Thank you! I literally cringe 😬when I see these. There are normal black girls. What they approach are the Ari Fletcher types and then we all get grouped as that.
The fact that black women are in the comments saying we go for IG models and baddies tells me they don’t like regular black men or pay them any attention. Regular everyday black men don’t go after those types of women. Stop using nick cannon and Odell Beckham as reference points for what black men like
No, what’s being said is true from a woman’s standpoint. When I was single I was considered “boring” to men cause I didn’t wanna go to clubs, didn’t date men with kids, didn’t drink, go right back to their crib for sex, etc. Yall literally chase trashy women then think you can convert her to liking regular non-ghetto men versus the trash she’s USUALLY attracted to. Thankfully I now have a woman who loves everything y’all overlooked & we’re planning to get married. 🥰
@@timharris1675 black men don’t take responsibility for their kids and don’t marry their women same things happens with white women with biracial children unwedded black father
It’s crazy. At my university I was head of the black student Union, the nphc, and was a student officer. When I approached black women I got more than nuclear rejection, so I stuck to myself. These same women then chastised me for not dating them, after a white woman said she liked me just the way I was. I would ask “do you wanna date me”, they’d always say no. They’re just bitter, seeing any of us happy, and it having nothing to do with them. I say this to ever man. If you ca get off the plantation do it. I’m not saying don’t date black women. I’m saying if they behave like good women, just date good women, no matter the race. Men deserve happiness too.
@Square Peg this is asinine, thinking. “I don’t want you, but am upset you found someone who respects and likes you as you are”. If you read my entire statement you would know I get paid for my personality. I pull all kinds of women, but I can’t pull attractive black women yo save my life. But attractive women of every other nationality like me. I believe you can’t have a relationship, if the woman isn’t attracted to the man at an innate level. Saying “what we lack” is the reason we can’t pull is ridiculous. Are you saying black women think multiple time felons and woman beaters are better options than some black men? They obviously have more to offer these women than men like myself. Which is fucking ridiculous. But it’s also the truth. Black women are backwards and it’s why our community is fucked up. Every group of men has asked for the same thing from there women. No matter what the circumstances. Every group at some point was enslaved, and even during enslavement we had roles, and ways of respecting each other. Black women are the only group of women who disqualify men for being too put together. 😝 😂 it’s fucking ridiculous.
@Square Peg also you said you are like white men in your thinking. Ma’am, white men who obsess over the small percentage of ww, who go to black men are bitter af. So yes you are bitter.
As a Mexican man I’ve experienced this myself. Years ago in my 20’s I used to hit the club a lot and got ZERO attention from women then I met an Asian woman who I started dating. We went to the club for her friends bday. I was the only man in the group at the club with like 10 beautiful Asian women. When I hit the dance floor with them there was 2 Mexican girls sitting on the side giving the dirtiest looks and shaking their head at me when I made eye contact with them. I know EXACTLY what they were thinking but I also know this, had I been at the club by myself they wouldn’t have given 2 shits about what I was doing and would’ve for sure not given me a chance if I talked to them, but seeing me with women who don’t look like them bothered them. These women are crazy man. They don’t want me but then get mad when someone else does? What am I supposed to do? Just die alone? Lol
Going on 2023 and not only is it still a thing but it’s gotten even more pervasive. Look at Jayda Cheaves, Lil baby’s child’s mother talking about being raised middle-class, given all the opportunities in life that most have not had and STILL wants to only date thugs. this is what is promoted to our young girls.
@@bigcsbigbrother3685 don't even worry about it but question: why don't those same guys that "speak proper English " go talk to other women who "speak proper English"?
They're not wrong IMO. I'm a black male, and I've experienced the exact same. I once had a black girl tell me to, "put more gangsta in my voice". When you speak properly, are clean cut, no tattoos, don't drink, don't smoke, hit the gym and go to school with the dream of becoming a doctor, you get passed over for the thug who can get fast money and speaks broken English, true story
What kind of BW where you trying to date? Cause the clean cut, well spoken dudes pass over the pretty chick that likes anime and is heavy into her books and might be slightly socially awkward cause she’s not overly social. She gets passed over for the bad bitch that everyone wants to fuck cause she got a sexy body and is really popular… than you get online and complain. You are the ones picking these girls that are not in your lane and putting it on all BW but you don’t want the BW that’s similar to you, as in being well spoken and really smart and maybe quirky….
It's not rocket science. This is the result of BW being raised without a competent, caring and committed father that would serve as a template for the type of man she should choose. Hey, did you like my proper grammar?
That's why professional BM are leaving American BW all together we're tired of their BS. Plenty of us are going outside the country to get with a woman of African descent.
I think it’s because energy most nice guys don’t have this confidence with them but the bad boys bring in this confidence and let it be known he wants her or isn’t shy to take control
So why does the black man have to have game to get an attractive black woman? That man with all the game will play games in the relationship too. The man with no game will be the one who treats her right but y’all call them lame 🤦🏾♂️ Let’s grow up black people ❤
If you think about it long term, it’s for the best. The loudest ones in the room have the least and these are the men they reproduce with. So in turn eventually the bloodline will die off and the black people who don’t partake will live on. It’s natural selection in my eyes
Female nature is why. Then guy with game & plays games keeps her from getting bored... If your a man that doesn't play games then she'll get bored & leave the relationship mentally then physically 😮
@@ssbashalot7324 having game and confidence isn’t the same as someone playing games in a relationship. Women are attracted to confidence, their is nothing that can be done about that. Why you think they like men that are taller or men that are financially stable. Those men are usually more confident.
Tru Dat Allday💯👑 Facts,black women love uneducqted,Ex-con,tattooed,3-4 Babymamas having,slap-u-around, struggling azz ninjas bcuz they're BROKE ND STRUGGLING
@@amenajackson8133 Even if they are lying, it still a well known fact that a lot of black women go for the thuggish bad boy type, the music industry doesn’t help at all.
Facts, dealt with the same shit in high school. Asking black girls to homecoming and prom, curved twice. Going to social functions curved left and right by black women. At the same time I was being approached by Hispanic girls but I wasn’t really checking for them despite being in a Hispanic majority area. Go to college, repeat of the same. Hispanic women and white women. At that point though I wasn’t fighting the situation, it is what it is lol 🤷🏾♂️ I’m a straight edge guy, went to private school for 6 years, didn’t really deal with adverse situations that others had to early in age until early adulthood, as I was sheltered to an extent, I got it, I am not the stereotypical black male. I don’t trip about it anymore but what these men are talking about, I’ve lived it 🫡
Wow one they weren't mature enough for you and 2 where the women you was going after your type what you know you like or discovery had to put in that time to discover you like them because they wasn't your type
Yeah, a lot of us been there bro. Maybe not to that extent as you...but yeah. I live in NYC...so its all different races everywhere here. I remember I used to work at these white bars as a bouncer. I used to go out to black functions and try to get with and talk to bw...and they seem like they wasn't that interested. But every time at these white bars...the ww would be showing mad interest. I'm like WTF?? Is this why they Think and Say we like them more...No, they want us more...for whatever reason. So yeah, I wish more bw would get better at that. IJS
That’s the problem, trying to get good men “non thugs” to project “game” there is a reason the talk the way they talk and have the success they do. Stop trainer our men to have “game” the women need to learn proper value.
Problem is what it has always been. BW can’t see the forest for the trees. They aren’t long term thinkers. So yea the thug is fun and exciting in the present. But long term he’s a terrible partner and probably will end up in prison, broke, or dead. BW love present day excitement. Clean cut, articulate, ambitious BM who are willing to delay gratification isn’t exciting to BW. But when they’re 30-45 and the thugs have pumped and dumped them, left them with kids, who do they want? The clean cut, boring, good guy BM, who is stable and responsible. I’m 38, I’ve experienced it and I’ve seen it repeatedly. My advice to the clean cut BM, date whoever the hell you want to date. Stop feeling like you’re turning your back on BW, you aren’t. They never wanted your type.
the truth is that they know this but they used to be able to do what they want sleep with who they wanted and then get a good dude they knew were good to take care of them and their kids as a bailout option after they were done they would give a sob story or shame the good men into what they wanted so that guy can feel lucky see worth in them and he's going to treat her better than any guys have.....problem is bw and womens strategies were known but not put out there publicly like on the internet men are sharing worldwide instead of just locally and they don't like it because they're being exposed and men are refusing to be the cleanup man now
Black women love drama 🎭 if you the kinda guy that’s lay back don’t Tolerate a lot of bullshit these kind of women will not deal with you if you don’t have some kind of drama going on in your life you are boring to them Facts💯
But it’s funny they waste their most precious, submissive years to bad dudes. Good guys gotta jump through hoops just to even get a text back. That’s why the blackpill is important. She never liked you anyway
@@theblackmonk3153 That is great. I'm happy for you. I wish other people would go where they are loved and appreciated it. Instead making videos complaining about their love life.
