I was really taken back with a few things you said. I was brought up in a non-religious home and was always told by my father and mother that if I wanted religion in my life I was free to do whatever I want. Strangely what brought me to your video was that I got married a few years ago which coincided with some major changes in my life. But recently I told my husband that I felt compelled to cover my hair when I went out in public because I wanted to be modest - but I had no idea why. I did not know that Jewish married women covered their hair. I was simply researching how to cover my hair and discovered that Jewish married ladies did this. But, what really got me thinking was that I have always held the belief that when we die our souls come back to learn more lessons. Recently, my mum reminded me of a conversation she had with me when I was a child and she asked me where I thought I went when I died and I told her that I would be coming back to learn - she thought that was odd and asked me where I had learnt that from, to which I replied, I didn't know but that is what I felt would be happening. I am going to learn more about Judaism. I have never contemplated religion or having religion in my life but I have been feeling recently that I needed it. I have never met a Jewish person before so I can only hope I can meet someone to talk to about it. I really cannot thank you enough for your video!
Dearest Karah, I am so sorry that I'm only seeing this comment now. thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I"m honored. AND I'm curious! How has it been? Have you found any answers? Do you need resources?
Sure, there are so many; thousands. Can you tell me more specifically what youre looking for? You can start with aish.com and chabad.org. They are both great
I am most definitely one of those people with "Jewish souls" within them, and I have had that yearning for many years now. I have seriously and sincerely wanted to convert for about 3/4 years, but the fact that I cannot have an Orthodox conversion has been discouraging. I am married to a non-Jewish man who has no intention of converting, and interfaith marriage is not allowed in the Orthodox community. I have started conversion classes with a reform Rabbi, because that is the only sort of conversion that my situation would allow, but it just feels... fake. I want to be Orthodox, and while after a reform conversion I could live as Orthodox as I wanted, I still would not be genuinely "Jewish" in the Orthodox community and that hurts my heart. I know that it is reform conversion that you were hinting at towards the end of this video, and it does make complete sense - either do something fully, or do not do it at all. However, for someone like me, who has limited options but truly wants to be Jewish, would you say that a less-than-kosher conversion would be alright, at least for now? Maybe one day in the future there will be a possibility of an Orthodox conversion, but until then, wouldn't it be best to "take what I can get" and make the most of it? As a side note, I love all of your videos and hope that you will make more like this - serious subjects - because you really make words have meaning :)
Christina Mancuso I'm sorry that I only saw this now. Please forgive me for not responding earlier. I would say to you this. G-d loves you and He loves your desire to be closer to Him. Learn as much as you can about Judaism and practice whatever mitzvos you can. Converting Reform, like you said doesn't quite do it so I"m not sure what you'd gain by going that route. I do know that some people have gone that route simply bc their desire was so great and ultimately it was a healthy stepping stone for the next step in their journey. Thank you for your encouragement in my making videos. I am taking your words to heart.
Christina Mancuso hi Christina. I wanted to respond to your post to hopefully provide some encouragement. I know it's been several months sense you posted and your conversion journey may have changed. I converted via Reform about 5 years ago. I was married to a Christian man and also not allowed to convert into the Orthodox community. When I converted I felt like I was taking steps to follow my truth. While I would have liked to covert first into the Orthodox community, Reform was the step that was most open to me. I think if your process feel "fake" to you or perhaps lacking meaning or truth, I'd consider seeking a new synagogue. I went to several Reform temples and some conservative in order to find one I felt would offer the most guidance and help me take the steps I needed to seek a deeper truth. I was not just looking for a "feel good" experience. However, it can be a good place to start... and find open doors... I think any amount of gaining truth is a mitzvah. Please do not be discouraged, thinking that converting via Reform makes you "not quite a Jew" or less of one. Everyone walks their own path. Maybe in your next life your circumstances will be different and you can take more and more steps to become closer to the truth you seek. Rivka Malka Perlman made some wonderful points in her video, but her discredit of conversion via Reform seems closed minded. G-d will embrace you and truth can find you and bring you closer to G-d even in a Reform community. Shalom.
Christina Mancuso To add to what Rivka Malka said, please, please, please don't go down the Reform route. That's what my husband and me did. He passed away, but I still yearn for an authentic halachic conversion. I'm so sorry that your husband isn't supportive and your pain is palpable :( I will keep you very close in prayer, that der Eibishter will help us both become closer to Him. It would be very difficult for you to be Orthodox if your husband isn't supportive, but I don't know that the dayanim would say a definitive 'no'. Your marriage would have taken place before you were Jewish, so I don't know if you would actually be seen as 'married'. Your local Chabad house may be helpful, but be prepared for a knock back or two. I feel from your words that you're somewhat like me, a Yiddisher neshama inside a goyisher body! Kol tuv.
Yevette Moore said Chabad may be helpful. I'm not so sure about that as they, like "Torah Parters" ( actually Partners in Torah), are Orthodox outreach, and while I enjoy videos by the lovely Mrs "Rivkah Malka," as well as Hasid videos on topics by Chabad, I also appreciate that these programs are geared toward the errant Orthodox Jewish population, as well as the sentiment that true Torah Jewish living may be most effectively lived when done so as a couple with the man taking on that traditional role while the woman as sums her own in support of raising Orthodox Jewish children. I'm an ordinary person who grew up in a population with many Jewish friends, always loved the Jewish people, beliefs and values. I currently study one on one with someone who taught conversion class for 15 years, and sat on the board for longer, and I'm ready to start classes for halachaic conservative conversion classes for 15 years, and sat on the board of his synogague. In my home, I have complete support of such, conduct the rituals and blessings for both partners unencumbered. My daughter, son in law, two grandchildren, and my 26 yr old son all attend my Shabbat dinners respectfully as well as all my holiday observances. I also keep a kosher home. So, everything is going well for me in my endeavors to have a true covenant with HaShem. I will continue to learn over time all that is available to me through the orthodox community from the sector that I can be in. For me, conservative is that place as reform does not speak to me, and I will have a halachaic conversation. Remember: Ruth was a convert, and were it not for Ruth, there would have been no King David! Incidentally, I have Hebrew lineage, and many family members who remained Jewish both Sephardic and Ashkenazic. Butt, that is NOT what being a member of the Tribe is about! The Torah was offered to other people. Those who accepted the Torah sight unseen entered into the covenant with HaShem and became Israel...the Jewish people. This is a little about Partners in Torah: Torah Umesorah - National Society for Hebrew Day Schools (or Torah Umesorah תורה ומסורה) is an Orthodox Jewish educational charity based in the United States that promotes Torah-based Jewish religious education in North America by supporting and developing a loosely affiliated network independent private Jewish day schools. Torah Umesorah, the National Society for Hebrew Day Schools, was the first national Jewish organization in the United States to pioneer Jewish day schools in this country. It started to develop these in 1944, during World War II... Telephone chavrusas Partners in Torah - founded in 1991 as a one-on-one learning program for Jewish day school parents, the program transitioned into telephone study partnerships known as "TelePartners" in 1997.[46][47] As of 2011, Partners in Torah facilitated 13,000 weekly telephone study partnerships for both men and women on all Jewish subjects[48] JNet - founded in 2006, this project of Merkos L'Inyonei Chinuch pairs men and women with Chabad volunteers for Jewish learning. I hope anything I've shared might be helpful to a potential reader. I appreciate you, Rivka! All the very best to you!
I know ur post was 6 years ago...hope you are well... I see u truly want to covert and that's beautiful... I admire that you want to convert tge right way... reform conversation is nit authentic and you r right...orthodox will not accept. Best in your situation probably just focus on the 7 Noah laws. And if you truly want to convert...Hashem will help you and guide you. Best of luck.
Okay, so very late to the party - but was raised in a relatively unreligious household in that a few in my family felt a sort of way on a spiritual level but the idea of going to church never clicked with us. When I was in college studying anthropology, history and religious studies one of my professors was Jewish. At the end of that class I had mentioned to them that I was interested in Judaism and that I had been doing my own research and soul-searching regarding... well, just everything about my life and the 'bigger picture'. Her response was essentially, 'I would love to point you toward the tools and resources that I have at my disposal, but I know you could probably serve God better in your own way.' and that shook me -- But now, hearing you say practically the same thing (at least how I remember it) years later, I think I understand what she was saying much better now.
