Why Black Men Date Outside Their Race!!!

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  • @TheBritishGuy75
    @TheBritishGuy75 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    To be fair, really rich and wealthy black men (such as rappers) don’t do much to uplift the community either.

    • @TyronXVII
      @TyronXVII ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Childish Gambino did more for the black community than Serena will ever do in her life ….

    • @ricaivory6571
      @ricaivory6571 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@TyronXVII what about all the other hundreds of black rappers? Only A handful have helped the black community. And why did you call out Serena Williams? Why not future? Or the migos? Or Wayne?

    • @rrrrr6478
      @rrrrr6478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ricaivory6571blud jay-z built a water pipeline in a african village bet you won’t mention that

    • @johnstockton3150
      @johnstockton3150 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ricaivory6571bi tch why you only know rappers instead of doctors and lawyers or black men that do stem ??? That say a lot about how trash you are.

    • @TheWorldPart6
      @TheWorldPart6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Offset does a lot of charity work in my city.

  • @Prsonfi23
    @Prsonfi23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    I am a black woman and I do not have a problem with black men stepping out of their race I encourage it! Everyone should love who they want. I do not date black men I never have. But I dont bash black men but black men tend to bash black woman alot and feel the need to explain why they date outside their race which is not necessary. Do you. Date who you want love who loves you ❤

    • @yaz4659
      @yaz4659 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Exactly, there's a whole lot of trauma on their side. it's a matter of the oppressed becoming the oppressor. They have a higher set of standards for black women because they simply don't like black women.

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’ve never bashed a black woman a day in my life honest. Yet they still 🍆 policed me for not dating them. I sincerly think it’s weird to care about who a person doesn’t want to date. I’m introverted black nerdy guy. I like anime and other activities. A black woman asked me one time if I like black woman. I said all shades of ethnicities are beautiful. I said all skin tones are nice however I prefer Asian, white, Spanish women. The other ethnicities of women I’m not interest in are still beautiful but I’m not interested. After that she asked me why I wouldn’t. I just simply said hey no thank you I’m not interested. So yea I’m gonna call cap 🧢 . That was my experience

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Now this I can agree with this

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So Cynthia G, Paris Milan, Divested Zealot aren’t thing?

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @yaz4659BM and BW grow up in the same households, so the trauma is the same.

  • @forwomen9244
    @forwomen9244 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Black women must learn to stop coming on these videos and commenting, because honestly who cares? Black men have been saying they don’t like us or want us for years, they still continually talk about it because it bothers them. Be free black women, go where you are loved and respected, no matter the color. Stop trying to explain to these men that you are valuable or that other men want you. You don’t need validation from anyone, just move on with your life and find peace ✌️ ❤

    • @Jefejsdump
      @Jefejsdump 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      black men rage towards black women is scary because they really don't like us, he is talking crazy because all we do is take care of our men that's why Nicki said stop humping broke men because she know we are taking care of black men they just don't like us.

    • @khector4857
      @khector4857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This‼️

  • @Hardawayfits
    @Hardawayfits ปีที่แล้ว +100

    As a black american woman. I understand where he coming from. I only dated one black american guy in highschool. As an adult I noticed black men never asked me to be in relationships with them. So I went where I was loved and appreciated.😍 🇲🇽 🇵🇪 🇵🇦

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Too bad Latino men don't think the same about you 😂

    • @Hardawayfits
      @Hardawayfits ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@bigtaskat-hand4742 Good thing I live in California where biracial couples are very common. Lol latino men love them some black american women. That's all I've dated. I hope you find somebody to love you and great mature people to be around🤗

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ​@@Hardawayfitshey, you call it "dating" they it a "jump-off"🤷! There's hundreds of TH-cam vids of bws complaining about nobody wanting to date them in California, especially bm, so chances are you're lying! But who cares, and good luck finding someone that does😂!

    • @daesama
      @daesama ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And that’s all that matters just go where you are wanted and appreciated there’s no need to be bashful of each other we should want what’s best for each other

    • @Thisisntevenyourchannel
      @Thisisntevenyourchannel ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@bigtaskat-hand4742lmao why are you so hard pressed about her not wanting to date BM

  • @onlylibra4883
    @onlylibra4883 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Lies. U date outside because u choose to.

