She needs to go to a mental hospital so they can help her. That's honestly scary because she's acting so insanely obsessed and stalking him, that's never ok.
I can tell you, from experience of being institutionalized, that no guy is worth, being placed on lockdown without your cell phone! Yes heartbreak is tough and no one deserves to go through that! But heartbreak is temporary. But once you start getting institutionalized, you can't erase that.
Lol i was institutionalized from 14-19. Ive looked up about 100 of the people i was in there with and every one of us has a horrible life or is dead now@jessicajamesspeaks
The amount of uncomfortable I feel from this is immeasurable. I hope this guy gets a restraining order, and electric fence, and a very good security setup at home.
I can't imagine how uncomfortable it was for this guy to be living it. With someone like that, a restraining order is just a piece of paper. But I absolutely agree with the electric fence. Security setups only work if it scares the person away and/or the police can get there fast. He better have something he can use in the meantime, like a bat.
I honestly don't think this is a temper tantrum but a serious mental health issue. It seems like borderline personality disorder but I don't know a damn thing about her.
That is not permissible to say, instead say 'Subhan'Allah' instead when you are inflicted with news or something as you are referring back to Allah Azzawajal since the term 'Jesus Christ' is usually used in vain (it is disrespectful for even Christians to use this) and second of all it is like referring back to him as your God, which he isnt. Insha'Allah you understand
And seeing her behavior you can understand why he broke up with her. Even if she's mentally ill it's no excuse for trapping someone in a car with you so you can force them to sit through an adult sized temper tantrum. He should call the cops and file a restraining order and if she violates that order, she goes to jail. He should invest in cameras for his home as well in case she is unstable enough to try breaking into his place at some point. Stalkers are only satisfied with watching from afar for so long before they make a move on their victim.
Maybe her reaction is unreasonable, but she was hyperventilating. She was out of breath and couldn't express her turmoil in a proper manner. And I'm sorry, but sometimes that's life. And it's okay-ish. I hope her mental health will be better soon enough. Clearly she has attachment issues.
@@LATAM_EQUINOX then I pray you don't fall victim to their same path and hope you can walk a better one. And while you're at it maybe knock some sence into that family member of yours if you can ❤️
She might have BPD cause this is how some people with BPD act when they feel rejected / abandoned. Some people with BPD don’t know how to regulate their emotions, so they’re start to stalk the person they feel like is abandoning them, & will start to “throw tantrums” cause the emotion becomes way to much for them. They feel like they need their partner to feel okay about themselves too. She needs to go to therapy & work in it cause it can cause her to harm herself or others 😬. I feel bad for both of them.
Maybe, but there's a lot more to BPD (i.e chronic feelings of emptiness, identity disturbance, suicidal/self-harming behavior,) that it's hard to tell just from this one video. She does share a lot from the criteria but we don't even fully know if she has abandonment issues. She does need therapy though, this isn't normal to be acting in public.
I feel bad for both of them tbh. I feel bad the guy has to deal with this and feels unsafe in his own house but I also feel bad for the girl. She's obviously has some mental problems and needs to see a doctor ASAP 💀 I'm not defending her but like I hope she gets medical help and the guy can live peacefully
i rememebr having these kinds of breakdowns when i was like 6 hahahaha... its quite overwhelming and i feel bad that she never learned how to control her emotions
Her behavior is so absurd that it looks psychotic but that's an assumption some people really just act like this with no mental illness. So I don't feel bad at all and even with mental illness this ain't acceptable
Well the thing is, I live with someone like this and she constantly denies she has any mental problems and proceeds to abuse people around her, so maybe don’t feel so bad for this woman… she’s clearly harassing/abusing this man and abuse has no excuse. We’ve tried to help her so many times and every single time she breaks expensive shit in order to make my dad financially unstable, she keeps me from school near the last days or weeks. She does so many fucked up shit to bring us down because we don’t want her around. So please don’t feel bad for possible narcissistic women like this. They don’t deserve it if they don’t want to help themselves.
I think the ex has BPD, which is correlated with childhood trauma. Doesn't excuse her behavior in the slightest; just adding context. To people with BPD, the feeling of being rejected/abandoned (regardless of whether that rejection/abandonment is real or imagined) feels like the end of the(ir) world. They have a very weak/unstable sense of self, which forces them to rely on others' esteem of them, especially when they grow attached to someone special. Then the fear of adandonment trumps everything. I hope she seeks mental health treatment that can provide her with the tools to cope; the condition can be very painful to life with, and can even underlie harm/abuse to partners. I hope the person filming stays safe too; that relationship was no doubt a rollercoaster, and nobody deserves to be yelled at, stalked, harrassed, or abused by an adult unable to process their own emotions. Hope he heals as well
I was diagnosed with severe PTSD and BPD and I am enough of an adult to not behave like a two year old and chuck my toys outta the cot because I was rejected or dumped by my partner.
Yeah my mom goes on a sewer side-al rant all the time and claims all of her kids hate her and never want to be around her. It honestly IS hard to be around her, especially when she was drinking everyday cause she's an angry drunk, and if she drinks than you know she's not taking her medication... Everytime I'm with her we fight because she's always mad at something. I'm pretty sure toddlers have better anger management. If she's not mad than she's sad and saying how she's pathetic and how the world has treated her the worst and nobodys suffering can equate to hers and if she's not sad than she's suddenly super confident saying she's the best salesperson this world has seen. She stopped drinking for this past year and she's almost been like my mom again. But it was temporary, she was waiting for her liver to heal I guess? But now she started drinking again and we've been getting hysterical calls nearly everyday from her. I wish she'd realize how much better her life was when she's off alcohol. She had much fewer episodes and just genuinely seemed happier and more carefree. Sigh...sorry for venting
Listening to the video HURTS MY EARS. This woman is crazy.. As a woman, I hate how some of us act. This is insane. Can we just treat each other like humans?!
Back when I was a teenager (the late 90's UK) we called this type of insane women "Psycho Suzie's" and I have no clue where it came from 🤣 A friend of my sister once dated a girl like this. She had to know where he was and be with him at all times. He finally dumped her, getting a restraining order, when she didn't call out to him asking where he was/doing when he went to the toilet. Instead his small mad woman destroyed a solid wooden 2+ inch thick 1930's internal door, wooden door frame and part of an internal brick and mortar wall to get to him in the bathroom without saying a word. It cost the dude's parents £10k to fix the damage and their insurance of course sued the girl's family for the damage. That girl was NUTS and still tries to contact my sister's friend to get back together 20+ years later 😨
@@decodavanwinkle8936 The nutter destroyed so much structure that they had to do some emergency repair work to the room, rooms next door, the landing and staircase.
I love how the most likely outcome of him going to the police and try to file for a restraining order, would be the police completely disregarding the seriousness of this situation.
are dead, right... My ex best friend has we actively stalking me for over three months, and it's rapidly getting worse... They are following me to work they are chasing me home with weapons. I spent four hours on the phone with different police officers this morning... Absolutely nothing.. They expect me to gather all of the evidence... I got off the phone with cops one night that she was at the place I was working and then I called my friend so I was on the phone With somebody else and my friend could hear her screaming that she was gonna kill me and trying to break in the house she could hear it in the background... Yet somehow, the police couldn't. The police need to do more.
@sponge 😅😅 Boy would I have a story to tell you and you would change your mind really fast... How would you like to be Actively hunted down and regularly have someone trying to kill you for months on end and the cops to do absolutely fuck all... Well actually they put a no contact order on me saying I Couldn't contact her... Like shouldn't it be the other way around
You can tell she grew up getting her way like this and carried that logic into adulthood. Problem is as an adult people can and will just walk away when you act like this because unlike her indulgent parents other people have the choice of whether they want to be around THIS on a regular basis. I hope she watches this and has a good hard think about how she might be pretty but that's not enough to offset this disgusting behavior.
I actually feel sorry for her. If you really want to be with this person so much, then just talk normally. Get in touch with him, arrange a meeting, discuss everything properly, and start from there. But THIS. THIS will lead to nothing. Neither to the bad, nor to the good, just to nothing. The only thing you can show yourself in a far from the best light. I remember I had an ex who forgot about me for a whole damn year. And then she suddenly came back and asked me to start over. Of course, I sent her to all four sides, but at least she tried, and did it like a normal person
Narcissism and fear of abandonment mixed with an inability to control emotions is a sign of a personality disorder. Hopefully she isn't suffering from anything like this as it can be quite debilitating for the person and their partner.
@@HUYI1 my sister has bipolar type 1 and..even before she got treatment she did not act like this...even during a lot of stress like she was going to med school
Her meltdown sounds very similar to one of the Amber Heard meltdown recordings they played during the defamation trial. Apparently Amber was diagnosed with a narcissistic personality with abandonment issues.
