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  • @user-qu8zs7vs1x
    @user-qu8zs7vs1x ปีที่แล้ว +1314

    The UK version for bigger sized brides would have found her a fantastic dress!

    • @Here4theComments
      @Here4theComments ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly!

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku ปีที่แล้ว +105

      of all the brides who needed jo & al stateside, this one needed them the most

    • @Here4theComments
      @Here4theComments ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@dietotaku yes!

    • @bev9708
      @bev9708 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Jo and Al leave all the US versions for dead!!! They are absolute angels!!!!

    • @evaveronica5222
      @evaveronica5222 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They had really nice American version for curvy brides and the owner is a great, helpful chic who just wants the brides to feel proud. I dont remember exact name of the boutique.

  • @kaybrown2201
    @kaybrown2201 ปีที่แล้ว +821

    I feel like she and the family just settled for a dress. Am I the only one who thinks she could have gotten a more suitable dress elsewhere with that money?

    • @gerriwilson9484
      @gerriwilson9484 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      You hit the nail dead on the head. As a seamstress I would have suggested a different style of dress The money was.
      not WELL SPENT 😷

    • @Jesuschild7411
      @Jesuschild7411 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      As a bridal stylist, I'm sorry to say that was totally the wrong dress for her. It was too fitted for her body. They just talked her into purchasing something that is definitely not suitable for her.

    • @janetkeen8280
      @janetkeen8280 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I feel for the bride,she seems so sweet. Wish she could have gone to the ladies in Europe for plus size dresses. They are amazing.

    • @myreallife6386
      @myreallife6386 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I feel like there are so many better dresses for her! Why not get her a dress in a bigger size and spend the money tailoring it to fit her. It would have been cheaper.

    • @katebaxter1160
      @katebaxter1160 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I so agree with you. I don’t think it did her any favours. What a shame. So expensive too. I really hope she didn’t buy it in the end.

  • @vashti2389
    @vashti2389 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    She needs a trip to Europe to see Jo and Al. This final dress was not flattering on her at all. She's a beautiful woman, they should have tried much harder to find her something within her price range and to properly accentuate the girls.

    • @mariaedwards6371
      @mariaedwards6371 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      For my understanding when rhe bride agrees to be filmed, I thought Kleinfield is aware of brides size. One would think that they would make sure that there were gowns 34J

    • @Tes7000
      @Tes7000 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@mariaedwards6371 You are making total sense to me. I get that the purpose of the store is to sell dresses, but I would truly love to see one of the bridal consultants recommend that a hard-to-fit bride get a custom dress made. Considering the money they spent on the dress this bride chose, I am thinking she could have had an amazing dress made for a significantly smaller amount.

    • @DeathByBlonde1
      @DeathByBlonde1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m thinking that bridal stores should stop thinking that small body shapes are the only ones that get married or go dress shopping. All sizes and shapes should feel welcome and accommodated at a shop. Everyone deserves to feel pampered and beautiful. It’s just ridiculous that they don’t carry more sample sizes in wider ranges…

    • @kp4911
      @kp4911 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They gave zero consideration to her proportions, which was why everything looked off.

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jo and Al don't have the shop anymore, I do believe. If they do, it hasn't been mentioned---Al had a gastric bypass a couple years ago, lost a huge amount of weight (and looks amazing!), and then they had a show about housecleaning, but it lasted only a few episodes.

  • @seriliaykilel
    @seriliaykilel ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Ugh- so much cringe. No woman wants to feel bigger than she is. Once again reminded how much better Jo, Al and Gok are in treating brides as people

    • @micksan7052
      @micksan7052 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Because Jo and Al offer dresses that are corseted and made for curvy women. Sample size starting with B cup??

    • @denisesydor1003
      @denisesydor1003 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't agree more

    • @kirstensabinearndt1124
      @kirstensabinearndt1124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree. Gok, AL & Jo would have found a dream

    • @pepperpig7524
      @pepperpig7524 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The way the bridal assistant was like “get in there!” For the first dress was so rude

    • @Dayna-Punky
      @Dayna-Punky ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jo and Al would have talked her out of that fit and flare! That dress did nothing for her.

  • @denisemanley5318
    @denisemanley5318 ปีที่แล้ว +495

    At $5000 budget I would go get a custom made dress. That way you get to choose the fabric, style and bling. I’m sure they could have found a dress maker that could make something wonderful for her. Disappointed in Kleinfelds for not having something for her.

    • @miriamhelm4790
      @miriamhelm4790 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I 100% agree!

    • @wholeshebang1
      @wholeshebang1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or that Randy wasn't upfront with the bride that thry simply didn't have in her size, and recommended a more suitable bridal shop that carries gowns for women with larger bodies, or a custom designer (and losing a sale), instead of cramming her into a much more expensive Pnina Tornai dress that has little bodice structure (no corset) and is the wrong shape for her.
      I'm surprised Pnina didn't pop out of a closet, like she has in other episodes, to have her ego stroked by "adoring fans" & staff, as she gushes ahout her own designs.
      BTW, I'm a llus-sized woman, with a 40G bust, and there's no way the bride has a 34 bra band. She seems to be 42 or up.