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
      I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
      Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @MentionDav3
      @MentionDav3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@uphaarsharma3161I’ve been stationed in Asia while in the service. I can’t think of anything more miserable than seeing everyone in a country all look alike with no diversity at all. Then families bashing someone for dating outside their race which is racist af. Love my Asian people but y’all don’t have the answers either

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@uphaarsharma3161Boy, shut up! Who cares what you've noticed? White men take "your women" by the millions, and yet you've "noticed" what black men are doing! You asian clowns are jokes, and it's no womder why people don't respect you! Stop being subservient to whyte people, bozo!

    • @brandnew9834
      @brandnew9834 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@uphaarsharma3161You feel sad for them because you didn’t grow up with them and you really know them. There are dynamics at play here that you can’t understand. There are very valid reasons why so many BW are alone.

    • @TyronXVII
      @TyronXVII ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@uphaarsharma3161you don’t need to be sad cause if he were as desirable to white and Asian men as black men are, they would definitely hit those stats astronomically

  • @yaz4659
    @yaz4659 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The problem is that the black man should care about getting their own education .They dont understand that its the mans job to provide and black women don't gatekeep advice. Stop looking at the tinniest things to hate on blk women

    • @yaz4659
      @yaz4659 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Jayv215 Just because they talk about their achievements it isn't talking down the black men. They want their men to do better and meet them at their level. When some like Lebron talks about his achievements, black women applaud him. The feminine nonsense is tiring .Plus when they open businesses this helps the community with job creation and taxes

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @yaz4659we already have businesses dumbass, BM make more money that you, so what level would that be?

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You would literally help a while man when he’s building himself up but leave the men who look like you to hang up and dry. I will never understand that. Black women are the original bedwenches.

  • @HueyTheProdigy
    @HueyTheProdigy ปีที่แล้ว +66

    As a Black man dating outside the race have been a much more postive experience for me, and honestly would encourage any one to try it, this is not the 1960s any more, the more interracial relationships the less of the divide

    • @MentionDav3
      @MentionDav3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m tired of people making a problem out of dating other women 😂 imagine how depressing that is. I don’t want someone with an exact experience as me, how do you learn anything? And they wonder why the cycle continues. Bitter people all clumped together in one dating pool with a culture that is slowly killing people😂 it literally is the definition of crabs in a barrel. If you can’t be happy with a black woman it’s not right to them

    • @HueyTheProdigy
      @HueyTheProdigy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MentionDav3 exactly people need to worry about themselves, not everything has to be decided by them

    • @masterciaraxo4238
      @masterciaraxo4238 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oui. As a black girl who’s been in interracial relationships it’s no big deal. Love is not skin deep and you only live once after all. No need to shit on BW while you date your preferences.

    • @HueyTheProdigy
      @HueyTheProdigy ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@masterciaraxo4238 learn the difference between somebody criticizing and someone shitting on u, it’s ok tho a lot of black people don’t know the difference

    • @masterciaraxo4238
      @masterciaraxo4238 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@HueyTheProdigy While yes, BW are not above criticism, there is a fine line bewtween telling somebody to do better, and stripping a huge group of people of their worth and basically degrading and generalizing them. You can happily be with your preferences in peace, but you can also keep BW’s name out your mouth if you don’t like them so much.

  • @Missy_10663
    @Missy_10663 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The thing is we don’t have a problem with that. It’s just you guys ALWAYS mention us like a hurt ex. Just go…

    • @brandnew9834
      @brandnew9834 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s a lie. You know how many times I’ve been out at a restaurant or bar with a non black woman, and had to deal with an angry blk woman shading me in some way? They will even try to bully the woman you’re with. These are bitter and vindictive women. They always have angry energy for any blk man who isn’t checking for them.

  • @a.n.watson8797
    @a.n.watson8797 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    But they are leaving those other races of women single baby mothers as well

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
      I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
      Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @dwf6431
      @dwf6431 ปีที่แล้ว

      BW are leaving BW as single mothers as well, you guys are having babies for these studs and they are leaving you single moms proving that it’s not just a black male issue.
      Black women become single moms no matter where they go.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah and they're taking care of their children even after a divorce. Ask Jamie Foxx and Taye Diggs. At least their ex wives aren't preventing them from seeing their kids after a divorce just like ya'll.

