There are people who respect others for their racial perfrence. And then there are the people who hate a type of race as a dating option and will share this opinion with everyone around them instead of keeping it to themselves.
nope im turkish and i hate dating with turkish girls because theyre selfish + attention seeker not worth for give attention because when you give attention they think theyre god or something and its like %90 of the turkish girls i had so much gf before i just realize it and i realize that my friends having the same things and not realizing they all saying this is the good one and bum they break up after a week because she just wants to
@statussiidhaea When speaking about those outspoken people who are giving their own opinions on the subject matter of dating options being racialized. What' makes that hateful ? If the fight is to champion "equality & tolerance" for all. Then any & all positions agreed or disagreed upon should have a platform to debate & exchange ideas on any public forum or platform... Should it not ? It seems people like yourself are only accepting & tolerant of your own ideological views. While disingenuously blurring the lines between hate v.s preference/opinion in bad faith.
Similar to like ageism, I’m sorry I don’t like minors and I don’t like old people😥 it’s normal to have some preferences when you date someone, it’s just another thing when you outright will give 0 chance to anyone of a race purely for the fact of skin tone
It's definitely walking the line when you "don't date white guys but I'll date anyone else" I had a white friend like that who basically exclusively dated darker black men. She didn't want a white baby, that's it. I'd understand if she found black men more attractive, but to seek out a certain race so your baby can look a certain way... Yea... It's a no from me. It's definitely racist even if it feels like it's not. It's like when your straight friends put you on a pedastool of friendship for being gay like, are you my friend cause you like me or cause you want a GBF?? It just feels like you're a fetish. Or they want brownie points for not dating white people.
This is sadly more common than you know. Many white women and black men alike are weirdly obsessed with having mixed babies, and it’s their main goal when marrying or getting in a relationship. It’s funny because you can’t determine what that child is gonna look like, it’s so weird to me lmfao. And being mixed (black and white) I’ve seen all sides and heard the most weird shit regarding to my skin color, hair and features.
@@Lunalla I think it's part of some strange plan to eradicate races all together. All become one race. I mean it's already gonna happen naturally idk why they gotta push it. And only going for one race or never going for all of one race seems kinda racist to me. Other than that a preference is understandable. Personally I prefer non Caucasian men and women, but I'm not opposed to dating a Caucasian.
I was dating a girl who was Mexican and she was making jokes about white people and white patents basically saying they need to beat their kids more. I said thank god my parents aren’t Mexican cause they’d beat my ass every day (something along those lines it wasn’t funny but wasn’t super racist either) she immediately turned around and slapped me really hard and we broke up. This was hands down the most weird interaction I’ve ever had with a partner. If you can dish you should be able take it and if you can’t then don’t say anything.
Nah, screw her. That's what happens when you beat your kids, they end up aggressive and want to solve issues with violence. My mom beat me and I told her I'm not bringing that to my children. How come my white boyfriend can be raised without being beaten but we need it? Then she told me when I get older I'll understand. No tf I won't. That just means I forgot how it felt and I will never. All I did was hate her and do what I was doing worse. They think beating their kids is funny and some kind of pride in it. People want to spread their trauma or break free from it.
@@AlL-bi2im I’m glad it sounds like you had good patient parents. I don’t believe in hitting your kid but we were just making jokes and she slapped me 😂 I think stereotypes can be funny if you keep in mind they’re complete bs but she didn’t see it that way unfortunately which is odd to me cause of the blatant hypocrisy
Tf 😭😭😭 yeah my least favorite thing is people who make light hearted race jokes and then can’t handle the same light hearted race jokes back 😐😐😐 your response was acceptable lmfao
I’m a simple Irish gal, I’ve dated people a white person before, I’ve also dated an Asian person before. Both relationships were amazing, race had nothing to do with how these people treat me. We had our cultural differences, however I learned so much, it was amazing to learn about another persons culture. I suppose I don’t have a racial preference, but also I understand people that do. The Asian guy I dated went on to date an Asian woman, which is totally okay, I can 100% understand why somebody would choose another from their own race, we are still friends and yeah, really I’d date anyone as long as they were kind and I found them attractive. Simple life.
Obviously someone's physical appearance is what you would notice first, right? I don't think people like to admit it, but being physically attractive certainly helps. But having a good personality is the most important part, I do agree about that. It is very attractive when people can have deep conversations with me, which is quite rare.
idk, i'd say its different from some people. I did get crushes for guys that didnt catch my eye, solely because of their personality. Like, it happened to me that in a group of friends at the restaurant a guy started talking about videogames with me and I find it so interesting to talk to him and he made me laugh and was quite funny and we shared many games in common, and after a couple hours i realized I started crushing for him. Even tho I didnt really feel attracted to his looks at first, i literally wasn't feeling anything for him until he started talking. So yup, i honestly do think its not impossible to not notice someone's looks but get attracted to their personality
I heard a lot of african american women saying they would never date a white man and african american men saying they would never date a african american woman and I dont get what is wrong with that? People cant control what they are attracted to
I don't see why it is so bad to not be attracted to a certain race. You can't control it, why should you be forced to date someone you are not attracted to just to "not be racist".
The word "speaks" and "terms" are near each other for me and i combined them...... lmao. You probably already know what iam talking about (the word that it just combined into.) Also when i was typing at around the end of this, Pegasus said: "There's nothing wrong about saying a word wrong lmao"
Not really if you go outside and talk to real people they’re opinions are quite different and even when they’re the same they are much less exaggerated
@@snomcultist189 correct me if I'm wrong but most of the people that cut picks are people who apply to it, the average person is not going to apply to cut just the people who are on social media too much and have weird takes.
"I am not racist. I just hate dating white dudes because of their skin color and my prejudice, so I am not racist amd I don't have a racial preference, because we all know that hating white is not a racial thing it's simply right."
I’ve been attracted to so many different kinds of guys over the years it’s funny. I think sometimes having preferences might limit us from experiencing cool new things but if someone does have one as long as it’s respectful I don’t care
@@jonnyfohnemgrave4733 I meant that as a Hispanic from an old school family it’s typical to date within our own. And I’ve only dated like 3 guys before all with different backgrounds, that was the main point. But If you think that’s a lot then idk what to tell you bud 🤣
Why is it considered terrible to have a racial preference but acceptable to like brunettes or be attracted to green eyes or people of a certain height etc.?
Exactly, I’m not attracted to south asians. And I’m half south Asian (Bengali) and half Caucasian (Dutch) myself. My parents told me that even when I was 5 I blurted out “I’d never marry a brown man” and my parents had tell me why that wasn’t ok😭 like I’ve just never seen a south Asian that I find attractive. And if I do someday, then I’ll go for it. But out of all of my 22years of life, while being half Bengali so I’ve seen many south asians, I have not found one even remotely attractive. Not saying they’re aren’t attractive, but just not to me.
