Mannnnn 😂😂😂😂 first and foremost a man's time is important. Bills doesn't get paid on being nice. I asked to meet you for the first time I expected to pay because I asked. You took the time and drove to meet me. It's my responsibility to pay no problems. I had a good time and everyone was chill. I appreciate what you did and the time you gave. Even if we good friends. I ask you out I'm gonna pay. Keep up the good content sir💯🤜🏾🤛🏾. Share a bowl of nachos with two other dudes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dude you’re 💯 correct! You should charge a flat fee, minimum $200 bucks, non refundable before you meet up plus they pick up food and drinks. The in ground advice is priceless! Set a standard dude, what you’ve learned the hard way is worth the fee! Not petty!!!!!
Man you 100% right! Those 2 examples are people you would never have around you cause they bums. If we were to meet when I relocate...I got you, cause you good people. Time and knowledge has value 100%.
Great video Jay! We had a blast as well !!! thanks for the shout out. Fusions was top tier especially when you moved us up to the rooftop. Also, if someone is not willing to pick up the tab after picking your brain is someone that dosen't deserve your time and energy bro. Its their loss not yours!
James your not petty. Seriously some people need to respect other people’s time. All through the video I am just shaking my head. Thanks for sharing brother.👍👍👍
Facts brother time is our biggest currency fuck all that get your bag brother I’m tired of them shaming people for consulting especially driving anywhere in Santo Domingo hell no 💯💯💯💯
I was talking about this with my people recently. People think it’s lame to charge for your time but your time is valuable. Some people don’t understand it because they’ve never been in that position or they was raised different. Sad . But your not wrong brother
It's mostly because they haven't been in this position where countless people want to meet and get information and that takes a lot of time. Preciate bro.
You are totally right that's because you are out on there behalf, and that's not petty, when I came down I knew I was on a tight budget and I couldn't think of bringing you out with out picking up the tab. But when I come back in December I'll be ready thanks bro.
Jay, you right time is money. It is the only thing that we can't get back. It is not pettiness it is being respecful of your time. you have a family and other obligation besides meeting up with people. You can always make that money back, but never time. I had a great time in the meet up and Fusions was a great place to meet with a great vibe. The knowledge gained was well work the drinks and cigars and seeing a different part of SD.
He said this "Mother Eferrrr" been watching your vids since day one Jay, but this one made me spit my drink 🤣😂😂 Yall some cheap MTFerrrsss 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pay the brother shitttttt.
You’re not wrong Jay. I’m sure the people that pay for the consultation get a lot more out of it compared to the price. Your knowledge is a service. 👍🏾
My man, I have said it before, time is money. 💰 and it’s not about the money, because if it was then you would charge more. lol bruh, don’t hurt em. If we are going to meet, it’s mandatory for someone else to pickup the tab. But I know you love what you do, as do Jerry and Sheila.🙏🏽👊🏽
Jay, so sorry you had to go through this man! I know you said you don’t do consultations, but if someone is requesting your time and knowledge that’s a consultation. My recommendation is when you get these type of request have said person cash app you a fee! Let them know time is money, and that you’re taking valuable time out of your day to speak to them. If they are serious about the DR they will send the money. Lastly, you’re not being petty I would be hot as fish grease for someone to take me away from my family for some bs, I digress!✌🏽
I appreciate the this feedback. I do, do consultations I didn't want to do them but I understand people sometimes need information personalized. I try to help people out and not charge them when they are in the country because to me it shows some level of sacrifice that you bought a ticket but dang at least pay the bill. But you right I might have to make it more formal.
common courtesy that is.... the relationship was good enough for him to ask question but not to be courteous. I guess it is what it is at the end of the day... like you said its not about the money it's the principle of time
As you point, out that you are very, busy , individuals must , understand the importance of your schedule, and time, and your priorities, if they watch your content, you are always on the move, keeping everyone in the loop, about so many important issues, gas, food, planning, transportation, can be very costly, and , if a person have, invited you out, the correct, route is to , always, pay what ever , the bill is a generous smile and firm handshake, once again, this topic , was very informative,and very clear,in the future,individuals , will know, great work.
