WHEN THE INFJ EMBRACES THEIR EXTRA-ORDINARY LEARNING STYLE (this happens)
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: The INFJ has a unique way of learning that can be difficult to navigate at times. They often feel as if they're being judged for their slower pace, but the truth is we all have our own strengths and weaknesses when it comes down to how quickly or slowly someone learns things in life!
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We might be slow but once we figure out the pattern we run circles around others. We also take the patterns we learn and figure out how to apply them to other areas of life!
Don't be hard on yourself. You're more than likely not slow at all. I used to think I was, but something changed. Hopefully you could relate.
I believe that INFJ's give the _appearance_ of being slow because we have the tendency to be over analytical. I'm an INFJ-T (the broken kind lol). When I was growing up, I had a lot of abandonment issues. I didn't have a father and my mother wasn't able to meet my emotional needs. I was picked on and emotionally neglected. So growing up, I developed a social anxiety disorder. And because I was so anxious to not say the wrong thing, to make sure my voice was not too loud or too low, to make sure I made eye contact, but without starring and soooooooo many other things I was focused on all at once, that it gave analytical paralysis.
In other words, I was a computer who thought I didn't have a lot of RAM in my processor. But my RAM was fine the whole time. It's just that I was running waaaaaaaay too many programs at once, uploading and downloading movies while playing video games - all at the same time... so of COURSE my system crashed. There was too much information processing in my head that I could barely speak. So when I would take too long to respond to question, it gave the _appearance_ that I didn't have the answer.
I was hurt a lot. People really looked down on me. My closest friends thought I was dumb. But after I realized that a lot of people are generally immoral and untrustworthy, the less I cared how people saw me. And the less I gave a shit of what other people thought about me, the easier it was for me to think. And it turns out that not only am I not dumb, but most people I know consider me quiet intelligent, both friends and co-workers. My first clue was how I could be BRILLIANT when I'm alone or chatting online, but "slow" when I was speaking to someone in person. It was my nerves, not my intellect, that was the problem.
Sorry if I rambled and made no sense. It just bothered me to hear you call yourself "slow". You write well and there's no indication of you being "slow".
@@sirdopaminesjournal3292 That was a great self-analysis. I have explained my own communication style in very similar terms. I had a similar childhood experience and realization about people as an adult.
This is exactly how I learned math. I was slow to figure it out because I was discouraged of all the talks about math being so hard but now, I actually enjoy solving math problems because of the patterns I figured 😆.
Hello. But, you can't figure out new patterns without PAIN! Not everything can be narrowed down to known stuff. Especially if you chose science as your profession. It's our nature as INFJ to try to apply known patterns, but when you don't have one, you rely on external pieces of data that are seemingly not connected. You have to use external sensing, that is the opposite of your internal intuition (Ni), and often times you need to set aside a piece that you can't connect to what you know/understand until you connect other pieces, some more pieces. And your Ni is fighting against that, it wants to connect it immediately, you can't put it down. That piece bugs you like a pea bugs the princess bellow 100 matrasses. But Ni can't connect it. And you lose immense amount of time. Especially in science (I'm an electrical engineer). I cannot state how much time I have lost trying to figure out new field/lesson or to get the "formula" myself without looking at the solution. Learning is hard for us. And in some professions you have to learn new stuff your whole life. I'm 38 yo, and I fight to learn every day. And doesn't matter how much I know, I always have the feeling that I know nothing. There is just to much that is needed to even make a pattern! I just hate that!
@sirdopaminesjournal3292 you made perfect sense, at least to another INFJ-T 😂
You weren't rambling, you made very good and relatable points all throughout the post.
Don't apologize for sharing your thoughts.
We all apologize too much and too often for explaining ourselves.
Be you, and be proud of you.
You have a unique and amazing mind.
