"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second." thank you Johnny Depp for making it clear to us ALL who Elenas choice should be.
It's more than that. Between the two brother's, Stefan IS the safest choice. She's looking for any excuse to walk away from Damon and to change her feelings for him. Here? She's down right denying them. She's trying her best to convince herself it wouldn't work out - he's just an obstacle in her and Stefan's love story, that he's still the evil brother. Damon is changing. I'm not certain when he thinks he's worthy of her but he slowly does see he is. He realizes he's worth being loved. Yes, he still lashes out...ex: why he screwed Rebekah. (Which I think is disgusting) but the previous year, he would have done a lot worse. Seems like Elena's terrified she's just like Katherine. As for Damon, one can see and hear the pain he's in. He's trying his best to show Elena he's the man she belongs with. She once said she liked him just the way he was. She can't be the one to change him. He has too. Damon is changing to prove to her how much he loves her and to be with her. She's young and the intense feelings Damon brings out in her scare her. At the end of the day, she knows type of man Damon is. Think of this: His father and Katherine preferred Stefan over him.
@@mahakpunjabi4814 It's not about bloodlust. It's about emotional safety. Stefan is emotionally VERY safe for her. Damon consumes her. She can't control him. She knows she'll love him deeper than she ever did Stefan. The passion she feels for him is terrifying for her, which is why she pushes it away.
i think she was hoping damon would screw it up, do SOMETHING stupid so she can hate him all over again. but even if he wanted to, he can't. he needs her, and she needs him. she's trying to convince herself that no, damon is still the bad brother, he is the antagonist to her and stefans love story. but no more elena. damon isn't going to make it so easy for you. this time he's no longer the bad one. he's himself, and you're falling head over heels for him for it. and not some "good" guy.
I think damon said something like that after they kissed that she can't keep denying it and that he's not going to be a bump in the road this time. Lol replying a few years later 😃.
Tbh I assume most of us was expecting it too, can’t lie although I like Damon he has a toxic habit of hurting those around him when he doesn’t get what he wants, remember after Katherine rejected him then Elena rejected him he sexually assaulted her and than killed Jeremy and didn’t know he had the ring on
@@nataliawashington872 that whole him kissing her although she clearly didn’t want it, even though he was drunk… was not good man…. Writers should not have done it, I heard they wrote it in to try to make viewers never like Damon again…
ping ping oh wait yah he kinda did, idk might be mistaken but Damon like fed on her and turned Elena’s biological mom Isobel into a vampire, and he did kiss her in 1x21 but like just to get her attention and choke her to warn her to never hurt Elena.
God, I felt so bad for Damon in this scene. Seriously Elena?! Just admit that you have feelings for him. If you didn't, you wouldn't have made out with him. I swear, Elena pisses me off sometimes. Hopefully she will admit that she loves Damon in Season 4.
Stefan Salvatore yeah stelena would most definitely not have been endgame they clearly weren’t meant to me because if she truly loved stefan she wouldn’t have loved damon. her relationship w stefan was safe and comfortable, but with damon she had burning passion. you can’t even tell me you would have chosen passion over something safe 💀
Stefan Salvatore Stefan Salvatore I believe that Stelena wouldn’t have been endgame because in season 3 you could see Elena going more towards Damon. Yes she did pick Stefan in the season 3 finale but in the season 4 finale she did pick Damon and if it was going to be Stelena as endgame, Elena would’ve picked Stefan then in my opinion. Also, we got approximately 4 seasons worth of Stelena and watching their relationship develop and evolve, whereas we only got around 2 seasons of Delena and yes they had sex a lot but you also see Damon and Elena develop for the better when they’re together. I feel as though if Nina didn’t leave, we would’ve been able to see a more sensitive and vulnerable side to Delena instead of a very passionate and sexual relationship but there was a lot of chemistry between Elena and Damon but not in the soppy love story way.
Stefan Salvatore sorry who won the best on screen chemistry award? stefan and elena? i don’t think so, it was damon and elena. besides stefan and elena had sex on episode 10, it literally took them 10 episodes to have sex, do you know how many episodes took to damon and elena have sex? 73 episodes. so don’t even go there. don’t forget elena’s words to damon “i want to thank you for giving me everything i always wanted. a love that consumes me, and passion,...and adventure.. there’s nothing more i could ever want other than for it to last forever” or “in death you’re the one that made me feel most alive”, who did she say she wanted to spend the rest of her life with? damon. when alaric asked her when she first fell in love with damon, she responded when he gave her the necklace, that was before this scene, so don’t even try to say she didn’t love him. elena fell in love with damon while being in a relationship with stefan, if she had it all with stefan and was supposedly so happy with him why did she started looking at damon in a romantic way? as long as i can remember, after being with damon she never looked back, like she did when she was with stefan. delena is what i call true love, and i stand by that.
Girl bye, she brought Damon back to life. It was Damon who didn't deserve ELENA! I love both characters, but let's be honest she forgave him and supported him through a lot of bullshit. She also defended him several times. There was no 'using.'
@@dmaster1000 well thats your f up opinion elena used damon season 2 and 3 anytime her ass needed to be saved or when Crack head stefan had went off the deep end her and stefan would call and want damon to help . Then she choose stefan. When did she ever defend damon yeah she forgave him for stuff after a while but she neve defended him because she would get on him too. Take your damon hater glasses off and watch the show again
She definitely did use him at start like in s2 and maybe in s3 too but after that no because whenever she did it Damon made her know that he acknowledges that she's using him and made her feel guilty about it since he knew that doing so would have a effect on her since she always said "I'm not katherine" and all
Am I the only one thinking that the " Am I wrong" part at 1:11 is hilarious because of the way Damon says that with his mouth wide open? If you just watch that part you will see
@@alinac5512 dude these writers fucked all the SErs and DErs. Unnecessary Delena Retcon in 3x22 and that sire bull. In season 5 also they did this doppleganger crap to prove what exactly..?!lol and then even in s6 they had some shit dialogues about Elena going back to stefan if she would have been human.😂 They strung along all the viewers in S7&8 for the Hope of DE and Since a lot of ppl believed that Since elena is human Stelena may happen and in the end god😂😂😂😂😂Knowss Even Ending was bullshit.