Amen if it's not about the bag I don't pick up, if I pick up its because we are friend or we do businesses. It's not about money but you're running a business, so consultations are not free because they are taking your time. Time is money, and you have to respect my time period. To have a conversation with me it's 300 for 45 mins.
Hey man, I live in Santo Domingo and Ive been enjoying your content. I saw your other channel and those wings look out of this world. Big wing guy here. Have you thought about opening up a chicken spot here in Santo Domingo? I would go once a week atleast. Hard to find anything good, let me know if you have any recommendations. Cheers
Not petty At All bro!! believe that! I hopefully will be meeting you soon too in about 2 weeks... This kind of stuff should be "common sense"... but... I guess you have to explain it out loud to some folk🤦♂🤦♂I can only imagine the craziness.. especially the guy who left at 8:30...🤦♂... keep you head up bro... see you soon!
Jay I think you could do counseling for those type of people. I mean you should post it on your website so you didn’t even have to ask for the money. They’ll already know that they have to pay you for your knowledge.
Great video! A random question. Can you do a video one day on how to drive in Santo Domingo? I go all the time and I want the freedom to move around without Uber. 😊 Jay! I agree charging people for your time. You have great insight. It’s honestly the polite thing to do.
That was F up and ur right Time is money . And like you said it's not about the money it's the principle of the matter . You took time off ur life to talk to them .
That needed to be said!! I think that is the most disrespectful thing to do!! Invite someone out to pick their brain and don’t take care of the bill!! I would make sure I block his number, what’s app and delete him from my email!!
Your message is not petty bro! It needs to be addressed as an expectation. I will help a person by giving my valuable attention and information. The least that person can do is cover my inconvenience and expenses to come see them. Now, I know this will never happen again! Right?
Bro, not petty at all, i agree if they are inviting you out and youre taking time from your day or family, they have to pick up the tab. This should be common sense, and again it shows common sense is not common...
Hey man this isn't petty at all you're within your rights to feel that way ...time is money and furthermore it's a stranger not a friend not family ....the least they can do if you are not paying for a consultation is pick up the tab as you well know In the D.R. if you're inviting you're paying 😂😂😂 ...love you're content...moving back to D.R. with the family would love to meet one day ...I'll pick up the tab 😂😂😂
That’s crazy dude leaves you at the bar with his friend and doesn’t pay the bill! My first question would be does he live in the Dominican Republic ? And if so then I’m not surprised.so sorry this happened to you Jay.
You not petty!! Wow!!! He very disrespectful, he didn’t even ask you if you wanted a drink! Then he went on to asking you if you have a lite for his cigar😂😂 you can’t make this ish up. The second story, he off the chain
Thats that BS, time is money. Bumm shit to ask for your time and not offer to look out for you. Maybe you should just do some type of upfront fee. Always enjoy your content and when I make it there next year, we will chop it up, oh and I got the tab. LOL. Blessings my Brotha.
@@JayAbroad so real major part in why I do not wish to remain living in Amarica it's like I'm the only man with common sense in Colorado feels crazy how uncommon it is and worry's me for Amarica Future
😂😂 if it was a chica with her uncle, mom, cousin and kids, the whole family, he would pay for their food and drinks. And send money when he back home 😂😂😂
Na Cous this not petty at all mayne. Jeff Bezos charges for his time why should we not? Pay up 🆙 great video. Also as a ps: we don’t generate time we spend it. That why Jesus Christ says redeeming the time. Jay I think you are spot on with this video my brother. Awesome content.
Larry the Lawyer here -- Damn Jay ... sometimes brothas be trifling. No cigar? C'mon folks -- you gotta do better. Ask Norberis how to say 'trifling' in Spanish. Is it trifliando??