    • @janewilliams1182
      @janewilliams1182 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I sure wouldn't have settled...that was upsetting...I hope she had a great day but the dress and the price were a big👎‼️

    • @janewilliams1182
      @janewilliams1182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I sure wouldn't have settled...that was upsetting...I hope she

    • @tiffanylofton4841
      @tiffanylofton4841 ปีที่แล้ว

      This

  • @saffyone5198
    @saffyone5198 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Don't go there if you are a larger lady, they can't cater for you. Squishing you into the wrong shape dress is not respectful. Need Jo and Al on this one.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was before Jo and Al existed. Before plus size bridal existed. So even if she flew to Essex, it wouldn't have helped.
      And why do you possibly think that Jo and Al are the only plus size bridal in the world? Oh, that's right. They were on TV. That equals reality to you. FYI, once plus size bridal was born, salons cropped up all over the US, too.
      Besides, the bride wanted this style of dress. Jo and Al would tell her no like they did on one occasion. How would that be better? She wants this style. And if you think that the dresses in Jo and Al's shop are cheap, think again. There is a reason they never discuss money.

  • @AryonaSamoto
    @AryonaSamoto ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I don't appreciate the subtle shaming of her bust size😔

    • @roverb2591
      @roverb2591 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Subtle? I guess I missed the subtle part.

    • @frasersgirl4383
      @frasersgirl4383 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      It wasn’t subtle at all. It was rude and crude and very inappropriate.

    • @seriliaykilel
      @seriliaykilel ปีที่แล้ว +11

      About as subtle as a brick to the face 😜

    • @ulhi7564
      @ulhi7564 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The largest bust size they carry is a DD, like what the hell?

    • @mariia2868
      @mariia2868 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am a 75f, trust me, the bust shame is far from subtle in bridal 🤣 last year I got to shop around for my wedding gown - apart from the fact that most shops carry size 36 (I guess around 6 US) only, the boob situation was a nightmare. I tried around 30 dresses, maybe 2 or 3 zipped up, and they looked horrible because they are not meant for curves.
      The overall attitude was like if my boob size was my fault somehow,and I ruined their day by showing up.
      One of the worst experiences in my life. I already have enough isiues finding regular clothes, I didn't need to be judged while also spending a shitload of money on a dress that is supposed to fit me, not the other way around.

  • @NanaPapa123
    @NanaPapa123 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    If she is huge busted, there needs to be support for "the girls". In addition, as she is thick around the waist, a mermaid style is a poor choice. I'd have loved to see her in something that enhanced her good points and kind of smoothed out things that might detract.

    • @mistybollinger3312
      @mistybollinger3312 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yes!! I was saying the same thing!! Her bust isn't her only problem area and that style dress just makes it more obvious

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku ปีที่แล้ว

      SERIOUSLY why did they keep putting her in mermaid gowns? she looked like a tube of toothpaste! surely there's a designer in that store that has a corset-back A-line with straps that can open the cup to a 34J.

    • @nyashagriffith8896
      @nyashagriffith8896 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Totally agree!

    • @NikeEyez
      @NikeEyez ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe her family won't allow her to wear a waist trainer..... all IT addresses they put on her I just kept looking at her middle section not her breast.

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't think they could have chosen a more unsuitable design style of dress for her.
      Any other style of wedding dress, other than the style they put in her in, would have suited her better.
      So sad that Kleinfeld's really dropped the ball on this one.

  • @NanaPapa123
    @NanaPapa123 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    My brother went to school with a girl who had massive breasts. Even though she was otherwise slender and in shape, her breasts were huge and heavy. They actually had someone make special bras for her, etc. She heard every joke in the book and none were funny. For her high school graduation, she asked her parents and grandparents for money for a reduction. She had been saving for one as well. Now, it happened that the parents had a wise and sympathetic doctor and he wrote up the emotional impact, the expense of everything custom made, to say nothing of the constant back pain and the inability to do normal activities like play soccer or softball, despite Lori being athletic. Insurance covered a good bit of her operation and she was like a new person! She went out, did fun things, could tie her shoes without her huge breasts being in her way, seat belts fit her, etc. I will say that this young woman had the right idea though - she had things custom made for her. I think this particular bride would have looked beyond gorgeous in a Grecian style, flowing, elegant dress. Also, a princess style, as others have mentioned, would look lovely. All that money and an ill-fitting dress that looks tacky. :-(

    • @cherylcarroll7916
      @cherylcarroll7916 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Remember, they will measure the bride for right fit to order. The gown she tried on was for trying on only.

    • @shandalear3252
      @shandalear3252 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I had a breast reduction in 2007. Best decision I ever made!

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have big boobs and I know how heavy they can get. What more with bigger boobs. Big boobs can be such a hassle so when I see women having breast enlargement, I just shake my head. As you grow old, they will also sag a lot more. You can't go against gravity.

    • @margaretmacdonald358
      @margaretmacdonald358 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree with you, Grecian would have looked fabulous on her. Why do these people persist on putting large busted women into strapless. A full bust is heavy and needs straps to lift you and give you shape

    • @shandalear3252
      @shandalear3252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@whatevergoesforme5129 I got tired of not getting clothes that fit. Insurance will cover it because its not cosmetic.. its reconstruction that's medically necessary. Best of luck to you!

