Its disgusting that he not only denied the accusations, but said he would never harass a woman because he has 3 sisters. as if that makes what he did any better
my drama: i’ve got this “friend” who is one of the few people i told that i’m dyslexic since i’m afraid of getting judged, ever since then she’s been making insensitive jokes about me and if i ever make a mistake, she just says “ oh you’re so dumb cuz of your dyslexia” LIKE WHAT? anyways i can’t just dump her cuz she’s part of the group and everyone loves her, help 😢
i have some POSITIVE drama: one time during school i ate lunch in my teachers class cuz i had a headache, anyways i was watching one of ur videos and was apparently smiling cuz she asked me what i was watching. so i told her abt ur channel and she STARTED WATCHING ONE OF UR VIDEOS😭😭. she thought u were crazy (she’s 60 btw but super sweet
I cannot explain the satisfaction I have achieved after seeing you discuss this controversy, combined with me waiting for new uploads from you and doing random stuff at 1am. Its just a chef's kiss with a cherry on top.
my drama: my friend group keeps on making me feel left out-or i let myself be left out by them. i know they mean good things, i really do, but they are aware that i feel left out, yet they won’t do anything to solve it, or make me feel more recognized. (sorry if that was weirdly worded) also, hi ben! i love listening to your podcasts!🫶🏼
My drama is, when i was 6 my step dad who’s now in jail had a friend that baby sat kids. The others kids she baby sat used to torture me. Onetime they asked if i wanted a gumball, they told me to lay down and close my eyes, saying they would put it in my mouth. Being a gullible 6 year old, i did that. They put a cockroach in my mouth… Also i love u and ur videos!!
That dude is so disrespectful, gross and obviously has anger issues. It’s never right to treat a girl/women like that and especially a human being. Some ppl just need to think before they do.
hey ben i have some drama: i have this friend, let’s call her claire, who is being really rude to me and i’ve called her out before and we got into a big fight where my friends sided with her. she’s still being mean and my friend (who doesn’t like her) wants to wait it out until we don’t see her anymore. i don’t know if i can deal. (i love your podcast and i listen to your old episodes all the time)
get up any evidence possible that she's been rude to you then show your friends. i've been in your situation and even if it takes a little while to wait and get the evidence it will be worth it. infuriating wait but in the end it will pay off
He said so many things in his "apology" like "I have three sisters so i blah blah blah i can't assult women!! 🥺🥺" and "I firmly believe blah blah blah the rights and equality of all humans, including women. " like what??
Drama!! I’ve had this best friend for a year, she’s really annoying, racist, sexist, and doesn’t realize that we’re sick of her. But, her mom is my dance teacher and will post about me on Facebook if I stop being her friend. How do I gently cut her off? Love the podcast!
i hope everything's okay now, but if you're still in the same situation, i would suggest just slowly distancing yourself. not in a rude way, but put some space between you two, so you're not ALWAYS with her, y'know?
drama: one of my friends (amira) dated her bsfs ex then dropped her, turn almost everyone against me, and calls me rude and vulgar names. what should I do this school year?
Okay. So if she goes out of her way to say those things about you. Just clearly shows what type of person she is. Try to stay out of it. And if she touches you just touch her back. I know it might cause a fight but you gotta look out for yourself
my drama! so my “best friend” of 5-6 years is ignoring me/ is becoming annoying af, i dont like that but i dont know what to do, since i dont want to ruin are friendship nor make her sad / suprised. maybe some advice? btw, ben i love your podcasts!!
Hey Ben!! Love your vids! DRAMA from me: So last year this girl at my school molested one of my close friends, then she got reported and a lot of girls including me told the school how she has made us really uncomfortable, and we all thought she was expelled but SHE CAME BACK THIS YEAR and my friend group who was mostly effected by her is PISSSED. Also i had NO idea that Bentellect was such a sexist thank you so much for making this vid❤❤
here's my drama: i had this best friend for 7 years,but i dropped her in like may this year. i was tired of her shit (she'd literally be on phone to her other friends/ texting them and listen to music for the singular half an hour she'd spend with me every day) and i've been happier since. side note: she doesn't seem any better or worse off without me but tbh i'm doing better w/o her so thats all that matters #girlboss
my drama: there is a guy in my basketball academy who always tries to exclude me from the game and keeps on passing negative remarks about my appearance. nobody looks as bad as to be hurt so much. now i wanna get back at him for embarrassing me infront of everyone, any tips?