People are just sensitive. You don't have to find someone attractive to view them as equal, but people who find themselves unattractive tie their appearance to self worth and degrade themselves.
As a poc myself, I wouldn’t be offended by someone calling me a “colored person.” However, my U.S. history teacher told us that saying “colored people” is offensive and outdated so we should say “people of color” instead (he was a white male btw). Like I said, I personally wouldn’t care if someone called me the outdated term, but I guess that’s why that one girl was so upset about it
That's the problem here - that girl got all upset and ended a relationship just because she was called a term by a boyfriend (without him intending to cause any offence!) a term that she had been TOLD is now offensive!! She's young and impressionable, perhaps one day she'll learn to decide for herself what's acceptable to her and what's not. If not, she could lose a lot of innocent boyfriends (and friends) from her life..
@@whiteroses560 Yes, of course. You are an intelligent person who can think for yourself and set your own boundaries with people, sadly it seems that some just let others (teachers, social media, etc) decide what's "appropriate" for everyone...
@@jeanhind8198 Im sorry but you're doing what you're accusing her of...You say "you're intelligent and can think for yourself" to people who think like you, but you say "she's just impressionable and lets others decide whats appropriate for her" when someone thinks or feels differently then you....hmmm you have more in common with the people you criticize than you think, you also think that the only good opinions and smart people are only those who think like you XD
Yeah, that's an American thing. When I (german) grew up, calling someone "schwarz" (black) was considered offensive, while "farbig" (colored) would have been the more PC wording. Imagine my confusion when I found out it is the literal opposite in the US.
Can I just say it’s funny how so many of the people said they need someone to connect with on a deeper level, yet they equate that to social issues, skin color issues and characteristics in which we have no control over. I can’t help that I am attracted to taller, in shape white men, and I’ve found myself more attracted and drawn to white men; and get this, I’m half black and half white and female, so I don’t relate with most white men in terms of my upbringing and experiences. I get along with white men more cause we have the same interests and hobbies, that’s it lol.
Quit being so logical and reasonable. I'm white (German) and am attracted to white girls but actually prefer women with darker skin for some reason that I don't fully understand. My wife of 18 years is native American and I've always been ridiculously attracted to everything that makes her who she is from the way she looks to her personality to her everyday mannerisms. I couldn't have designed a more perfect person for me, but it's not because of her race, it's the whole package.
When i first heard that “person of color” lady i was like Damn. A lil touchy but alr ig. Then i went back and listened to it again, and what does she say? “I dated a white person.” Naw girl, you cant get mad at being called a “colored person” if u just gonna call them a “white person”. Shit goes both ways 11:03 goes crazy bruh
Colored is different then saying black . Colored is an old term . It more like if she said dated a cracker. Because that was the old racist term black people called white people in the 40s . Colored is what racist people called black people in the 40. Colored and cracker go hand and hand but white and colored don't
@@nattynema Thats actually really interesting. I was just thinking of it as the order of the words. In my head it was the same thing as saying “I have a green apple.” and “I have an apple that is green.”. I never realized it had a deeper historically racist meaning. My bad for the faulty comparison. Thanks dude, Ill remember that.
@Tuffdufroggins oh its is no problem . I know alot of people probably dont know that. Non Americans and younger people probably dont know. It's definitely a tone about it. That why the only time you really hear people saying the term "colored" or see signs that say " colored bathroom, colored entrance, etc " is in movies.
That woman who said "I don't think I have a preference, but the people around me always say I have a preference" is super relatable. It's nowhere near an active seeking of a certain race/racial group to date, it just kinda becomes a trend due to your preconceived type, which usually inadvertently includes racial attributes or traits
Colored person and person of color sounds like the exact same thing said differently to me. That really just seems to be just wanting to be upset with something than anything from the sounds of it.
I agree. Black people do not take kindly to people who say colored person because it's an outdated term. But even Person of Color gets you yelled at. Senior year of high school in 2021 when we were having online school, I was in my English class and we were having a discussion I can't remember what about. But the topic of minority stuff came up and I said something to chime into the discussion and at one point I said people of color. And this group of black guys in my class who were some of my schools biggest a*sholes/troublemakers SLAMMED me for saying that. I didn't even say colored, I said people of color. My teacher had to turn off the chat because me and those guys were arguing. And mind you I'm black too. Oh boy if there was ever a moment when I wanted to murder a classmate that was it. I can't believe the nerve of all these black people who have this ridiculously extreme victim mentality and think that they can use racism and slavery and all the other past traumas of black people over the course of history to just do whatever they want without consequences because after all in their minds "Black people have been through way worse things than everybody else". I'm SICK of it. Sorry for ranting but my point is that I don't personally even see a huge problem with using the word colored, it's just a word that they used to describe us back in the day. Whites or non-whites, whites or coloreds, white people or colored people. It's just what they said, it's just what was on paper. It wasn't even a slur, just a description. I'll admit hearing someone use that word today does make me do a double take because again no one says that anymore. But does it offend me? Not really.
@@truthseeker9249 damnnn sorry u had to endure that from those idiots & being a black guy yourself, that shook me lol like wtf 🤯🤦🏽♀️ But the term “colored“ will just always be one of those words that some people will take offense to..and that some people will not. 🤷🏽♀️ whether it’s an offensive term or not is subjective ( I get it ) however…… The comment above was just plain dismissive strictly because the two terms “SOUND the same”
@@justmars4273 Black girl actually. But thank you. I was really ready to catch a body in that moment. I'm just glad I've graduated and I never have to see them again.
I think that it heavely depends on how you communicate that preffrence and how you heavily your dating life depents in the preffrence. It's okay if you notice that you are more likely to find a certain race attractive. It's weird if you only/don't want to date a specific race. Like having a preffrence is not an excuse to say the most outlandish stuff.
Exactly! i’m a black girl for example and most of my crushes and all my exes were white guys. so i guess it’s my preference, i wouldn’t be opposed to dating other ethnicities it’s just happens that i liked these guys and they liked me 🤷🏾♀️
Everybody has a ‘type’ you may not realize it but everyone you’ve ever dated has something they do that painfully similar, if it’s not visually obvious like eye/hair/skin color it’s in their mannerism, temperament, sense of humor. However, regardless of your type MOST people end up permanently bonding with someone who’s in the same general economic/educational/cultural bracket as them. Crazy how you have to have enough in common to be able to last as a couple 🙄 but yikes these takes
12:28 "Anything other than white and blonde" *Is white and blonde herself* For real though, i think a lot of these people have self esteem issues that they're projecting.