I live in Baltimore but I've visited other big cities, these brothers are absolutely correct. And by the way it's not "some black women", it's the majority, especially the younger ones.
You live in BALTIMORE. Case closed. It’s not like those women have too many better options around them lol half of them haven’t even been out of the city they don’t KNOW better & then when they’re aspiring to be better you have ninjas telling them they need to settle for going 50/50 with them 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah most of them don't think about a good guy for their future they just think in the moment its sad. I live in a building with mostly black women and all of them are single mothers no fathers in sight. I think its just how a lot of black women think they go for the guy thats gonna leave soon as a kid come into the picture.
@@STARSENMTthey don’t know better? Gtfo with that bs. I’m born and raised in Detroit by a struggling single mother and I saw the hood mentality for what it was by the age of 12. I’m currently dating a Hispanic woman who also Grew up poor but she refused to date drug dealers and gangsters. Your comment is basically saying that most black women are uneducated and easy to manipulate and we both know that’s not true. Black women are allegedly the most educated demographic in America and y’all still turn into groupies whenever a scammers and dope boys with designer clothes come around. Hell, in the very hospital I work at there are plenty of black male pct’s, nurses, radiologists and respiratory therapists. The black women nurses literally rejected us because we make around the same amount of money as them and they want to be hyper famous. The crazy part is that each and every one of them besides one black nurse who I think is the sweetest woman in the world all ended up wannabe rappers and dudes that work the cash register at dollar general. Hell one of my coworkers was kidnapped at gunpoint by her jealous ex boyfriend and lit on fire in an abandoned building. At this point I’m starting to believe that black women are just masochists.
Let’s be real. I’m a black female nerd that loves to sketch, play video games, read, and I joined band throughout my last years of high school. Black guys found me corny. Not to mention I’m darkskin and I wear my natural hair 99% of the time, so that’s a deal breaker. When black men make these statements, I always see them going towards the black women who make it known that they wanna thug. Most black men don’t want black women that don’t want the thugs bc we’re not attractive enough for them. We’re either too dark, our hair is too “nappy”, or we act too white. I’ve seen black men diss darkskin women for lightskin women that dragged their mouth to filth but will complain about black women not wanting them. Majority if not all the men that give me a hard time based upon my looks and how I act is black men so I just stay away🤷🏿♀️.
@@robertcortez3526 nope, they we’re chasing after the lightskin and Latinas bc they looked better 🤷🏿♀️. Y’all like to act as if black male nerds don’t have preferences when they do. I wasn’t their preference and can remember clearly how I was “too dark”.
Let me explain to you real easily on why they choose a thug over the good guy (aka the educated lame). Even though he's the worst of the worst, that dude is showing alpha male tendencies. She don't have to worry about being protected and provided for. But of course it's only short lived because they'll haul Pookie off to jail. Another reason why and here's the harsh and brutal truth: some of y'all ain't doing your job in the bedroom, that's why she's getting her back blowned by Pookie. I hate to say it but it's the truth and sometimes the truth hurts.
So they can't control impulse and need to sleep with pookie. So why should we cate that they become single mothers or get abused when they chose guys based on 🍆 size and being a thug?
Same. It wasn’t until I became wealthy that BW gave me the time of day. Unfortunately for them, by then I’d figured out what they are like (she-demons in human form), so I was exclusively dating whites and Asians.
I'm white, and quite frankly this whole thing baffles me. I'm the furthest thing from a racist, but I never had time for the glorfication of ghetto or thug culture. I get people are born in the hood, but you don't have to accept the values given to you anymore than people in Alabama in a trailer condominium have to express the values they inherited there. I blame gangsta rap for inculcating that this is cool into the culture. At the same time, I wouldn't say I'm come across as clearn or professional....anyway......I have zero patience for this race BS. Can't take people seeing the world through these lenses anymore. I'm fed up with all this BS.
Stop the lies . I have never been attracted to thugs ! Neither has my family and friends. I’m sure you don’t like it when people stereotype you as a black man .
You have the same energy when we stereotype WW🤔 As a black man, I've been stereotyped all my life. Why would you as a lovely black woman, if that's your profile pic, assume you are the only group if you will that should be exempted. This is the world we live in. I say all that respectfully 🙏🏾🤷🏾♂️💯
True, I know y'all may think differently but this is truth. Master the game enough to not have to play it so that you can find the right women to fw. Be attractive and seductive enough to make her want to stay with your program while at the same time not giving af if she leaves bc you know you are on your shit bc you're a mf man. Top comment on my book. Good job bro
I see people trying to put this mindset on BW from the hood, but it’s plenty of black fathers who busted their asses to get their daughters as far away from the “ hood “ as possible, best schools, ballet, violin lessons, and somehow she still finds her a man from around the way, especially if the father is from the “ hood” himself. I’ve seen it too many times, suburban girls now raising their kids in the hood do to choosing a street guy for a mate
“I can get ya shit together” why would i take a class to learn ignorance to impress some bird who never picked up book and get tricked by “game”…I’m cool y’all can have em.
Yes… because they are looking at women with no morals and complaining. These dudes are complaining about baddies not wanting them but won’t take the plane Jane. 🤦🏾♀️ Being so clean but when their mouth open you see why they still single.
Bingo I just posted the exact same thing. They overlook us plain jane/boring women for IG baddies. Once they get rejected or played now every black woman ain't ish/we all want thugs. I have never been appreciated by black men until is is too late/they get kicked in the a$$ by the baddie.
I literally told my black chick friend that the way I introduce myself to girls is how are you doing my name is Douglas and she said "that is so corny "
@Square Peg black women want masculinity yet yall have the highest rate of being single mothers 🤣yeah sure white women are easy but at least they have fathers who are present and aint raising kids alone keep chasing swag
That is attractive! I felt that way immediately when I read your comment. I'm black. It shows confidence and what your intentions are. Not all girls feel the way that was described :/
I love a well put together brotha that is not narcissistic ,shallow or conceited cause thugs like pookies and ray rays, a lot of times can an alive you or just cause a lot of toxicity 👍🏾😇💙😘
I’m from the hood but I’m a nerd so I’ve always liked nice, intelligent dudes. Plus I would never take anyone disrespectful to meet my father. It would be embarrassing. I went to an hbcu and know a lot of black women also like this. Ig it just depends on the person/location. A lot of hood dudes don’t even approach me lol
I'm a "black chick" I can't stand thugs! I am not into "black culture" the typical things I am supposed to like as a black person. I feel this same way as a female. I'm told I talk too proper but I have learned that it depends on where you are. I've lived in different places and just now seeing that there are good guys, clean cut. I just grew up around less of them. What they are saying is true but there are black females for them, but they are the minority among most black women. I doubt these guys want the baddest black woman according to your standards. They like women that are similar to them. You won't find it in the black club.
There are so many other venues to meet people besides the "club". It has its purpose, but that is not seeking a long term relationship, but a one night stand. Those who grow beyond that will have more success.
Same here. They ain't lying. Their speaking from their experiences which is also true for a lot of brothas. So I don't see anything wrong with what they're saying
Yeah, exactly! Then those same women will say:"Oh black men don't like us" then be hatin when Whites or Latinas understand the clean dude is more ambitious than the thug and would rather associate themselves with such guy but clearly black women don't get that at all then we wonder why as people relationship wise we're so broken can't come together ... smh
No, women like masculine dudes that exude strength and charisma. Thugs don’t always get the girl if they’re not top quality. Michael Ealy is a clean cut guy and black chicks love him cause he got extra flavor. He’s smooth, chill, charming, and is relatable. He’s not so full of himself and he’s engaging.
