in 2019, i went to the smallest comedy show in portland and steph was headlining. had no idea who she was. it’s so cool to see her success four years later. 💜💜
Annie says the “timing of the ghosting” doesn’t make sense. Why would he ghost for the weekend then hit her up again? It’s obvious bro. He was hooking up w someone over the weekend so he couldn’t text. Listen, he has your ig. He has friends. If he really lost his phone like that BUT cared about going on a date with you, he would’ve found a way to contact you before Monday at 6PM. He didn’t wanna look like a total asshole so he texted on Monday & was probably down to come through, but didn’t really care either way. Hence the, “I could head out there if you want.”
I have to say, the new producers know how to light y’all so you look your best! And maybe it’s the new background absorbing some of the light and making things look warmer, but it’s so flattering
@@krusher74 What was their point exactly? They are being hypocrites. Which we all are at the end of the day. They want men do pay because it benefits them and they don't want to do the same in return because it doesn't benefit them and it's just inconvenient for them. In Scandinavia people just split the bill and then later on they take turn paying for the dates. TRUE GENDER EQUALITY! 😂😂😂😂
Loved this ep! I've been with my bf for over a decade so my perception on who pays for dates might be warped, but i honestly think I'd rather split a check or pay for our own shit individually early on. Specifically because I'm not trying to play into the idea that i now owe them sex or anything. My mentality is kinda like: I'll let you pay for me when I feel like I can trust you to respect my autonomy and know I want to keep seeing you. 💁♀️ And at that point I wouldn't mind picking up the whole check either. Just like feeling out whatever made sense
Every episode of Trash Tuesday: K: What are your thoughts on fisting? A: Esther's thinking about going fist-first into a bag of Flamin Hot Cheetos- that's what she's thinking about. E: Oh my god you guys- my parents watch this show! Did you know that there are entire TikTok videos dedicated to people eating Cheetos?
ALLEGEDLY Anytime I’m drinking in Manhattan with my friends and we get on the subway I will snatch any subway sign off the platform walls and think it’s hilarious and my friends want me to walk onto the tracks, also I’m am thoroughly obsessed with and a fan of Steph
100% a lie. And this is coming from a guy who was skeptical and immediately ready to defend the guy when the ladies on this podcast tell stories like this. But this one is just so obvious, he's just interested enough to consider meeting up and not ghosting you, but not interested enough to make any effort.
I went to a radio station event that was at a hotel complex in Daytona and my girl brought a huge bag of weed but nothing to smoke it with. Gideon bibles have several blank pages of very thin paper that rolls awesome big joints. We used page 666 too!
I really appreciate the gender roles talk, especially with our rapidly evolving social norms now. I ALWAYS offer to pay but I'm also a traditional dater so I wait for the guy to ask me out and I believe that the person who initiates the date always pays. The one time I had my card ready to hand to the server, no questions asked, was when I was running 20 min late to the date so I knew in the car over that I had to make it up to him. And boy was it hot how flustered he was that I had it covered. And he was so grateful and since then he's always paid
I can pretty much say with some confidence on behalf of MOST men out there, that we'd put a good sense of humour/being funny way up there, whilst how much you earn, what degrees you have or what car/house you own as being right near the bottom of the list 😉
The fact the guy was genuine & was denied after paying for not only her but her friends bill is a *PRIME EXAMPLE* of why nobody should never pay for a full bill. You don't get to have your cake & eat it too. Always *SPLIT* the bill til you're in a relationship.
He just wants to pretend he did nothing wrong and is totally still down to take you out so that YOURE “crrraaazzzyyyyyy” for “not understanding” and not seeing him last minute.
The ONLY reason she has a platform is because of Bobby. She’s no longer with him therefore there’s absolutely no point to us having to listen to her stupid, pick me, attention seeking bs.
Responding to Steph’s ghostly guy who lost his phone in the car, even if he was without his phone until the day of the hangout, for him to message her literally the moment they were supposed to meet up is very sus and just inconsiderate. He could have messaged her hours before that to give her the scoop on his recent radio silence and then check in to see if she still wanted to hang at the planned time. If she does decide to keep talking to him that’s definitely strike 1 for him.
