5 Reasons Why You NEED To Ask Out Your Crush NOW

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  • @TheJoshSpeaks
    @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    QUESTION: Are you waiting to ask out your crush? What's REALLY holding you back?

    • @tadhgbrennan2482
      @tadhgbrennan2482 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      The Josh Speaks we're really good freinds and i dont kno if ahe likes me but i dont kno how to find out

    • @cloroxgaming7002
      @cloroxgaming7002 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      The Josh Speaks the main problem is that I dont think that I have enough confidence and dont really think we'll connect as i'm a awkward boring and monotunous introvert or we'll have about a one minute chat and then just move on and talk to someone else

    • @formerlogicstan
      @formerlogicstan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The fact that I'm moving away on Friday.

    • @MasterWoof371
      @MasterWoof371 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Because I know love is just a chemical in your brain and living alone is much cheaper. What is wrong with dieing alone?

    • @edwardball790
      @edwardball790 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The Josh Speaks she's always with her friends. the last time I asked someone out I ended up out with them after getting it spread everywhere which I want to happen again because that's what made me do it. also my friend fancies her but I know he'll never ask her out because he has no balls

  • @jeretcarrotproductions3510
    @jeretcarrotproductions3510 7 ปีที่แล้ว +941

    Guys if you are nervous to ask out your crush, just remember that I was going to ask out my crush but then I chickened out and kept waiting for no reason. Then she came up to me one day and told me that she got a boyfriend. Never be afraid to ask out your crush

    • @user-fe6vh9pj9v
      @user-fe6vh9pj9v 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      JeretCarrot Aviation and Fun omfg I feel super bad for you

    • @saturn7709
      @saturn7709 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Happened to me to before as well, feeling sucks.

    • @eddie0415
      @eddie0415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      WaterlifeDan damn I gotta do it soon...

    • @lslone3615
      @lslone3615 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      JeretCarrot Productions thanks I have a girlfriend now XD

    • @eddie0415
      @eddie0415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lui calabre lol 😂

  • @akaTGMC
    @akaTGMC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Finally, a TH-cam comment section that isn't terrible...

    • @prussianmonarchist7110
      @prussianmonarchist7110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love a comment section where I don't have to yell at idiotic pieces of garbage.

    • @PuggleCake
      @PuggleCake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No idiots... then I came along

    • @SKY_7766
      @SKY_7766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes no more stupid fuckin memes

  • @temp0cs
    @temp0cs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    if you don't, somebody else will. And that will hurt you and you'll have nobody else to blame but yourself. Sad truth :/

    • @RatchetSprite1
      @RatchetSprite1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      RocKeTi Truth af mate

    • @temp0cs
      @temp0cs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      RatchetSprite and it realy does suck knowing that he/she could've been with you, you just didn't make any moves

    • @chitownking7427
      @chitownking7427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      RocKeTi literally had this happen to me a few weeks ago..Procrastinating is the absolute WORST thing to do when it comes to asking out your crush.. if anybody sees this learn from my mistakes and PLZ don't do what I did.

    • @supermanprime1281
      @supermanprime1281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RocKeTi it's happen to me

    • @johnnyc5330
      @johnnyc5330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      RocKeTi happened to me; 3 times :(

  • @josephstalin5776
    @josephstalin5776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    What if my crush is a goat?
    Asking for a friend

    • @l.lawliet835
      @l.lawliet835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Da fuq!?!

    • @michaelmoon622
      @michaelmoon622 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      HAIL TO THE MOTHERLAND! PAPA STALIN SHALL DESTROY ALL CAPITALIST DOGS!

    • @thetruem8178
      @thetruem8178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      CURB YOUR COMMUNISM

    • @austindoez9710
      @austindoez9710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Remember don't be racist be communist

    • @ionclaudiu8049
      @ionclaudiu8049 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Big fan

  • @topofdamornin9670
    @topofdamornin9670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    When I watch the video I have the confidence to do it, but when it's in person my heart just drops. *HELP ME*

  • @elizz1866
    @elizz1866 7 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    OMFG IM SO HAPPY! I TOLD MY CRUSH THAT I HAD A CRUSH ON HIM AND HE ASKED ME OUT! NO JOKE, I SWEAR ON EVERYONES LIFE!! ❤️ If you have a crush.. Go ask him out! 🔐🌍❤️

    • @sebatianhensley-son254
      @sebatianhensley-son254 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eliz891 Msp or her

    • @cheerkitten3263
      @cheerkitten3263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Eliz Wolfhard ok here goes i am so scared I will ask them out Tuesday!!