I always felt like I was a slow learner and a lot of my teachers in High School and the other kids treated me like I was because I have a different learning style. This greatly discouraged me from putting in a solid effort at school. The teachers requested that I be put in special Ed classes and hired a specialist to come in and evaluate me with tests that measure cognitive ability. The specialist told my teachers the results and that I was not cognitively slow but the opposite. I was gifted and needed higher-level classes that the small High School didn't offer to make learning challenging enough for me. I hated High School and the other students and it was a bad experience for me because I felt like a misunderstood outcast which I was. I later went to college and am a straight-A student as I pursue my passion in life which is educating others about health and fitness.
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Me too I was also put in special needs classes even tho I didn't have any sort of learning "disability" as they thought with no diagnosis, they believed I struggled with staying focused but honestly I was taught to HATE school due my narcissistic/overbearing ISTJ father even in a young age sitting me down to do math problems with a belt in his hand. I hated the concept of authority and people controlling me so I subconsciously choose to and that remained absolute to adult hood I was a very stoic yet explosively emotional child. I had trouble with the overload of details feeling overwhelmed by the pressure that I was put to learn things right away my child brain was just like "wtf I ain't doing this shit" and would rather zone out to my imagination. I had a habit of getting in trouble for standing up to my teachers. I had an eye for significance and always questioning what matters to me and everyone else I hold dear and how I apply that information to my life to be more connected to them and what can I learn from the experiences of others to inspire me to do what I want to do. I enhanced my Ni by dissecting visual concepts and creating my own questions through T.V shows and music I liked analyzing since I grew up really liking music and I've met amazing music teachers along my way who thought me the significance of words and expression. I was praised for being talented and intelligent by my teachers but also labeled "easily distracted" which is weird to me cause I didn't give 0 fucks about school so I could care less about work constantly labeled "lazy" but when i got invested . this took me an hour to type how embarrassing :/
Can relate in many ways. Often didn't finish exams because I do things slowly. Another INFJ struggle. Most of life been underestimated but I'm onto some amazing personal projects now.
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I got average grades all the way through school, and then I was told that I was the smartest kid in the class. It never occurred to me that my learning style didn't match the way I was taught.
I feel it worth noting that often it is not the infj that gives up on themselves but the teacher or the boss or the coworker that gives up on the injf in the real world
Or the parent just thinks your lazy and dumb.
Always happen to me at work and it never fails to make me feel like I am stupid.
Yep, so many have given up on me. But I always figure it out and love seeing the look on their face when I do
Here is the funny thing about how we learn things. At times we will learn things slowly because we approach subjects in a very methodical way. We don't just want to learn it , we want to understand and own it. When others think we are learning something slowly we are in fact miles ahead what they think we know. So never let their comments bring you down, they are the true slow learners. take care everyone.
THANK YOU. I was reading the comments section and couldn't believe how many INFJ's were calling themselves "slow". We're _not_ slow. We're analytical. We take longer because they're soaking up every single detail. At least that's how it is with me.
In my case (not sure if other INFJ's feel this way) I cannot memorize things I don't give a shit about. If I don't see a purpose in learning something, I will not retain information.
@@sirdopaminesjournal3292 I think you might have misunderstood what I said about slow and miles ahead. I like most if us can devour a new subject in a staggering amount if time. However we don't let on to others that we know something until we have thoroughly taken it in. None of us are slow. Yes we dissect each subject but not at a snaiks pace. Enjoy the ride!
@@PLHogan I agree.
Exactly hahaha, we got to master it not just learn it.
I love how I learn. I know that I know more than other people in the end because I learned about the process and not just some steps. I can make better decisions and solve problems intuitively. Learning to go from A to B to C is faster, but faster isnt always better.
The problem I have is finding an employer who sees value in process not just results. INFJs give results after process and the results are worth the wait. I just feel very discouraged that all I seem to hear is work faster.
I love being an INFJ, but living in this world is very painful.
Well I could give you a job opportunity if you’re that good. You get paid up to 1000 USD biweekly.
@@lukebarrett2317that's barely national minimum wage in the UK. I can get paid that for sweeping floors. Is your job easier money than that?
Learning that INFJ's are exponential learners was a game changer for me and suddenly made sooo much sense! I was afraid of learning new things for so long but have since tried so many new things and have a new level of confidence!
