pickup where we left off" before me standing my ground. I had to block her... She wants a bitch boy, she can find it elsewhere. Thanks for the video @GHANA. Really helps keep my life in perspective watching vids like yours.
1. She often takes her time in responding to your messages 2. She often cancels plans 3. She calls you a friend 4. She says she’s not ready for a serious relationship 5. You aaalways initiate contact 6. She goes vague when you try to talk about serious things (feelings, the relationship, next step, etc) 7. The reads your messages and doesn’t reply 8. Body language (she’s not present when you’re together, etc)
On number 1: the excuse is usually, "I'm such a terrible communicator and I'm so busy", but we all know that ain't it. Number 2: SHE CAN'T ALWAYS BE THAT BUSY. Thank you very much
The bottom line is this: 1) Ppl make time for "who & what" they want to make time for. 2) "Your time" is the only thing you really have of value, so don't let anyone waste it with child's play bc time is at a premium. 3) Last but not least, you have to believe that "you're a prize too", don't let anyone think that they're more important than you. Interest must be reciprocated, if it's not move on!!!
I. Entirely agree with your comment so every time you meet one don't right away put them on a. Pedestal the only way you are going to know a. Person is that you both. Should aggre to spend time together.?
I know for a fact, women are next to their phones, 24/7. If you text, she gets a dopamine signal and she checks her texts immediately. You would be mistaken to believe that she hasn't seen that text 6 seconds after you sent it. Her choice not to respond is a perfect example of not being interested. Not responding in 24hrs means she's concerned about someone else and you're just another secondary on her relationship interests. Don't waste your time or money. Travel and see how women treat their men outside the USA and you will be astounded.
Bro, that's very true. The rudest attitude I ever got from a woman was when I got to the U S. I do not know why. However, there are few cool women as well.
Women in other countries treat men differently because they are treated differently..... in other countries, it's legal for a man to beat his wife with little to no consequences... only in america can a man be punished for physically abusing a woman.... that's why women in other countries "love, honor, cherish & obey" their men.... you can't do that in america so of course women outside the usa treat their male counterpart much better
@@jennymcloving9670 I need to tell you this. 95% of men in Africa don't beat their women. Not that it is legal to beat a woman. No. But the society does not really treat domestic violence very seriously when it happens. The reason being that families intervene and find a way to resolve it so the marriage doesn't break. You will agree with me that divorce rate in Africa is very low compared to the U.S.
@@jennymcloving9670 this always gets brung up as a excuse. every time lmao no it isn't that they were just raised differently overseas vs the USA same goes in reverse for how women are raised in the USA vs Overseas lmao it isn't because of that Men get punished in Canada,Africa, and Russia even in The Ukraine for that it isn't because of what you just said now is that tru in the middle east yes because it is different rules. but to say its all overseas is delusional.
Thank you so much Auset. I just got my heart crushed by a young woman who just happened to have been through previous trauma that wasn't fully communicated to me so I could handle it accordingly. I accepted her back after she cheated with a random man , came up missing for 4 days. Now she's left again without no response for the last month and a half. All I did was a man is reflect on my wrongs and take accountability, apologize, check in concerning about her and still no response from her. After chest and stomach pains for 30+ days I have concluded,,,,FORGET THIS🤣 I'm a great guy, a great father, loving, caring, fit, spiritual etc... ♥️🖤💚
Sounds like you was dealing with a Female Covert Narcissist , espacially the part were you said you was dealing with chest and stomach pains 30+ , same thing am feeling too
I just stumbled on to Jessica and have been more than pleasantly surprised. I'm not sure I expected to get this kind of counsel from Ghana...not sure why...don't know Ghana very well, but Jessica seems very practically grounded in what she's doing and saying. Outstanding advice, great presence...as said, a very pleasant surprise. I'll continue to watch out for her clips. Thanks to JOS. PS: with over 2M views I realize I'm a very late comer :)
Women will just drag you down the rabbit hole. Its best to to focus on yourself. Its 2020 people. This is not the the 90s and below. I encourage all of the men here to focus on themselves.
Jessica, I’m a bit worried about those candles under your bookshelf behind you. Please don’t go out and forget about them, maybe you should move them to a place where there is nothing directly above them. All the best.
Usually I wouldn't subscribe or like any TH-cam videos but I'd say I don't know if I want watch any more of your content but I liked this it. You deserve it.