This scene shows how far Delena have come. Last season Damon would have gone into self destruct mode after this, but he hasnt done that now because somewhere along the line he actually started believing in his love for elena. He's always loved her, but he never really felt like he deserved her...he probably still doesnt, but he's started to get over the pain that others have caused him and trust elena. He's come such a long way
I love his "What are you doing?" Something so raw and visceral about the way he asks the question. It's the voice of someone who knows well when he's being fucked with.
Why can't Elena just admit that she loves Damon? everyone can see it even Rose knows it! maybe she's scared that she might actually love Damon more than Stefan
Because others always expected her to be 'perfect' and her relationship with Stefan was usually considered 'epic'...let alone having feelings for his brother is pretty looked down upon. I can understand Elena trying to fight it. When Damon said 'when people see good they expect good, I don't wanna live up to anyone's expectations' Elena reacted so strongly because he basically said what she'd been doing to herself all that time. It's the same thing with in season 4 when she was dancing with Damon and learning to feed off people...when it's just them alone she's able to let loose and be the fun Elena again. The instant she noticed Bonnie looking at her the wrong way, she went back to 'oh crap I need to be what others expect of me' pretty much. This is what was starting to really annoy me. Damon is just so intense as well, so I can understand Elena being intimidated by his love for her.
To me it's obvious elena is more logical than emotional. She has feelings for damon of course, it's damon she wants, but she needs safe and reliable. That's why she's torn between damon and stefan. If her and damon could be smooth without bumps in the road she'd be happier than she was with stefan i think, because her feelings for damon are more intense, but until then, she's going to be torn between her wants and needs, which is why she always runs back to stefan, yet her eye wanders to damon.
I know everyone wants Elena to just face the truth and admit her feelings (believe I really want that too.). Also it was unfortunate that they had this fight right after that epic kiss. BUT this was a conversation tha Damon and Elena needed to have. Damon needed to make it clear to Elena that if she truly loves and wants him, it's going to have to be HER decision to make. It shouldn't be based on his past actions.
*Elena kisses Damon and they have a passionate make out in a motel* *2 seconds later* Elena: Stefan thinks I have feelings for you. Damon: Do you? Elena: I- I don’t know. THE NERVE OF THIS ONE-
Elena's feelings aren't in question, she's in love with Damon. "Or maybe you were hoping I'd screw it up so I could just make the decision for you." That's why their entire argument is about Damon's actions. Damon already knew Elena had feelings for him when they kissed in 3x10. Something Elena didn't want anyone to know about. Shouldn't take a genius to figure out why. She doesn't tell Caroline because of how badly Damon treated her in the beginning. She lies to Jeremy about it because Damon literally snapped his neck. Damon was the one who told Bonnie, and purposefully. He wanted her and Elena to talk about it, what he calls road trip bonding. Bonnie is the reason Elena has the courage to tell Stefan. Not only that Damon kissed her, but that she kissed him back. Damon told the audience exactly what Elena wants. She wants him to make the choice for her. Stefan thinks Elena is in love with Damon. He sends her to Denver to figure out how she feels. When she comes back, he doesn't care at all how she feels. It's all about him and how he feels. Damon told him they got a motel, Stefan didn't care. He always believed he was the better brother, so he thought he could win her back. That's why I don't feel the least bit sorry for him when he finds out Elena and Damon are together in season four. Which he blames on the sire bond because his ego can't handle Elena choosing Damon over him.
My heart was breaking when he said "What if I didn't? What if there was no bump? It was soooo desperate. You really can see that he would do everything for her.
I don't know why people are giving up to Delena because this scene is very important: 1) damon doesn't act like a vampire when he sees Elena's Blood. He is acting as a human. 2) Elena does feel something for Damon because she said " I don't know". She could have said "No" but she doesn't: the door is still open. 3) They are arguing and this is good for them. They need this, Elena needs this to face the truth about her feelings. There are 3 episodes left and i Still have faith. Delena is going
Yes please Damon ask her....what is she doing? She needs to figure it out...she can't lead both of you on,..I know she is confused but dammit Elena..don't do this to Damon. I am soo happy he asked her that. Go Damon!!!
if elena is trying to resist kissing damon, because she’s scared to be consumed by that love and passion, then yeah, she’s DEFINITELY in love with him.
This is more than a scene for me. It's one of my favorite episodes of the series because of what it means for Elena's character. Damon is pushing her just as Alaric is pushing Stefan. She becomes a vampire because it's about her heart of darkness. That's why she's painting the room at midnight and painting it darker, then the white paint spills on the floor. The light is dying out... and they fit her death to the soundtracks in this episode. Elena will die because Damon won't make it easier for her by lashing out. Instead, she'll come to understand why it's easy for him to lash out lol. She essentially gets her answers about Damon when she becomes a vampire and finds out just how impulsive she can be. "If you want the answers from my darkest side, you're gonna have to tap into yours." Only then is she able to own her love for Damon. She becomes a vampire for the sake of being with him, and gets a much needed reality check with his humanity as her own emotions become magnified. The best way to understand someone is to walk in their shoes. So she does.
Damon knows she's attracted to him. That's why he climbs into bed with her. Because he catches her watching him. He doesn't know she's in love with him, and she won't admit she is. Her character is written in denial about everything. Admitting it makes it real. Kinda like when Jeremy is trying to tell Damon that Bonnie is dead, and Damon tells him not to say it, don't you dare. Because Jeremy said it, Damon is forced to tell Elena that Bonnie is dead. Same concept. If Elena admitted she's in love with Damon, she'd be forced to let go of Stefan, and she's afraid of losing his friendship.
When Damon said he wasn't going to make it simple for her it meant that he wasn't gonna lash out it meant that he's gonna show her what he would be like if they were together instead of messing around and making her hate him
Well, since he "sabotages" things with Elena, every time things don't work out the way he wants them to work, by saying "what it there were no bumps" he actually says:"what if i wouldn't lash out, nor sabotage things anymore? what if things wouldn't be against us anymore, or if they still were I would try no to get angry anymore? Would we be together in that case, since that seems to be the only impediment for you to be with me"
I actually liked this scene. It needed to happen. They needed to talk about it, because there was too much up in the air with their current situation. Yes they had a hot make out and they both gave in to their temptations, but this scene shows them brought back to earth and very realistically dealing with the predicament. We can't just have them kiss and be magically together.
