Thank you for this. I get so fed up of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl trope attributed to us ENFPs. It couldn't be further from the truth. We seek connection, meaning and understanding and are not flighty at all. I love a deep conversation, especially one where someone, inadvertently or not, reveals a hidden truth about themselves and then, suddenly I think "ah, that explains a lot about the way you behave like you do".
As ENFP imo I can't be happy and cheerful all the time witch some people expect I'm always like that. Most of the time (now at age) people can drain me, because no matter what I'm always there like a loyal dog. I really need alone time to recharge so I can be there again and most of the time people don't understand that. Yor video gives almost a full detail of how I experience and do stuff and the 2 worlds I live in. Thank you!
yes the point is : people always to expect I'll be there and do everyhing so they go lazy around me and that makes me misserable. Sometimes I feel like a mom/ therapist for adults.......... And I want to turn back to my art, but no can't get the time, because people are that needy these times. Hope you can relate. ❣@@ActualizedENFP
Completely agree. I used to dissappear to recuperate aa a youngling because maintaining that energetic persona when you don't feel that way is extremely difficult
Thank you for this. I get so fed up of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl trope attributed to us ENFPs. It couldn't be further from the truth. We seek connection, meaning and understanding and are not flighty at all. I love a deep conversation, especially one where someone, inadvertently or not, reveals a hidden truth about themselves and then, suddenly I think "ah, that explains a lot about the way you behave like you do".
yes exaclty we see more in a conversation and people are surprized we can talk about anything
As ENFP imo I can't be happy and cheerful all the time witch some people expect I'm always like that. Most of the time (now at age) people can drain me, because no matter what I'm always there like a loyal dog. I really need alone time to recharge so I can be there again and most of the time people don't understand that. Yor video gives almost a full detail of how I experience and do stuff and the 2 worlds I live in. Thank you!
no person can! and we all need rest sometimes! :)
yes the point is : people always to expect I'll be there and do everyhing so they go lazy around me and that makes me misserable. Sometimes I feel like a mom/ therapist for adults.......... And I want to turn back to my art, but no can't get the time, because people are that needy these times. Hope you can relate. ❣@@ActualizedENFP
Completely agree. I used to dissappear to recuperate aa a youngling because maintaining that energetic persona when you don't feel that way is extremely difficult
Eric who told you all our secrets😂😂
Not that we have any tbh xD
This was the best help in understanding myself as an ENFP. Thank you, Thor!
I'm glad to hear that :)
This was very helpful. Thank you.