Brotha all jokes aside that's a straight sucka move on his part....show some common courtesy by atleast offering a drink and on top of that roll out on his tab...what a clown but you handled the situation well. Time and money is not to be played with.💯💯💯
Jay, it is absolutely not petty. You have a business you have a TH-cam channel. You wanna monetize go for it let people know but you probably want to send them a little correspondence something like layout with your fees. The expectation is and honestly I would require payment in advance because eventually there’s gonna be some no-shows The older you get and I’m older than you. I know how valuable time is so whether you charge $100 an hour $400 an hour plus expenses whatever that is Venmo if their American wire if you can accept a credit card but get paid and get paid in advance, including your expenses
Dammm... that's so foul. You have the right to call them out. I call those type of people "Get Over Artist". Look at it this way, if you need legal advice, it's already established that the advice wanted has to be paid for. Master P called Michael Jackson's lawyer for advice on making money in the music industry. He was told "that will cost you $250K." Master P paid it, received the advice and walked out of his office, and the rest is history. Valuable advice pays for its self
You should've said ok, you wanna meet up? No problem, but since you're a total stranger to me and my time is so precious, I'm gonna have to charge you a one time set fee for getting me out of my confort zone; the next we meet it'll be different, but for now, I set the rules; nothing personal, it's only business. 😂
Pulls out a cigar but doesn’t offer you one, And on top of that, the brother has the nerve to ask if you have a lighter. and gets game from you for free 🤦♂️ Oh, hell naw brother.
Nawh good! it is not peddy ..it is lack of respect and social knowledge.., I learned from a real African priesthood brother.. that when you invite .. you host/ pay.. some times people be on one n trip thou… I understand 4real… our people got a long way to go… hey perhaps that will be my podcast… social skills 102😂
You’d make a killing Match Making. DR is only going to grow from here on. Also… it’s not petty to expect someone to pick up the tab if they invite you out. I’d go as far as saying it’s classless if they don’t pick it up. You shouldn’t even have to mention it.
Exactly, that's why I've never mentioned it to before because I thought it was understood. Now I make sure I tell people this upfront so there is no miscommunication.
It’s crazy that you have to ever say this. Too me it’s obvious if your having a lunch or diner that the intent is to pick someone mind on something you HAVE to pick up the bill, that’s just commen sense. I can’t imagine someone telling me get let me pick your brain on this let’s meet up with a stranger and them having this mindset. Some people don’t know how to do business. Brother you have a kind heart but just do consultation and if after acouple of consultation and the person is cool then meet up if ya want.
These stories are insane. People like that are just trash, in my opinion. No sympathy, immature. No feet underground, disrespectful. And disconnect from reality. I mean. It not even about money. It's about the damn principal. Jay, not all your followers think like that. I'm actually sorry for you man. You had to sits with these jerks. 😅
lol, makes you wanna say, “Who’s Man’s is this!?!?!?” Diabolical that that went down like that, cmon on fellas gotta do better than that. Hate to hear they wasted ya time bro.
Nah fam, you’re not being petty. Commonsense would tell anyone that’s familiar with you as a TH-camr, that you have 2 channels, and it takes time to create those videos and edit content. And l’m guessing you also help with your wife’s videos as well. So your time is limited. Even here in the states, my rule has always been, whoever suggests going out, is the one who pays. I’ve had to make my female friends understand that. How can you invite someone out to eat or have drinks, then expect them to pay? 🤷🏾♂️ The fact that dude bounced and didn’t pick up the tab, especially after being late, is petty!
Sad. Some Pookies & RayRays come to some change and go floss in the DR. Might be they think u got it all. They have no decorum or common sense--which aint common-- of politeness/etiquette. I implore u to kindly disregard such ignorance... dont allow one bad apple to spoil the whole bunch. Some folk exist that just dont get it... and sadly, may never do!
Indeed, you're totally right bro... it aint pitty at all , anyway that's REAL TALK you just spit Jay !!
Mannnnn 😂😂😂😂 first and foremost a man's time is important. Bills doesn't get paid on being nice. I asked to meet you for the first time I expected to pay because I asked. You took the time and drove to meet me. It's my responsibility to pay no problems. I had a good time and everyone was chill. I appreciate what you did and the time you gave. Even if we good friends. I ask you out I'm gonna pay. Keep up the good content sir💯🤜🏾🤛🏾. Share a bowl of nachos with two other dudes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts!🙏🏽👊🏽
That's was really f@# up man. Shit 😅
Bro, your time is money!!! It's not being petty. well said
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I agree with that. It's common courtesy
This is exactly why i don’t trust ninjas! The audacity! Just say no Jay!
