Why ENTPs Love INTJs
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
- INTJ Personality Type : Ni Te Fi Se Ne Ti Fe Si
ENTP Personality Type : Ne Ti Fe Si Ni Te Fi Se
Cognitive Functions
Perceiving Functions - Se Si Ne Ni
The four perceiving functions influence how we understand our reality right now. Your past experiences are Si, your current reality is Se, your plan for the future is Ni, and Ne is all the crazy connections and randomness along the way.
Judging Functions - Fe Fi Te Ti
The four judging functions influence our decisions we make everyday. We listen to the Fe feedback of our community, listen to our own Fi beliefs, trust how we understand a certain thing using our Ti framework, and lastly taking Te objective action.
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INTJ here married to an ENTP for 21 years. On the surface it makes no sense, we have nothing in common but this video nails it.
Dating an ENTP and we also have very little in common, but there's still such a strong bond there. Congrats
Intj’s are the best for entp’s, if they are both incredibly healthy and have a growth mindset. It is like a power duo, but they can’t have unresolved trauma. Otherwise it is gonna power duo, but the arms are aimed at each other instead of the world
Not really, intj r ni te n entps ne ti (belief is 60% same but rest 40% is totally opposite)
Intj is literally the entps perfect match lol. Perfectly balanced as all things should be.
As a INTJ, I didn't believe in MBTI, but for the first time I feel comprehended. Thank you.
MBTI makes sense if you dont believe in BS tests. If you read up on cognitive functions, it helps a lot. But still MBTI only tells you what cognitive functions you use, not how you use them. I went from being mistyped as INTJ to finally figuring out im an ENTP lmao.
MBTI only becomes bullshit if you know too little about it, because of stereotypes.
As an INTJ, you can't say "As a INTJ" and follow it by "I don't believe in MBTI" because for you to be an INTJ you have to take that fact from the existence of MBTI and if you don't believe in it you won't consider yourself an INTJ
@@LeoDanteAlexander As a "supposedly" intj
Me too
My best friend (with whom I sadly lost touch) was an ENTP. We used to have the greatest, craziest conversations for hours. And we laughed a lot. As an INTJ, this is very hard to find for me. Seeing this video made me remember all that fun stuff. Cheers.
😢 I'm INTJ girl my ex boyfriend is ENTP also we're so unique together 😢;((
Me too! I am an INTj female. I don’t relate with many people. I feel for you.
my INTJ actually met me at a very young age. we had a school festival in a grand ballroom when we were 8. out of nowhere i asked her 'do you want to know where u would die an instant death?' and she wanted to so i brought her to stand right under a ginormous, golden chandelier and told her to look up. we're best friends now :>
Ksjxisjskskdiufufjfk thats sooo funny you wanted to scare her but it took a different turn
This honestly sounds hilarious yet fascinating at the same time.😂
I'm a 22 yr old INTJ girl and have been best friends with an ENTP for 8 years now. She came up to me freshman year of high school when I was the new kid and literally harassed me into becoming friends. When I gave her shit though, she liked me even more for it.
I am so grateful to have someone in my life as conniving as myself. Banter and lighthearted bullying is the default show of affection for both of us. I don't get along with people who can't take a bit of a beating, so to have a friend that takes it and dishes it right back to me is invaluable to my wellbeing lol. (Our INFP friend can't really handle when we tease her)
We balance each other well. She's constantly coming up with new visions for her life, new business ideas, new boyfriends, new degrees. Always trying to take on wayyy more than she can chew (bitch bought a horse during covid.....) . That's when I can step in steer her to a path of least resistance, or advise her out of a ridiculous situation. I can usually see the flaws in her plans immediately, and so I'm her favorite sounding board. But unlike most of the people in her life, I'm not intimidated by her and can actually tell her she's wrong (when she is, which is rare).
On the other hand, when my tunnel vision kicks in, and I start isolating myself, she's there to remind me "HEY. Other people exist." Her Fe and Ne are vital in my life. She forces me to actually have fun...what a pain.
When we hang out we don't do much other than talk. For hours on end. We certainly trash talk people, systems, the world, etc. often. We're both a bit mean spirited and egotistical, but it's all in good fun ;)
What you said about both of us struggling to grapple with reality together is dead on. Maybe we enable each other a BIT too much, but the solidarity definitely helps.
I find that I often gravitate towards ENTPs. I find their open-mindedness and curiosity really stimulating, and then there's the air of confidence they exude. Hot. Simply put. Y'all are just COOL.
also...we have a running competition for messiest room. We used to play hopscotch in the few open patches on my floor...
A HORSE???
