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Cliffnote Summary📝 1. Be an intested introvert, rather than an intresting extrovert 2. Create a pattern interrupt (unusual question, etc.) 3. Share good personal stories (that are relevant to the situation) 4. Make physical contact during the high notes of the conversation (emotional moment) 5. Come with the mindset to create fun and laughter 6. Play a game (relates to point #2, pattern interrupt) 7. Create a first time experience (is memorable) 8. Go deep (have big talk instead of small talk)
Great story about guidance from Spirit! My background is as a counselor. I've found that very few people are afraid to talk about themselves, so just encouraging that is a start. But really listening to the other person and making them feel heard is the best way I've found to keep a conversation going. Getting comfortable with silences is important. They give you space to breathe and think for both of you. If you feel like it might be going flat, smile at your date, and ask them something about what they may have said earlier. It shows you really heard them and are interested in them.
Some great tips! I too listen to my inner voice/ intuition and have had some amazing experiences. Thanks so much for sharing yours! We need to reveal more of these stories so we all can confirm to each other the wonderful, loving divine presence that is looking out for us.
in an established relationship: I was in a bubbly flirty mood so I said, how about verbal forplay for the entire time we are on the date.... it was alot of fun as the premised was absolutely no physical touch!
I'm not a great conversationalist unless on a topic I'm educated about. So if my bf starts on a topic he knows about, I ask him questions to engage. I do ask questions like 'what is your favorite memory from your childhood?' Or 'what was an impactful moment that you had in school?' I'm a deeply sensitive empathy who is not shallow, so I find the answers to these questions can tell you a lot about a person.
Amazing!!! I am not a small talk person, yet I still often struggle with knowing if/when ppl want to go deeper, but it never hurts to ask and start the conversation to see if that desire is mutual. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤❤
When they talk about something they like to do or in life, ask why they do? How does it make them feel or vibe? It gets deeper and they get to share emotions.
That was wonderful Matt. Thank you! These strategies are great even when you're in a relationship. I loved the story about your intuitive hit too. Can't wait to share that will a skeptical friend. There is no denying these are real and that a add a certain magical joy to life. Thanks again for your consistently helpful wisdom.
Finally! Some great, to-the-point, practical tips that I can actually apply to a date and not something vague like “be more interesting”! Thank you! 🙏 Also loved your story of helping that family! It pays to listen to and obey Holy Spirit. God bless you! ❤
Fantastic insights! Your tips on creating first-time experiences and going deep in conversations resonate well. In addition, I'd emphasize the importance of genuine curiosity and active listening-truly understanding your date's perspective. Keep up the great work! As a dating coach myself, I find that fostering a connection based on shared values can also elevate the dating experience. Looking forward to more valuable content
IDEA SUGGESTION: When I'm on a dating site, so many men get upset , confrontational and defensive when they ask if I visit with any other men! I immediately say but bye....but why do they get so defensive and possessive?
I find that puzzling, especially if you have never met them and are dating to meet people so you can then find the one that you would like to get to know further. It’s not the same as having multiple relationships going, you’re just having meet and greets.
I love all of your videos..always great advice. &theres something so special abouy listening to the Holy Spirit that helps us to feel good inside. I havent been on alot of first dates but id have to say "mix up the conversation", talk about a variety of different subjects so it doesnt get boring &just have fun in the process of discovering this person❤
Hello Thanks for sharing this message but my problem is my fiancee is always on his phone whenever am with him. He can be on it till i leave. I have talked about it but still the same. if we can chat or have a good conversation then we are talking about something serious to him. I really feel bored whenever I'm around him and i don't know what to do
I'm not very good at telling stories, partly because my memory is really bad and I can't really think of anything interesting worth telling. I don't want to make something up, but I seriously can't think of a single thing. I don't think my life is uninteresting, and I've done different things, but nothing that can be turned into a story really.
I usually ask them when chatting on a dating site to tell me something interesting about themselves that isn’t on their dating profile. You wouldn’t believe the number of men who are unable to respond in an interesting way. Needless to say it doesn’t progress to meeting up.
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Cliffnote Summary📝
1. Be an intested introvert, rather than an intresting extrovert
2. Create a pattern interrupt (unusual question, etc.)
3. Share good personal stories (that are relevant to the situation)
4. Make physical contact during the high notes of the conversation (emotional moment)
5. Come with the mindset to create fun and laughter
6. Play a game (relates to point #2, pattern interrupt)
7. Create a first time experience (is memorable)
8. Go deep (have big talk instead of small talk)
Wow, antifreeze story was powerful. Holy Spirit is Real. God speaks to us & gives us intuition.
Mat, you are like the big brother that I never had. You give the best dating advice!! Thank you! ❤
Thank you for this great advice. I manifested the guy in my life and we’re just beginning our new relationship ❤️🎉🙏
Congrats on the new relationship!
Great story about guidance from Spirit! My background is as a counselor. I've found that very few people are afraid to talk about themselves, so just encouraging that is a start. But really listening to the other person and making them feel heard is the best way I've found to keep a conversation going. Getting comfortable with silences is important. They give you space to breathe and think for both of you. If you feel like it might be going flat, smile at your date, and ask them something about what they may have said earlier. It shows you really heard them and are interested in them.
Some great tips! I too listen to my inner voice/ intuition and have had some amazing experiences. Thanks so much for sharing yours! We need to reveal more of these stories so we all can confirm to each other the wonderful, loving divine presence that is looking out for us.