@@johnwise4341 masculine but also thuggish. A course not all black women like the thuggish men, but I think a lot of this is a problem within our community seeing how many women were raised around these type of men and how the black music industry push these men out to the public
Those dudes were telling the truth. They don't want clean cut good dudes out here. They want thug looking or actual thug type of guys. It's been this way since the late 00s. And isn't slowing down. They want clean cut dudes when these women get older and more ran through with some kids. They want the clean cut guys to clean them up and add them to their professional status. That's why all these women demand a man at 100k.
Man. It's like a epidemic if you are a BM in your 30s with no kids. What gets me is the ones who like to judge that neglect to mention most BW kids ARE NOT PLANNED. Meaning it you got caught slipping it wasn't your choice st that time although I don't doubt any BW's love for their kids. I've just been smart/careful all these years
African American Woman here to say; my Husband is a clean cut handsome, educated & intelligent man!!!! A confident Man attracts exactly what he wants lol
This is cap, I'm not hood or street but I pull the baddies at the black clubs 😂 I dress like a skater/hippie in day to day but preppy when I go out (turtleneck, dress pants, loafers or boots with a bomber or an overcoat for example). I tell a few jokes and never come off thirsty. Not all black women like thugs, they just don't like you 😂
I can most definitely relate to this because I'm a clean cut type of dude myself!! And this just being honest. Im a lightskin brother!! And just straight forward I haven't had smoothest ride with dating black women. It's always been a back and forth relationship for me. All though I still think they attractive. I have dated non black women as well. And from my experience they have been more responsive to me in the pass the dating black women.
@@ang2gee yeah but you're not around them when they deal with men only when they're around you or you take them at their word. .. most don't want their friends and family to see how they treat their men
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 kjv “A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” * A wicked man/woman will get who they deserve, Yahawah (God) makes no mistakes. Dont be swayed by outward beauty or looks. * Proverbs 31:30 KJV “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.” ** Beauty is vain. **
It’s always so weird when I see stuff like this. Every black woman I’m friends with and interact with is married to or dates educated, intelligent BLACK men- not thugs. Me included. And all the women big up the black men and the black men big up the black women. I think this is just bitter people who got rejected and now view all black women (or men) the same. Look- rejection happens. Just keep putting yourself out there, like who you like, and if it works great. If not, well, thats life. Try again until you find the right one. But don’t paint everyone with the same color paint or you’ll miss out on something wonderful. 🤷🏽♀️
& Vice Versa a lot of black men don’t like the nerdy, modest black woman who likes to travel & do adventurous things like nature activities etc. They want the IG baddie that’s in the club every weekend with the least clothes on & the biggest butt.
@@ipc_is_better6281 their not all the same you haven't dated every bw I 💕 my people. Bw follow me and I'm a 🤓 along with having a kid by a bw so miss me with you're 🐂 💩.
I’m a black women that’s in her 40’s and I don’t like the thug types and I had issues picking the wrong men and I will be open to dating my own men again because of bad experiences in dating men from different races! 🙏🏾
Those 2 guys are black but they are the exact opposite of the guys on Krew season. I don’t know what it’s called but yeah most black girls don’t like it. I don’t want to be disparaging but it’s a bit soft. My husband is very handsome, clean cut and professional. He is not at all hood but he carries himself in a way that lets me know he can protect our family. His masculine fits with my feminine. I wouldn’t have it any other way. If civilization was failing I trust him to protect and lead our family. Women are attracted to masculinity. The problem with girls who like hood guys is that it is a false masculinity that is not supported by knowledge or vision. The women who choose hood guys, as well as the hood guys they choose, need to be educated.
Damn you got all that from a 30 sec clip? Lol you're kinda proving their point. Well spoken doesn't mean soft... hell well spoken should be the baseline for black folks.
carmay3600 White Women & Latinas and other races of women seem to like them just fine. Black Women too much to deal with, so a lot of dudes don't deal with ya'll, me included. I can get all types of women. Athlete, cool, swagg, all that. But Black Women don't deserve me, because of those terrible attitudes and bad behavior, so I don't choose them. I like feminine women, that know how to behave around a man.
We'll whose fault is it when these women complain about the men they choose? What are we doing here? It's either you didn't want the good man and Pookie was good enough, or something wrong with the good black man and it still wasn't good enough? Y'all BW be choosing. You get what you get, don't complain later on.
It's sad that in the black community that our sisters reject the regular guy for the thug, or gangster. They keep saying that they want a Russell Wilson but keep ending up with a Future
Can’t forget about YOUR TYPE. The type who don’t date thugs but don’t date educated, decent earning, quality black men. Who look for every excuse to escape your blackness. When you’ll think you’ll made it in life, you’ll skip over all the decent black men to date a yt man. We got to rid our communities of women like you too. Outcast you’ll.
Keep dating outside your race sis! It’s a lie that they tell themselves and to black women in order to justify their preference for whites ladies. Keep doing 😌
That is not necessarily true as a woman who has part African-American descent there is something about a man in a well tailored suit that is so irresistible, that no other man can compare to
It’s not authentic unless you’re all the way you. Sure be malleable in certain areas of life but attracting women isn’t one of them. If these women want the guys that’s bad for them, it’s cool. Clean cut guys like myself tend to play the long game. They can get used up, but they’re going to for those types of dudes solely. There’s no going back especially if they have children by them loo
Malleable, code switch, versatile.... it's all interchangeable in a sense. Being good from the block to the boardroom, having a conversation with those from different walks of life and not missing a beat... that should be a life skill, not something to garner the attention of women. If they know they know... if they don't, that's their loss... lol
@memeking2696 West Africans, like Nigerians. Really, aren't that attractive phenotypically. So nobody's really missing out on a Nigerian not being attracted to them. Nigerians always have horrible skin due to all the self-hatred skin bleaching.
@@yourname487 They are. They like guys with amazing vernacular like “The…Cat…in… The… Hat” Or pseudo intellectual like Kevin Gates with his infinite fake Moslem word salad 😂
95 % black women are like , pokie gave 3 kids and here comes Ray Ray giving her 4 and then both dudes be like I gotta go make them rubber bands and end up come back with nothing
And the truth be told. I'm not a black women's type neither. But it's all good!! I'm definitely one those guys who keeps myself up dress nice and etc . As Austin was saying the clean cut Professional RnB type of look!! Lol.. But the situations I've been in definitely go a little deeper as well with what I have been through!!
“Western” is what you wanna put before black chicks or any chick for that matter. Most black Caribbean based culture girls, South American girls, and African girls not like that. I’ve met some cool down to earth aussies and Afro Dutch women too but they lived out in the rural areas of their country. Find yourself a coconut (islander) or a motherland gal that’s not westernized or still has her heritage morales and upbringing and you won’t look back💯💯💯
I was born and raised in the hood all my life... dated hood niggahs but i wasn't born with a hood mentality. I did like hood boogers until I reprogrammed my mindset awakened to the matrix and their agenda to keep colored folks oppressed and lack mentality...I always attracted hood boogers cause of the generational curse I had on my life. but also in the same accord wanted better for my life... a honorable man in all aspect of his life... but cause of the matrix assigned me people who I was blind sided thinking that love me all my life.. gaslighting me and wishing on my downfall wanted the worst for me I never had the privilege to attract that type of man.... until now.... I just had to break that generational curse off my life cut those demons clean tf out my life and want better...now the universe and my ancestors say I'm ready for what I'm manifesting...
to all the men , thank you for speaking for every single black women in the world. Forgive me as I dont recall meeting anyone of you and sharing my preference and importance in life. But thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.