    • @alexc7224
      @alexc7224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Ninja Kitty good luck!tell me how it goes

    • @Spearz5
      @Spearz5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ninja Kitty yo how did it go

    • @cheerkitten3263
      @cheerkitten3263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm Cynical I didn’t have school, but I will ask him tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻

  • @alexgannon5733
    @alexgannon5733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I don't know when I could ask her because she is always around her friends and I don't wanna get rejected in front of people. Then again, I won't know until I try.

    • @RatchetSprite1
      @RatchetSprite1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Alex Gannon Lmao your whole life you've been rejected why are you scared who gives a flying fuck if people don't like you it's your life not theirs.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      +Alex Gannon everything is small steps, i would focus on talking to them and getting to know her and her friends better, that way you dont jump in to things too quickly.

    • @bematt1980
      @bematt1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alex Gannon ya josh is right start with Bady steps

    • @supermanprime1281
      @supermanprime1281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Alex Gannon it's 50/50 you'll never know your answer unless you try. Don't give up when starting the race

    • @dominickenzana7853
      @dominickenzana7853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SUPERMAN PRIME fuck

  • @warpedreality7988
    @warpedreality7988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    Why I am not doing that now:
    1. it's 11.36 pm
    2. it's a holiday week
    3. if I would show up at her house, she might think I am stalking her, even though I could explain the situation and ask one of her friends for her adress.
    4. I have other, more important things to do, involving grades.

    • @chikakumask4693
      @chikakumask4693 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tim van de Goor Your grades shouldnt be affected unless you get Do on your report card

    • @warpedreality7988
      @warpedreality7988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Outlines of a Centerpiece Trust me, I need to get at least a solid b for the next half year to pass with mildly decent grades

    • @2gud464
      @2gud464 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tim van de Goor
      Smart ass Sherlock

    • @temp0cs
      @temp0cs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      if grades os your current situation then just focus on school rather than a girl at school.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      +Tim van de Goor haha thats totally fair, focus on school first then

  • @leonfrisk410
    @leonfrisk410 6 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    Thanks i asked my crush out and she said yes😆😆😆

    • @trytobetrendy8178
      @trytobetrendy8178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      random stuff congratulations

    • @clipplug.00
      @clipplug.00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      One of my friends asked a girl that I like out and she just walked away I was just laughing

    • @Jakkunn8
      @Jakkunn8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fuck you

    • @Ghostedwithdashiii
      @Ghostedwithdashiii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Nice
      Pray for me, im going to ask my one out

    • @matthew7823
      @matthew7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Then you’re alarm woke you up

  • @prussianmonarchist7110
    @prussianmonarchist7110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I tried to ask her out. She said that I was too Prussian... I only asked her out wearing my Prussian military officer's dress uniform, with a pickelhaube, and a holding a large Prussian flag...

    • @callumwalker9581
      @callumwalker9581 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Prussian Monarchist Women just dont appreciate a true Prussian these days... sad

    • @youtheme8035
      @youtheme8035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PAPA STALIN WILL KILL ALL THESE CAPITALIST DOGS!!!

    • @c.5879
      @c.5879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gott schütze den Kaiser

    • @ingridcruz4325
      @ingridcruz4325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why to Austria

    • @victorbergman9169
      @victorbergman9169 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      simple solution talk to Prussian girls

  • @elisemangnall7015
    @elisemangnall7015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    The reasons I have not asked them out
    •rejection
    •other people finding out I like them and start teasing me😒

    • @aryaman7387
      @aryaman7387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAME. The only difference is that I have to ask HER out

    • @yeehaw5122
      @yeehaw5122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly bro

    • @swicxz_
      @swicxz_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SAME LIKE MY CRUSH IS TALLER THAN ME AND IM A BOY

    • @Annebell101
      @Annebell101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah this is true 😞

    • @bobcaterpillar813
      @bobcaterpillar813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      starboy the best same for me but opposite ... I’m a girl and I’m taller than my crush 😦 it makes me feel quite insecure

  • @kevins2459
    @kevins2459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I confessed my feelings to her she rejected me but I am proud that I tried.

