Do We REALLY Accept Converts? Understanding Shavuot & Kindness | Torah Study
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📖 Introduction: On Shavuot, we read the Book of Ruth, a story of conversion and kindness. In this video, we delve into the importance of kindness and the journey of converts, central to Shavuot. #BookOfRuth #TorahStudy
✨ Highlights:
The significance of converts in Jewish tradition.
Understanding the challenges of conversion.
The transformative power of kindness in Ruth's story.
Embracing humility and service.
🙏 Audience: For those interested in Jewish tradition and spirituality. #ReligiousCommunity #Spirituality
🤔 Food for Thought: How can we better understand and support converts? How can we live with more kindness? #SelfReflection #KindnessChallenge
🔎 Exploration: Join us to explore the journey of converts and its relevance for all of us. #SpiritualJourney #PersonalGrowth
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Thank you Rivka, from a convert. Hashem is great!
And I did not convert because I was going to get married, I did it because of what was in my heart.
Welcome to our people.
When someone pass the beit din the last examination is not longer a convert that person is a Jewish. it is a lack of respect to call them convert.
Mrs. Rivka, people like you make me a believer.
such a lovely comment, thank you.
This was beautiful and yes its hard for single women that convert, the discrimination is terrible and dangerous. I even moved out of a Jewish community and was so relieved when I did. At the end of the day it can only be you and Hashem. I encourage women convert to marry Jewish men for guidance and protection as Boaz protected Ruth. Ladies, keep Shabbat, be modest and continue to study Torah. May Hashem keep you. Thanks for this video BH
I love to listen to you because I can feel such a kindness in your spirit
Thank you for such a kind compliment!
Rivka Malka Perlman need ur help I found out awhile back that on my mother's side is German Jewish I thought this along time ago n my dad side has a lot b4 1900 has native American I'm not as young as I would like but question I'm no where near any Jewish area am I considered Jewish can u please reply to me personally ty so much
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Hey there, I'm not sure if Rivka already replied to your comment, but if you know for a fact that your mother was Jewish and her mother was Jewish, there's a very high chance you're Jewish.
I don't know all the particulars in Jewish law regarding how far back one has to check when in doubt, but I would highly recommend searching for a Chabad house near you.
You can try searching for one here:
www.chabad.org/
They should have a section which acts as a Chabad locator to find the Chabad closest to you. Once you've found the Chabad house, talk to the rabbi there. I'm sure he'd be happy to help.
Thank you for sharing this! You are a beautiful soul! Xxx
@@yitzchaksviridyuk932 it is about being related, no faith neccesary??
That was a really beautiful video. I stumbled across this video based on TH-cam suggestions. I actually live in Maryland and about an hour away from Baltimore so it is some comfort knowing that someone like you who has a beautiful soul lives close by.
In college I was in the process of converting but I was pushed away by my family and told I didn’t know what I was doing and that I was ruining my life. So I gave into the pressures and stopped. But after these past few years I have missed parts of Judaism and feel this restlessness in my soul that I haven’t been able to overcome. That’s why I’ve been watching Jewish videos in order to help me feel more at peace and that’s how I came across this video.
After watching this video, I feel more comfort knowing that there are people who get the pain and struggles that converts go through with family and from outsiders.
I’m not sure how to best transition to my next point but there is a beautiful community bridge in my area painted by an artist. Tourists love to come see it and it has many different symbols but I always have loved that it has a shofar and a Star of David and the next time I see this bridge I will think of you Rivka.
I have wanted to convert to Judaism since I was around 16 years old but I have always been worried about whether I would be accepted into the community as the Jewish community in the North-East of England is EXTREMELY small.
It is a huge decision to make but every time I watch one of your videos, Rivka Malka, I feel more inspired to convert & to come home. Thank you.
lol you are a true isrealite if your born and bred in england from Saxon or viking descendant these fakes follow the devilish tulmad
Charlotte Rachel hi I'm Orthodox Jewish from New York just letting you know not to let the haters get to you like Jamie just follow your heart and if you are meant to join the Jewish people and follow through God will lead you in the right direction Happy New Year as tonight is the Jewish New Year Rosh Hashanah and in Jewish literature it is well known that the Jewish New Year is not just for Jews but the whole world is judged on that day and every individual be they Jew or Gentile so therefore I'm wishing everyone a sweet and healthy New Year!
Don't worry about people. Your need to come home will be the reason H" will make it possible. Ask H" for help and HE will.
Watch Rabbis Mizrachi and Yaron Reuven shiurim ; Torah and science. It's life changing !!!