It’s not really about every black women in the world, but you have to admit that at least in the US the majority of black women do want a hood/thug guy. Like that is not even a debatable fact, yes there are outliers
thank you for confirming. Have you created a research study that is IRB-approved? What is your timeline? What method of inquiry will you be using? oh, don't let me forget about consent forms. I would love to know where I may find your published research journal so that I can read it! @@kingtimmy9491
Correct me if I am wrong, but weren’t you both birthed by a black woman🤔. Not all black women are the same. Why are some young black men so negative towards our black women? All the other races already speak so negative about us. However, Hispanic men stand up for Hispanic women and protect them, white men stand up for their white women and protect them,etc…The real issue here is that, we try to approach our “type” but not look for character in who we “need”, because if we do, we will find some amazing black sisters for sure who would treat you real good.
I say thins all the time. Black women like thugs bc they’re sexually attracted to them. It takes another level to like a clean cut guy, because you’ll actually be happier with them if you stay.
Listen hopefully this helps a guy. Do not try and be what they want be you. This dude at the end shouldn't be competing for the same women as this guy. Don't stoop down just go where you are appreciated
I was kinda thinking that. If you close your eyes, it kinda sound like 2 white guys talking. Black women like them a little rough around the edges and sound like a black guy. If that make any sense.
Wtf was that ending? Some overweight dude telling me he’s gonna teach me how to qualify for the baddest one??? LMAOO I’m dead
Facts 😂😂😂😂 some niggas are weird
Pure comedy 😂😂😂😂😂
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The big guy is married, maybe that’s why he feels qualified 🤷🏽♀️
@@ginam2817so anybody that’s married can run a course on how to get game lmao?
I'm black and I despise thugs, baby daddies, bad boys. My life is peaceful and I intend to keep it that way.
Thank you! I literally cringe 😬when I see these. There are normal black girls. What they approach are the Ari Fletcher types and then we all get grouped as that.
@@Bumblebee-jl3ur Correct and unfair.
@@Bumblebee-jl3ur just like how black men get grouped together as dusty🤷🏿♂️
I've seen suburban black women go after thugs and bad boys
@@aarongray1981 lies all women like black men. You (again) are referring to the Ari Fletcher types.
100% Most black women don't want the clean cut guy until they got 2-3 kids.
Then they’ll get mad at you because men don’t want to deal with their baggage.
True story 😂😂
exactly
On god
Cap
The fact that black women are in the comments saying we go for IG models and baddies tells me they don’t like regular black men or pay them any attention. Regular everyday black men don’t go after those types of women. Stop using nick cannon and Odell Beckham as reference points for what black men like
All we have access to most of the time is regular black men. Non ghetto black women typically don’t go for thugs.
@@tikaroxanne7286 you’re missing my point..
@@tikaroxanne7286The single mother statistics speak differently
No, what’s being said is true from a woman’s standpoint. When I was single I was considered “boring” to men cause I didn’t wanna go to clubs, didn’t date men with kids, didn’t drink, go right back to their crib for sex, etc. Yall literally chase trashy women then think you can convert her to liking regular non-ghetto men versus the trash she’s USUALLY attracted to. Thankfully I now have a woman who loves everything y’all overlooked & we’re planning to get married. 🥰
@@timharris1675 black men don’t take responsibility for their kids and don’t marry their women same things happens with white women with biracial children unwedded black father
It’s crazy. At my university I was head of the black student Union, the nphc, and was a student officer. When I approached black women I got more than nuclear rejection, so I stuck to myself. These same women then chastised me for not dating them, after a white woman said she liked me just the way I was. I would ask “do you wanna date me”, they’d always say no.
They’re just bitter, seeing any of us happy, and it having nothing to do with them. I say this to ever man. If you ca get off the plantation do it. I’m not saying don’t date black women. I’m saying if they behave like good women, just date good women, no matter the race. Men deserve happiness too.
@Square Peg this is asinine, thinking. “I don’t want you, but am upset you found someone who respects and likes you as you are”.
If you read my entire statement you would know I get paid for my personality. I pull all kinds of women, but I can’t pull attractive black women yo save my life. But attractive women of every other nationality like me. I believe you can’t have a relationship, if the woman isn’t attracted to the man at an innate level. Saying “what we lack” is the reason we can’t pull is ridiculous. Are you saying black women think multiple time felons and woman beaters are better options than some black men? They obviously have more to offer these women than men like myself. Which is fucking ridiculous. But it’s also the truth. Black women are backwards and it’s why our community is fucked up. Every group of men has asked for the same thing from there women. No matter what the circumstances. Every group at some point was enslaved, and even during enslavement we had roles, and ways of respecting each other. Black women are the only group of women who disqualify men for being too put together. 😝 😂 it’s fucking ridiculous.
@Square Peg also you said you are like white men in your thinking. Ma’am, white men who obsess over the small percentage of ww, who go to black men are bitter af. So yes you are bitter.
Facts, they don't want you, they also don't want anyone else with you
As a Mexican man I’ve experienced this myself. Years ago in my 20’s I used to hit the club a lot and got ZERO attention from women then I met an Asian woman who I started dating. We went to the club for her friends bday. I was the only man in the group at the club with like 10 beautiful Asian women. When I hit the dance floor with them there was 2 Mexican girls sitting on the side giving the dirtiest looks and shaking their head at me when I made eye contact with them. I know EXACTLY what they were thinking but I also know this, had I been at the club by myself they wouldn’t have given 2 shits about what I was doing and would’ve for sure not given me a chance if I talked to them, but seeing me with women who don’t look like them bothered them. These women are crazy man. They don’t want me but then get mad when someone else does? What am I supposed to do? Just die alone? Lol
Black American women despise to see a black man loved or happy. Even when she is the good in his life.
Swag doesn't pay the bills nor make a great father or leader. Sad that this is still a thing in the black community.
Exactly, had exes break up with me to date thugs and degenerates now they are all single mothers. One was even physically abused 🤷🏿♂️
Only a certain class care about the term swag I don’t fit that label
Nobody says swagg anymore thats soo 2012
Going on 2023 and not only is it still a thing but it’s gotten even more pervasive. Look at Jayda Cheaves, Lil baby’s child’s mother talking about being raised middle-class, given all the opportunities in life that most have not had and STILL wants to only date thugs. this is what is promoted to our young girls.
It's a thing in the hood. There are thousands of black women who do not live in the hood.
Lmao why would I put in extra effort to get BW when I can put in 50% of the effort and get a chick from another race 😂.
@@Cottencandybrain My last 2 girlfriends were white and they broke up with me bc I didnt want to get engaged. Nice try
@@pimpnamedslickback7780marriage ain’t worth it these days
Fair
Facts once you start speaking proper English they instantly get turned off and think you’re soft
Facts
Most are soft, they let yt folks run all over them
@@ashasun6620 huh?
@@bigcsbigbrother3685 don't even worry about it but question: why don't those same guys that "speak proper English " go talk to other women who "speak proper English"?
@@ashasun6620 because they are a minority…most are already taken.
Hood chicks date completely the opposite way that all other women date then they get online talking bout "men aint shit" lmao
They not shit just look around it's only like 2 percent black women married 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 noooooooo body wants them
Right. Their choices ain’t shit😂
@@CFO341 lol
They're not wrong IMO. I'm a black male, and I've experienced the exact same. I once had a black girl tell me to, "put more gangsta in my voice". When you speak properly, are clean cut, no tattoos, don't drink, don't smoke, hit the gym and go to school with the dream of becoming a doctor, you get passed over for the thug who can get fast money and speaks broken English, true story
My experiences interacting with a lot of black women are almost parallel to yours.
What kind of BW where you trying to date? Cause the clean cut, well spoken dudes pass over the pretty chick that likes anime and is heavy into her books and might be slightly socially awkward cause she’s not overly social. She gets passed over for the bad bitch that everyone wants to fuck cause she got a sexy body and is really popular… than you get online and complain. You are the ones picking these girls that are not in your lane and putting it on all BW but you don’t want the BW that’s similar to you, as in being well spoken and really smart and maybe quirky….
Stop talking to hood chicks.
Same exact experiences. Then they become bitter single mothers later in life and say black men aint shit
It's not rocket science. This is the result of BW being raised without a competent, caring and committed father that would serve as a template for the type of man she should choose. Hey, did you like my proper grammar?