I found the best thing to do was always leave them !!! Then I didn't have to bother getting married, having children, meeting her relatives, putting up with her moods, spending money on her, etc. I have owned my own house since I was 30 yrs old so I would never have a relationship with a woman who had nothing !!! Every woman I ever knew was thousands of pounds in debt and lived in rented accommodation. So if anything went wrong she would take my house away from me !!!! No woman would ever let that happen, neither would I !!!!! Every woman I ever met wanted a free meal ticket and some mug to give her a house !!!! So the wise thing to do was......Stay Single !!!!! Nice informative videos !!!!!
In this generation, you don't need to waste time with anyone. If a female want to be with you, she would create time. You hundred percent right. What I want to share with some dude's is, never force yourself on a female. She would hurt your feelings and you can hurt yourself.. It's not a do or die.
Ever since I subscribed to this channel I've been getting lots of help In reading women and the signs they show. Us guys 85% can't read the signs women show and having one of them break down sign by sign is just another level of love. Thank you so much lots of love from me 💖💯
If she is interested genuinely, she has to text you back within at least couple of hours. If she takes days and that too on more than three occasions, just stop texting. This is a clear message to you. Forget her and move on. Don't waste your time. Don't chase a mirage. Save your self from disappointment and disaster.
Nothing wrong with her make up! The fact is she’s not the kind of girl for you to appreciate!! I’m a photographer and I’ve seen and seen. Pls she’s one of the best I’ve seen on TH-cam. She has the stuff and the brain and the beauty !! She’s Dark and Lovely !!
Hi Jessica, I'm a new subscriber from S.A 🇿🇦 I love your make up. By the way you are not only helping guys, you are also teaching women what to do. We can't keep losing guys with these silly mistakes. Thank you so much
1. Takes time to get back to you 2. Cancells plans repeatedly 3. Calls you a friend 4. Tells you she's not ready 5. You always initiate contact 6. When you escalate she goes fade 7. She blueticks you 8. Read her body language
Nobody is "that" busy and trust me I get busy. Everyone has their phones on them and see the messages almost instantly or not long after. It's all games. Facts.
Hi Jessica any advice..please we were dating. some stuff went down in bad way .We still meet up wtc but it aint the same.She says she cares etc.Still cooks for me😢
Words to live by. In my life I have met or dated (for a short time) some of the women you have described. Pursued them until I saw what they were about, then cut them loose. Funny thing is that in most cases when I told them I was moving on they suddenly became interested in me or got mad because I moved on.
Goodluck to my younger bretheren on the dating scene... My biggest tip is: Look after your future first and ignore dating until you notice someone with more passion than you in the direction you're headed in life. Even then still, you don't have to date. Just enjoy your exploits together and succeed together.
This is facts! I was dating/talking to this woman that I knew for years. It was a spin the block situation, which I don’t advise anyone doing, unless it was a bad timing thing. So she told me that she just wanted to date, but wanted me to still show up/be there for her (because you want to) vibe. I should have walked away. But I took it as a challenge and things got worse because I was genuinely showing up and supporting her. And when I wasn’t getting anything in return, not even basic respect it would cause conflict. She bamboozled/manipulated me into taking a urine sample for her so that she could get a government job. Of course I did it because I didn’t want her to struggle. But after that it got even worse. See essentially the day before Thanksgiving said that we needed to talk, and did not want to resolve anything, the issues that were causing the conflicts but she wanted to just end it. After that she reached back out to me in December I didn’t respond. I reached back a week ago and she blocked me and the whole nine. But to the point if she says that she doesn’t want anything from you, walk away. If she disrespects you walk away. If having a conversation is like hosting a job interview walk away.
Thank you for your advice! I needed this right now! Two years with a great woman, who started showing all of these signs when another couple with money started offering to take her to Aruba 5 months ago, and everything you just mentioned started happening!
1- Busy and never get back to you. 2- If cancel plan repeatedly with you. 3- She introduce you as her friend. 4- She tell you that she's not ready for the relationship 5- You are the one who have to initiate contact. When you said you wanna take this relationship forward she laughs. 6- When you escalate she goes vague. 7- She blue text you. 8- Body language
I agree with this. Even people who say "I'm at work." It literally takes seconds to respond with SOMETHING. I see people texting back in meetings even.
Too busy thinking of other things not related to a relationship. Most of the time it’s resentment from not getting the attention they want. Then when an individual does get what they want, it’s too much. Best course of action, let the justices of Karma take control. It will happen and take its toll, exactly where it left off from the previous relationship.
