I really thought there would be some kind of justice in family law but all I found over the past three years of being in court is that whoever has the fanciest and most paperwork wins. All I've ever wanted is peace and for my kids to be happy. But my ex and his brother are addicted to the fight.
That is my ex and my ex's dad been in and out of court for three years now his dad can afford one of the best lawyers im a single mom to two beautiful girls and I don't make as much as my ex or my ex's dad my ex's dad is the one paying for my ex's lawyer so its hard esp been doing this on my own and battling them in and out of court :(
I am going through a custody battle with my ex husband over my son. I feel bullied by him and his lawyer about custody. My ex husband is military and I was a stay at home mom. Now that we are divorced and I am in the process of getting certified as a nurses assistant and finding a job and looking for an apartment (they) are saying that he is more stable then I am financially and as far as housing because he's in the house and that I should give him full custody because it is better for the child. I'm so scared I don't want to lose my son. I'm a good mother I don't do drugs I don't abuse alcohol I just have the short end of the stick! I don't know what to do.
My ex has been bullying me during our entire relationship. He makes false alligations to gain more control and now he has alienated my oldest daughter from me by convincing her I have done something to her. I have never or would I ever use physical punishment or mental abuse. My ex has been telling her lies and also to our other two children along with his new wife. My ex recruited our oldest to bash me and continue to try to convince the other children to follow her and hate me. My heart is breaking and I feel I'm constantly defending myself every week they come to my house. Our youngest daughter having some kind of false blame on me and making statement that a normal 9 year old would not be saying that has adult content. I keep asking for help in the court. Every time we go into court he makes some kind of allegation to get DCF to investigate so he can say I'm abusive. I'm trying to stay strong but I honestly don't know how much I can take. I'm being attacked and I'm not doing anything. Please help me. He mentally abuses my children. He punishes them at his house if they have any fun at my house. My children were afraid to do any activities as a family on my parenting time. My youngest daughter told me her step mother told them not to get out of my car if I take them to karate. They can only participate in lacrosse which was the activity Mex put them in without my agreement which it is in our divorce degree we have to agree on activities that fall on both our parenting time. He threatened my children to tell the Family Relations that I talk bad about both their father and step mother and other outrageous lies. I feel like my world is just being riped apart by my ex and he is using our children as a weapon. These are precious soles and I love them more then any word can express. They are my reason to live. What can I Do? Does the judge see through these lies? I put a motion for contempt against him because he is not bringing our 13 year old (12 years old when the total allienation started). His excuse to me is she doesn't want to come to my house because she is saying I dragged her down a hallway. I never dragged her but I did put my arm around her waist and twirled her down the hallway in a dancing motion to her room because I was trying to defuse her physical attack on her younger siblings and she refused to go to her room when instructed. The other motion for contempt is because he refused to follow the court order which states he is to bring our oldest daughter to therapy and follow all recommendation of the therapist. He brought he on 4 times in a 6 months time. Her case was closed due to non compliant and was referred to another therapist that can help her in a much higher level of therapy then they could offer. My ex refused to bring her and again using it as an excuse that our daughter is refusing to go. As a parent I would make sure that she would go because that is what is in her best interest. What child wants to go to therapy? She is not old enough to be making adult decisions. My ex and his attorney are making false allegations and bullying me in court, which now I have to represent myself due to I ran out of money for an attorney. They like to drain my retainers so when it's time to go to court my attorney walks away because my funds are gone. Please if you can offer any kind of advice I would very much appreciate it.
Tonya Flewelling I'm going through a tough situation with my ex now He kicked me out the apartment, took my kids, my car and will not allow them to visit me...well, they can if I do "everything " he says. I spent many years being abused emotionally by him, his lies, drugs, women more lies belittling me, my thoughts my education my overall person. I have refused to take anymore, I cant take anymore. I haven't seen my kids since may 11th . It hurts like hell however, the simple peace of having Him out my life seems so worth it right now I have a quiet in my mind, heart and soul I hadn't felt in years when I was with him. I am working on getting an attorney to get my kids to visit me in my home state. Even talking to him on the phone through email or even in my mind seems to disrupt my new found peace I've grown to love. I pray someday my kids whom I love deeply and miss with all of me will seek their mother and i hope that day i can explain I didn't leave them , I left him ..pray for me
My issue is that I'm being bullied by my ex boyfriend's attorney and the magistrate Judge in Ohio. The magistrate Judge has taken his side withOUT any proof (which there is none) and she even victim blamed me. Not sure what to do, we have trial on the 13th.
My ex is trying to make me feel the bad person she tells the judge that she's a single mom when she's not she's married to an alcoholic and my daughter is missing more than 30 days of school failing 4 classes and is abuse at home, went to her school got all her transcripts and I want full custody, will this be enough for me to get full custody?