This world is backwards. They prefer a thug over a dude who has his sh** together. What Is good is called bad and what is bad Is deemed good
That's why professional BM are leaving American BW all together we're tired of their BS. Plenty of us are going outside the country to get with a woman of African descent.
Brutal truth is most girls would like a more edgy guy but they settle for the nice guy at the end
@@dred9174 yeah go to Tanzania they have many thiick black women
@@sageex3931 I saw some pictures GD when I get my remote job in Cyber Security I'm heading to Tanzania.
I think it’s because energy most nice guys don’t have this confidence with them but the bad boys bring in this confidence and let it be known he wants her or isn’t shy to take control
That's why I don't mess with hood rat babble
So why does the black man have to have game to get an attractive black woman? That man with all the game will play games in the relationship too. The man with no game will be the one who treats her right but y’all call them lame 🤦🏾♂️ Let’s grow up black people ❤
If you think about it long term, it’s for the best. The loudest ones in the room have the least and these are the men they reproduce with. So in turn eventually the bloodline will die off and the black people who don’t partake will live on. It’s natural selection in my eyes
Female nature is why. Then guy with game & plays games keeps her from getting bored... If your a man that doesn't play games then she'll get bored & leave the relationship mentally then physically 😮
Game also comes with confidence. Women just like men with confidence.
@@ThatbulAgain men with said “confidence” will play more games in the relationship. It’s a lose lose
@@ssbashalot7324 having game and confidence isn’t the same as someone playing games in a relationship. Women are attracted to confidence, their is nothing that can be done about that. Why you think they like men that are taller or men that are financially stable. Those men are usually more confident.
Don't sound too intelligent, they'll say you're soft. Lol
A black chick told me I sounded white lol. A part of me wanted to roast her so bad like a white person would but I kept it cool
Yep
@@kendrick8749 yep
Facts
stupid dolls
I already know sistas were mad as hell after watching this video lol.
Ok
Let them stay mad lol
@@LouisianaGoon337 My thoughts exactly!
@@alyssajones4368Ive been called a oreo from my own brother now this Oreo is in school and he's locked up
@@LouisianaGoon337 👍🏼
These dudes pulling millions of dollars from workout videos and apps... you think they not pulling chicks?
They were referring to black chicks. They literally stated they only attract latina and white women.
Tru Dat Allday💯👑 Facts,black women love uneducqted,Ex-con,tattooed,3-4 Babymamas having,slap-u-around,
struggling azz ninjas bcuz they're BROKE ND STRUGGLING
@@tenaybates8141 they are lying.
@@amenajackson8133 Even if they are lying, it still a well known fact that a lot of black women go for the thuggish bad boy type, the music industry doesn’t help at all.
@@jeromenelson6342I’m tryna escape all dis shit
Facts, dealt with the same shit in high school. Asking black girls to homecoming and prom, curved twice. Going to social functions curved left and right by black women. At the same time I was being approached by Hispanic girls but I wasn’t really checking for them despite being in a Hispanic majority area.
Go to college, repeat of the same. Hispanic women and white women. At that point though I wasn’t fighting the situation, it is what it is lol 🤷🏾♂️
I’m a straight edge guy, went to private school for 6 years, didn’t really deal with adverse situations that others had to early in age until early adulthood, as I was sheltered to an extent, I got it, I am not the stereotypical black male. I don’t trip about it anymore but what these men are talking about, I’ve lived it 🫡
They'll turn you down but act offended when you date someone from another race... shit is wild lol
Wow one they weren't mature enough for you and 2 where the women you was going after your type what you know you like or discovery had to put in that time to discover you like them because they wasn't your type
Give me one rationale reason you think black women wouldn't be interested in you?
FR
Yeah, a lot of us been there bro. Maybe not to that extent as you...but yeah.
I live in NYC...so its all different races everywhere here.
I remember I used to work at these white bars as a bouncer. I used to go out to black functions and try to get with and talk to bw...and they seem like they wasn't that interested. But every time at these white bars...the ww would be showing mad interest. I'm like WTF?? Is this why they Think and Say we like them more...No, they want us more...for whatever reason.
So yeah, I wish more bw would get better at that. IJS
That’s the problem, trying to get good men “non thugs” to project “game” there is a reason the talk the way they talk and have the success they do. Stop trainer our men to have “game” the women need to learn proper value.
🎯💯
Tru Dat Allday 💯👑
You can't force attraction. Those women like what they like. Game or no game. Values or no values. Deal with it.
@@dbrown8553 big facts 💯💯
Straight up! I was going to say it if no one was…
Facts let them suffer cause at the end of the day they will
Problem is what it has always been. BW can’t see the forest for the trees. They aren’t long term thinkers. So yea the thug is fun and exciting in the present. But long term he’s a terrible partner and probably will end up in prison, broke, or dead. BW love present day excitement. Clean cut, articulate, ambitious BM who are willing to delay gratification isn’t exciting to BW. But when they’re 30-45 and the thugs have pumped and dumped them, left them with kids, who do they want? The clean cut, boring, good guy BM, who is stable and responsible. I’m 38, I’ve experienced it and I’ve seen it repeatedly. My advice to the clean cut BM, date whoever the hell you want to date. Stop feeling like you’re turning your back on BW, you aren’t. They never wanted your type.
Dag. 😭😭 Bad Luck you have had. 😂🤣😅🤣
And y’all arent protecting or providing POOKIE. Continue to live in your low income housing, (r)aping babies, wishing you were a white man.
Facts. They love the thugs, then eventually look for a savior in the guys that they overlooked. Fukkem. Never help these Heauxs out.
the truth is that they know this but they used to be able to do what they want sleep with who they wanted and then get a good dude they knew were good to take care of them and their kids as a bailout option after they were done they would give a sob story or shame the good men into what they wanted so that guy can feel lucky see worth in them and he's going to treat her better than any guys have.....problem is bw and womens strategies were known but not put out there publicly like on the internet men are sharing worldwide instead of just locally and they don't like it because they're being exposed and men are refusing to be the cleanup man now
@@andreamoore7002 Pookeisha ALERT🤣🤣
Black women love drama 🎭 if you the kinda guy that’s lay back don’t Tolerate a lot of bullshit these kind of women will not deal with you if you don’t have some kind of drama going on in your life you are boring to them Facts💯
Black women love crash dummies
Correct
They ONLY like dude who have it "together" after they get used up and the streets no longer have use of them.
But it’s funny they waste their most precious, submissive years to bad dudes. Good guys gotta jump through hoops just to even get a text back. That’s why the blackpill is important. She never liked you anyway
If you sound like you have sense BW can't manipulate you.
Women getting on here talking about not me.....yeaaa ok....if I could only see your past relationships.
Their baby daddies is the true answer 🤦🏽♂️
Mines were with Latino men. My highschool sweetheart was a american guy. I just be where the love is at🇲🇽🇵🇷
@@Hardawayfitssame with me and Latina and white women
@@theblackmonk3153 That is great. I'm happy for you. I wish other people would go where they are loved and appreciated it. Instead making videos complaining about their love life.
@@Hardawayfits there’s noting wrong with voicing your opinion on video
Like should attract. Any girl attracted to the bad guys, is bad herself. Vice-versa
Saying latinas are your type but saying black women are ratchet is crazy to me 😂😂😂
I live in Baltimore but I've visited other big cities, these brothers are absolutely correct. And by the way it's not "some black women", it's the majority, especially the younger ones.
You live in BALTIMORE. Case closed. It’s not like those women have too many better options around them lol half of them haven’t even been out of the city they don’t KNOW better & then when they’re aspiring to be better you have ninjas telling them they need to settle for going 50/50 with them 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah most of them don't think about a good guy for their future they just think in the moment its sad. I live in a building with mostly black women and all of them are single mothers no fathers in sight. I think its just how a lot of black women think they go for the guy thats gonna leave soon as a kid come into the picture.