act really nice to him all of a sudden and slowly make him trust you and guilt trip him and once he lets his guard down find out one of his biggest secrets then confront him saying if he doesn't start including you and bullying you then you will tell his secret. (you can still tell everyone but if you do tell me what happens)
my drama: I've always had a feeling that this girl with me at skl, let's call her poopoo, was bad, turns out I was right because she spread rumours about one of our friends, and earlier I had told one of my closest friends, Joanne, about this guy I liked, and she literally went and told poopoo all about it (literally after I told her to stay away from poopoo). Months passed and I kind of got over it, but it turns out that Joanne liked me and that she told Poopoo because she was jealous that I liked someone else. Now she and Poopoo are friends, but Joanne still wants to be friends, and I'm pretty sure she's still obsessed with me. What should I do? PS. you've literally been my favorite youtuber for as long as i can remember plus i love your podcast I LOVE U SM BEN‼️😔
DRAMA: My friend Emma (not saying her real name) she literally started talking to my ex and even was talking to my ex WHEN WE WERE DATING.. like what-😭 I don't care about him at all but I feel like it's rude to talk to someones ex.. ESPECIALLY YOUR FRIEND TALKING TO YOUR EX.. also, I tried talking to her about how I feel about it and she just didn't care and literally denied all of it. I also was at cedar point with her and I looked at her phone and it showed my ex's name. And I don't know what to do. Literally everyone likes her so idk. 😭
My best friend just told me I can’t be friends with her because I’m friends with another person but now is gaslighting me saying she never said that. What do I do, stop being friends with my ex-best friend or stop being friends with the other person
this is my drama I don’t know if my best friend wants to be friends she kinda just ignores me in groups and i’m always the one who has to make plans. she’s my only friend i don’t want to cut her out of my life
hey ben! love your podcast sm! i listened before work today haha here's my drama in april 2 of my elementary friends dropped me out of nowhere saying i changed after i went through lots of family issues for 5 years, and now that schools starting again idk what to do if i have classes with them again.
My drama is me and my best friend are “ friends “ with what is pretty much the school bully, but Being friends with him doesn’t mean he stops to bully me.
my drama request: so i have this friend that ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS talks about herself and is just always on her phone like never pays attention to me or my feelings. what do i do?
hi ben i have some drama! so there's this person that's been harassing me and my friends; ended up needing to contact the police. he said he's gonna horrible things to me he also goes to my school and i'm nervous something awful is gonna happen. (ps. your podcasts and videos always make my day ❤)
Did you report him to the school also? If you didn't, then report him to the school so that they can be attentive to him for your safety and the schools' safety. If you did and you still feel scared, ik this might sound fucked up, because you didn't do anything, but I think it may be an only option (that's if you feel really scared) then consider transferring to another school just for your safety. I'm sorry if I can't help. This is all I can think of. I wish you the best. And may God bless you. Stay safe and best of luck.🩷
@@bluesage_mami.01 Thank you, everyone one is safe and the school is well aware. The police have an eye on him but he didn't technically do anything illegal. jus blows my mind how people can do this, and get away with it. thanks again for the concern 💗
@@frxnchvava Okay, I'm glad that you reported him, nowadays you can't tell who is willing to actually go through with their evil plans. Yeah, it's sad that people are allowed to make such evil threats. Stay safe okay and best of luck to you and your friends. Stick together okay. Take care. 🩷
Hi ben! this is my drama. So I used to be friends with this one guy and I confided in him a lot of things about my mental health and personal problems. One day I find out he's been spreading it all over his school and even asks me to explain the cuts on my wrists as a truth or dare question in front of all my friends. I cut him off but recently he's been trying to talk to me and apologize. I dont know if I should forgive him or not. (btw I love ur vids sm they make my day :D)
Here is my drama: I have a best friend for about 3 years now, she has always been better than me with most things and always seems to show it off. With time I started to feel insecure about the things I can’t really do well as she could. (My best friend has been always the sweetest person ever but lately she has been changing, and it’s not in a good way) Since she has been hanging out with new friends she has been treating me differently me. I’ve tried talking to her about it but she always avoids the question or she makes some random excuse. Idk what should I do? (btw I love your sm podcast, i listen to it when I’m sketching in my sketchbook)
I got drama mama. So there is this girl in my school who honestly talks bad about everyone and she talks bad about people I like and my friends and stuff, so I have no idea wether i should tell her or not, it’s mainly her but there is also like four other people who talk bad with her. Also she’s a new friend of mine . I love you videos on both channels ❤
I have drama So basically i have this friend that keeps claiming they have mental illnesses when they don’t when even their own mother says they don’t and it’s very offensive but every time i confront her about it she denies it and claims I’m being a crappy friend, what do I do
One of the worst things is that I used to watch his content (no idea why) when I was younger and when I found this out at the time I was just SO disgusted. Especially as I am a girl and was like 11 then ☹️
my drama: so i have this online friend group, with around 9 people, and there’s this one person who we’ll call Eliza, and she tries to convince me to face reveal, name reveal, state reveal etc etc. and on some other notes, when i was struggling with S3LF H4RM, she told me to do it. also, she convinced me to get back with one of my exes who forced me to do things (i was 11.) i love your videos so much ben and you cheer me up, and make my day.
Here’s my drama: my best friend has been acting racist and called me a monkey at the end of the school year and didn’t let me stand up to my abuser that was his other best friend that was talking about my body,now it’s acting like he never did these rude things to me,I don’t know what to do and I really don’t wanna lose him. What should I do Ben, also, I really like your podcast and recommended it to my friend group♡ᵕ̈◡̈☻☺︎
Drama: so basically I get bullied since 1st grade, my teachers won't do anything about it and neither my friends, my best friend stoped hanging out with me and now i have depression, also I'm gay and I'm afraid to admit it because people would not take it good, what should i do (btw I love you so much, you helped me get through my depression)
My drama: my best friend has a crush on my boyfriend and she says she wouldn't hit on him but lately he told me she has been flirting with him for weeks
My drama is that I have a friend that will make me feel worthless or dumb. She like rubs it in my face and I can’t say stop being annoying since they are liked by everyone and i can’t hate them. Also if I like someone I like she tries their best to make me hate them. What should I do?