Hahahaha I like how you described her
why would you write all that
This intj loves you 2 wonderful people. What a great bond
What a dumb comment @@mohammedbedru5212
23 INTJ I always liked this ENTP boy since I was 15. He was such an interesting person to talk and share BUT he was so annoying 🤣 I always thought he saw me only as a friend. Turns out he liked me too. We found out at 19 but we didn't wanna ruin our friendship. At 21 we started a relationship since we couldn't stop talking (and flirting) to each other. We've been together for 2 years now and we're just so compatible. Everything is better together, so if you're an intj as me go find you entp.
P.D. Enfp are besties 😊
My partner of 8 yrs is an INTJ and he is literally the only person in my world who I don't have to dial up Fe because it takes a lot to offend him and my sh*t talk and wicked wit just amuses him. I have accidentally offended him and it always surprises me when it happens because it's regarding a deeply private value that I didn't know existed until I hit that nerve. It's rare though.
Probably try to find more of those weak spots like a good ENTP would? Lol
Interesting
Ironically I'm an INTJ.. and I get upset for the same reason ( values) lol
As an Intj male I've never been offended by a partner before, in fact usually with girls I have to encourage them to be more outspoken and stop apologizing all the time for nothing 😂
I'm an ENTP Software Engineer and my younger brother is INTJ Law Student. Nothing can top our discussions and debates. I love him for his annoyingly analytical approach of seeing the world.
ENTP software engineers? Interesting. I never found one in my office in 10+ years. I hope your colleagues have a great time.
INTJ here. My apartment is always super clean and organized… except for one whole room which is a complete mess. I tell myself that this is only temporary but my unconscious knows that it is not and it always tries to tell me that I do need deal with it by giving me the terrifying feeling that one day I will loose control over my life if I do not stop throwing random stuff in there. But I won’t give up that easily 😁
🤣 relatable.
My INTJ partner keeps the house immaculate except for our bedroom, which looks like totally different people live there. So messy. I love it though because as an ENTP, I find it very difficult to efficiently and consistently keep anything clean.
Ok I move in.
I am 33, an INTJ male. Recently (8 months now) started dating an ENTP, she is 32. I'll have to re-watch the video because I've forgotten most of what you said but you're spot on. Interestingly enough, we met online through a dating app, very haphazardly.. I can't say that I've ever encountered someone who made me feel like they were interested in the things I was saying while simultaneously blasting me with conversation and questions for hours on end. It's not like I haven't had below surface level conversation with other women (INFJ included) but she was so apparently different(to me) in temperament. We were hooked on each other instantly and have spent very little time apart since. Originally I was thinking ENTJ but after I met her and we spent a little time together.. it was evident that was absolutely not the case(in her family, she leaves what is called the "trail of tears" and I can attest to this sentiment in full lol). What a ball of chaos with the attention span of a gnat.. and I'd say this to her face and she would absolutely agree without blinking.
It is not a seamless, flawless relationship and she steps on my morals a bit more than I'd care for. One of the things that I appreciate the most about her and something that I noticed early on was her ability to recognize this and self correct. Our arguments are very short lived as we've both aged and matured. This is absolutely necessary and I couldn't agree with you more on the young ENTP and INTJ romance perspective. It would be and would have been for me, extremely difficult(I don't think impossible.. obviously).
I could go on endlessly regarding this particular topic and since this is the longest comment I've ever left on the TH-cam, will end it here and with this. Regardless of what happens, this has been one of the better relationships (romantic or otherwise) that I've had. It's difficult to connect with people in a way that I find satisfactory but with ENTP it's something special for me personally. Without question my favorite type.
Beware of the ENTP's limbo nests. They will pop up all over the house. Clean but not washed clothes, stacks of paper with indetermenet importance, and of course the infamous junk drawer. You have been warned.
@@DarklyYours hilarious! 😂
good to have an intj that keep us on our toes then😉
INFJ woof. So far I'm not impressed with how that sign conducts business. I could write an article but I won't.
I'm INTJ-F (basically 50/50 on the T and F). I read your longest ever YT comment and wanted to ask you, How is the relationship with the ENTP holding up for you?
@@kohnfutner9637 I feel you. INFJ can be a real gauntlet of a relationship. Maybe that gives them a unique sort of charm. (ENTP speaking)
@@kohnfutner9637 It has been challenging but very much worth the growth. There are weird little things that I have had to get use to. For instance leaving work; Very quiet drive home, listen to a podcast, a book, maybe some music but rarely - looking forward to continuing this behavior for pretty much the rest of the night. Upon entering she will have already been waiting for me, dancing to blasting club rap music.. on the coffee table and/or our island(we moved in together a few months ago). If they're awake and you're around - you will be spoken to and it will be a lot and it will become very unrelated to the original topic.