I’m leaving some love for Khalyla because I’m sick of all the hater comments I always see. You are so beautiful….:And I love this show. It has definitely brought me so much comfort hearing all these stories that I can relate to as a fellow diddleee lol. Keep on keeping on ladies!! (PS I am an adult, my kids just use this account too). ✌️ 🐌
Why should men pay the bill though? It’s 2023? We’re seeing if we like each other, not being a parent to you lol. Women want to be modern but expect men to be traditional still, it’s so backwards. You’ve watched too many Disney films and women think they’re princesses
Cause the man is the one that usually asks the woman out. The person that asks the other person out is the one that’s expected to pay. Stop being so cheap.
How is it a “parent” to treat someone to a night out? I keep hearing men infantilize women that want romance and it’s so sick and dark. Are you around parents that seduce and woo kids???? If a woman is independent, paying all her own bills, making or buying all her own meals every day… And any time a friend invites her out she can either split the bill or often be treated, as friends are good to each other…. And even if she wants to go out alone to dine, chances are a dozen men will come up to her to offer to buy her meal or at least a portion of it or some drinks……. Why would she go out with the tint percentage of men who….. Don’t even want to treat her to a night out? 😂 The thing that I don’t understand is whether or not someone wants to treat me isn’t up to me, right? But it’s literally up to YOU, as it is up to me, if you want to ASK SOMEBODY OUT TO GIVE YOU A CHANCE TO WOO THEM. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 wtf? If you don’t want to, just don’t ask that person out! That’s the part I don’t understand. I have never asked someone out when I don’t want to treat them to a night out. If I do ask them out, and I mean a friend, a colleague, even my own family members or parents…. If I’m asking them to allow me the pleasure of treating them to a night out or an event or a meal… I’m asking bc I WANT TO DO THAT😂😂😂 why are men asking women they don’t want to take out…… out? Cuz I don’t think you owe any woman any money! But….. then… don’t ask her to give you a chance to woo her. If you don’t want to. You don’t see me inviting someone over to my house for dinner then making them buy the groceries, right? So what are you saying? Is it a social cue misreading autism thing? It’s not PARENTAL to date and seduce women. It’s not PARENTAL to demonstrate your potential for romance and future provider status. You saying women want to be modern…. Yes that’s right! Our money is FOR US. We don’t need a man to open a bank account for all our earnings. We have it all for ourselves now. And we still don’t make equal pay for equal work. You are not taking the risk that a woman takes by going on first date. You probably just brush your teeth comb your hair and get dressed. You don’t even have to pay for the entire hullabaloo of being a “dateable woman” to begin with. You don’t risk your body with pregnancy if you fuck. You don’t risk rape on a date the way we do. I don’t even understand what men like you are trying to say! In the PAST…… women had to pay dowries for men to marry them. We don’t have to do that anymore.
It’s also so pathetic bc so many women are bisexual! So bro how come when I ask a woman out, I’m delighted to pay AND SHES GONNA GUARANTEE CUM. Hmmm?? And she’s going to see all my recent std panels AND she’s not going to risk pregnancy? Hmmm? And what’s funny is that with women, we usually fight over WHO GETS TO PAY. Like “please allow me, no please allow me!” What is wrong with you? What do you think you bring to the table?
Perfect A+ opening lol 8:37 Steph just tossing off "he peed on the rocks" like it's nothing. She's got a good bit with that story. 20:59 Exploding corpse is an awesome Idea. Metal AF 1:09:40 Ok I'm a dude, I know dudes. This move was entirely calculated to make you jealous. If you're smart, you don't take the bait. He sucks for playin' game on you and you suck for falling for it.
PLEASE talk more about fem guys! I'm dating a new guy who is so sweet but has so much feminine energy. And yes, he is fully shaved and also gets pedis...