People are saying they don't get "what is was no bump" he is saying the bump is him not being able to have her so iwhen he gets mad its mainly because of that, so he's saying if I was with u I wouldn't have to lash out because I would have everything I wanted. I also have got really annoyed with elena she kisses him then makes him think she wants him then goes running back to stefan I want delena to be together sooooo much .
Yeah I didn’t like that cause I feel it makes Elena feel obligated to be with him like “if you’re not with me to control me than people might get hurt”, that’s why I can’t get behind Delena because Elena’s too codependent on Damon and it’s pretty toxic, I want Damon to let her make her own decisions like Stefan does..he needs to learn to trust her
She is scared to admit her love Damon because of how much she loves him and how vulnerable that makes her. Both brothers love her and always will. Stefan is the safe choice because she knows he won't hurt her. Damon isn't afraid to hurt her feelings or challenge her. IMO Damon is the one. The greatest love comes with the most vulnerability. She feels safe with Stefan and vulnerable with Damon.
I liked her way better in s1 and s2 . If she does admit her feelings it will probably be in the s4 finale. Ifit doesn't happen then probably sometime in s5. But i hope she won't take that long to realize she loves him.
I agree with you guys, I'm so glad he is making it harder for her. Hello, he is a guy, he loves her unconditionally, he is going to screw up from time to time. It's what makes us love him. He reacts like a man who has been hurt over and over again and is trying to put up a wall to prevent anyone from hurting him any further. They are starting to make Elena seem more like Katherine, with the way she plays with his head. But on the bright side she didn't say "No" this time. :)
Elena loved her and her family more than her ex. Stefan and elena was together now they aren't. Damon supported her more than stefan. When she becams a vampire he supported and liked her that way. Stefan wanted that cure as fast as possible. Elena had her humanity switch off and he believed she can go thru that and turn it on soon. Stefan tried but then gave up and Damon still had hope for her. This is why Nina and Ian had best chemistry in Vampire Diaries because they're love was believable, epic, amazing, crazy, adventurous and they had that hall more than Stefan and Elena. Elena made him a better man. Nobody truly loved damon. Katherine played him like he was some kind of toy. Others he kissed were stressed they did not get the man. He was in a dark place and has no one. Elena came and changed that for Damon. Nobody can not get in there way not even Stefan.
It was all butterflies in my stomach not until Elena chose Stefan in the end of season 3. Still can't move on lol! Whenever she and Damon have moments together I would tell myself "yes, gurl! I know you want Damon!!! We all do"
"Stefan thinks that I have feelings for you." Elena, girl you literally just kissed him five seconds ago so obviously you do have feelings. Stefan doesn't THINK that you have feelings for him, he KNOWS you do. Damon is pretty much saying either make up your mind or stop playing with his feelings.
I'm actually really glad she said that, Elena saying ILY to Damon is a finale thing ;) .. because that moment would be HUGE and I'm like 95% sure it will happen in 3x22 .. and I also love what Damon told her .. he said "this time I won't make it so easy for you" meaning he won't mess up again so her choice can be easy, he'll try to be better to make this a difficult decision and to have her choose him .. Delena owns this guys!! :D
Seriously Elena? How can you STILL not know after that kiss?! Damn you girl just ADMIT IT ALREADY the rest of the world knows! But it's okay...the motel scene makes everything better :)
Eventough she says "i dont know" I think we all know that she knows,. I mean just look at her when she was in the motel with him in the bed, the way she was breathing, her chest was like.. crazy breathing! haha. And the kiss, do I need to say more? No.. :D
I'm sooo glad they put it out there, Damon is right!!! I can't wait til she WAKES UP!!! I'm not even mad about this cuz that whole motel and kissing scene, just made me happy, for the rest of my life, Lmao.
i was soooo glad with this scene!!! finally damon made her face the truth!!! she told alaric that she will do that trip to figure out how she feels for damon and after kissing him like that she tells him that she didn t use him at all and that she still doesn t know her feelings!!! ughhhh.... but but but i will not be mad again because i m too happy and excited with the amazing passionate romantic and unbelievable kiss :D :D :D :D
I am Team Delena and I only can say that she never kissed stefan as intensiv as Damon....Rose is so right when she said ....Damons Love is the best and the worst:) Everyone of use knows that Elena has feeling for Damon..she only doesn't want hurt Stefan....I guess..but know Damon is hurt...hope she decide Damon
They new that there was always something there, Elena said understanding in earlier episode but seeing the whole show Damon new what it really was but didn't say anything. We saw it when they first meeting.
@@cacatyty199 agree. İf first met scene wasnt existe we have already known they have a thing for each other. There was for me since Atlanta episode but Elena didnt accept this because she didnt want to upset stefan but she couldnt leave keep looking at Damon. This is funny for me. That reason ı dont care julie pleck's or delena haters's opinion.
I completely agree with you, right now a relationship with Damon could be good or bad only by giving them a chance will she find out which, she could choose Stefan and always wonder what could have been with Damon and what she might have missed out on or she could choose Damon sure there is a chance of getting hurt but she could also experience the most amazing love of her life. The greatest thing in life come with risks the question is is she brave enough to take the risk....I think she is.
Shes not denying her feelings for damon. Shes just unsure what people think and what stefan thinks all that drama. She f'n loves damon and his bad boy attitude lol, but it makes her question herself: how can she like some one like damon? you know all that jiz. LOL
i think she'll probably tell him on s4 finale.We'll be left with those three words and maybe a kiss. Then they'll make us wait till september if they will get together or not. if they do then probably go smoothly for about the the first 8 episodes then they'll probably break. just guessing.