Charlotte Rachel Did you end up converting? ✡️💜♥️
Rifka Malka: I started with you before Wrapunzel, a picture of you saying the Prayer at the Challah bake hangs in my home. I am now a year out from my Bit din in a Renewal Shul. I live in a small town in Oregon and attend a small group of Chabad. There is a Havarah and a Reform Temple. I have attended all three. You brought me to tears, as I have been treated like a outcast at all three. I am 68 and strong of heart, there is so much talk on antisemitism and yet so little love for a convert. I keep Hashem and the Torah in front of me. I offer thanks to those who have accepted and helped me. I am Chabad in my heart and now march toward my Orthodox conversion with much love for those who have helped and accepted me. You have always inspired me. Thank You That crazy Summer-Tzipporah
Wow, it is incredible to hear your story. I thank you for following my journey and hope you continue to find inspiration in my videos.
Iam a convert, and I do feel I came home!
Dayna Coronado Mazal tov
*Pete Frausto:* You're right, Jesus did NOT have to die for our sins, "Jesus", if he ever existed, was NOT God, and God NEVER required human sacrifice, under ANY conditions!
The Christian "New Testament" is NOT scripture given by GOD, which is an unfortunate mistake that Christians make. It was made up by Paul and the Romans (at LEAST 50 years after 'Jesus' death), to wipe out the Jewish population by getting them to convert to their "new" religion, "Christianity" - and also, so they would not feel guilty about not following God's 'pesky laws'!! Do some research on the origins of Christianity - and you'll find out the same thing I did - it's a pagan, man-made religion that was cooked up at LEAST 50 years AFTER Jesus was dead - Paul never even MET Jesus!
There is a great video on here (and many others) by the outreach organization, 'Jews for Judaism', that can possibly answer your questions. It's presented by Rabbi Michael Skobac, and a lot of people find that he's excellent at answering their questions. Christian pastors, etc., won't be able to explain it to you, since they don't study the Hebrew scriptures, and have therefore twisted, and taken out of context the original words given by God to the Jewish people. Here is the link to the video, if you're interested: th-cam.com/video/jB7EZ5fgr4I/w-d-xo.html
May God bless you in your search for the Truth!!
All converts are Abraham's seed. In fact in Hebrew the patronym is "ben Avraham".
*mzk1:* ...and "bat Sarah" for females.
Welcome to our people.
You know, I've always been interested in Judaism and seriously considered converting many times but never did.
WOW, I’m a male listening to your words. I don’t know how your video reached me, but it came at the right time to give me guidance.
Thanks very much
Rivka Malka there are no words to express my love for you and your family. When I realized that you were speaking about my journey to Judaism and how my love for HaShem held me tho push through all the heard ship and hate that we experienced from both sides of the camp I broke down into tears of joy. I've come so far in my walk and yet I feel I have not even scratch the surface. Thank you my friend for remembering how hard it was/is for me and husband to serve in the Army here at Fort Benning, Ga and live as Jews and the struggles of being Jews of color. Someday I hope to share our journey with the world. It is a miraculous story and I think the whole world will benefit from seeing how much HaShem loves us all.
+misandry ismylife how amazing! The military is very Jewish friendly, you will have an awesome experience.
It is great to hear what this video meant to you on your journey.
It brought tear to my eyes!
As a Catholic person who is drawn to Judaism. I'm unsure of who I am and am shy and nervous of my beliefs. I have always felt that g-d is calling to me it is amazing to hear your words. Thank you.
suddenlysambucca the same applies to me
what abou jesus? feelings??
I was born catholic and am now an orthodox Jewish convert. Blessings and success on your journey.
@@mainfo18 mazal yov
I was also a Catholic, and I converted to Judaism around 12 years ago. It's a long process with its ups and downs. The challenges don't just go away once you become Jewish, so just try your best to figure out what is best for you. May Hashem guide you to what's best for you. Just keep praying to Him, because He answers us (maybe not in the way we'd expect, but He does).
All the best you! :)
Wow! wowowow!!! What a beautiful video. I don't understand a lot of your references, but what a beautiful and powerful message. Especially the part about "She didn't do an act of kindness...she transformed herself into a source of kindness!!" We can all learn from and aspire to be like Rus, whether rich as a princess or poor as can be, whether Jews, Christians, Muslims and yes converts too... We can ALL do with a little more kindness. Many Blessings!
I am a Christian, l am learning the traditions of the foundation of my faith. It is amazing and I love it. This is a great message.