I love this show but sometimes it fucks me up Goes out with average Joe guy Goes to a restaurant that costs an arm and a leg and brings a big strong guy along with them on the date and bash him for not getting the bill? I'd literally think I just asked out a trick and she brought her pimp or she clearly brought her boyfriend or guy she's definitely going to fuck after she gets this meal, like OF COURSE I'd let homie pay and save my rent. Guys don't want funny girls? It's at the bottom of their criteria? Are you talking about psychos? Like who tf doesn't want that lol that's such a barefaced bad take to generalize. Perspective.
🇵🇸 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸 please be like Theo and touch on the atrocities happening in the Middle East! We know it’s not funny but people we idolize need to use their power to stop g£nocide!…… also this is my favourite episode ❤
Steph should be a regular guest
She's awesome for this show.
@@JSlugreplace khalyla with the vacuum of space
Should replace khalya
@@backupinit alright already we get it. You and all the other simps want to fuck Bobby
Steph's funny af 😂
Great addition.
Steph Toley is the most relatable person I’ve ever heard 🦄
New biggest fan!
I will say she's been one of my favorite guests by far
Steph has such a nice heart. I hope she finds a man who will cherish her❤❤
Im literally crying over the story of Annie's mom's video for her grandkids haha
Annie is one of the funniest women I've ever heard. Perhaps the funniest
I barely found out about steph a few weeks ago from Annie being on Steph infection. She definitely fits in with these guys
I cannot believe how relatable Steph is oh my fucking god she's so real
You guys should have Tana on ❤️ love the pod
YESSSS GET TANA ON
Yes this!!
she would bring them so many views lol
Yes!!!!
this trio feels good. I hope she comes on the pod often
What is the secret Annie 🔥🔥🔥 every podcast looking better and better
Steph you're very pretty stop putting yourself down 😂❤
She knows she’s very pretty. Self deprecation is her comedy style.
^ i thought both of these thoughts back to back and in this order 😂 much love to you steph!!!
She just said her ex fucked her up
Steph, you're so Cool!
in 2019, i went to the smallest comedy show in portland and steph was headlining. had no idea who she was. it’s so cool to see her success four years later. 💜💜
Loving the hair pulled back annie❤
Annie says the “timing of the ghosting” doesn’t make sense. Why would he ghost for the weekend then hit her up again? It’s obvious bro. He was hooking up w someone over the weekend so he couldn’t text.
Listen, he has your ig. He has friends. If he really lost his phone like that BUT cared about going on a date with you, he would’ve found a way to contact you before Monday at 6PM.
He didn’t wanna look like a total asshole so he texted on Monday & was probably down to come through, but didn’t really care either way. Hence the, “I could head out there if you want.”
"I drive a Subaru Outback, #ImADyke!!!"😭🤣😂😆👏👏👏
I love Steph!!!!
Steph is my absolute favorite!
Steph is like if Annie was born in a parallel universe
this is scary accurate
Canadiannie
Steph is becoming my fave comic
Omg Zuri??? This is the best show ever already lmao
#zurimarley and they haven’t asked interview her????
I have to say, the new producers know how to light y’all so you look your best! And maybe it’s the new background absorbing some of the light and making things look warmer, but it’s so flattering
"I'm a FULL TERD in a romper!!!"😭🤣😂😆👏👏👏
1:03:36 why did I spend years in my 20’s thinking this was my only choice?! lol
Annie is my shawman. Have smoked a Bible paper joint, love this guest! Let’s talk about our infections 😂
Smoking toxic ink. Smart.
@@TheFinisher669theres blank pages in the back
Hope Steph comes back with the whole crew together. Another great guest that could be the (& sometimes Y)!
Steph is one of the most on brand guests ever 🤩
Damn did Esther evolve like a Digimon 😅
Steph is sooooo funny. Really enjoying this ep!!!
Starting to know more about Steph Toley since TB. Funny lady, liking her alot!
The hypocrisy behind the complaints about having to be the one who pays between 2 girls on a date is fucking hilarious. 😂
you totally missed their point.
@@krusher74 What was their point exactly? They are being hypocrites. Which we all are at the end of the day. They want men do pay because it benefits them and they don't want to do the same in return because it doesn't benefit them and it's just inconvenient for them.
In Scandinavia people just split the bill and then later on they take turn paying for the dates.