I think that she's gonna tell him she loves him by the season finale. He practicly said "I'm not gonna throw myself at you anymore, if you want me I'm right here." The rest is up to Elena to make the move now, which I think she might come clean to him at the end of the season. But that's my theory
"This time in not gonna make it easy on you" but seriously Elena always had feelings for him especially ever since the Founders ball where he saved Elena from being embarrassed always glanced at him with those eyes even wen she was with Stefan u knew she liked him deep down Cuz I hate to say it Good Guys finish last
people think damon is the better choice based off his looks. I think damon is the better choice based off everything but his looks. okay yes he is HOT but that isn't the only reason he was meant for her . but i also feel bad for damon a lot because he can do one thing Everybody is all mad at him ready to kill him or something. but when stefan lashes out or sumthing everybody all like "It WaSn'T hIs FaUlt" always defending him because he is the "good brother" . but I ship Stelena idk why but I did. but even tho I'm a stelena fan I thought damon was the better choice! and besides i was once told "if you love two people at the same time choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second".
NO Elena.. YOU SABBOTAGE THINGS YOU STUPID ************************ Seriously I'm getting pissed REALLY pissed. You can just hear the pain in Damons voice, HEARTBREAKING. Come here Damon I will kiss you and hug you! I'll make you happy!
exactly .. which makes me think of Rose's line of Damon either being best or worst thing for Elena --- I think thats typical of such a strong passionate love :) which it definitely frightens her
@BabyLilsaa umm I think it's because she's embarrassed of her feelings, not that they're not there...lol. She's afraid that everything will change once she states that she has feelings for Damon.
While I can't blame Elena for using this trip to figure out her feelings, I do think it was a bad move to start making out with Damon if she wasn't clear on her feelings yet. He had a right to be mad that she used that kiss to try and figure out what she feels for him. I do hope she figures it out soon though. Most "will they or wont they" romances on tv end with "they do" but considering this is reckless damon and "loyal to stefan" Elena, I'm not so sure about this one. I hope they do.
I honestly think she's just afraid to say yes. That once she says yes everything will change. With everyone's opinions, Stefan. Plus she doesn't want to be like Katherine. Hopefully the writers made her decision at the end of the season. If she picks Stefan I might stop watching.
Don't worry guys, the CREATOR of this marvelous story has said she wants damon to end up with elena. I'm sure the writers of the show want the same thing:)
Even stefan knows she is in love with damon don't know why she is not admitting.... no one made out with the person without the feelings unless u r *****...
Damon: Am I wrong? Elena: Dam---- Damon: AM I WRONG?! Elena: It's what you do Damon! You sabotage things. I mean think about it, every time there's a bump in the road...you lash out. Me: 😒😒😒 SN: Girl even if you aren't sure, just be HONEST about how YOU REALLY FEEL. I love Elena but she was extra and doing the most at times😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. The Vampire Diaries!!! We Miss You All Cast Members!❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
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"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
thank you Johnny Depp for making it clear to us ALL who Elenas choice should be.
Hannah Criswell yes
why are you even on here if you’re a Stelena fan? ^
Stelena Forever it’s actually a pretty clever quote.
Why Jhonny Depp???
kings list chill
She had the nerve to put the blame on him...Oh Elena, the heart wants what it wants!
It's more than that. Between the two brother's, Stefan IS the safest choice. She's looking for any excuse to walk away from Damon and to change her feelings for him. Here? She's down right denying them. She's trying her best to convince herself it wouldn't work out - he's just an obstacle in her and Stefan's love story, that he's still the evil brother. Damon is changing. I'm not certain when he thinks he's worthy of her but he slowly does see he is. He realizes he's worth being loved. Yes, he still lashes out...ex: why he screwed Rebekah. (Which I think is disgusting) but the previous year, he would have done a lot worse. Seems like Elena's terrified she's just like Katherine. As for Damon, one can see and hear the pain he's in. He's trying his best to show Elena he's the man she belongs with. She once said she liked him just the way he was. She can't be the one to change him. He has too. Damon is changing to prove to her how much he loves her and to be with her. She's young and the intense feelings Damon brings out in her scare her. At the end of the day, she knows type of man Damon is. Think of this: His father and Katherine preferred Stefan over him.
CavalierPrincipessa Stefan is her brother in law and Stefan was never the safest one. Lol His bloodlust was a problem
@@mahakpunjabi4814 It's not about bloodlust. It's about emotional safety. Stefan is emotionally VERY safe for her. Damon consumes her. She can't control him. She knows she'll love him deeper than she ever did Stefan. The passion she feels for him is terrifying for her, which is why she pushes it away.
@@myaimistrue100 I agree.
But Delena gives me that feels man. I've never shipped a pair so much
@@myaimistrue100 I agree.
But Delena gives me that feels man. I've never shipped a pair so much
i think she was hoping damon would screw it up, do SOMETHING stupid so she can hate him all over again. but even if he wanted to, he can't. he needs her, and she needs him. she's trying to convince herself that no, damon is still the bad brother, he is the antagonist to her and stefans love story. but no more elena. damon isn't going to make it so easy for you. this time he's no longer the bad one. he's himself, and you're falling head over heels for him for it. and not some "good" guy.
I think damon said something like that after they kissed that she can't keep denying it and that he's not going to be a bump in the road this time. Lol replying a few years later 😃.
@@JaneJn-e5c Sameeee
Tbh I assume most of us was expecting it too, can’t lie although I like Damon he has a toxic habit of hurting those around him when he doesn’t get what he wants, remember after Katherine rejected him then Elena rejected him he sexually assaulted her and than killed Jeremy and didn’t know he had the ring on
She’s trying so badly to push her feelings for him away and to convince herself that Stefan is the one for her when he isn’t.
@@nataliawashington872 that whole him kissing her although she clearly didn’t want it, even though he was drunk… was not good man…. Writers should not have done it, I heard they wrote it in to try to make viewers never like Damon again…
Damon didnt even prolly know he was inlove with elena intill elena mom isobel told elena he was 😂😂😂
Yeah! In that moment I was... DAAAAAAMNN
Laura Andrea Rosales sameee 😂
Stefan Salvatore what do you mean damon slept with her mom?
ping ping oh wait yah he kinda did, idk might be mistaken but Damon like fed on her and turned Elena’s biological mom Isobel into a vampire, and he did kiss her in 1x21 but like just to get her attention and choke her to warn her to never hurt Elena.