People out here are saying she might have a mental illness, and to this I have to say, even if she does happen to have one, it doesn’t water down her actions. She needs to be held accountable for her actions no matter what. Mental illness is not an excuse for piss poor behavior. This is coming from someone with ASD and I think everyone regardless of their ability or disabilities should be held accountable for their actions equally.
Yeah. I'm honestly disappointed by the ignorance of these comments. Like oh, you have ASD. That doesn't make you automatically understand jack shit. Being in a state like this, she is likely suicidal at that moment as well, because she doesn't give a shit about being recorded or anything else. I've studied psychology and worked with patients who have episodes like this. I am passionate about it because I've been this way myself. And people are degrading, laughing at, and mocking her. No, she is not able to control anything in this state. This is what mental sickness can actually do to you. This isn't "stupidity" or a lack of logic, these are extreme, absolutely heart-wrenching, severe uncontrollable emotions, and she is literally begging for help. She cannot do anything in this state, as you like to imagine. If you don't know what it's like, better not have misinformed assumptions. I'm sorry but showing this as "entertainment" is going over the line. Nobody seems to know what they're actually seeing here. It's honestly disturbing to me. I could write forever, but people like being "justly" sadistic and mock people with a sense of superiority. Just how humans are. With everything I've went through and seen in my life, it truly hurts to see this kind of judgement. A woman's worst mental state is actually being displayed as amusement on the internet. If you can't see anything wrong with that, I can't help you. You'd have to experience it for yourself or learn from the people who have.
@@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe Jesus Christ dude. This is the internet people are going make fun of people regardless. Also you having a passion doesn’t make you any better. I’m fact the way you’ve presented yourself doesn’t make yourself any better than me or anyone else.
My previous relationship is like this at first she just your normal girl that's why I dated her, we've been together for years but then for some reason she being territorial she started stalking me while on my work or out for a bit, checking my phone always asking where I am or even asking me who am I playing with in online games its so suffocating, I broke up with her she started acting like a child at the first months after that. Luckly it stop. To those in this type of relationship you better let it go its not a long-term relationship it will drain the heck out of your life
My 1st gf in highschool would act like this and threaten me. When I filed a restraining order she threatened to sue for slander when I had incriminating proof of her being crazy lol
Damn bro! Hope you got the fuck away from her @STEPH. I hope she getting mental help, because she really needs it! Be extremely careful who you’re going to date!
Not defending her, but I’m fairly certain she has BPD. I have BPD as well, and I know that sad, pathetic flail all to well. The thing is- there are two kinds of people with BPD: normal people who have bad moments cause they have been through a lot, and toxic people who have been through a lot and don’t learn cause they’re selfish. You can tell by how many times the person with BPD sincerely (and calmly) apologizes to you afterwards- cause we truly feel extreme guilt after things like this if we’re normal, nice people. It comes from experiencing multiple abandonments and a lot of trauma in life, and it’s an incredibly painful disorder that makes you feel like you’re dying when people reject you (it’s not JUST that, but that’s just a big portion of it). It pretty much causes your emotions to be so strong, it feels like you’re going to explode (and no- you can’t control them, they just come out like vomit). However, I stopped acting like that at….. 15? So she seems like she has no plans to change her behavior- probably cause it gets her what she wants. You have to find coping mechanisms… so you don’t…. Do this. That’s why I play video games- I take my pain out on my computer (the poor thing lol!!) ☺️
You stopped acting like that around 15. Maybe you should think about everything you said in the light of just this sentence. And stop with the remote diagnosis and character rating
If you stopped acting like that at 15 then maybe your BPD symptoms were never severe to begin with/or you definitely got a shit ton of help with your symptoms early on, so you learned how to cope before they could develop further. My therapist once said "Everyone experiences BPD symptoms sometimes in their life especially during puberty, so it's hard to really tell if you even have BPD at that age or not" I am diagnosed with BPD. I agree with your statements about the way you described how the disorder feels sometimes. However as someone who still has these behaviors even after puberty and being an adult now It's not that simple to change. I have been going through DBT for around 4 months now and I gotta say it definitely helps to control this kind of behavior, but even then it still requires more than years of learning on how to change your behavior. Also not saying that the girl in the video has BPD, but even if she did, she might not even know about it. Not everyone is informed. But yes I totally agree with what you have wrote. Most BPD people don't even mean to do these behaviors, and it truly does sometimes come out like vomit we cannot control. It's really really just torture, but it's also torturous towards our loved ones and the people around us. Not everyone can handle it, so sometimes I even push people away on purpose so I can stop hurting them. Still doesn't excuse her actions. But maybe she should really look into some behavioral therapy. Unless like you said, she has no plans to do so and just uses these behaviors to get whatever she wants.
@@Idengard Was diagnosed with bpd, was never that bad but lost my shit a few times. Thankfully I had access to a boxing gym and heavy bags and some self discipline. I no longer act like a goober. Its almost like people grow up and understanding your diagnoses helps control it. Having a mental illness isn't an excuse to act like a fuqin maniac toddler when its something manageable with therapy or just understanding that's not how adults act and that's unacceptable. Just means its now on you to get the help you need and manage it properly. Take some fuqin mood stabilizers if you have too, but it's not hard to make yourself function as a normal adult with bpd if you have outlets.
She may have some sort of mental problem or TBI that fucks with emotional regulation/impulse control because how tf do you act like this over a breakup?! She needs help, he needs protection. I feel for them both, though I am NOT excusing her behavior.
Hard to tell if she’s actually doing this to gaslight him and guilt him to take her back or if she’s just got really bad abandonment issues; well looks like both. FATHERLESS BEHAVIOR I TELL YOU!💀
people using fatherless as an insult are clearly projecting being fatherless lmao. Or motherless. Imagine not being taught respect and decency by your mother and expecting your father to do everything in your education....kinda motherless too, dont you think?
So tired of ppl turning everybody's bad behavior into a diagnosis. 🙄🙄 Every time ppl act selfish, immature, or spoiled it's suddenly not their fault--it's a disorder. Funny how all these "disorders" only became next-level rampant in the last few years.
These videos always raise my self esteem and make me feel a bit better about those autistic academic stress meltdowns I have, but compared to this,meltdown is a hell of a overstatement
I think everyone throws a tantrum like this at some point. Let’s say someone who meant alot to you died, maybe even your own child. You’d be going crazy with grief at some point, right? No one should be that obsessed with someone, and I’m not defending this girl’s behavior. But a lot of people, even adults act like this under certain circumstances. The only difference is it wasn’t recorded for everyone to see and judge. Sad to see people judging others like this, honestly.
i'm sorry, she can drive, has tattoos, is somewhere in the drinking age, and correct me on this but she's NOT under the Special Ed spectrum. All of this combined already tells me that her functioning in society is a horrible mistake, that or the mere question of how she was raised proves that she never got hit with daddy's belt once in her entire life.
Are you daft? "Spedical Ed spectrum" Autism It's Autism And people who are autistic can drive and get tattoos and do literally anything, it's a spectrum.
ah yes, child abuse is what we need to bring back because good parents teach through beating and hitting! As someone who grew with the belt, wooden spoon, shoe, etc, nah, abuse still isnt a good teaching method and if it doesnt make you docile through fear and trauma, it will make you more unhinged and ending up in juvenile or doing crimes.
To be totally honest, I have acted that way myself in the past when I was younger. I was diagnosed with autism as an adult. Apparently I was having autistic meltdowns cause my hormones were all messed up and as a women it was only worse cause we are already so messed up by our hormones, having extra compared to men. So we already have the potential to lose It a little bit but when you add mental health issues, you get stuff like this, total meltdowns. If this girl feels like thos alot, she should seek help! This is signs of a serious hormone disorder that is getting out of control. The way she moves erratically and it hyperventilating. Her brain is completely breaking down on itself in the face of stress. Just hope she gets some help so the poor guy can get some much needed rest! I was almost 30 when I was finally diagnosed. I honestly just thought I was crazy and just a baby compared to others but nope, turns out it was brain problems. I'm just being myself and that's to much for people sometimes, especially when I have episodes like this where I'm just totally broken and lost. Her brain is telling her shes unsafe and in distress because it doesnt know how to appropriately react to a normal situation because it's not a normal functioning brain.
To be honest, women do not have more hormones than men. Women have more of some hormones, but men have more of others. Both male and female hormones make you equally crazy too. That being said, as another girl with autism, I think it is the fact that school barely believed autistic men existed, let alone women. I don't think the rate of autism is greater for either gender, but doctors are very eager to diagnose it in men and women seem better at faking emotions. The fact we start with none is a wonderful gift...but sadly our world is not kind, nor caring. All emotions are fake chemical responses which try to control people. They are no more real than the Easter Bunny or Jesus.