Thank you for this video, I am attending my first Shabbat service on Friday and meeting with the Rabbi on Sunday. Everything you have said is me, I have always had this connection to Judaism that is unexplained
Thank you so much for this! Like Daisymque - I too have a yearning in my heart to be Jewish. When I was about 9 I moved to Germany (Father was in Air Force) and I learned very much about the Jewish people. After reading her diary, around the age of 12, I actually asked to visit the Anne Frank house as a birthday present. I felt such a connection to the Jewish people and even felt as if I experienced those horrors myself. (Reincarnation, perhaps?) Ever since then I have sought to convert. I have never been healthier in my life after changing my diet to a kosher diet. Even my doctor was baffled by the change. Also, I recently met a nice Jewish boy which I feel was a sign to finally convert once and for all. The Jewish people are an incredibly kind and loyal people. It is only when I am amongst them that I feel peace and love.
Lovely. And right all around. I particularly appreciated the section where you 'avoided labels' about types of conversion -- and you were correct there, too.
Rivka, yours words wounded my joy. I converted 5 years ago via a Reform synagogue. I understand that this conversion is not accepted by all, but I felt your words about the right way to convert were contradictory to the ideals you have mentioned in previous videos. You often say that everyone walks their own path and we are all here to serve in our own way... Conversion is about walking a path to truth. Perhaps, I can encourage you to think more deeply about conversion as a journey to a deeper truth, and that any step close is a mitzvah. Each person is entitled to a relationship with G-d, in which ever way that path may represent. Maybe in my next life I will be able to convert via Orthodox, but my Reform conversion has brought me that much closer... I respect your opinion, and realize it is shared by many others, but please try to understand that belittling anyone's conversion journey injures joy that G-d could be doing to lead them to a deeper truth.
Elisabeth Cunningham conversion is walking a path to truth, but the truth of Torah is expressed by halacha. Our sincerity isn't questioned, but the rabbonim who converted us don't recognise halacha (which is what we live our lives by) so how can their conversions be valid? Perhaps, one day, bezrat Hashem, you will undertake a halachic conversion and be a full member of am Yisrael. If you want to worship Reform, that would be your choice, but to really know the beauty of Yiddishkeit you have to be Orthodox. This is from someone who converted Reform (UK) and whose most fervent wish is to convert Orthodox one day. Kol tuv!
50% of the orthodox jews chenged their life to the consevatve or to the reform way of life. they are not want to compromise about the justic. they want the most justic in their life. comment me when your wife will be the community rabbi of your orthodox community.
Sorry but reform is reformed Judaism not authentic Judaism you may feel closer to God which is wonderful but it’s just not Judaism. There are many great gentiles who are God fearing and feel a closeness and recognise God . But to be Jewish there is only one way to keep the Torah and the mitzvah properly.
I am a convert. You told my story. I was a lost soul and found my way back. Conversion grounded me again and was in my soul from the beginning.. Thank you.
The "authentic process" is it reform or conservative conversions? I doubt it. Understand that RUTH, the original convert, didn't have Orthodox Rabbis breathing down her neck. She simply said " Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die, I will die…" The Orthodox DO NOT have an absolute power over who is or isn't a Jew via conversion. Perhaps talk about this in your next TH-cam vid.
Ever since I can remember I have felt such a connection to Judaism despite not be Jewish. I have felt so out of the place where I currently am. As I learn more and more about Judaism, I feel so close to what I am meant to do ( I am willing to share in the joys and the suffering of God's people) but also really distant because there is no one to guide me and I don't know if I really will fit in. Do you have any advice? Thank you for your video.
Rivka Malka Perlman Thank You for your inspiring videos... I came across your channel because as you said, I'm one of those with a yearning heart. Since I was as young as 7 when I visited a local synagogue on a Religious Education field trip and walked around, I immediately felt a connection.. That's how I started my journey of gaining more knowledge. I'm 18 now, but when I was 10, I used to perform my own Shabbas in my bedroom and started to learn Hebrew words because of the conviction in my heart and soul.. Again Thank You for your words of advice, You have a wonderful heart ❤
+Rivka Malka Perlman Thank you so much, I would love it if you could maybe explain more about the process of converting to me if you ever get the chance.. It's something that I'm really serious about doing now that I've left home!! Shabbat Shalom!!
+Daisymque the conversion process is long, and it changes you. You will need to be in communication with an Orthodox Rabbi and if this is indeed the road you wish to go down - then he will help you. There is a lot of learning, both in books and with people. What other specific questions do you have that I could help you with?
I live out in the middle of a field in Utah. It's discouraging. For me, it isn't just a desire to convert to Judaism. I really feel like I have no other choice. For 20 years I have been drawn to Judaism and I have never been able to explain it until I really started studying Torah. None the less I have made very little headway in getting a rabbi to respond to me as far as conversion. I think I may have offended one. I'm not sure if asking them properly or if it's my complete inability to communicate when I'm nervous
I am currently a Noahide who does almost as many mitzvot (mitzvot for a Jew) as permissible. I definitely want to convert in the future and I have been studying Torah commentaries weekly. I know I would like to become a Hasid after conversion and most likely a Chabadnic however my knowledge of other Hasidim is quite weak. I would like to know how to find out which Hasidic group I should follow. I would feel foolish just going blind sighted into Judaism but it seems to me that so many different Hasdic groups it is impossible to have a detailed knowledge of all. Is there any easy into finding which is right for me? Also I read that at the time Moshiach (which I am sure is immenant) conversions should seize. Should I be worried about this or am I being selfish?
As a child my aunt and all my extended family are Jewish. It’s sometimes so odd for me and i spend all this time reading mystical and interesting Jewish and Kabbalist texts. I have always felt like i was a part of the community. I’m not sure if i will convert, but it’s odd that so much of my life revolved around Judaism.
+Rivika Malka Perlman Can you convert when you are under 18, because I was born in a Christian family and since I was around 5 I wanted to become Jewish. I don't know what to do.
I've tried to convert to judaism since late 2012, I've talked with many rabbis telling them why I want to convert, describing like what you said "yearning soul" but they all seemed to discourage me: that I'm better off serving my g-d in my religion, that consequently limited my hopes on asking the Rabbis at the Shul anymore. Since 2013 I've been practicing Judaism and learning at home...
Adam, that is such a painful place to be. please don't give up. If its the real deal for you. follow it. You may need to move to a different community/rabbi
Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe being denied three times is part of the process of conversion. I think -- again, correct me if I'm wrong -- to make sure you've truly searched your soul and thought it through.
Shalom Rivka I converted to Judaism about 1 year ago in a conservative synagogue. Since that time my journey has continued and has now brought me to the orthodox community in my city....after receiving daily emails from Chabad..that I singed up for when I was in conversion classes I find that I am able to identify with these ways of going about our lives much better than the other movement..Also My Husband Is Orthodox...so now I am finding that my original conversion is not acceptable to the beit din in Yisrael. I have been successful in finding a most wise Rabbi Altein to help me along in the process of an ortho conversion.. I really liked these videos you made so I though maybe I can share this info with you and get your ideas, opinions of my conversion journey or story...
I just "discovered" you. I see in you an young, beautiful, free and happy version of myself. Your videos are very inspiring. Baltimore is an extremely significant place for me, even though I was only there for 3 days. It was 4 days after I visited the Ohel of the Rebbe. HaShem hit the reset button on my life. I'd love to talk sometime. Keep doing what you are doing. I know it is a BIG blessing to LOTS of people, including me! Shalom :-)
I will treasure your invitation. I may be passing through on a trip to NY, Vermont this year. You are very kind to invite me. Shabbat Shalom / Gut Shabbos and have an inspiring Pesach! =D
That's amazing...no need to convert ( unless you want to be part of the nation) bec Hashem (Gd) loves everyone.... as a non jew, if you believe there is only 1 Gd , you need to practice the 7 Noah's law. Look up rabbi Reuven on TH-cam. He has more information on thus. And he has helped many to convert to Judaism. Best of luck.
I want to thank you for your love of our creator. Your videos I have been guided to and I am grateful because your love and devotion comes through which help keep me closer to our creator. Something I do not yet understand is happening within my soul. I will keep praying and seeking.
I noted on the first video that Judaism and Wicca have many of the same beliefs and here again I find a similarity we to teach reincarnation and we do not missionise.
Hey Rivka, I'm 16 and have been very interested in becoming Jewish. I've had a bit of trouble with my parents, them being strictly Greek Orthodox. And it's been really hard for me, do you have any suggestions or tips?
I was born in a "Christian" home but never understood or had a any relationship with G-D. Here recently my husband, children and I have been going to a Messianic synagogue and have been understanding and getting closer with God more and more each day. My husband has even brought up the topic of converting to Messianic Judaism. My question is Is the process the same with Messianic? And if so How do you do it? If not Why is Messianic Judaism different from traditional Judaism? Other than the obvious Yeshua.