@@gradybaby_kv damon tells alaric that he slept with isobel (don´t remember before or after turning her)
God, I felt so bad for Damon in this scene. Seriously Elena?! Just admit that you have feelings for him. If you didn't, you wouldn't have made out with him. I swear, Elena pisses me off sometimes. Hopefully she will admit that she loves Damon in Season 4.
Stefan Salvatore yeah stelena would most definitely not have been endgame they clearly weren’t meant to me because if she truly loved stefan she wouldn’t have loved damon. her relationship w stefan was safe and comfortable, but with damon she had burning passion. you can’t even tell me you would have chosen passion over something safe 💀
Stefan Salvatore Stefan Salvatore I believe that Stelena wouldn’t have been endgame because in season 3 you could see Elena going more towards Damon. Yes she did pick Stefan in the season 3 finale but in the season 4 finale she did pick Damon and if it was going to be Stelena as endgame, Elena would’ve picked Stefan then in my opinion. Also, we got approximately 4 seasons worth of Stelena and watching their relationship develop and evolve, whereas we only got around 2 seasons of Delena and yes they had sex a lot but you also see Damon and Elena develop for the better when they’re together. I feel as though if Nina didn’t leave, we would’ve been able to see a more sensitive and vulnerable side to Delena instead of a very passionate and sexual relationship but there was a lot of chemistry between Elena and Damon but not in the soppy love story way.
she was confused you can't always know how you feel you know..
Stefan Salvatore sorry who won the best on screen chemistry award? stefan and elena? i don’t think so, it was damon and elena. besides stefan and elena had sex on episode 10, it literally took them 10 episodes to have sex, do you know how many episodes took to damon and elena have sex? 73 episodes. so don’t even go there. don’t forget elena’s words to damon “i want to thank you for giving me everything i always wanted. a love that consumes me, and passion,...and adventure.. there’s nothing more i could ever want other than for it to last forever” or “in death you’re the one that made me feel most alive”, who did she say she wanted to spend the rest of her life with? damon. when alaric asked her when she first fell in love with damon, she responded when he gave her the necklace, that was before this scene, so don’t even try to say she didn’t love him. elena fell in love with damon while being in a relationship with stefan, if she had it all with stefan and was supposedly so happy with him why did she started looking at damon in a romantic way? as long as i can remember, after being with damon she never looked back, like she did when she was with stefan. delena is what i call true love, and i stand by that.
Stefan Salvatore do the counts sweetheart, stefan and elena had sex on season 1 episode 10, damon and elena had sex on season 4 episode 7
I felt so bad for Damon when he said " am I wrong ' it was really heartbreaking
I'm so GLAD Damon finally told her off. She needed to hear it, though it was painful for them both. Proud of you Damon. [;
He truly loved her no matter what and she basically used him whenever she needed help
IKR I AM HARDCORE DELENA FAN BUT THE WAY SHE USED DAMON IN S3,LED HIM ON REPORTEDLY....AND IN END😂
Girl bye, she brought Damon back to life. It was Damon who didn't deserve ELENA! I love both characters, but let's be honest she forgave him and supported him through a lot of bullshit. She also defended him several times. There was no 'using.'
@@dmaster1000 well thats your f up opinion elena used damon season 2 and 3 anytime her ass needed to be saved or when Crack head stefan had went off the deep end her and stefan would call and want damon to help . Then she choose stefan. When did she ever defend damon yeah she forgave him for stuff after a while but she neve defended him because she would get on him too. Take your damon hater glasses off and watch the show again
She didn't....
She definitely did use him at start like in s2 and maybe in s3 too but after that no because whenever she did it Damon made her know that he acknowledges that she's using him and made her feel guilty about it since he knew that doing so would have a effect on her since she always said "I'm not katherine" and all
Am I the only one thinking that the " Am I wrong" part at 1:11 is hilarious because of the way Damon says that with his mouth wide open? If you just watch that part you will see
Katharina G. I CANT UNSEE IT
danixelaaa OMG SAME
No u not along that was hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I laughed way to much at that. I will not be unseeing that. Lol!!
Kati 3764 ya lol
the brothers in season 30: elena who do you like
elena: I DONT KNOWW
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😂😂😂😂❤️
Lmao, nah, she finally admited the truth mid season 4 and thankfully since then the lovetriangel stayed dead.
Lmfaooooo
@@alinac5512 dude these writers fucked all the SErs and DErs. Unnecessary Delena Retcon in 3x22 and that sire bull. In season 5 also they did this doppleganger crap to prove what exactly..?!lol and then even in s6 they had some shit dialogues about Elena going back to stefan if she would have been human.😂 They strung along all the viewers in S7&8 for the Hope of DE and Since a lot of ppl believed that Since elena is human Stelena may happen and in the end god😂😂😂😂😂Knowss Even Ending was bullshit.
When he says what the hell is this? my heart skips a beat aaaaah
This scene shows how far Delena have come.
Last season Damon would have gone into self destruct mode after this, but he hasnt done that now because somewhere along the line he actually started believing in his love for elena. He's always loved her, but he never really felt like he deserved her...he probably still doesnt, but he's started to get over the pain that others have caused him and trust elena. He's come such a long way
I love his "What are you doing?" Something so raw and visceral about the way he asks the question. It's the voice of someone who knows well when he's being fucked with.
Kinda hard to believe that when he let katherine fuck with him for over 150 years lol.
Why can't Elena just admit that she loves Damon? everyone can see it even Rose knows it! maybe she's scared that she might actually love Damon more than Stefan
Little did u know...
you were right
oh wow 9 years later….
Because others always expected her to be 'perfect' and her relationship with Stefan was usually considered 'epic'...let alone having feelings for his brother is pretty looked down upon. I can understand Elena trying to fight it. When Damon said 'when people see good they expect good, I don't wanna live up to anyone's expectations' Elena reacted so strongly because he basically said what she'd been doing to herself all that time. It's the same thing with in season 4 when she was dancing with Damon and learning to feed off people...when it's just them alone she's able to let loose and be the fun Elena again. The instant she noticed Bonnie looking at her the wrong way, she went back to 'oh crap I need to be what others expect of me' pretty much. This is what was starting to really annoy me. Damon is just so intense as well, so I can understand Elena being intimidated by his love for her.