  • @deborahrigby5428
    @deborahrigby5428 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    Jo and Al would’ve done way better🧐🤭

    • @JustAnotherPerson4U
      @JustAnotherPerson4U ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think they don't have an exclusive plus size american boutique like in the UK.

    • @sdkbnu1936
      @sdkbnu1936 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agree with you

    • @mscampbell1242
      @mscampbell1242 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Go see Jo and Al for sure!!

    • @candacejones8578
      @candacejones8578 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I was thinking the same thing. Jo and Al need to open stores in USA . They do so much better for Plus size ladies than any other stores I have seen.

    • @marybaker8582
      @marybaker8582 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes and without mentioning money in such an in your face way.

  • @debblouin
    @debblouin ปีที่แล้ว +51

    She needed a support garment to try on dresses. Something to cinch the waist, smooth the hips and support the bust.

  • @bev9708
    @bev9708 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    For once I think the entourage is RIGHT for the criticism... they really didn't choose even remotely good dresses for her!

    • @karissakline6765
      @karissakline6765 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Her shape is not a mermaid shape lol

    • @naturalPaths
      @naturalPaths ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They wanted a look that is vastly more costly for a curvy bride.

    • @amandamiller7728
      @amandamiller7728 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Despite what theyre saying, its actually not that big of deal for companies to make a bigger bust size. Every dress is made to order, it would actually only cost a couple 100 to fix the issue. There is no reason that theyre putting her in shitty dresses.

    • @naturalPaths
      @naturalPaths ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amandamiller7728 That’s interesting information, than you. I don’t know anything about sewing. I’ll bet there’d be a much greater charge than two, or even three hundred dollars.

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amandamiller7728Not every designer is willing to do major changes and this isn’t a simple change. They have to alter the bust size five times larger. That’s not going to be $200 extra lol.

  • @XeaRae
    @XeaRae ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Nothing wrong with the bride and everything wrong with the shop.
    And instead of owning up that their shop has subpar selection that doesn’t consider all ranges of bodies they decided to shame the bride and suggest reduction.

    • @petc8504
      @petc8504 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was shocked at how rude Randy was, the family should just have up and gone elsewhere.

    • @musicartlover963
      @musicartlover963 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@petc8504 yes, Randy was totally wrong and unprofessional for his lack of compassion for that bride. She was beautiful and put her in a 8500 dress that didn't fit her right and was over budget. I would never go 2 that bridal salon. Remember, Jo also said call the salon and ask what's the highest size they carry for plus size

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Completely agreed. This episode is an embarrassment. Entirely unprofessional and I'd never buy a dress there.

    • @yahllinotfound
      @yahllinotfound ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I AGREE this episode was a disappointment i feel like the crew made her feel so uncomfortable and the family for gain the budget and in front of the bride

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@petc8504They’re just going to have the same issues.

  • @stevekima8881
    @stevekima8881 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    A mermaid dress is not her shape of dress.

  • @browneagle2393
    @browneagle2393 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    This was a good one! The dad and daughter relationship, priceless.

  • @nikitatrisha1616
    @nikitatrisha1616 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    They should've gone to Jo and Al for sure. I love her dad tho! He's so funny. I bet he's an excellent preacher

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think J and A are in business anymore; Al had a gastric bypass a few years ago, lost a lot of weight (looks amazing now!) and the two of them had a show about housecleaning that lasted only a couple of episodes. Maybe they have the shop still, but are just no longer on tv...?

    • @sirenuk5887
      @sirenuk5887 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There was a black lady in the USA that catered 4 plus size brides. Can't remember the name of the store though or where in the USA it was

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      This episode is really old. Look at Randy's hair - no grey. The whole bridal world was different then. Jo and Al didn't exist because the dresses didn't exist.
      Once large size bridal was a thing, salons started appearing all over, not just in Essex. IDK why you possibly think that Jo and Al have been the only large size salons on the world. If a small country like England can have a store like that, wouldn't you think a large country like the US have one as well? Logic completely fails you because you think that TV is real life.

  • @mistybollinger3312
    @mistybollinger3312 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don't know how to say it without sou ding mean, but her bust isn't her only problem! That type of dress just makes her whole upper body look huge and just not flattering at all! She's just too big of a girl period for that style. She needs more of a ball gown style or anything else!

  • @AmyB369
    @AmyB369 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I’m very surprised with most US women being bigger sizes that they don’t offer more to accommodate plus they are not putting her in dresses flattering to her figure

    • @merricc6911
      @merricc6911 ปีที่แล้ว

      “most US women” is an exaggeration

    • @deawallach3404
      @deawallach3404 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Merric, no it's not. Kleinfelds doesn't seem to want to sell to anyone bigger than a 12, or carry designers that will design for larger sizes. They also only have expensive designers, not mid priced ones..

    • @kirbyhatesincels917
      @kirbyhatesincels917 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@merricc6911 American women tend to be fatter/bigger/more overweight than women from other countries, so no.