What is your opinion on Conservative conversions? I do not want to be a Reform Jew, but I feel as though I would not be accepted in Orthodox communities because 1) I am a nurse and do not intend to quit my job, 2) I am engaged to a non-Jew who is my soulmate, and 3) before starting my conversion journey I got tattoos. I want to do this fully and correctly and keep the Shabbat and kosher and raise my children in the faith.
Thank you so much for your inspiration :) One day, with the help of der Eibishter, I will have a halachic conversion (using the laptop on Shabbat is the one deliberate thing I do to break it!) Please keep making the videos, bracha v'hatzlacha!
Shalom. I am a Noahide but as I've mentioned to a friend who is a Jew now, I need more in my life. But I do have a question: Will Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Pagans, and others get into the World to Come if they live a righteous life? I mean, most of the Noahide laws are moral/ethical rules that most people follow anyway except some people don't believe in the G-d of Abraham, Isaac, and Joseph. What will happen to those people?
YES. I touched in the first video , probably not clearly enough, but everything a person dies - regardless of their faith gets rewarded. We have many instances in the Torah where even the villains got rewarded for the little good they did. our experience in the World to Come is a direct refection of our world here. the spiritual awareness that we cultivate here is what will allow us to enjoy spiritual delights (after all, we are still ourselves, just without our bodies.) Therefore our experiences in the next world if we do not believe i G-d will reflect that limitation. But truly, I think everyone believes in g-d we just dont like that world - everyone believes in SOMETHING and that SOMETHING is the energy source that powers the world
Rivka Malka Perlman I like that view. I've always agreed with it. I have just heard some Jews say that since pagans worship multiple gods and goddesses that they won't enter the World to Come. I took what they said with a grain of salt. Thanks for answering and confirming what I already believe :)
i dont think that someone can answer that question. but if for example a muslim killed someone (sinner or criminal or murderer). may be in islam this man is righteous but in judaism it is unforgetabl. even if the highest justic judge court(HJC) "must" sentece someone to deth, all the 120 judges members must fast baptise and resign from the court and quit the job for good. they are not quolifide, to judge anymore. because israel must stay pure nation. (and the exicution can doen "only by gentil"). Except God, no one have permision to take life of anyone (except in case of life deffence situation). no one permited even to take his own life.... Now, how we call this moslim man?
Shula Lavy in the Quran it says Chapter 5 v 32 "On that account: We ordained for the Children of Israel that if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people. Then although there came to them Our messengers with clear signs, yet, even after that, many of them continued to commit excesses in the land." I am pretty sure you will find a similar verse in the Torah. also to show that muslim in islam will not be seen as righteous
I'm in the process of converting (have been for years due to life circumstances, it hasn't happened yet, but all in Hashem's time, not mine), and when people ask me "how can you be Jewish if you weren't born Jewish" or they say "you will never really be Jewish because you weren't born Jewish/the real Jews will never accept you as being really Jewish" (none of this has come out of the mouths of other Jews), I like to use adoption of my analogy due to being adopted. It doesn't matter that I am not related to my dad by blood (as my mom was my great aunt biologically but I never have and never could view her as anything less than my mom) that doesn't make him any less my dad. I was adopted into the Baird family which means that I am and always will be a Baird, and I am accepted as a Baird because of my adoption. I always like to view it as such, because being adopted was the best thing that could have happened to me! I love my birthmom but she was not ready to raise me at the time, she raised one of my three brothers by herself and co-parented another, out of the four of us, they are the only two to have ever been in trouble with the law, and my brother that she raised by herself (2 years younger than me) went hungry and grew up in shelters and ate beans for Thanksgiving. She wasn't ready to raise a child, and with me she didn't. I am so blessed and I love looking at conversion in that way. I cannot wait until I can have the ability to go to the city and actually start my conversion, but due to health I do not have the funds to make that drive even once a week (closest shul is about 40 minutes away if traffic isn't bad). I use to get mad because of how long it is taking (4 years now due to moving and health reasons combined) but now, I view it as a beautiful process and Hashem believes that I need time. For the past year, I strayed away slightly, learning about Asatru and giving it a shot as I am of Scandinavian decent. It wasn't for me. I longed for synagogue, I longed for the music that I use to listen to daily, I longed for my Torah (which was in storage up until a few weeks ago, so I relied on my phone) and I longed for that wholeness I use to feel. I finally, cold turkyed it and I am back to listening to my music, reading the Torah from Genesis 1:1 to Deuteronomy 34:12. I am going to school soon and will be taking their Hebrew language course (it is a Christian college and the only one in town) and once I have a car and the funds, I will be going to Indy weekly again for shul and to speak to the Orthodox Rabbi there. Hashem knew that I wasn't ready. Once a Jew, always a Jew, and I would have left, even if only for a year, and that would have been breaking mitzvot.
I keep all the Holy Days, stay kosher and observe Sabbath, but I recently had a DNA test which said I had very little Jewish lineage in my ancestry,,,, That just can't be because my heart is 100% Jewish....
I am one of those people with a "Jewish soul". The only issue is I am a teen with parents that don't approve at all. And the other issue is the closest orthodox rabbi is 2 1/2 - 3 hours away. What should I do?
Study, study, study! Conversion is not easy and it takes a long time! I would study the Tanakh (what christians call the Old Testament), start eating kosher as best as you can, try to study some Hebrew, study about the holy days, anything at all, that way when you are 18, you will be ready for the long road ahead. You will never in your life quit learning, no matter how much you already know, start now.
Hi Rivka!Thank you for these informing videos about Judaism.Today is the day that I firstly started to explore "what Judaism really is." I am a muslim person who struggles with hardest questions about Islam such as the belief in Islam which former revelations of God such as Tora and Christian Bible had been changed by some monks.When I ask the question of "how do I know that Quran had not been changed?" myself,I can not get my response.If God guides mankind about what to do and how to live,his holy guide must be kept by God.Therefore I started to found Judaism more rational in this perspective and I just wanna learn what is the true epistemology of Judaism.What is the common denominator of all Jewish people.What should I read or learn to know it.I want to learn 100% absolute knowledge,not any comment nor controversial beliefs of monks nor etc.And I have a very important question.Why do rabbis seem to be unwilling against conversions to Judaism?Is this the religion of God or one of rabbis?Thank you for your smiling face on your videos by the way
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Özgür Öztürk Typically, a rabbi will turn away someone wishing to convert in order to see whether the person deeply wants to convert. This is to be careful the person wants to convert for a reason that will not fade with time. It should not be because of marriage or as a temporary fad.
Read rambam sefarditas Jew who wrote so many Halacha and he mention that Islam is a true monoteis religion because you worship the same God of Jews worship
Is there a way to have two religions practiced in one home? I am Jewish, always have been, but my husband is Mormon, bloodline is Hebrew though. I converted to his faith before we got married, but I truly do not believe in it. Is there a way to coexist?
Hollie Peck I apologize i just saw this question. The difficult truth is that there needs to be one truth, thats what makes it the truth:) In terms of co existing, yes you can. but not because you share a faith, perhaps bc you love and respect each other enough to leave the other room for follow what they believe. I think that trying to mesh two religions just results in a mockery of what the religions were about in the first place (plus some very confused kids). DOes that make sense?
+Hollie Peck I am Mormon. We believe that anything that brings you to G-d is good and wonderful. I am of Jewish descent and apply many MANY Jewish teachings to my life. Many of the teachings are the same. I have had more than one Rabbi tell me " If it weren't for the Jesus being the messiah, You would be a Jew" I celebrate Passover, I bake challah ( with the blessing) . We believe that each religion that leads you to do good and brings you closer to our Heavenly Father is good. As far as my kids go. They have no confusion. Because in all honesty the two religions marry quite well. It is where your heart is. If your actions and heart are in the right place you will be blessed. G-d wants us to happy. Men are that they might have joy!!
I'm just a kid I've always wanted to convert but my parents don't know and if they do know they will make me go to christian church so I don't join judsism but I want to convert how can I be jewish without anyone knowing
This videos are fantastic! Thank you! I'm catholic but I'm your subscriber because I really respect your way of life as you show it here. I've been always interested in judaism (I have dear jewish friends from college) and I admire the way you as people think about your mission in this world. Would you speak more about how some people feel and practice certain parts of judaism even though they are not jewish? You said you have some convert friends who experience that. Sorry for my english (spanish speaker here!). On a more mundane note, you look beautiful in these colors! Like you have jewels all around you, beautiful!.