I don't understand people that completely exclude someone because of their skin colour. They could be perfect for you and you'd never know. Although, for first impressions, you're allowed to find a certain race more attractive. Certain races have certain features, so it's similar to saying "I like short girls." That's a feature.
Japanese guys with long hair though. ❤️ I blame Hiroyuki Sanada for that. And this thing reminds me of the whole “if you are straight and would not date a trans person, you are transphobic.” Or “if you would not date a fat person, you are fatphobic.” Preferences, people.
I'm mixed, half black and half Japanese but strangely, I can never be physically attracted to a black person, and I have black friends too. I tried dating one thinking 'can't knock it til you try it' but I was in deep shit when I felt the disconnect despite we clicked. AITA? I had no trauma or whatever with black people either.
If you don't feel it, you don't feel it. No point in forcing it or feeling bad about it (assuming you ended it as amicably as was possible on your end). I'd say don't rule it out completely, because preferences can shift and perhaps life will surprise you one day, but don't shame yourself over assuming that it's not, or at least most likely not going to happen.
mixed black and white, and I have seen some black people who I've found attractive, but for whatever reason I'm mainly attracted to light skin and red hair lmao
I love that he says what people think but feel like they can't say. As a white girl living in America I have to choose my words carefully around peers and online otherwise I'd be the witch in a witch hunt 😩 Pegasus vocalize what I'm thinking a lot of the times and I really appreciate seeing someone else who feels the same and isn't afraid to say it. 👏
im a white guy, feel the same. ive tried to talk about it but its always met with “ur playing victim role” just because my ancestors did bad things. i guarantee there’s gonna be someone on this comment making fun of you because they think white people are incapable of experiencing anything bad. but hey, my opinion is garbage right? cause every white person is the same, we’re all just privileged!
I feel you babes. It's really hard to be the opposite opinion when everyone else will literally harass you until you conform to their ideas. Just because you are white doesn't mean you don't have opinions to express. You keep finding your voice! And you'll find people who have the same ideology.
Must be tough, to be unable to say a certain opinion or preference just because people are oversensitive. Especially a certain group of people that annoys me a lot by their self entitlement -_- Also, funny how you have to choose your words more carefully just because you're white, sounds like racism is going in favor of people who fought against racism. Ironic
Facts but not to be that person but it does truly beg the question of race being a spectrum cuz not gonna lie I have a history of generally being attracted to tan-ish Latinos, but like, what am I supposed to say, males that are mestizo? Or like come in there with race percentages? 🤣🤣 you know what I mean
he disappoints just as much as his appearance did when he face revealed. and its so ironic how he shits on other's appearances while he's probably still a virgin
These conversations are interesting to me because I’ve never had a racial preference. Attractive people are attractive, basically. I’ve probably crushed on or dated someone from every race. Their cultures and skin tone / bone structure would have been part of their allure, but mostly it would be their particular personality and looks. However, I don’t think badly of someone who does have a preference. I’m not sure how much you can help who you are attracted to
The only thing that should really matter when it comes to choosing a partner is their heart. If you click together, the rest will fall into place. Good looks are a bonus, of course, but should be secondary, like a side objective in a videogame that's optional and doesn't affect the main story at all
Weeell, no. Looks matter a lot more than you think. Heart is how you chose friends. Heart+looks+a few more things depending on your gender/preference/etc. is how you chose a partner.
@@belivuk2526 Weeeeellll, actually, heart matters more than just choosing friends. Think about it. You could choose the sexiest person on the planet as your partner, but how well will the relationship work if they have the heart of a jackal? You need to click with your partner such that your strengths and weaknesses balance each other out, and that includes more than just looks
@@The_Ragequit_Cannon That's why I said +. You can't chose on looks alone. But you can't chose on hearth alone either. Imagine looking at your partner and never wanting them physically. It erodes the relationship instantly, unless neither of you have sexual desires but then you're no different than friends anyways
@@belivuk2526 That's why I also said that looks matter, just not as much as personality *in my opinion*. But nothing you've said runs contrary to what I said, especially that last post of yours. And like I said, if you mesh together well, then everything else will fall into place
@@The_Ragequit_Cannon You did say that good looks are just a bonus. I'm saying they're not just bonus, they're a must (well, what you consider looking good at least). You called them a side objectives, I call them a 2 requirements main quest
@pegasus if im not mistaken in the past when racism was even worse in the u.s and people of color couldn’t even use the same bathrooms white people did, they were referred to as ‘colored’ so was their stuff, for ‘colored people’ i might be mistaken but i’ve heard that was the case. might be why she reacted like that
I've only actually dated one person in my life and they happen to be white and I don't really want anybody else so I don't know if I have a preference aside from height, I just like women/non men who are taller than me. The only other person I "dated" was black and it only lasted a month, the reason I ghosted him had nothing to do with race, he was really controlling and I was like 12 so I had no idea what I was even doing
idk as a half black person, i’d be offended if someone called me colored…it’s clear you don’t know the history behind that term and how it was used negatively toward black people back in the day.
I mean if they don't know I don't think it should be a big deal cause they don't know... Just let them know and if they do it again then you can Tbh I didn't know it was an insult cause I hear "people of color" all the time... confusing that saying that is okay but calling them colored isn't
@@Lostbreva if you aren’t black i don’t expect you to understand the history behind the word colored. you don’t explicitly call a black person colored regardless of how they mean it. and if they don’t know the history then that sounds like a personal problem.
@@yanniatx you think white people are dumb or something? Why are you asking my race? I'm asking why it's offensive to call them colored but calling them people of color isn't? Yeah I know the history a little bit thanks to other comments but it still doesn't make sense. And if you just say "if you're not black I don't expect you to understand" I wonder why people don't know 💀
@@Lostbreva i’m half white so why would i call white people dumb? i as a black person said it’s an offensive term so you trying to argue that with me ain’t gonna work sis
@@yanniatx you said white people wouldn't understand it basically and that's rude to white people. We understand racism too especially in this generation
So for context I’m a white woman, 23, and would consider myself bi/pan. I used to be quite the “activist” because we all want people to be comfortable being themselves right? But i don’t support or buy into the identity politics, tribal warfare of recent years. It’s gone way too far. Bitches do be crazy. Anyways, I don’t have much of a racial preference. I will say that, from my experience, different races/ethnicities have different cultures which will affect a relationship. For (Americanized) Arabs, they tend to have really strict family values and a lot of the time are also part of a tight knit community. Indian communities are also tight knit, but families tend to be very welcoming if you’re respectful/interested in their customs and culture - though this generally comes with expectations that some may find distasteful (like cooking/cleaning/child rearing house wife). So let’s get to the point. While I’m not opposed to being involved black men, I am much more cautious than I am with other races. This is because I’ve heard about how they talk about white women, like it’s a fetish or status symbol. I’ve also had some in depth discussions about this with some of my open minded black male friends that helped me better understand this. Obviously that’s a generalization, but generalization come from somewhere. I just don’t want to be objectified based on my skin color and treated like a handbag that’s getting shown off. I think it really important that these things are talked about candidly. I don’t think someone is automatically racist for having a preference, just like you’re not transphobic for not being sexually attracted to trans people. If you’re completely against dating someone you would otherwise be interested in only because of their race, maybe evaluate that. If you have justifications for staying away, like not wanting to deal with tiger parents, certain cultural expectations, etc then that’s reasonable.