  • @Leona000
    @Leona000 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    She needs an A line dress

    • @donotsupportterroristgroups
      @donotsupportterroristgroups ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True but she might not have wanted that style, she is in denial of her overall shape.

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And with straps to hold the dress up, in my opinion as a booby woman. Empire cut is also a nice way to make the silhouette more flattering.

    • @codencolor
      @codencolor ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or probably a ball gown

    • @anniemarie2044
      @anniemarie2044 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@donotsupportterroristgroups in denial? If she feels great in it, let her be.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      @anniemarie2044 So tell this to all the commenters who say that she "should have gone to Jo and Al" and that they would never put her in a dress like that.
      One can't live on the same world where the bride gets to wear what she wants and that Jo and Al would CORRECTLY only let her try on dresses that made her shape look better. Those are completely opposites.

  • @valariehunter5389
    @valariehunter5389 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    For that much money they could have gotten a custom gown or gone to another location.💜

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like "Haute and Co" in Chicago! Gowns are meant for, and designed and altered for, large women. Owned by a large woman, so she knows what the brides are looking for, too.

    • @valariehunter5389
      @valariehunter5389 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jb6712 Yes, I forgot about their boutique. They do have lovely gowns.💜

  • @karenkelly5483
    @karenkelly5483 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You find a seamstress and you have one made. It’ll fit you perfectly and cost a fraction of that price.

  • @marlieken.3075
    @marlieken.3075 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    When the mom said "why do you keep going up when we gave you a budget?" is so spot on. They just laughed... I can't imagine $5000 couldn't get her a dress...

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course not for her size and requirements. She bought a Pnina dress.

  • @MarySmith-gu5nb
    @MarySmith-gu5nb ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That first dress is ridiculous.. This lovely bride ought to go to England and the Curvy Bride's Boutique.

    • @MCG525
      @MCG525 ปีที่แล้ว

      To me, it just looked like she was wearing a dress made from toilet paper. She truly would have been better off getting something custom made. Even if it was a little more than the budget, she deserves something more flattering than any of these "choices".

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Curvy Brides do not have mermaids. She wanted a mermaid. Perhaps she would have wasted a trip then.

  • @karenacton3854
    @karenacton3854 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This shop caters only to sizes 2, 4, 6 absolutely nothing for a more voluptuous body and they need to change that because it is body shaming in a way, as if everyone is the tiny size. Silhouette is most important and all should be tried on. No everyone will fit the same shape. Too bad the Gown makers don’t, can’t or won’t accommodate these brides to prevent the embarrassment.

  • @magdolnakeller3431
    @magdolnakeller3431 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    OMG we (and curvy brides) need Jo and Al BAAACK!! We need them back so badly!

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I cannot imagine them flying to England to visit their boutique

  • @bethhopkins4277
    @bethhopkins4277 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    They need to expand their collection.

  • @clampotaku22
    @clampotaku22 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I usually like the US version of SYTTD but this episode is actually ridiculous. I got my wedding dress in the UK for £1500 with absolutely no changes for the support of my chest, and I am significantly larger in the bust area than this lady. After a quick Google, her US size converts to a UK 34GG. How does America not have dresses for big busted people?! My dress needed no extra support added into it and does not even have a corset in it either. It makes me think that dress styles in America are very limited......

    • @staceyotten5312
      @staceyotten5312 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are much more expensive in the US. I wat h the other shows and am shocked what they can get.

    • @kansmill
      @kansmill ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dress had to support UK 30GG. I had no problem getting that in Canada for under 2K. Eta: the small city store had lots of size 16-20 samples and actually I could only try the sample closest to mine on in the plus size sister style.

    • @clampotaku22
      @clampotaku22 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@staceyotten5312 wow that's crazy. We are definitely lucky in the UK then!

    • @clampotaku22
      @clampotaku22 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kansmill It must just be America that is limiting then.

    • @deawallach3404
      @deawallach3404 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's that Kleinfelds that has a limited size range, not the US in general.. they don't really seem to want to sell dresses to those that are larger than a size 14. As well, they generally only carry designers that are on the more expensive side.

  • @massabielle2821
    @massabielle2821 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This was a disastrous choice; this beautiful young woman needed a more equipped salon that could specialize in this size issue. I can only imagine what our UK counterparts could have done for this lovely bride. She accepted what she felt was her only option. There is no excuse for Kleinfeld’s not admitting their inability to do right by her.

    • @anneliedorman2435
      @anneliedorman2435 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Money Money Money all there see is the dollar sign

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a super old episode, from maybe 2003 or so. Before large size bridal existed. Jo and Al in the UK were just a glimmer in Essex's mind at this time.

  • @patriciaochoa1196
    @patriciaochoa1196 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was mostly an awkward appointment!!!

  • @ladyjustice1474
    @ladyjustice1474 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This bride would have been better off with Gok, or Jo and Al.
    I see body shaming of women, of all shapes and sizes. I've worked in retail, I can tell you the majority of designers will only design for a unrealistic body types. If you're a woman with hips, thighs, butt, and breasts C cup or bigger the clothing will cost more. Then there's the petite ladies who's cup size is smaller than a A-cup. Add a women who falls in between sizes. All of whom end up either taking what they purchased to be tailored, or do the tailoring themselves. That costs women both time and more money.