Rivka, you are such an inspiration. I grew up Christian and about three years ago I began to see the beauty and truth of the Torah. Although I'm not a convert to Judaism, I went through my own spiritual journey as I began to pursue a more Messianic path and not the traditions of Christianity. You are spot on that the process is very lonely at times. It takes courage to pursue a different path than your family, but the loneliest time was when I experienced the most growth and looking back I would not trade that for anything. Thank you for sharing such sincere words with us. Have a blessed Sabbath!
Peace sister! You will have your destination when you arrive at Islam...the true religion of peace, the culmination of all the revealed religions.
Thank you for sharing your story and for your lovely comment.
Karen Lowery 0
Muna...no.
I am so lucky to have the support of my mum, on the first night of pass over, I made the seder plate and other Jewish meals and I printed out prayers and information to learn out the Passover and we ate and prayed together all evening long. It was truly special, I cannot wait until one day when i can celebrate these holidays with others xxx
me2 ...B.H ( my parents think am going crazy)
sister Alison, here is a possible path 4 u. Did u think of the Last Testament? The one after the Torah? I RECOMMEND U TO WATCH THE VIDEOS OF HAMZA YUSUF th-cam.com/video/4Xu71o1rJ5Y/w-d-xo.html
I'm in the same spot you are, Chevion, or at least the same spot you were a year ago. 18 and considering conversion. I'm also really thankful that most of my immediate family is going down this path with me, though my extended family thinks we are crazy. I wish you the best on this path, it really is an amazing one. shalom!
Wow.... Rivka listening to you was very touching. I'm a convert and everything you said is truthful. I loved this video and I'm very grateful that you made it. Thank you very much.
Thank you for posting these thoughts. I had neighbors who would not say "hallo" to me, I had family members of my husband who would not talk to me or eat the food I prepared because I am a convert - thank you for posting this, B"H, there are people like you :-)
Why'd you want to be part of a racist idelogi?
It feels so good to hear someone understand how complex conversion is. I have attended some classes at a local temple and some services as well. Unfortunately I am shy, and I've quit going because I just could never feel comfortable. I am always worried that I will do or say the wrong thing. People are friendly, but they are busy with their own families and lives, as they should be. However, watching this video has motivated me to go back and try again.
Perhaps you need to find a different synagogue. And don't worry about saying or doing "the wrong thing." Just try to relax and learn.
There is a god and he wants you as you are.
First imoression and you come across as a really nice person and my heart immediately felt at ease. You radiate of sweetness and I receive beautiful vibes off of you. I am Muslim but I respect all religions so I am starting to learn more about Judaism now. It's awesome 💜
Wow! what an eye opening and emotional for me truth about the Convert's Jewish Soul as you read it from the Zohar. I am moved. I have always looked up to Ruth's story and every time I read the account, it moves me deeply. Thank you Rivkah Malka Perlman, you are blessed and much loved by all of us who follow you and learn beautiful gems from you!
I am glad you were able to relate to this video and for leaving such a sweet comment.
As someone who wants to convert, this is wonderful
If you were my rabbi back in the days I would have stayed ;)
Got to your channel by accident but just spent the last 1.5 hour watching your longggg videos .
Keep on going
Yeron Bunte that is such a great comment! Thank you and welcome!
I love all of your videos Rivka! I am a convert and it is very lonely. Especially when converting as a single person. I have always felt the pull towards Judaism and I could never explain why. My father was Jewish but very secular and never discussed it. He was just Jewish by birth, He never had a bar mitzvah or anything. I am the only one out of my 4 siblings who converted. I love Judaism but it is very hard alone.
You're not alone!
I was adopted by Catholic couple,both now deceased. In my school years I went to a synogogue a few times. Later,I became LDS in part cause I didn't get the Trinity, original sin, they don't have that, but they have other things I don't really agree with, trouble is I don't really feel like starting over in a new religion,as a single person. Maybe if I met and married a Jewish man,it was hard enough when I was younger (been LDS almost 28years, almost 60). And, I don't know Hebrew. I do listen to Hasdic music, especially Beri Weber. And, I like some of the Rabbis on TH-cam. There are a few synagogues near me (chabad, conservative) and emailed them re adult study classes, but so far no reply. Years ago a woman at church said she studied with a Jewish group.
Oh, I did ancestry, didn't give me Jewish, but then they keep adjustment of background. Some of the relationship do have Jewish names and DNA, so far not me. ???
Anyway,I always loved Ruth, even named my doll after her,as a young girl.
@@HotVoodooWitch It is 5 years later and I am enjoying this video again. I am still alone and depressd
Thank you Rivka , I also just converted 2 weeks ago .
Bless you amen
Oh your words are so sweet and lovely :-) Converts pass through many challenges(first of all family) and it is not always easy but there are so many Jews that are kind and if they can, they help you even more than what you could expect.
Thank you for such a kind compliment!