I always felt like I was a slow learner and needed to learn more visually and hands-on/kinesthetic. I was diagnosed with a learning disability in elementary school which gave me low confidence and was subjected to bullying. Even the special ed people didn't help me. They made me feel stupid and the special ed teacher in high school would just tell me that my math looked hard when I told them I had trouble with algebra and I felt like no-one really helped me. Maybe I just needed to be in more creative writing, music and theater/drama classes because I always excelled in the art classes. In fact, my artist friends are surprised that I can write poetry, lyrics, comedy material and yet struggle in school and work. I actually have always learned things in a more abstract way than memorization. It's like I remember things when I see or do something, but I can't understand if people just tell me things. It took me years to realize I'm not learning disabled, I'm just learning different.
I'm not a fast learner. My mind takes awhile to absorb new information and I really have to think and read it over until I get it. This does not discourage me from learning. I never give up I keep moving ahead but once I learn I never forget it.
Are you doubting your ability to achieve what you want as an INFJ because of your unique learning style?
😁 Nope.
I'm autodidact, the only thing I learned in school is reading, writing & simple math, the rest I figured out myself.
🤔Luckily I've figured out *HOW* to think very early in life so wasn't that much affected when school taught me *WHAT* to think. I guess this plays a huge role in why I'm a cognitive empath?
Unlike most people I don't feel the urge to compare myself with others, which made it easy for me to be a loner who doesn't need others for validation. I knew early on that I was unlike the vast majority so made 0 effort to be like them.
🧠The 1st thing I did was figuring out what society is and what it's function is and once I had figured this out I could plan how to make society work for me instead of just becoming another cog in the machine.
😎I guess that from the very start I instinctively was looking for the ultimate work-live balance for myself.
The greatest thing about our Ni and Fe combination is that if your family envirement was positive to what you naturally feel inside, you will never doubt your self for what your learning style is because what you see from your closest ones when you are child becomes your basic and undoubtfull beliefe in your self. I have never been pushed from my parents to be something that don't comes for me naturally, to be competitive, to be the leader, to be ambitiouse, to be first in everything, no one has never told me to change myself because „I'm broken“. It's my father that gave me that undoubtfull beliefe in my self most of all by subtale clues and that is what we are best in - reading the subtale informational background and transform what fits to what we feel about our selfs into confidence with the help of our Fe that make us feel the envirement around us even better. Moreover my father loves to demonstrate his personal boundaries not just by subtale signals. In simple words I have never had occasions to doubt myself deeply as I was a child so my specifics as an INFJ are more of an occasion for me to feel resentment to people who can't understand my differences than to turn the resentment against me as a generalizations like „I'm stupid, I'm incompetent, there's something wrong about me“ and things like that. After all we are all people and for us this is not just a combination of words. This phrase contains such a powerfull subtale sense - „aknowledge me, not because I want to, but because we all need to aknowledge one onother with all of our prons and cons, with all our rationality and madness. I can be introverted, I can be slightly weired, but I'm just a man like you“. It's so easy to see how things are linked in a unique way. This was very inspiring.
Kind of. I am an INFJ artist and what I’ve really been struggling with is my creativity. I feel I am getting too stuck in the process and am not expressing myself enough.
@@claydandrade5424 Childhood Blocks of Trauma, HEAL YOURSELF. Find out what you want to do Creatively and once you hone in on it. GO FOR IT. Much Love. 💯✊🏾💙
All the time.
I swear sometimes I wonder if I'm on the autism spectrum then I watch a Wentz's video and realize no I'm an INFJ that's why. 😁 Its been a journey but I am so happy to understand myself and use it to my advantage.
in my case I happen to be both! I think it might be quite common
@@fuzbugg - I can imagine it is common. My nephew is autistic and we have similar traits. I feel like I understand him because of my INFJ traits.
I totally understand what you mean. So much of my personality would in some respects fit with autism (my youngest daughter was diagnosed with autism at 3 years old) but other traits do not.
Yes this video and her channel are truly amazing and valuable.