She is very much of the policy 'ask for forgiveness, not permission' which can make me very very uncomfortable depending on what she's trying to get away with. Which is often. It's been amazing being with her in a social capacity and seeing how she navigates different circumstances(this is been a huge help to me personally) - she takes very bold risks when conversing with and approaching people(in my opinion). Reaching for jokes or comments that I would have considered very ill placed and timed but more often than not work in her favor and if they don't she recognizes it immediately and changes tact - if you have never watched this live, ENTPs read people LIGHTNING FAST, it's just instantaneous.
With regards to doing battle. Which you will have to. You'd better be ready to box, DO NOT go after an ENTP woman(or probably male) if you are not sure of yourself or how strong your argument is based on facts and logic. If you get shit on and you will, it's your own fault lol. If you are sure, stand your ground. It could get pretty ugly. They know how to cut deep(speaking from experience and believe me, they see things you don't(more to INTJs)) and may lash out with some pretty hurtful words and it will be extremely unexpected and way out of left field. Let it go and if it's really bad, just walk away. Let them be with the guilt, they know what they said and how badly it could have hurt. They'll come back and either address the solution or just implement it, so long as it's a better way of doing business. That's been my experience at least. She has actually told me on a number of occasions(repeats stories and events constantly) that one of the things she was most attracted to was that I wouldn't back down from her when she was being a brat(which is often). Though I'd argue that is true of any relationship..
I'm rambling and losing my train of thought.. Thanks for asking :p
An ENTP can win an argument with an INTJ if they don’t make a front attack.. just do empathy; then show a different perspective and allow the INTJ to see that they are wrong..
Very true. Fe wants to make Fi feel good... which the INTJ is fairly in touch with. They also expect to do the thinking all the time. The best way to win any argument is to come from an unexpected perspective. ENTP "attacks" Feelings, and the INTJ doesn't expect it. That would work very well.
@@elypelowski5670 We are ENTPs. We're going to conduct social experiments on you guys to figure you out. Although I guess now that you know the you will be on the watch. 😂
@@elypelowski5670 Maybe in your point of view. But an ENTP would find an INTJ very interesting, I believe. I would. I find INFJs interesting. Also, the fact that you posted that comment is interesting to me. Simplicity is relative to the one judging the simplicity (sort of; at least between xNTx types).
There’s this girl who does exactly that to me
@@elypelowski5670 speak for yourself, I’m neither boring, nor simple
Mysterious but predictable is a better description
I'm an ENTP female and I recently met an amazing truly smart (to my surprise) make INTJ... I gotta admit it, this guy gives me unbelievable brain orgasms, lol.... Though I'm very chaotic, very unorganized, I get bored easily, and way too talkative and argumentative, i will tell him straight to face what I think and how I feel and it seems like it doesn't scare him as it happened with many other types and he replies in a way that satisfys my curiosity about his thoughts and feelings but at the same time, leaves a big part of himself unrevealed.. Making him much more interesting for me to explore since he remains partly a mystery.
He understands the chaotic way i speak, the random information i drop many times and what I mean most of the time without effort and other questions which is actually very surprising to me... Most people don't, lol.
These things are major mental turnons to me. I think I'm really falling in love with him and I just hate losing control of my mind and my feelings.
Though I can clearly see that we have some fundamental differences. I tend to want to analyze and speak about everything, I rarely keep secrets, he s much more introverted than me and he prefers to get lost in his books.. Reading books is his all time best activity.
Also I ve already noticed that we are both very stubborn and strong headed when it comes to an opinion argument. I almost agree to everything he says and how he resonates with his arguments but if i happen to find that something he says is irrational and stupid, I will debate him like there's no tomorrow and he's not gonna give up and admit his "false - thinking" no matter how hard I push him against the wall with arguments, lol.
None of us will back off and it doesn't seem as if we can convince each other of our different perspectives. At least I haven't found the way yet but oh well, trust me.... I will!!! 😁 And I live for this day. ☺️
I just typed a huge comment, lol, thank you guys for reading, I can now say that I find INTJ's incredible smart and attractive! Love you guys!
I'm starting to get to know an INTJ as an ENTP and I find this comment so relatable! He is absolutely so mysterious, whilst I will speak my heart out. I can't wait to get closer to him and have long conversations of controversial topics.