To me it's obvious elena is more logical than emotional. She has feelings for damon of course, it's damon she wants, but she needs safe and reliable. That's why she's torn between damon and stefan. If her and damon could be smooth without bumps in the road she'd be happier than she was with stefan i think, because her feelings for damon are more intense, but until then, she's going to be torn between her wants and needs, which is why she always runs back to stefan, yet her eye wanders to damon.
What Elena should have said is that she does have feelings for him but she is not yet sure what they are
Then she should not play with Stefan
Yeah. Not keep denying them.
I love how hurt Damon was but he still looked so worried for elena even though her injuries weren’t as bad
I know everyone wants Elena to just face the truth and admit her feelings (believe I really want that too.). Also it was unfortunate that they had this fight right after that epic kiss. BUT this was a conversation tha Damon and Elena needed to have. Damon needed to make it clear to Elena that if she truly loves and wants him, it's going to have to be HER decision to make. It shouldn't be based on his past actions.
i love how damon never ever tried to feed on her when she was hurt
It dosent even bother him. The only time he actually found it hard not to feed on her was when he got injected with the ripper virus.
does anybody notices she holds his hand longer than usual.
Shabrittney Menefee well he held it hard until she removed it sadly.
*Elena kisses Damon and they have a passionate make out in a motel*
*2 seconds later*
Elena: Stefan thinks I have feelings for you.
Damon: Do you?
Elena: I- I don’t know.
THE NERVE OF THIS ONE-
Lmao
Elena's feelings aren't in question, she's in love with Damon. "Or maybe you were hoping I'd screw it up so I could just make the decision for you." That's why their entire argument is about Damon's actions. Damon already knew Elena had feelings for him when they kissed in 3x10. Something Elena didn't want anyone to know about. Shouldn't take a genius to figure out why. She doesn't tell Caroline because of how badly Damon treated her in the beginning. She lies to Jeremy about it because Damon literally snapped his neck. Damon was the one who told Bonnie, and purposefully. He wanted her and Elena to talk about it, what he calls road trip bonding. Bonnie is the reason Elena has the courage to tell Stefan. Not only that Damon kissed her, but that she kissed him back. Damon told the audience exactly what Elena wants. She wants him to make the choice for her. Stefan thinks Elena is in love with Damon. He sends her to Denver to figure out how she feels. When she comes back, he doesn't care at all how she feels. It's all about him and how he feels. Damon told him they got a motel, Stefan didn't care. He always believed he was the better brother, so he thought he could win her back. That's why I don't feel the least bit sorry for him when he finds out Elena and Damon are together in season four. Which he blames on the sire bond because his ego can't handle Elena choosing Damon over him.
I agree.
This is so true
Agree
I totally Agree with u 💯
I definitely agree 100% so freaking true exactly why I love Delena ❤️
My heart was breaking when he said "What if I didn't? What if there was no bump?
It was soooo desperate. You really can see that he would do everything for her.
I mean she did leave him alone in s2 but he kept pursuing her (not that I blame him or anything lol, the heart wants what it wants)
I don't know why people are giving up to Delena because this scene is very important:
1) damon doesn't act like a vampire when he sees Elena's Blood. He is acting as a human.
2) Elena does feel something for Damon because she said " I don't know". She could have said "No" but she doesn't: the door is still open.
3) They are arguing and this is good for them. They need this, Elena needs this to face the truth about her feelings.
There are 3 episodes left and i Still have faith. Delena is going
Yes please Damon ask her....what is she doing? She needs to figure it out...she can't lead both of you on,..I know she is confused but dammit Elena..don't do this to Damon. I am soo happy he asked her that. Go Damon!!!
if elena is trying to resist kissing damon, because she’s scared to be consumed by that love and passion, then yeah, she’s DEFINITELY in love with him.
I love when he says "am I wrong?!" Go Damon!!
This is more than a scene for me. It's one of my favorite episodes of the series because of what it means for Elena's character. Damon is pushing her just as Alaric is pushing Stefan. She becomes a vampire because it's about her heart of darkness. That's why she's painting the room at midnight and painting it darker, then the white paint spills on the floor. The light is dying out... and they fit her death to the soundtracks in this episode. Elena will die because Damon won't make it easier for her by lashing out. Instead, she'll come to understand why it's easy for him to lash out lol. She essentially gets her answers about Damon when she becomes a vampire and finds out just how impulsive she can be. "If you want the answers from my darkest side, you're gonna have to tap into yours." Only then is she able to own her love for Damon. She becomes a vampire for the sake of being with him, and gets a much needed reality check with his humanity as her own emotions become magnified. The best way to understand someone is to walk in their shoes. So she does.
I love that Damon gave her an ultimatum
10 years later:
Elena:I still don't know how I feel🤔
Salvatores:😫😩
Us:😐😒
Lolll
Right like girl just be honest about how you REALLY FEEL. Elena extra sometimes.😂😂😂
@@demarcusoverton8503 she did that on s4 and everyone hated her bc she made her choice and all of a sudden she's "selfish"
@@blairolines I actually liked her picking Damon when she turned vampire. Stefan had the best of her now Damon can have the vampire Elena.
You do have feelings for him silly girl❤️
Omg.....she's soo scared to start a relationship with damon....& in this scene , she looks vulnerable!!
Damon knows she's attracted to him. That's why he climbs into bed with her. Because he catches her watching him. He doesn't know she's in love with him, and she won't admit she is. Her character is written in denial about everything. Admitting it makes it real. Kinda like when Jeremy is trying to tell Damon that Bonnie is dead, and Damon tells him not to say it, don't you dare. Because Jeremy said it, Damon is forced to tell Elena that Bonnie is dead. Same concept. If Elena admitted she's in love with Damon, she'd be forced to let go of Stefan, and she's afraid of losing his friendship.
When Damon said he wasn't going to make it simple for her it meant that he wasn't gonna lash out it meant that he's gonna show her what he would be like if they were together instead of messing around and making her hate him
I swear to God Ian has to be one of the most gorgeous actors out there my God 😍😍
I remember how Damon was in the books-and the electric intense chemistry between Elena and Damon was so startling that it hurt.