@Bubble gum. True love is what The Heavenly Father does for us, despite us being in a fallen state due to The deception done through Adam and Eve. What the "world" calls love is a narcissistic clingy of constant supply with ur significant other, so the minute that goes away (breaks up /Distance) someone begins to get into their feelings(expectations not being met) an it's all down hill from there. We must reexamine all expectations when dealing with other human beings. Put ur trust in Christ, not man (other humans).
I feel like women don't realize that an indirect rejection is even more hurtful than just saying it straight, because it leaves a lot to your (now dark) imagination. Just say it ladies, it's better for everyone.
Bumped Into you by accident, best accident I made so far 🤣😂. You are so insightful. Sad to say I been through all the situations you cover. You earned yourself a subscriber ✌🙏🙌 peace and blessings I wish for you.
A lot of times they truly are in love with you, then they self-sabotage because of different reasons. Low self-esteem, trauma bonded, insecure, depression, or anxiety. (Anxiety is a form of depression )... It's something she has to fix within herself. It's not our responsibility. This can go for a man or woman
I’m dealing with a women with these same mental challenges. I tried my hardest, read about depression and anxiety, processed, took advice and all to no avail. I broke up with her because I felt I wasn’t being treated right. I rethought everything and tried to get her back and she’s not with it. We still talked and made love a couple of times but ultimately she couldn’t get over the fact that I left and feels I’ll do it again. It doesn’t help she’s super bad so guys will definitely be gasin her up and giving her a false sense of entitlement, with will I believe not allow her to address her issues. I wish I wouldn’t have left and tried harder, but maybe not. Sometimes you have to break your own heart to save your soul 💯💔💪🏾
I wasted five years of my life and these were the signs that I kept on dealing with. All I thought was she was playing very hard to get. I wish I knew better 👍 . Thank you for this video
When I was 18 I was dating this girl that would barely text me back... I noticed while we were on a date that her face was glued to her phone and furiously texting.... I realized that I was probably plan Z... one day I dropped her off to a hair appointment and never looked back. I was an idiot but u live and learn. And I learned how to spot a bunch of red flags from just dating her.
7 things if woman do leave her... 1...she takes her time to getting back to you like she dosnt rply or reoly after many times...... 2....if she cancel plan repdely what you ask her to dinner or meet means she is not intrested.... 3....she calls you a friend.... 4.... If she tells you she not ready for relationship...... 5..... This is only you to initiate contact.... 6... When u accelate or take steps to forward she fades away reject or dont coopreate.... 7.... She bluetiks you means dont reply in chats.....
The ultimate mode is prayer mode, simply stay prayed up. When the devil want to destroy you, he will send you a woman, when God want to bless you, He will send you a wife.
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lol
Ghana 😮
But wow, your English is phenomenal
A message to all good men out there remember you are the prize not the other way round
"She's NOT your GIRL. It's just your turn," a Wiseman saying.
I like her voice... I would listen to a book on tape from her
Just left my girl for the same reason. People make time for who they want I don't care what they schedule look like. I refuse to give my all to a person and they only meeting me halfway
Same here sir can't deal with that mess anymore.
Guys basically abundance mindset. A girl that wants you will make time for you. And match your energy, if she’s not leave. I promise she’ll be left speechless.
if u find ur self in this channel, just break up with that girl
True
Why bro . ?? Is it so ?
You just saved me 7 min, ty
Could have not agreed more
Suppose the cat 😸 the Best
"People love you when you on they mind.
A thought is love's currency"
True
RIP Mac Miller
This channel saved my life...dating nowadays is tough.
I love how you're out there looking after the interests of men. Since the women's lib movement which was definitely needed, men's needs have been diminished to zero. So thanks for speaking for men as a woman.
It was unneeded! Just look how masculine women are. Messed up.
@@ccjailen it was needed because women were oppressed. But it went too far and I agree with you 💯% women today have become men.
No problem! When they introduce me as a friend, I don't say anything, I just roll with it, stop trying, and I introduce her as a friend to EVERYONE else, especially other women. Oh, she's just a friend.!
This is this real answer you have said. Turn the tables👻
Jess I think you left one important point out, that's is if she interested, she will try and reciprocate very kind gestures even if its very little. I have this saying, if they love you, move a mountain for you will be like moving just a finger, but if they don't, moving a finger for you will be like you asking them to move a mountain for you.
Thanks for sharing such great wisdom.