Facts😅
"THE GAME IS SOLD'! "AND NOT TOLD"! AMEN-ASE!
You are absolutely right. Some just want to take advantage of others. No respect, no empathy....cheap, cheap.
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Dude you’re 💯 correct!
You should charge a flat fee, minimum $200 bucks, non refundable before you meet up plus they pick up food and drinks.
The in ground advice is priceless!
Set a standard dude, what you’ve learned the hard way is worth the fee!
Not petty!!!!!
Preciate the insight.💪💪
Man you 100% right! Those 2 examples are people you would never have around you cause they bums. If we were to meet when I relocate...I got you, cause you good people. Time and knowledge has value 100%.
Thanks bro!
Great video Jay! We had a blast as well !!! thanks for the shout out. Fusions was top tier especially when you moved us up to the rooftop. Also, if someone is not willing to pick up the tab after picking your brain is someone that dosen't deserve your time and energy bro. Its their loss not yours!
Yesssiiir preciate brother. See you when you get back!
Time is Money !! Your time is valuable, some people will waste your time and they are not serious about relocation.
Very true.💪
UNCLE JAY Business Is Business! As an Expat-American my time is IRS TAX DEDUCTION! A'SE!
How is it going brother?🙏🏽👊🏽
You can pick my Brain as long as I’m able to pick your Pockets! #PayMe and I #WantMyOwnNachos 🤣💰
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Can't argue with that!!! People should respect the fact that your taking time out to meet them, as a complete stranger!!!!
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James your not petty. Seriously some people need to respect other people’s time. All through the video I am just shaking my head. Thanks for sharing brother.👍👍👍
You're welcome.
💯🗣 damn they didn't offer you anything? Or pay anything? Left you with their people... thats crazy work!!!
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Facts brother time is our biggest currency fuck all that get your bag brother I’m tired of them shaming people for consulting especially driving anywhere in Santo Domingo hell no 💯💯💯💯
Yesssiiirrr, facts!
Salute to you, my brother. You're spot on
Yesssiiirr!
I agree with everything you said here 👏👏👏👏👏 straight Facts
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I concur....time is valuable, time is money
💯 percent on point with this issue. Thank you.
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I was talking about this with my people recently. People think it’s lame to charge for your time but your time is valuable. Some people don’t understand it because they’ve never been in that position or they was raised different. Sad . But your not wrong brother
It's mostly because they haven't been in this position where countless people want to meet and get information and that takes a lot of time. Preciate bro.
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You are totally right that's because you are out on there behalf, and that's not petty, when I came down I knew I was on a tight budget and I couldn't think of bringing you out with out picking up the tab. But when I come back in December I'll be ready thanks bro.
Yesssiiir, understood. Preciate it.
You seem like a genuine lay backed person , you are totally correct charging for your time .
I agree with you regarding the principal about it. I was dying cracking up 😅😅😅😅
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Yes. This video was needed for the clueless. Smh.
Jay, you right time is money. It is the only thing that we can't get back. It is not pettiness it is being respecful of your time. you have a family and other obligation besides meeting up with people. You can always make that money back, but never time. I had a great time in the meet up and Fusions was a great place to meet with a great vibe. The knowledge gained was well work the drinks and cigars and seeing a different part of SD.
Thanks Charles. Definitely a pleasure meeting and chopping up with you.
You are not petty at all. He should’ve immediately gave you something for your time,offered you a cigar and paid for your meal.#Timeismoney.PERIOD !
Man I feel you 💯
Sorry that it happened to you my brother but "it happens to the best of us".
Stay strong 💪
For sho.
He said this "Mother Eferrrr" been watching your vids since day one Jay, but this one made me spit my drink 🤣😂😂 Yall some cheap MTFerrrsss 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pay the brother shitttttt.