Well, since he "sabotages" things with Elena, every time things don't work out the way he wants them to work, by saying "what it there were no bumps" he actually says:"what if i wouldn't lash out, nor sabotage things anymore? what if things wouldn't be against us anymore, or if they still were I would try no to get angry anymore? Would we be together in that case, since that seems to be the only impediment for you to be with me"
OMG her face when you pause at 0:15 *.* you can feel the love
Katherine and Elena always hurt Damon over and over again. He's so sweet and protective with Elena
a cute couple i love when the girl fall's for the bad guy it's exciting💗🎈👻
I actually liked this scene. It needed to happen. They needed to talk about it, because there was too much up in the air with their current situation. Yes they had a hot make out and they both gave in to their temptations, but this scene shows them brought back to earth and very realistically dealing with the predicament. We can't just have them kiss and be magically together.
People are saying they don't get "what is was no bump" he is saying the bump is him not being able to have her so iwhen he gets mad its mainly because of that, so he's saying if I was with u I wouldn't have to lash out because I would have everything I wanted. I also have got really annoyed with elena she kisses him then makes him think she wants him then goes running back to stefan I want delena to be together sooooo much .
Yeah I didn’t like that cause I feel it makes Elena feel obligated to be with him like “if you’re not with me to control me than people might get hurt”, that’s why I can’t get behind Delena because Elena’s too codependent on Damon and it’s pretty toxic, I want Damon to let her make her own decisions like Stefan does..he needs to learn to trust her
She is scared to admit her love Damon because of how much she loves him and how vulnerable that makes her. Both brothers love her and always will. Stefan is the safe choice because she knows he won't hurt her. Damon isn't afraid to hurt her feelings or challenge her. IMO Damon is the one. The greatest love comes with the most vulnerability. She feels safe with Stefan and vulnerable with Damon.
What m i SUPPOSED TO FEEL RIGHT NOW...when i love stefan so much😩🥺♥️and can't resist damon too
The curse of being stuck smack in the middle of loving Delena and Stelena. Never satisfied lmaoooo I feel you.
I liked her way better in s1 and s2 . If she does admit her feelings it will probably be in the s4 finale. Ifit doesn't happen then probably sometime in s5. But i hope she won't take that long to realize she loves him.
biancaviolet called it😁
Yep true. Called it 😁
I agree with you guys, I'm so glad he is making it harder for her. Hello, he is a guy, he loves her unconditionally, he is going to screw up from time to time. It's what makes us love him. He reacts like a man who has been hurt over and over again and is trying to put up a wall to prevent anyone from hurting him any further. They are starting to make Elena seem more like Katherine, with the way she plays with his head. But on the bright side she didn't say "No" this time. :)
Elena loved her and her family more than her ex. Stefan and elena was together now they aren't. Damon supported her more than stefan. When she becams a vampire he supported and liked her that way. Stefan wanted that cure as fast as possible. Elena had her humanity switch off and he believed she can go thru that and turn it on soon. Stefan tried but then gave up and Damon still had hope for her. This is why Nina and Ian had best chemistry in Vampire Diaries because they're love was believable, epic, amazing, crazy, adventurous and they had that hall more than Stefan and Elena. Elena made him a better man. Nobody truly loved damon. Katherine played him like he was some kind of toy. Others he kissed were stressed they did not get the man. He was in a dark place and has no one. Elena came and changed that for Damon. Nobody can not get in there way not even Stefan.
It was all butterflies in my stomach not until Elena chose Stefan in the end of season 3. Still can't move on lol! Whenever she and Damon have moments together I would tell myself "yes, gurl! I know you want Damon!!! We all do"
Well how are you feeling now 😂
This scene omg I felt so bad for Damon
"Stefan thinks that I have feelings for you." Elena, girl you literally just kissed him five seconds ago so obviously you do have feelings. Stefan doesn't THINK that you have feelings for him, he KNOWS you do. Damon is pretty much saying either make up your mind or stop playing with his feelings.
I'm actually really glad she said that, Elena saying ILY to Damon is a finale thing ;) .. because that moment would be HUGE and I'm like 95% sure it will happen in 3x22 .. and I also love what Damon told her .. he said "this time I won't make it so easy for you" meaning he won't mess up again so her choice can be easy, he'll try to be better to make this a difficult decision and to have her choose him .. Delena owns this guys!! :D
Seriously Elena? How can you STILL not know after that kiss?! Damn you girl just ADMIT IT ALREADY the rest of the world knows!
But it's okay...the motel scene makes everything better :)
Eventough she says "i dont know" I think we all know that she knows,. I mean just look at her when she was in the motel with him in the bed, the way she was breathing, her chest was like.. crazy breathing! haha. And the kiss, do I need to say more? No.. :D
Oh Elena darling. It's cute how you think anyone would believe your "I don't know" after that kiss.
I'm sooo glad they put it out there, Damon is right!!! I can't wait til she WAKES UP!!! I'm not even mad about this cuz that whole motel and kissing scene, just made me happy, for the rest of my life, Lmao.
Ugh. She so loves him, why is she so in denial!? -_________-"
Thanks for the upload!
There is that and Damon being her ex's brother dosen't make things easier, she dosen't want to hurt Stefan but you can't help what you feel.
I'm glad Damon figured her out...Though the pain on his face totally broke my heart :( poor sweet damon
Its amazing
i was soooo glad with this scene!!! finally damon made her face the truth!!!
she told alaric that she will do that trip to figure out how she feels for damon and after kissing him like that she tells him that she didn t use him at all and that she still doesn t know her feelings!!! ughhhh....
but but but i will not be mad again because i m too happy and excited with the amazing passionate romantic and unbelievable kiss :D :D :D :D
Exactly.. And the fact that all her friends are like What are you doing?????
I am Team Delena and I only can say that she never kissed stefan as intensiv as Damon....Rose is so right when she said ....Damons Love is the best and the worst:) Everyone of use knows that Elena has feeling for Damon..she only doesn't want hurt Stefan....I guess..but know Damon is hurt...hope she decide Damon
She denied her feelings about him for sooooo damn long.