TRUE GENDER EQUALITY! 😂😂😂😂
I looooved this one the chemistry was so good 💕💕
Thanks Sluggies! 💖😘💕 I love Steph!
You guys should have Tana Mongeau on the show!!
Loved this ep!
I've been with my bf for over a decade so my perception on who pays for dates might be warped, but i honestly think I'd rather split a check or pay for our own shit individually early on. Specifically because I'm not trying to play into the idea that i now owe them sex or anything. My mentality is kinda like: I'll let you pay for me when I feel like I can trust you to respect my autonomy and know I want to keep seeing you. 💁♀️ And at that point I wouldn't mind picking up the whole check either. Just like feeling out whatever made sense
I used to watch Steph's comedy in Toronto. She's hilarious
Kitch Thursdays lol
“I love a hard banana the bruised ones make me throw up” 👏👏
Every episode of Trash Tuesday:
K: What are your thoughts on fisting?
A: Esther's thinking about going fist-first into a bag of Flamin Hot Cheetos- that's what she's thinking about.
E: Oh my god you guys- my parents watch this show! Did you know that there are entire TikTok videos dedicated to people eating Cheetos?
Omg did you leave a comment like this on last week’s episode? If so, I cracked up then. And I’m cracking up now.
Accurate af.
@@AdultHumanXX I did. Props to them for 138 episodes cuz I’m already running out of ways to make this formula work.
Haha.
I really am a fan.
Steph is the best!
Steph is the best.
Steph is a Natural.
I met you in person Annie, you wouldn’t shake my hand 😂 because I’m subhuman or something
I have finally found someone allergic to the sun too
Steph Steph Steph Steph 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽
ALLEGEDLY Anytime I’m drinking in Manhattan with my friends and we get on the subway I will snatch any subway sign off the platform walls and think it’s hilarious and my friends want me to walk onto the tracks, also I’m am thoroughly obsessed with and a fan of Steph
Those aren't friends
Perfect chemistry between these 3
Cougars 😂
Annie! Love the tapping-foot Sonic!!!
I like the dentist and gyno, thought I was the only one!
Steph is the best
The amount of people commenting Steph Toley is hilarious.
100% a lie. And this is coming from a guy who was skeptical and immediately ready to defend the guy when the ladies on this podcast tell stories like this. But this one is just so obvious, he's just interested enough to consider meeting up and not ghosting you, but not interested enough to make any effort.
Exactly! He just found someone or something he wanted to do more that weekend, but wants to keep all the options open
Steph went to the jersey outlaws dentist office
Omg have Zuri as a guest for a full ep
Kahlyla always sitting comfortably with her legs spread 😉
@@freestyle5602 I guarantee you it smells. I'm not gonna lie though I would hit it lol
Why comment this?
@freestyle5602 ok Its pointless to comment though lol
@freestyle5602 lol I guess so. I've just seen a few comments about the way she is sitting and I don't see the point lol
FROM PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭.. ANNIE IS SO BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I went to a radio station event that was at a hotel complex in Daytona and my girl brought a huge bag of weed but nothing to smoke it with.
Gideon bibles have several blank pages of very thin paper that rolls awesome big joints. We used page 666 too!
Keep it in the memory vault. My spank bank is forever in my mind ;)
Khalyas fit is so cuuute. Annie is also slaying
Oh yeaaa this narcissistic abusive sociopath is wearing such a cute fit 🥺 are you fkn serious
@@Vnlly i smell incel
@@chelseapdxo I smell a simp lol
@MP-kj6wk
Another sad incel. . .
You know OP is a woman, right?
Annie looking hot af
My beautiful Steph Infection ❤️
We love Steph
Love Steph!!!
i love you guys. sluggin it
"you don't get it from sucking on bananas?" Fun fact bananas help with your teeth.
I really appreciate the gender roles talk, especially with our rapidly evolving social norms now. I ALWAYS offer to pay but I'm also a traditional dater so I wait for the guy to ask me out and I believe that the person who initiates the date always pays. The one time I had my card ready to hand to the server, no questions asked, was when I was running 20 min late to the date so I knew in the car over that I had to make it up to him. And boy was it hot how flustered he was that I had it covered. And he was so grateful and since then he's always paid
In Scandinavia people just split the bill and then later on they take turn paying for the dates.