I like to express my deep gratitude for such kind words. I myself is a convert. I converted to Judaism before joining the United States Army. I suffered a great deal of hatred from others, even though we were brothers in arms. I was passed over for command because I am a Jew, along with other things. I made it know, I was Jewish. I wore my Kippa with my uniform and tried to be has observant has possible. I remember when I showed up for basic training and the Drill Sergeant said, "Oh my G-d, we have a F*** Jew". I have always hated the word convert. It often has been used by very religious groups and others has a term that means we are less Jewish than the ones that were born with Jewish mother and father's, or we are not really a Jew at all. For this reason, I have always hated the word. But, thankfully, your video has help me to embrace the word. I am currently retired now, and learning how to become a Sofer. Thank you again.
We're so blessed to have you (Jews) who are full of חסד who are always there on helping converts. You give me more strength and encouragement to pursue my missions and goals in this life of mine after watching this wonderful video rebbetzin Rivkah Malkha, you're kind of a Light who are able to illuminates even the remote total darkness. More power to you and please always include me on your prayers for my conversion HaShem's willing.
This really spoke to me. I m a black female that was not raised in Torah but was called to it later in life. I mentioned my color because one of the silly things that people say is that "i didnt know there were black Jews". I just look at them aghast. I have been to synagogue but the few that i attended made it apparent that only a certain type of person was their ideal and the treatment of me and my children was heartbreaking. I wont let this deter me from following Torah but it has definitely been a hard road for my family. I understand about spending Shabbos alone, or trying to learn Hebrew from You Tubes so that I can read Torah in the original. Thank you for this You Tube. I know that what I others have shared in this journey. By the way, I also live in Balitmore
Original Israelites are black.
I am not sure how I missed this in the early summer but it was very special listening to it now as I get ready for Shabbat. Rivka Malka, you have a special, beautiful and inspirational soul. I wish and hope to one day meet you in person. Shabbat Shalom :)
This is what the world needs more of! A beautiful representation of compassion & love!
Wow. Rivka. I am so moved. I am in the process of converting to Judaism. My fiance was wary at first. He was concerned I would be looked at supisously by the rabbi and congregation. I explained to him the mitzvah of welcoming the stranger. When I started going to temple about a month ago after some study and research on my own I found the exact opposite, I was welcomed with open arms like I had faith I would be! It continues to be a wonderful journey. When I study Torah, we I go to synagogue, I feel the beauty and presence of God through prayer, through study through connection. I question, I feel and I learn. More is constantly revealed to me. I find myself letting go, let the prayers and the tears of pure faith and joy flow through me. Your videos have been such a source of inspiration on my journey. Many blessings Shalom aleichem.
My parents think my conversion is a phase. I know in my heart it's not. Now that my fiance sees my commitment he knows I am true to my Jewish journey and he is super supportive. At the end of the day though I am doing this because I am called to and I do this because my soul stirs to this journey because God speaks to me through my jewish journey . Because I want to heal and help others heal.
It's hard!! It's so hard. To feel like the new comer. To feel like you have a lifetime of learning to make up for. This video was so good. Thank you
I'm 18 and live in England, in the last year I have become unwell with chronic fatigue syndrome. This caused me to look to G-D. I started to look for a faith more involved and more serving to him, I have been brought up Christian but never really went to church much, I then found out that the Torah is the old testament, I started to wonder why don't we follow the holidays and other traditions of Jewish people if they have the Torah. The only answer I came across was that priests saying the new testament is more for the modern person, but I want more than ignoring part of what was given. I have done a lot of research and have decided I want to convert to Judaism, my mother is also very interested. I am yet to go to the local synagogue but I really want to start learning and converting, how is the best way to approach the rabbi, should I email before going, should I call? xxx I am so inspired by the inner kindness and beauty I see in you. Bless you xx
It has nothing to do with modernity. Paul explains in the book of Galatians. We are not to be under the Mosaic Law. We are under the Law of Christ (love God and love your neighbor). The reason we don't celebrate the Old Testament holidays anymore is more complicated and you really have to research the history of the early church to start to understand. But we aren't required to celebrate them either even though it's more to do with history that we stopped. There is lots of information out there. I hope you don't change religion just because one person doesn't have an answer to your questions.
I have many other reasons for wanting to convert, I feel it is something I need to do. I feel this is the way I would better serve G-D. This is my choice. I don't really want to get into a debate of facts because it would go on for hours. I have done a fair bit of research and believe me I am not making a rash or uneducated decision.