Here’s my drama. My friend who I have trusted for a while and we.never had any issues decided to pull a prank on my that she was gonna buy me clothes that I have been wanting but can’t afford for family issues. She gave me a card number and i cried. It was a fake card. And she was laughing so hard. And I wanted to jump in a whole I was so embarrassed because her cousins were in on it. What do I do
1 tell her it’s not okay to do that bc it isn’t and that’s a horrible thing to do and just explain it to her 2 if she does anything like that again after u say something to her (she doesn’t change her behaviour) or she makes it seem like ur being dramatic i think leaving her is a good idea or not rly having her as such a close friend
hi ben!!! heres my drama 😱 : So yesterday i wanted to talk to my ex cus i missed them and when i told her i missed her she sent me a paragraph of how horrible of a person i am, how manipulative i am, how i "forced" her to be someone she wasn't and when i read that message i kinda just sobbed my eyes out afterwards and cried for half of the night (and like prolly half of the people in my grade hate me because of her) I had so much to say to her but i didnt want to fuel the fire y'know? I kept asking myself questions (because I blocked her afterwards) like, "wasnt it her choice to leave her friends?", "i didnt use her for anything, unless she's referring to all the times she bought me stuff then idk" & "how did i manipulate her??" school starts in 2 weeks and idk how i should be feeling or what i should think about at all
Tbh, you have to let that person go. They might be the manipulative one. Them blaming you for everything is a sign, but also know that within every bad situation there might be something to learn from. Like maybe don't take everything she said to your heart, but maybe take what she said to figure out your own wrong doings in the relationship and become more self aware of the things that you do and say and how they affect others. Become more aware of yourself and better yourself so that you can become the best person that you can possibly be to others. Also, take this as a lesson to learn how to put boundaries for yourself, so that you don't allow others to manipulate you or play with your heart, ok. Take this as a lesson ok. Don't allow this situation to cloud your judgement or your view of yourself or life in general. Take this as a win. As someone once said. Every rejection is a blessing in disguise. Right now, you need to heal from this person. Don't allow them to come back. Seperate yourself from them and let them go. Work on yourself for YOU. And take this as a lesson and see this as a blessing in disguise. Maybe you can't see it right now, but something good is bound to come around once you better yourself for YOU. I wish you the best.🩷 P.S. Don't listen to what others say about you. If she wants to turn people against you let her. Karma will find her when the time is right. You worry about yourself and focus on yourself. Even if you were a bad person you can always change and become better ok. It's never too late to learn, change, and be kind. Take care🫶🏽
⚠️BENNNNNN⚠️ My drama: SOoOo my ‘friend’ let’s call her Stacey, has been using me for my money! She always asks me to buy her stuff and if I say no she threatens MEEEE.WHAT DO I DOOOOOO😅😅😅😅😅
drama is this girl claims she's my friend but she says that me + my bffs are using her for good grades and tells everyone that my BFF has bad grades ...she doesn't. What do we do p.s u are the funniest person alive and make die laughing ur the best.
⚠️My drama⚠️ My ex friend who was a gaslighting narcissist is trying to sneak back into my life and made her little minions hate me. Ps: Love ur vids mama hope ur well 🫶
Here's my drama request: I have this friend and she's really good friends with this one person who used to absolutely full on bully me for abt 2-3 yrs and when I tell my friend abt it she js ignores that💀
Tbh, I get were you are coming from, personally, that type of shit bothers me a lot, because it sorta feels like a betrayal of some sort. ME, personally, I would stop being friends with her, but idk that's just me. But if you really want to be friends with her then maybe sit her down and have an honest conversation on the matter. Tell her your problem, explain to her how that makes you feel and why it makes you feel that way, and ask her why does she insist in being her friend. After that conversation come to an agreement. Maybe she might convince you to forgive this girl and give her a chance or you might just have to accept the friendship and put your insecurities aside, or you can end the friendship there if you feel that her friendship with that girl is causing you emotional harm. These are just some suggestions. I hope this help and I wish you well. The best of luck to you🤞🏽💗
Hi, so I have *drama!* So there’s this girl that I like at my school, my friends knew I liked her 3 of them. One of them “accidentally” said I liked that girl a little to loud and now two other people know. What should I do
my dramaa: So i have two best best friends we’ll call them stacy and katy and stacy goes to my school but katy doesnt and we all agreed that we shouldnt talk to this one guy from my school because he was extremely rude and mean to all 3 of us but recently stacy has been talking and hanging out with that guy and me and katy dont know what to tell her because we already told her to stop. Btw i lovee ur podcasts everytime u post i get so excited 🫶🫶❤️
my drama: i invited a ''friend'' of mine to my house and he loved the idea but now every time i tell him the date and time he always has to do something and never comes hes done that so many times im starting to think he doesnt want to come hes started ignoring me too lately what should i do?
I go to a performing arts school, and one of my friends is very openly gay, and today at lunch some high-school boys started harassing him, one of the kids was black and called my asian friend the n slur (not even sure if that's okay or not). All this because we were "staring at them". From asking around I was able to find out that these kids aren't even arts kids, they just got into the school from pure luck. We told our theatre teacher but the highschool boys didn't really care. My friends wanna formally report them, but I think they will beat the shit out of us. They are little shit heads pls Ben do help meeeee 😍
Its disguting that he's still doing this. I have been invited to join the podcast and he has done the same thing, i didnt post it on any socials to not cause drama. I think this is honestly disgusting.
