the show ur mother logic is so true😭 i've had so many 'booby' summer tops or miniskirts i've gotten while confidently telling myself I'll wear them when I'm not around my mum but when i wear them in public i'm just stressed every women my mums age is judging me lol
The “purchasing unpersonal personal items” resonates so much! I’ve had this mentality for a few years now and some people think it’s odd, why not just buy the silly little charm and get on with your life? Because it feels decorative and fake! I can’t express how validating and refreshing it feels to hear you or just anyone else for that matter mention this. Superb video as always xx
same!! i do like the look of flats on other people so i was thinking there might come a day when i'll prefer to wear them too, but that day has definitely not come yet hahah
@@llera_navi yeah flat shoes just look..off on me. i can’t explain why. i just started wearing chunky/platform shoes about a year ago and i wish i had started way sooner! they look so much more flattering on my body
hey ash, that fleeting comment about not having friends, I know it was at least partly meant to be humorous, but you seem to be someone who doesn’t waste words and loves genuineness. So I just want to say that though we the people of the internet who get to benefit from your lovely charm, wit, and sprightly personality-though we are no replacement for in-person, deep, bosom friendships, I do hope you find those people. Each video I literally say out loud, “I wish I was her friend haha!” You are so delightful and deserve it. That’s all ❤.
this video is beyond brilliant. i have worked in marketing and i am delighted for you that you’ve figured out so much of this at your tender age- and so many folks never will. good for you, truly!! cheers!
as a city girl with a strict middle eastern mom that I very much still want validation from, I will never be showing her my purchases and i’m happy with that hehe
This sorta goes along with the pink lady theory but another regret I always have is buying a fast fashion item just because it has a cute design or something and realizing later that I just don’t connect with it at all if you know what I mean. I connect so much more with found vintage items P.S. when I found out you posted at work I was already excited to go wind down at home with some chocolate and watch your vid and that’s exactly what I did
YES THIS IS EVERYTHING pls it also goes with the dangling charms off your bag for the sake of it trend, it means SO MUCH more if you connect with the item :)xxxxx P.S pls this makes me so happy pls tell me what chocolate is ur fav xxx
omg the thing about buying clothes alone is sooo true and i've never heard anyone talk about it! Also, I don't have friends either and feel like we'd be really good friends
I mean I don't have much of a choice ahahaha but sometimes my mum will pitch in and I have to banish her bc I cant deal with influence, im too easily swayed !!! (also pls I know we would be pals xxxxx)
2:35 I was worried that this was gonna be apple clothes slander (like the apple hairclips, apple print fabrics) i love apples, i will never part with my red jacket with an APPLE SHAPED POCKET and an APPLE LEAF ON THE HOOD. it's a kids jacket, but I love it so much. anyways i subscribed
I lovvvvvv kids clothing !! I wish they made fun adult clothes w ladybirds n pink stripes n apples on them :’) im so glad u found me pls stay forever xxxxxxx
Idk why but there's something so funny about you and the way you explain things too. When it came to the vinted shoes I laughed so hard omg 😭😭Thank you for this video!!
I kind of disagree with the first one. I love to have the funky option of original in terms of accessories. For 90% of the time I dress quite basically, because I live in small town and have stuff to do 🙈 But funky accessories - like shoes or handbags, that are not “the original” of the product are really making the outfits look intentional, since they are contrasting with the rest of the simple, basic outfit. It always makes me feel a little bit more like a fashion girly, even when I’m just buying groceries ☺️
I don't usually comment on TH-cam videos, but I REALLY felt the urge to after watching your videos. I've only found your channel today, and I swearrr I've binge-watched like half of your channel by now. You're just so polarizing, it's both your energy and looks (you're absolutely gorgeous btw).Your videos are so entertaining, you really know how to talk about style. With you, it feels like I'm talking to an old friend about fashion (your style rocks!!). you're incredible, I hope I'll get to see your channel grow because you deserve it xx
Ah pls i love u so much im so glad u found meeeeeee !! Thank u so so much for your kind words it ac means so much to me:’) I really hope u stay forever xxxxx
this is so real. i didn't like those lil capris that have been popular recently and thrifted some anyways, they look meh on me, moving on! onwards and upwards!
incredible thumbnail💖 and all these tips are great!! i love when people personalise their items with charms and stickers that already have a lot of meaning to them💕
The not liking it at first thing is true, it can really be a good indicator of whether or not you're just gonna get rid of it soon. The loafer and boat shoe trend is great to me because i went through that phase in middle school. I still have some of these items, my mom still bought me these things a few years ago. And they are practical in terms of everyday work, church, dressing up etc. The bloke core thing is just the life of people around different parts of europe, latin america etc. Or at the VERY least if you are buying into the trend, start slow. You don't need 15 sambas.