Boyfriend is ENTP, I'm a INTJ. So much of this is true were both late 20s....Can attest, conversations are deep abyss of facts. I can keep up conversations but not with his social life. Boyfriend is definitely a people pleasing/helper and I am very value driven. Now if only I can get his clothes to find a drawer or off the floor! 😆
"You probably don't like me and I might have perhaps done that on purpose." =ENTP confirmed
I also just love how intuitively INTJs understand me (ENTP). I frequently feel like all my ideas are take it or leave it (even to myself$, but I once had an intj co-worker that would actually take my ideas into reality. It was so validating. And though talking about emotions are hard for both types, I find that talking about emotions with an intj is like the best thing in the world. Again, they just get it (love what you said about reality being low on the list for both).
The most fun and satisfying conversations I've ever had have been with ENTPs. It's a very natural duo.
I actually love talking to INTPs.
I'm intj and my boyfriend is entp.
I've never met anyone who understands me better. It's incredible how people so different can fit so well together. It's like we're sociopath villains constantly talking about ideas in most cringy ways 😄
And... Yes. We have a lot of furnitures used for abondoned clothes and books 😄
Cringy? Haha how
@@greenjupiterwow and before I did all this INTJ research about myself I was talking to myself saying I need my own Harley Quinn! Now you just confirmed I was correct!!! Much happiness to you guys!
I am an INTJ who values my ENTP friendships- 4 awesome ENTP friends, which is a great blessing. I especially appreciate the intensity of abstract and philosophical conversation.
And I have one (very organized) "utility chair" with 2 books, keys, pocket protector, wallet and air-drying hand-washed socks. (Well, you asked).
As an 21 year old INTJ male I feel mostly alone a lot of the time. It's hard to find someone to relate to or function effectively with.
bro you need to hang out with more Enfps or Infps or more types like that
I'll be your friend, give me your socials ~ ENTP (lol)
;((( u are not alone on Earth same situation with me broh;(
Dude, I am ENTP female, and I soooo want to find INTJ friends or even more, but, unfortunately, I still have no INTJs around me, I'm 25.
@lestnitsa Just snooping on your profile and I already like the esthetic of your videos lol
This is great because when she said she's just intentionally messing with INTJs (I'm one) by the order of how her videos are and how she purposefully left INTJs out multiple times just to sprinkle more salt to wounds, I laughed out loud and started clapping. That's unabashed and unapologetic genius if I've ever seen one. Love it when people are like that. It's refreshing to be treated and clowned as an equal.
i have a crush on intj in my class I am quite shy to talk to him. ı actually do not exactly want to be in a romantic relationship with him just want to talk with him about everything because he looks like such a smart and self-improved person.
You should start talking to him.
You can try to ask him about the assignment to start the conversation
I'm an ENTP (male) with an INTJ father. We've always had a great personal relationship and also work fantastically together (we've stripped and renovated several houses together). My brainstorming and his groundedness combine extremely well. We also have the ability to communicate very effectively as we can both openly discuss/debate an issue without taking offence, even if the other is abrupt/direct with their approach. Debates are however only very rarely required as we usually grasp each other's ideas/perspectives quite easily. From my side there's nothing but admiration and respect for his personality type because it contains none of the characteristics I perceive as weaknesses or flaws (being illogical or overly emotional) and also contains attributes that I see myself as lacking (applied dedication). From his side I can say that he's always admired and respected me too, particularly for my intelligence and out of the box thinking, but he's always thought that my head is too often in the clouds. Don't ask us to talk about our feelings with each other though, that would be a very short conversation.
I'm struggling to find an entp to be my friend so that we can deeply discuss certain things. Surrounded by feelers is somehow draining and i prefer to isolate myself than discussing thing with them.
- a lonely intj without an entp who's taking freaking long time to show up
Hi entp here 👋🏻
it will only be a great conversation if the both of you have the same curiosity. - intj
@@esnardojaredralph94 otherwise the ENTP would be bored to death with all the details you usually bring to the discussion :D -entp
@Lucie Klátilová That sounds much more like an istj. Details are not typically an intj thing
Being slightly "out of touch with reality" on purpose is a great psychological filtration system. 😄
-INTJ
My entp wife thinks I’m an entj, nope only and act when I have too, INTJ is my tribe.
Woo woo:)(:
As an ENTP, I love INTJ's.
You guys are absolutely amazing ❤🤟
Omg this entire time I was listening, I was just thinking about how cap all of this is although looking at the cognitive functions, what you're saying does kinda make sense but then again when I'm faced with reality which is basically me trying to make a potential INTJ friend but failed miserably cuz I'm "too loud" and then you said that when "we're young" we'd prob be seen as annoying and then I remembered that I'm literally a teenager so I guess that kinda sums it up lol
I’m INTJ and my best friend is ENTP. In the passed our relation has been difficult and now is the best. We have been like sisters for 18 years now ✌🏻☺️
The Intj can help the ENTP with their world domination plans ultimate tag team
ENTP: INTJ this INTJ that
Me an INFJ: I thought we were soulmates…
The energy would drive you insane.