Drama of the week request: So I have this friend of mine (she’s very talkative and social) . She always calls me to rant about something for hours and it’s exhausting to me(I hate talking to the phone) . How should I tell her that I’m not her therapist gently? Ps I love you podcasts sm x
heres my drama, all my friends gossip about eachother, sometimes it feels like every single one of them is fake accept my bsf. but my school has a lot of furries and our really big but kinda toxic friend group is like the only normal people, so nobody leaves or "kick people out". I know they do it to everyone, so why do i get so butthurt when i get called annoying behind my back? How do i grow thicker skin?
Here’s my drama ig: I have this friend that fakes disorders. One example of this is how one time they were talking about how they had bpd (they definitely don’t) I told them they didn’t and most likely they have npd. Now online, they make that and other disorders their entire personality (only adhd was diagnosed). Me and 2 other people want to drop them. What should we do?
Its disgusting that he not only denied the accusations, but said he would never harass a woman because he has 3 sisters. as if that makes what he did any better
exactly. its kinda like the "i had a black friend in 3rd grade so I can't be racist!" argument
@@WhatTheKel33 yes exactly!
its basically the same thinng as saying "im not racist bc i have (insert race) friends"
“I can’t be homophobic, my goldfish is bisexual!”
"I had a muslim friend in 6th grade so i can't be islamphobic"
THE FACT THE FIRST PERSON WAS BEING SO NICE AND EVEN SAID THANKS 😭
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the fact that his reactions are faker than those tiktok live npcs is just brain-rotting.
Who? Ben of the week?
@@TH-cam-NXAHYYY no no no I’m on abt mr tellect
Yeah lol
@@meerab14380 ok hood
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Saying he has sisters DOES NOT make it any better! In fact it makes it much worse!!
Exactly!!! It just gives him MORE reason to NOT harass women, imagine if someone did that to his sisters!!?!
Yes, but the thing is to think what did he do to his sisters?
"No one wants to see mr mayonnaise, shoot out his mayonnaise" THE INSTANT REGRET I BET HE FELT AFTER HE SAID THAT
HELPPP 😭
@@Beanie_iscool Nice PFP!:)
Now we finally have a valid reason to hate him
Nah his tiktoks are still a valid reason to hate him
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YALL, I MIGHT MAKE THIS A SLANDER ACC ON HIM, IF I DO, WANNA JOIN??
saying he has sisters and then proceeds to harass women, disgusting human fr
“shoot his mayonnaise” IS INSANE.
fr that’s crazy 😂😮
LMAOO YEAH THATS CRAZY 😭😭
FRRRR
@@denjisprettycool YOUR NAME IS ALSO INSANE WHAT?
@@notfertbh thanks
ben’s podcasts are the only podcasts I can sit through without skipping anything
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Which one
exactly
Reall
@@ieatmicroplasticsforlunchHELP
PROUD TO SAY I ALWAYS HATED BENTELLECT
"Ahaha true dat I did do that😂👆🏽"
I ALWAYS KNEW THERE WAS SOMETHING OFF
“Only mfs will laugh at this, A B- BABBABAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHABHAHAHAA”
holy moly😱
Same
Finally someone talks about him like isnt his content supposed to be for children?
It’s not “for children” in fact his videos aren’t on TH-cam kids so only people 13+ should be able to see it 🤨🤨🤨
@@lowkey.sam94no 5 year old is on TH-cam kids💀💀
@@TH-cam-NXAHYYYmy niece and nephew are
@@TH-cam-NXAHYYYbrooooo no one cares about you or your family what he wrong asf
@@TH-cam-NXAHYYYWell no wonder kids nowadays are so screwed up, youtube kids has terrible content and parents are just allowing kids on normal yt
The fact I used to watch this man around 2 or 3 years ago makes me gag.
Bro said "can't be a raging misogynist if i breathe the same air as women". 2023 isnt real 😭
my drama: i’ve got this “friend” who is one of the few people i told that i’m dyslexic since i’m afraid of getting judged, ever since then she’s been making insensitive jokes about me and if i ever make a mistake, she just says “ oh you’re so dumb cuz of your dyslexia” LIKE WHAT? anyways i can’t just dump her cuz she’s part of the group and everyone loves her, help 😢
damn i’ve been in a situation like that b4 it’s sucks, good luck tho 👍🏽
Mama don't dump her. Dump the whole fucking group!
is she dumb.... what does your dyslexia have to do w a mistake you made 😭😭
Is this the original
@@rob1nx yep :D I was shocked when I heard my drama +he says my user name b4 reading it just for some proof 👍🏽
i have some POSITIVE drama: one time during school i ate lunch in my teachers class cuz i had a headache, anyways i was watching one of ur videos and was apparently smiling cuz she asked me what i was watching. so i told her abt ur channel and she STARTED WATCHING ONE OF UR VIDEOS😭😭. she thought u were crazy (she’s 60 btw but super sweet
this is literally the definition of “hating a creator for no reason and then you have a reason to hate them”
OMG BEN UPLOADED GUYS
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Yoo im blowing up ty for 10likes😃
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SLAY I LOVE BEING EARLY 🔥🔥😍😍
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I cannot explain the satisfaction I have achieved after seeing you discuss this controversy, combined with me waiting for new uploads from you and doing random stuff at 1am. Its just a chef's kiss with a cherry on top.