There is no justification for any of this. If it was a guy there wouldnt me 4 paragraphs on why its not his fault, everyone is responsible for their own actions.
Justification and an explanation aren't the same thing. The best of us can look at someone like this and see someone that needs to process some shit and seek medical help. Pity is a much better response than anger and a whatabboutism about "hurrdurr if she was a man"
@@hicknopunk "All emotions are fake chemical responses which try to control people"?? This sounds more like something a sociopath would say, not an autistic person. This may be my ignorance showing, but last time I checked plenty of autistic people had few emotional difficulties per se; if anything they were more honest, they just struggled to read social subtext (i.e. a lot of nonverbal cues that neurotypical people take for granted). Emotions are a signal and an intrinsic part of most sentient life. Humans are not exempt from the limbic system. Framing the narrative in terms of 'controlling' - if a person lets transient emotion cloud their judgment, that seems more like a lack of self-awareness or impulse control, not a problem with emotion itself. Without emotion there would be no empathy or altruism, either. Simply people trying to use and take advantage of one another for the sake of survival, which is not the worldview I subscribe to, even if some are like that.
Idk she seems like a very hurt person. Doesn't mean the bf should stay in a relationship with her, but i can empathize with the girl. I've been in a low place, where i felt hopeless and completely dependent on my partner. I felt like I'd do anything to stay in that relationship, even though it was terribly toxic. She needs help. I can't make fun of someone in this position because it's a very dark place that i wouldn't wish on anyone.
i feel more sympathy for the whole situation then amusement cuz i can feel were she's coming from. not saying ive acted like that in public but breakups can seriously effect people and for a long time
Growing up I NEVER threw a fit such as this. I was raised to the motto of "if you wanna cry, ill give you something to cry about" and I can say im more than happy I was raised as such. Today, I go through a break up, yeah it hurts like hell but throwing a fit isn't gonna do anything about it. Eventually, as an adult, you accept it and move on. This girl is just an embarrassment, I hope the both of them get the help they need.
I grew up with the "crying and showing emotion is weakness" aswell. Ive lost close people in my life and still have a hard time being able to shed a tear. I found out it looks bad if I don't cry at my best friends funeral and people give you looks, yay. Ive been trying to learn how to cry around my partner and show emotions like sadness. Been a tough road when you need to learn how to be a human with emotion as an adult
By saying "if you wanna cry, I'll give you something to cry about" it invalidates your emotions and can even be emotionally abusive/manipulative in some scenarios. Maybe it worked for you but for some people it can have long lasting effects and make it harder for them to express themselves or show emotions. It can even lead to this sometimes where when you have strong emotions you don't know how to handle them because you were taught to always suppress them and it can cause major issues. I've never done anything like the girl in this video, but speaking from experience, suppression can make it 1000x worse for some people
@@RatchelRach im pretty sure he was talking about the kid saying "NOOO MOMMY I WANT CANDY! WHY CANT WE GO TO THE CANDY STOREE WAHHHHH" its like normal teachings, if you do something bad, or are just unreasonably mad for no reason at all, you get something to cry about, of course, you can cry when its a serious subject, like in sweet bitty oll grandma's funeral, but you cant just cry because you were given vegetables instead of chicken nuggets for dinner. pretty sure every parent does this at some point (except for the girl's parents), you have to give your child a punishment for bad behaviour or else you'll get a spoiled brat it probably gives the kid the message to not cry and throw a tantrum about every slight unlucky thing happens in life. trip on a rock? cry on the floor saying that they hate god or maybe get broken up with by their bf? now they're in a car throwing a tantrum being filmed on tiktok tldr: it ain't suppression, its teaching discipline
@@Internetgribbler that makes sense but I don't necessarily think that's a be all end all. In my opinion it's better to let the kid feel their feelings (most of the time) but don't let them make it a bigger deal than it is to the point of screaming and crying. Like "I understand you're upset about this and that's ok but throwing a tantrum is not going to get you what you want." If they're acting bad and being a brat then yes punishment/discipline is necessary, but by telling them you'll give them a reason to cry if they're upset about something implies that they never had a reason in the first place. Sure, not getting candy at the grocery store might not be a GOOD reason, but they're still upset about it and you should still be understanding unless they're doing something like what you mentioned, screaming and crying. But otherwise, if they shed a few tears I don't think they're doing any harm by it, but that could also be what op was saying I'm not sure
“Poor girl”, “I feel for her”, “she needs help & healing”. If it was a guy, he would be instantly labeled as the most beta thing that ever walked the earth & ppl would wish for him to be locked in the darkest jail, not sent to the therapy
I feel bad for the dude, no one should have to deal with someone else's childish outbursts at the same time I don't want to judge her and I do have sympathy for her, heartbreak fuckin sucks, nobody is truly equipped to deal with it, most can hide it but feel the same way she does on the inside lol but if someone leaves you, you gotta move on, they've already told you they don't love you and you can't make someone love you. The worst possible case for this chick would be him saying "yea change that FB relationship status bake to in a relationship" haha cause shell just have her heart rebroke in a few weeks, maybe a couple months because he doesn't love you!!!
Oh fuck off. You kinda of people who excuse everything.. no accountability for anyone apparently lol guess what? Having “mental illness”, “attachment issues” or whatever other bullshit you guys can come up with doesn’t allow you to do whatever you want to whoever you want whenever you want.
I've threatened suicide in the past when my ex left me which he had every right to because I used to have serious jealousy issues and if I've learned anything it's that there's a difference between wanting to be with somebody, and wanting to control somebody. I had no right to treat my ex that way just like this girl has no right to act this way towards her ex. You just can't do that sh*t.
She definitely needs to be accountable for this. I don't think it is a random temper tantrum though. I think she is having mental breakdown. I believe she truly feels not in control of herself but as I wrote in the beginning she definitely needs to take accountability and a court order along with some charges might be needed
I agree with the people concerned about her mental health. I think that calling 911 would be a better response than filming a mental breakdown. c: No matter what though, nobody except those two and maybe close family members know the entire story. They could both be crazy for all we know ^-^
It’s good he was recording her behavior as evidence so he can get a restraining order. I do think he also needed to call the police bc she is having a mental breakdown and could be a danger to herself or others.
She also has mental issues, I don't deal with rejection well either but it's something we must learn. First one always sucks bad but it gets better with time
“Hello 911 what’s your emergency? Yeah I have this EX girlfriend who’s acting like a child and stalking me please help okay we will send a swat team right away! XD
I see alot of people defending the woman because of *mental health*. I'm sorry, but the guy doesn't deserve to be stalked and harassed just because she can't control herself. People shouldn't have to suffer due to other people's problems. Normalising mental health issues and making excuses for it, is the reason people get killed. I really hope this guy gets a restraining order and some protect, because I can see this girl murdering him.
😹😹😹 one of my exes was an actual obsessive nymphomanic and was an absolutely batshit crazy. She actually followed me to a whole different CONTINENT and I am married with kids. Whole another level of creepy. This was more than a few years ago.
Many police will just laugh at you if you say you got a female stalker and say they wish they had one, its even worse if she is physically attractive, as if being attractive means you cannot be crazy. Hope you and your family have peace now.
It doesn't really matter if she has a mental disorder, hormone disbalance or it's just a temper tantrum.. she still should go to therapy. He should also go, toxic relationships still leave a mark, and if he can't sleep then he also need to start healing some sh*t
dude my boyfriend used to act like this before whenever we had a fight and I used to get really annoyed and yell at him for acting like a child and I never showed him that I loved him but later I've realised that I used to treat him really bad and fight with him almost everyday. but now that i have let go of the past and I try to keep our relationship healthy and try to show that I love him very much, he's mentally so much better and our relationship is really nice. so maybe this guy also might've been a reason why his ex is acting like that yk
You are coming up with excuses for this persons behaviour and pinning the blame on the man. What you are doing right now is the literal definition of victim blaming. You are insane.
Lol is going to get worst my dude. Half are crisis and shit. I'm 30 and single, when u get to this point girls want to fast track the relationship because the more you get close to 35/40 the less chance they have to get pregnant. I've met crazy 🐱 like this one, at this point i lost all hopes lol
@@Searnybh enjoy these years and just focus on your friends and all will be ok my dude. Some people are lucky to find someone that truly loves them, but the most important thing is to love yourself and the people that are important to you. The rest will come in a way or another ;) at least i hope xD. Cheers man, stay strong you too.
The 1:40 "please stop wtf is u doin bruh?" Sounded like it should've come out of a different person... I mean, let's be honest: that doesn't sound like it should've come out of him 😅
You know that one spoiled kid who got everything they ever asked for right away? This is what they grow into. Thank your parents for saying no once in a while.
One of my ex girlfriends, I broke up with her and she did a very similar thing (NOT THAT CRAZY), I took her back and not much longer SHE BROKE UP WITH ME and not too long I found out that she was in bed with another man. RULE 1 I learnt fast : never take back a girl you have broken up with/keep as a side piece only.
