I find it funny how cheaters always go to therapy to uncover the "trauma" of why they cheated when in reality, they simply wanted to and thought they could get away with it.
I completely agree. Instead of focusing on their marriage, finding ways to make things more exciting, and remembering why they chose that person to begin with, instead of feeling grateful, they chose to focus on men outside of their marriage instead, men that see them as only a play thing and wouldn't give a damn if they were hit by a bus. Yet they destroyed their entire relationship and family for somebody that doesn't give a crap about them. It is always either unchecked lust, or just wanting what they can't or don't have. Women that are single and partying all the time wish they could find a good husband, and wives of good husbands wish they could be single again just to party and live the single life. Nobody takes the time to just be grateful for what they have at the moment.
and it was especially hilarious that she quit her job after getting caught, and divorce was imminent, if ever there was laying the ground work for an alimony play.....
@Mischa21xo why did you make this a woman thing when OP said cheaters? Men cheat way more than women, especially the older they are, while women are more likely to initiate divorce. I'm not disagreeing with everything you said regarding trying to make the relationship better as opposed to jumping to infidelity, but it seems weird you made women cheating the focus when it was just cheaters in general initially.
@@The_Celestial_FoxMen do not cheat way more than women. It's even and studies say any variance between them is so small it's negligible. Another study showed than half of ALL women have a backup plan in any type of relationship, including marriage, with another partner in case the current relationship turns sour. That isn't something guys do.
Story 2: Anyone who gets upset by and tells you that you shouldn't expose the truth is evil. The truth shouldn't make friends upset. Those people aren't friends.
Sister told you been there, don't that, that path only leads to pain and misery. OP: I forgot how that's my problem Also OP: siiiiis how could this happennnnn Sis: pathetic 😑
Story 1: How did she come to the conclusion she missed out on anything. She had everything that most women are jealous of now a days but in the end of the day she let that modern women bs get to her and destroy her life..
My wife has a friend, successful business owner, super rich. She takes fabulous trips. I know that on hard days with the kids or the farm or me or whatever, she thinks with envy on her friend and her fancy and free lifestyle. But she also knows that her friend would give up most of everything that she has to have my wife’s life so that tempers her. But if you don’t have somebody telling you how they wish they had what you have, or anybody that is helping your be grateful for what you have, you take it for granted and develop discontentment - especially in the age of social media where everybody is kinda fake, mostly just showing the good days and the vacations and stuff.
Easy answer, she was greedy/selfish and think she could do better and get away with it. Women are great at extracting resources from others. She extracted money, emotional support, stable family, etc from her husband and extracted romance/carnal activities from other man.
@@hussainmustafa5601 yes she did say that. And then followed up with blaming everyone around her. The post is a pity party about where she put herself and she wants simpathy.
It’s like how dare everyone are acting all offended on the 2nd story and blaming directly or indirectly the op for what happened to her. And how nobody has stopped to ask her how she feels and they just care about themselves. Nico just with no care in the world of the shit he caused to the op and his, her, and everyone’s families. The ONLY with any common sense is the OP. Hope she finds strength and stay away from everyone and even her own family. That piece of trash will do it again without any second thoughts.
Many women will destroy a great marriage because they get bored. It’s a fact of life. I hope it doesn’t happen to me but I have to accept that I cannot control other people’s actions.
Who the fk wants to be with someone who did that? Who defends someone like that. If he doesn't want his life ruined, then don't screw someone who is unconscious. Anyone defending him needs to check their morals and whether they should ever reproduce. People who have been abused as a child or teen often say nothing for years.
I remember in my youth at the teen drinking parties I attended how if a girl got blackout drunk or passed out everyone would come to her aid and try to help. Now I hear guys bragging about how a girl passed out so multiple of them pulled a train on her. It's sickening how much morals have eroded over the last 50 odd years.
This sounds like the wife’s perspective of another story on Reddit. Everything seems to line up. That was one of the most satisfying backfires I’ve ever read.