@@mirsaes probably. But if they're anything like how Melissa is, I KNOW I'm in for something special
@@TheSaubzable You mean edited and polished?
@@mirsaes obviously not, but I can't deny that the editing and polishing skills are appealing to me on its own
1st. I am an INFJ. And - awakened one. Falls into Heyoka spectrum. I cannot speak for every INFJ... but, i feel and see the pain esp for those I care for. I do not intentionally "save" or "change" people that needs help. I - just provide "whatever that is kind of" support and advice is only given when asked - very rare I share this. I learned that my thoughts are like "Not Safe for Everyone" type of inner thoughts. For the common good while managing our own needs.
I'm glad I watched this video 1st. I came in with my eyebrow raised because of the sass, and ended up with a satisfied smile with many nods. -Female INTJ.
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INTJ here. You pretty much nailed it. I could add some nuance re the Fi/Te vs Fe/Ti conflict but overall yeah, we get along well, have awesome conversations and are great at solving problems. 👍🏼😊
Regarding the stuff holding furniture, my wife and I are INTJ's. Our residences have always looked like what you would expect from typical INTJ's. Tidy with a capital T, and one chair where we both threw the coats, purses etc.
Enter ISTP and ENTP teens.... BEASTS actually. Stuff holders are like whack a moles .... it's an every day struggle to keep them from spreading.
hahaha Something like that happened to me. INTJ woman here, used to living alone. My house is easy to clean and is always tidy. Sure, there are certain spots were I allow a controlled mess for a while (my desk for example) but it always comes back to being tidy. Then an INTP guy I was seeing for a while came along and the first times we met at each other's houses were certainly an experience.
I like how your hair is healthy and shiny
I love ENTPs, they are the best! I'm an INTJ and two of the best friends i've ever had are ENTPs and one of my Uncles from mother side too (R.I.P) was an ENTP and i loved having conversarions with him.
I’m INTJ. Preferences: ENTP short term, ESFJ long term
INTJ here. I used to date a ENTP, and that was the best. Everything you said is spot on. I may seek out another if I can figure out how to spot the type. I'm not very deeply introverted, so it works out.
I'm a teen ENTP female but I seriously like INTJs more than INFJs too.
Intj 🤣🤣🤣 my bed or any flat surface in my room qualifies as storage .. It looks disorganized from 3rd party, but it's chaos that makes sense to me ... My brother and roommate loves too Fold everything and put things away and I just look at him and be like what's the point asthetically it looks good .. but does it really matter at the end of the day if it's folded or in a drawer vs anywhere I put it ...
They pay More attention with organizing their drawers and material possessions but not organizing their lifestyle their diet and not creating any plans for the future,
They routinely act like every instance in life is a surprise and I'm like wow would have been nice if you planned for it right ? Shouldn't you of seen this coming 🤔 I mean the actions you do will have consequences
But Honestly I just keep to myself , because I can have a more intellectual conversation With my own echoes that being reflected of the walls in my room
Agreed
As an INTJ and an Eagle Scout, I've lived by the motto 'Be Prepared' since childhood.
You know I love this type..
Great video..
Are you asking how many pieces of furniture *in each room* have piles? Because, uh, one piece for the entire house doesn't seem like enough... (ENTP married to an INTJ) Bedroom (couch at the end of the bed), kitchen (buffet countertop), upstairs landing (the treadmill and surrounding floorspace), and my office (name a location, it has piles).
Trolling the INTJs... classic. I had an ENTP GF. She was adorable. I would definitely say mature INTJs and ENTPs are a good match, assuming other important things align as well.
Healthy ENTPs are one of my favourite types, and it is great to be able to debate an idea for its own sake without having to make other considerations. However, unhealthy ENTPs are incredibly frustrating. I often see Tucker Carlson typed as ENTP (I'm not 100% sure, he might be a very unhealthy INTP), but people like that can get stuck so far in their own reasoning that they can end up abandoning their moral compass without even realising it. Nothing is quite so potentially dangerous and misleading as Ti mixed with confirmation bias.
Wouldn't call him unhealthy (that's probably just your bias) but he isn't ENTP he'll probably be INTP or INTJ, definately too inflexibly opinionated to be ENTP. (add "an" where required, whoops).
@@alberain Definitely not INTJ. Our strong third slot Fi wouldn't allow the kind of behaviour he indulges in, throwing away basic moral principles for a new idea, then turncoating yet again a year down the track. We're much more long-term in our opinions and won't sway quickly.
i don’t see anything wrong with tucker carlson; you are likely a democrat that’s why you can’t see past through it. Tucker is great!