I completely agree with you. And I honestly feel like if you feel more comfortable dating a certain race (like other white people) why should that be a problem? You’re not harming anyone. You’re not committing a hate crime, you’re not using offensive language, you’re not doing any of that. The world has become way way way too strict specifically towards “white people.” Even someone in my school was yelling on social media about white people who would rather not date black people. (And he wasn’t even black.) So why is that his business? There are so many people who also don’t want to date white people but no one talks about that. Anyway, yeah, people should just do what they want and leave each other alone. Agree 100%. And I’ve seen the bad treatment of white women too (not with specifically black men but just with men everywhere who treat white women like sex objects and degrade them, specifically since the whole “Karen” thing. It’s horrible. Also the “dumb blond bimbo” stereotype. And not to mention all the endless horrible “that’s a white girl thing” stereotypes online, specifically when someone does something stupid. Everywhere in my hometown and on the internet people say to respect women better of all races except white women of course. Obviously that doesn’t help either.) the whole “woke” thing has gone way too far tbh. And I’m more liberal than conservative so this is nothing political for me. Just the attitude is so discriminatory and has become bullying so often, just created more hate.
@@m.i.zeiler2892 I think that exact thought process is exhibited pretty clearly in this video. I saw the full length one a while ago when it came out and was sooo annoyed. I mean mostly white people were saying it’s racist to have a preference - that one girl even said her dating white guys is where she thinks most of her dating problems originate from. If you said that about another race people would jump down your throat for being racist, but it’s ok because you’re demonizing white men specifically? That’s so hypocritical! What *really* matters at the end of the day is physical and emotional attraction. Different people find different features are attractive, and that’s totally ok! To be clear, I’ve dated black guys before. I just think it’s important to point out that there’s reasons why I may be more cautious feeling out those relationships because of the potential fetishization stuff. It’s really no different than being wary about certain family dynamics or religious practices imo🤷🏼♀️
@@kaia6584 I agree with you completely. And just a few days ago I heard these students of all different races laughing about “I’m going to say something racist” however they made it clear that if it’s about black people it’s not acceptable but with white people it’s totally fine. And the person said “don’t worry it’s about white people” or something like that. Or maybe it was “I see a lot of white people doing this…” and it was something really derogatory, basically like describing the cancer of society. It’s unbelievable. Like do people seriously forget that white people are people too? I honestly think people are just dumb too tbh. In my school there’s this half black boy who goes around saying sexual things about Asian women and then hating on white women, even saying he wants to kill Mexican women and the administration does nothing about it. However there was this white woman in my school who was fired for being quiet about a topic about racism. Like seriously??
I'm white, I prefer white men. I've only ever dated white men. There are extremely beautiful men of color and races but I've just never connected with anyone like that.
I like to compare skin colour to a hair or eyes colour, it doesn’t make you the person you are, but only how you look. The environment we grow up with, people around us, some experience- that makes us who we are not the colour of our skin. So when I say I like people with dark hair, does it mean I’m blond phobic? No, that’s dumb. So just because I prefer to date people of certain colour doesn’t mean I here everyone else.
I have been attracted to people of all races, however, when I've gotten a bit serious with them, there's a kind of cultural divide. Even family traditions have caused clashes in relationships so I go into each relationship looking at everything about that person. Their race is usually not the first thing I think about. It's about the connection and cultural traditions for me at least for serious relationships.
Never seen his face before. I can at least understand where some of these people are coming from because I'm a Caucasian guy who likes African skin but also blonde hair and I ended up marrying another Caucasian for her personality and because we ended up working well. I am pedantic as well but terminology is not a deal breaker for me. What's more is that my wife and I are very different and have disagreed since day 1 but here we are. I'm also pretty sure that one lady said "preferable," not "profitable" but still a valid point on Pegasus's part.
Please don't call yourself Caucasian if you're what USAsians mean by calling someone "white". Unless you're from the Caucasus, you're not Caucasian. Caucasian people are a real group of people of multiple different ethnicities. Being of European descent does not make you automatically Caucasian and USAsians probably wouldn't even classify all Caucasian people white.
@@mooma10 My point was more that we as people don't always know what we want and that you don't have to agree on everything to be "compatible." I of course meant no disrespect and she's very politically incorrect as they say so I'm sure she wouldn't be offended. I see somebody else had deleted their reply about the word "Caucasian" and my understanding has always been that it means white but apparently that person said it's a separate ethnicity. To clarify I am American and of quite heavy European descent and utterly refuse to call people "white" or "black" because to me those are skin colors, not race/ethnicity although those color terms do refer to European and African descent respectively. Of course society at large is overly obsessed with race/ethnicity which does contribute to more individual racism even if the US is less systemically racist than it was decades ago.
I used to say i only liked black men. I'm a white woman. And now when ppl ask me, especially men, "what's your type" I just say my husband is my only type.
I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: as a white woman, I would not be offended if someone said they were not attracted to white people. Because someone else out there IS. It’s not racism (unless they make that clear that it is), it’s just preference. Like how some people like blue. Maybe someone likes the beautiful way a black womans skin glows when she wears yellow? Or the way an Japanese woman’s features are soft and gentle, but then are so animated and enthusiastic when they speak about the stuff they love. Maybe they don’t even know why they like what they do, but it just feels comfortable to them? Rejection sucks, but remember people- you don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. So just go. It hurts, but it’s a lot less of a hassle in the long run. 🤷🏻♀️ (Before anyone says anything about what I’ve said above, I’m pansexual- those are only a few simple examples from what I like about a those certain POC. Sorry if it in anyway is offensive to you- I find certain things beautiful about certain kinds of people, and I’ve been with a whole rainbow of people, so please take no offense. I have no preference except kindness and nice smiles ❤)
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to people that look like you, not even a little. I've noticed something else, maybe it's just me seeing this, but I feel like they make a huge effort to gather the strangest looking people, while including ONE person over 30! This is the silliest representation of who's out there, ever!