    • @mcrchickenluvr
      @mcrchickenluvr ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a friend from college who went to school to become a fashion designer for those who can’t buy clothes off the rack. She is a little person, achondroplasia at 4’8” tall. But at that time she had breasts that could easily rival Dolly Parton. And she was getting married. Imagine finding a dress to fit a busty shorter stature woman. Luckily she had the skills to make her own dress. It still costed her over $2,000 for the material, boning, lining… etc. I’d hate to imagine what it would’ve cost her to have someone else make the dress.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry, but Lancashire does not have dresses to fit a 34j either. Why do you think that Gok is magic?
      And Jo and Al's store does not automatically have dresses to fit that cup size either. No store that I know of has sample dresses with that cup size. Designers wouldn't make samples to fit her, considering that is such an unusual size.
      And perhaps the bride only wants mermaid dresses. It seems likely, because the consultant only pulled dresses with that silhouette. If that is the case, the BRIDE decided that these dresses were the ones she liked. Then Gok, Jo, Al, or God himself would not be able to find a dress shape that was better for her.

  • @sdkbnu1936
    @sdkbnu1936 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    you are having bride with heavy top and you are giving her options of strapless dress.... great 🙌 hand down... what else will i say... even we, who watch say yes to the dress knows that she need dress with straps... and may be in shape of A line... really disappointed.... 😓
    sorry girl, you are truly beautiful but you gone to wrong place.... go to jo & al or even gok would have help you with customise dress with your budget... 5000k is really great budget...

    • @kirstins.7630
      @kirstins.7630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think, she is never a 34j. Sorry Randy!
      Sweet girl you had to go in another bridalshop.

    • @annagraser5088
      @annagraser5088 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not everyone can go to the UK.

    • @maryanneborders9602
      @maryanneborders9602 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annagraser5088 If they had money to spend the 8500k USD pre alterations, they more than definitely could have budgeted that trip to the UK lol

  • @MoonSoar
    @MoonSoar ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Take that money, fly to Essex and go get yourself THE dress with Jo and Al, and spend the rest on holiday.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don't carry mermaid dresses. And that is the style this bride wanted. So that trip across the pond to Essex would have been completely wasted. Did you not watch the video?

  • @Becca_2828
    @Becca_2828 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Gok would do such a better job with this beautiful bride to be!

  • @debra-vs
    @debra-vs ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Having been that large myself (44 M), I can tell you that a breast reduction is needed. No amount of weight loss will shrink those girls to a reasonable size.😔 Decent support bras are pretty much nonexistent for them, too.

    • @sunnylucky5349
      @sunnylucky5349 ปีที่แล้ว

      what is 44 M?

    • @debra-vs
      @debra-vs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunnylucky5349, the size of my bra - 44 around and an M cup.

  • @nolababy5597
    @nolababy5597 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She needed a princess dress

    • @coraline1503
      @coraline1503 ปีที่แล้ว

      to look like a huge cake topper?! rofl

  • @tumblekelly
    @tumblekelly ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This was the wrong shop for her in my opinion, there was no reason for her to have to spend $8500. She needed to go somewhere with a robust plus size collection so she could try samples with a larger cup size. Also if she wanted a fitted dress she needed a more mermaidy silhouette to balance out her bust line. Putting her in sheath and fit and flare was making her look more top heavy. She is a gorgeous bride and if she loves the dress I’m happy for her but I just can’t help but feel she deserved better.

    • @wholeshebang1
      @wholeshebang1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're right on all points. Not yo mention the grand or more yo do the alterations - it's a Pnina & she's not cheap (though many of her skimpy, "lingerie" gowns are, IMO).

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That’s $8500 before customizing, and not counting a veil, shoes, and extra bling. 🤷‍♀️

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No veil. Use shoes you already own. And steal some jewelry from mom. There, done! And it’s free!

  • @Olivia-yx2tj
    @Olivia-yx2tj ปีที่แล้ว +24

    why are they all strapless

    • @coraline1503
      @coraline1503 ปีที่แล้ว

      cause they all have no straps, jeez

  • @rivertam7827
    @rivertam7827 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I know this is a few years old, but I refuse to believe even then that this is the best they could do with such a large budget.

  • @alicesweeney4074
    @alicesweeney4074 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Maybe she should try a different type of dress

  • @roannathephoenix8561
    @roannathephoenix8561 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I definitely wouldn't have gone strapless with that size cup. Unless it's got steel reinforcement instead of boning she's gona be tugging at that all day to keep those girls in line. I think a style like a fit and flare could have balanced the top and bottom a lot better as well so she doesn't look like she's going to tip over. Having had G cups before my reduction and a similar figure to hers I don't feel like I'm being critical just to be critical. I understand the struggle she's going through because I went through it too.

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, going strapless, with her sized breasts just doesn't make any sense. She will be having to constantly pull it up, throughout the whole wedding.

    • @mcrchickenluvr
      @mcrchickenluvr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Having larger breasts myself, I can honestly say that straps are not always the way to go either. They can be more of a hinderance than a help and they can make your back hurt like hell more so than a strapless one.