I have a question.. do you guys consider yourselve to have bad memory? I mean.. just random numbers.. like dates, history, street names? Everything i can understand i can remember.. but something without any context.. im like mentally impaired :D
1) I only remember things that have my interest.
2a) I generally forget details, but always remember the bigger picture, cauz I can look up the details on the internet.
2b) I always forget people's names, but never faces cauz I can always ask the name when I've forgotten it.
Learning I am an INFJ. When we get older you realize you are intelligent. People used to say I was intelligent when I lived in Hawaii and Florida. A guy friend used to call me Genius. I thought I fooled them somehow because I knew I there's alot I didn't know. I loved living out West and Florida because there were intelligent people I was exposed to.
Just an fyi, you might want to look into the differences between "inductive reasoning" and "deductive reasoning". One of the ways you utilize mathematics as a means of explaining the difference between linear learning and exponential learning, is the exact same way I explained the difference between inductive versus deductive reasoning.
Inductive reasoning is where you collect personal experiences, memorization of the data, etc etc... And deductive reasoning is where you learn the structure of mathematics and then formulate an argument with a premise (a reason for believing a thing) and a conclusion (the thing itself).
To oversimplify I usually talk about memorizing 1 + 2 = 3, 2 + 2 = 4, and 2 + 3 = 5. You have enough experience telling you over and over the these are how things function, this is a collection of knowledge that you've acquired inductively. At this point though, the only thing you've had personal experience with and know for sure exists are the numbers 1-5. Those are the only numbers that you've experienced.
But, deductive reasoning allows you to make an argument such as...
P1). If 1-5 exist.
P2). And if mathematics functions the way it seems to.
:. Then, other conceptualizations of numbers such as 6,7,8, 9, and 10 must also exist.
[EDIT: Whereas inductive learning prioritizes memorizing P1, deductive reasoning and exponential growth requires figuring out P2 as well, and then applying it in a valid and sound argument. This might also be one of the reasons as to why it's "slower"... There are more steps, you have to "learn" them yourself, and they're more difficult than memorization.]
The person that prioritizes inductive learning will think that you're nuts. They will make the assumption that you're slow, or that you're inventing something to make yourself seem smart. They'll try to argue with you, correct you, and state that it's obvious that the numbers 1-5 exist, but they've never heard of such a wild thing as those other numbers that you're trying to talk about.
And both the person that prioritizes deductive reasoning, and a person that instead of linear learning, prioritizes this type of exponential learning, they will be able to deduce the underlining mechanisms, and what they infer about the rest of reality.
This is how I exactly feel when it comes to learning new things or a task at a new job, I feel like i'm slower than others who master things so easily. But once, we INFJs had gathered all the knowledge or information about doing certain things and make a pattern behind it thru the use of NI-TI, we had this magic of doing things on autopilot because we accumulate information about the needed skills, talents and abilities required on creating an infj epic life, changing our concept of reality, stepping out from our comfort zone that doenst overwhelmed us. It feels like we reach the peak of the tip of the mountain after hours of climbing to the top ❤️🤗. If we master things on the long term, we catapult to even more bigger success and happiness in life.
🙌 Wow, you are an *exceptional* teacher.
So well researched and articulated. The analogies you use are always so helpful.
My whole body exhaled listening to this video…
I feel like I finally got WHY my mind functions as it does, and why I sometimes feel so slow or far behind others when picking up new info - my body’s intuitive senses are *feeling* into PATTERNS.
I’m a very kinesthetic person, so it makes sense why that seems so crazy accurate.
So I’m understanding that this is all actually a superpower and embracing this gift is where my magic lives! 🤗🦄
Your words reminded me of the power of continuing to practice the Art of Self-Permission and to keep on sculpting out my life on my terms.
Appreciating you and your wonderful work, Wenzes. Thank you! 💖
The key for INFJ growth is to think hard instead of working hard. The hard workers will win initially, but the hard thinkers will get to the end first!
Yes. I like this baby-step-style. It doesn't discourage me. Instead it keeps me going with a good energy.
After a series of tests given to me when I was 12, the psychologist noted in his assessment: Ability to remove the garbage as opposed to the what is needed in the learning process...unusually high.