Totally agree about accessories on bags!! Ive been using this beautiful bag ive "reclaimed" from my mum and i feel the urge to put little keychains and stuff on it that mean nothing to me + would just be extra junk just cause its trendy right now. Thanks for the much needed wake up call ❤❤❤
Oh goodness! I couldn't decide if I was actually listening to Gymnopedie No. 1 or if my ears were ringing after playing it for the past few hours continuously. And then I couldn't stop laughing. I love your videos btw. And
Great advice! As a personal example, when chunky loafers were blowing up and i caught the bug, i ended up settling on less chunky less trendy doc marten loafers, which are now my very favorite shoes and will not age themselves like the big chunky ones.
may I be so presumptuous as to suggest a video topic? Your ideal trends! Like in Ash Callaghan’s dream world what would be trendy? Here’s my list: Garden shoes (or dare I say “gardencore” in general?) Vintage travel tshirts Sporty digital watches LIBRARY CARDS!!! lol 🫶🏽 hope to hear your list someday!
oh my stop i LOVE this idea !! hm just off the back of yours ima say ,, farmer girl chic , toe socks , white dad at a barbecue core , eccentric travelling grandpa chic , repunzel hair :)))))) LOVE the idea of gardencore , im going to steal that ehehehe xxx
I will say i resonated with most of them and especially the Mom one. But the pal one is right most of the Time but, i was once out with a friend and they recomended me one shirt that was not 100% my cup of tea then, and It is being used every week cuz it is so simple and very comfortable.
"unpersonal personal items" the temu ones are trendy but if you actually hang trinkets that are personal to you on your bag you'll get bullied cause its "weird"
the on sale tactic is the most painful to let go. but over time i have become strong against its wiles!!! excellent advice. also, i think that sometimes hide markups in the form of a sale (tiny sale discount from original price, large discount from newly marked-up price! esp in grocery stores...???)
I had to stop buying and wearing graphic tees. They look horrible on my slim body and make me look younger(immature). Only figure flattering clothing from 2024 and beyond
Hi this sounds like an odd question, i hope you do not mind, i have been wanting to film a video but i am worried about glare on my glasses, do you have anti-glare on your frames?
Hahahah no problem !!! I don’t have anti glare but I do live in eng er land so it’s always cloudy and I don’t use a ring light or anything . Not v helpful sorry !!! Sometimes there’s a little square in my glasses from my laptop and it annoys the hell out of me n sometimes I pull my curtains if it’s too sunny
Just watching this vid!! I filmed this same vid recently which is uploading on Tuesday! - I included the vid of your shoes in mine lol!! Xx I didn’t steal it from this vid lol xx
I put shit on my bag and that's because I always loved the idea of it because I'm part of otaku (cringe term, I know) culture. I for example put a rare 25+ year old keychain (of a series I like, of course), etc.
All of my most recent regrettable purchaces have been in the presence of mothers/pals 🥲 Luckily its not too much damage, but regret achieved nonetheless
You could add to this category things mom buys for you. I'm not paying, so sure I'll take it! I still have a dress that I have never worn, probably after 10 years, that my mom bought me...and I can't give it away because she bought it for me, I asked her to buy it for me...sigh.