TRUE GENDER EQUALITY! 😂😂😂😂
@@MP-kj6wk Things are always so much more seamless in Scandinavia
@@hipnhappenin It's a better model.
Bring Steph full time
Meanwhile Bobby’s podcast casually gets 1mil views. Let this die already
This was all so relatable😂 dating sucks so hard
I can pretty much say with some confidence on behalf of MOST men out there, that we'd put a good sense of humour/being funny way up there, whilst how much you earn, what degrees you have or what car/house you own as being right near the bottom of the list 😉
Steph 🐐
More Gen Z Zuri!!!!!
The fact the guy was genuine & was denied after paying for not only her but her friends bill is a *PRIME EXAMPLE* of why nobody should never pay for a full bill. You don't get to have your cake & eat it too. Always *SPLIT* the bill til you're in a relationship.
He just wants to pretend he did nothing wrong and is totally still down to take you out so that YOURE “crrraaazzzyyyyyy” for “not understanding” and not seeing him last minute.
YES
When my podcast brain and brockhampton brain collide 🤯
Have Steph replace Khalyla. She interrupts to bring up pointless shit that always comes back to her and sex. 🙄
This
The ONLY reason she has a platform is because of Bobby. She’s no longer with him therefore there’s absolutely no point to us having to listen to her stupid, pick me, attention seeking bs.
Responding to Steph’s ghostly guy who lost his phone in the car, even if he was without his phone until the day of the hangout, for him to message her literally the moment they were supposed to meet up is very sus and just inconsiderate. He could have messaged her hours before that to give her the scoop on his recent radio silence and then check in to see if she still wanted to hang at the planned time. If she does decide to keep talking to him that’s definitely strike 1 for him.
No joke, someone I went to high school with got hit by a train last weekend 😬 don't wear headphones and walk on the tracks kids
@@JSlugnooooo
You can get ringworm from dogs. NOT surprised K. :P
I’m leaving some love for Khalyla because I’m sick of all the hater comments I always see. You are so beautiful….:And I love this show. It has definitely brought me so much comfort hearing all these stories that I can relate to as a fellow diddleee lol. Keep on keeping on ladies!! (PS I am an adult, my kids just use this account too). ✌️ 🐌
Steph and annie 🔥
At this point its hard to tell if any of Khalylas stories are fake or wildly exaggerated truths
those are the same thing my friend
Well she did date Bobby for 10 years😂
doesnt really matter. same as with Theo Von. Its just an art form of free form thought
Why should men pay the bill though? It’s 2023? We’re seeing if we like each other, not being a parent to you lol. Women want to be modern but expect men to be traditional still, it’s so backwards. You’ve watched too many Disney films and women think they’re princesses
Cause the man is the one that usually asks the woman out. The person that asks the other person out is the one that’s expected to pay. Stop being so cheap.
What tf are modern women and traditional men? what are you even talking about you just sound broke and lonely as hell
How is it a “parent” to treat someone to a night out? I keep hearing men infantilize women that want romance and it’s so sick and dark.
Are you around parents that seduce and woo kids????
If a woman is independent, paying all her own bills, making or buying all her own meals every day…
And any time a friend invites her out she can either split the bill or often be treated, as friends are good to each other….
And even if she wants to go out alone to dine, chances are a dozen men will come up to her to offer to buy her meal or at least a portion of it or some drinks…….
Why would she go out with the tint percentage of men who…..
Don’t even want to treat her to a night out? 😂
The thing that I don’t understand is whether or not someone wants to treat me isn’t up to me, right?
But it’s literally up to YOU, as it is up to me, if you want to ASK SOMEBODY OUT TO GIVE YOU A CHANCE TO WOO THEM.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 wtf?
If you don’t want to, just don’t ask that person out!
That’s the part I don’t understand. I have never asked someone out when I don’t want to treat them to a night out.
