I've been researching this topic a lot lately, but Tim breaks it down in a much more helpful way Unfortunately I don't remember most my childhood and especially struggle to remember feelings, so I will have to figure out another route, but knowing more about what it is is great
Thank you for your extensive knowledge support and these videos! I’ve been looking for pieces to a puzzle! Over 45 yrs I’ve lived with Suppressed emotions except rage and anger because it was expected in my family (man up) I’ve been thru multiple counselors each giving small pieces to add to this puzzle but these videos gave me a boatload of insight and now with my current counselor I’ve made progress instead of just wanting to end it all. ❤
I’ve never had the body pain that so many have but I’ve struggled with chronic fatigue all my life. I’d trade places any day-it’s been life destroying.
This is so interesting Ive had heat in my neck so often and need to stretch to ease release the heat away. My neck and jaw as a kid used to cramp up alot I'd get stuck. This is so helpful thank you for this informative video.
This is so hard for me as I had chronic pain 24/7 from 5 years old and even my first memories as a toddler are all pain inflicted I don’t have many memories of anything other than the pain and abuse inflicted on me from abusers I have somatic flashbacks trying to understand the pain but it’s just more pain event after another 😢
I think I feel pretty stable emotionally or perhaps I cannot feel emotions? Growing up, I was not supposed to express myself unless it was positive in regards to my parents actions or wishes. If I was sad or angry, I either got ignored or made fun of. So I shut down since my feelings did not matter. I feel like I am emotionally mature as in my reaction to things as I don't over-react, but idk, I probably "under-react!" I CAN say that I never allow emotions to take over and act without proper consideration. This is a complicated topic for me, just to try and describe my "ways" of expressing how I feel (since I was trained NOT to be "difficult" in this manner). Another related topic is that I can stay cool as a cucumber while everyone around me is freaking out. I don't know why I am different in this way? Btw, I enjoy this videos immensely. This is the first one that has made me feel a bit confused.
It's not actually feeling. Before processing therapy, I thought I was feeling moments of being happy but afterwards I came to feel that I was maybe at best feeling it only 10-30 percent. It's part of the protection response of fawn, we displace ourselves so well to be attuned sponges to protect ourselves it's what we think is ourselves and normal state of being. I will say, this is why it's known to have safety protocols in place before going down serious processing therapy. It's not just happiness that's only felt 10-30 percent, it's everything and the rage, shame, hate, disgust, fear, anger, etc etc etc is all running at less than 30 percent so when it hits, it's a lot. Trauma therapy stage one gets you prepped for it but tbh, nothing really preps for it just have to have tools in place to be safe and stay safe and not do anything harmful. Most want to many times or for a period of time, but once through it, you're no longer running from yourself 70-90 percent of existing, and running from experiencing feelings at any more than 30 percent of their intended capacity.
Brother, you can be whole again, ask Jesus to come into your life by reading *the surrender prayer by father Dolindo Ruotolo* its miraculous! I will pray for you 🙏 God 🌿 bless you forever 🌿 🙏
You can't become a person who didn't experience what you did, but you can get to a better place than where you start from, and it's possible to get to a point where you can relax, feel good and be happy, at least some of the time, so you can cope better when you don't. I started where you are, I'm so sorry you're having to start there too. ❤
If we do not use our imaginations.And start where we are at and only deal with fact like you said you're just going to be here until you die... Everything else is a bunch of words that create a bunch of emotions that torment your heart and create a scenario from which you make-believe that 1 day something is going to make. But if you're OK just here until you die. Watching the show, then you're okay..😅
@@mia365o a ton I’m getting a lot of help I believe when I wrote this down, I was in the middle of severe complex grief. I’m not sure if that’s exactly what it was, but I looked up some symptoms and I think that’s what was happening. I was able to ship my focus to other things. How about you? How are you feeling?
Anything that effects you emotionaly can create dis ease in the body. High stress emotional experiences makes my body break out. The 2 break ups in my life I found my body massively breaking out. Many people get hives from too much stress. Our bodies hormonal response to life creates many things in our body. Best to you resolving your cyst. Suggest you see a dermatologist as trying to remove them yourself often results in them reoccurring. Best to you healing and loving yourself.