Printing and framing this thumbnail for my living room
I’ll sign it so u can sell it on eBay when ur finished
🥰🥰🥰
the show ur mother logic is so true😭 i've had so many 'booby' summer tops or miniskirts i've gotten while confidently telling myself I'll wear them when I'm not around my mum but when i wear them in public i'm just stressed every women my mums age is judging me lol
The “purchasing unpersonal personal items” resonates so much! I’ve had this mentality for a few years now and some people think it’s odd, why not just buy the silly little charm and get on with your life? Because it feels decorative and fake! I can’t express how validating and refreshing it feels to hear you or just anyone else for that matter mention this. Superb video as always xx
Thank you so much ! So glad you agree bc I feel so mean saying it out loud ahahhaahh
no one can ever take my platform shoes away from me. i will wear them forever! chunky shoes have been life changing for me
same!! i do like the look of flats on other people so i was thinking there might come a day when i'll prefer to wear them too, but that day has definitely not come yet hahah
Hahaahahah pls girl don’t LET them take them away xxxxxx
@@llera_navi yeah flat shoes just look..off on me. i can’t explain why. i just started wearing chunky/platform shoes about a year ago and i wish i had started way sooner! they look so much more flattering on my body
I simply drive cars better in my chunky shoes
i agree !! as someone who’s insecure abt their height i cherish my platform shoes so much, also adds a lot of confidence personally
hey ash, that fleeting comment about not having friends, I know it was at least partly meant to be humorous, but you seem to be someone who doesn’t waste words and loves genuineness. So I just want to say that though we the people of the internet who get to benefit from your lovely charm, wit, and sprightly personality-though we are no replacement for in-person, deep, bosom friendships, I do hope you find those people. Each video I literally say out loud, “I wish I was her friend haha!”
You are so delightful and deserve it. That’s all ❤.
you are so kind thank you so much, this is so lovely to read im sitting here smiling to myself. I hope you have a. lovely day xxxxx
As a 4"10 girlie platforms will never go out of trend for me i will wear them till i die haha but i agree with everything you said in this video
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this video is beyond brilliant. i have worked in marketing and i am delighted for you that you’ve figured out so much of this at your tender age- and so many folks never will. good for you, truly!! cheers!
this was FANTASTIC! also truly obsessed with that thumbnail!!!
Ah im so glad u approve !! Pls u r always my muse xxxxx
as a city girl with a strict middle eastern mom that I very much still want validation from, I will never be showing her my purchases and i’m happy with that hehe
hahahahah valid xD
This sorta goes along with the pink lady theory but another regret I always have is buying a fast fashion item just because it has a cute design or something and realizing later that I just don’t connect with it at all if you know what I mean. I connect so much more with found vintage items
P.S. when I found out you posted at work I was already excited to go wind down at home with some chocolate and watch your vid and that’s exactly what I did
YES THIS IS EVERYTHING pls it also goes with the dangling charms off your bag for the sake of it trend, it means SO MUCH more if you connect with the item :)xxxxx
P.S pls this makes me so happy pls tell me what chocolate is ur fav xxx
as a 5' 0" girl, platforms aren't a trend, they're a lifestyle you didn't choose to take part in
Thank you! It feels incredible to watch a video on fashion without feeling the urge to buy something. xxx
Always such a pleasure!!xxxxx
omg the thing about buying clothes alone is sooo true and i've never heard anyone talk about it! Also, I don't have friends either and feel like we'd be really good friends
I mean I don't have much of a choice ahahaha but sometimes my mum will pitch in and I have to banish her bc I cant deal with influence, im too easily swayed !!! (also pls I know we would be pals xxxxx)
This thumbnail is GOLD hahaha i love your humour
Hehehe thank you!!!!xxxxx
2:35 I was worried that this was gonna be apple clothes slander (like the apple hairclips, apple print fabrics) i love apples, i will never part with my red jacket with an APPLE SHAPED POCKET and an APPLE LEAF ON THE HOOD. it's a kids jacket, but I love it so much. anyways i subscribed
I lovvvvvv kids clothing !! I wish they made fun adult clothes w ladybirds n pink stripes n apples on them :’) im so glad u found me pls stay forever xxxxxxx
i like ur pink lady theory
Me too aahhhhh ;)
@@ashleighcallaghan made me buy doc martens that i wanted instead of a cheaper dif doc martens 😅😅
all these tips are good, but the mother one really resonated for me
Mother knows best 🫡
Idk why but there's something so funny about you and the way you explain things too. When it came to the vinted shoes I laughed so hard omg 😭😭Thank you for this video!!