We got conspiracy theorists forgetting who created our stuctures, adults act like children, we’ve confused sexuality with love to the point of not knowing what or why gender exists. Ladies and gentlemen, witness. The fall of Rome
I think she really needs a professional help... It really hurts to look at her and no, not because she acts like a baby. She really really needs help, it's not healthy and this extreme melt down + how she seems to not function without this person (based on extra context) lead me to think about a couple of disorders. You would be surprised to know how much people appear normal, but actually mentally ill and just act normal on public. Or just take meds 🤷♀️
I don think that the approach you took here pegasus was the best, I mean the girl was very clearly having a very severe crisis and the guy instead of getting her help or calling the police, he recorded her and farmed views out of her misery, it's one thing being desperate but this aint it dude. the woman is VERY CLEARLY sick and needs help and even if her crisis was let out through intense screams of desperation towards her ex, I still believe that she really needed assistance, from anybody even her ex. She was nuts but for different reasons than you might thing. Sometimes people do get sick and have breakdowns and this is a core example of one. I do realize that stalking him and all that stuff was creepy, but that only furthermore proofs that she was sick and she needed help, all this "scummy" behavior is justified by one reason or another, I'm not saying she doesn't need to punished, but what I'm saying is she needs to be also treated, mental health is a thing and you of all ppl should know it. just to sum up my point: I think the guy was wrong for not taking quick action towards the girl, and you were also wrong for thinking that people just do this sh*t with complete rationality in their brains because the girl in this case was very clearly ill.
That looks like me when I have to read , analyse, and study the whole Last Letters of Jacopo Ortis for the following day and I’ve been ill for the preceding 3 months. Help me-
Finally the time I had time to comment. But all of these, I kinda feel the point of her, due to probably because they were in a long relationship or such, and also what Pegasus said, one key rule to relationships, never ever give your self worth, this is where you go if it happens also, I had a friend like that, they're been in a relationship for a really long time, he had given his self worth over her, to the point he gets jealous over something small, I keep saying thats unhealthy, and you're probably unprepared, hell, even one of my friends kept saying that to him, he didn't listen, and he had a mental breakdown alot of times, just because of the relationship What's the point of saying my friends' experience with this video? DON'T GIVE YOUR SELF WORTH TO SOMEONE YOU'RE OBSESSED. Edit: I've also watched the video, I've been in the same boat back then, but when my ex and I meet again, we just kinda chill cause we realize how badly it would go if we stay like that, and he honestly started talking again as a friend, cause I don't mind.
So tired of bad behavior being turned into a diagnosis. 🙄 If ppl are spoiled, immature, selfish, hostile, it's not their fault--it's a disorder. 🙄🙄 Funny how all these "disorders" only became next-level and rampant in the last few years. 💯
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BISH DRANK THE WACKO SMACKO JUICE 🧃
Where can i get that drink🥸
Random person
Ayo I’ve never been this early
@@bleezecake same it feel's weird 💀
Damn, no wonder why she's so crazy (⊙_◎)
You said it
the fact that she is the one driving is all the more scarier 💀
Ohhh crap, good point
Omg
I'm honestly surprised she got the car there in one piece with how she was acting in the video
thats a good point
i was just about to say this lol.
We don't need babysitters, we need adult-sitters.
the adult sitters will be children 👍
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Fr, adults throwing tantrums is crazy
Nah bro that thing in the video needs another thing called a rope
It’s just children between 5-10 telling us “no you can’t go chase you’re ex again today, unless you eat you’re vegetables”
Pegasus only making this video because he wants her to come to him, good play
*Found you*
You could have worded that better.
@@GamingMoai420 i dont even understand him lmao
@@huehueHUEHUEHUEEE He means that Pegasus made this video to like get the girl to come to him? Idk
@@huehueHUEHUEHUEEE bro stop overreacting you know what exactly he meant
She needs to go to a mental hospital so they can help her. That's honestly scary because she's acting so insanely obsessed and stalking him, that's never ok.
I can tell you, from experience of being institutionalized, that no guy is worth, being placed on lockdown without your cell phone! Yes heartbreak is tough and no one deserves to go through that! But heartbreak is temporary. But once you start getting institutionalized, you can't erase that.
Lol i was institutionalized from 14-19. Ive looked up about 100 of the people i was in there with and every one of us has a horrible life or is dead now@jessicajamesspeaks
@@RichieKrol "RichieKrol"
> "JessicaJames
Erm what the sigma?
@@Mere-Lachaiselongue what?
The amount of uncomfortable I feel from this is immeasurable. I hope this guy gets a restraining order, and electric fence, and a very good security setup at home.
I can't imagine how uncomfortable it was for this guy to be living it. With someone like that, a restraining order is just a piece of paper. But I absolutely agree with the electric fence. Security setups only work if it scares the person away and/or the police can get there fast. He better have something he can use in the meantime, like a bat.
You mean at his apartment
And a couple of guard dogs.
Buddy I hope you RAN and RAN FAST!
And maybe a sentry gun with facial recognition just for good measure
“I NEED YOU!!!”
No you don’t, you need a therapist.
“I’M GOING CRAZY!!”
That’s what I’m saying, go get help, please, it’ll be good for you.
lmao 😀 facts !
...
... going?
@@Flesh_Wizard yeah? She said she was going crazy. It means “I am developing into insanity”
You are crazy
Not in today's therapy, all they do is agree with you and throw medicine at you. But she probably does need some tranquilizers.
You can just tell she’s never heard ‘No’, a day in her life. It’s clear she’s used to throwing tantrums like this, and getting her way.
I honestly don't think this is a temper tantrum but a serious mental health issue. It seems like borderline personality disorder but I don't know a damn thing about her.
Braking bad the prequel
Narcissism
You said exactly what I was thinking.
@@AnneQuiet tbh I'm getting those vibes from her too,it's weird and scary.......she needs therapy and counseling for sure.
I’m Muslim and this made me go “Jesus Christ”
Edit: to all the people getting religious, please, it was a joke
That is not permissible to say, instead say 'Subhan'Allah' instead when you are inflicted with news or something as you are referring back to Allah Azzawajal since the term 'Jesus Christ' is usually used in vain (it is disrespectful for even Christians to use this) and second of all it is like referring back to him as your God, which he isnt. Insha'Allah you understand
@@itswobblypancake7981 ik it was a joke
@@itswobblypancake7981 😭 it was a joke
@@itswobblypancake7981take a joke you wobbly waffle
I was only trying to give advice 😞
And seeing her behavior you can understand why he broke up with her.
Even if she's mentally ill it's no excuse for trapping someone in a car with you so you can force them to sit through an adult sized temper tantrum.
He should call the cops and file a restraining order and if she violates that order, she goes to jail.
He should invest in cameras for his home as well in case she is unstable enough to try breaking into his place at some point.
Stalkers are only satisfied with watching from afar for so long before they make a move on their victim.
You know society is screwed when adults are acting like kids
Actually tho 💀
bro is a skinwalker💀
only america
fax 💀
@@adityakanade5630 only in ohio to only in America 💀
She's throwing a tantrum like a 8 year old who didn't get a mcdonalds happy meal.
8 year olds i know are more behaved
An 8 year old would never act like this I'd say it's closer to a toddler
@@s0nnasauras630 most toddlers are more mature and have better communication skills LOL
Maybe her reaction is unreasonable, but she was hyperventilating. She was out of breath and couldn't express her turmoil in a proper manner. And I'm sorry, but sometimes that's life. And it's okay-ish. I hope her mental health will be better soon enough. Clearly she has attachment issues.
@@eduardolazzarotti1020 You know 8 year olds?! 🤨📸
As a person who wants a relationship... at least I know I'll never get THIS level of bad
You'd be surprised🥲
@@LATAM_EQUINOX if you speak from experience you have my condolences 🙏😔
@@EthanMastercrafter not me exactly but ive family like this...🥲
@@LATAM_EQUINOX then I pray you don't fall victim to their same path and hope you can walk a better one. And while you're at it maybe knock some sence into that family member of yours if you can ❤️
@@EthanMastercrafter nah i've tried, i just stand down on tus one😅👌
OMG there's a baby seat in the back of that car! You mean to tell me someone made a baby with that psycho!?
Nah that's her seat at this point because of this deranged behavior
She might have BPD cause this is how some people with BPD act when they feel rejected / abandoned. Some people with BPD don’t know how to regulate their emotions, so they’re start to stalk the person they feel like is abandoning them, & will start to “throw tantrums” cause the emotion becomes way to much for them. They feel like they need their partner to feel okay about themselves too. She needs to go to therapy & work in it cause it can cause her to harm herself or others 😬. I feel bad for both of them.