    • @aissatoufaycal9029
      @aissatoufaycal9029 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thedeanogaming but they are the one that abandoned the children are you du.b ?

    • @Privatecitizn
      @Privatecitizn ปีที่แล้ว

      It's cause niggaz ain't shit

  • @stocksandslots1556
    @stocksandslots1556 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Can we talk about BM criminal, drug, and STD stats to name a few?

    • @kossy08
      @kossy08 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who RAISED them? BASTARD.

    • @joshuatruvillion3044
      @joshuatruvillion3044 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every race has it whites are most incarcerated than blacks man hater

    • @durgalakshmi2793
      @durgalakshmi2793 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let's talk about blk men in jail having sex with one another let's talk about how Karen's are the most intelligent white women they would never date a black man

  • @astrology4u
    @astrology4u 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    This is so bias, the black woman is not the only problem in the black male and female relationships. These men sound like bitter children looking for a profound way to express that they find it difficult to express their masculinity in relationship to a woman, who thinks for herself and refuses to downplay herself to uplift a man who should already be uplifted, within his own right.

    • @goldenmonkey6885
      @goldenmonkey6885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What these men are saying is statistically proven.. black women even the great black men on national television all the time.. black moms even talk to their sons like they're another man in the streets or their husband. Calling their own son's a nigga, dog, .....

    • @goldenmonkey6885
      @goldenmonkey6885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And the fact that you said that black women should not uplift black men but then expect black men to support ans uplift black women ? Do you hear the hypocrisy in what you wrote ...

    • @astrology4u
      @astrology4u 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@goldenmonkey6885 I said no such thing. Your perception of what I said, is way off.

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look at how they are dressed? These guys want attention from bw and they want clicks so bad. Things aren't working for them with any group of women. Passport bros are taking bullets, coming home in coffins. But hey, let them do it. It works no hardship on bw.

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bc they are broke.

  • @SKAPAADOOPY
    @SKAPAADOOPY 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If we were to argue this it would never end. Just date who you want people

  • @PeytonCharles-bv5zl
    @PeytonCharles-bv5zl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Why does the BM really have the nerve to think them not not dating BW is somehow a problem for us tho😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

    • @strikermi9
      @strikermi9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ask your fellow females they’re the one making videos about black men with white women

  • @VeteranNomad
    @VeteranNomad ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I personally recruited 5 well to do black men into the Passport Kings lifestyle. Those brothers are now recruiting more guys. It’s a beautiful thing seeing black men coming together and building a community with like minded people.

    • @vanhughes
      @vanhughes ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Congratulations. I wish you more success and may they not return.

    • @jimzimmer2048
      @jimzimmer2048 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      building a pryamid scheme bro, you get a cut?

    • @obersveyourmind
      @obersveyourmind ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am happy for you, brother. Overcome the trauma, find your purpose, and be with feminine women only.

    • @VeteranNomad
      @VeteranNomad ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@obersveyourmind Yes indeed!

    • @Missy_10663
      @Missy_10663 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yet you’re on TH-cam saying that as if we care lmao. Stop wasting time lol

  • @vanhughes
    @vanhughes ปีที่แล้ว +60

    😮😂Black women don’t have a problem at all. Black men have to stop talking negatively about Black women. That ship has sailed & Black women are finding love & respect elsewhere. The Black women need not search the globe either.

    • @steveanderson5504
      @steveanderson5504 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      That ship has sailed away from black women
      Highest poverty rate
      Highest eviction rate
      Highest student loan debt
      Highest commercial debt
      Highest bankruptcy rate
      Highest obesity rate
      Highest out of wedlock birthrate
      Highest STI rates
      Lowest marriage rates

    • @smartmoney9045
      @smartmoney9045 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yet they're the least married, highest in single motherhood, highest debt, highest producers of dangerous criminals.