Bless you
Woooww...what U said is sooo deeep mehn 😳😨
Don't "fall" in love with a woman. Be kind, responsive, and caring. But overall keep yourself and your own life in check. Think of straightness within yourself, not emotional mergence with her. Let her follow as she chooses. Listen to her views, but be the one that makes the decisions. - Never accept flakiness or disrespect, and don't be afraid to walk away.
Yup couldn’t say it any better
Wow, Jessica is absolutely beautiful. Her skin is so smooth and vibrant. Jessica’s eyes are mesmerizing and hypnotic.
I was thinking the same thing.
Me too
Thank you
Popped Up In My Recommendation.
God Is Showing Me A Sign.
Love the content Jessica. Truthfully, In the past i have been so blinded by the physical attraction toward certain women that i failed to recognize her obvious lack of interest in me. Part of the reason for this incognizance was a lack of a healthy relationship with myself. I’ve learned that it is absolutely necessary to realize a healthy nurturing self-caring relationship with myself before bringing another person the picture. Often times people look for others to fill a void in our lives. In my opinion, a partner should compliment us rather than complete us.
Red flag is when she never responds to texts because she was "away from her phone" but is, well, always on her phone during dates.
If you're the man and you're the one worried about whether she wants something long term, you are in the wrong relationship.
1. Takes long time to respond
2. Avoids dinner plans constantly
3. Calls you a friend before others
4. Tells you she's not ready
5. Not interested in a conversation
6. Not attentive to your serious talks
7. Blue ticks you regularly
8. Body language (not focused)
Thanks!
What does blue ticks mean!!!????
@@tisharobinson4389 WhatsApp blue ticks
Thank you!
Facts 💯💯
It's great to hear it from a woman's prospective , I don't take things for free , so you deserve a subscription.
Thank you
@@JessicaOS
You most welcome
Jessica.
*If someone consistently undermines you, it's time to reassess the relationship. Keep spreading this awareness!*
I came here to say that everything you said is true! In GH, men are taught to be the pursuers, and usually most of the things you mentioned are seen by the men as a challenge, or to try harder (I know some of the girls usually do this to "pull legs"), but I call BS on it and I see it as a sign of immaturity. I urge the men to take your sage advice, if the woman you are interested has the characteristics listed, please, do not think your patience is being tested, just move on quickly
Absolutely!!
Too true! Also...
When her only compliment to you is "You're a nice guy".
When she asks for money, early in the relationship.
A history of abuse and abusive relationships.
(1) This is one BEAUTIFULLY melanated SISTER!
(2) Fellas, don't take it personal when you find yourselves being rejected;just thank them for their conversation and keep it pushing!
You're a God sent woman to enlighten men about the complexity of different women...bcoz it's hard for 1 gender to speak negative truth about the same gender
Women fall in love with what they hear and men fall in love with what they see. This is why men lie and women wear makeup.....stay single.
I'm about to put this on my FACEBOOK PAGE...#Thanks
@@robbreggie 👍🏼👌🏼
Greatest comment of all times. You sir have achieved GOAT status ‼️💯
Women lie too
Women want equality I'm all for that. Let them pay for their own darn drinks. Give them a wheelbarrow full of bricks a bag of cement and build there own darn house. Oh yes equality could not come soon enough for me. And yes get them to pay for there own darn meals on a date as well. Let's see how eager they are to jump on the equality band wagon then.
Thank you Jessica for this. I'm a priest I will pass this message to my Youth Association. They need it 150% yes I mean 150%👍😊
Out of all the things you said in this video. If a man does these types of things to a woman, they say we are Playing Games...... But when a woman does these same things its called not being interested... 💯
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@@ejbenton8814 thats just real talk man..
No lies detected 💯
@@shawndamiller330 Thank You Shawnda. 🌷
Thank you Jessica. Contrary to popular belief, there are really nice guys out here who just want a good woman to be in a mutually and equally committed relationship. Seriously, our intentions are honorable. Well, life continues. Keep up the good work!
Best dating advise ever! "Never take women serious"
That's facts😂
Tip no.2 & 1. I've just dumped her less than 24 hours now. Today, I sent her clothes to her.
Men see these red flags but some still choose to stay and finally, it ends in premium tears.
The world is alot more simiple when people just say what the want and feel, rather than leaving you to fill in the blanks.
Number 1 is accurate. My BF and I text each other throughout the day though we are both busy at work. Messages do not get unread or responded to. Nobody is too busy for someone if they gave a crap.
Finally a woman that told the truth you are so right if you give a crap you are never to busy to respond in a timely manner.