Thanks for sharing!!
in an established relationship: I was in a bubbly flirty mood so I said, how about verbal forplay for the entire time we are on the date....
it was alot of fun as the premised was absolutely no physical touch!
Loved this! Thank you Matt 🙏🏾. You never disappoint
I appreciate you:)
I love being let by the Holy Spirit. That was a really good story! I want to learn to be a better storyteller
More of these conversations tips, please! ❤
That was the Holy Spirit leading you.
I'm not a great conversationalist unless on a topic I'm educated about. So if my bf starts on a topic he knows about, I ask him questions to engage.
I do ask questions like 'what is your favorite memory from your childhood?' Or 'what was an impactful moment that you had in school?'
I'm a deeply sensitive empathy who is not shallow, so I find the answers to these questions can tell you a lot about a person.
Great advice!
Possible to have other examples of big talks like the one at the end??
What I like about your posts/tips is that they are mostly true in communication with anyone and not just dates. So thank you for all the tips :)
Amazing!!! I am not a small talk person, yet I still often struggle with knowing if/when ppl want to go deeper, but it never hurts to ask and start the conversation to see if that desire is mutual. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤❤
So true!
Loooooove ❤❤❤ the anti freeze story! Love how u incorporated spirituality.
I loved the part where you connected it with your intuition
When they talk about something they like to do or in life, ask why they do? How does it make them feel or vibe? It gets deeper and they get to share emotions.
Love this!
Your story gave me goosebumps 😊
Thank you ❤
Thanks so much for sharing the antifreeze story. That is incredible
Beautiful story I love it
That was wonderful Matt. Thank you! These strategies are great even when you're in a relationship. I loved the story about your intuitive hit too. Can't wait to share that will a skeptical friend. There is no denying these are real and that a add a certain magical joy to life. Thanks again for your consistently helpful wisdom.
Finally! Some great, to-the-point, practical tips that I can actually apply to a date and not something vague like “be more interesting”! Thank you! 🙏 Also loved your story of helping that family! It pays to listen to and obey Holy Spirit. God bless you! ❤
Excellent tips!! Thankyou
This is helpful! I'll be applying this tonight. Thank you!
I loved your tips and the whole video. all very helpful and fun. 🥰Thanks a million, Matt boggs, thank you❤
You are so welcome!
Thank you, Mat. All very cool tips.
Great tips! Thank you 😌
Fantastic insights! Your tips on creating first-time experiences and going deep in conversations resonate well. In addition, I'd emphasize the importance of genuine curiosity and active listening-truly understanding your date's perspective. Keep up the great work! As a dating coach myself, I find that fostering a connection based on shared values can also elevate the dating experience. Looking forward to more valuable content
I remember our last date was really memorable!!we had fun😅😅laughter like crazy!!really 100%
Excellent content!
5:14-- The voice of the Holy Spirit!!!!!!
Thank you Mat. WELL DONE!
Brilliant video ❤
IDEA SUGGESTION: When I'm on a dating site, so many men get upset , confrontational and defensive when they ask if I visit with any other men! I immediately say but bye....but why do they get so defensive and possessive?
I find that puzzling, especially if you have never met them and are dating to meet people so you can then find the one that you would like to get to know further. It’s not the same as having multiple relationships going, you’re just having meet and greets.
Run! Immediate red flag on the field
Absolutely agree! It's a meet and greet....isn't it why they are on a dating site too???
Amazing story Mat wow just wow .... great tips thank you .. I'll take these tips on board
LOVE THESE!! 😍
I loved this!!!!
Your story is just incredible!!!I'd like yo be much intuitive!!!
I love all of your videos..always great advice. &theres something so special abouy listening to the Holy Spirit that helps us to feel good inside. I havent been on alot of first dates but id have to say "mix up the conversation", talk about a variety of different subjects so it doesnt get boring &just have fun in the process of discovering this person❤
Omg that's awesome... just wow!!!
Mat, I LOVE your videos and how they challenge me to grow! The last question about being on my death bed - whoa - that is getting to the heart!
Fabulous!✨✨
It is amazing 👌
There were some good tips in that book The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell too.
Hello
Thanks for sharing this message but my problem is my fiancee is always on his phone whenever am with him. He can be on it till i leave. I have talked about it but still the same. if we can chat or have a good conversation then we are talking about something serious to him. I really feel bored whenever I'm around him and i don't know what to do
I'm not very good at telling stories, partly because my memory is really bad and I can't really think of anything interesting worth telling. I don't want to make something up, but I seriously can't think of a single thing. I don't think my life is uninteresting, and I've done different things, but nothing that can be turned into a story really.
Ok so I need more questions like that! I’m so bad at asking questions. I freeze. 😂
You need the anti freeze
I usually ask them when chatting on a dating site to tell me something interesting about themselves that isn’t on their dating profile. You wouldn’t believe the number of men who are unable to respond in an interesting way. Needless to say it doesn’t progress to meeting up.
Love the way your saying my wife 🥰❤️🥰 whatta a nice partner ❤😍❤️...Ohh Lord these year bless me with a perfect man ❤️🙏
that is what we call the holy spirit of God
Wow, what a great story about the Spirit and the antifreeze! 🙏🏻🤍
Thank you for all of these creative and valuable suggestions, Matt!!!
Super cool story about the antifreeze 🥲
Thank you, Mat. All very cool tips.