Elena always hugged Stefan but looked at Damon. That's cheat but she wasnt guilt because Damon forget at her their first meet.😭
I picked up on that too. She always look at Damon whenever she embraces Stefan
@@cacatyty199 yeah 🥺
They new that there was always something there, Elena said understanding in earlier episode but seeing the whole show Damon new what it really was but didn't say anything. We saw it when they first meeting.
@@cacatyty199 agree. İf first met scene wasnt existe we have already known they have a thing for each other. There was for me since Atlanta episode but Elena didnt accept this because she didnt want to upset stefan but she couldnt leave keep looking at Damon. This is funny for me. That reason ı dont care julie pleck's or delena haters's opinion.
Their chemistry was great
Last episode was amazing! So what I was hoping for...
I completely agree with you, right now a relationship with Damon could be good or bad only by giving them a chance will she find out which, she could choose Stefan and always wonder what could have been with Damon and what she might have missed out on or she could choose Damon sure there is a chance of getting hurt but she could also experience the most amazing love of her life. The greatest thing in life come with risks the question is is she brave enough to take the risk....I think she is.
OMG, thursday is almost here lol!
the "do you?" in the promo was another take, damon said it full of hope there and here he was a bit angsty but I love both versions :)
Shes not denying her feelings for damon. Shes just unsure what people think and what stefan thinks all that drama. She f'n loves damon and his bad boy attitude lol, but it makes her question herself: how can she like some one like damon? you know all that jiz. LOL
That's not true. You can love two people at the same time, for different reasons. It doesn't mean you love one less than the other.
I like Delena but I despise the claim that if you start falling for someone else,it diminishes the love you felt for the first
lpycb42 no cuz if she truly loved Stefan she would not have fallen for Damon
Eventually it comes down to that though
It's like she regrets what she did !
i think she'll probably tell him on s4 finale.We'll be left with those three words and maybe a kiss. Then they'll make us wait till september if they will get together or not. if they do then probably go smoothly for about the the first 8 episodes then they'll probably break. just guessing.
Omg that hppnd
Omg you guessed right
How do u feel now looking back at what u said 7 years ago? ?
Are you coming from the freaking future?!! 🤣🤣
@@ridaikizoglu true though. Back then you didn't know what would happen and of course a lot of people like delena and wanted it to happen.
I think that she's gonna tell him she loves him by the season finale.
He practicly said "I'm not gonna throw myself at you anymore, if you want me I'm right here." The rest is up to Elena to make the move now, which I think she might come clean to him at the end of the season. But that's my theory
"This time in not gonna make it easy on you" but seriously Elena always had feelings for him especially ever since the Founders ball where he saved Elena from being embarrassed always glanced at him with those eyes even wen she was with Stefan u knew she liked him deep down Cuz I hate to say it Good Guys finish last
people think damon is the better choice based off his looks. I think damon is the better choice based off everything but his looks. okay yes he is HOT but that isn't the only reason he was meant for her . but i also feel bad for damon a lot because he can do one thing Everybody is all mad at him ready to kill him or something. but when stefan lashes out or sumthing everybody all like "It WaSn'T hIs FaUlt" always defending him because he is the "good brother" . but I ship Stelena idk why but I did. but even tho I'm a stelena fan I thought damon was the better choice! and besides i was once told "if you love two people at the same time choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second".
She hurt him with her words worse than any stake could hurt him
Absolutely agree with you!
NO Elena.. YOU SABBOTAGE THINGS YOU STUPID ************************
Seriously I'm getting pissed REALLY pissed. You can just hear the pain in Damons voice, HEARTBREAKING. Come here Damon I will kiss you and hug you! I'll make you happy!
Everyone seems to think that Damon doesn't have feelings !!!!
I would just like to say that she loves Damon in spite of the bumps in the road. What will happen when there isn't any?! Totally irresistable!
Because she's scared. Denial is a defense mechanism designed to protect our egos...and our hearts.
exactly .. which makes me think of Rose's line of Damon either being best or worst thing for Elena --- I think thats typical of such a strong passionate love :) which it definitely frightens her
I'm so glad Damon FINALLY stood up against her
At least she's not saying a straight out no anymore when it comes to her feeling for Damon,
You gotta give her credit, she's half way there
Me too! It's just so hot! Even when he is mad, he is gorgeous! And I love the fact that he is not gonna make easy for Elena, she deserves it!
@BabyLilsaa umm I think it's because she's embarrassed of her feelings, not that they're not there...lol. She's afraid that everything will change once she states that she has feelings for Damon.
damnitt elena stop breaking his heart, everytime I see you break his heart in little pieces It breaks myne ahhhhhhhh
While I can't blame Elena for using this trip to figure out her feelings, I do think it was a bad move to start making out with Damon if she wasn't clear on her feelings yet. He had a right to be mad that she used that kiss to try and figure out what she feels for him. I do hope she figures it out soon though. Most "will they or wont they" romances on tv end with "they do" but considering this is reckless damon and "loyal to stefan" Elena, I'm not so sure about this one. I hope they do.
the publishers for the books did. The tv show had nothing to do with her getting fired.
The best thing damon ever did
What season
last time I checked Johnny Depp wasn't the end-all be-all on love and life. just saying
Me too! Go Damon!! =D
I honestly think she's just afraid to say yes. That once she says yes everything will change. With everyone's opinions, Stefan. Plus she doesn't want to be like Katherine. Hopefully the writers made her decision at the end of the season. If she picks Stefan I might stop watching.
thanks for uploading it!!! :)
& go Damon!
I would love to see a spinoff called the Lockwood need to know more about them
Don't worry guys, the CREATOR of this marvelous story has said she wants damon to end up with elena. I'm sure the writers of the show want the same thing:)
Even stefan knows she is in love with damon don't know why she is not admitting.... no one made out with the person without the feelings unless u r *****...
Damon: Am I wrong?
Elena: Dam----
Damon: AM I WRONG?!
Elena: It's what you do Damon! You sabotage things. I mean think about it, every time there's a bump in the road...you lash out.
Me: 😒😒😒
SN: Girl even if you aren't sure, just be HONEST about how YOU REALLY FEEL. I love Elena but she was extra and doing the most at times😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
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