I like that a woman is out here helping us out. I met someone online, we chatted heavy..exchanged numbers. But one day I came to the conclusion that I was always initiating contact. I put her on ice. I feel so much lighter now. 💯
Alot of sneaky sisters hate you but a lot of brothers love you because you exposes a women's tricks.
Love the reminder " Tricks " R 4 Kids
Men have intuition just as women do...I know I could take a hint when I'm being disregarded repeatedly.
Facts ....
Another tip gents...if a woman cancels on you but she is interested, in her text or call telling you she is sorry she cannot make it on the agreed day she will seek for alternatives. If she does not, move on
I bit of advice I read that has served me well in life! "Stop taking advice from women on what women like or want in a man! If women were truly honest about what they want in a relationship, bad boys would not be so successful with them." (The Basic Instruction Before Lovin Eve). Now do with that advice as you please.
Thats right and correct I. Aggre 100% with your comment that's something to to think about. Very good point.
Ong
It’s easier to break up a relationship with bad boys while taking little responsibility.
You opened my eyes
I deleted her number
It was always only in my head
Thank you Jessica 🤧
The major problem that creates all these actions is Indecision, which happens when she has other options. So don't be in a relationship where you are tolerated be in a relationship where you are celebrated.
Thank you so much to frozen my heart and a bit heal my brain with your clarity... U got the answer she's trying to have but don't 'really
The way I hear your advice I understand why many relationship does not last... may the lord have mercy on us 🙏
Your relationship advice should be more on the wrong doing of a man or a woman. I see you really make women look like monsters
@@chavalaedwards9049 totally agree !!
Her eyes , her skin colour. That's beauty.
Yeah!!
I had a friend that I simped over for years. I did literally every red flag you stated because I was hoping for something to change. After taking some time to really address my own attachment issues, I told her I still care for her after 3-4 years, but I don't care to fight for it anymore. Walked away from that long term friendship. She tried calling me a few times to "pickup where we left off" before me standing my ground. I had to block her... She wants a bitch boy, she can find it elsewhere. Thanks for the video @GHANA. Really helps keep my life in perspective watching vids like yours.
1. She often takes her time in responding to your messages
2. She often cancels plans
3. She calls you a friend
4. She says she’s not ready for a serious relationship
5. You aaalways initiate contact
6. She goes vague when you try to talk about serious things (feelings, the relationship, next step, etc)
7. The reads your messages and doesn’t reply
8. Body language (she’s not present when you’re together, etc)
Can i ask you a question?
@@jasewoodruff6179 You didn't ask permission for the first question though
On number 1: the excuse is usually, "I'm such a terrible communicator and I'm so busy", but we all know that ain't it.
Number 2: SHE CAN'T ALWAYS BE THAT BUSY. Thank you very much
The bottom line is this: 1) Ppl make time for "who & what" they want to make time for. 2) "Your time" is the only thing you really have of value, so don't let anyone waste it with child's play bc time is at a premium. 3) Last but not least, you have to believe that "you're a prize too", don't let anyone think that they're more important than you. Interest must be reciprocated, if it's not move on!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️👍
I. Entirely agree with your comment so every time you meet one don't right away put them on a. Pedestal the only way you are going to know a. Person is that you both. Should aggre to spend time together.?
I. Entirely agree with your comment ,makes good sense to me.
I know for a fact, women are next to their phones, 24/7. If you text, she gets a dopamine signal and she checks her texts immediately. You would be mistaken to believe that she hasn't seen that text 6 seconds after you sent it. Her choice not to respond is a perfect example of not being interested. Not responding in 24hrs means she's concerned about someone else and you're just another secondary on her relationship interests. Don't waste your time or money. Travel and see how women treat their men outside the USA and you will be astounded.
Bro, that's very true. The rudest attitude I ever got from a woman was when I got to the U S. I do not know why. However, there are few cool women as well.
This should have way more three likes . You ain’t ever lied.
Women in other countries treat men differently because they are treated differently..... in other countries, it's legal for a man to beat his wife with little to no consequences... only in america can a man be punished for physically abusing a woman.... that's why women in other countries "love, honor, cherish & obey" their men.... you can't do that in america so of course women outside the usa treat their male counterpart much better
@@jennymcloving9670 I need to tell you this. 95% of men in Africa don't beat their women. Not that it is legal to beat a woman. No. But the society does not really treat domestic violence very seriously when it happens. The reason being that families intervene and find a way to resolve it so the marriage doesn't break.
You will agree with me that divorce rate in Africa is very low compared to the U.S.
