44 yo male slug from the uk with a 21 yo daughter When my daughter was being born I watched the whole thing it was absolutely magical and the feelings are impossible to explain you just have to live it my ex didn’t split but she had to be cut a little with the scissors which I shortly after used to cut the cord, I spent Xmas over at my ex’s with her man and his son as well as my daughter were all the best of friends and it means my daughter has the best possible outcome, we split when my daughter was 12 and we’ve always looked out for each other. Happy New Year ladies xxx
I was in the room for the birth of all 4 of my children and watched 2 come out. They put up a screen during the c sections so I could hold her hand but not see anything. They kind of me away to follow the baby while they finished up. Never saw anything that prevented me from going back 😊. OTOH, I might be experiencing the menopausal intolerance thing, I hope you're wrong about that one.
Dave is the biggest wet blanket. If ur wondering why ester and rick have a time stopped its because dave was in the last eps and they were awkward weird and bad cause his energy😅
After I had my daughter, my 1st words while I was holding her were, "that wasn't so bad, I think I can do it again." Point is, you've got this Little Esther!
I don’t know what it is but this episode made me feel safe it was fun to watch and it filled me up with happiness. Everyone is glowing in this episode and it makes me so happy. ❤
I wasn’t even worried about the v tear, the whole your baby being born is intense and overwhelming. As a father the moment you see your baby born you just want to protect it from everything I spent the first 48 hours just starring at my baby girl
I just listened to the podcast with Miranda cosgrove and it was the first podcast I heard by them. And I thought Esther and Khalyla were Miranda’s age but they’re actually older and it’s so refreshing? I stopped listening to podcasts where people talk about themselves since prior to the pandemic and that was before I was 30. It’s so interesting listening to one where people are pregnant, married, divorced, etc. It feels like young people are so prominent on the internet that it’s so refreshing to listen to people who are in my age range (I’m 34). I mean, i don’t necessarily experience the same things they’re talking about (pregnancy, divorce, consistently going to therapy, ever going to a hypnotist or shaman lol) but it’s still nice to hear.
I have PCOS and have not been able to get on wegovy, ozempic, or saxenda due to the VERY real shortage. Los Angeles has it because that’s where a lot of people are paying out of pocket for it due to wealth. It is extremely real and I’ve cried over it so many times.
I can't believe Annie said it's cheap then said she paid $300 how out of touch pls 💀💀💀 And what is going on in the US that doctors are prescribing this shit for no reason?
@@jaless2172literally! It genuinely hurt my feelings and I cried after hearing her say that because I KNOW so many people in LA/rich ppl are able to get their hands on it and I'm here suffering dude.
43:55 I wouldn’t say that’s a healthy understanding of core wounds. I think everyone can relate with that feeling of being hurt by someone from childhood, but holding onto that hurt is so much work. I agree you don’t need to make nice, but I just chalk it up to everyone being dumb kids when they were 7-8 years old and move on. She’s making it sound like her sister mastered the internalization of that young pain
As a brother, had to stop intervening with my sisters relationships and just focused on myself can't be worrying about everything especially when it has nothing to do with you
I used a massager on my back that u can control how hard you use it. And I felt like a bruise or pain in a few spots for days after. I couldn't see it to see if there were actual bruises but it sure did feel like it. 😂
She kept using the word "beat up" idk if she meant to use it relation to excessive pressure for deep tissue kneading massage. But the term makes it sound like physical abuse or S&M visit.
Forgiving isn’t bad. We do it because we’re supposed to forgive each other and love each other because Jesus Christ says so. You ladies keep on forgiving! That’s our whole purpose in life. Loving and helping each other. Boundaries should be everyone’s friend but forgiving people and still loving them the way Christ loves us is what it’s all about. (Agape love) May God continue to bless all the Trash Tuesday team! 🙏🏽💕
I bleed w the full moon until i skipped 2 months bc of medication change. But now i need to re align. Bc I charge my crystals gems rings rocks on full moon night.