    • @biyan4869
      @biyan4869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @Baitur_Tavaldiev
      @Baitur_Tavaldiev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Living with less regrets is great bro

  • @vincentterr2110
    @vincentterr2110 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Dude I ask my crush for her number and she totally froze up and then looked at her friend and at that point I thought "wow she is suuuuuuper shy and I'm not that kind of guy to be with her" but since then I feel so much better

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Vincent Torres awesome stuff in asking her, she may just be shy like you said. If thats the case then try to take your interaction slowly with her.

    • @eap4177
      @eap4177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Is your crush (or use to be one) a t-rex?

  • @BigDan67
    @BigDan67 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The worst thing that could happen is
    1. He or she might say no
    The good things that could happen is
    1. He or she likes you back
    2. You guys might be together forever!
    Edit: don't be ashamed for your sexuality or who you likes because everyone is different!! Some people likes this type and you like that type and others like this other type!

  • @Generaldrax
    @Generaldrax ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was afraid to ask my crush out. One day I saw her talking to a guy. I was nervous but I just did it. She said yes!!! I want to tell you all to ask your crushes out! If you ask her out and she says yes it's great. If she says no it's alright. You tried. But you will get over it. The thing you won't get over is that another guy asks out you're crush. You will be broken. So don't be afraid. Don't overthink it. JUST DO IT!!!

  • @bematt1980
    @bematt1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Josh speaks is so nice to people

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Matt Bender haha thank you!

    • @bematt1980
      @bematt1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I will ask out my crush tommorw

    • @Jewel_Man_Kisser
      @Jewel_Man_Kisser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bematt1980 imma do that too but i think he doesnt like talking to girls.

    • @existence.5806
      @existence.5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bematt1980 howd it go then

  • @MiguelRamirez-xw5hl
    @MiguelRamirez-xw5hl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    tbh I think i waited too long like she shows no interest and the worst of it all I ignore her every time I see her in the hallway it just kills me

    • @kaboomerty1638
      @kaboomerty1638 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Miguel Ramirez same there's this girl I know and she is friends with a good friend of mine (not a relationship though) when were in a group I talked to her fine and stuff but at school I'd always see her in the hallways and even in the classes we share she does approach me so I think it's a dunzo

    • @Spooky_Psyche
      @Spooky_Psyche 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      MEEEE. Me and my crush literally sat at the same lunch table for months and I could never work up the courage to talk to him. And then he sat alone at a table like 30 feet away and I still couldn't do it. Social anxiety is fun.

    • @marenrepsaj4764
      @marenrepsaj4764 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Miguel Ramirez SAMMMEEE 😭😭

    • @wolfyondex5337
      @wolfyondex5337 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Miguel Ramirez same

    • @nathang82
      @nathang82 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same dude

  • @Jacob-hy7do
    @Jacob-hy7do 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Alright fuck it I'm doing it

    • @Jacob-hy7do
      @Jacob-hy7do 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And of course she says that she has a "boyfriend" lmfao

    • @rayankhan6305
      @rayankhan6305 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jacob rip lmaoo

    • @eggo5643
      @eggo5643 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well good job!

    • @notinformed7493
      @notinformed7493 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jacob Good try

    • @manu051276
      @manu051276 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s ok and I am sure it made her happy to know that someone likes her

  • @juliamarkowski9594
    @juliamarkowski9594 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm scared that if I ask him out and he doesn't feel the same way, I'll lose him forever.

    • @ezraveenemans9327
      @ezraveenemans9327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      if you don't you will also lose him forever

  • @Pallum13
    @Pallum13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Was nervous to ask out crush,
    Watched this video,
    Mustered up the courage to ask her out,
    Got rejected,
    Now that's what I call a victory royale.

  • @sleepingbagmanstudios489
    @sleepingbagmanstudios489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My advice, go in with the mentality of a bullet, almost nothing can stop you, in the end asking a person out or telling them you’re feelings will take a ton of pressure of you

  • @lemivu
    @lemivu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I just asked her.
    She said yes holy guacamole

    • @heyeliza.x
      @heyeliza.x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice!

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      congrats! How was it?

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!