Younger ones are lost
@@STARSENMTthey don’t know better? Gtfo with that bs. I’m born and raised in Detroit by a struggling single mother and I saw the hood mentality for what it was by the age of 12. I’m currently dating a Hispanic woman who also
Grew up poor but she refused to date drug dealers and gangsters. Your comment is basically saying that most black women are uneducated and easy to manipulate and we both know that’s not true. Black women are allegedly the most educated demographic in America and y’all still turn into groupies whenever a scammers and dope boys with designer clothes come around. Hell, in the very hospital I work at there are plenty of black male pct’s, nurses, radiologists and respiratory therapists. The black women nurses literally rejected us because we make around the same amount of money as them and they want to be hyper famous. The crazy part is that each and every one of them besides one black nurse who I think is the sweetest woman in the world all ended up wannabe rappers and dudes that work the cash register at dollar general. Hell one of my coworkers was kidnapped at gunpoint by her jealous ex boyfriend and lit on fire in an abandoned building. At this point I’m starting to believe that black women are just masochists.
Stop digging thru the hood speaking for all of us
Let’s be real. I’m a black female nerd that loves to sketch, play video games, read, and I joined band throughout my last years of high school. Black guys found me corny. Not to mention I’m darkskin and I wear my natural hair 99% of the time, so that’s a deal breaker. When black men make these statements, I always see them going towards the black women who make it known that they wanna thug. Most black men don’t want black women that don’t want the thugs bc we’re not attractive enough for them. We’re either too dark, our hair is too “nappy”, or we act too white. I’ve seen black men diss darkskin women for lightskin women that dragged their mouth to filth but will complain about black women not wanting them. Majority if not all the men that give me a hard time based upon my looks and how I act is black men so I just stay away🤷🏿♀️.
nerdy black chicks go for thugs,
Say it for the people in the back 👏 🙌 💯 This is the comment we needed!! Thank you Sis for speaking up
What about black male nerds? You probably ignored them
@@robertcortez3526 nope, they we’re chasing after the lightskin and Latinas bc they looked better 🤷🏿♀️. Y’all like to act as if black male nerds don’t have preferences when they do. I wasn’t their preference and can remember clearly how I was “too dark”.
Facts💯💯
They aint lying 1 of the main reason alot of women single cause there thugged out boyfriends are locked up now they street walkers till he come home
Let me explain to you real easily on why they choose a thug over the good guy (aka the educated lame). Even though he's the worst of the worst, that dude is showing alpha male tendencies. She don't have to worry about being protected and provided for. But of course it's only short lived because they'll haul Pookie off to jail. Another reason why and here's the harsh and brutal truth: some of y'all ain't doing your job in the bedroom, that's why she's getting her back blowned by Pookie. I hate to say it but it's the truth and sometimes the truth hurts.
True
Niclas a successful drug dealer is more rare than a guy with a high paying job there are less high earning drugdealers than celebs and athletes
Facts for they for streets why would a school boy want em.
@@ktv9247 well I'm a 🤓 so is my son they don't want us he has all A's&B's ik where he got his 🧠 from.
So they can't control impulse and need to sleep with pookie. So why should we cate that they become single mothers or get abused when they chose guys based on 🍆 size and being a thug?
The first two dudes there's truth in what they're saying.
Has absolutely been my experience as a clean cut, professional black male.
Same. It wasn’t until I became wealthy that BW gave me the time of day. Unfortunately for them, by then I’d figured out what they are like (she-demons in human form), so I was exclusively dating whites and Asians.
Mine too
I'm white, and quite frankly this whole thing baffles me. I'm the furthest thing from a racist, but I never had time for the glorfication of ghetto or thug culture. I get people are born in the hood, but you don't have to accept the values given to you anymore than people in Alabama in a trailer condominium have to express the values they inherited there. I blame gangsta rap for inculcating that this is cool into the culture.
At the same time, I wouldn't say I'm come across as clearn or professional....anyway......I have zero patience for this race BS. Can't take people seeing the world through these lenses anymore. I'm fed up with all this BS.
Same.
It's the areas and type of people you associate with.
Stop the lies . I have never been attracted to thugs ! Neither has my family and friends. I’m sure you don’t like it when people stereotype you as a black man .
You have the same energy when we stereotype WW🤔 As a black man, I've been stereotyped all my life. Why would you as a lovely black woman, if that's your profile pic, assume you are the only group if you will that should be exempted. This is the world we live in. I say all that respectfully 🙏🏾🤷🏾♂️💯
Most bw stereotype black men online and most black women do prefer that
I'm sure your body counts would say otherwise 😂😂
You shouldnt have to play a game with a female to get her
never but we live and learn.
Thank you!!!
The world don't operate like that 😅
maybe
True, I know y'all may think differently but this is truth. Master the game enough to not have to play it so that you can find the right women to fw. Be attractive and seductive enough to make her want to stay with your program while at the same time not giving af if she leaves bc you know you are on your shit bc you're a mf man. Top comment on my book. Good job bro
I see people trying to put this mindset on BW from the hood, but it’s plenty of black fathers who busted their asses to get their daughters as far away from the “ hood “ as possible, best schools, ballet, violin lessons, and somehow she still finds her a man from around the way, especially if the father is from the “ hood” himself.
I’ve seen it too many times, suburban girls now raising their kids in the hood do to choosing a street guy for a mate
It’s a sickness!
BARS!
“I can get ya shit together” why would i take a class to learn ignorance to impress some bird who never picked up book and get tricked by “game”…I’m cool y’all can have em.
Yes… because they are looking at women with no morals and complaining. These dudes are complaining about baddies not wanting them but won’t take the plane Jane. 🤦🏾♀️
Being so clean but when their mouth open you see why they still single.
Bingo I just posted the exact same thing. They overlook us plain jane/boring women for IG baddies. Once they get rejected or played now every black woman ain't ish/we all want thugs. I have never been appreciated by black men until is is too late/they get kicked in the a$$ by the baddie.
what about the ghetto thugs????
These guys pull all types of women lmao there just being honest about most black women in the west
@@King-wl6zj lmao 🤣🤣🤣
They never said baddies. And if we’re being honest, most of y’all look alike now of days.
I really starting to think women don’t know what average is.
I literally told my black chick friend that the way I introduce myself to girls is how are you doing my name is Douglas and she said "that is so corny "
@Square Peg yeah but you can get a white girl like that easy, that's the point
@Square Peg black women want masculinity yet yall have the highest rate of being single mothers 🤣yeah sure white women are easy but at least they have fathers who are present and aint raising kids alone keep chasing swag
That sad I ain’t going to no mark ass school for swag when the dude sitting in the couch is overweight 👀
That is attractive! I felt that way immediately when I read your comment. I'm black. It shows confidence and what your intentions are. Not all girls feel the way that was described :/
Bro, "Doug" is a trash name, lets be fair. If a guy has a bad name that will put me off "a bit." But id just have to give him a nickname😂😂
Anybody else tired of hearing of people telling you what you like and how you are?
I fully understand. They prefer street credit over college credit. Been alone 20 years but I refuse 2 settle for less but I do love Black women
Heard that
The Dean says, they're missing the sleaze in they life 😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love a well put together brotha that is not narcissistic ,shallow or conceited cause thugs like pookies and ray rays, a lot of times can an alive you or just cause a lot of toxicity 👍🏾😇💙😘
I’m from the hood but I’m a nerd so I’ve always liked nice, intelligent dudes. Plus I would never take anyone disrespectful to meet my father. It would be embarrassing. I went to an hbcu and know a lot of black women also like this. Ig it just depends on the person/location. A lot of hood dudes don’t even approach me lol
You wish they did though
I'm a "black chick" I can't stand thugs! I am not into "black culture" the typical things I am supposed to like as a black person. I feel this same way as a female. I'm told I talk too proper but I have learned that it depends on where you are. I've lived in different places and just now seeing that there are good guys, clean cut. I just grew up around less of them. What they are saying is true but there are black females for them, but they are the minority among most black women. I doubt these guys want the baddest black woman according to your standards. They like women that are similar to them. You won't find it in the black club.
This!
There are so many other venues to meet people besides the "club". It has its purpose, but that is not seeking a long term relationship, but a one night stand. Those who grow beyond that will have more success.
" black culture " sound like you don't want to be black ....lol
The point is you not supposed to need game to secure a woman smuv
😂😂😂
black man's plight only
@@AncestralRage what’s funny 😂
🤣
Thats correct go for who wants you let your yes be yes and no be no
These brothers are speaking facts
Same here. They ain't lying. Their speaking from their experiences which is also true for a lot of brothas. So I don't see anything wrong with what they're saying
Me either
They lying.