When Esther was talking about going back to the people who hurt you and wanting to feel safe... I was with someone for a long time who hurt me so much and I feel like when he was hurting me, I didn't feel whole..., and I would always go back trying to feel whole and feel safe.... but then one day you realize that you are whole without them...
When it’s happening you won’t care if Dave looks/watches, we’ll that how I felt. When your partner is watching they get to feel something special without being the one delivering the baby
Esther’s…thank God for all things little and fuzzy…and still after all these years…still the same…even with a Little’er Esther’s inside….baking. ..thank you baker.
sooo loved the topics discussed this episode. especially when moms were talking about how to honor your core wounds and not minimize - as an (asian) woman, this is something i struggle with and have been making a conscious effort to change, so ty for the validation i needed to hear. 😭😭😭 Khalyla when she said her sister says she doesn’t want to or need to make nice with her elementary school bully, that’s TEA. energy i’m carrying into 2024✨✨✨✨✨
The psych concept Esther was getting at in the "getting over past issues" section is called Repetition Compulsion. It's when you unconsciously try to achieve symbolic mastery over a traumatic situation from your past by recreating the circumstances of the trauma to achieve a different outcome. It's a very common (and inevitably unsuccessful) trauma response
@britnysnyder4991 just taking turns?oh,ok that makes it a little more dignified I guess...or not?I'm sure if they were taking turns they were also doing it together...but what do I know?
Love the Moon talk - today is literally a Full Moon in Cancer (the sign that's ruled by the Moon) !!! ...and yes the menstrual cycle is definitely linked to the moon, you get a period once a Month... once a Moonth (1 full lunar cycle each Month!) ... mamaGastrology
Khalyla talking about men being free to tell her about their affairs etc... I can relate... it's completely put me off relationships with men I think for the rest of my life.
She only says that because she has been caught cheating SOOOO many times and is hyper-sexual. 😂 Must take ALOT for her to not be a hypocrite and accept when the same thing happens to her.
OK um.. Uggs are real animal. Yes, wool is shaved but this isnt.. It's sheepskin. The skin is the outer part and the wool in the inner part. It's dual sided. A fur coat will have fur on the outside and be skin on the inside or if it's a shearling coat, the leather is on the outside and the fur/wool is on the inside. It's skin. You're wearing skin.
You girls are growing on me and I look forward to listening to what you three have to talk about every Tuesday.Good job and your all three looking great and and your outfits today are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
1:13:41 a month or so ago I was driving and felt something kind of cold and wet dripping down the side of my face. I went to brush it off, flipped out, frantically wiped it off.. looked on my car door and it was a huge slug. I had been outside with my kids an hour or two before. That fucker had been in my hair the whole time until it slowly made its way down my face. I think that officially makes me a slug.. so sometimes yes, there can be a slug in your hair
That's like me with this show... I can't stand one of the three and love the other two greatly. The show is good but every time this person has done the same thing or something better than a guest or knows someone or something better than a guest or one of the other two it takes everything out of the show for me for the day. Unfortunately it happens most episodes. I am not saying this to berate or put down or think my opinion is more important than any other fans' . I am only saying this in the hopes of *someone* who may have her ear can ask her to dial it back just a little bit. I wish I never noticed it in the first place because now I see it every time it happens. Much love to you all and I know you all work your arses off all year round for us. Happy New Year ❤😂🎉
It’s funny how khalyla says 3 sum situations don’t happen to her like she’s super vanilla but she is the only person I’ve heard of that dated 2 dudes & lived altogether. Js. She’s been in some pretty unconventional relationships lol
Is like you both have comprehension issues or some sort of mental health impediment. Any regular person understands that she is not saying she is super vanilla lol what she is saying she is looking for a threesome lol what about that screams wanting to appear vanilla to you! What she is obviously saying is that she had people prepositioned her in her past relationship when she didn’t want it but now that she is looking for it she is not getting the offers like Esther is getting them now lol Similar to how Esther joke that she is getting them now when she can’t accept it cause she is pregnant (but Esther probably wouldn’t have accepted she was just making a joke )
Esther - I agree with your philosophy that “when you go to someone’s house for dinner,
you eat what they serve”.