    • @TrickyPJM752
      @TrickyPJM752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so lucky, I never had the courage to ask my crush out and now she has a boyfriend. I knew her for 10 years and she knew the dirtbag for 1 year, like that’s such a dumb decision

    • @existence.5806
      @existence.5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrickyPJM752 wow, you and i are not so different

  • @unsrashid9901
    @unsrashid9901 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Friendzoned💔💔💔💔

    • @Ok-of9fx
      @Ok-of9fx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      *Lucid dreams plays*

    • @Historybuffest
      @Historybuffest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alexa, play despacito

    • @srseergi5271
      @srseergi5271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      R.I.P Soldier

    • @EIusina
      @EIusina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ZxT Edits can we get 7 likes for this 💔

    • @connorharper6399
      @connorharper6399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      F

  • @prod.oxseee
    @prod.oxseee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I'm scared to ask my crush out🤦🏾‍♂️😭

    • @lalisasbangs6258
      @lalisasbangs6258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      EpicGamer B look dont be scared just go for it regret hurts more than a rejection

    • @HumansFreshlyBorn
      @HumansFreshlyBorn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      EpicGamer B Do it. If she says something different that only means that there is someone better for you out there. If she says yes then there you go. Don’t fear rejection just take it in your stride

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      evreryone is

    • @pamgrover5655
      @pamgrover5655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey same bruh

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Man I did it and she said yes!

  • @nixvlock8369
    @nixvlock8369 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She said she doesn't have a crush anymore but she keeps on looking at me when I'm around so I think I have luck! Thanks josh!

  • @ray-wq6jr
    @ray-wq6jr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    me and my crush have liked each other for almost 11 months... i think it’s time to make my move lmao

    • @toast2faded
      @toast2faded 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      how did it go?

    • @YamisRandom
      @YamisRandom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How’d it go?

    • @bdaarmy9736
      @bdaarmy9736 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your crush liked you and you sat on it for this long?

    • @shreyagarg6182
      @shreyagarg6182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey where are you?? How did it go........???

    • @MDDeGrande1994
      @MDDeGrande1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      F for this guy lol

  • @txmxs_TTV
    @txmxs_TTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wake up
    I go to school
    I ask my crush out
    She says yes
    Now read 234 and then 1

  • @thomascollings6833
    @thomascollings6833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I'm just to nervous to ask my crush,it's like every time I'm around her my chest sinks and my anxiety goes off the charts

    • @patrickstewart9937
      @patrickstewart9937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cyber Space Rythem in the same position buddy lol

    • @luisavalos961
      @luisavalos961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😂

    • @FunTimeFiFA
      @FunTimeFiFA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luisavalos961 same here😭, I think I’ll do it Sunday, I’ll just ask her for her number so I can say it over text😭😭😭

    • @Mekkhiiii
      @Mekkhiiii ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME!

  • @moelester4420
    @moelester4420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m not bothered about asking her out it’s just my family finding out

    • @hippityhoppity9560
      @hippityhoppity9560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel ya mine are practically minor helicopter parents

    • @aumkardeochakke6290
      @aumkardeochakke6290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @Wacky15948
      @Wacky15948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah same i also would ask her out but its online school so i dont know how to do that through online school but if school opens again i might ask her out but i would have to keep it a secret from my parents for maybe a while.

  • @alvinorodriguez5307
    @alvinorodriguez5307 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Im about to ask out my crush today she already knows i like her but i just dont know if she likes me back to im really nervous but im gonna go for it wish me luck👌👌😂

    • @takuache695
      @takuache695 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alvino Rodriguez do it ;)

    • @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb
      @ThomasTheThermonuclearBomb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How did it go? (Yes ik it was 2 yrs ago, but i’m still curous)

  • @charlesplays4584
    @charlesplays4584 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Hey josh! I have to say thank you. The first time I actually tried to get my crush, I used your strategies. Even though she rejected me in the end your videos made me feel good about myself and made the rejection not sting as much. I have one more question before I leave you: What are you supposed to do if you have a crush on one of the friends of the previous crush you had that rejected you?

  • @flawedpotato3665
    @flawedpotato3665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    whats holding me back is the fact that we dont know eachother that well. but good news is im hearing rumors of competition so im swooping in tomorrow.
    edit: it ended in failure

    • @flawedpotato3665
      @flawedpotato3665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Megan’s Edits not really, we dont talk much

    • @flawedpotato3665
      @flawedpotato3665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Megan’s Edits nah its all good, i got over it

  • @_Theplug
    @_Theplug 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I saw this video yesterday morning so let me tell you I asked her out and she yes but she also said, ”you were taking forever”

  • @soldado-wb1sk
    @soldado-wb1sk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    But my crush doesn’t even talk to me 😪

  • @elvisjean5182
    @elvisjean5182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    what if she speaks another Language

    • @elvisjean5182
      @elvisjean5182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Alex Barker boi