    • @steveanderson5504
      @steveanderson5504 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smartmoney9045 They're a lot more stats they lead in like
      Highest in physically attacking men
      Highest in child abuse
      Highest percentage in killing babies in the womb
      Highest in killing children out the womb

    • @vanhughes
      @vanhughes ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@smartmoney9045 only those who continue to deal with degenerate Black males. Black women don’t need to leave their country to find appropriate men, they only have to be open to other men. Black men are the only men that fail their communities and blame it in the women. Black men gave the highest divorce rates. They abandon their wives and children at greater rates. Degenerate behavior and deplorable attitudes lead to destruction

    • @vanhughes
      @vanhughes ปีที่แล้ว

      @@steveanderson5504 You are an ignorant, sad person for writing off a whole group of women.

  • @ywrry5088
    @ywrry5088 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    🗑️🚮 just say you don’t like your race and move on.

    • @brandnew9834
      @brandnew9834 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why do you have try to oversimplify ?

    • @MajorThegreat_
      @MajorThegreat_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      BM are not obligated to date BW

    • @brandnew9834
      @brandnew9834 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MajorThegreat_ He probably single mom raised and identifies as a single BW.

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brandnew9834 Because Truth is important.

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MajorThegreat_ Bw don't care anymore. Bm have been cow dung and headaches for a long time. I've done a lot of research and will publish it in a book. Bringing nothing but the truth.

  • @brofessormex
    @brofessormex 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    They also buy more houses. But eho cares? Congratulations you're an adult.

    • @SassyS2442
      @SassyS2442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Alexandriah.Washington
      @Alexandriah.Washington 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No they don’t

    • @davonwhite2983
      @davonwhite2983 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They also get evicted at a high ass rate

  • @timjhonson3792
    @timjhonson3792 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It don't make me no difference what they do, because I don't deal with them. I stopped dealing with them years and years ago

  • @MrMotoShark
    @MrMotoShark 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    And I've also heard that most black men would prefer to be with a black woman 😢

  • @SassyS2442
    @SassyS2442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think it’s the headphones… or maybe the microphones… no it’s the definitely the camera that make these men think what they are saying is smart, intellectual, and relevant..🥴

    • @davonwhite2983
      @davonwhite2983 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bw fall in love with their colonizers no pride thats pretty slow ta me are we speaking of competence?

  • @yayaward12
    @yayaward12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Well hell we going for the white guys anyways and any other race that appreciate us because we are appreciated❤️

    •  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That marriage numbers say different.

    • @davonwhite2983
      @davonwhite2983 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The white man isn't gonna destroy the purity of their race for bw the black gene is too strong too play with if yall fuckin all they men and we fuckin they women we will deplete them and they ain't having that trust me bw gone loose because of how beautiful they are ...forgetting that there's beautiful women everywhere we gone find black women all over the world you all are gonna be alone at an alarming rate

  • @mm1901
    @mm1901 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Stop Blaming Because That's What Was Done Around Get It Together and COME Together Buttttt TO Me Race Mixing Is Definitely Okay.... But Listen QUEEN IT'S ALWAYS ALL AROUND BLACK QUEEN'S FAULT GO BACK IN HISTORY. START WITH THE ORIGINAL QUEEN,DARK BEAUTIFUL QUEEN, YOU'RE SO EASILY THROWING THE BLACK QUEEN'S UNDER THE CHARIOTS WHEELS. BUT LOOK AT THE SHADE THAT'S INSULTING THE BLACK QUEEN'S. INSTEAD OF THIS. WATCH THE OUTCOME IT'S NOT OVER. COME ON BLACK QUEEN'S,OH YEAHHHHHHHH LISTEN IT COULD BE FOR THE BEST. BLACK QUEEN'S IT'S ALL GOOD ENJOY YOUR QUEENLY JOURNEY. WE'VE OVER COME EVERYTHING AS A BLACK QUEEN......

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
      I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
      Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @canagansupramaniam3323
      @canagansupramaniam3323 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@uphaarsharma3161I'm of South East Asian descent and 😊 married to a black women for 10 years now with 3 beautiful children. Don't feel sorry for black women. They are far more resilient than you think. Keep your head up black queens. We see you.