Flavors is an interesting way to look at it, though visual appeal only ever goes so far between people and shouldn't be the deciding factor in a relationship. Appreciate who your partner is first and the rest will follow 👍
I suspect they find these people by throwing a trawling net out the back of a van and driving at speed through the Bay area or possibly LA's bougie neighbourhoods.
I do not have a racial preference but I do have a preference. I only date smart guys. I dated black, white, singaporean and I am currently with a korean for 8yrs. Smart Guys for me have more patience, because they tend to understand emotional stuff logically. They think before they speak and they don't usually argue with petty things. The only reason why I broken up with most of them is because of priorities. None of them cheated. Smart people don't cheat that's why I like them. This was according to my XP.
5:24 I really appreciate her saying that. When I was 12-15 I was being groomed and sexually harassed by a lot of Indian men online. For years I hated Indian men for that because of what those groomers did to me. I've been able to recover now but it was difficult for a long time. I had to accept that REAL men don't hurt children like that, and I shouldn't judge an entire race because of it.
My preference is how the person thinks and feels and behaves, whether we work together mentally or not. I can’t say I only like a race or whatever because I need to know the person before I can know if I like them or not. I think at the end of the day that would be how most people feel? Edit: but in saying that I’ve only ever had one partner and I have been single since I left him in 2011 lol
Dating is inherently discriminatory. Even if you exclude whole races altogether it is ultimately your choice of who you want to be with regardless of the reasons. Going out of your way to demean a race by calling them ugly, weak, stupid, etc and using that as justification to exclude them would be racism. But if you said "I just don't find them attractive" or "I want to pass down my culture to children that look like me" then that's totally acceptable and shouldn't be shamed. Most people (whether they want to believe it or not) are attracted to their own race.
no but genuinely, what is the difference between "colored person" and "person of color"? because the latter just sounds like someone trying to hit a word count on an essay about the former, and it's starting to give me really strong sonic high school limo driver vibes.
It’s just a very antiquated and racist term for Black people. What makes “colored person” so different is the history behind the term- it was heavily used post-Slavery in the US, especially in the South during the Jim Crow era (I.e. racial segregation). Places designated for white people was labeled “whites only” and for Black people was “Coloreds”. There’s a lot of pain behind that word hence why it’s considered hateful to use it. It’s comparable to J*w or Or*entals. It’s inappropriate and antiquated and no one really (or at least should) refer to people with such terms anymore
@@TheMODEGeekit wasn’t exclusively used for black people, but anyone who wasn’t white or fully white, so for example; I am black and white, but would be considered black/colored by default.
@@mooma10 lol how is it a buzzword when it’s literal history? Pick up any American history book and it’ll cover segregation in the South after 1800s-1960s
yeah i think its depends on why they said it, when i was younger i always thought "black" was racist and "coloured" wasnt. i feel like especially since it was used a lot older people still use it without knowing its wrong or they do but younger people are brought up to think its fine. tbh think things like this shouldve been taught more in schools. of course he couldve very well have been racist thought but if thats the only reason she has them theres a good chance he thought it was the right word.
Interesting that many of them dont understand the meaning or concept of "preferences". For them this means that people will never date a person thats not their preference, while the meaning is a totally different. I personally have a preference on dark or blond haired woman that have blue or grey eyes. That does not mean that i would never date a woman that has brown eyes. Its just a tendency thats it.
"He called me coloured, not person of colour!" They both basically mean the exact same thing, different ways of describing the exact same thing. Just one is "politically correct," and one is considered "racist." Just goes to show how dumb the woke crowd are when they can't see how stupid that term really is. And I never understood it either, I mean, we are all people of different coloured skin, and I never realised that darker shades of colour were considered as "more colourful" than lighter shades, like wtf? 🤷♂️
With the person of colour vs coloured person, although I’m not very left, I can sorta see why she thought it was offensive. I think it’s like calling someone ‘an anxious person’ (meaning that’s their identity) vs ‘a person who’s anxious’ (at this time point they are anxious). But you can’t be black at a certain point and change it so it’s still kinda wild.
It's because colored people is the term we read about in us textbooks of segregation and is associated with racism. The signs that they put over the water fountains and stuff to segregate. No coloreds, white only, and stuff like that. The person of color is to specify anyone nonwhite and doesn't have that connotation, even though when it first came out, that's what it reminded people of. It's worse than the anxiety thing because if you know anything about black people and you live in America, you should at least know not to call one a colored person, especially the one you're trying to date. She doesn't want to put in work to someone whose bar is on the floor.
@@coffeecat8826 glad to help. Being of the same culture helps avoid cultural faux pas and pegasus was discrediting that. I'm in an interracial relationship and my mom and bf fight all the time because he doesn't know how she expects him to act and my sister's boyfriends always get praised. Me and my boyfriend have mostly the culture but my sister and family are different. It's rough and I understand if people prefer not to have to put in the work, especially with someone who has negative knowledge. Where you live can also have issues. In America if you're the nonwhite partner, you can often be called a nanny or be accused of kidnapping. Being talked down in favor of your children who they believe belong to someone else. If they haven't met someone who's worth all that, then I understand why they'd say they aren't up for it.
@@squirrel670 some people arent american and dont know. Maybe the guy was too. It just feels weird to say "oh he called me colored person once so i left them" lmao
@@EveTheRaviolo I explained that an American should know so if he wasn't, then your comment doesn't make it untrue. She didn't want to deal with that and that's valid. If she dates a black guy she probably won't have to teach him that. Being called a discriminatory term makes people lose attraction. Doesn't matter if it's ignorance, she clearly lost feelings right there. You can have a racial preference due to attraction but heaven forbid you have an ethnicity preference which basically influenced the personality and social interaction portion of the relationship.
one-punch man and mob psycho 100 are written by the same person, therefore it is completely reasonable to confuse characters from the two series. except when Tatsumaki is involved.
Saying “Colored People” is linked to segregation that’s why it’s not socially acceptable to say. It’s similar to calling a Black person a “Negro” modern day. Just better to say POC or African American for Black people in particular, if you dont want to risk being offensive that is. I personally prefer to be called Black as it is but I guess some people don’t like it for whatever reason.
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Humans just can't let humans be humans
Facts
Fr
Spitting real facts right now.
I thought u said “humans just can’t let humans eat humans” and I was kinda worried but fr tho
it's crazy but not surprising..
There are people who respect others for their racial perfrence.