    • @elijahbrown5089
      @elijahbrown5089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alex Barker bruh their nothing wrong with that

    • @elvisjean5182
      @elvisjean5182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @elvisjean5182
      @elvisjean5182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She comes from Columbia

    • @YouSuck921
      @YouSuck921 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Elvis Jean Language barriers amirite? If you want a solution to that, just watch Arrival

  • @summernix1234
    @summernix1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He literally calms me so much no lie😂literally he’s such a chilll person I’m just watchin this video so I can stop havin a mental breakdown lol

  • @jacobe.3091
    @jacobe.3091 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Great video. You gave me confidence. I will ask her out tomorrow.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Jacob E. Awesome, good luck man

    • @ayaansamad4345
      @ayaansamad4345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HOW DID IT GO? or did you not ask?

    • @HumansFreshlyBorn
      @HumansFreshlyBorn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do it. If she says something different that only means that there is someone better for you out there. If she says yes then there you go. Don’t fear rejection just take it in your stride

    • @cameronjosephmurray9124
      @cameronjosephmurray9124 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jacob E. How did it go man

    • @69Rain420
      @69Rain420 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol buncha bullshit if ya ask me

  • @wyzee6262
    @wyzee6262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm gonna ask her out today. I'll update you guys.
    Update: She Said Yes 😁😁😁

    • @whatclub3934
      @whatclub3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats dude!

    • @Gmanofoklahoma
      @Gmanofoklahoma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could you explain the process...
      Just for a friend
      And he said please

    • @ikrwordspammer8847
      @ikrwordspammer8847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Time for Sez!

  • @sonatacg8690
    @sonatacg8690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really wish I found this sooner :(
    I lost my chance, everyone else I've met since has never compared to my crush. I moved to a new school and now lost all my chances to ask her out. I tried everything to get my friends to at least tell her I was trying to get in touch but they always refuse to and I'm genuinely very upset by them. Fortunately since I've found these videos I've felt more confident but now I feel like the more time we go out of touch the less I would mean to her. And I knew she liked me when we still went in the same school but I was just too scared and I hate myself for that

  • @izzygordon392
    @izzygordon392 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    thanks josh

  • @VerzideGF
    @VerzideGF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    she said yes :D

  • @bxbbybrxh
    @bxbbybrxh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The one thing that is holding me back (other than the fear of rejection) is my shyness, I never talked to a girl that I've a crush on as if I were talking normally, if I try talking to her I'm probably going to say something stupid, or mumble EVERY WORD!

  • @vbarbiedolls
    @vbarbiedolls 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the advice, I finally had the guts to ask out my crush

  • @_zzvn_
    @_zzvn_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Every time I decide to ask her out, I bail out last second. Like I just CAN'T 😭

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same, but I will do it this week!

    • @Rx_Sqx
      @Rx_Sqx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wietzevanderwijk3169 And did you?

  • @frankmartin9131
    @frankmartin9131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    My crush is really cool, but I heard from a friend that she is not interested in a relationship. I want to ask her out, but she will probably say no. Also, we are in multiple classes together. So, if she does say no, that would make things really awkward. What should I do?

    • @ZakMCTeam
      @ZakMCTeam 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Frank Martin , do u talk to her???

    • @ZakMCTeam
      @ZakMCTeam 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Frank Martin or do u like her but u dont really talk

    • @isaacorchard7000
      @isaacorchard7000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Frank Martin we're in exactly the same situation 😕

    • @frankmartin9131
      @frankmartin9131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We talk every other day.

    • @kosalakannangara3082
      @kosalakannangara3082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      "Not interested in a relationship" is the female code for "I don't need a relationship with you". When the right person shows up, surprise..! she'll be ready. So give it a try I suggest you and see where is it going. You may be her right person.. Best of luck :)

  • @noahahahha377
    @noahahahha377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What’s holding me back is I’m afraid he’ll say no but I’m so in love with him :/

    • @kevin_yt5345
      @kevin_yt5345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i have a trick to do so, ask him/her out when you do get the guts to do so and say ''hey can we talk in private?'' then when u do ask him/her ''do you like me back?'' and if he/she says no just say ''oh sorry i meant my friend, do you like (friends name/or someone else)''
      and im 99.99% sure it works all the time

  • @brennandavis270
    @brennandavis270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i’m gonna do it tomo thx man this really helps

  • @md03250
    @md03250 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One night I just got this burst of confidence and told my crush I liked her. We’re now in a happy relationship!