44 yo male slug from the uk with a 21 yo daughter When my daughter was being born I watched the whole thing it was absolutely magical and the feelings are impossible to explain you just have to live it my ex didn’t split but she had to be cut a little with the scissors which I shortly after used to cut the cord, I spent Xmas over at my ex’s with her man and his son as well as my daughter were all the best of friends and it means my daughter has the best possible outcome, we split when my daughter was 12 and we’ve always looked out for each other. Happy New Year ladies xxx
Same story for me too!!!! It's all good if you let it be good and exactly what it is. 😊
You should have Dave, Todd and mystery man on your valentines day show.
I was in the room for the birth of all 4 of my children and watched 2 come out. They put up a screen during the c sections so I could hold her hand but not see anything. They kind of me away to follow the baby while they finished up. Never saw anything that prevented me from going back 😊. OTOH, I might be experiencing the menopausal intolerance thing, I hope you're wrong about that one.
Mystery man would dominate the room I have a feeling
Dave is the biggest wet blanket. If ur wondering why ester and rick have a time stopped its because dave was in the last eps and they were awkward weird and bad cause his energy😅
I liked Dave on HAT. They also had great chemistry when he came onstage w Esther at DC Improv. Really funny.
Like as the “producers”- would totally luv!
After I had my daughter, my 1st words while I was holding her were, "that wasn't so bad, I think I can do it again." Point is, you've got this Little Esther!
Omg complete opposite for me 😂 kudos to you
' My shamen and my hypnotist just called'. Only in LA.
I don’t know what it is but this episode made me feel safe it was fun to watch and it filled me up with happiness. Everyone is glowing in this episode and it makes me so happy. ❤
Using ayahuasca to cave into individualism and egoism or to achieve financial/career goals is insane lol
How is it bad to use it to self reflect and cause you to be the best version of yourself to create the best life for yourself
Don't let life pass you by Esther!!!!!! DO IT!!!!!¡!
Yeah and film it 😅
scujm
I wasn’t even worried about the v tear, the whole your baby being born is intense and overwhelming. As a father the moment you see your baby born you just want to protect it from everything I spent the first 48 hours just starring at my baby girl
I just listened to the podcast with Miranda cosgrove and it was the first podcast I heard by them. And I thought Esther and Khalyla were Miranda’s age but they’re actually older and it’s so refreshing? I stopped listening to podcasts where people talk about themselves since prior to the pandemic and that was before I was 30. It’s so interesting listening to one where people are pregnant, married, divorced, etc. It feels like young people are so prominent on the internet that it’s so refreshing to listen to people who are in my age range (I’m 34). I mean, i don’t necessarily experience the same things they’re talking about (pregnancy, divorce, consistently going to therapy, ever going to a hypnotist or shaman lol) but it’s still nice to hear.
14:53 those meds are for ppl who are morbidly obese. Not if you wanna lose 10lbs😭
Y’all are officially too LA for me 😂😂😂💀
I have PCOS and have not been able to get on wegovy, ozempic, or saxenda due to the VERY real shortage. Los Angeles has it because that’s where a lot of people are paying out of pocket for it due to wealth. It is extremely real and I’ve cried over it so many times.
Same in Iceland, people with diabetes cannot get it
I can't believe Annie said it's cheap then said she paid $300 how out of touch pls 💀💀💀
And what is going on in the US that doctors are prescribing this shit for no reason?
@@jaless2172literally! It genuinely hurt my feelings and I cried after hearing her say that because I KNOW so many people in LA/rich ppl are able to get their hands on it and I'm here suffering dude.
43:55 I wouldn’t say that’s a healthy understanding of core wounds. I think everyone can relate with that feeling of being hurt by someone from childhood, but holding onto that hurt is so much work. I agree you don’t need to make nice, but I just chalk it up to everyone being dumb kids when they were 7-8 years old and move on. She’s making it sound like her sister mastered the internalization of that young pain
some kid pushed me into a huge river where i almost died. yeah no im not moving on from hating that guy regardless the time
Favorite Esther quote - "Now we're just writing a movie."