My ex is asking for childcare and bus fees for my boys but never provided me receipt when we were ordered that she needs to provide receipts so I can reimburse it. I have zero trust in my ex wife and all I wanted is for her to show receipts and I have no problem paying it. Here is our court order says: The Mother shall provide to the Father copies of all the receipts for the expenses referred to in paragraph 3(childcare and bus fees) as the expenses incurred. My ex is insisting that should be paying first and the receipt will follow since the childcare person is paid monthly when I was ordered to pay every 1st and 15th of each month. Is my understanding incorrect about the my ex wife needs to pay and I will just reimburse? A response will be appreciated. Thanks a lot
Hi Wendy, I'm a sole parent mum with day to day care of my son who goes to his dad's every second weekend. I have seen and have evidence of neglect from him -from leaving our son with his partner while he works those weekends, to not picking him up on time, to not packing a bag when dropping our son off for daycare which the teachers had reported when they went to change him and had nothing to change him in. -to a record of violent behavior in the past and criminal history. My son has come from his weekend with him and has constantly repeated everyday "(dad's name) naughty, (dad's name) naighty" "(Dad) smack bum bum, (dad) smack bum bum, (dad) angry, (dad) angry" -I saw his bottom had scrape marks and discoloration which looked really suspicious as bruising. Took him doctors a week late because I took it as a benefit of a doubt esp after asking them what happened and they didn't know and denied any wrong doing. Doctors couldn't pin it to anything because it was already a week out and So my question is, can I use some of these factors to help me change the parenting order so that I can have one with time only agreed upon or have supervised visitations? What do you do when the other parent is refusing to listen, who are stubborn about what they want even at the expenses of our child or says they care but whose actions show otherwise?
Thank you... thank you so very much... The best interest of the child info you provided has helped me so very much... Thank you.. This vid is just what I needed to boost my confidence! You're the best!
My husband moved without my approval to a different state with my son. No order was in place and we are still married. He has not brought our son to see me and harrasses me n won't bring him back after my requests. All of this is text message documented btw. Can this be used in a custody hearing? If so. PLEASE tell me how? Im in FL he is in PA
i can really use your advice my ex wife is going away for work and will be visiting on weekends to see our son for the next 5-6 months, she has physical custody, but on paper we have joint custody, my issue is i usually see him friday to saturday every week, but when she is away she wants her mother to look after him during the week, is there any way i would be able to take care of him during the week, i barely get to bond with him from my side.
How can my ex get away with stating complete Lies in court? He wrote in his declaration that I went to a rehab center, which the place itself doesn't exist and I've never gongyo to any rehab. Because his brother is his free attorney, they prepare very fancy, well written, very organized declarations with Exhibits that they have a staff of secretaries and junior attorneys working on. I am just one person with limited funds, that didn't even finish high school against 2 brothers with Masters degrees. What can I possibly do?
thank you i know any advice is helpful im thankful to you and had great successful life and attorney assistance access so thats great and thank you its comforting to know!!!!even if the cases arent pending yet!!!!we hope for the best
What if my daughters x boyfriend got custody of my grandson in which I raised and supported for 19 months and his mother wants to run the show when he was with me he was a happy little boy now that he is out there with them he is not happy cause he is a Papa s boy it is going on three months they came two days before Christmas and took him when they took him they said me and my oldest daughter that we could come see him but his mother is running the show and said we can't see him until he gets his car and video games back they are using him to gain something in return the judge in the case is being bias in the case when it should have been dismissed from documents not being turned in on time but they got filed 6 months later my daughter said something to the judge he blowed her off and told her to deal with her consequences
like ur video, but i was screwed out of my child,even tho i was primary care giver.the court system is very bad hear.i was not informed of court date. i was served by my ex of the divorce ,yet the courts made it electronically of internet. but when i logged into to that,i was told im not aloud to see whats going on in the case. even tho i am part of the case,it said i was not. so she got a divorce with out me vbeing able to be there and fight for my child,of which my child didnt even want to be with her. it a mess,and i need help badly. i have documentation about me and of my child not wanted to go with her at all. now i need to fight to get my child back and safe from her.
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I really thought there would be some kind of justice in family law but all I found over the past three years of being in court is that whoever has the fanciest and most paperwork wins. All I've ever wanted is peace and for my kids to be happy. But my ex and his brother are addicted to the fight.
lala lee I have the same experience. I'm floored what has been allowed by family court.
Preaching to the choir. I am appalled by the lack of action by the court to hold parties accountable for complete disregard for their own orders.