+Chevion Alison OK. I don't like debates either. I just wanted to make sure you had the information you were looking for. Paul said that if anyone leaves the faith, they weren't really a believer to begin with. If you have a Bible, you have the truth in front of you. So I'm not really sure what I could say anyways. Either you believe or don't. I hope you have many blessings either way. Looks like you found a lovely woman on this channel to help show you the way you want to go.
Thank you, I don't think my soul was ever really in the Christian faith tbh. This is something I have found interesting ... jewsforjudaism.org/knowledge/articles/answers/jewish-polemics/the-jewish-messiah/messiah-the-criteria/
I hope you are blessed and well xx
Wishing you all the best on your journey ! Where in the country are you ? You're options for shul and conversion will vary depending how near to a community you are :) x
You have such a warm, kind beautiful heart and soul! God bless you!
Rivka, Your inclusiveness is spiritual, wonderful and greatly needed. 🙏🏻✡️
You give such a motherly aura and it makes me less scared to convert myself.
once again He has touched mw spirit through what you spoke. lovely, simply lovely!
Thank you for your lovely comment.
Just as Alisha said, I love to listen to you. I truly think or believe you are in your right place because you are so good at what you do. I'm in the process of converting and in my heart I'm already Jewish. It's what I believe. I studied and read the bible as a christian years ago so am familiar with the beautiful Torah. I live in NYC and my Shul was so welcoming. The Rabbi was sick the night I had planned to go, but still, others welcome me and guided me. I know where I belong. Thank you Rivka.
Such a precious sister she is. I so recommend her ! ~ Azi
That is the most beautiful, passionate, telling of the story of Ruth that I've ever heard. You really made it come to life. (I'm 57 years old so it really floored me to hear it like that) Thank you for this video.
I just stumbled across this for the first time, dear Rivka Malka. Thank you for your words and your sincerity. I am sure this burst of light you are adding to the world -- along with ALL of your effort in the area of ahavat Yisrael! -- will affect change in the way people behave, and in the way people feel about themselves. Kol hakavod!
I come from a non religious family with Jewish/Muslim/Christian and Zoroastrian roots. When I was 9 I told my friend that I only want to be a Jew. She told her mom about it and I can clearly remember her mom telling me that I could never be a true Jewish woman because my mom is not Jewish and I didn’t raise as a Jew. This had a great impact on me feeling like I would never be accepted in Jewish society. Later on I found out that the Jewish part of my family also thinks like this, not about me, but other newcomers. TBH I don’t find this attitude among Muslims or Christians they are more likely to accept newcomers and make them feel welcome and I don’t find them judgmental about them too. But as a converted Jew you have to try too hard to make others believe you are Jewish enough to be accepted into the society.
I once knew a member of the Satmar community who said "G-d never makes a mistake with a convert."
Less religious Jews are sometimes less accepting than the Orthodox, who are aware that we're required to love the convert. President Trump's older daughter is a gyoret and accepted by the community.
I LOVE your videos so far. And there is some real Irony to that. I went to Shul for the first time today, Friday for Shabat service. I have spoke to the Rabbi one day about a year ago and emailed him a few days ago and he invited me to come this evening. I went, and now I find your videos. Wow. I was raised Catholic, turned Protestant and was very familiar with the "Old Testament", but now I have a Torah and watching this, I had to pause it and read Ruth again...remembering how much I loved that book. Thank you.
Wooooow! I cried with your video! Thank you so much for this incredible message. I am actually very close to finish my giyur and I felt so connected with your message. You are right, at the beginning when my soul woke to find that it belonged to Judaism, I felt so lonely. I did not where to start. I did not have any contact or rabby to ask. Thanks Hashem, I found a rabbi in Twitter and he helped me to find a community to make giyur. It's been a long time and it was hard at times, but it is totally worth it. Thank you so much. Hugs!
but you are a convert the real JEWS are so called blacks it's fact !!! and i can prove it
I learn so much from you! I just had a chidush with this vlog that we are all descendants of converts because as you put it "before the receiving of the Torah we were one big family" and that one big family converted. Very nice!
I really needed to hear this encouraging message. Thank you! 💕
I began my painful journey out of Christianity about two years ago. To make a long story short, my husband was a pastor, and we were a missionary family of five who was deeply rooted in the church and lifelong Christian friendships. We left behind the world as we knew it to follow Hashem and His Torah. It’s been a painful journey.
The journey out of Christianity began right when CoVID first hit. Our family has been studying like crazy, but we’ve yet to visit a synagogue. Most synagogues aren’t even allowing their members to attend unless they are vaccinated. Our family isn’t vaccinated. We live about an hour away from a large city with several synagogues.