Ah this is so lovely to hear thank you so much :’) so glad u liked it hope u have the best weekend xxxxx
I kind of disagree with the first one. I love to have the funky option of original in terms of accessories. For 90% of the time I dress quite basically, because I live in small town and have stuff to do 🙈 But funky accessories - like shoes or handbags, that are not “the original” of the product are really making the outfits look intentional, since they are contrasting with the rest of the simple, basic outfit. It always makes me feel a little bit more like a fashion girly, even when I’m just buying groceries ☺️
Interesting !! Love this take on it ! U r the reason why I keep all my old clothes and never get rid of anything :))))
I don't usually comment on TH-cam videos, but I REALLY felt the urge to after watching your videos. I've only found your channel today, and I swearrr I've binge-watched like half of your channel by now. You're just so polarizing, it's both your energy and looks (you're absolutely gorgeous btw).Your videos are so entertaining, you really know how to talk about style. With you, it feels like I'm talking to an old friend about fashion (your style rocks!!).
you're incredible, I hope I'll get to see your channel grow because you deserve it xx
Ah pls i love u so much im so glad u found meeeeeee !! Thank u so so much for your kind words it ac means so much to me:’) I really hope u stay forever xxxxx
this is so real. i didn't like those lil capris that have been popular recently and thrifted some anyways, they look meh on me, moving on! onwards and upwards!
incredible thumbnail💖 and all these tips are great!! i love when people personalise their items with charms and stickers that already have a lot of meaning to them💕
Same !! Love it when u ask where it’s from and they light up when they tell you :’)
The not liking it at first thing is true, it can really be a good indicator of whether or not you're just gonna get rid of it soon. The loafer and boat shoe trend is great to me because i went through that phase in middle school. I still have some of these items, my mom still bought me these things a few years ago. And they are practical in terms of everyday work, church, dressing up etc. The bloke core thing is just the life of people around different parts of europe, latin america etc. Or at the VERY least if you are buying into the trend, start slow. You don't need 15 sambas.
As a 5’3 girlie platforms are always in trend for me ❤
Hahahah fair lol xxxxx
Totally agree about accessories on bags!! Ive been using this beautiful bag ive "reclaimed" from my mum and i feel the urge to put little keychains and stuff on it that mean nothing to me + would just be extra junk just cause its trendy right now. Thanks for the much needed wake up call ❤❤❤
Oh goodness! I couldn't decide if I was actually listening to Gymnopedie No. 1 or if my ears were ringing after playing it for the past few hours continuously. And then I couldn't stop laughing. I love your videos btw.
And
Ah u have a good ear !!hahahah
My uncle has a pink lady apple farm, i always think about your metaphore when i eat them
Awwhhhhh this is so sweet xxxx
one thing i would differ on is that i prefer platform versions of doc martens (for the most part) & have since 2018
Dr martens have always had a chunky silhouette so tbh I consider them an exception too ;)
Great advice! As a personal example, when chunky loafers were blowing up and i caught the bug, i ended up settling on less chunky less trendy doc marten loafers, which are now my very favorite shoes and will not age themselves like the big chunky ones.
Yes !!!! U r the exact case study i needed hahahah xxx
may I be so presumptuous as to suggest a video topic? Your ideal trends! Like in Ash Callaghan’s dream world what would be trendy?
Here’s my list:
Garden shoes (or dare I say “gardencore” in general?)
Vintage travel tshirts
Sporty digital watches
LIBRARY CARDS!!! lol
🫶🏽 hope to hear your list someday!
oh my stop i LOVE this idea !! hm just off the back of yours ima say ,, farmer girl chic , toe socks , white dad at a barbecue core , eccentric travelling grandpa chic , repunzel hair :)))))) LOVE the idea of gardencore , im going to steal that ehehehe xxx
oh yes, i think i've found my new fav cool girl channel
Ah I love you thank you so much xxxxxx
I will say i resonated with most of them and especially the Mom one. But the pal one is right most of the Time but, i was once out with a friend and they recomended me one shirt that was not 100% my cup of tea then, and It is being used every week cuz it is so simple and very comfortable.
Ah best of both worlds hehehe xxxxx
Lol love the thumbnail
Custom t shirt ;)
My pink lady theory was bread. I’d never eat the cheap white bread but always eat all my pumpernickel
YES bakery bread is so far superior !!
"unpersonal personal items" the temu ones are trendy but if you actually hang trinkets that are personal to you on your bag you'll get bullied cause its "weird"
you really taught us today!! love this video so much, we needed this fr 🫶🏼
Ah it’s my pleasure!!!! So glad you liked it :))
i love your circle glasses!!!