@@jennymcloving9670 this always gets brung up as a excuse. every time lmao no it isn't that they were just raised differently overseas vs the USA same goes in reverse for how women are raised in the USA vs Overseas lmao it isn't because of that Men get punished in Canada,Africa, and Russia even in The Ukraine for that it isn't because of what you just said now is that tru in the middle east yes because it is different rules. but to say its all overseas is delusional.
Thank you so much Auset. I just got my heart crushed by a young woman who just happened to have been through previous trauma that wasn't fully communicated to me so I could handle it accordingly. I accepted her back after she cheated with a random man , came up missing for 4 days. Now she's left again without no response for the last month and a half. All I did was a man is reflect on my wrongs and take accountability, apologize, check in concerning about her and still no response from her. After chest and stomach pains for 30+ days I have concluded,,,,FORGET THIS🤣 I'm a great guy, a great father, loving, caring, fit, spiritual etc... ♥️🖤💚
Love to hear it!
Sounds like you was dealing with a Female Covert Narcissist , espacially the part were you said you was dealing with chest and stomach pains 30+ , same thing am feeling too
I just stumbled on to Jessica and have been more than pleasantly surprised. I'm not sure I expected to get this kind of counsel from Ghana...not sure why...don't know Ghana very well, but Jessica seems very practically grounded in what she's doing and saying. Outstanding advice, great presence...as said, a very pleasant surprise. I'll continue to watch out for her clips. Thanks to JOS. PS: with over 2M views I realize I'm a very late comer :)
Women will just drag you down the rabbit hole. Its best to to focus on yourself. Its 2020 people. This is not the the 90s and below. I encourage all of the men here to focus on themselves.
Facts bro that’s sum real shit females will definitely claim they love you one day then the next they act like they don’t know you
what abt marriage
Jessica, I’m a bit worried about those candles under your bookshelf behind you. Please don’t go out and forget about them, maybe you should move them to a place where there is nothing directly above them. All the best.
Thanks. Well noted
Thanks for watching! Please don't forget to subscribe!
Y would she tell me she love me and just go ghost on me😥
Usually I wouldn't subscribe or like any TH-cam videos but I'd say I don't know if I want watch any more of your content but I liked this it. You deserve it.
Good info
U have a great voice
Cmac
I found the best thing to do was always leave them !!! Then I didn't have to bother getting married, having children, meeting her relatives, putting up with her moods, spending money on her, etc. I have owned my own house since I was 30 yrs old so I would never have a relationship with a woman who had nothing !!! Every woman I ever knew was thousands of pounds in debt and lived in rented accommodation. So if anything went wrong she would take my house away from me !!!! No woman would ever let that happen, neither would I !!!!! Every woman I ever met wanted a free meal ticket and some mug to give her a house !!!! So the wise thing to do was......Stay Single !!!!! Nice informative videos !!!!!
In this generation, you don't need to waste time with anyone. If a female want to be with you, she would create time. You hundred percent right. What I want to share with some dude's is, never force yourself on a female. She would hurt your feelings and you can hurt yourself.. It's not a do or die.
Find someone worthy of your time. Awesome
Wow! Never heard (of) you before. But you’re good! Can listen to your voice all day regardless of the subject matter. Kudos to you.
Thank you
Ever since I subscribed to this channel I've been getting lots of help In reading women and the signs they show. Us guys 85% can't read the signs women show and having one of them break down sign by sign is just another level of love. Thank you so much lots of love from me 💖💯
Glad to hear it
The best weapon is, when you start talking to her, keep others on standby. This way, you will also keep yourself from becoming disappointed, it works!
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You know women are the only ones can get away with that, if a man does that, then he's a dog, he's a bad guy, he's wrong.
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If she is interested genuinely, she has to text you back within at least couple of hours. If she takes days and that too on more than three occasions, just stop texting. This is a clear message to you. Forget her and move on. Don't waste your time. Don't chase a mirage. Save your self from disappointment and disaster.
Nothing wrong with her make up! The fact is she’s not the kind of girl for you to appreciate!! I’m a photographer and I’ve seen and seen. Pls she’s one of the best I’ve seen on TH-cam. She has the stuff and the brain and the beauty !! She’s Dark and Lovely !!
Hi Jessica, I'm a new subscriber from S.A 🇿🇦 I love your make up.