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You’re not wrong Jay. I’m sure the people that pay for the consultation get a lot more out of it compared to the price. Your knowledge is a service. 👍🏾
Thanks bro👍🏾
My man, I have said it before, time is money. 💰 and it’s not about the money, because if it was then you would charge more. lol bruh, don’t hurt em. If we are going to meet, it’s mandatory for someone else to pickup the tab. But I know you love what you do, as do Jerry and Sheila.🙏🏽👊🏽
Well said. Spot on💯
Jay, so sorry you had to go through this man! I know you said you don’t do consultations, but if someone is requesting your time and knowledge that’s a consultation. My recommendation is when you get these type of request have said person cash app you a fee! Let them know time is money, and that you’re taking valuable time out of your day to speak to them. If they are serious about the DR they will send the money. Lastly, you’re not being petty I would be hot as fish grease for someone to take me away from my family for some bs, I digress!✌🏽
I appreciate the this feedback. I do, do consultations I didn't want to do them but I understand people sometimes need information personalized. I try to help people out and not charge them when they are in the country because to me it shows some level of sacrifice that you bought a ticket but dang at least pay the bill. But you right I might have to make it more formal.
Uncle Jay! I want to introduce to the your NEW UNCLE! Uncle TIM! = UNCLE TIME-IS-MONEY! AMEN-ASE!
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common courtesy that is.... the relationship was good enough for him to ask question but not to be courteous. I guess it is what it is at the end of the day... like you said its not about the money it's the principle of time
Facts, that's it.
As you point, out that you are very, busy , individuals must , understand the importance of your schedule, and time, and your priorities, if they watch your content, you are always on the move, keeping everyone in the loop, about so many important issues, gas, food, planning, transportation, can be very costly, and , if a person have, invited you out, the correct, route is to , always, pay what ever , the bill is a generous smile and firm handshake, once again, this topic , was very informative,and very clear,in the future,individuals , will know, great work.
Thanks brother for sharing this perspective.
Time is definitely money. Especially sitting in prime time traffic 5pm-8pm. That's time that could have been spent with family.
Facts!
You are 💯 bro!! I am glad you know your value.
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Amen if it's not about the bag I don't pick up, if I pick up its because we are friend or we do businesses. It's not about money but you're running a business, so consultations are not free because they are taking your time. Time is money, and you have to respect my time period. To have a conversation with me it's 300 for 45 mins.
Well said brother.💪💪
I don't blame you at all for this. Jokers be on some BS with your time
That's real right there.😌
Hey man, I live in Santo Domingo and Ive been enjoying your content. I saw your other channel and those wings look out of this world. Big wing guy here.
Have you thought about opening up a chicken spot here in Santo Domingo? I would go once a week atleast.
Hard to find anything good, let me know if you have any recommendations.
Cheers
Thanks bro, glad you enjoyed the content. I had a restaurant here before and not looking to do it again no time soon.
Real spill my boi!!! 👍🏿
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Facts
Not petty At All bro!! believe that! I hopefully will be meeting you soon too in about 2 weeks... This kind of stuff should be "common sense"... but... I guess you have to explain it out loud to some folk🤦♂🤦♂I can only imagine the craziness.. especially the guy who left at 8:30...🤦♂... keep you head up bro... see you soon!
Yessiiirr preciate the feedback 👌🏾
“You can pay for school, but you can’t buy class.” 😅
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100% agree with you. Common courtesy! We smoke AF 858 and some Lyendas when we meet in the future😂
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Real talk
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Jay I think you could do counseling for those type of people. I mean you should post it on your website so you didn’t even have to ask for the money. They’ll already know that they have to pay you for your knowledge.
Good idea.👍
Great video! A random question. Can you do a video one day on how to drive in Santo Domingo? I go all the time and I want the freedom to move around without Uber. 😊
Jay! I agree charging people for your time. You have great insight. It’s honestly the polite thing to do.
Let me see how I can put a video like that together
@ thank you for considering it
That was F up and ur right Time is money . And like you said it's not about the money it's the principle of the matter . You took time off ur life to talk to them .