I'm not a doctor but I suffered from a boil very painful (staphilococus aureus). It was cut but didn't drained because it would close over and over again. Taking a whole bunch of antibiotic until one doctor told me not to have any dairy products for a month, especially milk, and it dried up. If you try it, take calcium but when I say not to take any dairy products I mean nothing at all, not even butter or yogurt. It could also be hormones related, like most stuff with cptsd. Living long term in survival mode mess up your whole body due to high cortisol, adrenaline and so on.
@@Lyrielonwind i did not ask you seriously random people responding is the worst on youtube ! specifically name is mentioned for whom the query is. so please
@@siya7213dude seriously, that other person was just trying to be nice and offer their personal experience and advice to you. And you just turn around and treat them bad "I didn't ask for your random opinion".... come on man really
@@imamountainheadtoo same for you. nobody asked you. ALL OF YOU NEED TO STOP BEING THE DOCTOR. QUERY IS DIRECTLY ASKED WITH @ SIGN TO SOMEONE. NOT TO OTHERS
I've been researching this topic a lot lately, but Tim breaks it down in a much more helpful way
Unfortunately I don't remember most my childhood and especially struggle to remember feelings, so I will have to figure out another route, but knowing more about what it is is great
Tears began to well up. Thank you so much for something so simple to be so liberating.
Thank you for your extensive knowledge support and these videos! I’ve been looking for pieces to a puzzle! Over 45 yrs I’ve lived with Suppressed emotions except rage and anger because it was expected in my family (man up) I’ve been thru multiple counselors each giving small pieces to add to this puzzle but these videos gave me a boatload of insight and now with my current counselor I’ve made progress instead of just wanting to end it all. ❤
Thanks
I’ve never had the body pain that so many have but I’ve struggled with chronic fatigue all my life. I’d trade places any day-it’s been life destroying.
This is so interesting Ive had heat in my neck so often and need to stretch to ease release the heat away.
My neck and jaw as a kid used to cramp up alot I'd get stuck.
This is so helpful thank you for this informative video.
Based on the number of views all of Tim's videos are getting it's clear that so many of us are suffering from complex trauma.
This is so hard for me as I had chronic pain 24/7 from 5 years old and even my first memories as a toddler are all pain inflicted I don’t have many memories of anything other than the pain and abuse inflicted on me from abusers I have somatic flashbacks trying to understand the pain but it’s just more pain event after another 😢
This is so me ❤.
I think I feel pretty stable emotionally or perhaps I cannot feel emotions? Growing up, I was not supposed to express myself unless it was positive in regards to my parents actions or wishes. If I was sad or angry, I either got ignored or made fun of. So I shut down since my feelings did not matter. I feel like I am emotionally mature as in my reaction to things as I don't over-react, but idk, I probably "under-react!" I CAN say that I never allow emotions to take over and act without proper consideration. This is a complicated topic for me, just to try and describe my "ways" of expressing how I feel (since I was trained NOT to be "difficult" in this manner). Another related topic is that I can stay cool as a cucumber while everyone around me is freaking out. I don't know why I am different in this way? Btw, I enjoy this videos immensely. This is the first one that has made me feel a bit confused.
I am exactly like you. I think we have become numb?
It's not actually feeling. Before processing therapy, I thought I was feeling moments of being happy but afterwards I came to feel that I was maybe at best feeling it only 10-30 percent. It's part of the protection response of fawn, we displace ourselves so well to be attuned sponges to protect ourselves it's what we think is ourselves and normal state of being. I will say, this is why it's known to have safety protocols in place before going down serious processing therapy. It's not just happiness that's only felt 10-30 percent, it's everything and the rage, shame, hate, disgust, fear, anger, etc etc etc is all running at less than 30 percent so when it hits, it's a lot. Trauma therapy stage one gets you prepped for it but tbh, nothing really preps for it just have to have tools in place to be safe and stay safe and not do anything harmful. Most want to many times or for a period of time, but once through it, you're no longer running from yourself 70-90 percent of existing, and running from experiencing feelings at any more than 30 percent of their intended capacity.