Not to contradict!
We're not slow, World just too fast.
Yea im thinking about the same from time to time. But then again, imagine like 200 years ago.. From one hand it was easier, since the information overload was nothing, comparing to today.. but then again people were stuck in some sick patterns in life, without even hope for change..
Lol fast, impatient ans sloppy and not truly understanding crap. Is that even goals ? 🙉
I'm always impressed with how Wenzes starts with an iffy premise, then roles it into something else with a lot of supporting reasoning.
when I was a child and was learning how to carry over I had a lot of trouble because I did not understand how it got there. The teacher finally told me it was magic and just works.
Poor teacher. They should not have to resort to magic.
It's all so true. English is my second language. When I was learning it ages ago, I'd always read grammar books instead of exercise books, I compared sentences, words, structures - in order to understand how the native speakers think. I saw multiple correlations between various structures. The other students had to learn separate structures: 1, 2, 3 and 4. To me, structure 3 was a combination of structures 1 and 2 and structure 4 was a combination of structures 2 and 3. So, in fact, I only needed to understand structures 1 and 2 and I knew that I'd figure 3 and 4 out by myself. The more you understand the less you need to learn.
Now I have the same with Dutch. My spelling is better than that of most native speakers. Why? Because I noticed that Dutch and English have more or less the same grammatical structure. I know when and which form of the verb I should use and I discovered the spelling patterns for each tense. Very often, I only need to look at the first word of the sentence and at the verb, without reading the sentence, and I already know if the verb is misspelled or not. They often say that Dutch spelling is difficult to which I reply "Oh, it totally isn't!", but when I try to explain it all to the natives, they just don't understand me. It's as if I am speaking Chinese. They don't see what I see.
People were always harping at me as a child that I was too slow, so I agreeably decided to do my work faster. Then I got harped at for missing details. (Details not a strong suit for the INFJ.) As I got older, I figured that chose pushing for accuracy over speed was tge best bet at the beginning because the accuracy was more important. I learned to break things down into pieces and take little bits at a time, and after a while the speed improved. Whether it would be as good or as fast as someone else was questionable but at least I could say I gave it the best effort.
In retrospect, I realized that this was the beginning of two basic principles of getting any job done and it probably applies to any personality type but certainly to us INFJs in particular.
1. Sometimes we have to take time to save time.
2. Sometimes we have to slow down to speed up
I have a hunch that often we INFJs end up learning some things more thoroughly even though it seems slow at the beginning. And interestingly enough, planning ahead and taking time to save time and slowing down to speed up actually can save time for us and help us to turn in good work. And after a while, we can get faster - and get even better. I think of the patterns that you mentioned as part of the breaking down of tasks into smaller pieces and setting up a pattern. I think it's a wonderful way to get to really know something well.
You've described the pattern making process well. Another super video worth reviewing - lots. ❤
thank u so much 4 this!.🙏....i hv struggled with this my whole life!
I have always felt that most people start at 0% and I started at -15% BUT felt that most people max out at 100% and I max out at 115%. When I've gotten good at a certain thing, I got REALLY good at it. Maybe it's just me?
Happens to me too. I'm always hesitant to learn something new just cause I know it will take me a long time. Especially group work like classes. But if I just keep persistent I end up being very good .
I've noticed in my life when learning something new, I'll often feel like I'm stuck and clueless, like I hit a wall. Then, I may be doing something completely unrelated that provides new information and BOOM it clicks and I fully understand the new thing I've been learning to do and excel from there. Usually it's from a conversation.