There is an orthodox synagogue about 20 minutes from our house. I contacted the rabbi. I was grateful that he returned my phone call. Unfortunately, though, the conversation didn’t go well. At the time, I had newly walked out of Christianity, and he and I didn’t agree on everything. He tried to convince me to remain a “righteous gentile.” He said that becoming Jewish would be too difficult for me. I pleaded with him and explained that our family believes Hashem’s commandments are beautiful for our family to keep, as well, and I told him that we desperately desire to have a family of believers. The only help he offered was to tell me to reconsider being a righteous gentile, and He suggested a book to read. We spoke for a little while, and when we hung up, I had a feeling of utter hurt and rejection. I went to him from a place of desperation, and he hurt me. Our family doesn’t really have anyplace else near to go other than a reform synagogue, and Reform Judaism isn’t the best option for our family. Moving to the city also isn’t an option because we need to stay somewhat close to my elderly parents.
Question: do all orthodox rabbis require moving into the surrounding community?
I’ve begun learning on my own via chabad.org and some other sites. There are several rabbis on Facebook and TH-cam who I really like…But this isn’t the same as having a true-life family; Judaism is definitely a “tribal” religion, and we know that we need a community. I watched your video about the blessing of having guests and being a host. It almost made me cry! I looooove people, and right now, we are alone. For many, many years, our home was “the place” to go. We had guests visiting and staying with us constantly, and it was such a huge blessing. I miss it so much!
I’m wondering, do you have any words of wisdom that you could share with me?
I identify with what you wrote. I myself am born Jewish but secular and I decided to finally do a Teshuva during Corona. I really feel for your pain and sorrow, even though my story is quiet a bit different. The best advice for you is to trust Hashem and pray for the bottom of your soul. It works, and it is the only thing that works. Start your own conversion process independetly, start living by the Mitsvoth, and I think you should contact a Chabadnik, they are lovely from my personal experience and I think they would love to help :)
It is customary to rebuke the converts request three times to make sure you are certain
@@heila3759 thank you. Yes, this is what I’ve been told. It’s my understanding that, although it’s customary, it’s not the proper way according to halakhah. I’ve been told that Rambam said not to make it difficult for those wanting to convert and that they should be treated with love. I understand the idea behind the custom. But it is just hurtful.
Please do not give up , just read the book the Rabbi told you to and than go back to him and tell him after reading the book you are still interested in Judaism and to convert and you wish to come every Friday evening and Saturday morning .
@@sarah-beruriahbattzion28 thank you!!! 😃
I only listened to the first four minutes and felt overwhelming positive emotion. I’m going to come back later and listen 💗 I feel like I have to just take this all in.
I started studying Judaism two years ago with my father. My father introduced to judaism and that changed my WHOLE WORLD.
Dearest Rivka, thank you so very much for sharing this with us. My family and I are on this journey and it's been difficult to hear those hurtful words from those who we know love us. We KNOW this is the truth, and know that HaShem is leading us on this journey. Your words have given me hope today. Shalom!
I was surprised two days ago. I met a man who had to convert last year because his mom wasn't a Jew but born of a Jewish dad. When I saw him, I asked him if he had news from a woman, and he referred to her as convert even though she was converted since longer than he, like almost before I was born.
I thought, wrong, that once you convert, no one would mention you as a convert.
This brought me to tears, I wish all converts would listen to you and know how you feel toward them, you radiate kindness, Thank you so much for this, it made my day
Thank you for this beautiful words of wisdom.
Thank you for such a kind compliment!
I’m from western Maryland near Hagerstown; currently living in SoCal (military). I also just started taking Judaism seriously in April. The thing you said about reading Torah on the couch on Shabbat is definitely me. Love your videos, btw! Baruch HaShem.
Ms. Rivka I love that you are speaking up and out to others... The converts are the ones who are coming back (sign of redemption) continue to speak to us to examine our hearts... I am a convert and I am glad to hear this type of Holy examination...
My family was very loosely Christian but I grew up in a heavily orthodox Jewish neighborhood and went to high school with many reform Jews. All my childhood friends would invite me to their celebrations and now that I’m older, I feel very nostalgic for those days. Judaism had such an influence on my life and I miss it. I’d like to convert but I do worry about the loneliness you talk about. Thank you for the video!
What a moving and amazing message. I am contemplating something very seriously. You have inspired me. Thank you.
I am happy to hear this inspired you.
Your words are such a blessing to me. Your words come from the heart.
Baruch Hashem for your channel and many others!!! TH-cam creators and places like Chabad.org keep me excited outside the classroom at seminar. I watch these on my commute to Crown Heights where I study and when I’m bored at home. You are amazing!!