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That needed to be said!! I think that is the most disrespectful thing to do!! Invite someone out to pick their brain and don’t take care of the bill!! I would make sure I block his number, what’s app and delete him from my email!!
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Jay if i visit Dominican republic we could hang out brother!
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Your message is not petty bro! It needs to be addressed as an expectation. I will help a person by giving my valuable attention and information. The least that person can do is cover my inconvenience and expenses to come see them. Now, I know this will never happen again! Right?
No sir, it will NEVER happen again. 👊🏾👊🏾
Also, the artificial intelligence app Gemini can give travel info about the Dominican Republic as well.
Those apps gives general information. It can't give you real world experience like I can or someone who has lived here.
@@JayAbroad true.
Not petty at all! Business is business and there’s a etiquette to it.
I agree.
Bro, not petty at all, i agree if they are inviting you out and youre taking time from your day or family, they have to pick up the tab. This should be common sense, and again it shows common sense is not common...
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Hey man this isn't petty at all you're within your rights to feel that way ...time is money and furthermore it's a stranger not a friend not family ....the least they can do if you are not paying for a consultation is pick up the tab as you well know In the D.R. if you're inviting you're paying 😂😂😂 ...love you're content...moving back to D.R. with the family would love to meet one day ...I'll pick up the tab 😂😂😂
😅😅 cool just let me know.
Western matrix mindset
That’s crazy dude leaves you at the bar with his friend and doesn’t pay the bill! My first question would be does he live in the Dominican Republic ? And if so then I’m not surprised.so sorry this happened to you Jay.
He was living in the States and looking to move to here and wanted information.
You not petty!! Wow!!! He very disrespectful, he didn’t even ask you if you wanted a drink! Then he went on to asking you if you have a lite for his cigar😂😂 you can’t make this ish up. The second story, he off the chain
Lol...you right you can't make this up😅
Dammm that's crazy bro
This had to be said
Facts!
Thats that BS, time is money. Bumm shit to ask for your time and not offer to look out for you. Maybe you should just do some type of upfront fee. Always enjoy your content and when I make it there next year, we will chop it up, oh and I got the tab. LOL. Blessings my Brotha.
Fa sho💪💪
Shame how too Meany men today don't got common curtesy brotha sad but very very common especially in us today!
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@@JayAbroad so real major part in why I do not wish to remain living in Amarica it's like I'm the only man with common sense in Colorado feels crazy how uncommon it is and worry's me for Amarica Future
😂😂 if it was a chica with her uncle, mom, cousin and kids, the whole family, he would pay for their food and drinks. And send money when he back home 😂😂😂
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Na Cous this not petty at all mayne. Jeff Bezos charges for his time why should we not? Pay up 🆙 great video.
Also as a ps: we don’t generate time we spend it. That why Jesus Christ says redeeming the time. Jay I think you are spot on with this video my brother. Awesome content.
100% facts, bro.
Larry the Lawyer here -- Damn Jay ... sometimes brothas be trifling. No cigar? C'mon folks -- you gotta do better. Ask Norberis how to say 'trifling' in Spanish. Is it trifliando??
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That was messed up what he did.
Hey Jay are they Dominican? I really don’t think they are because Dominican knows better that when we invite someone we pay the bills 😂
Lol...definitely weren't Dominican. And you right I invite my wife's family out all the time and it's no secret who picks up the bill...lol
Brotha all jokes aside that's a straight sucka move on his part....show some common courtesy by atleast offering a drink and on top of that roll out on his tab...what a clown but you handled the situation well. Time and money is not to be played with.💯💯💯
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Jay, it is absolutely not petty. You have a business you have a TH-cam channel. You wanna monetize go for it let people know but you probably want to send them a little correspondence something like layout with your fees. The expectation is and honestly I would require payment in advance because eventually there’s gonna be some no-shows The older you get and I’m older than you. I know how valuable time is so whether you charge $100 an hour $400 an hour plus expenses whatever that is Venmo if their American wire if you can accept a credit card but get paid and get paid in advance, including your expenses
Right on! You're right.
not petty, crazy
Definitely!