@@andromedamaxima1543 I'm not a Democrat and I'm not American, he's just slimy enough that even on the other side of the planet, he's pretty infamous. My problem with Tucker is that *everything* is up for debate, regardless of the consequences, and he doesn't seem to care about the potential negative impact of his words.
My INTJ partner and I have 3 dump spots. 😆 He's been complaining that we need a better chair for this in our bedroom.
I'm actually the one who is more invested in organizing and creating functional systems for things, believe it or not. He's perfectly content to exist in his own little world, except for the occasional meltdown if the kitchen gets out of control 😆
I literally created a "dump" chair today and thought I was genius for it 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
As an INTJ that cooks... I can relate.
@@KatanaKamisama 😆 it would be so much easier for him if he had a system! If only he had any interest in it 🙄
I wonder how ENTPs potentially feel about us INTPs. I'm an introverted INTP but I'm crazy drawn to ENTPs! They make me weak in the knees! 😍
Great vid Melissa Talk :)
My son is ENTP and I’m INTJ and we’re always roasting each other. He’s like the extroverted version of me 🤣. We have plenty of logical conversations, and sometimes extreme debates.
Well, the name of your channel didn’t lie.. good vid
I have two piles my Estj wife let’s me have, a clothes pile and a paper pile area (my dresser and my desk). Plus, I have two more collection areas she really doesn’t know about. I think of these piles as active collection points for things in process. For example, if I wear a shirt for two hours, it is neither clean or dirty. So it doesn’t belong in closet or dirty clothes. It’s in limbo so it gets placed in a pile on my dresser. It all makes sense to me but drives my wife nuts. It has taken years, but I’ve finally negotiated that she leave my piles alone. I think I’m now qualified to negotiate peace in the Middle East. -INTJ Male.
6:47 - When I was a teenager, my parents placed a flat TV screen (one of these large ones) in my room. And since I was not using it - as I kept watching stuff on my laptop - I turned this screen into clothes hanger - where I used to store on one side my morning clothes and on the other one clothes that I need to pack for laundry (which are not dirty, but I cant place them anywhere else due to limited space).
I know it sounds crazy - but that was my system. I also had this bad habit of keeping all the time 5 mugs on my desk - which I barely washed, as one was always for coffee, one always used for water, one for tea, etc. So my family was absolutely angry and shouty about that, but I tried over and over again explain that this is my system.
Things are different now, but I drop my clothes on my chair xD Or hang the morning set on a side arm of a standing mirror xDDD And I am like 30 years old.
I'm INTJ i'm ENTP lover
ENTPs and ENFPs go well with INTJ BUT!! i really love and cherish ENTPs far more than ENFPs
ENTP >>>>>>>>>> ENFP
if i get married,to be honest,i really want to go marry with ENTP
ENTPs are very invaluable to me
haha wonderfully to the point and contrary video, sort of ^^ thanks for the wonderful content
Being an Entp this is sooo true!! Feelings aren’t factual I say that on the daily. I got to admit not a huge fan of most females tried not to like you but adore u Melissa;) keep letting people know that we really aren’t that mysterious lol
Im an INTJ and straight up: if any ENTPs want to be friends I would be down for it. Live is kind of lonely having no one like minded around lol
When you said "when you try to bring feelings into it..." I said Amen lol and dam u explained compared these two types very well. Make me wanna find and date a ENTP...until u got to the cons lol...still worth a try tho I suppose
This is actually very interesting. This has described interactions with ENTP. The thing that irritated me was using the word “unorganized” instead of “disorganized”. I really love that sweater! That peacock color not only looks great with your skin tone, but I love the designs in the arms!
-INTJ
Lots of people talk, but you actually comprehend. Brava!
I enjoyed the strength of your argument. Thanks.
I have the best conversations and funnest time with my ENTP friend.. We love you guys.
I'm a new viewer, so the apology is moot XD
How about this :
more responsive = sees the now
robotic/rigid = working the long game
don't consider myself rigid
don't know if I know any ENTPs, doubt it, but they're potentially my favorite due to the dear kristin channel ( if you're like this, we're cool)
I feel like Ni is a massive gravity orb floating above my head. I think of it like a funnel, perceiving information all around me and condensing (inward) into the simplest or broadest answers or meaning, and fact checking everything along the way. This function requires enough time processing that it makes us introverts.
I theorize that Ne works for the ENTP like going through the opposite direction of the funnel by expanding upon ideas:
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Because the INTJ has to run every part of what the ENTP says through a funnel, you would think they would be overstimulated by the ENTP but they actually enjoy it because it's thinking based, and it's heavy feeling processing that tires an INTJ out.