Thank you! One exaple would be resting on Saturdy, not using the phone etc. Or keeping kosher bc those foods ring spiritual purity (as all kosher animals are gentle and non meat eaters) I know many women who cover their hair and they great about it as well
Well I find it interesting that the love of my life decided to break up with me because he wants to convert. Mind you, we dated for 3 years and he never told me he wanted to convert to Judaism. He is 33 years old. So he broke up with me 3 months ago. Now his rabbi agreed and told him he will never convert unless I want to convert. So I guess it's true, I lost him for something I will never understand. I don't mean to be so mean but I feel like I'm cursed. I will never be happy and now I'm mad at G-d. I'm watching and doing research to understand but I don't feel anything except pain and hatred. I no longer wish to feel this way. So I guess I've decided to give up on love. Love and peace is something I will never have.
Hanna Hutchinson No, because you would have got them before you became Jewish, and when you go to mikveh you literally are 'born again' as a new Jewish person. You may come across a rabbi who might ask you to have them removed, but al pi halacha the tattoos were from your previous life, so should not impede you in any way :) Kol tuv!
That's what you believe, and that's fine, but I'm a Jew and that's what halacha says. You are reborn as a Jew, so whatever happened before is washed away in the mikveh. Sound familiar? Shalom.
I heard a Rabbi say that once one converts, he/she cannot go back. There is a higher standard that a person is judged by. I would love to convert, but the circumstances I am in tells me that now is not the time... I don't know any jews in my area... they are kind of hiding.... :)
+Mamo.Polska i know a gay in Israel and he never (not that i notice atleast) get's discriminated! and i would never discriminate a gay!! it's disrespectful. i don't know cases about transgenders so i can't answer that sorry,but shalom aleichem
+Mamo.Polska if you are not Jewish by birth you may find it difficult having a proper Orthodox conversion as it (nowadays) entails acceptance of all 613 mitzvot, including a commitment to having children, not engaging in homosexual acts (male is Torah prohibited, female is Rabbinically prohibited as the customs of Egypt). However, I believe there are several genders recognised in Rabbinic literature, for what it is worth
Yes, all the commentators tlak about it but it is not explicit. It is part of kabbalah which is the secrets of life - Here is a link to some very deep info on the subject. Ill try and make a video about it to condense it www.projectmind.org/exoteric/souls.html
YHVH--------- in Hebrew pictographs ... YOD=hand/arm. HEY=behold, "hey" come over here and look. VAV= nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure. HEY=behold, HEY come over here and look. Hand behold, nail behold. The crucifixion is in YHVH name! The word Torah in Hebrew pictographs backwards... HEY=behold, HEY come over here and look. RESH/ROSH= head VAV= nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure. TAV= cross, mark, covenant. Hey look the Head nailed on the cross. Proverbs 30:4 - Who has ascended up into heaven, and descended? Who has gathered the wind in his fists? Who has bound the waters in his garment? Who has established all the ends of the eretz? What is his name, and what is his SONS'S name, if you know Aleph= א=God=Elohim=יהוה ALEPH in Hebrew. =אלפ That's three letters in one word. The gematria of the word aleph is 111 which is 3 numbers of number 1 in the word, aleph. Three in one. The aleph which stands for God has 2 yods=hands and 1 bent vav =6 the number of man. also =nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure. So you can say that in the name of Elohim is a man with teffilin on His head bent over humbled and reaching out his two hands to pull Heaven and Earth together in himself the mashiac ben David... Jesus/Yahshua... Connecting, fastening, them to HIMSELF! And of course that Aleph equals 26 the number of Elohim himself... Elohim is a PLURAL word! Not singular. The Aleph as said before had 2 Yods and 1 bent Vav that is another 3 in 1...! Also the Paleo ancient Hebrew Aleph has three lines that make up 1 Aleph, three in one once again! The Maschiac was already here once and he will come back again. That's why you have the two Heys in יהוה NAME for the two comings of HIM! Hey= behold, look over here at something important! And there's SO much more!
The idea that the Jewish people have never been interested in proselytizing is absolutely historically false . Recall if you will , the second paragraph of our beautiful prayer "Aleinu"--- "And so we hope in You Adonia our God , soon to see Your splendor : That You will sweep idolatry away so that false gods will be utterly destroyed , and that You will perfect the world by Your sovereignty so that all humanity will invoke Your Name , and all the earth's wicked will return to You , Repentant ". The prayer is an appeal for the end of paganism ,the removal of all idols and idolatry ; and the recognition of HaShem's Sovereignty by all humanity ! During the period before the destruction of the second Temple ( 70 c.e.) , Judaism attempted to realize it's Universal aspect by aspiring to become the belief of all humanity ! Active proselytism was therefore an integral part of Judaism , with no small measure of success. This continued until the eventual persecution of roman christianity when under Constantine it was ruled that the spreading of Judaism was punishable by death ! The proselytizing campaign subsided creating the mindset that Jews not only don't proselytize but that we should push potential converts away ! Nothing could be further from the Truth -- Learn about our great Sage Hillel who the Talmud reveals was always open to convert the non-Jew on the basis of sincerity of heart .. Learn the Talmudic lessons of Hillel and the three converts , when his opponent Shammai was quick to throw tools at potential converts Hillel received them and instructed them with love ! Anyone who is interested in the historicity of this subject I highly recommend a book written by well respected Jewish author and scholar , Joseph Telushkin ,"HILLEL If Not Now,When?". 😀 Shalom.
I am Muslim, converted to Islam from Christianity 5 months 1 week ago today :) I do want to learn about Judaism and get to know it as I already have knowledge of Christianity and now Islam, but Judaism is the first part of the message of Islam, so I am into studying it more.
I wonder, if it were possible how many people who are trying to "convert" were murdered during the holocaust and through reincarnation have returned to this place. However it seems that they have been "mis-directed" between this life and that one, and are looking to return to that aspect of their former life? The Jews are a stiff necked and stubborn lot... even to the point of vexing their own divine being... If that's not love, I don't know what is. And like the woman points out, you're gonna have to be tough and persevere. If that's what you are truly meant for...
I'm a child of God and by my faith/repentance and prayer .. I will go to his Kingdome if you believe in Jesus and his sacrifice you are a part of his family, that's why you fill Jewish …. those that follow him will enter the Haven then our Fathers house has many rooms for his children … and agree with Rivka you do not need to convert … to serve our Lord and Father .. ask him and he will guide you all you have to do is listen with your hart not your ears …
I was really taken back with a few things you said. I was brought up in a non-religious home and was always told by my father and mother that if I wanted religion in my life I was free to do whatever I want. Strangely what brought me to your video was that I got married a few years ago which coincided with some major changes in my life. But recently I told my husband that I felt compelled to cover my hair when I went out in public because I wanted to be modest - but I had no idea why. I did not know that Jewish married women covered their hair. I was simply researching how to cover my hair and discovered that Jewish married ladies did this. But, what really got me thinking was that I have always held the belief that when we die our souls come back to learn more lessons. Recently, my mum reminded me of a conversation she had with me when I was a child and she asked me where I thought I went when I died and I told her that I would be coming back to learn - she thought that was odd and asked me where I had learnt that from, to which I replied, I didn't know but that is what I felt would be happening. I am going to learn more about Judaism. I have never contemplated religion or having religion in my life but I have been feeling recently that I needed it. I have never met a Jewish person before so I can only hope I can meet someone to talk to about it. I really cannot thank you enough for your video!
Dearest Karah, I am so sorry that I'm only seeing this comment now. thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I"m honored. AND I'm curious! How has it been? Have you found any answers? Do you need resources?
Sure, there are so many; thousands. Can you tell me more specifically what youre looking for? You can start with aish.com and chabad.org. They are both great
I am most definitely one of those people with "Jewish souls" within them, and I have had that yearning for many years now. I have seriously and sincerely wanted to convert for about 3/4 years, but the fact that I cannot have an Orthodox conversion has been discouraging. I am married to a non-Jewish man who has no intention of converting, and interfaith marriage is not allowed in the Orthodox community. I have started conversion classes with a reform Rabbi, because that is the only sort of conversion that my situation would allow, but it just feels... fake. I want to be Orthodox, and while after a reform conversion I could live as Orthodox as I wanted, I still would not be genuinely "Jewish" in the Orthodox community and that hurts my heart. I know that it is reform conversion that you were hinting at towards the end of this video, and it does make complete sense - either do something fully, or do not do it at all. However, for someone like me, who has limited options but truly wants to be Jewish, would you say that a less-than-kosher conversion would be alright, at least for now? Maybe one day in the future there will be a possibility of an Orthodox conversion, but until then, wouldn't it be best to "take what I can get" and make the most of it? As a side note, I love all of your videos and hope that you will make more like this - serious subjects - because you really make words have meaning :)
Christina Mancuso I'm sorry that I only saw this now. Please forgive me for not responding earlier. I would say to you this. G-d loves you and He loves your desire to be closer to Him. Learn as much as you can about Judaism and practice whatever mitzvos you can. Converting Reform, like you said doesn't quite do it so I"m not sure what you'd gain by going that route. I do know that some people have gone that route simply bc their desire was so great and ultimately it was a healthy stepping stone for the next step in their journey. Thank you for your encouragement in my making videos. I am taking your words to heart.