By the way you are not only helping guys, you are also teaching women what to do. We can't keep losing guys with these silly mistakes. Thank you so much
1. Takes time to get back to you
2. Cancells plans repeatedly
3. Calls you a friend
4. Tells you she's not ready
5. You always initiate contact
6. When you escalate she goes fade
7. She blueticks you
8. Read her body language
I set my expectations low this way I'm never disappointed! I never forget that just because I was raised we'll doesn't mean everyone else was too!!
My Ex actually calls me a lot but the girl I wanna move on with does everything you just said, I think I should just be alone. thanks for this.
Peak confusion bruv, it sucks...
Your ex realized she lost the current one is about to lose...
Nobody is "that" busy and trust me I get busy. Everyone has their phones on them and see the messages almost instantly or not long after. It's all games. Facts.
The advise seemed so common sense. I am good at picking up body language signals, and I am quick to delete numbers once I get negative vibes.
Me too!
Love this girl big up from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Portmore Jamaica big up
The truth hurts. Laughing in my face was the best one.
Jessica You literally reduced me to tears with this video.5 months in and I am just a string along😢 what can I do such is life.
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Hi Jessica any advice..please we were dating. some stuff went down in bad way .We still meet up wtc but it aint the same.She says she cares etc.Still cooks for me😢
Words to live by. In my life I have met or dated (for a short time) some of the women you have described. Pursued them until I saw what they were about, then cut them loose. Funny thing is that in most cases when I told them I was moving on they suddenly became interested in me or got mad because I moved on.
Wow I love her dark skin she is beautiful.
Goodluck to my younger bretheren on the dating scene... My biggest tip is: Look after your future first and ignore dating until you notice someone with more passion than you in the direction you're headed in life.
Even then still, you don't have to date. Just enjoy your exploits together and succeed together.
Sage advice!
Yes it’s true fella’s see the signs and move on you deserve reciprocity!💕
This is facts! I was dating/talking to this woman that I knew for years. It was a spin the block situation, which I don’t advise anyone doing, unless it was a bad timing thing. So she told me that she just wanted to date, but wanted me to still show up/be there for her (because you want to) vibe. I should have walked away.
But I took it as a challenge and things got worse because I was genuinely showing up and supporting her. And when I wasn’t getting anything in return, not even basic respect it would cause conflict. She bamboozled/manipulated me into taking a urine sample for her so that she could get a government job. Of course I did it because I didn’t want her to struggle. But after that it got even worse. See essentially the day before Thanksgiving said that we needed to talk, and did not want to resolve anything, the issues that were causing the conflicts but she wanted to just end it. After that she reached back out to me in December I didn’t respond. I reached back a week ago and she blocked me and the whole nine. But to the point if she says that she doesn’t want anything from you, walk away. If she disrespects you walk away. If having a conversation is like hosting a job interview walk away.
It's nice to have the intelligent perspective of a woman. But, fellas, y'all should know this already 🤷🏽♂️
The quality of production is DOPE!! The voice and the sound quality is amazing. LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your advice! I needed this right now! Two years with a great woman, who started showing all of these signs when another couple with money started offering to take her to Aruba 5 months ago, and everything you just mentioned started happening!
Goodness this woman is absolutely beautiful
REALLY!!!!!!!!!🙄🔥
SIMP
What a beautiful chocolate skin woman. With the most intoxicating eyes and soothing voice with the perfect accent 😊
I thought the same. She is beautiful.
I think she is beautiful also but she needs to get rid of the coloured contacts lens and use her natural eyes
@@redwoman9 I had no idea they were contacts.
1- Busy and never get back to you.
2- If cancel plan repeatedly with you.
3- She introduce you as her friend.
4- She tell you that she's not ready for the relationship
5- You are the one who have to initiate contact. When you said you wanna take this relationship forward she laughs.
6- When you escalate she goes vague.
7- She blue text you.
8- Body language
Never heard of blue text... now I know the meaning...
It's all about respect! If she doesn't respect you, she won't love you!!
If she likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, she’ll leave you confused. It’s very simple.
+13239169169⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,
Nobody can be too busy not to respond. Everyone has their phone in their hands. There is no excuse.
I agree with this. Even people who say "I'm at work." It literally takes seconds to respond with SOMETHING. I see people texting back in meetings even.
Correct, often enough
Too busy thinking of other things not related to a relationship. Most of the time it’s resentment from not getting the attention they want. Then when an individual does get what they want, it’s too much. Best course of action, let the justices of Karma take control. It will happen and take its toll, exactly where it left off from the previous relationship.
Just try text her
Babe send ur account let me send u small thing for lunch .