As a brother, had to stop intervening with my sisters relationships and just focused on myself can't be worrying about everything especially when it has nothing to do with you
Annie looks so good! Classy makeup
2 unskippable ads less than 3 minutes in is w i l d
I HATE the bleeping of swear words. Just edit the sound out WITHOUT the bleep
I get why they do it, but this is just turning into television if we’re gonna bleep swear words 😒 I can’t stand it. Kills the funny a lot too!
Doesn’t bother me
happy holiday season sluggies!
Great episode, love the top Annie
If someone doesn’t tell Annie her contour looks like dirt you are not real
Friends
shiny dirt
i'm not tellin her, you tell her!!!
lol she needs to buff/blend the contour line on her forehead, that happened to me in photos 😢😢😅
Khalyla’s forearm tattoo reminds me of Jason Mamoa’s arm tattoo! Wow 😮
She’s beautiful! But nose bronzer needs blending
This show was like an old school chat ~ the early days ~ just these three chatting. Nice.
It's like this all the time, wtf u talking about
Troll much? For one year it was two of these and a guest, so who tf are you listening to? Troll?
What’s up with the sometimes censoring of words?
This felt like a chat with friends. Everyone looking super cute.❤❤
It’s funny how i’ve heard them talk about the Bible being crazy that people believe in it but their other “woo woo” beliefs are even stranger lol
my shaman
What could a masseuse have done to bruise someone in the fcking face??! Idk if she’s lying but that is disturbing af what the hell.
I used a massager on my back that u can control how hard you use it. And I felt like a bruise or pain in a few spots for days after. I couldn't see it to see if there were actual bruises but it sure did feel like it. 😂
She kept using the word "beat up" idk if she meant to use it relation to excessive pressure for deep tissue kneading massage. But the term makes it sound like physical abuse or S&M visit.
It isn’t a healthy kindness. It’s called Fawning and I’ve been guilty of it. One of our trauma responses beside freeze, fight, etc
Thanks for the flowers, Annie! Best wishes for a prosperous 2024 to you all and to all Slugs everywhere 🎉
4 months postpartum w/ a 2nd degree tear. Honestly wasn’t that bad. You’ll do just fine Esther!
4th degree tear and I couldn’t leave bed for 3 mos pp. you had a better time w it for sure! 😆
Forgiving isn’t bad. We do it because we’re supposed to forgive each other and love each other because Jesus Christ says so. You ladies keep on forgiving! That’s our whole purpose in life. Loving and helping each other. Boundaries should be everyone’s friend but forgiving people and still loving them the way Christ loves us is what it’s all about. (Agape love) May God continue to bless all the Trash Tuesday team! 🙏🏽💕
🙏🙏🙏
I used to love this pod so much. It was driven off a cliff many months ago 😢
We absolutely need another dr. Drew ep
Khalila can u please drop the red lip makeup please???? Gorgeous
Thanks Sluggies! 💖
I bleed w the full moon until i skipped 2 months bc of medication change. But now i need to re align. Bc I charge my crystals gems rings rocks on full moon night.
Listening to this while getting ready ❤ Love our momma slugs 🐌 ✨
I felt bad skipping through the ads but I just needed more of this convo!! Yes no more making nice with our tormentors!!!
Sheep are still shorn by hand because there's no way to automate it. They can do it in like 30 seconds! It's crazy, look it up!
Love Annie admitting getting on the skinny shot !!!
When Esther was talking about going back to the people who hurt you and wanting to feel safe... I was with someone for a long time who hurt me so much and I feel like when he was hurting me, I didn't feel whole..., and I would always go back trying to feel whole and feel safe.... but then one day you realize that you are whole without them...
Lots of deep discussions this episode, loved it ❤️
No one play the drinking game on how many time they say LIKE you would die of alcohol poison
merry trash-mas
Y’all said the word like 393 times
When it’s happening you won’t care if Dave looks/watches, we’ll that how I felt. When your partner is watching they get to feel something special without being the one delivering the baby
Annie’s ozemping? Wow everyone is really on it. You’re already little! Good research for writing tho lol
It sounds like Annie is the only one that listens to her therapists/emotional growth and support people.