    • @TeresaBearCFP
      @TeresaBearCFP ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a big busted girl myself, she should have gotten a gown with straps that covered a well supporting bra. Could have had a gown custom made.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They should have simply declined servicing her and send her to Al&Jo or Gok. This was terrible .

  • @59Schnauzermom
    @59Schnauzermom ปีที่แล้ว +9

    34 JJ, where did they think she was a 34
    I got the double JJ part, more like a 44 JJ

  • @sarahdee374
    @sarahdee374 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    $8500 PLUS the cost of modifications. In addition to Al & Jo there is a plus size bridal salon in Chicago called " Haute & Co.™ Bridal Boutique" They help a lot of curvy gals too.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      In addition to the shops that you listed that are on TV there's a whole world of shops around. Just because they're not on TV doesn't mean they don't exist.
      And this episode was filmed before plus size bridal was a thing. "Big Bliss" was filmed in 2003-2004. Bridal changes really fast.

  • @ashleyprice9487
    @ashleyprice9487 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Oh my God I remember watching this with my mom when I was back in high school . this is my mom‘s least favorite episode I wish I would have found out like after they fix the dress how much better did it look on her

  • @virginiaboone8163
    @virginiaboone8163 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why are they putting her in strapless??

  • @ladybugkej3452
    @ladybugkej3452 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She should have gone somewhere that specialized in dresses for big women!

  • @celeste7087
    @celeste7087 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love that the family didn't hesitate to put Randy in his place. His comments are just too much sometimes. He rather body shame a woman, instead of accepting the fact that the shop is not as size inclusive as they pretend.
    I feel like Gok, Jo and Al would have find the perfect dress for her body type and would have stayed within budget.

    • @GeorgiaTheFabulous
      @GeorgiaTheFabulous ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly!

    • @sandramurray7500
      @sandramurray7500 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sad did not help her

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's the matter with the truth? The type of dress that she wanted at the time (c 2003) had B cups because the designers made them that way.
      The family actually "shamed" her more than Randy ever did. Little Bo Peep? He told them the truth about what they had in the store. A J cup is very, very unusual. For bridal to accommodate that means pattern changes, and that would go way over budget. No matter what Randy did. If the truth hurts, it's not the truth's fault.

  • @TT-po7uc
    @TT-po7uc ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok....Tell me her father doesn't look like Professor Klump! 👀🤣😂🤣

  • @kristinecollier8113
    @kristinecollier8113 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love his love for his daughter!!

  • @myusernameissusan
    @myusernameissusan ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Why did they keep putting her in the awful mermaid dresses?

    • @coraline1503
      @coraline1503 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fit'n'flair! she wants to look sexy! dont u listen?

    • @laurellane1721
      @laurellane1721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@coraline1503 But she didn't look sexy. It emphasized everything that should not have been.

  • @ban2fab4
    @ban2fab4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm sorry but I was really hoping she was going to say, "No, this is not my dress, let's keep looking..."

  • @heula1
    @heula1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My god, what a terrible silhouette on her and so expensive!

  • @sandrapopescu1908
    @sandrapopescu1908 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why not go for an A-line with straps or cap sleeves? All those strapless styles are hard to look at.

  • @uwiblue
    @uwiblue ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I didn't like the outcome of this episode. They just focused on fitting her large bust, but ignored the rest of her body. That overpriced mess of a dress didn't do justice to this plus size lady.
    The bride should have invested her money on an originally designed custom-made gown. Obviously, Kleinfeld is no panacea to all brides' wishes and needs.

  • @clwbchbabycakes
    @clwbchbabycakes ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I only have 3 words for her - Jo and Al.........

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have 1 word - mermaid. She only tried on mermaids. Did you not notice? Jo and Al not only don't carry those but purposefully try to change the bride's mind about mermaids.
      This bride found the dress she loved. At Kleinfeld. So why are you pushing some other salon on her? Why do YOU have to like her dress for it to be a success?

  • @edithezeaku2206
    @edithezeaku2206 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I must say, my opinion though, the dress is not the BEST for her shape.

  • @rosallumetta2864
    @rosallumetta2864 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wrong bridal store!

  • @MarySmith-gu5nb
    @MarySmith-gu5nb ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That was just a shame. GO SEE JO AND AL!!!!

  • @Satine_Moisant
    @Satine_Moisant ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This episode triggered me on many levels...the most being that designers have nothing in sample sizes for bigger girls, at least US designers. Curvy Girls Boutique in the UK would help this sweet girl.

  • @rosemaryedwards7239
    @rosemaryedwards7239 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really don't think strapless is the way to go! She needs something that doesn't look like it's going to fall down!! Especially a preachers daughter!

  • @soso4169
    @soso4169 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why on earth would they insist on trying strapless dresses on such a busty woman? Whatever happened to straps, people? No matter if it was the bride's "vision" , a talented consultant like Randy should convince her that her figure looked way better in a dress with more support instead of trying to find the most expensive designer that could carry a big enough cup size. So disappointing to watch.