I love this. I used to think that throughout my school life (as I have appalling recall; yet it’s all in there esp at 2am 🤦🏻♀️) I sat for an interview not knowing that there will be a mathematical test ;5q’s in 1 minute. As I had no time to think, I did the high number multiplication q’s, with 35 sec’s to spare. 5/5 correct. I was 42. The first time in my life, I realised I wasn’t dumb. Throughout school, I could never remember which was Fiction, which was non Fiction. I developed this thing where, I pause and think ok, this was bulls##t this was is no bs, it works every time without panic. I now share it with humour and not embarrassment. 🥰🙏🏻❤️🧡
I tend to be a slow learner, and sometimes no no progress in learning despite my best efforts, and I think it’s important to mention finding someone who teaches things the right way for you. I love math - when I can understand it. When I can’t, it can literally drive me to tears. I actually cried every time in class for Geometry. The teacher would belittle me in front of my peers, too. Then I traded schools after moving states and came across the best math teacher ever. I got the highest grade in her class, and was able to pick up what I wasn’t getting before QUICK because this teacher laid out the basics in a way for me to understand!
Yes, INFJs are slow learners. Yes, INFJs learn at an exponential rate. But most importantly, yes, INFJs need an array of different techniques to learn.
I have always excelled at everything I do. I do learn differently though. But i retain information and never forget. This video is at such an exact moment that I needed it, as I feel overwhelmed with a huge changelle ahead. Love your videos!☺💃❤
My mother told me that I was smart, but the teachers had not read the memo at that time. I listened to her and went to university and never looked back.
Ended up doing way better in my career than classmates who had been known geniuses throughout how school.
I sit back and analyze everything. I read tendencies through sound, sight, smell and feel to create a trend in my head in order to predict “what if’s” or to solve a problem. In my job the difference between a good chemical process operator and a great one is “troubleshooting”. And this can be useful in any job. I’m happy to find your channel and catching up on videos.
As a process operator too I did the same. Work smart, not hard. I learned the intricacies of what the design engineers put together, and would optimize the process to maximize yield.
Great video! One of the coolest things I've discovered is relatively unique to INFJ is that we can learn something new, whether it be a golf swing or a new instrument(or a first one). Biology, astronemy... I'm pretty sure it applies to most things, anyway, we can practice and do the actual practice reps, virtually, in our mind with such accuracy that it improves our performance. We can perform thought experiments in our mind that even account for other people's emotional reactions and be spot on.
On the bad side, i really wish that i WASN'T so good at spotting patterns and when things are off, because usually, i would have rather not have
I liken my style to a steam train. Takes hours to warm up the system before the train can even move, takes forever to get up to speed, but incredibly difficult to stop once we are up to speed.
That's why there are so many university people among INFJ. Often INFJ is considered to be "slow" in elementary school, "just ok" in secondary school, but brilliant, as soon as they get to university. Because in the childhood many adults expect chidren to learn by listetning patiently, remembering & repeating, what the adults say. But in the university young adults are expected to find their own ways of understanding, how the world works, how the problem can be solved, how the necessary results may be achieved. University students are simply allowed & incouraged by their superiors to use their brains & creativity, - not only their memory & patience, like the children in the elementary school.
Poetical translation of songs drawing learning my 5th language which is Japanese I'm a master of both words and actions I am able to talk the talk and also walk the walk meaning I execute my plans and goals,dreams to reality
Fak.. if i only knew about this expotential learning curve.. that would save me so much doubts about many situations :)
“Dont compare your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 20”💯🎯
Hi, great channel and i have been able to put into words so many aspects of my personality. But i have a question: i am both an IFNJ and have Asbergers, i can see so many similarities that I was wondering if you could tell me what the differences are, thanks again!
definitely needed to hear that today! a coworker asked me "what's taking you so long?" i can't seem to press it off -- now i know it's my learning style and i'm trying my best.
I was put in a "special" math class one year in 3rd grade. In high school I never missed an algebra problem, not on homework, quiz, test or bonus problem. All 100% correct. 102.3% that year. I had one entire 25 problem homework I did not do at all so it is beatable. My daughter come so close!! I taught myself Calculus in 2 days and 3 nights just to help a girl I liked with her college class. I wondered later in life if I "a quiet poor kid" was put in that class by the school for money, I learned that I did have a hard time learning things but after I did I was the best, well maybe not the best but close.
you are so right
what you are saying!
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Wenzes, I am very glad to see that you are getting better and better. We will improve our lives and the lives of the whole world!