my drama:
my friend group keeps on making me feel left out-or i let myself be left out by them. i know they mean good things, i really do, but they are aware that i feel left out, yet they won’t do anything to solve it, or make me feel more recognized. (sorry if that was weirdly worded) also, hi ben! i love listening to your podcasts!🫶🏼
In the midst of a mental breakdown and I began watching this and I feel much better now! Thank you 😭
My drama is, when i was 6 my step dad who’s now in jail had a friend that baby sat kids. The others kids she baby sat used to torture me. Onetime they asked if i wanted a gumball, they told me to lay down and close my eyes, saying they would put it in my mouth. Being a gullible 6 year old, i did that. They put a cockroach in my mouth…
Also i love u and ur videos!!
Wtf 😟
@@Lunaxoxo3333 yeah… i’m traumatized
WHAT THE HELL 😦
@@spontaneouslycombusted7664 yeah 😭
Oh !
That dude is so disrespectful, gross and obviously has anger issues. It’s never right to treat a girl/women like that and especially a human being. Some ppl just need to think before they do.
This man is the equivalent of that one meme 💀💀💀😶😶😶
"Dont say disrespect stuff, procceds to say the most disrespectful stuff"
hey ben i have some drama:
i have this friend, let’s call her claire, who is being really rude to me and i’ve called her out before and we got into a big fight where my friends sided with her. she’s still being mean and my friend (who doesn’t like her) wants to wait it out until we don’t see her anymore. i don’t know if i can deal. (i love your podcast and i listen to your old episodes all the time)
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@@jahlaysahpatterson thanksss
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get up any evidence possible that she's been rude to you then show your friends. i've been in your situation and even if it takes a little while to wait and get the evidence it will be worth it. infuriating wait but in the end it will pay off
@@onthebasscleff thanks for the advice, sadly i don’t know if it will help
He said so many things in his "apology" like "I have three sisters so i blah blah blah i can't assult women!! 🥺🥺" and "I firmly believe blah blah blah the rights and equality of all humans, including women. " like what??
Drama!! I’ve had this best friend for a year, she’s really annoying, racist, sexist, and doesn’t realize that we’re sick of her. But, her mom is my dance teacher and will post about me on Facebook if I stop being her friend. How do I gently cut her off? Love the podcast!
i hope everything's okay now, but if you're still in the same situation, i would suggest just slowly distancing yourself. not in a rude way, but put some space between you two, so you're not ALWAYS with her, y'know?
I appreciate you for uploading and putting time into your videos, I'm proud of you!
“Give the most SSSniperwolf ass commentary on it-“
Tell my why I laughed so hard at that tho-
drama: one of my friends (amira) dated her bsfs ex then dropped her, turn almost everyone against me, and calls me rude and vulgar names. what should I do this school year?
Okay. So if she goes out of her way to say those things about you. Just clearly shows what type of person she is. Try to stay out of it. And if she touches you just touch her back. I know it might cause a fight but you gotta look out for yourself
my drama!
so my “best friend” of 5-6 years is ignoring me/ is becoming annoying af,
i dont like that but i dont know what to do, since i dont want to ruin are friendship
nor make her sad / suprised. maybe some advice? btw, ben i love your podcasts!!
“no one wants to see mr mayonnaise shoot his mayonnaise” IM WHEEEEZING
Hey Ben!! Love your vids! DRAMA from me: So last year this girl at my school molested one of my close friends, then she got reported and a lot of girls including me told the school how she has made us really uncomfortable, and we all thought she was expelled but SHE CAME BACK THIS YEAR and my friend group who was mostly effected by her is PISSSED. Also i had NO idea that Bentellect was such a sexist thank you so much for making this vid❤❤
It’s crazy to me how the “single brain celled man on TH-cam shorts” can act like this
Dude I love how I can have such a bad day at school but then watch bens videos and just switch my whole day around. I LOVE YOU BEN!! ❤❤❤❤🫶🫶
Bro I cried when you showed one of him tiktoks😭
Bro also he is like such a bad person. He deserves JAIL (bentelect does)
I love watching these videos so much, theyre just entertaining and idk why.
It's like gossiping with a friend
@@Lunaxoxo3333 EXACTLY
@@Lunaxoxo3333RIGHT
here's my drama:
i had this best friend for 7 years,but i dropped her in like may this year. i was tired of her shit (she'd literally be on phone to her other friends/ texting them and listen to music for the singular half an hour she'd spend with me every day) and i've been happier since.
side note: she doesn't seem any better or worse off without me but tbh i'm doing better w/o her so thats all that matters #girlboss
👏👏👏
my drama: there is a guy in my basketball academy who always tries to exclude me from the game and keeps on passing negative remarks about my appearance. nobody looks as bad as to be hurt so much. now i wanna get back at him for embarrassing me infront of everyone, any tips?
act really nice to him all of a sudden and slowly make him trust you and guilt trip him and once he lets his guard down find out one of his biggest secrets then confront him saying if he doesn't start including you and bullying you then you will tell his secret. (you can still tell everyone but if you do tell me what happens)
His entire demeanor is just so plastic it's honestly creepy 💀💀
my drama:
I've always had a feeling that this girl with me at skl, let's call her poopoo, was bad, turns out I was right because she spread rumours about one of our friends, and earlier I had told one of my closest friends, Joanne, about this guy I liked, and she literally went and told poopoo all about it (literally after I told her to stay away from poopoo). Months passed and I kind of got over it, but it turns out that Joanne liked me and that she told Poopoo because she was jealous that I liked someone else. Now she and Poopoo are friends, but Joanne still wants to be friends, and I'm pretty sure she's still obsessed with me. What should I do?