Esther’s…thank God for all things little and fuzzy…and still after all these years…still the same…even with a Little’er Esther’s inside….baking. ..thank you baker.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I am so thankful for you ladies, both together and individually. Great job!😊
sooo loved the topics discussed this episode. especially when moms were talking about how to honor your core wounds and not minimize - as an (asian) woman, this is something i struggle with and have been making a conscious effort to change, so ty for the validation i needed to hear. 😭😭😭 Khalyla when she said her sister says she doesn’t want to or need to make nice with her elementary school bully, that’s TEA. energy i’m carrying into 2024✨✨✨✨✨
Thank you for this!
Annie, i'm confused cause i googled semaglutide and ozempic falls under that. so are you taking ozempic or another brand?
Ya. That confused me too
Its just the generic drug name, not the name brand.
disingenuous
As a woman in menopause. I’m DONEEEEEEE. I love it. I can please myself. No man or woman or human can compete with my peace and silence. 😂
I believe controlling men are due to mommy giving them everything and not having boundaries. Then they expect that from women.
Are you going to address the fact that the company that does your merch is now bankrupt? I never received the hoodie I ordered or a refund
13:10 - 13:45 needs to be a 'short' 😂😂😂
How is Annie wearing that in winter?? 😂 I like how comfy casual everyone is dressed
The sheep were skinned no sheared.
Amazing how they state a lie, without knowing anything about it, will full confidence.
lol, like they dont know they are sheep skin uggs. what do they think they are? next they wont know what a leather jacket is.
To be fair, the sheepskin used in Uggs are a by product of the meat industry. Tanneries often buy the leftover sheep skin.
OH MY GOD YOUR PERFECT FOR YOUR MATES! NEVER LEAVE! 🥶🎄☃️❄️MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!🎉🤟🏾
Did Stella Barey text Esther?
Oh god I hope not. She made it seem like a SWer she only recently met, she was on the pod with Stella right?
@TheAshley12322 oh I forgot about that yea she was bout a year ago
The psych concept Esther was getting at in the "getting over past issues" section is called Repetition Compulsion. It's when you unconsciously try to achieve symbolic mastery over a traumatic situation from your past by recreating the circumstances of the trauma to achieve a different outcome. It's a very common (and inevitably unsuccessful) trauma response
Love these ladies. Hilarious and sweet. Amazing pod!
Completely agree, feels like you all LEVELED UP! You look gorgoussss, glowing goddess of humor 😂 love you galsss can’t wait for the live show
K talking about threescore fantasy whe she used to live with two guys...lmfao
I don't think they did 3somes though. I think they took turns. Lol
@britnysnyder4991 just taking turns?oh,ok that makes it a little more dignified I guess...or not?I'm sure if they were taking turns they were also doing it together...but what do I know?
Can you have a lobster 🦞 break instead of a banana break. Or just surprise them every week!
Love the Moon talk - today is literally a Full Moon in Cancer (the sign that's ruled by the Moon) !!! ...and yes the menstrual cycle is definitely linked to the moon, you get a period once a Month... once a Moonth (1 full lunar cycle each Month!) ... mamaGastrology
yesss!!!!!
me, listening at 22:12 after my therapist suddenly died in 2020 🤠
The Censoring On this is RANDOM...Some Fucks there, and other F***s there
Someone tell me Annie’s highlighter!
Red witch here. Perfectly aligned with the Full Moon
@Annie and I have the same pop socket!!!!
One the best episodes of this year ❤ So proud of all of you 😊 Thanks for being such shining examples of growth and resilience!
well, I love you Annie
I’ve told someone they were dating a gay man and I was cut off lol
Yup. Even though I was right. As I’m sure you were. I’ve been cut off for pointing out they’re being used for money or dating a rapist too.
14:01 Annie announces cancer in five years.