@@RavingKats omggg you are so true love. Thnku for describing it. Much love to you
I can't be fixed. I just survive untill I'm dead. The end.
Brother, you can be whole again, ask Jesus to come into your life by reading *the surrender prayer by father Dolindo Ruotolo* its miraculous!
I will pray for you 🙏
God 🌿 bless you forever 🌿 🙏
You can't become a person who didn't experience what you did, but you can get to a better place than where you start from, and it's possible to get to a point where you can relax, feel good and be happy, at least some of the time, so you can cope better when you don't. I started where you are, I'm so sorry you're having to start there too. ❤
Try asking God alone for help. Do it sincerely and let that be the only thing you do. He will guide u the rest of the way
If we do not use our imaginations.And start where we are at and only deal with fact like you said you're just going to be here until you die... Everything else is a bunch of words that create a bunch of emotions that torment your heart and create a scenario from which you make-believe that 1 day something is going to make. But if you're OK just here until you die. Watching the show, then you're okay..😅
That is a lie you believe. You can be fixed and whole again . Let yourself heal . Give yourself some time each day. 🤗
I’d like to drop a comment here. My body feels fine. No aches. No pains. Just no appetite, plus so hard to really sleep. My body is ok
Same here. Hard to fall asleep then in the morning I wake up depressed
@@deborahlincoln-strange622 I’ll keep you in my thoughts
Do you know what problems you have emotionally
Does figuring out the painful emotions help with sleep
@@mia365o a ton
I’m getting a lot of help
I believe when I wrote this down, I was in the middle of severe complex grief. I’m not sure if that’s exactly what it was, but I looked up some symptoms and I think that’s what was happening. I was able to ship my focus to other things. How about you? How are you feeling?
Scientology: tone scale in full.
Wtflip
CAN IT FORM A SEBACEOUS CYST ?
Yes, those cysts are manifestations of stress.
Anything that effects you emotionaly can create dis ease in the body. High stress emotional experiences makes my body break out. The 2 break ups in my life I found my body massively breaking out. Many people get hives from too much stress. Our bodies hormonal response to life creates many things in our body. Best to you resolving your cyst. Suggest you see a dermatologist as trying to remove them yourself often results in them reoccurring. Best to you healing and loving yourself.
@Tim Fletcher
CAN IT FORM A SEBACEOUS CYST ? Something that needs to be operated by a doctor. cause thr is no opening formed.
I'm not a doctor but I suffered from a boil very painful (staphilococus aureus). It was cut but didn't drained because it would close over and over again. Taking a whole bunch of antibiotic until one doctor told me not to have any dairy products for a month, especially milk, and it dried up.
If you try it, take calcium but when I say not to take any dairy products I mean nothing at all, not even butter or yogurt.
It could also be hormones related, like most stuff with cptsd. Living long term in survival mode mess up your whole body due to high cortisol, adrenaline and so on.
@@Lyrielonwind i did not ask you
seriously random people responding is the worst on youtube !
specifically name is mentioned for whom the query is.
so please
@@siya7213dude seriously, that other person was just trying to be nice and offer their personal experience and advice to you. And you just turn around and treat them bad "I didn't ask for your random opinion".... come on man really
@@imamountainheadtoo same for you.
nobody asked you. ALL OF YOU NEED TO STOP BEING THE DOCTOR. QUERY IS DIRECTLY ASKED WITH @ SIGN TO SOMEONE. NOT TO OTHERS
@@siya7213 yeah well nobody asked for you to be a dick but here we are.
I have been catatonically depressed for years.
FTW
The world is superficial
GOD IS NOT A TRUE HUMAN
ATLEAST HE IS NOT ME.
SO HE DID NOT EXPERIENCE WHAT I EXPERIENCE AS MUCH AS HE MAYBE CLAIMS
Thanks