PS. you've literally been my favorite youtuber for as long as i can remember plus i love your podcast I LOVE U SM BEN‼️😔
"None wants to see Mr mayonnaise shoot is mayonnaise" the way i actually burst out laughing here 19:07
DRAMA: My friend Emma (not saying her real name) she literally started talking to my ex and even was talking to my ex WHEN WE WERE DATING.. like what-😭 I don't care about him at all but I feel like it's rude to talk to someones ex.. ESPECIALLY YOUR FRIEND TALKING TO YOUR EX.. also, I tried talking to her about how I feel about it and she just didn't care and literally denied all of it. I also was at cedar point with her and I looked at her phone and it showed my ex's name. And I don't know what to do. Literally everyone likes her so idk. 😭
Have you sorted it out now?
isnt he the one that goes “ELITEEE🤣🤣”
Yea he is but its so gross that he did that
I’ve been binging your videos all day and they are helping my anxiety, so thank you 😭
My best friend just told me I can’t be friends with her because I’m friends with another person but now is gaslighting me saying she never said that. What do I do, stop being friends with my ex-best friend or stop being friends with the other person
this is my drama I don’t know if my best friend wants to be friends she kinda just ignores me in groups and i’m always the one who has to make plans. she’s my only friend i don’t want to cut her out of my life
hey ben! love your podcast sm! i listened before work today haha here's my drama
in april 2 of my elementary friends dropped me out of nowhere saying i changed after i went through lots of family issues for 5 years, and now that schools starting again idk what to do if i have classes with them again.
he forgot pickles🥒
My drama is me and my best friend are “ friends “ with what is pretty much the school bully, but Being friends with him doesn’t mean he stops to bully me.
my drama request: so i have this friend that ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS talks about herself and is just always on her phone like never pays attention to me or my feelings. what do i do?
Dump her, say "sorry not sorry, your just hurting my feelings"
everyone drop everything, it’s podcast time.
Bro the way Ben laughed at 19:15 turn went back to talking lmaoo
same omg
hi ben i have some drama! so there's this person that's been harassing me and my friends; ended up needing to contact the police. he said he's gonna horrible things to me he also goes to my school and i'm nervous something awful is gonna happen. (ps. your podcasts and videos always make my day ❤)
Did you report him to the school also?
If you didn't, then report him to the school so that they can be attentive to him for your safety and the schools' safety.
If you did and you still feel scared, ik this might sound fucked up, because you didn't do anything, but I think it may be an only option (that's if you feel really scared) then consider transferring to another school just for your safety.
I'm sorry if I can't help. This is all I can think of. I wish you the best. And may God bless you. Stay safe and best of luck.🩷
Be careful honey 🩷 and you should probably get a restraining order and send proof to the police of his threat
@@bluesage_mami.01 Thank you, everyone one is safe and the school is well aware. The police have an eye on him but he didn't technically do anything illegal. jus blows my mind how people can do this, and get away with it. thanks again for the concern 💗
@@frxnchvava Okay, I'm glad that you reported him, nowadays you can't tell who is willing to actually go through with their evil plans. Yeah, it's sad that people are allowed to make such evil threats. Stay safe okay and best of luck to you and your friends. Stick together okay. Take care. 🩷
Im commenting twice to say im so happy about jack getting the recognition he needs, he's been talking about that reacting content topic for so long. 😊
Hi ben! this is my drama. So I used to be friends with this one guy and I confided in him a lot of things about my mental health and personal problems. One day I find out he's been spreading it all over his school and even asks me to explain the cuts on my wrists as a truth or dare question in front of all my friends. I cut him off but recently he's been trying to talk to me and apologize. I dont know if I should forgive him or not. (btw I love ur vids sm they make my day :D)
1. That is so disappointing someone would do that to u. 2.I LOVE UR PICTURE FOR TH-cam mel is my queen!! I hope u figure everything out well😊
Never forgive someone like that. No one should be doing that in the first place.
Here is my drama: I have a best friend for about 3 years now, she has always been better than me with most things and always seems to show it off. With time I started to feel insecure about the things I can’t really do well as she could. (My best friend has been always the sweetest person ever but lately she has been changing, and it’s not in a good way) Since she has been hanging out with new friends she has been treating me differently me. I’ve tried talking to her about it but she always avoids the question or she makes some random excuse. Idk what should I do?