Christina Mancuso hi Christina. I wanted to respond to your post to hopefully provide some encouragement. I know it's been several months sense you posted and your conversion journey may have changed. I converted via Reform about 5 years ago. I was married to a Christian man and also not allowed to convert into the Orthodox community. When I converted I felt like I was taking steps to follow my truth. While I would have liked to covert first into the Orthodox community, Reform was the step that was most open to me. I think if your process feel "fake" to you or perhaps lacking meaning or truth, I'd consider seeking a new synagogue. I went to several Reform temples and some conservative in order to find one I felt would offer the most guidance and help me take the steps I needed to seek a deeper truth. I was not just looking for a "feel good" experience. However, it can be a good place to start... and find open doors... I think any amount of gaining truth is a mitzvah. Please do not be discouraged, thinking that converting via Reform makes you "not quite a Jew" or less of one. Everyone walks their own path. Maybe in your next life your circumstances will be different and you can take more and more steps to become closer to the truth you seek. Rivka Malka Perlman made some wonderful points in her video, but her discredit of conversion via Reform seems closed minded. G-d will embrace you and truth can find you and bring you closer to G-d even in a Reform community. Shalom.
Christina Mancuso To add to what Rivka Malka said, please, please, please don't go down the Reform route. That's what my husband and me did. He passed away, but I still yearn for an authentic halachic conversion. I'm so sorry that your husband isn't supportive and your pain is palpable :( I will keep you very close in prayer, that der Eibishter will help us both become closer to Him. It would be very difficult for you to be Orthodox if your husband isn't supportive, but I don't know that the dayanim would say a definitive 'no'. Your marriage would have taken place before you were Jewish, so I don't know if you would actually be seen as 'married'. Your local Chabad house may be helpful, but be prepared for a knock back or two. I feel from your words that you're somewhat like me, a Yiddisher neshama inside a goyisher body! Kol tuv.
Yevette Moore said Chabad may be helpful. I'm not so sure about that as they, like "Torah Parters" ( actually Partners in Torah), are Orthodox outreach, and while I enjoy videos by the lovely Mrs "Rivkah Malka," as well as Hasid videos on topics by Chabad, I also appreciate that these programs are geared toward the errant Orthodox Jewish population, as well as the sentiment that true Torah Jewish living may be most effectively lived when done so as a couple with the man taking on that traditional role while the woman as sums her own in support of raising Orthodox Jewish children. I'm an ordinary person who grew up in a population with many Jewish friends, always loved the Jewish people, beliefs and values. I currently study one on one with someone who taught conversion class for 15 years, and sat on the board for longer, and I'm ready to start classes for halachaic conservative conversion classes for 15 years, and sat on the board of his synogague. In my home, I have complete support of such, conduct the rituals and blessings for both partners unencumbered. My daughter, son in law, two grandchildren, and my 26 yr old son all attend my Shabbat dinners respectfully as well as all my holiday observances. I also keep a kosher home. So, everything is going well for me in my endeavors to have a true covenant with HaShem. I will continue to learn over time all that is available to me through the orthodox community from the sector that I can be in. For me, conservative is that place as reform does not speak to me, and I will have a halachaic conversation. Remember: Ruth was a convert, and were it not for Ruth, there would have been no King David!
Incidentally, I have Hebrew lineage, and many family members who remained Jewish both Sephardic and Ashkenazic. Butt, that is NOT what being a member of the Tribe is about! The Torah was offered to other people. Those who accepted the Torah sight unseen entered into the covenant with HaShem and became Israel...the Jewish people.
This is a little about Partners in Torah: Torah Umesorah - National Society for Hebrew Day Schools (or Torah Umesorah תורה ומסורה) is an Orthodox Jewish educational charity based in the United States that promotes Torah-based Jewish religious education in North America by supporting and developing a loosely affiliated network independent private Jewish day schools.
Torah Umesorah, the National Society for Hebrew Day Schools, was the first national Jewish organization in the United States to pioneer Jewish day schools in this country. It started to develop these in 1944, during World War II...
Telephone chavrusas
Partners in Torah - founded in 1991 as a one-on-one learning program for Jewish day school parents, the program transitioned into telephone study partnerships known as "TelePartners" in 1997.[46][47] As of 2011, Partners in Torah facilitated 13,000 weekly telephone study partnerships for both men and women on all Jewish subjects[48]
JNet - founded in 2006, this project of Merkos L'Inyonei Chinuch pairs men and women with Chabad volunteers for Jewish learning.
I hope anything I've shared might be helpful to a potential reader. I appreciate you, Rivka! All the very best to you!
I know ur post was 6 years ago...hope you are well... I see u truly want to covert and that's beautiful... I admire that you want to convert tge right way... reform conversation is nit authentic and you r right...orthodox will not accept. Best in your situation probably just focus on the 7 Noah laws. And if you truly want to convert...Hashem will help you and guide you. Best of luck.
Okay, so very late to the party - but was raised in a relatively unreligious household in that a few in my family felt a sort of way on a spiritual level but the idea of going to church never clicked with us. When I was in college studying anthropology, history and religious studies one of my professors was Jewish. At the end of that class I had mentioned to them that I was interested in Judaism and that I had been doing my own research and soul-searching regarding... well, just everything about my life and the 'bigger picture'. Her response was essentially, 'I would love to point you toward the tools and resources that I have at my disposal, but I know you could probably serve God better in your own way.' and that shook me --
But now, hearing you say practically the same thing (at least how I remember it) years later, I think I understand what she was saying much better now.
Thank you for this video, I am attending my first Shabbat service on Friday and meeting with the Rabbi on Sunday. Everything you have said is me, I have always had this connection to Judaism that is unexplained
Thank you so much for this! Like Daisymque - I too have a yearning in my heart to be Jewish. When I was about 9 I moved to Germany (Father was in Air Force) and I learned very much about the Jewish people. After reading her diary, around the age of 12, I actually asked to visit the Anne Frank house as a birthday present. I felt such a connection to the Jewish people and even felt as if I experienced those horrors myself. (Reincarnation, perhaps?) Ever since then I have sought to convert. I have never been healthier in my life after changing my diet to a kosher diet. Even my doctor was baffled by the change. Also, I recently met a nice Jewish boy which I feel was a sign to finally convert once and for all. The Jewish people are an incredibly kind and loyal people. It is only when I am amongst them that I feel peace and love.
Lovely. And right all around. I particularly appreciated the section where you 'avoided labels' about types of conversion -- and you were correct there, too.
Rivka, yours words wounded my joy. I converted 5 years ago via a Reform synagogue. I understand that this conversion is not accepted by all, but I felt your words about the right way to convert were contradictory to the ideals you have mentioned in previous videos. You often say that everyone walks their own path and we are all here to serve in our own way... Conversion is about walking a path to truth. Perhaps, I can encourage you to think more deeply about conversion as a journey to a deeper truth, and that any step close is a mitzvah. Each person is entitled to a relationship with G-d, in which ever way that path may represent. Maybe in my next life I will be able to convert via Orthodox, but my Reform conversion has brought me that much closer... I respect your opinion, and realize it is shared by many others, but please try to understand that belittling anyone's conversion journey injures joy that G-d could be doing to lead them to a deeper truth.
Elisabeth Cunningham conversion is walking a path to truth, but the truth of Torah is expressed by halacha. Our sincerity isn't questioned, but the rabbonim who converted us don't recognise halacha (which is what we live our lives by) so how can their conversions be valid? Perhaps, one day, bezrat Hashem, you will undertake a halachic conversion and be a full member of am Yisrael. If you want to worship Reform, that would be your choice, but to really know the beauty of Yiddishkeit you have to be Orthodox. This is from someone who converted Reform (UK) and whose most fervent wish is to convert Orthodox one day. Kol tuv!