And then there are the people who hate a type of race as a dating option and will share this opinion with everyone around them instead of keeping it to themselves.
nope im turkish and i hate dating with turkish girls because theyre selfish + attention seeker not worth for give attention because when you give attention they think theyre god or something and its like %90 of the turkish girls i had so much gf before i just realize it and i realize that my friends having the same things and not realizing they all saying this is the good one and bum they break up after a week because she just wants to
Yes
@statussiidhaea When speaking about those outspoken people who are giving their own opinions on the subject matter of dating options being racialized. What' makes that hateful ? If the fight is to champion "equality & tolerance" for all. Then any & all positions agreed or disagreed upon should have a platform to debate & exchange ideas on any public forum or platform... Should it not ?
It seems people like yourself are only accepting & tolerant of your own ideological views. While disingenuously blurring the lines between hate v.s preference/opinion in bad faith.
No
You don’t have to add on
there's a difference between a preference and being racist.
No
@@midbehavior4737 yes
I disagree. It makes it seem like there is something inherently wrong with the other option than the ones you have a preference for
@@XXETU972 technically it's *slight* racism, according to google
Similar to like ageism, I’m sorry I don’t like minors and I don’t like old people😥 it’s normal to have some preferences when you date someone, it’s just another thing when you outright will give 0 chance to anyone of a race purely for the fact of skin tone
It's definitely walking the line when you "don't date white guys but I'll date anyone else" I had a white friend like that who basically exclusively dated darker black men. She didn't want a white baby, that's it. I'd understand if she found black men more attractive, but to seek out a certain race so your baby can look a certain way... Yea... It's a no from me. It's definitely racist even if it feels like it's not. It's like when your straight friends put you on a pedastool of friendship for being gay like, are you my friend cause you like me or cause you want a GBF?? It just feels like you're a fetish. Or they want brownie points for not dating white people.
This is sadly more common than you know. Many white women and black men alike are weirdly obsessed with having mixed babies, and it’s their main goal when marrying or getting in a relationship. It’s funny because you can’t determine what that child is gonna look like, it’s so weird to me lmfao. And being mixed (black and white) I’ve seen all sides and heard the most weird shit regarding to my skin color, hair and features.
One of my friends said this to me.. while dating a white guy who had a ton of black friends.. guuuuurl 👀
@@Lunalla I think it's part of some strange plan to eradicate races all together. All become one race. I mean it's already gonna happen naturally idk why they gotta push it. And only going for one race or never going for all of one race seems kinda racist to me. Other than that a preference is understandable.
Personally I prefer non Caucasian men and women, but I'm not opposed to dating a Caucasian.
@@justyeeeeeetit sneaky asf lmao
imagine the baby still comes out white ☠
I was dating a girl who was Mexican and she was making jokes about white people and white patents basically saying they need to beat their kids more. I said thank god my parents aren’t Mexican cause they’d beat my ass every day (something along those lines it wasn’t funny but wasn’t super racist either) she immediately turned around and slapped me really hard and we broke up. This was hands down the most weird interaction I’ve ever had with a partner.
If you can dish you should be able take it and if you can’t then don’t say anything.
Nah, screw her. That's what happens when you beat your kids, they end up aggressive and want to solve issues with violence. My mom beat me and I told her I'm not bringing that to my children.
How come my white boyfriend can be raised without being beaten but we need it? Then she told me when I get older I'll understand. No tf I won't. That just means I forgot how it felt and I will never. All I did was hate her and do what I was doing worse. They think beating their kids is funny and some kind of pride in it. People want to spread their trauma or break free from it.
My Mexican parents never beat me. Love them for that ☝🏼☝🏼
@@AlL-bi2im I’m glad it sounds like you had good patient parents. I don’t believe in hitting your kid but we were just making jokes and she slapped me 😂 I think stereotypes can be funny if you keep in mind they’re complete bs but she didn’t see it that way unfortunately which is odd to me cause of the blatant hypocrisy
Tf 😭😭😭 yeah my least favorite thing is people who make light hearted race jokes and then can’t handle the same light hearted race jokes back 😐😐😐 your response was acceptable lmfao
shes weird wtf
I’m a simple Irish gal, I’ve dated people a white person before, I’ve also dated an Asian person before.
Both relationships were amazing, race had nothing to do with how these people treat me. We had our cultural differences, however I learned so much, it was amazing to learn about another persons culture.
I suppose I don’t have a racial preference, but also I understand people that do. The Asian guy I dated went on to date an Asian woman, which is totally okay, I can 100% understand why somebody would choose another from their own race, we are still friends and yeah, really I’d date anyone as long as they were kind and I found them attractive.
Simple life.
You were the problem
@@Schinzo__how
@@Schinzo__ what?? there was no mention of any problems in the comment?? What problem are you referring to??
@@Schinzo__ BRUHHHH WHAT
@@Schinzo__ Where’d you get that from lmao
Obviously someone's physical appearance is what you would notice first, right? I don't think people like to admit it, but being physically attractive certainly helps. But having a good personality is the most important part, I do agree about that. It is very attractive when people can have deep conversations with me, which is quite rare.
Yess exactly! Deep convos are so rare indeed ☠️
Yes
Unless you are blind
A friend once asked me what my preference was. I said personality. She did not believe me. My asexual ass doesn't even know what an attraction is.
idk, i'd say its different from some people. I did get crushes for guys that didnt catch my eye, solely because of their personality. Like, it happened to me that in a group of friends at the restaurant a guy started talking about videogames with me and I find it so interesting to talk to him and he made me laugh and was quite funny and we shared many games in common, and after a couple hours i realized I started crushing for him. Even tho I didnt really feel attracted to his looks at first, i literally wasn't feeling anything for him until he started talking. So yup, i honestly do think its not impossible to not notice someone's looks but get attracted to their personality
There is a difference between having a preference and refusing to date someone because of their race.
I heard a lot of african american women saying they would never date a white man and african american men saying they would never date a african american woman and I dont get what is wrong with that? People cant control what they are attracted to
Honestly it’s bad but I’m glad they wouldn’t date me because that saves my time knowing what kinda person they are like
@@salmonbamminfish2925 god forbit people have desires
I don't see why it is so bad to not be attracted to a certain race. You can't control it, why should you be forced to date someone you are not attracted to just to "not be racist".
Or only dating one race
bro i love that he shows his face more often in his videos now
Agreed
hes ugly though and then shits on other peoples appearances. Ironic
@@theonlyangel1498 Imagine calling someone ugly and then getting mad about people judging others appearances. 💀
ong bro
The fact that I’m able to recognize half of these people from the button can’t be a good sign for my mental health
lmaoooooo
same like that old fancy lady from the last video
botox girl is in this lmao
@@socialistrepublicofvietnam1500 lmao the fact that I know exactly who you're talking about makes it even worse
😂
If I think they’re physically attractive, and they have a good personality thats all I need. You’re really hurting yourself by limiting yourself.