Dammm... that's so foul. You have the right to call them out. I call those type of people "Get Over Artist". Look at it this way, if you need legal advice, it's already established that the advice wanted has to be paid for.
Master P called Michael Jackson's lawyer for advice on making money in the music industry. He was told "that will cost you $250K." Master P paid it, received the advice and walked out of his office, and the rest is history. Valuable advice pays for its self
Facts, I remember Master P mentioned this.
You should've said ok, you wanna meet up? No problem, but since you're a total stranger to me and my time is so precious, I'm gonna have to charge you a one time set fee for getting me out of my confort zone; the next we meet it'll be different, but for now, I set the rules; nothing personal, it's only business. 😂
I love it. Thanks Luis for this perspective.
💀 hahaha
Pulls out a cigar but doesn’t offer you one, And on top of that, the brother has the nerve to ask if you have a lighter. and gets game from you for free 🤦♂️ Oh, hell naw brother.
That's exactly how it went...😅
@JayAbroad My apologies to hear that, brother. We truly appreciate you and are inspired by your journey.
Nawh good! it is not peddy ..it is lack of respect and social knowledge.., I learned from a real African priesthood brother.. that when you invite .. you host/ pay.. some times people be on one n trip thou… I understand 4real… our people got a long way to go… hey perhaps that will be my podcast… social skills 102😂
Lol...not a bad theme for a podcast.
You’d make a killing Match Making. DR is only going to grow from here on.
Also… it’s not petty to expect someone to pick up the tab if they invite you out. I’d go as far as saying it’s classless if they don’t pick it up. You shouldn’t even have to mention it.
Exactly, that's why I've never mentioned it to before because I thought it was understood. Now I make sure I tell people this upfront so there is no miscommunication.
It’s crazy that you have to ever say this. Too me it’s obvious if your having a lunch or diner that the intent is to pick someone mind on something you HAVE to pick up the bill, that’s just commen sense. I can’t imagine someone telling me get let me pick your brain on this let’s meet up with a stranger and them having this mindset. Some people don’t know how to do business. Brother you have a kind heart but just do consultation and if after acouple of consultation and the person is cool then meet up if ya want.
Great suggestion.
Business sense aside IMO , I’d say it’s common courtesy. I invite you out=my offer to pay. You got dine and ditched. 🤬
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These stories are insane. People like that are just trash, in my opinion. No sympathy, immature. No feet underground, disrespectful. And disconnect from reality. I mean. It not even about money. It's about the damn principal. Jay, not all your followers think like that. I'm actually sorry for you man. You had to sits with these jerks. 😅
Thanks bro, I appreciate this comment.
lol, makes you wanna say, “Who’s Man’s is this!?!?!?” Diabolical that that went down like that, cmon on fellas gotta do better than that. Hate to hear they wasted ya time bro.
It should be a given that he cover the bill. Bad business etiquette. He makes it bad for others.
Bro, i thought it was common sense too.
Nah fam, you’re not being petty. Commonsense would tell anyone that’s familiar with you as a TH-camr, that you have 2 channels, and it takes time to create those videos and edit content. And l’m guessing you also help with your wife’s videos as well. So your time is limited.
Even here in the states, my rule has always been, whoever suggests going out, is the one who pays. I’ve had to make my female friends understand that. How can you invite someone out to eat or have drinks, then expect them to pay? 🤷🏾♂️ The fact that dude bounced and didn’t pick up the tab, especially after being late, is petty!
100% agree, bro!
Sad. Some Pookies & RayRays come to some change and go floss in the DR. Might be they think u got it all. They have no decorum or common sense--which aint common-- of politeness/etiquette.
I implore u to kindly disregard such ignorance... dont allow one bad apple to spoil the whole bunch. Some folk exist that just dont get it... and sadly, may never do!
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Jay make these people pay you first. This is utter nonsense.
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I understand you some people don’t have class 😮😮
Facts!
Who ever does the invitation pays. That's the rule for anybody.
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