50% of the orthodox jews chenged their life to the consevatve or to the reform way of life. they are not want to compromise about the justic. they want the most justic in their life. comment me when your wife will be the community rabbi of your orthodox community.
Sorry but reform is reformed Judaism not authentic Judaism you may feel closer to God which is wonderful but it’s just not Judaism. There are many great gentiles who are God fearing and feel a closeness and recognise God . But to be Jewish there is only one way to keep the Torah and the mitzvah properly.
I am a convert. You told my story. I was a lost soul and found my way back. Conversion grounded me again and was in my soul from the beginning.. Thank you.
The "authentic process" is it reform or conservative conversions? I doubt it. Understand that RUTH, the original convert, didn't have Orthodox Rabbis breathing down her neck. She simply said " Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die, I will die…" The Orthodox DO NOT have an absolute power over who is or isn't a Jew via conversion. Perhaps talk about this in your next TH-cam vid.
What a beautiful loving discription. Shalom
Ever since I can remember I have felt such a connection to Judaism despite not be Jewish. I have felt so out of the place where I currently am. As I learn more and more about Judaism, I feel so close to what I am meant to do ( I am willing to share in the joys and the suffering of God's people) but also really distant because there is no one to guide me and I don't know if I really will fit in. Do you have any advice? Thank you for your video.
I am one of the souls longing to convert and I have for many years. What can I do if I don't live near a person I can talk too
Rivka Malka Perlman Thank You for your inspiring videos... I came across your channel because as you said, I'm one of those with a yearning heart. Since I was as young as 7 when I visited a local synagogue on a Religious Education field trip and walked around, I immediately felt a connection.. That's how I started my journey of gaining more knowledge. I'm 18 now, but when I was 10, I used to perform my own Shabbas in my bedroom and started to learn Hebrew words because of the conviction in my heart and soul.. Again Thank You for your words of advice, You have a wonderful heart ❤
Daisymque you sound like such a special person. Let me know if can support you in any way.
+Rivka Malka Perlman Thank you so much, I would love it if you could maybe explain more about the process of converting to me if you ever get the chance.. It's something that I'm really serious about doing now that I've left home!! Shabbat Shalom!!
+Daisymque the conversion process is long, and it changes you. You will need to be in communication with an Orthodox Rabbi and if this is indeed the road you wish to go down - then he will help you. There is a lot of learning, both in books and with people. What other specific questions do you have that I could help you with?
Can you explain to us about the naked ritual inspection/bath by three rabbis during conversion .
You are a beautiful soul!
I live out in the middle of a field in Utah. It's discouraging. For me, it isn't just a desire to convert to Judaism. I really feel like I have no other choice. For 20 years I have been drawn to Judaism and I have never been able to explain it until I really started studying Torah. None the less I have made very little headway in getting a rabbi to respond to me as far as conversion. I think I may have offended one. I'm not sure if asking them properly or if it's my complete inability to communicate when I'm nervous
You have a wonderful gift for words. You are a good teacher...and best of all, you are not annoying. Im pleasantly suprised.
I am currently a Noahide who does almost as many mitzvot (mitzvot for a Jew) as permissible. I definitely want to convert in the future and I have been studying Torah commentaries weekly. I know I would like to become a Hasid after conversion and most likely a Chabadnic however my knowledge of other Hasidim is quite weak. I would like to know how to find out which Hasidic group I should follow. I would feel foolish just going blind sighted into Judaism but it seems to me that so many different Hasdic groups it is impossible to have a detailed knowledge of all. Is there any easy into finding which is right for me? Also I read that at the time Moshiach (which I am sure is immenant) conversions should seize. Should I be worried about this or am I being selfish?
Very much enjoyed these videos
#4 Where does the Torah say that there is an afterlife?
As a child my aunt and all my extended family are Jewish. It’s sometimes so odd for me and i spend all this time reading mystical and interesting Jewish and Kabbalist texts. I have always felt like i was a part of the community. I’m not sure if i will convert, but it’s odd that so much of my life revolved around Judaism.
+Rivika Malka Perlman Can you convert when you are under 18, because I was born in a Christian family and since I was around 5 I wanted to become Jewish. I don't know what to do.
I've tried to convert to judaism since late 2012, I've talked with many rabbis telling them why I want to convert, describing like what you said "yearning soul" but they all seemed to discourage me: that I'm better off serving my g-d in my religion, that consequently limited my hopes on asking the Rabbis at the Shul anymore. Since 2013 I've been practicing Judaism and learning at home...
Adam, that is such a painful place to be. please don't give up. If its the real deal for you. follow it. You may need to move to a different community/rabbi
Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe being denied three times is part of the process of conversion. I think -- again, correct me if I'm wrong -- to make sure you've truly searched your soul and thought it through.
Excellent video.
Shalom Rivka I converted to Judaism about 1 year ago in a conservative synagogue. Since that time my journey has continued and has now brought me to the orthodox community in my city....after receiving daily emails from Chabad..that I singed up for when I was in conversion classes I find that I am able to identify with these ways of going about our lives much better than the other movement..Also My Husband Is Orthodox...so now I am finding that my original conversion is not acceptable to the beit din in Yisrael. I have been successful in finding a most wise Rabbi Altein to help me along in the process of an ortho conversion.. I really liked these videos you made so I though maybe I can share this info with you and get your ideas, opinions of my conversion journey or story...
HI Joy, your story is wonderful. It sounds like your journey has been healthy with a natural deepening of commitment. Welcome to the family!
This video brought tears to my eyes. I want so badly to convert to Orthodox Judaism. May it be HaShem’s will that my husband and I are able.
I just "discovered" you. I see in you an young, beautiful, free and happy version of myself. Your videos are very inspiring. Baltimore is an extremely significant place for me, even though I was only there for 3 days. It was 4 days after I visited the Ohel of the Rebbe. HaShem hit the reset button on my life. I'd love to talk sometime. Keep doing what you are doing. I know it is a BIG blessing to LOTS of people, including me! Shalom :-)
HI Dvora, I only now saw your comment It's great to meet you. Please look me up if you are in Baltimore.
I will treasure your invitation. I may be passing through on a trip to NY, Vermont this year. You are very kind to invite me. Shabbat Shalom / Gut Shabbos and have an inspiring Pesach! =D
My soul wants to convert me to judiasm this awakening proccess is amazing.
same!
That's amazing...no need to convert ( unless you want to be part of the nation) bec Hashem (Gd) loves everyone.... as a non jew, if you believe there is only 1 Gd , you need to practice the 7 Noah's law. Look up rabbi Reuven on TH-cam. He has more information on thus. And he has helped many to convert to Judaism. Best of luck.
that was a veary interesting discussion you can learn alot about people with deferent religons
I want to thank you for your love of our creator. Your videos I have been guided to and I am grateful because your love and devotion comes through which help keep me closer to our creator. Something I do not yet understand is happening within my soul. I will keep praying and seeking.
Hilary, thank you for being here with me!
I noted on the first video that Judaism and Wicca have many of the same beliefs and here again I find a similarity we to teach reincarnation and we do not missionise.
I'm so glad I found your videos
Hey Rivka, I'm 16 and have been very interested in becoming Jewish. I've had a bit of trouble with my parents, them being strictly Greek Orthodox. And it's been really hard for me, do you have any suggestions or tips?
I was born in a "Christian" home but never understood or had a any relationship with G-D. Here recently my husband, children and I have been going to a Messianic synagogue and have been understanding and getting closer with God more and more each day. My husband has even brought up the topic of converting to Messianic Judaism. My question is Is the process the same with Messianic? And if so How do you do it? If not Why is Messianic Judaism different from traditional Judaism? Other than the obvious Yeshua.
Interesting video I'm interested in learning more about Judaism.
My spouse does not want to convert, will that prevent me from converting to Judaism?
What is your opinion on Conservative conversions? I do not want to be a Reform Jew, but I feel as though I would not be accepted in Orthodox communities because 1) I am a nurse and do not intend to quit my job, 2) I am engaged to a non-Jew who is my soulmate, and 3) before starting my conversion journey I got tattoos. I want to do this fully and correctly and keep the Shabbat and kosher and raise my children in the faith.
You explain things so nicely, kol haKavod
Thanks.
I didn't know there were Jews that believed in reincarnation, that's interesting
We all do.
Yes, we do. :-)
Not sure WHO she is, but she is BEAUTIFUL, inside & out
You are smart!
Excellent
I would love to find my family.
thank you for your videos, ive recently felt the pull towards Judaism! sadly in the area i live the nearest Shul is 2.5 hours away.