(btw I love your sm podcast, i listen to it when I’m sketching in my sketchbook)
if bentellect is mayonnaise, benoftheweek is the burger patty
I got drama mama. So there is this girl in my school who honestly talks bad about everyone and she talks bad about people I like and my friends and stuff, so I have no idea wether i should tell her or not, it’s mainly her but there is also like four other people who talk bad with her. Also she’s a new friend of mine . I love you videos on both channels ❤
I have drama
So basically i have this friend that keeps claiming they have mental illnesses when they don’t when even their own mother says they don’t and it’s very offensive but every time i confront her about it she denies it and claims I’m being a crappy friend, what do I do
They should get diagnosis if possible, either parties could be wrong
Yeah
tell her to go to get a diagonsis, it will either humble her fast or it will give her what she wanrs
It’s gonna humble her fast, also I just wanna say I really appreciate you guys giving me advice ❤️
One of the worst things is that I used to watch his content (no idea why) when I was younger and when I found this out at the time I was just SO disgusted. Especially as I am a girl and was like 11 then ☹️
my drama:
so i have this online friend group, with around 9 people, and there’s this one person who we’ll call Eliza, and she tries to convince me to face reveal, name reveal, state reveal etc etc.
and on some other notes, when i was struggling with S3LF H4RM, she told me to do it. also, she convinced me to get back with one of my exes who forced me to do things (i was 11.)
i love your videos so much ben and you cheer me up, and make my day.
I’ve been wanting someone to address this man’s videos☠️
Here’s my drama: my best friend has been acting racist and called me a monkey at the end of the school year and didn’t let me stand up to my abuser that was his other best friend that was talking about my body,now it’s acting like he never did these rude things to me,I don’t know what to do and I really don’t wanna lose him. What should I do Ben, also, I really like your podcast and recommended it to my friend group♡ᵕ̈◡̈☻☺︎
Drama: so basically I get bullied since 1st grade, my teachers won't do anything about it and neither my friends, my best friend stoped hanging out with me and now i have depression, also I'm gay and I'm afraid to admit it because people would not take it good, what should i do (btw I love you so much, you helped me get through my depression)
My drama: my best friend has a crush on my boyfriend and she says she wouldn't hit on him but lately he told me she has been flirting with him for weeks
wake up ben posted!!! his videos are so good
My drama is that I have a friend that will make me feel worthless or dumb. She like rubs it in my face and I can’t say stop being annoying since they are liked by everyone and i can’t hate them. Also if I like someone I like she tries their best to make me hate them. What should I do?
We are gonna get another version of the toxic gossip train by this guy😭
All aboard the TOXIC GOSSIP TRaAAAaaAaAaAaAaIIIiiiiIiiIiIiIiNnnNNNnNnNn
Here’s my drama. My friend who I have trusted for a while and we.never had any issues decided to pull a prank on my that she was gonna buy me clothes that I have been wanting but can’t afford for family issues. She gave me a card number and i cried. It was a fake card. And she was laughing so hard. And I wanted to jump in a whole I was so embarrassed because her cousins were in on it. What do I do
1 tell her it’s not okay to do that bc it isn’t and that’s a horrible thing to do and just explain it to her
2 if she does anything like that again after u say something to her (she doesn’t change her behaviour) or she makes it seem like ur being dramatic i think leaving her is a good idea or not rly having her as such a close friend
EMBARRASSING..
I used to follow him back in like 2020 💀😭
Same 😭🙄
i feel bad too
This is so weird to me bc i used to low-key enjoy this man's content a few years back
Same
Nahhh💀💀💀
same
Same
hi ben!!! heres my drama 😱 :
So yesterday i wanted to talk to my ex cus i missed them and when i told her i missed her she sent me a paragraph of how horrible of a person i am, how manipulative i am, how i "forced" her to be someone she wasn't and when i read that message i kinda just sobbed my eyes out afterwards and cried for half of the night (and like prolly half of the people in my grade hate me because of her)
I had so much to say to her but i didnt want to fuel the fire y'know?
I kept asking myself questions (because I blocked her afterwards) like, "wasnt it her choice to leave her friends?", "i didnt use her for anything, unless she's referring to all the times she bought me stuff then idk" & "how did i manipulate her??"
school starts in 2 weeks and idk how i should be feeling or what i should think about at all
Tbh, you have to let that person go. They might be the manipulative one. Them blaming you for everything is a sign, but also know that within every bad situation there might be something to learn from. Like maybe don't take everything she said to your heart, but maybe take what she said to figure out your own wrong doings in the relationship and become more self aware of the things that you do and say and how they affect others. Become more aware of yourself and better yourself so that you can become the best person that you can possibly be to others. Also, take this as a lesson to learn how to put boundaries for yourself, so that you don't allow others to manipulate you or play with your heart, ok. Take this as a lesson ok. Don't allow this situation to cloud your judgement or your view of yourself or life in general. Take this as a win. As someone once said. Every rejection is a blessing in disguise. Right now, you need to heal from this person. Don't allow them to come back. Seperate yourself from them and let them go. Work on yourself for YOU. And take this as a lesson and see this as a blessing in disguise.
Maybe you can't see it right now, but something good is bound to come around once you better yourself for YOU. I wish you the best.🩷
P.S. Don't listen to what others say about you. If she wants to turn people against you let her. Karma will find her when the time is right. You worry about yourself and focus on yourself. Even if you were a bad person you can always change and become better ok. It's never too late to learn, change, and be kind. Take care🫶🏽
12:43 as a Maria, I got through the five stages of grief in a millisecond 💀
And also ouch.