  • @BtsxKatseyexGi-dle
    @BtsxKatseyexGi-dle 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    as a black woman who my main ideal type are asian women and men yes i date outside of that but that is my main so i don't really care who are you are dating, you can be gay only, like people outside of your race that's you do you. it does not hurt me of anyone elsa.

  • @PeytonCharles-bv5zl
    @PeytonCharles-bv5zl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That hairline stepping out of its race too😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @davonwhite2983
      @davonwhite2983 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let us see what you look like ?

  • @uphaarsharma3161
    @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
    I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
    Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @deionjohnson8683
      @deionjohnson8683 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Asian women go after wht men all the time they actually date out at the highest rate way more than bm lmaooo talk about that just type in the search engine afwm!

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@deionjohnson8683 , If I speak about Asians in General, more than 95% OR mostly they marry in their own ethnicity. And, that applies to both :- Men and Women also...
      Irrespective of nationality, most Asians or Most of the people, prefer their partner for the marriage from their own ethnicity only... That happens most of the times. And, again that applies to Men and Women also.
      But, In the Black ethnicity, that is truth, that Black Men mostly prefer to make relationship with white women... Yes, that's true... And, Yes, in today's time / modern times, many Black Men left/leave their women (Black Women) , for the white girls/white women...
      You agree or not agree,, but that is truth...
      In Asia ,, most of the successful men have the wife from their own ethnicity... And, that applies to women also... Most of the successful women have spouse from their own ethnicity only.... That happens mostly.
      But, many and many successful black men prefer to have white girlfriend or white wife only...
      You agree or not, but that is truth...

    • @deionjohnson8683
      @deionjohnson8683 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@uphaarsharma3161 lmaoo you had to change the argument to “In General “ to make the stats look better..Asian American women date out at the highest rate GOOGLE IT!!!!!Not something I made up your comparing Asian as a whole to a very small demographic of men , that’s ignorance pull up African marriage states in Africa then that would make the argument fair……Asian American women marry out at the highest rate almost twice as much as black men they only date Asian men in Asia because there’s nothing else to choose from 🤦🏾‍♂️, everybody knows Asian women fetishize and marry white men lol nice try tho let’s stick with AMERICAN STATS …You don’t want to do that because it makes Asians look bad so you changed the argument lmao pathetic !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @obersveyourmind
      @obersveyourmind ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't know what's going on behind the closed doors. Black men date outside their race because those women are way more feminine and less difficult to deal with than black women.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@uphaarsharma3161if we prefer other races than our own SO WHAT! You have a problem with that? Mind your own business, goofy. We date out because we can't take the headache from blk women. Do you ever asked why we date out? You're just here leaving comments with no question to the problem.

  • @VICTORIOUSONE22
    @VICTORIOUSONE22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MEN come to lay you down NOT to lift you UP. Ladies, self-love NOT self-sacrifice. Focus on yourself with your standards and boundaries; do you and choose you. Everything will fall in place.

  • @Thepeoplereact
    @Thepeoplereact หลายเดือนก่อน

    It depends on your environment as well. Men say they want a traditional partnership but are not able to provide the basics. We understand that y’all don’t care about degrees because y’all don’t get them. Everyone has a different definition of a feminine woman.

  • @x13roger80
    @x13roger80 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'll take on a strong smart black woman no problem. Unfortunately you have spread your rumours that black women know is untrue 😂😂😂

    • @x13roger80
      @x13roger80 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for them they aren't bigoted and lazy. If you're going to spread to get opportunity. Take it on simple as. Ps there's no such thing as an African american😂😂😂

    • @x13roger80
      @x13roger80 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh and they will all tell you "it isn't true " pmsl🎤

    • @thegift369
      @thegift369 ปีที่แล้ว

      What rumors? There are Too Many Masculine overweight Blk Women running around lol

  • @NikkiDavis-f5o
    @NikkiDavis-f5o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why is it only in the black cimmunity that we have this b.s.. No other communities have these issues. Other communities are focused on much other things like supporting, loving and helping each other. The black community is so beyond the eight ball it is sad.

  • @corneliusfarrell8673
    @corneliusfarrell8673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol mic 🎤 drop 👏🏽

  • @lianxie5582
    @lianxie5582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why would they continue to choose the unpaid labour of housework and childcare when black men have been leaving them regardless?