So sorry to hear. You should be blessed!
Can I ask you a question
Thank u
You are very welcome!
Thank you so much for your inspiration :) One day, with the help of der Eibishter, I will have a halachic conversion (using the laptop on Shabbat is the one deliberate thing I do to break it!) Please keep making the videos, bracha v'hatzlacha!
Shalom. I am a Noahide but as I've mentioned to a friend who is a Jew now, I need more in my life.
But I do have a question: Will Christians, Muslims, Hindus, Pagans, and others get into the World to Come if they live a righteous life? I mean, most of the Noahide laws are moral/ethical rules that most people follow anyway except some people don't believe in the G-d of Abraham, Isaac, and Joseph. What will happen to those people?
YES. I touched in the first video , probably not clearly enough, but everything a person dies - regardless of their faith gets rewarded. We have many instances in the Torah where even the villains got rewarded for the little good they did. our experience in the World to Come is a direct refection of our world here. the spiritual awareness that we cultivate here is what will allow us to enjoy spiritual delights (after all, we are still ourselves, just without our bodies.) Therefore our experiences in the next world if we do not believe i G-d will reflect that limitation. But truly, I think everyone believes in g-d we just dont like that world - everyone believes in SOMETHING and that SOMETHING is the energy source that powers the world
Rivka Malka Perlman I like that view. I've always agreed with it. I have just heard some Jews say that since pagans worship multiple gods and goddesses that they won't enter the World to Come. I took what they said with a grain of salt. Thanks for answering and confirming what I already believe :)
i dont think that someone can answer that question. but if for example a muslim killed someone (sinner or criminal or murderer). may be in islam this man is righteous but in judaism it is unforgetabl. even if the highest justic judge court(HJC) "must" sentece someone to deth, all the 120 judges members must fast baptise and resign from the court and quit the job for good. they are not quolifide, to judge anymore. because israel must stay pure nation. (and the exicution can doen "only by gentil"). Except God, no one have permision to take life of anyone (except in case of life deffence situation). no one permited even to take his own life.... Now, how we call this moslim man?
Shula Lavy in the Quran it says
Chapter 5 v 32 "On that account: We ordained for the Children of Israel that if any one slew a person - unless it be for murder or for spreading mischief in the land - it would be as if he slew the whole people: and if any one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of the whole people. Then although there came to them Our messengers with clear signs, yet, even after that, many of them continued to commit excesses in the land."
I am pretty sure you will find a similar verse in the Torah. also to show that muslim in islam will not be seen as righteous
You mentioned the origional Jews were converts at Sinai. Are we seeing a new wave of conversions that is literaly saving Judism?
I'm in the process of converting (have been for years due to life circumstances, it hasn't happened yet, but all in Hashem's time, not mine), and when people ask me "how can you be Jewish if you weren't born Jewish" or they say "you will never really be Jewish because you weren't born Jewish/the real Jews will never accept you as being really Jewish" (none of this has come out of the mouths of other Jews), I like to use adoption of my analogy due to being adopted.
It doesn't matter that I am not related to my dad by blood (as my mom was my great aunt biologically but I never have and never could view her as anything less than my mom) that doesn't make him any less my dad. I was adopted into the Baird family which means that I am and always will be a Baird, and I am accepted as a Baird because of my adoption. I always like to view it as such, because being adopted was the best thing that could have happened to me! I love my birthmom but she was not ready to raise me at the time, she raised one of my three brothers by herself and co-parented another, out of the four of us, they are the only two to have ever been in trouble with the law, and my brother that she raised by herself (2 years younger than me) went hungry and grew up in shelters and ate beans for Thanksgiving. She wasn't ready to raise a child, and with me she didn't. I am so blessed and I love looking at conversion in that way.
I cannot wait until I can have the ability to go to the city and actually start my conversion, but due to health I do not have the funds to make that drive even once a week (closest shul is about 40 minutes away if traffic isn't bad). I use to get mad because of how long it is taking (4 years now due to moving and health reasons combined) but now, I view it as a beautiful process and Hashem believes that I need time.
For the past year, I strayed away slightly, learning about Asatru and giving it a shot as I am of Scandinavian decent. It wasn't for me. I longed for synagogue, I longed for the music that I use to listen to daily, I longed for my Torah (which was in storage up until a few weeks ago, so I relied on my phone) and I longed for that wholeness I use to feel.
I finally, cold turkyed it and I am back to listening to my music, reading the Torah from Genesis 1:1 to Deuteronomy 34:12. I am going to school soon and will be taking their Hebrew language course (it is a Christian college and the only one in town) and once I have a car and the funds, I will be going to Indy weekly again for shul and to speak to the Orthodox Rabbi there.
Hashem knew that I wasn't ready. Once a Jew, always a Jew, and I would have left, even if only for a year, and that would have been breaking mitzvot.
How can i become judiasm. please guid me ho can i convert to judiasm
I keep all the Holy Days, stay kosher and observe Sabbath, but I recently had a DNA test which said I had very little Jewish lineage in my ancestry,,,, That just can't be because my heart is 100% Jewish....
I am one of those people with a "Jewish soul". The only issue is I am a teen with parents that don't approve at all. And the other issue is the closest orthodox rabbi is 2 1/2 - 3 hours away. What should I do?
Study, study, study! Conversion is not easy and it takes a long time! I would study the Tanakh (what christians call the Old Testament), start eating kosher as best as you can, try to study some Hebrew, study about the holy days, anything at all, that way when you are 18, you will be ready for the long road ahead. You will never in your life quit learning, no matter how much you already know, start now.
Jessica Baird thank you for the advice I will get started as soon as possible.
Hi Rivka!Thank you for these informing videos about Judaism.Today is the day that I firstly started to explore "what Judaism really is." I am a muslim person who struggles with hardest questions about Islam such as the belief in Islam which former revelations of God such as Tora and Christian Bible had been changed by some monks.When I ask the question of "how do I know that Quran had not been changed?" myself,I can not get my response.If God guides mankind about what to do and how to live,his holy guide must be kept by God.Therefore I started to found Judaism more rational in this perspective and I just wanna learn what is the true epistemology of Judaism.What is the common denominator of all Jewish people.What should I read or learn to know it.I want to learn 100% absolute knowledge,not any comment nor controversial beliefs of monks nor etc.And I have a very important question.Why do rabbis seem to be unwilling against conversions to Judaism?Is this the religion of God or one of rabbis?Thank you for your smiling face on your videos by the way
Hi! My name is Maddy and I think you should check out this web site. carm.org/what-is-christianity
The website isn't about Jews.
It's about Christianity!
I am a strong southern baptist Christian and love The Lord! I hope this helps! Praying for you!
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Özgür Öztürk Typically, a rabbi will turn away someone wishing to convert in order to see whether the person deeply wants to convert. This is to be careful the person wants to convert for a reason that will not fade with time. It should not be because of marriage or as a temporary fad.
Read rambam sefarditas Jew who wrote so many Halacha and he mention that Islam is a true monoteis religion because you worship the same God of Jews worship
Is there a way to have two religions practiced in one home? I am Jewish, always have been, but my husband is Mormon, bloodline is Hebrew though. I converted to his faith before we got married, but I truly do not believe in it. Is there a way to coexist?
Unfortunately the LDS faith claims that they are the one true faith and that everything else is pretty much false teaching.
Thank you.
Hollie Peck I apologize i just saw this question. The difficult truth is that there needs to be one truth, thats what makes it the truth:) In terms of co existing, yes you can. but not because you share a faith, perhaps bc you love and respect each other enough to leave the other room for follow what they believe. I think that trying to mesh two religions just results in a mockery of what the religions were about in the first place (plus some very confused kids). DOes that make sense?
Yes ma'am.
+Hollie Peck I am Mormon. We believe that anything that brings you to G-d is good and wonderful. I am of Jewish descent and apply many MANY Jewish teachings to my life. Many of the teachings are the same. I have had more than one Rabbi tell me " If it weren't for the Jesus being the messiah, You would be a Jew" I celebrate Passover, I bake challah ( with the blessing) . We believe that each religion that leads you to do good and brings you closer to our Heavenly Father is good. As far as my kids go. They have no confusion. Because in all honesty the two religions marry quite well. It is where your heart is. If your actions and heart are in the right place you will be blessed. G-d wants us to happy. Men are that they might have joy!!
I'm just a kid I've always wanted to convert but my parents don't know and if they do know they will make me go to christian church so I don't join judsism but I want to convert how can I be jewish without anyone knowing
Alan Mejia you have to be 18 to convert but for now, learn.