They're going to be in their 40's, single, wishing they weren't as judging as they were 💀💀
@@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying or the classic "you were all wrong i'm right and the right people always get it worse"
a preference isnt a limit. some of you need to purchase a dictionary
@@imdva we know that, we're talking about the ones who only date certain races
@@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying that wasnt obvious, everyone else in the comments are talking about preferences
This video speaks volumes about human nature. Seems like us people have a long way to go in terms of redemption.
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The word "speaks" and "terms" are near each other for me and i combined them...... lmao. You probably already know what iam talking about (the word that it just combined into.)
Also when i was typing at around the end of this, Pegasus said: "There's nothing wrong about saying a word wrong lmao"
Not really if you go outside and talk to real people they’re opinions are quite different and even when they’re the same they are much less exaggerated
@@snomcultist189 correct me if I'm wrong but most of the people that cut picks are people who apply to it, the average person is not going to apply to cut just the people who are on social media too much and have weird takes.
Who needs to redeem?
"I am not racist. I just hate dating white dudes because of their skin color and my prejudice, so I am not racist amd I don't have a racial preference, because we all know that hating white is not a racial thing it's simply right."
Apparently they don’t know the definition of interpersonal racism
I’ve been attracted to so many different kinds of guys over the years it’s funny. I think sometimes having preferences might limit us from experiencing cool new things but if someone does have one as long as it’s respectful I don’t care
U got too many preferences then lol
@@jonnyfohnemgrave4733 no such thing as too many preferences, you just have too little preferences and therefore too little options then lol
@@jonnyfohnemgrave4733 I meant that as a Hispanic from an old school family it’s typical to date within our own. And I’ve only dated like 3 guys before all with different backgrounds, that was the main point. But If you think that’s a lot then idk what to tell you bud 🤣
@@EveTheRaviolo lol comments like that trying to be shady literally glide over me like water 😂 pal sounds lonely
@@jonnyfohnemgrave4733 2 many preferences is just not being racist haha
Why is it considered terrible to have a racial preference but acceptable to like brunettes or be attracted to green eyes or people of a certain height etc.?
I LOVE brunettes with green eyes, women are soo gorgeous!!
Exactly, I’m not attracted to south asians. And I’m half south Asian (Bengali) and half Caucasian (Dutch) myself. My parents told me that even when I was 5 I blurted out “I’d never marry a brown man” and my parents had tell me why that wasn’t ok😭 like I’ve just never seen a south Asian that I find attractive. And if I do someday, then I’ll go for it. But out of all of my 22years of life, while being half Bengali so I’ve seen many south asians, I have not found one even remotely attractive. Not saying they’re aren’t attractive, but just not to me.
@@_kikizaman_ You're beautiful! I find the most attractive humans are often those who are a mix of diverse bloodlines.
@@bela-sofia34 aww you’re so sweet this made my day😭❤️ it’s little things like this that put a smile on my face, thank you love🥺❤️
People are just sensitive. You don't have to find someone attractive to view them as equal, but people who find themselves unattractive tie their appearance to self worth and degrade themselves.
As a poc myself, I wouldn’t be offended by someone calling me a “colored person.” However, my U.S. history teacher told us that saying “colored people” is offensive and outdated so we should say “people of color” instead (he was a white male btw). Like I said, I personally wouldn’t care if someone called me the outdated term, but I guess that’s why that one girl was so upset about it
That's the problem here - that girl got all upset and ended a relationship just because she was called a term by a boyfriend (without him intending to cause any offence!) a term that she had been TOLD is now offensive!! She's young and impressionable, perhaps one day she'll learn to decide for herself what's acceptable to her and what's not. If not, she could lose a lot of innocent boyfriends (and friends) from her life..
@@jeanhind8198 I'm not saying her reaction was appropriate at all. I'm just guessing that's why she got offended
@@whiteroses560 Yes, of course. You are an intelligent person who can think for yourself and set your own boundaries with people, sadly it seems that some just let others (teachers, social media, etc) decide what's "appropriate" for everyone...
@@jeanhind8198 Im sorry but you're doing what you're accusing her of...You say "you're intelligent and can think for yourself" to people who think like you, but you say "she's just impressionable and lets others decide whats appropriate for her" when someone thinks or feels differently then you....hmmm you have more in common with the people you criticize than you think, you also think that the only good opinions and smart people are only those who think like you XD
@@EveTheRaviolo Eve, I'm sure you're right.
In South Africa it’s actually really common to call a coloured person coloured
Yeah, that's an American thing.
When I (german) grew up, calling someone "schwarz" (black) was considered offensive, while "farbig" (colored) would have been the more PC wording.
Imagine my confusion when I found out it is the literal opposite in the US.
It means different things though.
My friend we are brothers in South Africa
“Anything other than white and blonde.”
*Friendly fire will not be tolerated!*
Can I just say it’s funny how so many of the people said they need someone to connect with on a deeper level, yet they equate that to social issues, skin color issues and characteristics in which we have no control over. I can’t help that I am attracted to taller, in shape white men, and I’ve found myself more attracted and drawn to white men; and get this, I’m half black and half white and female, so I don’t relate with most white men in terms of my upbringing and experiences. I get along with white men more cause we have the same interests and hobbies, that’s it lol.
You're using common sense here, Luna. You can't do that with the people from Cut/Button videos! 😋
I’m white and I’m attracted to white men. Nothing wrong with that 🤷♀️
Quit being so logical and reasonable. I'm white (German) and am attracted to white girls but actually prefer women with darker skin for some reason that I don't fully understand. My wife of 18 years is native American and I've always been ridiculously attracted to everything that makes her who she is from the way she looks to her personality to her everyday mannerisms. I couldn't have designed a more perfect person for me, but it's not because of her race, it's the whole package.
When i first heard that “person of color” lady i was like
Damn. A lil touchy but alr ig.
Then i went back and listened to it again, and what does she say?
“I dated a white person.”
Naw girl, you cant get mad at being called a “colored person” if u just gonna call them a “white person”.
Shit goes both ways
11:03 goes crazy bruh
Colored is different then saying black . Colored is an old term . It more like if she said dated a cracker. Because that was the old racist term black people called white people in the 40s . Colored is what racist people called black people in the 40. Colored and cracker go hand and hand but white and colored don't
@@nattynema Thats actually really interesting. I was just thinking of it as the order of the words. In my head it was the same thing as saying “I have a green apple.” and “I have an apple that is green.”.
I never realized it had a deeper historically racist meaning. My bad for the faulty comparison.
Thanks dude, Ill remember that.
@Tuffdufroggins oh its is no problem . I know alot of people probably dont know that. Non Americans and younger people probably dont know. It's definitely a tone about it. That why the only time you really hear people saying the term "colored" or see signs that say " colored bathroom, colored entrance, etc " is in movies.