That is my ex and my ex's dad been in and out of court for three years now his dad can afford one of the best lawyers im a single mom to two beautiful girls and I don't make as much as my ex or my ex's dad my ex's dad is the one paying for my ex's lawyer so its hard esp been doing this on my own and battling them in and out of court :(
What if the child is being bullied and emotionally abused by the other parent? I'd really like to know this please.....
I am going through a custody battle with my ex husband over my son. I feel bullied by him and his lawyer about custody. My ex husband is military and I was a stay at home mom. Now that we are divorced and I am in the process of getting certified as a nurses assistant and finding a job and looking for an apartment (they) are saying that he is more stable then I am financially and as far as housing because he's in the house and that I should give him full custody because it is better for the child. I'm so scared I don't want to lose my son. I'm a good mother I don't do drugs I don't abuse alcohol I just have the short end of the stick! I don't know what to do.
Leeta Gainey I'm in the same boat. How did it turn out for you?
My ex has been bullying me during our entire relationship. He makes false alligations to gain more control and now he has alienated my oldest daughter from me by convincing her I have done something to her. I have never or would I ever use physical punishment or mental abuse. My ex has been telling her lies and also to our other two children along with his new wife. My ex recruited our oldest to bash me and continue to try to convince the other children to follow her and hate me. My heart is breaking and I feel I'm constantly defending myself every week they come to my house. Our youngest daughter having some kind of false blame on me and making statement that a normal 9 year old would not be saying that has adult content. I keep asking for help in the court. Every time we go into court he makes some kind of allegation to get DCF to investigate so he can say I'm abusive. I'm trying to stay strong but I honestly don't know how much I can take. I'm being attacked and I'm not doing anything. Please help me. He mentally abuses my children. He punishes them at his house if they have any fun at my house. My children were afraid to do any activities as a family on my parenting time. My youngest daughter told me her step mother told them not to get out of my car if I take them to karate. They can only participate in lacrosse which was the activity Mex put them in without my agreement which it is in our divorce degree we have to agree on activities that fall on both our parenting time. He threatened my children to tell the Family Relations that I talk bad about both their father and step mother and other outrageous lies. I feel like my world is just being riped apart by my ex and he is using our children as a weapon. These are precious soles and I love them more then any word can express. They are my reason to live. What can I Do? Does the judge see through these lies? I put a motion for contempt against him because he is not bringing our 13 year old (12 years old when the total allienation started). His excuse to me is she doesn't want to come to my house because she is saying I dragged her down a hallway. I never dragged her but I did put my arm around her waist and twirled her down the hallway in a dancing motion to her room because I was trying to defuse her physical attack on her younger siblings and she refused to go to her room when instructed.
The other motion for contempt is because he refused to follow the court order which states he is to bring our oldest daughter to therapy and follow all recommendation of the therapist. He brought he on 4 times in a 6 months time. Her case was closed due to non compliant and was referred to another therapist that can help her in a much higher level of therapy then they could offer. My ex refused to bring her and again using it as an excuse that our daughter is refusing to go.
As a parent I would make sure that she would go because that is what is in her best interest. What child wants to go to therapy? She is not old enough to be making adult decisions. My ex and his attorney are making false allegations and bullying me in court, which now I have to represent myself due to I ran out of money for an attorney. They like to drain my retainers so when it's time to go to court my attorney walks away because my funds are gone.
Please if you can offer any kind of advice I would very much appreciate it.
Tonya Flewelling I'm going through a tough situation with my ex now
He kicked me out the apartment, took my kids, my car and will not allow them to visit me...well, they can if I do "everything " he says. I spent many years being abused emotionally by him, his lies, drugs, women more lies belittling me, my thoughts my education my overall person. I have refused to take anymore, I cant take anymore. I haven't seen my kids since may 11th . It hurts like hell however, the simple peace of having Him out my life seems so worth it right now
I have a quiet in my mind, heart and soul I hadn't felt in years when I was with him. I am working on getting an attorney to get my kids to visit me in my home state. Even talking to him on the phone through email or even in my mind seems to disrupt my new found peace I've grown to love. I pray someday my kids whom I love deeply and miss with all of me will seek their mother and i hope that day i can explain I didn't leave them , I left him ..pray for me
My issue is that I'm being bullied by my ex boyfriend's attorney and the magistrate Judge in Ohio. The magistrate Judge has taken his side withOUT any proof (which there is none) and she even victim blamed me. Not sure what to do, we have trial on the 13th.
Who is the judge?
I LOVE your videos. How does one make contact to ask a question? Thanks.
My ex is trying to make me feel the bad person she tells the judge that she's a single mom when she's not she's married to an alcoholic and my daughter is missing more than 30 days of school failing 4 classes and is abuse at home, went to her school got all her transcripts and I want full custody, will this be enough for me to get full custody?