@@amenajackson8133 negative
I agree with everything they saying.
Yeah, exactly! Then those same women will say:"Oh black men don't like us" then be hatin when Whites or Latinas understand the clean dude is more ambitious than the thug and would rather associate themselves with such guy but clearly black women don't get that at all then we wonder why as people relationship wise we're so broken can't come together ... smh
Latinas are not better.
I’m hollering at how the big dude reacting to it 😂😂
It is mostly true most Black Women are attracted to the "Dusty","Thuggish","Sleezy" Black Male types even if the Good Males treat them with respect 😔
No, women like masculine dudes that exude strength and charisma. Thugs don’t always get the girl if they’re not top quality. Michael Ealy is a clean cut guy and black chicks love him cause he got extra flavor. He’s smooth, chill, charming, and is relatable. He’s not so full of himself and he’s engaging.
@@johnwise4341 masculine but also thuggish. A course not all black women like the thuggish men, but I think a lot of this is a problem within our community seeing how many women were raised around these type of men and how the black music industry push these men out to the public
@@johnwise4341That is a lie. Stop lying to yourself and to us
Those dudes were telling the truth. They don't want clean cut good dudes out here. They want thug looking or actual thug type of guys. It's been this way since the late 00s. And isn't slowing down. They want clean cut dudes when these women get older and more ran through with some kids. They want the clean cut guys to clean them up and add them to their professional status. That's why all these women demand a man at 100k.
Ive also heard: If you dont got illegitimate kids already its a red flag
That get them wet.. you got kids already
Man. It's like a epidemic if you are a BM in your 30s with no kids. What gets me is the ones who like to judge that neglect to mention most BW kids ARE NOT PLANNED. Meaning it you got caught slipping it wasn't your choice st that time although I don't doubt any BW's love for their kids. I've just been smart/careful all these years
African American Woman here to say; my Husband is a clean cut handsome, educated & intelligent man!!!! A confident Man attracts exactly what he wants lol
It is what it is ☺️ some men can't attract black women 😍 I'm One of them. I've always attracted Spanish women 😍.
They attract black women it is not the black women they want. If a black men is attractive he is going to attract black women.
This is cap, I'm not hood or street but I pull the baddies at the black clubs 😂 I dress like a skater/hippie in day to day but preppy when I go out (turtleneck, dress pants, loafers or boots with a bomber or an overcoat for example). I tell a few jokes and never come off thirsty. Not all black women like thugs, they just don't like you 😂
Same shit I’m a regular goodlooking black guy and I be pulling.
Name 5 famous young black women who are married to clean cut black men (no street background, not white or lightskin) go
@@tyronethesungod4606 I don't think you fit their definition of clean cut TYRONE.😂🤣
@@cliffd8380 LOL
"What you talking bout Willis"
You heard it first, take a course at sleezys schools of ebonics and you will have a chance at a bad black girl.
😂😂😂😂
"Black women don't like me." 100% 😊Facts
When you come across as clean cut & not a thug some bw go as far to question your sexuality but will put everything past a dude named Prisonquavious
I can most definitely relate to this because I'm a clean cut type of dude myself!! And this just being honest. Im a lightskin brother!! And just straight forward I haven't had smoothest ride with dating black women. It's always been a back and forth relationship for me. All though I still think they attractive. I have dated non black women as well. And from my experience they have been more responsive to me in the pass the dating black women.
I mean homie proving their point. If you gotta inject "sleaze" into your vibe
...by definition those women like thugs and lames (shrugs)
Pookisha loves the thugs what do u expect from a chick from the hood women tend to pick men who reminds them of their parents this is within all races
Facts 😂
Nah I love men who speak with a good vocabulary and are mentally stimulating in conversations
that's great even though many don't
You are one in a million .
Only 6 million more of you to go. This is great.
Huh? How?.. I know females who are super sweet and have this same preference as me ..
@@ang2gee yeah but you're not around them when they deal with men only when they're around you or you take them at their word. .. most don't want their friends and family to see how they treat their men
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 kjv
“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.”
* A wicked man/woman will get who they deserve, Yahawah (God) makes no mistakes. Dont be swayed by outward beauty or looks.
* Proverbs 31:30 KJV
“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.”
** Beauty is vain. **
This is 100% true I've seen it all my life.
It’s always so weird when I see stuff like this. Every black woman I’m friends with and interact with is married to or dates educated, intelligent BLACK men- not thugs. Me included. And all the women big up the black men and the black men big up the black women. I think this is just bitter people who got rejected and now view all black women (or men) the same. Look- rejection happens. Just keep putting yourself out there, like who you like, and if it works great. If not, well, thats life. Try again until you find the right one. But don’t paint everyone with the same color paint or you’ll miss out on something wonderful. 🤷🏽♀️
I wish women could follow this same advice. the crazy thing is these brothers and even disrespect nobody
Good lord! what kind of black women have they been around? Please stop generalizing black women.
Most black women in America tbf
Black women that's who they've been around 😂😂
& Vice Versa a lot of black men don’t like the nerdy, modest black woman who likes to travel & do adventurous things like nature activities etc. They want the IG baddie that’s in the club every weekend with the least clothes on & the biggest butt.
This is absolute cap you are all the same and only go for the athletes or frat black men
@@ipc_is_better6281 their not all the same you haven't dated every bw I 💕 my people.
Bw follow me and I'm a 🤓 along with having a kid by a bw so miss me with you're 🐂 💩.
That's very true opposites attract but they don't last long
Never
@@ipc_is_better6281for a second I thought you put fat lol
I remember when I was not successful with bw until I start telling them I just got out..immediate success
LOL
I’m a black women that’s in her 40’s and I don’t like the thug types and I had issues picking the wrong men and I will be open to dating my own men again because of bad experiences in dating men from different races! 🙏🏾
What did you notice while dating other races of men? Just curious.
Yeah could you explain sista
I went to school with guy like this, these dude do not be checking for black women
After a certain point, I'm sure they don't. How many times can you get kicked in the dick before you realize you gotta turn away? Lol
Right. I don't get why thier lying acting like they want black women when they really perfer nonblacks.
🙄
Some truth to this
Why would they when they be getting SO MUCH attention from other races of women?
@@ghost99100 so why lie as if black girls are interested u when u perfer nonblack womwn?
Those 2 guys are black but they are the exact opposite of the guys on Krew season. I don’t know what it’s called but yeah most black girls don’t like it. I don’t want to be disparaging but it’s a bit soft.
My husband is very handsome, clean cut and professional. He is not at all hood but he carries himself in a way that lets me know he can protect our family. His masculine fits with my feminine. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
If civilization was failing I trust him to protect and lead our family.
Women are attracted to masculinity. The problem with girls who like hood guys is that it is a false masculinity that is not supported by knowledge or vision. The women who choose hood guys, as well as the hood guys they choose, need to be educated.
Damn you got all that from a 30 sec clip? Lol you're kinda proving their point. Well spoken doesn't mean soft... hell well spoken should be the baseline for black folks.
carmay3600 White Women & Latinas and other races of women seem to like them just fine. Black Women too much to deal with, so a lot of dudes don't deal with ya'll, me included. I can get all types of women. Athlete, cool, swagg, all that. But Black Women don't deserve me, because of those terrible attitudes and bad behavior, so I don't choose them. I like feminine women, that know how to behave around a man.
Their not soft lol they don’t have to act hard to have masculinity
These guys work out they can kick ass and protect. You make zero sense.
You have zero idea what mst black girls like. Speak for yourself.
Black woman becoming Evil idc what nobody say
It's evil women everywhere not just black women and men are evil too lol
All*
that's what it is Man
Many are evil
Demons who follow demons
So because Black women don't like yall it's a them problem not a you problem? 😂
We'll whose fault is it when these women complain about the men they choose? What are we doing here? It's either you didn't want the good man and Pookie was good enough, or something wrong with the good black man and it still wasn't good enough?
Y'all BW be choosing. You get what you get, don't complain later on.