HELP 5:16 WHY DID HE STUTTER FOR SO LONG😭😭
How can you sit talking about your underwear without laughing. I mean i personally couldnt😭
Ben talking about SSSniper wolves viewers with a straight face is the most badass thing ive seen
⚠️BENNNNNN⚠️
My drama: SOoOo my ‘friend’ let’s call her Stacey, has been using me for my money! She always asks me to buy her stuff and if I say no she threatens MEEEE.WHAT DO I DOOOOOO😅😅😅😅😅
Oml he is so annoying I used to watch him when I was 9 😭👏
LOLL I THOUGHT YOU MEANT BEN LIKE BENOFTHEWEEK AND I HAD TO DELETE A PARAGRAPH 💀💀
@@brixn_grxffxnSAME💀
drama is this girl claims she's my friend but she says that me + my bffs are using her for good grades and tells everyone that my BFF has bad grades ...she doesn't. What do we do p.s u are the funniest person alive and make die laughing ur the best.
19:11 shoot is mayonnaise is crazy😭😭
⚠️My drama⚠️
My ex friend who was a gaslighting narcissist is trying to sneak back into my life and made her little minions hate me.
Ps: Love ur vids mama hope ur well 🫶
Here's my drama request: I have this friend and she's really good friends with this one person who used to absolutely full on bully me for abt 2-3 yrs and when I tell my friend abt it she js ignores that💀
Tbh, I get were you are coming from, personally, that type of shit bothers me a lot, because it sorta feels like a betrayal of some sort. ME, personally, I would stop being friends with her, but idk that's just me. But if you really want to be friends with her then maybe sit her down and have an honest conversation on the matter. Tell her your problem, explain to her how that makes you feel and why it makes you feel that way, and ask her why does she insist in being her friend. After that conversation come to an agreement. Maybe she might convince you to forgive this girl and give her a chance or you might just have to accept the friendship and put your insecurities aside, or you can end the friendship there if you feel that her friendship with that girl is causing you emotional harm. These are just some suggestions. I hope this help and I wish you well. The best of luck to you🤞🏽💗
@@bluesage_mami.01 tysm ur so sweet what😭😭
@@v4rt_issleepdeprived Your welcome🤗, take care and best of luck💓🫶🏽
bro the laugh at 19:14 got me so bad 😭😭
Hi, so I have *drama!* So there’s this girl that I like at my school, my friends knew I liked her 3 of them. One of them “accidentally” said I liked that girl a little to loud and now two other people know. What should I do
19:14 THAT DEVIOUS ASS LAUGH
12:41 bro i was playing Minecraft when i just heard my name and my heart dropped, i thought they were talking about me for a second
The urge to roast you is so high rn
wait what is ur name. Joker??? Scary???????
my dramaa:
So i have two best best friends we’ll call them stacy and katy and stacy goes to my school but katy doesnt and we all agreed that we shouldnt talk to this one guy from my school because he was extremely rude and mean to all 3 of us but recently stacy has been talking and hanging out with that guy and me and katy dont know what to tell her because we already told her to stop. Btw i lovee ur podcasts everytime u post i get so excited 🫶🫶❤️
my drama: i invited a ''friend'' of mine to my house and he loved the idea but now every time i tell him the date and time he always has to do something and never comes hes done that so many times im starting to think he doesnt want to come hes started ignoring me too lately what should i do?
I go to a performing arts school, and one of my friends is very openly gay, and today at lunch some high-school boys started harassing him, one of the kids was black and called my asian friend the n slur (not even sure if that's okay or not). All this because we were "staring at them". From asking around I was able to find out that these kids aren't even arts kids, they just got into the school from pure luck. We told our theatre teacher but the highschool boys didn't really care. My friends wanna formally report them, but I think they will beat the shit out of us. They are little shit heads pls Ben do help meeeee 😍
hes black he can say the n word and it doesnt apply to ur asian friend.
as a mayonnaise stan, comparing mayonnaise to him is like comparing a piece of garbage to god like why u doing mayonnaise dirty like that
Its disguting that he's still doing this. I have been invited to join the podcast and he has done the same thing, i didnt post it on any socials to not cause drama. I think this is honestly disgusting.
litrely the first thing reccomeded was this sick mans shorts after this vid
I needed something to study to, and now i have a new episode of the podcast!
its now study time, mamas.
I didn’t even know about this until today
Drama of the week request: So I have this friend of mine (she’s very talkative and social) . She always calls me to rant about something for hours and it’s exhausting to me(I hate talking to the phone) . How should I tell her that I’m not her therapist gently?
Ps I love you podcasts sm x
Stop picking up
you could tell her that you aren’t her therapist but still listen to some of her problems sometimes if your okay with that
Maybe ask her to go ask someone else for help because you don’t think your the right person to help her with that stuff
17:41 honestly yeah
he looks like the one uncle that comes out of nowhere and stops existing
heres my drama,
all my friends gossip about eachother, sometimes it feels like every single one of them is fake accept my bsf. but my school has a lot of furries and our really big but kinda toxic friend group is like the only normal people, so nobody leaves or "kick people out". I know they do it to everyone, so why do i get so butthurt when i get called annoying behind my back? How do i grow thicker skin?
Ben telect just sounds and looks anoyying 😭😭😭😭
Frrr and like when ever there was like a "dirty minded" thing in one his tweet reaction he would like act weird 💀
Here’s my drama ig:
I have this friend that fakes disorders. One example of this is how one time they were talking about how they had bpd (they definitely don’t) I told them they didn’t and most likely they have npd. Now online, they make that and other disorders their entire personality (only adhd was diagnosed). Me and 2 other people want to drop them. What should we do?