Maybe, but there's a lot more to BPD (i.e chronic feelings of emptiness, identity disturbance, suicidal/self-harming behavior,) that it's hard to tell just from this one video. She does share a lot from the criteria but we don't even fully know if she has abandonment issues. She does need therapy though, this isn't normal to be acting in public.
Yes flailing and throwing a tantrum always gets people what they want.
Bro your like 1-6 yr old to do that shit
Does for my toddler 😅
@@Adventurousavacado.pretty sure your kid behaves better then this thot
@@Adventurousavacado. well how about not.
Evidence the video
@@Tha-mountainthey have a child, that's children's way of getting things, not the adults way
I feel bad for both of them tbh. I feel bad the guy has to deal with this and feels unsafe in his own house but I also feel bad for the girl. She's obviously has some mental problems and needs to see a doctor ASAP 💀 I'm not defending her but like I hope she gets medical help and the guy can live peacefully
Agree
Glad im not the only one feeling bad for both sides.
i rememebr having these kinds of breakdowns when i was like 6 hahahaha... its quite overwhelming and i feel bad that she never learned how to control her emotions
Her behavior is so absurd that it looks psychotic but that's an assumption some people really just act like this with no mental illness. So I don't feel bad at all and even with mental illness this ain't acceptable
Well the thing is, I live with someone like this and she constantly denies she has any mental problems and proceeds to abuse people around her, so maybe don’t feel so bad for this woman… she’s clearly harassing/abusing this man and abuse has no excuse. We’ve tried to help her so many times and every single time she breaks expensive shit in order to make my dad financially unstable, she keeps me from school near the last days or weeks. She does so many fucked up shit to bring us down because we don’t want her around. So please don’t feel bad for possible narcissistic women like this. They don’t deserve it if they don’t want to help themselves.
I think the ex has BPD, which is correlated with childhood trauma. Doesn't excuse her behavior in the slightest; just adding context. To people with BPD, the feeling of being rejected/abandoned (regardless of whether that rejection/abandonment is real or imagined) feels like the end of the(ir) world. They have a very weak/unstable sense of self, which forces them to rely on others' esteem of them, especially when they grow attached to someone special. Then the fear of adandonment trumps everything. I hope she seeks mental health treatment that can provide her with the tools to cope; the condition can be very painful to life with, and can even underlie harm/abuse to partners. I hope the person filming stays safe too; that relationship was no doubt a rollercoaster, and nobody deserves to be yelled at, stalked, harrassed, or abused by an adult unable to process their own emotions. Hope he heals as well
Spot on. I have BPD. It's horrible but you have to take responsibility and see a therapist when you feel things slipping out of control.
I was diagnosed with severe PTSD and BPD and I am enough of an adult to not behave like a two year old and chuck my toys outta the cot because I was rejected or dumped by my partner.
if she was a man. they would have called cops. and they will call him ticking time bomb
@@misfit1395same
Yeah my mom goes on a sewer side-al rant all the time and claims all of her kids hate her and never want to be around her. It honestly IS hard to be around her, especially when she was drinking everyday cause she's an angry drunk, and if she drinks than you know she's not taking her medication...
Everytime I'm with her we fight because she's always mad at something. I'm pretty sure toddlers have better anger management. If she's not mad than she's sad and saying how she's pathetic and how the world has treated her the worst and nobodys suffering can equate to hers and if she's not sad than she's suddenly super confident saying she's the best salesperson this world has seen.
She stopped drinking for this past year and she's almost been like my mom again. But it was temporary, she was waiting for her liver to heal I guess? But now she started drinking again and we've been getting hysterical calls nearly everyday from her.
I wish she'd realize how much better her life was when she's off alcohol. She had much fewer episodes and just genuinely seemed happier and more carefree.
Sigh...sorry for venting
Listening to the video HURTS MY EARS. This woman is crazy..
As a woman, I hate how some of us act. This is insane. Can we just treat each other like humans?!
Back when I was a teenager (the late 90's UK) we called this type of insane women "Psycho Suzie's" and I have no clue where it came from 🤣 A friend of my sister once dated a girl like this. She had to know where he was and be with him at all times. He finally dumped her, getting a restraining order, when she didn't call out to him asking where he was/doing when he went to the toilet. Instead his small mad woman destroyed a solid wooden 2+ inch thick 1930's internal door, wooden door frame and part of an internal brick and mortar wall to get to him in the bathroom without saying a word. It cost the dude's parents £10k to fix the damage and their insurance of course sued the girl's family for the damage. That girl was NUTS and still tries to contact my sister's friend to get back together 20+ years later 😨
bro that’s craaazzyyyy 💀💀
What the actual fuck was her mother smoking while being pregnant.
Sadly I know people like this, have had the misfortune to have relatives date people like that, moving across the world is not enough to escape.
10k? Somebody was overcharged....
@@decodavanwinkle8936 The nutter destroyed so much structure that they had to do some emergency repair work to the room, rooms next door, the landing and staircase.
damn these stories are getting worse and worse 💀
For real like-💀
I love how the most likely outcome of him going to the police and try to file for a restraining order, would be the police completely disregarding the seriousness of this situation.
That or she'd then play the victim card and get him arrested for not taking her back.
@sponge They can be completely useless in a lot of situations. Depends on what state you live in for sure
are dead, right... My ex best friend has we actively stalking me for over three months, and it's rapidly getting worse... They are following me to work they are chasing me home with weapons. I spent four hours on the phone with different police officers this morning... Absolutely nothing.. They expect me to gather all of the evidence... I got off the phone with cops one night that she was at the place I was working and then I called my friend so I was on the phone With somebody else and my friend could hear her screaming that she was gonna kill me and trying to break in the house she could hear it in the background... Yet somehow, the police couldn't. The police need to do more.
@sponge 😅😅 Boy would I have a story to tell you and you would change your mind really fast... How would you like to be Actively hunted down and regularly have someone trying to kill you for months on end and the cops to do absolutely fuck all... Well actually they put a no contact order on me saying I Couldn't contact her... Like shouldn't it be the other way around
yep thats basically how it goes all the time now.
You can tell she grew up getting her way like this and carried that logic into adulthood. Problem is as an adult people can and will just walk away when you act like this because unlike her indulgent parents other people have the choice of whether they want to be around THIS on a regular basis. I hope she watches this and has a good hard think about how she might be pretty but that's not enough to offset this disgusting behavior.
I actually feel sorry for her. If you really want to be with this person so much, then just talk normally. Get in touch with him, arrange a meeting, discuss everything properly, and start from there. But THIS. THIS will lead to nothing. Neither to the bad, nor to the good, just to nothing. The only thing you can show yourself in a far from the best light.
I remember I had an ex who forgot about me for a whole damn year. And then she suddenly came back and asked me to start over. Of course, I sent her to all four sides, but at least she tried, and did it like a normal person
You are being a doormat. Fight for what you believe in, fight for your rights. Don’t let anyone manipulate you.
If A Man Did This No One Would Feel Bad, They Just Think He's A Weirdo.
What are you talking about???
@@ayocam07 what are u taling about
Narcissism and fear of abandonment mixed with an inability to control emotions is a sign of a personality disorder. Hopefully she isn't suffering from anything like this as it can be quite debilitating for the person and their partner.
yes bipolar personality disorder is a real thing but it is manageable with the right treatment
She has a disorder: Being a woman
@@HUYI1 my sister has bipolar type 1 and..even before she got treatment she did not act like this...even during a lot of stress like she was going to med school
@@HUYI1 she of course had her really bad times where she'd cry infront of people but not go wacko like this lady
Her meltdown sounds very similar to one of the Amber Heard meltdown recordings they played during the defamation trial. Apparently Amber was diagnosed with a narcissistic personality with abandonment issues.
How could you possibly have a normal relationship dynamic with someone after they act like this?
how'd she escape the mental hospital??
Good question
That the issue, she was never signed into one..
Exactly what I was thinking! When she kept screaming, " take me back!" I'm like, to the mental hospital...? 😭☠️
@@cheyennebastian339 ong. never seen someone so crazy-
Someone left her cage open
People out here are saying she might have a mental illness, and to this I have to say, even if she does happen to have one, it doesn’t water down her actions. She needs to be held accountable for her actions no matter what. Mental illness is not an excuse for piss poor behavior. This is coming from someone with ASD and I think everyone regardless of their ability or disabilities should be held accountable for their actions equally.
exactly
pretty sure she was just thought by her parents that endless guilt tripping and tantrums get her what she wants
@@Internetgribbler Ah so her mother must’ve been Amber Heard.
Yeah.