U will see how fast she will reply u back
"No Woman, No Cry"
-Bob Marley 😌
Nun woman, no cry 🤷
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Jessica, your talk is wonderful. your voice is very clear. Through this channel, your are guiding millions of people. May God bless you in abundance
Does true love really exist on this planet at all🤔?? Everyone is just busy playing games....🤦♂️🤦♂️
You're beautiful
Not in USA
@Bubble gum. True love is what The Heavenly Father does for us, despite us being in a fallen state due to The deception done through Adam and Eve. What the "world" calls love is a narcissistic clingy of constant supply with ur significant other, so the minute that goes away (breaks up /Distance) someone begins to get into their feelings(expectations not being met) an it's all down hill from there. We must reexamine all expectations when dealing with other human beings. Put ur trust in Christ, not man (other humans).
It's such a rarity nowadays, you'd be better off chasing gold in the rivers.
There is one person who you should pursue......you.....learn to love yourself first.....take as much time as you need.....there is no rush
I don’t chase women,I replace them.There are way to many women that are single that are looking for a proper relationship.
You got that right brother don't change them. Exchanged! Them! LoL!!!
I feel like women don't realize that an indirect rejection is even more hurtful than just saying it straight, because it leaves a lot to your (now dark) imagination. Just say it ladies, it's better for everyone.
They can’t. They are unable to be accountable. It’s evolutionary
Had I met this message a year ago, would have save me a lot of money and time. Indeed some knowledge worth paying for.
Relationships are a waste of time
Bumped Into you by accident, best accident I made so far 🤣😂. You are so insightful. Sad to say I been through all the situations you cover. You earned yourself a subscriber ✌🙏🙌 peace and blessings I wish for you.
Thanks for the support
I’m experiencing all you have said I have to move on thanks dear 🙏
Like was me my we meet 7monts ago she still called me a friend
I'm the one writing her every morning calling very time
A lot of times they truly are in love with you, then they self-sabotage because of different reasons. Low self-esteem, trauma bonded, insecure, depression, or anxiety. (Anxiety is a form of depression )... It's something she has to fix within herself. It's not our responsibility. This can go for a man or woman
I’m dealing with a women with these same mental challenges. I tried my hardest, read about depression and anxiety, processed, took advice and all to no avail. I broke up with her because I felt I wasn’t being treated right. I rethought everything and tried to get her back and she’s not with it. We still talked and made love a couple of times but ultimately she couldn’t get over the fact that I left and feels I’ll do it again. It doesn’t help she’s super bad so guys will definitely be gasin her up and giving her a false sense of entitlement, with will I believe not allow her to address her issues. I wish I wouldn’t have left and tried harder, but maybe not. Sometimes you have to break your own heart to save your soul 💯💔💪🏾
I wasted five years of my life and these were the signs that I kept on dealing with. All I thought was she was playing very hard to get. I wish I knew better 👍 . Thank you for this video
😂😂😂that is really painful 😢😢 can't condole that from a woman ✌️
Hahaha. 🤣 we all suffered from that.
When I was 18 I was dating this girl that would barely text me back... I noticed while we were on a date that her face was glued to her phone and furiously texting.... I realized that I was probably plan Z... one day I dropped her off to a hair appointment and never looked back. I was an idiot but u live and learn. And I learned how to spot a bunch of red flags from just dating her.
@Godswill Kamalu none of the above. Just sharing an old story
@Godswill Kamalu don't need help my guy. This was over 10 years ago
I'm only watching this video because your a beautiful black woman 😍.
Ain't she tho😍
Yes sir👑
Haha
For your information ll black 🖤 🖤 women are beautiful
I've actually experienced all of these reactions from a person I was chasing years ago🤦 Everything she's sayings the truth 🎯
Yesssirrr
7 things if woman do leave her...
1...she takes her time to getting back to you like she dosnt rply or reoly after many times......
2....if she cancel plan repdely what you ask her to dinner or meet means she is not intrested....
3....she calls you a friend....
4.... If she tells you she not ready for relationship......
5..... This is only you to initiate contact....
6... When u accelate or take steps to forward she fades away reject or dont coopreate....
7.... She bluetiks you means dont reply in chats.....
If she disrespect you and argue all the time...walk away
The ultimate mode is prayer mode, simply stay prayed up. When the devil want to destroy you, he will send you a woman, when God want to bless you, He will send you a wife.
And vice versa.
The same God who created marrige can make it work. Pray and fast consistently God will lead you to the right person.
Fool.
Well said!!!
@@TriciaRP yes and Vice Versa