All this time of my life i always struggling because i can't explain my point or even how i learn things. I am in my point that i undeveloped my Fe not just because i am type 5 (by enneagram) but because I always struggle to connect to people because of how i think. I'm not that typical INFJ that can balance the Fe and Ti. Because when i use Fe i always a listener to the point i don't tell anyone what's on my mind cause i know they rather don't understand it or majority wins as always.
Just as a simple example, not getting into all the major things of my experience... I'm doing domestic labor in a hospital the past year... I ask a lot of questions, I always slower than others... they pretty fast... but I'm reliable cos I do it properly and I have my reasons for what I choose to do... If I'm in a hurry I'm clear in my mind what I can skip and what not...
When all the agency temps had gone, I was still there... and finally they got a few more... even though we were going to be all ended... This past week, I do two wards in the evening, they faster, someone jealous that I have easy two wards and she has hard ones... When she made a snarky remark it got under my skin, but I went to the supers and I said I can't do this fast enough to help the other ward... Only maybe half the time... But at the end of the week they still turned to me to fill in some other wards as well as my own... And I was able to do it.
Sometimes people really surprised when I do something extra fast. And still do it properly.
Also in karate I was recognized for doing really fast moves. But a taekwondo teacher who didn't know me well assumed I'm slow cos he couldn't see my speed...
What if you’re the exact opposite? Because I’ve never felt like a slow learner and in school was always congratulated for being quick to learn even now in the real world. My math teacher in highschool actually use to get mad that I would ace the test but I would never study nor do homework
i actually have 200 hobbies😅
I really appreciate this video.
I have often said that i think in patterns.
I often challenge myself to build my confidence. Most times I'm scared to attempt a new skill, but once I do I tell myself that wasn't to bad after all.
Thanks for your encouraging videos.
Ssssooo, I kinda love you. 💚😎
To those it may concern. Small improvements daily really does seem to keep the discouragement at bay. As an example. I’m learning to play guitar. The daily improvement I look for is slightly smoother and more coordinated finger movements with the simple spider walk practice. Slightly more consistent note ringing with up stroke and down stroke picking. Nothing else. I’m taking this approach after years of disappointment trying to learn bass guitar. I don’t understand music theory, the fret board, chords. Non of it. Yet.
Lionheart is a skill we have 😁
I find myself acting on 6 mo old info. I get a hit of intuitive reward then remember learning it
Same , it all of a sudden clicks.
OMGosh, I am always doing that. I will hear "jarring" or important information that most people act on immediately, but it doesn't really sink in for weeks or even months later. In business, I have to surround myself with people who can think on their feet, as that is something I cannot do. I also express myself much better in writing, then verbally. Finally, I HATE my phone for business, as I am no great at fluid, impromptu conversation, and I definitely can't make decisions on the fly like that. Thank you for your post....
Repetitive is for traing the subconscious habits so you continue and don't give up
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Thanks for always supplying me with the little boost I need exactly when I need it.
This is brilliant! I've never heard this concept about infj's.
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Thankyou much needed
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i am so glad i am me!
My learning style is different but can easily be seen as slow from the outside looking in. Conversely, there are things I just know and it is not something I could logically explain.
And, wow you're pretty 😍
I'm an INFJ and I learn really fast especially when it comes to things I like. But I'm also Multi talented. Probably because of my OCD.
I think the Introverted Intuition, that takes us a long term
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When I was in highschool, if there was a 'most improved' award for something, I always knew I was going to get it haha. I often felt like I was a slow learner, but after the initial 'slow' phase I always caught up, or outpaced my peers. It's nice to understand why.
Best youtube channel for me rn. I'm impressed with how different your perspective is from everything we see on TH-cam. Thank you. And your eyes are amazing too 😂
We recognize patterns like 9X6 = 60-6 / 9X7=70-7 / 9X8 = 80-8 / 9X9 = 90-9. This way, if I forget a value, I use these patterns to remember. I use patterns to understand many other things in life. This also makes it harder for charlatans to manipulate me. Intuition is like a rudder to guide me as I navigate life.