Thank you for the videos Wendy. I have a question how can I find an attorney on pro bono
My ex is asking for childcare and bus fees for my boys but never provided me receipt when we were ordered that she needs to provide receipts so I can reimburse it. I have zero trust in my ex wife and all I wanted is for her to show receipts and I have no problem paying it. Here is our court order says: The Mother shall provide to the Father copies of all the receipts for the expenses referred to in paragraph 3(childcare and bus fees) as the expenses incurred. My ex is insisting that should be paying first and the receipt will follow since the childcare person is paid monthly when I was ordered to pay every 1st and 15th of each month. Is my understanding incorrect about the my ex wife needs to pay and I will just reimburse? A response will be appreciated. Thanks a lot
Hi Wendy,
I'm a sole parent mum with day to day care of my son who goes to his dad's every second weekend. I have seen and have evidence of neglect from him -from leaving our son with his partner while he works those weekends, to not picking him up on time, to not packing a bag when dropping our son off for daycare which the teachers had reported when they went to change him and had nothing to change him in. -to a record of violent behavior in the past and criminal history.
My son has come from his weekend with him and has constantly repeated everyday "(dad's name) naughty, (dad's name) naighty"
"(Dad) smack bum bum, (dad) smack bum bum, (dad) angry, (dad) angry"
-I saw his bottom had scrape marks and discoloration which looked really suspicious as bruising.
Took him doctors a week late because I took it as a benefit of a doubt esp after asking them what happened and they didn't know and denied any wrong doing. Doctors couldn't pin it to anything because it was already a week out and
So my question is, can I use some of these factors to help me change the parenting order so that I can have one with time only agreed upon or have supervised visitations? What do you do when the other parent is refusing to listen, who are stubborn about what they want even at the expenses of our child or says they care but whose actions show otherwise?
Thank you... thank you so very much... The best interest of the child info you provided has helped me so very much... Thank you..
This vid is just what I needed to boost my confidence! You're the best!
You are AWESOME thank you!!
My husband moved without my approval to a different state with my son. No order was in place and we are still married. He has not brought our son to see me and harrasses me n won't bring him back after my requests. All of this is text message documented btw. Can this be used in a custody hearing? If so. PLEASE tell me how? Im in FL he is in PA
Knowledge is power!
i can really use your advice my ex wife is going away for work and will be visiting on weekends to see our son for the next 5-6 months, she has physical custody, but on paper we have joint custody, my issue is i usually see him friday to saturday every week, but when she is away she wants her mother to look after him during the week, is there any way i would be able to take care of him during the week, i barely get to bond with him from my side.
How can my ex get away with stating complete Lies in court? He wrote in his declaration that I went to a rehab center, which the place itself doesn't exist and I've never gongyo to any rehab. Because his brother is his free attorney, they prepare very fancy, well written, very organized declarations with Exhibits that they have a staff of secretaries and junior attorneys working on. I am just one person with limited funds, that didn't even finish high school against 2 brothers with Masters degrees. What can I possibly do?
Great videos!
can a parent purchase the other parents parenting time bc my ex sold me his past weekend for $100
thank you i know any advice is helpful im thankful to you and had great successful life and attorney assistance access so thats great and thank you its comforting to know!!!!even if the cases arent pending yet!!!!we hope for the best
Where are you located I would really like to have a consultation with you we desperately need help.
How can I contact this lady???
Your awesome!
I don’t feel like I can make it
What if my daughters x boyfriend got custody of my grandson in which I raised and supported for 19 months and his mother wants to run the show when he was with me he was a happy little boy now that he is out there with them he is not happy cause he is a Papa s boy it is going on three months they came two days before Christmas and took him when they took him they said me and my oldest daughter that we could come see him but his mother is running the show and said we can't see him until he gets his car and video games back they are using him to gain something in return the judge in the case is being bias in the case when it should have been dismissed from documents not being turned in on time but they got filed 6 months later my daughter said something to the judge he blowed her off and told her to deal with her consequences
Wendy my ex.lied in court he acussed me of many things what should I do
Who is your ex?
like ur video, but i was screwed out of my child,even tho i was primary care giver.the court system is very bad hear.i was not informed of court date. i was served by my ex of the divorce ,yet the courts made it electronically of internet. but when i logged into to that,i was told im not aloud to see whats going on in the case. even tho i am part of the case,it said i was not. so she got a divorce with out me vbeing able to be there and fight for my child,of which my child didnt even want to be with her. it a mess,and i need help badly. i have documentation about me and of my child not wanted to go with her at all. now i need to fight to get my child back and safe from her.