Thank you for such an inspiring and beautiful video. תודה
Came across your cast by accident but it’s really brilliant really food for thought things I hadn’t thought about and well delivered keep it up
How beautiful! Your love and compassion shines bright. Baruch Hashem!
I got tears listening to you and your kindness
A powerful insight. Thank-you.
I absolutely love listening to you talk. You are a wonderful teacher. ❤️
I have been so interested in converting. Thanks so much!!!
I am in the process of my conversion and I am loving the learning process. In my experience, the support of family and community is a big help.
You, yourself, embody chesed!!! How beautiful and comforting are your words! 'Malka' was a perfectly chosen name for you.Bless you....
Very touching video. I am in the process of conversion right now and the part where you spoke about the women spending shabbos alone studying really hit deep because I have been there and I still am. The shul is closed because of the covid virus so i have to study alone. I started my process 9 years ago and it was very difficult I was involved in gangs and drugs when i was younger and at 17 i left home and a lot of my friends were jewish and the more time I spent with them and in their homes and attending shabbat dinners I began asking " why wasnt i born jewish?" "Why aren't my parents Jewish?" I was confused I felt lost and all these years I never stopped learning Torah I can read hebrew, i know certain prayers by heart i eat kosher , i pray everyday but i was really lost in the sitra achra and I did 13 months in a rehab center I finished last thursday and now I'm back home and I got really closer to Hashem while I was there and I just got circumcised 2 days ago. I'm on my way home, my path of teshuvah has been so long, so painful,lonely at times, confusing, overwhelming but 9 years and still my soul yearns to convert it's like I cannot stop it, nothing can and I'm finally stable now and the circumcision was a huge step I am so proud and happy. You inspire me and I wanted to speak to you. My email is matthewboivin0108@gmail.com
I am thinking about converting. i do believe G-d is calling me to do this. thank you for your video's. i can use all the wisdom you will share. shalom sister.
Did you do it? How did it go?
I m myself want to convert either to Christianity or juidsim and want to marry you and to live forever with you
❤I am in the process of trying to connect with a Rabbi in Tennessee, to start our (my family’s) conversation. I grew up in MD. It means so much to me that you said all of this.
Blessings to you, Revka!
Sorry, Rivka!
Converting to Judaism (actual orthodox conversion, reform conversion doesn't make you a jew) is hard, house of Lev youtube channel should help you through.
Shalom! Great teaching!! Thank you!
I really love this video :) it is an idea I really wanted to explore xx
Thank you for your lovely comment!
Thank you for sharing with all of us this wonderful videos .what a wonderfull way to explain the truth meaning of been convert.
My name is Amanda and I'm 24 years old and I have been studying Judaism for 2 years. My father introduced me to this beautiful lifestyle, and as a result, I have truly fallen in love with the Torah and the Jewish tradition and I really want to go through the conversion.
At this point in my life, I feel a great desire (I can't explain this feeling) of going through conversion. For the first time in my life, I feel that G-d is leading me to this path. Although this process has been painful because my mom still is in shock with the Jewish lifestyle, I have prayed to God to give me strength, hope, patience, and love to overcome every obstacle.
However, something interesting happened 6 months ago, my mom never met his father (my grandma was always mysterious and never revealed my mom's real father) but my mother talked to her and my grandma confessed that my mom's real father was a german-jew. Although, my family is going through a hard time you have given me the motivation to pursue a conversion. I was afraid that the Jewish community would not accept me, but you have changed my perspective. Thank you for being so loving and supportive towards converts, I hope someday I could be a strong woman like you!
I feel like I'm not the top or the bottom but Iam a thread in a giant jewish cloth, we are all working together to make this cloth beautiful.
I don't know if you will see this, but thank you for making this video and thank G-d for this videos existence and that I was able to watch it.
This was exactly what I needed to hear at this moment, I needed the reminder of just because I'm in the desert with only HaShem, doesn't mean I'm not on the right track.
I wish you a beautiful end to Sukkot and a sweet and prosperous 5783.
Shalom Rivka! I have been following your videos for some time. I really loved your teaching about converts. I myself am a convert. My husband and I a re what you would call Karaite Jewish. I struggled f or many years to find the path that was right for me. Judaism called m e my whole life though. After my oldest child passed away and two failed marriages, I strayed as far away from the light of Hashim one could ever get.. Hashim brought me to the man who redeemed me. The story of Ruth, it truly resonates in my soul. There are so many things you have helped me see that I didn't quite see before....Especially in marriage and life as a Jewish wife. I really want to thank you for your gentle, loving, guidance that softens my pride and helps me to understand what Hashim has in store for me. I still have a few problems stepping back and allowing my husband the final word in things but with prayer, I think I'll get there. Tov Toda and Shabbat Shalom!!!!!