I'm honestly disappointed by the ignorance of these comments. Like oh, you have ASD. That doesn't make you automatically understand jack shit. Being in a state like this, she is likely suicidal at that moment as well, because she doesn't give a shit about being recorded or anything else. I've studied psychology and worked with patients who have episodes like this. I am passionate about it because I've been this way myself. And people are degrading, laughing at, and mocking her. No, she is not able to control anything in this state. This is what mental sickness can actually do to you. This isn't "stupidity" or a lack of logic, these are extreme, absolutely heart-wrenching, severe uncontrollable emotions, and she is literally begging for help. She cannot do anything in this state, as you like to imagine. If you don't know what it's like, better not have misinformed assumptions.
I'm sorry but showing this as "entertainment" is going over the line. Nobody seems to know what they're actually seeing here. It's honestly disturbing to me. I could write forever, but people like being "justly" sadistic and mock people with a sense of superiority. Just how humans are. With everything I've went through and seen in my life, it truly hurts to see this kind of judgement. A woman's worst mental state is actually being displayed as amusement on the internet. If you can't see anything wrong with that, I can't help you. You'd have to experience it for yourself or learn from the people who have.
@@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe Jesus Christ dude. This is the internet people are going make fun of people regardless. Also you having a passion doesn’t make you any better. I’m fact the way you’ve presented yourself doesn’t make yourself any better than me or anyone else.
She wants him back so desperately, but doesn’t care that she’s hurting him. Mentally ill or not, she’s super fucking selfish.
My previous relationship is like this at first she just your normal girl that's why I dated her, we've been together for years but then for some reason she being territorial she started stalking me while on my work or out for a bit, checking my phone always asking where I am or even asking me who am I playing with in online games its so suffocating, I broke up with her she started acting like a child at the first months after that. Luckly it stop.
To those in this type of relationship you better let it go its not a long-term relationship it will drain the heck out of your life
She’s flipping out more than all-you-can-eat pancake night at IHOP!
lmao !
Bruh 😂
My 1st gf in highschool would act like this and threaten me. When I filed a restraining order she threatened to sue for slander when I had incriminating proof of her being crazy lol
Smh
fr this was my bf in high school 😂 he was crazy
Does anyone else feel the crazy increasing? I feel like it's going down, slowly but surely
Damn bro! Hope you got the fuck away from her @STEPH. I hope she getting mental help, because she really needs it! Be extremely careful who you’re going to date!
So like a yandere or more of a just abusive partner
This honestly just makes me sad. Heart break sucks. I get it. Love makes people crazy. I just hope he's safe and she can find peace in herself.
I don't blame him for leaving her. He didn't want to go on the sex offender list because she's obviously a child lol
Not defending her, but I’m fairly certain she has BPD. I have BPD as well, and I know that sad, pathetic flail all to well. The thing is- there are two kinds of people with BPD: normal people who have bad moments cause they have been through a lot, and toxic people who have been through a lot and don’t learn cause they’re selfish.
You can tell by how many times the person with BPD sincerely (and calmly) apologizes to you afterwards- cause we truly feel extreme guilt after things like this if we’re normal, nice people.
It comes from experiencing multiple abandonments and a lot of trauma in life, and it’s an incredibly painful disorder that makes you feel like you’re dying when people reject you (it’s not JUST that, but that’s just a big portion of it). It pretty much causes your emotions to be so strong, it feels like you’re going to explode (and no- you can’t control them, they just come out like vomit).
However, I stopped acting like that at….. 15? So she seems like she has no plans to change her behavior- probably cause it gets her what she wants. You have to find coping mechanisms… so you don’t…. Do this. That’s why I play video games- I take my pain out on my computer (the poor thing lol!!) ☺️
You stopped acting like that around 15. Maybe you should think about everything you said in the light of just this sentence. And stop with the remote diagnosis and character rating
@@Idengard dude ur goofy .
If you stopped acting like that at 15 then maybe your BPD symptoms were never severe to begin with/or you definitely got a shit ton of help with your symptoms early on, so you learned how to cope before they could develop further. My therapist once said "Everyone experiences BPD symptoms sometimes in their life especially during puberty, so it's hard to really tell if you even have BPD at that age or not"
I am diagnosed with BPD. I agree with your statements about the way you described how the disorder feels sometimes. However as someone who still has these behaviors even after puberty and being an adult now It's not that simple to change. I have been going through DBT for around 4 months now and I gotta say it definitely helps to control this kind of behavior, but even then it still requires more than years of learning on how to change your behavior. Also not saying that the girl in the video has BPD, but even if she did, she might not even know about it. Not everyone is informed.
But yes I totally agree with what you have wrote. Most BPD people don't even mean to do these behaviors, and it truly does sometimes come out like vomit we cannot control. It's really really just torture, but it's also torturous towards our loved ones and the people around us. Not everyone can handle it, so sometimes I even push people away on purpose so I can stop hurting them.
Still doesn't excuse her actions. But maybe she should really look into some behavioral therapy. Unless like you said, she has no plans to do so and just uses these behaviors to get whatever she wants.
@@Idengard Was diagnosed with bpd, was never that bad but lost my shit a few times. Thankfully I had access to a boxing gym and heavy bags and some self discipline. I no longer act like a goober. Its almost like people grow up and understanding your diagnoses helps control it. Having a mental illness isn't an excuse to act like a fuqin maniac toddler when its something manageable with therapy or just understanding that's not how adults act and that's unacceptable. Just means its now on you to get the help you need and manage it properly. Take some fuqin mood stabilizers if you have too, but it's not hard to make yourself function as a normal adult with bpd if you have outlets.
“And thank you for coming to my ted talk”
She may have some sort of mental problem or TBI that fucks with emotional regulation/impulse control because how tf do you act like this over a breakup?! She needs help, he needs protection. I feel for them both, though I am NOT excusing her behavior.
Hard to tell if she’s actually doing this to gaslight him and guilt him to take her back or if she’s just got really bad abandonment issues; well looks like both. FATHERLESS BEHAVIOR I TELL YOU!💀
🤣🤣🤣
You made me laugh 💀💀💀
people using fatherless as an insult are clearly projecting being fatherless lmao. Or motherless. Imagine not being taught respect and decency by your mother and expecting your father to do everything in your education....kinda motherless too, dont you think?
@@EveTheRaviolo it’s called me making a joke out of her.
@@EveTheRaviolo you fatherless?
So tired of ppl turning everybody's bad behavior into a diagnosis. 🙄🙄 Every time ppl act selfish, immature, or spoiled it's suddenly not their fault--it's a disorder. Funny how all these "disorders" only became next-level rampant in the last few years.
I saw this some time ago. She got caught cheating and is now begging her used-to-be bf to take her back. Dude dodged a huge bullet!! Good grief!
That poor woman too.....she's a really broken person. She's detached from reality. Idk what's going on there but I feel so bad.
i think she just wants attention
i see like no real tears and her yelling isnt even loud enough so it sounds like shes forcing it
I don't.
@abby my point is something is wrong with her. She needs help. Tears or not this isn't the signs of a stable adult woman. It's sad
@@Rhino01230 imagine this whole thing is fake. she laughed just as she grabbed the camera. ppl do anything on tik tok for attention
The best way to win back an ex is to ignore them and work on yourself. They'll want what they can't have.
Truer words couldn't be said.
Eh, it depends, sometimes you just gotta move on
Leykis 101 MGTOW.
Nah just move on
You should never act like this over another person, she needs to heal and love herself.
All this means is that he obviously has a big dick. That's all this means.
@@trigfizzle6876 or much money
What she needs is a restraining order and a stay at their local mental institution bruh
These videos always raise my self esteem and make me feel a bit better about those autistic academic stress meltdowns I have, but compared to this,meltdown is a hell of a overstatement
I think everyone throws a tantrum like this at some point. Let’s say someone who meant alot to you died, maybe even your own child. You’d be going crazy with grief at some point, right? No one should be that obsessed with someone, and I’m not defending this girl’s behavior. But a lot of people, even adults act like this under certain circumstances. The only difference is it wasn’t recorded for everyone to see and judge. Sad to see people judging others like this, honestly.
3:26 I don’t know, I saw this on TikTok and some people are saying things like “I don’t care that’s she’s crazy she’s so hot!” 🤮
Classic simp or tinder users
Not surprising, people have literally simp for murders just because they somehow hot
i'm sorry, she can drive, has tattoos, is somewhere in the drinking age, and correct me on this but she's NOT under the Special Ed spectrum. All of this combined already tells me that her functioning in society is a horrible mistake, that or the mere question of how she was raised proves that she never got hit with daddy's belt once in her entire life.
Well said.
I'm under the "special ed" spectrum and I don't act like this...
Are you daft? "Spedical Ed spectrum"
Autism
It's Autism
And people who are autistic can drive and get tattoos and do literally anything, it's a spectrum.
ah yes, child abuse is what we need to bring back because good parents teach through beating and hitting!