  • @GeronFletcher
    @GeronFletcher หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk who these other black men are that don’t care that they’re black woman partner has a great career. I want a black woman that has success on her own. That’s sexy to me.

  • @ctruth6185
    @ctruth6185 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I personally, do not recommend race mixing or marriage for non-Christians. All heathens should remain single. Marriage isn't for the weak. Its tough.

  • @maryamadedeji24
    @maryamadedeji24 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes I completely agree,men don’t care about a woman accomplishments..I think a woman should be proud of herself for her education and her goals but at the end of the day I doesn’t matter to a man and so many women lead with her education

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
      I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
      Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uphaarsharma3161 I"m a black woman ,I am full aware of what you said so I just decided to not limit myself to just black men,I am choosing to also date outside my race

    • @courttttttt
      @courttttttt ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I value the education I’m getting. And I want a man who values his as well. That’s not that much to ask for?

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@uphaarsharma3161Boy, shut up! Who cares what you've noticed? White men take "your women" by the millions, and yet you've "noticed" what black men are doing! You asian clowns are jokes, and it's no womder why people don't respect you! Stop being subservient to whyte people, bozo!

    • @PeytonCharles-bv5zl
      @PeytonCharles-bv5zl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh ok so she can be stupid,broke,as long as she submits and is ultra feminine,taking care of ur want’s and needs

  • @Jefejsdump
    @Jefejsdump 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Black women know ya are not there for us so we be trying lookm out for our men and ourselves because the whole burden be on us.

  • @robinsallee5018
    @robinsallee5018 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This young man has a lot of growing to do. Truth is black men has inner insecurities and can’t handle black women.

    • @richryloportermusic4529
      @richryloportermusic4529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stfu and grow up this is why we are leaving and y’all are not scared no other race want y’all because y’all are to much to deal with you think the white man is gonna put up with your bs hell Noo not even the Asian or Arab or Indian y’all need to start acting like adults and not some ratchet women

    • @davonwhite2983
      @davonwhite2983 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't handle black women that make six figures .... we can handle any woman bring yours around

  • @123tech
    @123tech ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This issue is more complicated and engrained than surface level. Slavery did many things, but one of the lasting effects was the division in the African American race. You had field slaves and house slave…..division. You had plantation owners raping the women slaves, hence, mixed babies, to be raised by the black women / black families….which led to other division. The vast systems in place causes many issues within the African American communities….don’t blame one another (as you can clearly see in the video and in comments)……really learn the history of blacks in America, and truly learn the history of where a lot of slaves came from in Africa…. You will have a greater appreciation of black people and of yourself if you’re black….and that is attractive that not only might you appreciate being with a fellow black person, but you won’t even care, if a black person decides to date outside of their race or if you decide to do that.

  • @marcplummer476
    @marcplummer476 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's real out here 💯

  • @kdub-st8tm
    @kdub-st8tm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Date who you want

  • @kimberly-godsconduit7662
    @kimberly-godsconduit7662 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts....AND you tell us what MEN wants, and we TELL you that's not true. Ugggh!

  • @HannahWilliams-bn8py
    @HannahWilliams-bn8py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a common mistake that Black Americans makes we sit in the presence of someone who is not within our race and talk about our own race to another race and then publicize it.

  • @faithlight1111
    @faithlight1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And wat I'm sayin is all real 💯 facts .

  • @Atldiva2012
    @Atldiva2012 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have to agree.

  • @timjhonson3792
    @timjhonson3792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To make it real simple and easy.We do not need them

  • @Miguelthegoat_edits8502
    @Miguelthegoat_edits8502 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like all race but i really also like Chinese and and Japanese and Asian women doesnt mean i hate black women i love black women . But some of them need to stop nagging and this going for other races to

  • @lee.h7388
    @lee.h7388 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts🙌

  • @Trollyaccount
    @Trollyaccount ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nothing but facts 💯

  • @cc6398
    @cc6398 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He speaks for all black women

  • @faithlight1111
    @faithlight1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not everyone no it can't be like this NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN AT ALL . I DON'T BELIEVE IN THIS SHIT NOT MOST AND WERE STILL NOT DIVIDED .