I’m an ENTP, my dad is an INTJ, and we get along very well. I love him!! I think it’s funny as well that we have the same MBTI’s as Batman and the Joker.
That part about the chairs that catch papers and extra clothes 😂 only 2, thank you very much.
Me, A ENTP woman looking at my INTJ boyfriend like he’s the most beautiful thing to ever exist :
Finally, someone who understands that INTJs are not seeking to be "right", they usually just ARE right.
I actually love some ENTPs like Markiplier and Neil Newbon. Awesome people, in my opinion. However, I don't know many ENTPs personally, I wish I did, though.
Exactly 5 pieces of furniture covered in piles of paper, notepads, random scribblings. My son is an ENTP. When he lived with me, we would disassemble every broken machine we got our hands on to keep the electrical components, transformers, and motors for building stuff like railguns and modifying other still functioning machines. Not only were there piles of papers, but multiple bins in every room filed with these things. Power tools were everywhere. He moved out, but comes and hangs out with me almost every day. I'm such a lucky INTJ mom.
I love ENFPs I also like ENTP, ENFJ, or ENTJ❤
ENFP always makes my day, like my day is gloomy 😪
Without them.
Annoying ESFP who have a magnet on me than them😔
was looking for ENFPs and INFJs, but now i might also look for ENTPs c: (intj)
Melissa... Fun, flirty button pusher (Yes, I saw what you did there). As an INTJ, I can appreciate that! I currently have 4 of those pieces of furniture, though to be fair; in a more efficient setting, I would have two or three depending upon the size and/or shape of the house. As desks I prefer L-shaped or U-shaped, or round tables. I will not use chairs.
I'm not really into all these types and stuffs, but as a male INTJ, I find Melissa really attractive. Her passion and energy that is combined with her honesty and unfiltered expressivness is really something that grabs attention.
Or maybe it's just only because she is a beautiful girl.
We need to "Thanos snap" the F-types to achieve world peace 😏
So basically be robots? Lmao
@@alext.9033 You jest but cannot deny it would work
@@alext.9033 T-types are therefore robots, yes
100% agree
i keep picturing tony stark trying to get bruce banner pissed for fun
Lmaooo I’m an intj and this outro was everything ❤
In my apartmemt, there is one catch-all chair in the living room. If it won't fit in the chair, it temporarily goes in the catch-all corner of the 'craft room' which is the opposite side of the living room and is where my wife's sewing machine, my drafting table (which I built in high school shop class), and the shelves for our craft supplies are. I say temporarily because I have a thing about filling up floor space, so it eventually has to be donated, sold or stored elsewhere. It can't live in the corner on the floor forever.
Then, there's the pocket emptying basket by the front door next to the all-important white board that we keep track of stuff on. I always look there first when searching for keys, phones, etc. We have multiple junk drawers, one in every piece of furniture that has drawers. Even the chest of drawers in the bedroom has a drawer that is random things one might wear like jewelery, watches, belts, etc. Our home office has a catch-all shelf in the closet as well.
Things for us are loosely organized around where they are used most often. We have a saying in my family: "The place you first searched for it is where it belongs once you find it and are now done using it." Now and then we absentmindedly put stuff down in random places, but they eventually get put back in their spot.
Absentminded is a big thing for my wife and me. She's a bit more so than I am. I've gradually become less organized than the hyper organized guy I used to be and she's gotten a bit more organized over iur 16 years of marriage. We meet in the middle now. We're both lost in our own heads a lot of the time though. She's usually daydreaming about her teaching plans and goals or thinking of family and friends, while I'm in my writing, tinkering and gardening worlds. She's caught the gardening bug from me and does gardening projects with me and with her students and we both love to learn new things, so we have those things in common.
We discuss all sorts of topics on non-emotional levels and can disagree without fighting. She jokes that we take turns deciding that the other person is right in order to maintain harmony. Neither of us likes to fight, thsnk goodness. I can't stand people who try to pick fights with others rather thsn rationally discussing things.
I consistantly have been typed as INTJ. More recent typing services have added variants or tendencies to type which makes sense to me in terms of modeling the complex nature of human personalities. They say that I have the Harmonizer variant which softens my INTJ a bit into someone more in tune with others' emotions and more reluctant to 'ruffle their feathers', so that I don't fit the classical description as closely. I'll know when you are wrong, but will care enough about you to only tell you so if you insist that you want my honest feedback.
My wife self tests as either an ENFP, or as an INFP but isn't interested in going as far as a testing service
I normally don't comment twice but I really need a debate like this. I hold my words so much around the people I know, that if feel like I'm getting dumber, even my speech patterns are getting really bad lol.