As someone who grew with the belt, wooden spoon, shoe, etc, nah, abuse still isnt a good teaching method and if it doesnt make you docile through fear and trauma, it will make you more unhinged and ending up in juvenile or doing crimes.
@@EveTheRaviolo Physical punishment is necessary at times
To be totally honest, I have acted that way myself in the past when I was younger. I was diagnosed with autism as an adult. Apparently I was having autistic meltdowns cause my hormones were all messed up and as a women it was only worse cause we are already so messed up by our hormones, having extra compared to men. So we already have the potential to lose It a little bit but when you add mental health issues, you get stuff like this, total meltdowns. If this girl feels like thos alot, she should seek help! This is signs of a serious hormone disorder that is getting out of control. The way she moves erratically and it hyperventilating. Her brain is completely breaking down on itself in the face of stress.
Just hope she gets some help so the poor guy can get some much needed rest! I was almost 30 when I was finally diagnosed. I honestly just thought I was crazy and just a baby compared to others but nope, turns out it was brain problems. I'm just being myself and that's to much for people sometimes, especially when I have episodes like this where I'm just totally broken and lost. Her brain is telling her shes unsafe and in distress because it doesnt know how to appropriately react to a normal situation because it's not a normal functioning brain.
To be honest, women do not have more hormones than men. Women have more of some hormones, but men have more of others. Both male and female hormones make you equally crazy too.
That being said, as another girl with autism, I think it is the fact that school barely believed autistic men existed, let alone women. I don't think the rate of autism is greater for either gender, but doctors are very eager to diagnose it in men and women seem better at faking emotions. The fact we start with none is a wonderful gift...but sadly our world is not kind, nor caring. All emotions are fake chemical responses which try to control people. They are no more real than the Easter Bunny or Jesus.
There is no justification for any of this. If it was a guy there wouldnt me 4 paragraphs on why its not his fault, everyone is responsible for their own actions.
Justification and an explanation aren't the same thing. The best of us can look at someone like this and see someone that needs to process some shit and seek medical help. Pity is a much better response than anger and a whatabboutism about "hurrdurr if she was a man"
basically said similar thing, i know how this feels with bipolar and it's not fun, but i did get help for the issue
@@hicknopunk "All emotions are fake chemical responses which try to control people"?? This sounds more like something a sociopath would say, not an autistic person. This may be my ignorance showing, but last time I checked plenty of autistic people had few emotional difficulties per se; if anything they were more honest, they just struggled to read social subtext (i.e. a lot of nonverbal cues that neurotypical people take for granted).
Emotions are a signal and an intrinsic part of most sentient life. Humans are not exempt from the limbic system. Framing the narrative in terms of 'controlling' - if a person lets transient emotion cloud their judgment, that seems more like a lack of self-awareness or impulse control, not a problem with emotion itself. Without emotion there would be no empathy or altruism, either. Simply people trying to use and take advantage of one another for the sake of survival, which is not the worldview I subscribe to, even if some are like that.
I know I’m a year late, but imagine walking by and js having to listen to a *GROWN WOMAN* have a tantrum because her ex won’t take her back
Idk she seems like a very hurt person. Doesn't mean the bf should stay in a relationship with her, but i can empathize with the girl. I've been in a low place, where i felt hopeless and completely dependent on my partner. I felt like I'd do anything to stay in that relationship, even though it was terribly toxic. She needs help. I can't make fun of someone in this position because it's a very dark place that i wouldn't wish on anyone.
It's just sad to see, we really do have a huge mental health problem
The tattoo needle went a little too deep 💀
I think you now have a use for those nuclear warheads.
This is why restraining order exists
Works half of the time.
@@russianinvader3207 I doubt its even that effective. Also as a man good luck getting a restraining order against a woman even on who acts like this.
i feel more sympathy for the whole situation then amusement cuz i can feel were she's coming from. not saying ive acted like that in public but breakups can seriously effect people and for a long time
My God, i've thrown a tantrum like that before over a breakup. Shit's not cool. It's embarrassing af.😔
Growing up I NEVER threw a fit such as this. I was raised to the motto of "if you wanna cry, ill give you something to cry about" and I can say im more than happy I was raised as such. Today, I go through a break up, yeah it hurts like hell but throwing a fit isn't gonna do anything about it. Eventually, as an adult, you accept it and move on. This girl is just an embarrassment, I hope the both of them get the help they need.
i hope her parents never make children, some say that bad parents can make uhh, murderous little children brats
I grew up with the "crying and showing emotion is weakness" aswell. Ive lost close people in my life and still have a hard time being able to shed a tear. I found out it looks bad if I don't cry at my best friends funeral and people give you looks, yay.
Ive been trying to learn how to cry around my partner and show emotions like sadness.
Been a tough road when you need to learn how to be a human with emotion as an adult
By saying "if you wanna cry, I'll give you something to cry about" it invalidates your emotions and can even be emotionally abusive/manipulative in some scenarios. Maybe it worked for you but for some people it can have long lasting effects and make it harder for them to express themselves or show emotions. It can even lead to this sometimes where when you have strong emotions you don't know how to handle them because you were taught to always suppress them and it can cause major issues. I've never done anything like the girl in this video, but speaking from experience, suppression can make it 1000x worse for some people
@@RatchelRach im pretty sure he was talking about the kid saying
"NOOO MOMMY I WANT CANDY! WHY CANT WE GO TO THE CANDY STOREE WAHHHHH"
its like normal teachings, if you do something bad, or are just unreasonably mad for no reason at all, you get something to cry about, of course, you can cry when its a serious subject, like in sweet bitty oll grandma's funeral, but you cant just cry because you were given vegetables instead of chicken nuggets for dinner. pretty sure every parent does this at some point (except for the girl's parents), you have to give your child a punishment for bad behaviour or else you'll get a spoiled brat
it probably gives the kid the message to not cry and throw a tantrum about every slight unlucky thing happens in life. trip on a rock?
cry on the floor saying that they hate god
or maybe get broken up with by their bf? now they're in a car throwing a tantrum being filmed on tiktok
tldr: it ain't suppression, its teaching discipline
@@Internetgribbler that makes sense but I don't necessarily think that's a be all end all. In my opinion it's better to let the kid feel their feelings (most of the time) but don't let them make it a bigger deal than it is to the point of screaming and crying. Like "I understand you're upset about this and that's ok but throwing a tantrum is not going to get you what you want." If they're acting bad and being a brat then yes punishment/discipline is necessary, but by telling them you'll give them a reason to cry if they're upset about something implies that they never had a reason in the first place. Sure, not getting candy at the grocery store might not be a GOOD reason, but they're still upset about it and you should still be understanding unless they're doing something like what you mentioned, screaming and crying. But otherwise, if they shed a few tears I don't think they're doing any harm by it, but that could also be what op was saying I'm not sure
Average woman in the USA.
This is so true
Put the camera away Walter, I’m not letting you break up with me right now.
😂😂
“Poor girl”, “I feel for her”, “she needs help & healing”. If it was a guy, he would be instantly labeled as the most beta thing that ever walked the earth & ppl would wish for him to be locked in the darkest jail, not sent to the therapy
1:50 " I'm going crazy" Grl There is no going about it. You are there.
I feel bad for the dude, no one should have to deal with someone else's childish outbursts at the same time I don't want to judge her and I do have sympathy for her, heartbreak fuckin sucks, nobody is truly equipped to deal with it, most can hide it but feel the same way she does on the inside lol but if someone leaves you, you gotta move on, they've already told you they don't love you and you can't make someone love you. The worst possible case for this chick would be him saying "yea change that FB relationship status bake to in a relationship" haha cause shell just have her heart rebroke in a few weeks, maybe a couple months because he doesn't love you!!!
This is what happens when your never taught how to accept the word "no".
Let's hope it's just that
She makes me feel sad, maybe she went through alot and is scared of losing anyone in her life.. hope she's doing good and knows her worth soon.
Oh my, this hits close. Yeah, poor lady. Attachment issue is harsh. Atleast for me tho
Oh fuck off. You kinda of people who excuse everything.. no accountability for anyone apparently lol guess what? Having “mental illness”, “attachment issues” or whatever other bullshit you guys can come up with doesn’t allow you to do whatever you want to whoever you want whenever you want.
Don’t feel bad for her, shes a monster. Don’t help people who made themselves this way.
And no well wishes for her literal harassment victim wow
@NewU.Scitizen🇺🇸 WOW
I've threatened suicide in the past when my ex left me which he had every right to because I used to have serious jealousy issues and if I've learned anything it's that there's a difference between wanting to be with somebody, and wanting to control somebody. I had no right to treat my ex that way just like this girl has no right to act this way towards her ex. You just can't do that sh*t.