  • @dunsandsuns408
    @dunsandsuns408 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i'm sending this to one of my friends who needs to see this. thank you my dood!👌🏼

  • @yeetbread4678
    @yeetbread4678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m just in a situation. While at Beta Convention my crush confessed that he liked me. Later on I texted him and said I liked him and he just answered with an 👌👍

  • @tomarodic8411
    @tomarodic8411 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    One simple question to a girl:
    "Can I take you?"

    • @tjbratcher6034
      @tjbratcher6034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Toma Rodic The question to ask her out is
      WANNA HAVE MY BABIES

    • @rjnichols9171
      @rjnichols9171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carolyn Hale lmfao

  • @douglasdustin6550
    @douglasdustin6550 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm homeschooled and my crush is homeschooled. we only see each other once a week and idk if she likes me. Where we see each other is at choir with a room full of people, including my sister and grandma. What do I do? should I use a note or what?

  • @hawkman2735
    @hawkman2735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I asked her out and she said I’m like her brother, I mean I guess that’s better then friends because I care about her so much, however I wish she felt the Same way as me. 😭

  • @marenrepsaj4764
    @marenrepsaj4764 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like only people, who have dealt with somebody rejecting them could ever really understand, how hurtful it is.

  • @emily-kate4301
    @emily-kate4301 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’d just like to say thank you because today I watched a few of your videos and they gave me the confidence to ask out my crush and he said yes! So thanks to you I’m in a relationship with my crush👏🏻😊

  • @kunalv9063
    @kunalv9063 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Had to learn this the hard way

  • @SB-dh9sb
    @SB-dh9sb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Reasons why I’m afraid to
    1.Shes very out of my league but I know she likes my type
    2.i only have 1 class with her
    3.she broke up with her ex and claims she’s over him but constantly post about him
    4 .2:40am on spring break
    5. my math grade is trash but I see her in tottering sometimes
    6. The only way she and I can talk is through Snapchat atm
    7. I’m scared to because I don’t want things to be awkward between us.
    8. I get so nervous around her I freeze up
    Can someone please help me here, I’ve been debating if I should risk it all and ask her out.

    • @trytobetrendy8178
      @trytobetrendy8178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      • sethzxl • ask her if I get 1 like on this I'm asking out my crush

    • @Pumpkinwithsmoke
      @Pumpkinwithsmoke หลายเดือนก่อน

      think of yourself as a bullet just as an unstoppable force and just ask for her number if your to scared t ask her out because if you do she will know you ike her without yous aying anything

  • @allergictomosquitos1236
    @allergictomosquitos1236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so i’m a girl and i want to ask my crush to be my boyfriend very badly but the only fear i have is that we might be moving too fast, although we have been friends for a while and we have gone on dates. i needed inspiration like this, i’m going to ask him out tonight 🖤 thank you

  • @abigailallakpo7319
    @abigailallakpo7319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If this gets more then 10 likes I’ll ask him out immediately

  • @torengo
    @torengo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I asked out my crush yesterday thanks to you. I had a conversation with her friend, and she told me that my crush usually takes it slow so I shouldn't rush it, but I couldn't wait any longer. I kissed her at a party a couple of months ago when she was about to leave. I just thought to myself, it's now or never and eventually it went well even though it was a bit shocking for her. So I decided yesterday to just ask her out, because I needed some kind of confirmation, like if she says no, then I could stop wasting my time chasing her, but what if she says yes? Well, she said yes :) Just do it, it may turn out the way you hoped.

  • @SNTFStuff
    @SNTFStuff 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She likes me I like her back and we text a lot but I am still scared she is going to friend zone me.

    • @vfornill4603
      @vfornill4603 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      SNTF Stuff
      if she likes you back....why tf would she friend zone you?..

    • @SNTFStuff
      @SNTFStuff 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kermit Deh Frog she like me friend to and she friend zone him

  • @kalahchristopher8347
    @kalahchristopher8347 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Doing it TOMORROW!

    • @wietzevanderwijk3169
      @wietzevanderwijk3169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's 3 years later. How did it went?