If I do ask them out, and I mean a friend, a colleague, even my own family members or parents….
If I’m asking them to allow me the pleasure of treating them to a night out or an event or a meal…
I’m asking bc I WANT TO DO THAT😂😂😂
why are men asking women they don’t want to take out…… out?
Cuz I don’t think you owe any woman any money!
But….. then… don’t ask her to give you a chance to woo her. If you don’t want to.
You don’t see me inviting someone over to my house for dinner then making them buy the groceries, right?
So what are you saying? Is it a social cue misreading autism thing?
It’s not PARENTAL to date and seduce women. It’s not PARENTAL to demonstrate your potential for romance and future provider status.
You saying women want to be modern….
Yes that’s right! Our money is FOR US. We don’t need a man to open a bank account for all our earnings.
We have it all for ourselves now.
And we still don’t make equal pay for equal work.
You are not taking the risk that a woman takes by going on first date. You probably just brush your teeth comb your hair and get dressed.
You don’t even have to pay for the entire hullabaloo of being a “dateable woman” to begin with.
You don’t risk your body with pregnancy if you fuck.
You don’t risk rape on a date the way we do.
I don’t even understand what men like you are trying to say!
In the PAST…… women had to pay dowries for men to marry them.
We don’t have to do that anymore.
It’s also so pathetic bc so many women are bisexual! So bro how come when I ask a woman out, I’m delighted to pay AND SHES GONNA GUARANTEE CUM. Hmmm?? And she’s going to see all my recent std panels AND she’s not going to risk pregnancy? Hmmm?
And what’s funny is that with women, we usually fight over WHO GETS TO PAY. Like “please allow me, no please allow me!”
What is wrong with you? What do you think you bring to the table?
@@deadringer333i have been asked out 9 of 10 times and the womam aint ever pay for shit what are talking about
To traumatize the general public should b on a shirt lololol
Hope to see Kim Congdon and Melissa Villaseñor on the show sometime!🤘
Can we please get closer to the mic?
Perfect A+ opening lol
8:37 Steph just tossing off "he peed on the rocks" like it's nothing. She's got a good bit with that story.
20:59 Exploding corpse is an awesome Idea. Metal AF
1:09:40 Ok I'm a dude, I know dudes. This move was entirely calculated to make you jealous. If you're smart, you don't take the bait. He sucks for playin' game on you and you suck for falling for it.
PLEASE talk more about fem guys! I'm dating a new guy who is so sweet but has so much feminine energy. And yes, he is fully shaved and also gets pedis...
does his boyfriend know about you guys?
@@krusher74 😂😭
I love this show but sometimes it fucks me up
Goes out with average Joe guy
Goes to a restaurant that costs an arm and a leg and brings a big strong guy along with them on the date and bash him for not getting the bill?
I'd literally think I just asked out a trick and she brought her pimp or she clearly brought her boyfriend or guy she's definitely going to fuck after she gets this meal, like OF COURSE I'd let homie pay and save my rent.
Guys don't want funny girls? It's at the bottom of their criteria? Are you talking about psychos? Like who tf doesn't want that lol that's such a barefaced bad take to generalize. Perspective.
Haven't watched in a while. New Studio, new producer, wth is happening
so true some men don't like funny women, my old boss used to actually get pissed when i would tell jokes!
Omg I wish I could give y’all a glimpse into my life without airing it out. WILD anonymous
He lost his phone, and then started new social media accounts because the old ones were compromised ...there mystery solved.
OMG I feel that! (1:07:00) Is that just a girl thing that when we meet a guy that we vibe with we automatically think we are meant to be?!
Steph wasgreat but can we have Cirie as a guest. She is adorable ❤
love khalyla’s Mario Batali lewk with the chef pants and orange crocs 😍
🇵🇸 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸 please be like Theo and touch on the atrocities happening in the Middle East! We know it’s not funny but people we idolize need to use their power to stop g£nocide!…… also this is my favourite episode ❤
Buy your own drink and shirt!
😂 imma Bulgarian barbie 😂
Producer, please put headphones on or eat the mic cuz audio 🙏