You sound like you regret being the jealous type.Usually jealous types end up being right
She definitely needs to be accountable for this. I don't think it is a random temper tantrum though. I think she is having mental breakdown. I believe she truly feels not in control of herself but as I wrote in the beginning she definitely needs to take accountability and a court order along with some charges might be needed
I agree with the people concerned about her mental health. I think that calling 911 would be a better response than filming a mental breakdown. c: No matter what though, nobody except those two and maybe close family members know the entire story. They could both be crazy for all we know ^-^
Filming might be required to show to people who don't believe she's stalking him....
Male victims are believed even less than female victims....
"aym gettin an restrainin orda!"
@@DrawciaGleam02 True but there's no reason to post it to social media.
It’s good he was recording her behavior as evidence so he can get a restraining order. I do think he also needed to call the police bc she is having a mental breakdown and could be a danger to herself or others.
I feel bad for the dude…
Narcissistic women do this, so maybe she is a complete narcissist Pegasus.
She also has mental issues, I don't deal with rejection well either but it's something we must learn. First one always sucks bad but it gets better with time
“Hello 911 what’s your emergency? Yeah I have this EX girlfriend who’s acting like a child and stalking me please help okay we will send a swat team right away! XD
I see alot of people defending the woman because of *mental health*.
I'm sorry, but the guy doesn't deserve to be stalked and harassed just because she can't control herself.
People shouldn't have to suffer due to other people's problems. Normalising mental health issues and making excuses for it, is the reason people get killed.
I really hope this guy gets a restraining order and some protect, because I can see this girl murdering him.
😹😹😹 one of my exes was an actual obsessive nymphomanic and was an absolutely batshit crazy. She actually followed me to a whole different CONTINENT and I am married with kids. Whole another level of creepy.
This was more than a few years ago.
Did you get a restraining order? I hope you're alright now.
@@galaxyglow5187yeah, it was a bit of a mess but yeah. Haven't seen her in years.
Many police will just laugh at you if you say you got a female stalker and say they wish they had one, its even worse if she is physically attractive, as if being attractive means you cannot be crazy. Hope you and your family have peace now.
Ah yes, the classic flailing of arms, kicking my legs in the car and cry-screaming will definitely make him realize he wants me back...
It doesn't really matter if she has a mental disorder, hormone disbalance or it's just a temper tantrum.. she still should go to therapy. He should also go, toxic relationships still leave a mark, and if he can't sleep then he also need to start healing some sh*t
Beware of any woman with the leopard print tattoo on her shoulder 😂
Man sometimes I wonder why do I even exist in this society sometimes.
dude my boyfriend used to act like this before whenever we had a fight and I used to get really annoyed and yell at him for acting like a child and I never showed him that I loved him but later I've realised that I used to treat him really bad and fight with him almost everyday. but now that i have let go of the past and I try to keep our relationship healthy and try to show that I love him very much, he's mentally so much better and our relationship is really nice.
so maybe this guy also might've been a reason why his ex is acting like that yk
I am glad the both of you managed to improve and change for the better ❤
@@galaxyglow5187 yepp we're really happy w eachother now 💞
You are coming up with excuses for this persons behaviour and pinning the blame on the man. What you are doing right now is the literal definition of victim blaming. You are insane.
Bruh the guy is scared for his life and your blaming him for this??? P.s glad you and your bf's relationship is better.
people like her make me feel like a veteran that went through everything even tho im literally 16
Lol is going to get worst my dude. Half are crisis and shit. I'm 30 and single, when u get to this point girls want to fast track the relationship because the more you get close to 35/40 the less chance they have to get pregnant. I've met crazy 🐱 like this one, at this point i lost all hopes lol
@@bepinkfloyd814 I just don’t want to grow up anymore Bru😭🙏
But stay strong brother nothing that happened is a waste you got experience from that🫶❤️
@@Searnybh enjoy these years and just focus on your friends and all will be ok my dude. Some people are lucky to find someone that truly loves them, but the most important thing is to love yourself and the people that are important to you. The rest will come in a way or another ;) at least i hope xD. Cheers man, stay strong you too.
Wholesome exchange, wish you guys the best in the future 🙏🏻
Guess, watching mentally ill people have a breakdown worthy of a horror movie is comedy now.
LMFAO that's perfect! Dont put your pp in crazy hahahahaha
The 1:40 "please stop wtf is u doin bruh?" Sounded like it should've come out of a different person...
I mean, let's be honest: that doesn't sound like it should've come out of him 😅
You know that one spoiled kid who got everything they ever asked for right away? This is what they grow into. Thank your parents for saying no once in a while.
The way she fixes her hair in the middle of a melt down😂
One of my ex girlfriends, I broke up with her and she did a very similar thing (NOT THAT CRAZY), I took her back and not much longer SHE BROKE UP WITH ME and not too long I found out that she was in bed with another man. RULE 1 I learnt fast : never take back a girl you have broken up with/keep as a side piece only.
He broke up with her because she was cheating he fount out and dumped her
In anime to have a girl so interested in you is sweet but in real life it’s hell 😂
i don't see a single tear, the crying is just to manipulate him
what do you exect the criyng sounds so fake its like a kid tryi g to fwke cey to get oit of school
She obviously has severe mental issues, but why must it be posted on the internet? God put us on the earth to help each other, and this is not it.
"Show me why I shouldn't take you back"
warning: DO NOT WATCH THIS WITH HEADPHONES
I already had wireless headphones on prior to clicking on this video.
We got conspiracy theorists forgetting who created our stuctures, adults act like children, we’ve confused sexuality with love to the point of not knowing what or why gender exists. Ladies and gentlemen, witness. The fall of Rome
Honestly, all for it. Then when things go to shit MAYBE it could be fixed. If not and we all die, oh well.
These behavior already exist since the dawn of the human age.
Lmao wtf does gender have to do with anything
"we" no bro speak for yourself
@@WinterMan. “we” probably meaning all of humanity
I thought this was a regular video, not a baby video
I think she really needs a professional help...
It really hurts to look at her and no, not because she acts like a baby. She really really needs help, it's not healthy and this extreme melt down + how she seems to not function without this person (based on extra context) lead me to think about a couple of disorders.
You would be surprised to know how much people appear normal, but actually mentally ill and just act normal on public. Or just take meds 🤷♀️
I don think that the approach you took here pegasus was the best, I mean the girl was very clearly having a very severe crisis and the guy instead of getting her help or calling the police, he recorded her and farmed views out of her misery, it's one thing being desperate but this aint it dude. the woman is VERY CLEARLY sick and needs help and even if her crisis was let out through intense screams of desperation towards her ex, I still believe that she really needed assistance, from anybody even her ex. She was nuts but for different reasons than you might thing. Sometimes people do get sick and have breakdowns and this is a core example of one.
I do realize that stalking him and all that stuff was creepy, but that only furthermore proofs that she was sick and she needed help, all this "scummy" behavior is justified by one reason or another, I'm not saying she doesn't need to punished, but what I'm saying is she needs to be also treated, mental health is a thing and you of all ppl should know it.
just to sum up my point: I think the guy was wrong for not taking quick action towards the girl, and you were also wrong for thinking that people just do this sh*t with complete rationality in their brains because the girl in this case was very clearly ill.
That looks like me when I have to read , analyse, and study the whole Last Letters of Jacopo Ortis for the following day and I’ve been ill for the preceding 3 months.
Help me-
Finally the time I had time to comment.
But all of these, I kinda feel the point of her, due to probably because they were in a long relationship or such, and also what Pegasus said, one key rule to relationships, never ever give your self worth, this is where you go if it happens
also, I had a friend like that, they're been in a relationship for a really long time, he had given his self worth over her, to the point he gets jealous over something small, I keep saying thats unhealthy, and you're probably unprepared, hell, even one of my friends kept saying that to him, he didn't listen, and he had a mental breakdown alot of times, just because of the relationship
What's the point of saying my friends' experience with this video? DON'T GIVE YOUR SELF WORTH TO SOMEONE YOU'RE OBSESSED.
Edit: I've also watched the video, I've been in the same boat back then, but when my ex and I meet again, we just kinda chill cause we realize how badly it would go if we stay like that, and he honestly started talking again as a friend, cause I don't mind.
So tired of bad behavior being turned into a diagnosis. 🙄 If ppl are spoiled, immature, selfish, hostile, it's not their fault--it's a disorder. 🙄🙄 Funny how all these "disorders" only became next-level and rampant in the last few years. 💯
Even if it is a disorder, it’s still their fault.
i hope dude gets help and gets her out of his life and i hope she gets help and becomes a better person.
This girl is worst then my brother and that is something new 😟
3:04 bros acting like a Roblox kid begging his mom for robux
Seems like she may have a background of abuse and has abandonment issues. Definitely needs mental help
Nah screw america im going to Antarctica 🇦🇶🇦🇶🇦🇶🇦🇶🇦🇶🇦🇶🇦🇶