Everything they said touched on an issue I had been dealing with in my marriage. It ended for the very reasons they are discussing. I just could not get my wife to communicate in general or work with me on getting debt free. I achieve debt freedom without her help but the lingering communication issues and the resentment from doing everything alone were just to much even though we were no longer struggling financially. Listen to the wise words spoken by Tai and Talaat, they may just save your marriage!
How I wish my husband can come to party and sit down with me, I don't even know how much my husband is getting paid. He knows my salary. I had to get a credit card in order to supplement my income and it was not working at all. I managed to pay off the credit card. I'm also planning to close the kids clothing account so that I don't get to ask my husband for money.
I'm on this situation now, my wife just left my house. With my three kids and she refused picking my call, I have business debt that I'm working so hard to pay off, I don't even know what to do. She knows I work very hard to pay this debt off but she refused to be patient with me. I don't really want to be dealing with marital problem and dealing with financial challenges at the same time.
This video should be pinned to your par! For my hubby and I, being transparent and communicating was key. I started by being the example of talking about my fears with finances and my spending habits and desires. Then listened (which is an area I'm working to improve) when he opened up about the same. I share your videos and Dave Ramsey newsletters with him as well. It's incrementally improving but I refuse to let the devil take my marriage over money. Thank you for continuing to share your knowledge T&T!
hey there guys i really love this channel, i have subscribed to a lot of different channels but this is one that i can really relate to . I just looked at the video that you speak about the 13 accounts that you have. I was wondering for all the accounts that you have does the money come from you one check or source of income and then just take out some say 20-30.00, and place it in the accounts just asking to get some understanding
I wish I can do this steps with my husband but in his mind he works for his money and i work for mine, so i have no buisness getting into what he does with his
when was clean about al the money i earned and i would pay all the bills my husband would make excuses for not working. he went round issues and would do totally nothing . he would wait i earn a lump sum to give him to start business but he would not want to do dirty work of selling the groceries he farmed.he wants i earn money he decide what we do. he pretends we are deciding but deceives in a way and we end up doing his way which does not yield. he does not like paying debts but likes borrowing even from my relatives without my consent. i am angry. he would even keep rent in his pocket for w a whole month not pay it then misuse then the next month he ask me for double rent. i am bitter. i don't know who tell.
This is driving us apart, but he choose not to take part, he will buy fake poker chips and coins for online games that he gets nothing in return, I then find myself buying take out food
stephanie dilbeck I hope your relationship can work through this. I started with just focusing on me - what I personally could do to be better with money. Then that money I didn't spend, went towards a bill.
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Everything they said touched on an issue I had been dealing with in my marriage. It ended for the very reasons they are discussing. I just could not get my wife to communicate in general or work with me on getting debt free. I achieve debt freedom without her help but the lingering communication issues and the resentment from doing everything alone were just to much even though we were no longer struggling financially. Listen to the wise words spoken by Tai and Talaat, they may just save your marriage!
I agree.
How I wish my husband can come to party and sit down with me, I don't even know how much my husband is getting paid. He knows my salary. I had to get a credit card in order to supplement my income and it was not working at all. I managed to pay off the credit card. I'm also planning to close the kids clothing account so that I don't get to ask my husband for money.
@@Stutja how you don’t know this info? This makes no sense... Where are the tax papers? I guess you do not have his password on his phone as well?
I'm on this situation now, my wife just left my house. With my three kids and she refused picking my call, I have business debt that I'm working so hard to pay off, I don't even know what to do. She knows I work very hard to pay this debt off but she refused to be patient with me. I don't really want to be dealing with marital problem and dealing with financial challenges at the same time.
Transparency, respect, communication, plan of attack, accountability. This was an eye opening step by step guide very useful for marriage.
This video should be pinned to your par! For my hubby and I, being transparent and communicating was key. I started by being the example of talking about my fears with finances and my spending habits and desires. Then listened (which is an area I'm working to improve) when he opened up about the same. I share your videos and Dave Ramsey newsletters with him as well. It's incrementally improving but I refuse to let the devil take my marriage over money. Thank you for continuing to share your knowledge T&T!
My marriage is in trouble now for my money managing mistakes. Thanks for the video
Thank you guys for the new outlook on finances for me and my future spouse
Thanks you two. You are really helping my wife and I.
Credit cards are an issue. Online shopping hasn’t helped either. Too many temptations these days. Not pointing fingers. Thanks for the video.
I’m having trouble management my finances. I’m trying to pay the bills but I’ve been having trouble using money for the wrong thing.
Great video! Communication is key!
Thanks for sharing this information. May God bless u. I will share with my companion.
Thanks for sharing!
Your channel is so much inspiration!
Wow, thank you so much for your kind words!
Thank you guys,your videos are a blessing. God bless you two
Am doing this on loud speaker 🔊🔊🔊,,, am not sure if she's listening
Hahaha same here hope she listen carefully
Okay!!!! Can she get a word in too pls?! Omg
Wonderful message worthy trying.
Thank you guys.
Our pleasure!
Great message 👍🏽
But how do you get your spouse to follow these steps with you
Pray about these steps asking God to work on your spouse's heart on these matters & allow God to step in & change your spouse's heart🙏🏻
An awesome word! Thumbs up indeed. :)
Thank you
You're welcome
Excellent video!
hey there guys i really love this channel, i have subscribed to a lot of different channels but this is one that i can really relate to . I just looked at the video that you speak about the 13 accounts that you have. I was wondering for all the accounts that you have does the money come from you one check or source of income and then just take out some say 20-30.00, and place it in the accounts just asking to get some understanding
I wish I can do this steps with my husband but in his mind he works for his money and i work for mine, so i have no buisness getting into what he does with his
His money should be YOURS too. 5/50 relationships never work. Men should take care of certain things without complaint and women with other things.
Nice work
Very helpful. Going to try this. Also if you guys ever need background music let me know? I'm a music artist in the Bay Area. Peace Jonah Melvon
What if my wife know the money I earn but still demand more .
when was clean about al the money i earned and i would pay all the bills my husband would make excuses for not working. he went round issues and would do totally nothing . he would wait i earn a lump sum to give him to start business but he would
not want to do dirty work of selling the groceries he farmed.he wants i earn money he decide what we do. he pretends we are deciding but deceives in a way and we end up doing his way which does not yield. he does not like paying debts but likes borrowing even from my relatives without my consent. i am angry. he would even keep rent in his pocket for w a whole month not pay it then misuse then the next month he ask me for double rent. i am bitter. i don't know who tell.
@@harrisonrebecca191 thanks
I feel you sister.
It hurts.
This is driving us apart, but he choose not to take part, he will buy fake poker chips and coins for online games that he gets nothing in return, I then find myself buying take out food
stephanie dilbeck I hope your relationship can work through this. I started with just focusing on me - what I personally could do to be better with money. Then that money I didn't spend, went towards a bill.
Wow
Great advice! Thank you🙏🏼