  • @TheUrg7
    @TheUrg7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They ain’t never gonna listen 🎧 EVER!

  • @Jefejsdump
    @Jefejsdump 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    just admit black men don't like us black women share everything with black men and get used ,its not our fault we dont havre to say we giving back we actually end up taking care of black men .

  • @Mr-dl9dz
    @Mr-dl9dz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on

  • @jarviswright3732
    @jarviswright3732 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So, I'm not gonna talk black women here... I'm gonna talk ALL WOMEN here... NO GUY GIVES A SHIT ABOUT ANY WOMAN's degree(s). We look at that as a nice plus, but, as my guy says, the women with degrees are often working for themselves and become less likely to be real partners. The women willing to be PARTNERS and GENUINELY HELP BUILD, WILL BE WIVES! The law of diminishing returns, which WOMEN CREATED IN THE ROMANTIC WORLD, is REAL! The women who expect nothing and take a guy and love him at his worst, will GET EVERYTHING when he's at his best! Expect more, the guy will be willing to give less. Be more flexible with us guys and you will get better results! 💯×💯

    • @uphaarsharma3161
      @uphaarsharma3161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls.
      I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race...
      Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

    • @courttttttt
      @courttttttt ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m not going to expect less to make it easier for a man 😂. If you can’t take care of yourself then that’s a red flag.

    • @jarviswright3732
      @jarviswright3732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@courttttttt Yes... You're part of the grand multitude of women who want to get on board after the first 86 floors of the empire state building have already been constructed. Notice the word I used: MULTITUDE... At that point, you're getting in line to get on the observation deck. The observation deck receives many visitors because it knows people want to visit for its great view. So, if you're ready to get in line with the multitude of visitors, by all means do so. However, don't complain about not being the lone visitor on some guy's completed 86th floor; these are the kinds of guys YOU CHOSE, so be ready to deal with the realities that come with latching onto someone on the 86th floor! 😄 💯

    • @jarviswright3732
      @jarviswright3732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jazzyj2k25 Like it or not, at some point in the process of your nurturing the guy who's the subject of your comment, he showed you through some small act that you may have made trivial in your mind or just flat out ignored, that he had the clear potential to become what he became. You didn't take it seriously enough, so you let him get to that point. EVERY GUY will show a woman who he is, sometimes through dropping a woman for another woman, or through some comment or act that a woman may deem irrelevant, but it's a subtle or seemingly trivial act. Y'all have to pay attention. Also, guys will use you as come up girls based on how attracted they are.

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@uphaarsharma3161Boy, shut up! Who cares what you've noticed? White men take "your women" by the millions, and yet you've "noticed" what black men are doing! You asian clowns are jokes, and it's no womder why people don't respect you! Stop being subservient to whyte people, bozo!

  • @mrredwhite1244
    @mrredwhite1244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real talk!

  • @Ali-uf9kq
    @Ali-uf9kq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like for real now stop talking about black women stop 🛑 it’s truly too much just date anyone you want to and do what’s best for you as an individual, thank you, I appreciate it

  • @nadiah.9119
    @nadiah.9119 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is false we volunteer and adopt way more than men and help in the community. we’re starting to get educated and make money y’all say black men don’t care but then yall say I don’t want us if we all gotta pay for everything y’all are the most confused

  • @PeytonCharles-bv5zl
    @PeytonCharles-bv5zl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now do one where a white cop explains how BM get arrested,I just find this all funny when YT ppl list stereotypes it’s instantly racist and people will get offended but if a BM is talking about BW stereotypes perpetrating them it’s just look at as prefence ,so racism doesn’t exist if it’s just makes as preferable

    • @Unshakable369
      @Unshakable369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I find it interesting my 4 generational background …all my daughter’s are married to white men, as well as my granddaughters, and my great granddaughters. We have a beautiful loving family. So yeah we have been crossing over and, coming around for years! We are not interest at all in Black men or their propaganda & falsehoods sorry boy

  • @Toneymoney5
    @Toneymoney5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can someone please tell me his name I’ve been seeing him on a bunch of podcasts, and would like to follow