    • @kalahchristopher8347
      @kalahchristopher8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wietzevanderwijk3169 it went absolutely horrible but he’s one of my bestfriends now hahahhahahahahahhahahah

  • @loliglosscosmetics8012
    @loliglosscosmetics8012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ima tell him either tomorrow or the day after and need some motivation

  • @alpacawithouthat987
    @alpacawithouthat987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another reason: if they say “no” you gain back time. All the time you could’ve spent worrying about whether they like you or not can now be redirected into completing some of your goals or looking for someone else who is more compatible

  • @isthepanda6782
    @isthepanda6782 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in a new relationship, so I just kind of want to relearn how to break the ice with my bf. I'm a naturally affectionate person, so this awkwardness has gotta go

  • @ghoultakensavior2326
    @ghoultakensavior2326 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is just in love with me sometimes she smiles at me! help me out plz

  • @abbasalsaedi6367
    @abbasalsaedi6367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If my comment reached 20 imma ask my crush out.

  • @Neo-OFFICIAL2Go
    @Neo-OFFICIAL2Go 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is every time with her friends. I dont want that they laugh about me if she says to me "no"

  • @jaxoncade4605
    @jaxoncade4605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If ur seeing this and ur to afraid to ask your crush out just do it because it SUCKS when someone else's asks them out. I made that mistake and I hate myself for it

  • @anidiot.5848
    @anidiot.5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alright so, I’ve liked this girl for a month, and she is pretty and nice and I feel like if she’s gonna reject me, then I mine-swell die trying, lmao.
    I’m asking her out. I’ll edit back what she says pls wish me luck 😊😬.
    Ight.
    Results are in..
    REJECTION 😭 😭

  • @vlogkat6863
    @vlogkat6863 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's Holding Me Back:
    *I may be a tie with another girl
    *He may be weirded out
    *I may not be his type
    *I may get rejected
    *Everyone will tease me for being rejected.
    *He may say 'no'
    Finally....
    *I Am Too Young.

    • @Pumpkinwithsmoke
      @Pumpkinwithsmoke หลายเดือนก่อน

      if your too young then dont ask him out

  • @iamblinkk8611
    @iamblinkk8611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m really scared off being friend zoned

    • @progamerniko5534
      @progamerniko5534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here.

    • @gentlebabarian
      @gentlebabarian 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then don't be friends if she places you there. Its her miss not your!

  • @dans3.macabre
    @dans3.macabre 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anybody who thinks their crush will say they like it better being friends do NOT ask them out anyway it only leaves you feeling worthless

  • @aero3606
    @aero3606 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well, the real problem I have now is just being afraid to ask out my crush in front of my friends. I don't want my friends to know I like her and look stupid, because I could get bullied because of it. I'm also worried if she would tell someone else about me, that I looked stupid and weird.

  • @jr.hermann
    @jr.hermann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i am ready to do it, i will edit this and tell everyone how did it go.
    Edit Nr.1: it went positive, we planned to go the cinema together and after go to my place.

    • @reallycoolman4990
      @reallycoolman4990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How did it go, I’ll do it now via text with mine

    • @jr.hermann
      @jr.hermann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@reallycoolman4990 i told it in person and it was kinda positive, we planned to go to the cinema.

    • @reallycoolman4990
      @reallycoolman4990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jr.hermann That’s brilliant. I did last night, and he said yes which I’m really glad about

    • @jr.hermann
      @jr.hermann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reallycoolman4990 congrats

    • @gentlebabarian
      @gentlebabarian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jr.hermann update on your relationship? Is it still on?

  • @tommysmith2032
    @tommysmith2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am fat and ugly, she has a nice body and she is beautiful....I have low self steam and no confidence what so ever, she is always ready for a challenge and goes at it with everything she has..... I am awkward and depressing, she is hilarious and popular.... And if I ask her out, I feel like I would get rejected and people would laugh at me for even trying to ask her out........ what do I do?

    • @tommysmith2032
      @tommysmith2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      and also my best friend keeps trying to ask her out and she keeps saying no to him..... I hope it is because she likes me......probably not :(

    • @tommysmith2032
      @tommysmith2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      SOME BODY PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!

    • @subscribetoslayerplayshd7071
      @subscribetoslayerplayshd7071 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tommy Smith ur size don’t matter if she’s interested she will see right through ur physique

    • @tommysmith2032
      @tommysmith2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      you have no idea how much this means to me thank you

    • @tommysmith2032
      @tommysmith2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      OK I'M GOING TO DO IT straight after my cold clears up

  • @tjbratcher6034
    @tjbratcher6034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I try not to get too nervous. I missed my opportunity to ask out my crush and now she has a boyfriend.