Hehehehe thank you , you’re so kind xxxx
You always put a smile on my face … your videos are not just entertaining , it’s super interesting and motivating … ❤
Ah you’re so kind thank you so much xxxx
I've been loving your recent vidoes so much!! Been going through a personal fashion renaissance ✨️✨️
eee love to hear it !! thank you so much xxxx
the on sale tactic is the most painful to let go. but over time i have become strong against its wiles!!! excellent advice. also, i think that sometimes hide markups in the form of a sale (tiny sale discount from original price, large discount from newly marked-up price! esp in grocery stores...???)
you are so right oh my !! I hope you have a lovely day xxxx
Unrelated to the video but your glasses fit u so well
Ah you are so kind thank you so much xxxx
Your so real for these sort of videos ❤
always hehehe xxxx
you are SO PRETTY!
Not only buy the Pink Lady: Be the Pink Lady 😊
hhhahaah so true xxx
Agree! I always filter by very good/new with tags now
You look like Edna Mode’s daughter with those glasses; I love it ☺️
Such a cute thumbnail!
Hehehe thank you !!xxxx
ig vented depends on what and to whom do you buy, personally I bought my sambas as new as it was bought online (and it was cheaper too)
New vidd!!! I love the thumbnail hahahaha
Heheh so glad !! ;)
i like ur nerdy glasses hehe
Ah i lov u ehehehe xxxxxx
okay but now i want those shirts
Ugh don’t bc me too :/ this might be my first merch launch
Thank you 😊
Such a pleasure xxxx
You were personally talking to me about the ballet flat. That’s EXACTLY how I feel about then
I had to stop buying and wearing graphic tees. They look horrible on my slim body and make me look younger(immature). Only figure flattering clothing from 2024 and beyond
ahhh lovely video luv uuuu ❤❤❤
Thank you !!!! Soo much love xxxxxx
I'm going to need an Ash Callaghan t-shirt, I won't regret it.
how could anyone regret that hehehe xxxx
I love your look!
I love you !!!
Such helpful advice!
Hi this sounds like an odd question, i hope you do not mind, i have been wanting to film a video but i am worried about glare on my glasses, do you have anti-glare on your frames?
Hahahah no problem !!! I don’t have anti glare but I do live in eng er land so it’s always cloudy and I don’t use a ring light or anything . Not v helpful sorry !!! Sometimes there’s a little square in my glasses from my laptop and it annoys the hell out of me n sometimes I pull my curtains if it’s too sunny
@@ashleighcallaghan No worries, thank you for the reply! I'm from England as well so hopefully I should be okay to film wearing glasses 😁
Wonderful wonderful as always 🫶🏾
Such a pleasure xxxxx
Tattoos are exactly the same as the bag chains I feel!
Oh my gosh I would be your friend, you’re so witty and lovely, great vid thank you!!
ah you are so cute :') I hope you have the best day xxxx
i wanna be you when im older 😭
No no no no no my mom is NOT gonna see the gothic clothes Im buying :)
hahahahahah , I feel like she's the type of mother to say 'its just a phase' ahahah
Just watching this vid!! I filmed this same vid recently which is uploading on Tuesday! - I included the vid of your shoes in mine lol!! Xx I didn’t steal it from this vid lol xx
ah great minds think alike ;) pls im so excited to watch it u best believe im taking notes !!xxxxxx
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I like cats, rrraaaaaawwwww
PLS U NOTICED !!!!! i hope u like the new intro ;)))
I put shit on my bag and that's because I always loved the idea of it because I'm part of otaku (cringe term, I know) culture.
I for example put a rare 25+ year old keychain (of a series I like, of course), etc.
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I in all good concience could never trust someone who looks this way for fashion advice
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All of my most recent regrettable purchaces have been in the presence of mothers/pals 🥲 Luckily its not too much damage, but regret achieved nonetheless
Hahahahah , they mean well but they r not friends w my wallet :’)
You could add to this category things mom buys for you. I'm not paying, so sure I'll take it! I still have a dress that I have never worn, probably after 10 years, that my mom bought me...and I can't give it away because she bought it for me, I asked her to buy it for me...sigh.
I think I need to find more clothes that I feel more confident in 🥹
awhhh yes pls u deserve it xxxx