There's nothing you can do about your soon to be ex husband. That's over. With your kids it will take years of hard work to build a relationship again. You're going to have to accept the relationship will never be the same again. You have to start over again now. Focus on career, new hobbies and interests and taking vacations. Maybe you can meet someone new, but don't expect it to be a quality person because quality people don't want cheaters.
It's funny that she's the one explaining and not the husband (already heard from another post/video) like most stories. The sister thought of you as the big sister role model for commitment while she acknowledges she's not. That's why she doesn't like you anymore. Cheap thrills come with a price and boy she won her lottery. She denied a chance for a good life and dumped out her inner darkness to become a shadow of her former self. Kids deserve to hate her because she was supposed to be the role model of the mother and wife... not a garden tool for someone else to use. The husband deserves to give her fury and watch her go down spiraling. The rest of the family and friends also need to make her feel bad and be shunned in their lives to move on.
It’s always incredible to me how many women are ready to self-detonate their extremely fortunate and stable lives for a momentary thrill or midlife crisis
Story 1: YOU derailed the family. NOONE ELSE. Give him a very quick simple uncontested divorce. EVERYTHING in HIS favor, He gets 100% of all property, 100% of all funds, 100% custody, YOU pay alimony as well as child support and limited supervised visitation IF the kids agree.
It doesn’t matter what the reason for op cheating it is the fact that op made a selfish decision that destroyed her family and now she only have herself to blame for the misery she is in story 1
I find it funny how cheaters always go to therapy to uncover the "trauma" of why they cheated when in reality, they simply wanted to and thought they could get away with it.
I completely agree. Instead of focusing on their marriage, finding ways to make things more exciting, and remembering why they chose that person to begin with, instead of feeling grateful, they chose to focus on men outside of their marriage instead, men that see them as only a play thing and wouldn't give a damn if they were hit by a bus. Yet they destroyed their entire relationship and family for somebody that doesn't give a crap about them. It is always either unchecked lust, or just wanting what they can't or don't have. Women that are single and partying all the time wish they could find a good husband, and wives of good husbands wish they could be single again just to party and live the single life. Nobody takes the time to just be grateful for what they have at the moment.
The therapy and the “trauma” is just an attempt to get absolution and redirect blame away from making conscious decisions to betray loved ones.
and it was especially hilarious that she quit her job after getting caught, and divorce was imminent, if ever there was laying the ground work for an alimony play.....
@Mischa21xo why did you make this a woman thing when OP said cheaters? Men cheat way more than women, especially the older they are, while women are more likely to initiate divorce. I'm not disagreeing with everything you said regarding trying to make the relationship better as opposed to jumping to infidelity, but it seems weird you made women cheating the focus when it was just cheaters in general initially.
@@The_Celestial_FoxMen do not cheat way more than women. It's even and studies say any variance between them is so small it's negligible. Another study showed than half of ALL women have a backup plan in any type of relationship, including marriage, with another partner in case the current relationship turns sour. That isn't something guys do.
"I dOnT uNdErStAnD wHaT hApPeNeD" congratulations lady, you played yourself.
Story 2: Anyone who gets upset by and tells you that you shouldn't expose the truth is evil. The truth shouldn't make friends upset. Those people aren't friends.
Sister told you been there, don't that, that path only leads to pain and misery.
OP: I forgot how that's my problem
Also OP: siiiiis how could this happennnnn
Sis: pathetic 😑
Story 1: How did she come to the conclusion she missed out on anything. She had everything that most women are jealous of now a days but in the end of the day she let that modern women bs get to her and destroy her life..
My wife has a friend, successful business owner, super rich. She takes fabulous trips. I know that on hard days with the kids or the farm or me or whatever, she thinks with envy on her friend and her fancy and free lifestyle. But she also knows that her friend would give up most of everything that she has to have my wife’s life so that tempers her. But if you don’t have somebody telling you how they wish they had what you have, or anybody that is helping your be grateful for what you have, you take it for granted and develop discontentment - especially in the age of social media where everybody is kinda fake, mostly just showing the good days and the vacations and stuff.