  • @udatchi
    @udatchi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whats holding me back is that coincidentally my 11th grade chem teacher's seating arrangement always ends up with me really freakin close to her and if she said no it would be the most awkward shit ever.

  • @pizza1530
    @pizza1530 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Working with her holding me back.....being direct might help her say yes

  • @DawoSida
    @DawoSida 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The whole school likes my crush so am just wasting time

  • @j.f.l.774
    @j.f.l.774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I REALLY don't understand. You've made another video which is called "why you shouldn't tell your crush you like her". So we should or we shouldn't???

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don't think you should simply confess your feelings, instead you should ask them out. That way as you two hang out you can show them how you feel by talking to them, getting to know them better and flirting with them. A lot of times people just want to tell their crush they like them out of the blue and they just wait to see if their crush likes them back or not, I think it's important to be more proactive rather than reactionary.

  • @phantomblood2559
    @phantomblood2559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's just
    The fear of her saying no
    That would be awkward and we are friends for along time so if she said no, I can't see her face again 😞

  • @gentlebabarian
    @gentlebabarian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Remember guys!
    If she says no
    It's her miss, not yours!

  • @rozaandsanda8862
    @rozaandsanda8862 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wanna ask him out but we have 2 class together and we'll be seeing each other everyday

  • @bellavlogs7634
    @bellavlogs7634 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    my crush told my frend he had a crush on me should I go for it

  • @manuelbuitenhuis7337
    @manuelbuitenhuis7337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    3 likes and im asking her out, ill show updates

  • @retrobuttonmasher834
    @retrobuttonmasher834 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm asking her out this week I just don't know what to say

  • @lilmosey7648
    @lilmosey7648 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is no perfect moment you have to pick a moment and make it perfect.

  • @rebeccacucumber6611
    @rebeccacucumber6611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know if he likes me, he talks to a lot of other girls and I feel like if I did ask him out he would reject me and it's going to take me ages to get my self-esteem back up. Plus, I'd have to face him every day if he rejects me or he could tell his friends and they would think badly of me and laugh at me and tease me. The thing is that he isn't even that good looking but he's so funny and outgoing with everybody which makes him really popular to the point that sometimes I feel like he's out of my league. I don't even like him THAT much there's just something about him...

  • @sebastiancalmac237
    @sebastiancalmac237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your videos are great help. Your advices worked.

  • @1dylancs
    @1dylancs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your channel! It is helping through this so well!

  • @reeceholland2796
    @reeceholland2796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Seth Freakin Rollins will be at Wrestlemania

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I was super excited when I saw that!

    • @gabe5129
      @gabe5129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reece Holland hell yeahh LETS GOO ROLLINS

    • @bematt1980
      @bematt1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reece Holland I'm not a Rollins but I think his match will be good because the game is also in the match at Maina

    • @StanEvanx
      @StanEvanx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reece Holland he says he will but his injury tho

    • @charlierowntree776
      @charlierowntree776 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reece Holland Rollins is beast

  • @malachiaugustyn1384
    @malachiaugustyn1384 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm scared and there's this guy named Travis already liking her and I want to do it but something is just holding me back and I don't know what it is thanks this is so inspiring thank u so much for making this

  • @CallOfClashers100
    @CallOfClashers100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do it now, trust me. The worst she’ll say is no, but at least you know you tried. If you can try at everything you do, imagine who you’ll be 30 years from now? I’ve waited too long before and have missed out and i look back and say I was a coward. Nobody knows how much time we have left, live in the moment

  • @gremlin751
    @gremlin751 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have my crush on Snapchat but idk what to say if I ask him out... I think he likes me but I'm not sure. We have middle school this year together so if he says NO it'll be awkward when we see each other again. PLEASE HELP!

  • @willmackenzie116
    @willmackenzie116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nice one!

  • @TRWABS
    @TRWABS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yes but I need to be alone with them

    • @Arymuru
      @Arymuru 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe passing periods

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Taisha Augustin that can come from making plans, i would try talking to them when you see them after or before class, at lunch or randomly in the hallways.

    • @vaprslth9859
      @vaprslth9859 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr

    • @myyoutube7277
      @myyoutube7277 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessss

  • @benportzer
    @benportzer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why You Should Ask Your Crush Out NOW?
    Me: QUARINTINE!!!

  • @soa9796
    @soa9796 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    DUDE EVERY VIDEO YOU POST IS EVERYTHING IM THINKING ABOUT!