  • @odetteborg4232
    @odetteborg4232 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love the father daughter relationship, however I believe that a mermaid or form fitting dress accentuates her body. She bulges out everywhere in the dress she thinks is right for her
    She needs an A- line style dress.
    She is a beautiful woman and I think I would have booked fitting with Auntie Gok. He is the best and makes you feel amazing.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      She already felt amazing. She wanted a mermaid silhouette. Unless you want Gok to go against the wishes of the bride...
      You don't like the dress. Fine. But you're not the bride. How many videos do we see where people complain that the entourage or consultants weren't supportive of the bride's vision?
      Gok was not needed. She didn't need therapy for any reason. And you have ignored that this episode is extremely old, before plus size bridal was a thing. If she flew to the UK, Jo and Al would not be there. Gok (who doesn't really work at that store) wouldn't be there. And if you think that the right consultant pulls dresses that the bride wants, they would have given her the same type of dress.

  • @TeresaBearCFP
    @TeresaBearCFP ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We have big breasts in my family. My mother, sister, and I all opted for a V neck dress. It's much more flattering than the sweetheart neckline. I sewed my niece's wedding gown and she also wanted a V neck. I made a mock-up of the bodice and had her put on a well supporting bra underneath. I then traced the outline of the bra straps on the mock up and drafted the bodice so she could wear a well fitting bra and not worry about the gown having to support both the dress and the girls. A custom made gown would have been a much better option for this bride.

  • @jamiliaalleyne4519
    @jamiliaalleyne4519 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She looked ridiculous....

    • @ElectricShark
      @ElectricShark ปีที่แล้ว

      It wasn't her. They chose bad dresses. She should have had a princess ballgown.

  • @merlynmitchellcotts3066
    @merlynmitchellcotts3066 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Actually, the bride looked gorgeous on her wedding day. The properly tailored dress looked SO much better than it does in the salon.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have the link to her final look?

  • @Maria.Aurelia
    @Maria.Aurelia ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Her family is so ugh (idk the word I’m looking for lol) but I agree I didn’t like the first two dresses. I like the third dress! I wish the dress did a little more for her shape (edit: if she’s gonna wear a mermaid I would wear a corset/waist trainer. Nothing wrong with her shape but the dress didn’t really do anything for her) but other than it’s beautiful! The bride is beautiful as well!

  • @dagmarsigridmanondenijs-bl7156
    @dagmarsigridmanondenijs-bl7156 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    When I was a bride they had to take a 22 dress size and make it into a 10. That’s how one gets the 34-O to fit. Also, put mesh with lace and crystals up to the neck to keep the bodice in place. Not easy when they are naturals and one doesn’t want to show them off. Moreover, a Princess style looks a lot better than a fitted! This dress made her look off balanced.

  • @deborahfarr2201
    @deborahfarr2201 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A store this big and famous should have a great selection of plus sizes.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plus size bridal wasn't a thing when this episode was filmed. A few designers would make dresses for larger sizes, but not anywhere near the way it is now.
      Just because you see a video today, it doesn't mean it was filmed today.

  • @Winner4HIM
    @Winner4HIM ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They weren’t listening when he told them her size would cost more. Any dress she buys is a lot more money. Mom and dad should step up an up the budget. Maybe even get it made!

  • @louverousse9023
    @louverousse9023 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Randy is a designer since many years, why didn't he propose to do something decent for this lovely bride to be at a reasonable price ?

  • @carolwilson8620
    @carolwilson8620 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wish the young lady would have try a Aline style wedding dress I think it would be a very nice look and straps for support for the girls would also be helpful as well.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. I think it would have made her bust look smaller in comparison. And an a line can be sexy too. She was so preoccupied with the mermaid silhouette that she didn't even see how good an a line would have looked on her. But at least she was happy with her choice.

    • @carolwilson8620
      @carolwilson8620 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@catladyfromky4142 Of course as long as she's happy.✌

  • @katherinec6031
    @katherinec6031 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The hosts were so awful to her! Absolutely unacceptable to suggest that a human being must be surgically altered to fit a dress-and to say it to her father, in front of her, just to get him to pay even more thousands of dollars for a fitting dress instead? Unreal.

  • @danetteh.7802
    @danetteh.7802 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, Jo and Al would be fab, but with the cost of airfare, she could have a tailor made dress. That being said, the dress being $8500.00, I don't believe that includes alterations. She probably should have had the dress tailor made.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you watch another video? THIS bride wanted mermaid. Jo and Al don't like mermaids, they don't carry mermaids, and they talk brides wanting mermaids OUT OF wanting mermaids. This bride only wanted mermaid. Unless you think that Jo and Al are magic or something.

  • @howtoandwhatsnew
    @howtoandwhatsnew ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I remember when this episode came out. I thought she could have had a custom gown made to fit her body type. She should have gone for an A line or something more flowing from the waist. For $8,500 she could have had a custom gown.

  • @KarleneE
    @KarleneE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The beauty of the lovely bride's relationship with her dad was the BEST thing about this appointment!

  • @missingmimic
    @missingmimic ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Had a breast reduction two months ago, best gift I've ever given myself. It's not cute (imo) and the older you get the worse you feel.