*I'm done sitting tight for the award advance since i acquire$23,000 every 12 days of my investment, in all you do put God first.❤*
HOW! I would really appreciate if you show me how to go about it. Please can you list the platforms ?
After my encounter with Mr Charles Schwab in the United States, my life have totally changed. Yours can also change it’s just a matter of commitment and focus.
I’m astonished, I thought I am the only one familiar with Mr Charles, he handles my account too.
My first investment with him gave me profits of over $27k U.S dollars and he does not fail
His trading income stream is mind blowing, I also trade with him . I've made $62,000 so far trading with his guidance/advice .
Thanks Wenzes! This is a really good one
Recently read about kaizen and ikigai.
Very INFJ concepts, it seems.
I stay stuck on things in life longer because I see the patterns behind behaviors and will look at things from every angle or perspective to know the why behind it and try to break the pattern. So when I mess up or a cycle in life that isn’t good repeats itself I’m extra hard on myself.
I've noticed this too
In elementary school, we had to memorize the multiplication tables. After hours of agony, I figured out the trick.
Ive always thought of my mind like a stove. When i am unsure about something i put in on the back burner to mull it through. This has always worked for me. It helped me in my career. Unless its urgent, in my mind theres no need to act immediately.
The art of Mastery is a slow process. There is competency learning, there is rote memorization. I wondered why I spent so much time studying things. When I enter a project I feel woefully under-prepared. Then come the sleepless nights, the hard process. At some point, you cant look at the world and they are annoyed that you are so slow.... the worst thing is when you are let go for being slow. But if they leave you to it, you end up becoming the true expert with understanding, as you say, the underlying pattern. the problem doesnt matter. The pattern solves all....
You have impacted and helped me so much! Thank you so much!!! ❤😊
INFJs aren’t the ones w a ton of hobbies and interests?? I must be an exception then, making it exponentially more difficult…
I don’t relate to learning slow. On the contrary I learn really fast as long as I see the big picture first. My brain then connects the dots really quickly. Some teachers take things step by step in a linear way and I get frustrated about not knowing why we’re doing it, where we’re heading and that it might not be the best route.
Awesome
Thank u
Thank you Wenzes.
Easy... With that slow learner razmataz
It's late-bloomer alright?
I have been beating myself over everything i tray to learn and it effects me I'm 25 now, and by listening to you I get learn more about myself
I think it would be cool to do an INFJ retreat or something. I would love to knowingly interact with others like me.
Huh. An extra-ordinary learning style? And after all these years of being told I have a learning disability.
This was so nice !!! It was like having some1 who understands u talk to u. ❤
Hell my original school just ignored me as a lost cause. Shoved me to the side & focused on the normal kids.
No word of a lie this actually happened. 90s public school was like a prison. It was not a good place.
I was eventually moved to a special needs school. (I'm autistic), & was a mixed bag. I either excelled or was utterly useless. No middle ground.
I'll be honest I think I'm an idiot. I have been told I'm the opposite but I don't know. I lack far more than I know, & what I know, I know I only know a bit. Try reading that five times fast lol.
Its funny. Because what you talk about here, the slow small steps to make your new normal.
That is exactly how I lost weight & maintain it. So maybe there is some truth to this.
Keep it up! this is a really great content ❤
Thank u for all the wonderful videos you provide it is help me a lot
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What does introverted thinking child has to do with this topic ?is it related to the “slowness “
I appreciate you , Wenzes .
Am I doubting my ability to achieve what I want as an INFJ because of my unique learning style? No. As much as I enjoy my career as a mechanic, it is also my hobby as well. I continue to always research on technical info for all types of vehicles that I work on both on and off duty. It's because it does take me time to get all the info, I need to accomplish a successful repair or modification project. I may seem slow, yet in the end, I do it right. Because it's embarrassing to either get in trouble for not doing it right, and/or doing it over. I like being the "go to" guy when it comes to this stuff.
Very well said, just like taking a measurement for a cut measure twice and cut once.
Thank You :)
The only we compete with is ourselves
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We get called slow and smart in the same day
The confidence that this is exactly the way it needs to be...