Khalyla talking about men being free to tell her about their affairs etc... I can relate... it's completely put me off relationships with men I think for the rest of my life.
No one talks about past relationships more than Khalyla
@@theblakex INCEL's do with their nonexistent relationships. Their body pillows are all the women they love to hate.
She only says that because she has been caught cheating SOOOO many times and is hyper-sexual. 😂 Must take ALOT for her to not be a hypocrite and accept when the same thing happens to her.
Love that!: 'You either have peace or no peace...there is no in between.' - Esther ...So true!
The Esther & Dave set was amazing
Yay!! Love you guys
OK um.. Uggs are real animal. Yes, wool is shaved but this isnt.. It's sheepskin. The skin is the outer part and the wool in the inner part. It's dual sided. A fur coat will have fur on the outside and be skin on the inside or if it's a shearling coat, the leather is on the outside and the fur/wool is on the inside. It's skin. You're wearing skin.
As always I'm here for khalilah crazy comments. CHOCOLATE 🍫 !!!!!
Dr K would have been a perfect guest for this episode
You girls are growing on me and I look forward to listening to what you three have to talk about every Tuesday.Good job and your all three looking great and and your outfits today are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
The sheep are in 40+ degree Australian sun. They like the thick wool being shaved off, believe me..
I normally just listen to this, first time watching in months, really forgot how gorgeous these 3 are 😮❤
1:13:41 a month or so ago I was driving and felt something kind of cold and wet dripping down the side of my face. I went to brush it off, flipped out, frantically wiped it off.. looked on my car door and it was a huge slug. I had been outside with my kids an hour or two before. That fucker had been in my hair the whole time until it slowly made its way down my face. I think that officially makes me a slug.. so sometimes yes, there can be a slug in your hair
K girl change those converses 😭
Annie's into the shaman stuff....she's gotta learn about energy cord cutting.
That's like me with this show...
I can't stand one of the three and love the other two greatly.
The show is good but every time this person has done the same thing or something better than a guest or knows someone or something better than a guest or one of the other two it takes everything out of the show for me for the day.
Unfortunately it happens most episodes.
I am not saying this to berate or put down or think my opinion is more important than any other fans' .
I am only saying this in the hopes of *someone* who may have her ear can ask her to dial it back just a little bit.
I wish I never noticed it in the first place because now I see it every time it happens.
Much love to you all and I know you all work your arses off all year round for us.
Happy New Year ❤😂🎉
" This is already Puerto Rican for the weekend" Yessss Annn as a Puerto Rican baby girl, you're killing it. Let me see them hoops
Esther is Meg in the thumb
OOH the over-understander thing hits right home
Banger
What is dry bar?
It's a salon that only does blow-outs.
As a fellow southwesterner this is a true blessing. I would love to know Annie's dry shampoo secrets. Happy Christmas slugs
UGGs are sheep SKIN, they dont shave them.
It’s funny how khalyla says 3 sum situations don’t happen to her like she’s super vanilla but she is the only person I’ve heard of that dated 2 dudes & lived altogether. Js. She’s been in some pretty unconventional relationships lol
shes a pathological liar, if you noticed.
Is like you both have comprehension issues or some sort of mental health impediment. Any regular person understands that she is not saying she is super vanilla lol what she is saying she is looking for a threesome lol what about that screams wanting to appear vanilla to you! What she is obviously saying is that she had people prepositioned her in her past relationship when she didn’t want it but now that she is looking for it she is not getting the offers like Esther is getting them now lol
Similar to how Esther joke that she is getting them now when she can’t accept it cause she is pregnant (but Esther probably wouldn’t have accepted she was just making a joke )
@@Glovvoxthis guy is the one I was mostly addressing by the way I don’t wish you animosity @almostfiction, just lightheartedly for you
She talked about being in a threesome (2 men) before.
I don't think it's weird that K likes Chris Christie. She's always let it be known she likes big guys
Imagine you still have beef from something an 8 year old said/did. INSANE😂 hope the therapy is helping I’ll pray for you!