  • @TheAbsyte22
    @TheAbsyte22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maybe you should care about the person you love - black women are not by themselves a lot of toxic men think this but the generalizations are embarrassing

  • @patricio78999
    @patricio78999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t think this dude understands what “facts” are 😂 “fact is No 1” “fact is No 2” 😂

  • @tommiegreen
    @tommiegreen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This content has nothing to do with the caption

  • @Vlad777Doom
    @Vlad777Doom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about black African woman or black latin or black European or black asian woman you can't judge all black women are the same as black American woman just like saying Singapore Chinese same as china Chinese.

    • @geoboy700
      @geoboy700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually what is the premise of your statement?

  • @backwardzhatguy9953
    @backwardzhatguy9953 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What’s up with his haircut! 😂

  • @georgec2562
    @georgec2562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "MOST" Factually they are not dating outside of their race. Statically that's not even close to true. And higher college rate is also mostly myth.

    • @vanhughes
      @vanhughes ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Black women are going into higher learning in great numbers. I

  • @yessir8805
    @yessir8805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts

  • @kaarmenmoody1657
    @kaarmenmoody1657 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He sounds bitter and a big hater tf outta here with this made up BS!!!

  • @blacklyfe5543
    @blacklyfe5543 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Facts

  • @uriandropov8039
    @uriandropov8039 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No, lies detected here ✈️

  • @jaeforever2363
    @jaeforever2363 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m confused he just started naming statistics of who’s graduating more and who’s more successful? Um how’s that our fault we want to be smart? Ain’t no way he got on here and thought he was making sense cause no.

  • @yessir8805
    @yessir8805 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    African Americans ain't African. We not from Africa homie

    • @k_3846
      @k_3846 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes we are 👎🏾

    • @yessir8805
      @yessir8805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@k_3846What partof Africa u from

    • @Privatecitizn
      @Privatecitizn ปีที่แล้ว

      Correct y'all iz niggahz

    • @brandnew9834
      @brandnew9834 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every human being on this planet traces their ancestry back to Africa. You sound like a person who should be laughed at.

    • @iykejnr6296
      @iykejnr6296 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@yessir8805as a nigerian I agree. He should have said black american

  • @blacklyfe5543
    @blacklyfe5543 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This women is giving terrible advice explain to me how women are the prize if it's her job to keep the man? Lmao

  • @ninasky6778
    @ninasky6778 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sick of this

    • @Nobody-q2j
      @Nobody-q2j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What are you sick of? Take off the red weave , the hoolahoop earrings, and stop dressing like a whore. Dress modest. Do you think men want women who look like street walkers?

  • @lawandahardemon8729
    @lawandahardemon8729 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coming frombla

  • @Atldiva2012
    @Atldiva2012 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow

  • @pyt.o
    @pyt.o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do they shit on the black men?

    • @jazzyj2k25
      @jazzyj2k25 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just because we got our life in order!! Becuz we’ll date someone with less but he starts feeling inadequate when he should feel motivated!!

    • @bigtaskat-hand4742
      @bigtaskat-hand4742 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's because they can't compete with other groups of women, so they take their frustrations out on blk men.

    • @daesama
      @daesama ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idk where you been, but if you’re a black men with good education there’s some black women that think you are corny, or a square. But when you listen to the music these woman rave about hood dudes who do illegal shi and be in and out of jail. Black men get shitted on a lot in other ways

    • @madisonatior4414
      @madisonatior4414 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@bigtaskat-hand4742neither can black compete with other races

    • @ronaereeves9160
      @ronaereeves9160 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because they started becoming successful and the men hate it bm have a demonic agenda of abusing and keeping bw down they don’t like their kids or each other tbh

  • @DisciplineOverMotivation-rj6tc
    @DisciplineOverMotivation-rj6tc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is a lame and does not represent the majority of brown men.

  • @rayjones1113
    @rayjones1113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kevin samuels was right.aint no man interrested in your degree😂😂😂 if your hot thats what counts

  • @hanst7218
    @hanst7218 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Total bs. White and light skin women are just much more attractive to most men.