  • @Jenny_JJ_Sand_F
    @Jenny_JJ_Sand_F ปีที่แล้ว

    "I would hold them for you, but we just met" 😂😂😂

  • @joannegallagher2792
    @joannegallagher2792 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ridiculous prices at kleinfeld

  • @lelagreen9126
    @lelagreen9126 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yeah you're right they needed to put something to support them babies that she had she don't need to be in a strapless you know it might look cute but she's going to need some support

  • @trayciepitcher3098
    @trayciepitcher3098 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not to be mean,but the dress didn't flatter her at all. As big as this store is it looks like they would carry bigger sizes.

  • @LisaLGruman
    @LisaLGruman ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aggressive entourage could’ve said the same words without the aggression. I love the bride’s relationship with the groom.

    • @MrsBrit1
      @MrsBrit1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The groom wasn't even there...

    • @LisaLGruman
      @LisaLGruman ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsBrit1 So true. She did show a couple photos of him and shared about how much they were such special friends which really sounded wonderful.

  • @josephinesenior1150
    @josephinesenior1150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why don’t these American bridal shops cater for bigger sizes ?
    They keep saying they only carry small model sizes ? Why ?
    We have shops here in England that cater for bigger girls especially, and they don’t get pushed into having to buy dresses that need to be altered at double the price ?

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is an old episode. Before ANY bridal catered to plus sizes. So, no, your country wouldn't have had better dresses when this was filmed.

  • @JennyMack
    @JennyMack ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should have gone to David's bridal. My best friend has a bust like that and they had many affordable gowns in her size.

  • @Noor-979
    @Noor-979 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can't understand the problem. If the designer can customize the bust size, atleast pick better dress for her

  • @Bonkers.On.Coffee
    @Bonkers.On.Coffee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dad looks like The Nutty Professor 🤭

  • @georgettethomas2540
    @georgettethomas2540 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The mermaid shape is not for her she is top heavy needs an A line gown.

  • @TV-el6uj
    @TV-el6uj ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OOOOh Kay! how disrespectful is this show? Randy did not need to comment on how this was the largest chest he has ever had come in. This is NOT the place for curvy brides and shame on Nina tornado's awful gowns over priced this show is just an advertisement for her nonsense.

  • @pxssycontrol
    @pxssycontrol ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love everybody in the comments just saying they should have gone to Jo and Al. 😂🤣😂 They really got us spoiled with consultations the stay in budget and make brides comfortable. They really are saints

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      We don't know if they stay in budget. Their episodes never mention money. And this bride didn't need therapy about her body, so Jo and Al were unnecessary. Besides the fact that Jo and Al (and plus size bridal) didn't exist when this episode was filmed and all.

  • @sonant888
    @sonant888 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Would’ve been cheaper to fly to the UK and buy a more flattering dress there!

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 ปีที่แล้ว

      She wanted this shape. They put her in a dress she loved. Why do you not approve? Was it your wedding?
      And Jo and Al cannot magically change her mind to want a dress that is more flattering (I agree that mermaid is not it for her). I don't understand why some of you people expect Gok or Jo/Al to be miracle workers. This dress had to be couture so she can get her bust fixed. It also had to be mermaid because that is what the bride wanted.
      Jo/Al/Gok do NOT have Pnina Toenail dresses. That is what the bride wanted. Period.

  • @Alinasinging
    @Alinasinging ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’d love to see her dress on her big day after adjustments :)

  • @milance7340
    @milance7340 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    While watching this I realized how happy I am with my B cup size 😆

    • @ShawntrellW
      @ShawntrellW ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆 I'm right with you...

    • @nikitatrisha1616
      @nikitatrisha1616 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm C cup and it is touch to find good supporting bras. Enjoy your B cup 😄

  • @scaryari1403
    @scaryari1403 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if they had pulled that stunt with me, I wouldve gotten straight up & walked out. I hate that blonde consultant. She ALWAYS picks dresses that are way too small for the bride, making her feel self conscious about her body, and always goes WAY over budget. TERRIBLE woman

  • @YaYaPaBla
    @YaYaPaBla ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not attack Randy, he’s being honest.

  • @kellicoffman8440
    @kellicoffman8440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They did not have to be so rude to Randy who was trying his best to be nice

  • @telarl.5154
    @telarl.5154 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I googled and saw pictures from the wedding. The dress looked much much nicer on her than in this show. She looked lovely at her day.

  • @donnaokoniewski3761
    @donnaokoniewski3761 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it would have been better for all involved if they had just been up front and informed the bride they could not accommodate her requirements. This dress was not for her. It did not do her justice in any way shape or form. I've seen so many beautiful dresses on the UK version for large women. It would have been more cost effective if they had made the trip to the UK to get a dress.

  • @2Bouse
    @2Bouse ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jo and Al from "Curvy Brides Boutique" would have found her a more flattering and affordable dress!!!

  • @reneeconnors8885
    @reneeconnors8885 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Randy should have been able to do more. He knows the industry and the ignorance of the industry.

  • @pc6293
    @pc6293 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not the rite shape dress for her shape hugging all the wrong spots .. they did her dirty

  • @penny4chz
    @penny4chz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She didnt have to say yes to that dress but it does look better than the prior ones.