I also feel like I too am a "Jewish Soul"
This videos are fantastic! Thank you! I'm catholic but I'm your subscriber because I really respect your way of life as you show it here. I've been always interested in judaism (I have dear jewish friends from college) and I admire the way you as people think about your mission in this world. Would you speak more about how some people feel and practice certain parts of judaism even though they are not jewish? You said you have some convert friends who experience that. Sorry for my english (spanish speaker here!). On a more mundane note, you look beautiful in these colors! Like you have jewels all around you, beautiful!.
Thank you! One exaple would be resting on Saturdy, not using the phone etc. Or keeping kosher bc those foods ring spiritual purity (as all kosher animals are gentle and non meat eaters) I know many women who cover their hair and they great about it as well
did u consider living in Jerusalem I mean can u if u are converted if you want?
yes, anyone caan live in Jerusalem. If you want to be a cover there you have to go through the Rabbinate though
i didnt know converts can live, thats interesting! didnt know i cant be cover without Rabbinate, thank you my dear
Rivka Malka Perlman do you think christians can live in Israel?
Modest America There are Christians and Muslims living in Israel :)
yea I know, but how can Christian make it legal to live in Israel? its imposible if you or your family are not Jewish.
Well I find it interesting that the love of my life decided to break up with me because he wants to convert. Mind you, we dated for 3 years and he never told me he wanted to convert to Judaism. He is 33 years old. So he broke up with me 3 months ago. Now his rabbi agreed and told him he will never convert unless I want to convert. So I guess it's true, I lost him for something I will never understand. I don't mean to be so mean but I feel like I'm cursed. I will never be happy and now I'm mad at G-d. I'm watching and doing research to understand but I don't feel anything except pain and hatred. I no longer wish to feel this way. So I guess I've decided to give up on love. Love and peace is something I will never have.
u are so cute Rivka!
I wonder if the Torah supports the doctrine of reincarnation ?
I want to convert to Judaism from Christianity im living in London UK. Great video really informative.
what was your religion before?
I have always been Jewish
I thought you reverted, thank you for respond!
I want to convert to Judaism but I have tattoos, is this going to hinder my ability to convert?
Hanna Hutchinson No, because you would have got them before you became Jewish, and when you go to mikveh you literally are 'born again' as a new Jewish person. You may come across a rabbi who might ask you to have them removed, but al pi halacha the tattoos were from your previous life, so should not impede you in any way :) Kol tuv!
+Yvette Moore One can only be born again by the power of the Holy Spirit through faith in the Messiach
That's what you believe, and that's fine, but I'm a Jew and that's what halacha says. You are reborn as a Jew, so whatever happened before is washed away in the mikveh. Sound familiar?
Shalom.
GROW UP!
#3 anyone can convert fully to
Judaism according to the Torah
I heard a Rabbi say that once one converts, he/she cannot go back. There is a higher standard that a person is judged by.
I would love to convert, but the circumstances I am in tells me that now is not the time... I don't know any jews in my area... they are kind of hiding.... :)
Am I allowed to be homosexual and transgendered?
+Mamo.Polska i know a gay in Israel and he never (not that i notice atleast) get's discriminated! and i would never discriminate a gay!! it's disrespectful. i don't know cases about transgenders so i can't answer that sorry,but shalom aleichem
+Mamo.Polska if you are not Jewish by birth you may find it difficult having a proper Orthodox conversion as it (nowadays) entails acceptance of all 613 mitzvot, including a commitment to having children, not engaging in homosexual acts (male is Torah prohibited, female is Rabbinically prohibited as the customs of Egypt). However, I believe there are several genders recognised in Rabbinic literature, for what it is worth
Judaism believes in reincarnation?? :O Is it actually found in the Torah? or is it an opinion?
Yes, all the commentators tlak about it but it is not explicit. It is part of kabbalah which is the secrets of life
- Here is a link to some very deep info on the subject. Ill try and make a video about it to condense it www.projectmind.org/exoteric/souls.html
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gilgul
Opinions vary though.
Christianity believed in reincarnation until the Niacin Counsel removed it from text along with other modifications.
YHVH--------- in Hebrew pictographs ...
YOD=hand/arm.
HEY=behold, "hey" come over here and look.
VAV= nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure.
HEY=behold, HEY come over here and look.
Hand behold, nail behold. The crucifixion is in YHVH name!
The word Torah in Hebrew pictographs backwards...
HEY=behold, HEY come over here and look.
RESH/ROSH= head
VAV= nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure.
TAV= cross, mark, covenant.
Hey look the Head nailed on the cross.
Proverbs 30:4 - Who has ascended up into heaven, and descended? Who has gathered the wind in his fists? Who has bound the waters in his garment? Who has established all the ends of the eretz? What is his name, and what is his SONS'S name, if you know
Aleph= א=God=Elohim=יהוה
ALEPH in Hebrew. =אלפ
That's three letters in one word.
The gematria of the word aleph is 111 which is 3 numbers of number 1 in the word, aleph. Three in one.
The aleph which stands for God has 2 yods=hands and 1 bent vav =6 the number of man. also =nail, tent Peg, fasten, secure.
So you can say that in the name of Elohim is a man with teffilin on His head bent over humbled and reaching out his two hands to pull Heaven and Earth together in himself the mashiac ben David... Jesus/Yahshua... Connecting, fastening, them to HIMSELF!
And of course that Aleph equals 26 the number of Elohim himself...
Elohim is a PLURAL word! Not singular.
The Aleph as said before had 2 Yods and 1 bent Vav that is another 3 in 1...!
Also the Paleo ancient Hebrew Aleph has three lines that make up 1 Aleph, three in one once again!
The Maschiac was already here once and he will come back again. That's why you have the two Heys in יהוה NAME for the two comings of HIM! Hey= behold, look over here at something important!
And there's SO much more!
I am a Muslim by born But I want to convert my self to be a Jewish.
The idea that the Jewish people have never been interested in proselytizing is absolutely historically false . Recall if you will , the second paragraph of our beautiful prayer "Aleinu"--- "And so we hope in You Adonia our God , soon to see Your splendor : That You will sweep idolatry away so that false gods will be utterly destroyed , and that You will perfect the world by Your sovereignty so that all humanity will invoke Your Name , and all the earth's wicked will return to You , Repentant ". The prayer is an appeal for the end of paganism ,the removal of all idols and idolatry ; and the recognition of HaShem's Sovereignty by all humanity ! During the period before the destruction of the second Temple ( 70 c.e.) , Judaism attempted to realize it's Universal aspect by aspiring to become the belief of all humanity ! Active proselytism was therefore an integral part of Judaism , with no small measure of success. This continued until the eventual persecution of roman christianity when under Constantine it was ruled that the spreading of Judaism was punishable by death ! The proselytizing campaign subsided creating the mindset that Jews not only don't proselytize but that we should push potential converts away ! Nothing could be further from the Truth -- Learn about our great Sage Hillel who the Talmud reveals was always open to convert the non-Jew on the basis of sincerity of heart .. Learn the Talmudic lessons of Hillel and the three converts , when his opponent Shammai was quick to throw tools at potential converts Hillel received them and instructed them with love ! Anyone who is interested in the historicity of this subject I highly recommend a book written by well respected Jewish author and scholar , Joseph Telushkin ,"HILLEL If Not Now,When?". 😀 Shalom.
Thank you for these interesting informations‼️
Shallim all .I love Jews
I am Muslim, converted to Islam from Christianity 5 months 1 week ago today :) I do want to learn about Judaism and get to know it as I already have knowledge of Christianity and now Islam, but Judaism is the first part of the message of Islam, so I am into studying it more.
Rob da man You were never Muslim why are you deceiving ppl spawn of Satan
I wonder, if it were possible how many people who are trying to "convert" were murdered during the holocaust and through reincarnation have returned to this place. However it seems that they have been "mis-directed" between this life and that one, and are looking to return to that aspect of their former life? The Jews are a stiff necked and stubborn lot... even to the point of vexing their own divine being... If that's not love, I don't know what is. And like the woman points out, you're gonna have to be tough and persevere. If that's what you are truly meant for...
can blacks be jewish
Alan Mejia of course
Of course!
I'm a child of God and by my faith/repentance and prayer .. I will go to his Kingdome if you believe in Jesus and his sacrifice you are a part of his family, that's why you fill Jewish …. those that follow him will enter the Haven then our Fathers house has many rooms for his children … and agree with Rivka you do not need to convert … to serve our Lord and Father .. ask him and he will guide you all you have to do is listen with your hart not your ears …