Thank you for having the courage to share your experience. It is always very nice to hear from those who have followed my videos and i hope you continue to enjoy what comes next!
Such a beautiful video... you gave me so much inspiration !!! May Hashem continue Bless You Thank You
I LOVE your words at about 5:20-6:20 about Ruth and her descendants!
God is with you! Keep up the the great work!
What a wonderful talk Rivka. Thank you.
I am glad you enjoyed, stay tuned for more!
thank you so much for that. i am a convert and I had a lot of trouble since I started. this video is really helpful for me. but all your videos are. toda!
hi Rivka. Thank you SO MUCH for your sensitive words! I was a xtian ordained minister for 20 years, all the time self identifying as Jewish. When i finally made the leap, i walked away from so much but it was less a choice and more a correction. You nailed it though. For me also I have had to unravel a very large knot of my career, my faith, and my religiosity all rolled into one. Very hard and lonely to untie that without throwing away my faith. For 5 years I spent Shabbos alone every week. I made aliyah and am in Haifa. I'm also single at age 61. I think I need to find a more spiritual community and waiting for the pandemic restrictions to lift so i can check out Tzfat. Right now I am struggling with finding out what it means to be a woman in Judaism (in israel) without being a mother or a wife, but a single woman. I need a purpose - to be of use again. It's extremely lonely. Also, I used to have a website as a coach to converts in the process, knowing Rabbi's often don't have time and can be intimidating. Working to set that back up again. Thank you for all you do!!
I have been looking for the religion that speaks to me. It's hard not knowing who you are. Your entire video spoke to me. I love the passion behind your words! I will be looking deep into the Torah. Thank you for posting this ❤️
Sonija Curley How are you going with it? I felt like this 7 months ago.. I still do actually.. but I've since started attending some Buddhism classes and just taking what I can from that. I find it easier to open up to other faiths now, that's for sure!
@@cassandra5516 Plz do study of Quran translation and teachings of Islam once in your life time. Yo will find the truth
Plz do study of Quran translation and teachings of Islam once in your life time. Yo will find the truth
Rivka I am listening to you and am in tears. I am a convert and you are truly expressing my heart. HaShem bless you and keep you. Toda Rabbah❤
Thank you so much for being so brave to speak up this biblical truth with so much wisdom. Both my husband and I are Puerto Rican Spharadi descendant with a small genetic Jewish percentage. Yet, we are naturally still not considered genetically Jew, plus we were raised as Christians. However, our hearts have always been drawn to Yisrael and its ways. Personally, I spent my whole life looking for something I felt was missing in my life until I stumbled with Torah and my own heritage. And so, we started our journey into Torah 15 years ago. It is certainly a transformational yet, lonely walk and yes, it can feel at times as though we do not fit neither in one place or the other. I was in Yisrael this year, it certainly felt like I was HOME. Shalom beautiful woman of HaShem! 💙
beautiful :) yasher koach i always learn from you
Thank you so much for you comment.
Wow, love it! Wish every Jewish person could hear this.
B"H
Thank you for this very beautiful, authentic, and generous video!
Insightful. Interesting to see the perspective from another view. I don't think I considered how my journey had any effect on the Jewish community. It was always about sorting things out to align myself and my children so we could be at peace and live a life that was pleasing to G-d. We are reform Jews , mostly because we are realistic. Would never want to claim to know or be capable of more than what we can manage. I appreciate the video and the insight and will continue to follow the channel as I think I could learn a lot from the thoughts you're sharing. Thank you.
I love your style! You have a great eye for colour!
Hi, I am using my fiance’s you tube. We are Yeshua, Mashiach believing Christians and we’re learning the bible from Genesis since covid 19 lockdown...we started honoring Shabbos and Passover and we read Ruth... I am Filipino and I felt weird at first following Jewish traditions ( my father was an Episcopalian priest) But I feel like Jesus is Jewish also and I felt like it is the right thing to do... thank you for all you do, it makes me more encouraged 💕
Thank you Rivka !!!
Loved this!
umm, this is so warm to my heart rn!!!! I thank you, and you sure are a coach!!! your path is inspiring. keep on!!! #AsheHaShem
Awesome. You're a wonderful teacher.
I just found you channel thank you so much our heavenly father shines through you!
I am seeking to convert. I sit in my recliner on Shabbos also and light the candles, I've learned to say the prayers and bake challah and a good meal. I connected with a synague when I moved to Kansas and then to Hawaii now. The synaguge I chose last shabbat was very welcoming and I was so gratful to be finally worshiping with my people.