Mostly just them liking thugs with no future
Yeah sure whatever, but is it still their problem, when the ninjas that y'all go for end up deleting y'all? 👀🤦🏿♂️
It's sad that in the black community that our sisters reject the regular guy for the thug, or gangster. They keep saying that they want a Russell Wilson but keep ending up with a Future
I’m a black woman, it’s breaks my heart that black men really think all of us black women wants a thug. Probably why I date outside my race so much. 😢
Can’t forget about YOUR TYPE. The type who don’t date thugs but don’t date educated, decent earning, quality black men. Who look for every excuse to escape your blackness. When you’ll think you’ll made it in life, you’ll skip over all the decent black men to date a yt man. We got to rid our communities of women like you too. Outcast you’ll.
Any intelligent articulate black man knows better. You have choices among your own.
@@gunznrosesfacts 💯💯😂😂🤣🤣
Lmao you hit them with the punch line in that last sentence 😂 🤦🏾♀️
Keep dating outside your race sis! It’s a lie that they tell themselves and to black women in order to justify their preference for whites ladies. Keep doing 😌
That is not necessarily true as a woman who has part African-American descent there is something about a man in a well tailored suit that is so irresistible, that no other man can compare to
That’s what you out there looking for; don’t sit there and lie on black women.
It’s not a lie. It’s an easily observable fact
Being malleable is the word.
Not telling a dude to be a pimp but don’t bring “corporate you” to a day party.
I had my wake up call in my late 20’s.
It’s not authentic unless you’re all the way you. Sure be malleable in certain areas of life but attracting women isn’t one of them. If these women want the guys that’s bad for them, it’s cool. Clean cut guys like myself tend to play the long game. They can get used up, but they’re going to for those types of dudes solely. There’s no going back especially if they have children by them loo
Malleable, code switch, versatile.... it's all interchangeable in a sense. Being good from the block to the boardroom, having a conversation with those from different walks of life and not missing a beat... that should be a life skill, not something to garner the attention of women. If they know they know... if they don't, that's their loss... lol
Gotta be like NYC cats...corporate/ghetto in a heartbeat.
@@FlyingImmortalfr though😂
Please stop spreading this lie. Not all women are the same 💯💯
These comments from black men are disgusting. I think BW don’t like them because they lead with “BW don’t usually like me”
@@Hotpants30 no I'm Nigerian and I don't like you akatas neither
@memeking2696 West Africans, like Nigerians. Really, aren't that attractive phenotypically. So nobody's really missing out on a Nigerian not being attracted to them.
Nigerians always have horrible skin due to all the self-hatred skin bleaching.
Hard to tell these days.
Exactly. They’re usually attracted to dysfunction. This is why a wise man avoids them.
As a black woman, I can definitely say that articulate and handsome is quite attractive.
Only after your 30...for the most part
@@youngeast5309 Faaaacts lol I had to dumb down my conversation when I was in my 20s. But everyone is "sapiosexual" 🤣
@@yourname487 They are. They like guys with amazing vernacular like “The…Cat…in… The… Hat”
Or pseudo intellectual like Kevin Gates with his infinite fake Moslem word salad 😂
Nope. To them all black women are the same.
Nonblack women get to be individual.
When it’s a white boy… y’all be playing games when black dudes embody those same qualities. That’s what really irritates me if I’m being transparent.
I Ain’t CHANGE AND DESTROYING MY COMMUNITY FOR NOBODY!
I’m the opposite. If you can’t carry a conversation without always saying “ya’ mean”, the door is closed.
You guys are just around the wrong type of black woman🤷🏾♂️. A lot of black women are not attracted to the thug types.
Ik this is stupid who a woman is attracted to is a reflection of who she is
No thanks. That's nonsense I don't want to learn.
I appreciate a man who is clean cut & dresses nice.
95 % black women are like , pokie gave 3 kids and here comes Ray Ray giving her 4 and then both dudes be like I gotta go make them rubber bands and end up come back with nothing
And the truth be told. I'm not a black women's type neither. But it's all good!! I'm definitely one those guys who keeps myself up dress nice and etc . As Austin was saying the clean cut Professional RnB type of look!! Lol.. But the situations I've been in definitely go a little deeper as well with what I have been through!!
“Western” is what you wanna put before black chicks or any chick for that matter. Most black Caribbean based culture girls, South American girls, and African girls not like that. I’ve met some cool down to earth aussies and Afro Dutch women too but they lived out in the rural areas of their country. Find yourself a coconut (islander) or a motherland gal that’s not westernized or still has her heritage morales and upbringing and you won’t look back💯💯💯
I was born and raised in the hood all my life... dated hood niggahs but i wasn't born with a hood mentality. I did like hood boogers until I reprogrammed my mindset awakened to the matrix and their agenda to keep colored folks oppressed and lack mentality...I always attracted hood boogers cause of the generational curse I had on my life. but also in the same accord wanted better for my life... a honorable man in all aspect of his life... but cause of the matrix assigned me people who I was blind sided thinking that love me all my life.. gaslighting me and wishing on my downfall wanted the worst for me I never had the privilege to attract that type of man.... until now.... I just had to break that generational curse off my life cut those demons clean tf out my life and want better...now the universe and my ancestors say I'm ready for what I'm manifesting...
Clean cut rnb type of look. Yup I’d rather look like Brian McKnight than lil Wayne any day.
to all the men , thank you for speaking for every single black women in the world. Forgive me as I dont recall meeting anyone of you and sharing my preference and importance in life. But thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts.
It’s not really about every black women in the world, but you have to admit that at least in the US the majority of black women do want a hood/thug guy. Like that is not even a debatable fact, yes there are outliers
thank you for confirming. Have you created a research study that is IRB-approved? What is your timeline? What method of inquiry will you be using? oh, don't let me forget about consent forms. I would love to know where I may find your published research journal so that I can read it! @@kingtimmy9491
You welcome
It's the other way around for me . Anything thug is not my thing.
I believe you.. they want us to think all bw are into thugs its just not true
Correct me if I am wrong, but weren’t you both birthed by a black woman🤔. Not all black women are the same. Why are some young black men so negative towards our black women? All the other races already speak so negative about us. However, Hispanic men stand up for Hispanic women and protect them, white men stand up for their white women and protect them,etc…The real issue here is that, we try to approach our “type” but not look for character in who we “need”, because if we do, we will find some amazing black sisters for sure who would treat you real good.
Wrong.
So u call this being negative??
Sad to hear this. Good decisions make all the difference in life.
What's that supposed to mean
Don't believe the hype
I say thins all the time. Black women like thugs bc they’re sexually attracted to them. It takes another level to like a clean cut guy, because you’ll actually be happier with them if you stay.
Only our race thinks like this that’s the sad part
Facts black women can keep ‘‘em we good over here
Because they good in bed
Let's say Denzel Washington
Was single! Black women wouldn't want him! Why!
Because he isn't a Pushover!
And a Fool!.
🧢 just keep it a stack. Most black women only check for guys that are as emotional or toxic as themselves. It’s all about the vibes right? FOH 🧢
Sounds like your emotional or toxic. Women love aggressive men.
@@coreythomas3633 Talking about what women like, and ya'll ain't gone none. Or if you do, they busted, I can guarantee that LOL
@@ManCodeTV grow up
@@ManCodeTV women love men who dominate rather you like it or not.
@@kenyattathompson6685 EXACTLY
Listen hopefully this helps a guy. Do not try and be what they want be you. This dude at the end shouldn't be competing for the same women as this guy. Don't stoop down just go where you are appreciated
I was kinda thinking that. If you close your eyes, it kinda sound like 2 white guys talking. Black women like them a little rough around the edges and sound like a black guy. If that make any sense.
And thats why they arr single mothers
I get what you mean. They seem to already be more in tune with whiteness. At the end of the day we want someone we can relate to.
@@tikaroxanne7286that sounded dumb. When you learn a new language do learn it the black or white.
These Guys reminds me of the on BEVERLY HILLS Cop........😶👀👀.....I'M NOT GOING TO FALL FOR STICKING!🤣🤣🤣 THAT BANANA IN MY TAILPIPE!😶😶TRICK!😂😂😂😂😂