Easy answer, she was greedy/selfish and think she could do better and get away with it. Women are great at extracting resources from others. She extracted money, emotional support, stable family, etc from her husband and extracted romance/carnal activities from other man.
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Probably how the sister feels about herself as well and its rightfully accurate
I hope the OP has to watch her husband and kids move on and be happy while she gets to spend the rest of her life like this!
Oh gosh, it’s all about her. I, I, I, I, me, me, me. It’s not my fault, it’s my sister’s/husband’s/family’s/kid’s fault. I didn’t do anything
Not that i’m supporting what she did, but she said like a 100 times that its her own fault
@@hussainmustafa5601 yes she did say that. And then followed up with blaming everyone around her. The post is a pity party about where she put herself and she wants simpathy.
I, I, I, me, me, me. 😂🤡
Ahh this again the mindset of modern women 😂
Good for the husband, I saw the original story
He actually got back in with her.
@@jvbutalid8316 really? where you got it from?
@@jvbutalid8316 hmmm interesting… where you got it from?
Can you post the husband's story here?
i thought this story sounded familiar
It’s like how dare everyone are acting all offended on the 2nd story and blaming directly or indirectly the op for what happened to her. And how nobody has stopped to ask her how she feels and they just care about themselves. Nico just with no care in the world of the shit he caused to the op and his, her, and everyone’s families. The ONLY with any common sense is the OP. Hope she finds strength and stay away from everyone and even her own family. That piece of trash will do it again without any second thoughts.
Many women will destroy a great marriage because they get bored. It’s a fact of life. I hope it doesn’t happen to me but I have to accept that I cannot control other people’s actions.
Who the fk wants to be with someone who did that? Who defends someone like that. If he doesn't want his life ruined, then don't screw someone who is unconscious. Anyone defending him needs to check their morals and whether they should ever reproduce.
People who have been abused as a child or teen often say nothing for years.
I remember in my youth at the teen drinking parties I attended how if a girl got blackout drunk or passed out everyone would come to her aid and try to help. Now I hear guys bragging about how a girl passed out so multiple of them pulled a train on her. It's sickening how much morals have eroded over the last 50 odd years.
This sounds like the wife’s perspective of another story on Reddit. Everything seems to line up. That was one of the most satisfying backfires I’ve ever read.
There's nothing you can do about your soon to be ex husband. That's over. With your kids it will take years of hard work to build a relationship again. You're going to have to accept the relationship will never be the same again. You have to start over again now. Focus on career, new hobbies and interests and taking vacations. Maybe you can meet someone new, but don't expect it to be a quality person because quality people don't want cheaters.
It's funny that she's the one explaining and not the husband (already heard from another post/video) like most stories.
The sister thought of you as the big sister role model for commitment while she acknowledges she's not. That's why she doesn't like you anymore.
Cheap thrills come with a price and boy she won her lottery.
She denied a chance for a good life and dumped out her inner darkness to become a shadow of her former self.
Kids deserve to hate her because she was supposed to be the role model of the mother and wife... not a garden tool for someone else to use.
The husband deserves to give her fury and watch her go down spiraling.
The rest of the family and friends also need to make her feel bad and be shunned in their lives to move on.
It’s always incredible to me how many women are ready to self-detonate their extremely fortunate and stable lives for a momentary thrill or midlife crisis
Story 1: YOU derailed the family. NOONE ELSE. Give him a very quick simple uncontested divorce. EVERYTHING in HIS favor, He gets 100% of all property, 100% of all funds, 100% custody, YOU pay alimony as well as child support and limited supervised visitation IF the kids agree.
Op needs to seek therapy and move out of state and focus on her healing story 2
It doesn’t matter what the reason for op cheating it is the fact that op made a selfish decision that destroyed her family and now she only have herself to blame for the misery she is in story 1
She has only herself to blame…..
Old story
S1- if you ever had any love for your husband you would give him a favorable divorce and let him move on with a woman who deserves him.
Women love money far more than the man they're married to.
I hate her too
I know you want us to feel sorry for you, but we don’t.
What's OP?
Womp womp
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