INTJ here and these clingy ENTP people are like a nightmare. You can't get rid of them they will manipulate their way back into your life no matter how much you push them away. My mom ENTP and its so annoying.
at first, I was about to start arguing with the author, but... I thought for a bit and realized that my INTJ friend and I really get along pretty well. Of course, we are arguing like A LOT, but it's a good thing. Like nobody but him wants to do it. Everyone around has already figured out who they're dealing with, so they don't even try to argue, but this guy is still trying. And it's really fun! lately he's gotten a little better at it and stopped getting mad at me every time I'm right (that is, almost literally every time)! so yes, I love INTJs.
(ENTP)
Me as an ENTP: one desk and one shelf full of papers (mind maps, new ideas, strategies, BIZ plans etc.) plus one spot for anything else :D (but I regularly sort these thing out). Everything else must always be in place.
My
Im entp my son intj and all our fourniture pieces are just piles of random stuff. Chaos outside but our minds and debates are so much fun!
6:34 Storage-chairs have been reduced from 4 to 2 when I became single, while the storage-bed/couch has somewhat expanded in its retirement occupation (it used to be a normal bed 30 years ago), as that was the room she mainly used, so now I have far less incentives to put away the clothes that occupy it for weeks at a time.
Mind you, she was an INFP (Empath), but since I'm an INTJ, I reasoned that I was still allowed to answer the question, as long as I made this note. Plus, it does help the algorithm spread this video, which I deem to be a good thing.
As INTJ take my good like, you deserve it.
That made me wanna talk to some INTJ and give you guys another chance.
I've had a friend ages ago, who was an INTJ but he was so easy to offend that I questioned if he really was one. The discussions became boring after like third time, after he didn't open himself up to any other possibility than his opinion, got angry and dissapeared for a week. It wasn't even that serious.
But yea, I don't think I've met and had a somewhat closer relationship with INTJ since
But feelings have a place in the world, when it comes to actions and how those actions impact others, especially their feelings. It doesn't matter if the actions we see as beneficial, are actually painful for others. They still hurt.
Love ENTP! I’m INTJ 🙏
Well from INTJ perspective ENTPs are interesting. And definitely there is common language we share. Another thing is I can be honest and it doesn't seem to offend entp and they can actually respond to the core of argument.
But constant trolling and masks ENTPs permanently wear, on top of chaos they seem deliberately produce in their own lives... Well lets say there are possible clouds in long term relationships
I'm an INTJ and my crush is an ENTP...
Regarding number of chairs and tables used for storage: If a messy desk/surface means a messy head, what does a empty desk/surface then mean? ;) INTJ here
believe that I have to give Einstein a quote on that
INTJ/ENTP always reminds me of Batman and Joker interactions which is fun to watch mostly in the 1966 show and the lego movie
Three piles of clothes you’re not ready to put back in the closet … ENTP 😂 🥂
To answer the a-little-dirty-but-clean-enough clothes chair question: I have about 4 pieces of furniture for that. The makeup table my esfp mom bought me when I turned 16 to remind me of things (so I’ll leave sticky notes or random documents on there), the clothes couch, my desk that stocks the still-need-to-do-but-procrastinating pile of paper and, last but not least, the might-wear-tomorrow chair for neatly-ish folded clothing
It's because my brother is an INTJ, and I am obligated to love him XD j/k
My BiL is an ENTP. Can get on my/all of our nerves at times, but for the most part this is spot on. -INTJ
I'm an ENTP...I love INTJs❤ ... I hardly find people I can converse with deeply and I can be myself with an INTJ...I just love them
Never seen or heard of you before but during the first minute I realized that you secretly enjoy fkn with intjs and I was just smiling throughout the whole thing and laughing inside 😂 well done, I wish more people did that haha
3:21 man, this is refreshing 😂
Omg..... I forgot about the paper everywhere in the house, and the chair that anything made of cloth found a home on lolllll. The banter back and forth that anyone else listening to wd be offended by ! This was my deceased bf; I'm now realizing that I've not bn able to joke like that with anyone since. A whole lot opposite is prob why conversations were so interesting.
Honestly, this is interesting.
Love your videos, but one slight critique. Slow down by like 10-15%. Even as an ENTP who likes cutting to the point you talk really fast, plus you're editing leaves like zero room for me to pause and think about what you said. Stories and talks need peaks and valleys. The impactful moments hit harder when contrast with slower ones. *all love*
I had to watch your video on 2x speed because of the amount of random stuff you said in it... INTJ here. You did eventually get into the meat of the topic though so that's good at least.
“…when an ENTP and INTJ go head to head, it’s honestly probably one of the best conversations to watch!” For example: Batman and Joker