That woman who said "I don't think I have a preference, but the people around me always say I have a preference" is super relatable.
It's nowhere near an active seeking of a certain race/racial group to date, it just kinda becomes a trend due to your preconceived type, which usually inadvertently includes racial attributes or traits
Colored person and person of color sounds like the exact same thing said differently to me. That really just seems to be just wanting to be upset with something than anything from the sounds of it.
In my experience, some people just like to make drama out of nothing because they are bored..
It’s deeper than “sounding similar”
Like wayyyy deeper. It was a solid statement imo.
I agree. Black people do not take kindly to people who say colored person because it's an outdated term. But even Person of Color gets you yelled at. Senior year of high school in 2021 when we were having online school, I was in my English class and we were having a discussion I can't remember what about. But the topic of minority stuff came up and I said something to chime into the discussion and at one point I said people of color. And this group of black guys in my class who were some of my schools biggest a*sholes/troublemakers SLAMMED me for saying that. I didn't even say colored, I said people of color. My teacher had to turn off the chat because me and those guys were arguing. And mind you I'm black too. Oh boy if there was ever a moment when I wanted to murder a classmate that was it. I can't believe the nerve of all these black people who have this ridiculously extreme victim mentality and think that they can use racism and slavery and all the other past traumas of black people over the course of history to just do whatever they want without consequences because after all in their minds "Black people have been through way worse things than everybody else". I'm SICK of it. Sorry for ranting but my point is that I don't personally even see a huge problem with using the word colored, it's just a word that they used to describe us back in the day. Whites or non-whites, whites or coloreds, white people or colored people. It's just what they said, it's just what was on paper. It wasn't even a slur, just a description. I'll admit hearing someone use that word today does make me do a double take because again no one says that anymore. But does it offend me? Not really.
@@truthseeker9249 damnnn sorry u had to endure that from those idiots & being a black guy yourself, that shook me lol like wtf 🤯🤦🏽♀️
But the term “colored“ will just always be one of those words that some people will take offense to..and that some people will not. 🤷🏽♀️
whether it’s an offensive term or not is subjective ( I get it ) however……
The comment above was just plain dismissive strictly because the two terms “SOUND the same”
@@justmars4273 Black girl actually. But thank you. I was really ready to catch a body in that moment. I'm just glad I've graduated and I never have to see them again.
I think that it heavely depends on how you communicate that preffrence and how you heavily your dating life depents in the preffrence. It's okay if you notice that you are more likely to find a certain race attractive. It's weird if you only/don't want to date a specific race. Like having a preffrence is not an excuse to say the most outlandish stuff.
Exactly! i’m a black girl for example and most of my crushes and all my exes were white guys. so i guess it’s my preference,
i wouldn’t be opposed to dating other ethnicities it’s just happens that i liked these guys and they liked me 🤷🏾♀️
Everybody has a ‘type’ you may not realize it but everyone you’ve ever dated has something they do that painfully similar, if it’s not visually obvious like eye/hair/skin color it’s in their mannerism, temperament, sense of humor. However, regardless of your type MOST people end up permanently bonding with someone who’s in the same general economic/educational/cultural bracket as them. Crazy how you have to have enough in common to be able to last as a couple 🙄 but yikes these takes
Jeez it's like we treat other people like commodities rather than people. This is the sad truth of the modern world.
12:28 "Anything other than white and blonde"
*Is white and blonde herself*
For real though, i think a lot of these people have self esteem issues that they're projecting.
I don't understand people that completely exclude someone because of their skin colour. They could be perfect for you and you'd never know. Although, for first impressions, you're allowed to find a certain race more attractive.
Certain races have certain features, so it's similar to saying "I like short girls." That's a feature.
Japanese guys with long hair though. ❤️ I blame Hiroyuki Sanada for that. And this thing reminds me of the whole “if you are straight and would not date a trans person, you are transphobic.” Or “if you would not date a fat person, you are fatphobic.”
Preferences, people.
I'm mixed, half black and half Japanese but strangely, I can never be physically attracted to a black person, and I have black friends too. I tried dating one thinking 'can't knock it til you try it' but I was in deep shit when I felt the disconnect despite we clicked. AITA? I had no trauma or whatever with black people either.
If you don't feel it, you don't feel it.
No point in forcing it or feeling bad about it (assuming you ended it as amicably as was possible on your end).
I'd say don't rule it out completely, because preferences can shift and perhaps life will surprise you one day, but don't shame yourself over assuming that it's not, or at least most likely not going to happen.
I'm the same way, I'm half black and half white
Same but im mexican and i have never been attracted to any other mexican its odd
Don't force yourself to date people, just heartbreak. Don't focus on them being black as you are just not attracted to them individually.
mixed black and white, and I have seen some black people who I've found attractive, but for whatever reason I'm mainly attracted to light skin and red hair lmao
I love that he says what people think but feel like they can't say. As a white girl living in America I have to choose my words carefully around peers and online otherwise I'd be the witch in a witch hunt 😩
Pegasus vocalize what I'm thinking a lot of the times and I really appreciate seeing someone else who feels the same and isn't afraid to say it. 👏
Agreed
girl I can relate
im a white guy, feel the same. ive tried to talk about it but its always met with “ur playing victim role” just because my ancestors did bad things. i guarantee there’s gonna be someone on this comment making fun of you because they think white people are incapable of experiencing anything bad.
but hey, my opinion is garbage right? cause every white person is the same, we’re all just privileged!
I feel you babes. It's really hard to be the opposite opinion when everyone else will literally harass you until you conform to their ideas. Just because you are white doesn't mean you don't have opinions to express. You keep finding your voice! And you'll find people who have the same ideology.
Must be tough, to be unable to say a certain opinion or preference just because people are oversensitive. Especially a certain group of people that annoys me a lot by their self entitlement -_-
Also, funny how you have to choose your words more carefully just because you're white, sounds like racism is going in favor of people who fought against racism. Ironic
Them saying that mexican and Hispanic are races just hurts my brain
Facts but not to be that person but it does truly beg the question of race being a spectrum cuz not gonna lie I have a history of generally being attracted to tan-ish Latinos, but like, what am I supposed to say, males that are mestizo? Or like come in there with race percentages? 🤣🤣 you know what I mean
@@gsanchez5116 I would just say you're attracted to mestizos, but I know what you mean lol
bro pegasus never dissapoints
Unless when He doesn't upload.
Jk, He needs rest too
he disappoints just as much as his appearance did when he face revealed. and its so ironic how he shits on other's appearances while he's probably still a virgin
@@xenoemblem7 yea every1 needs a break at least once and a while
@@xenoemblem7 agreed
Facts
the beginning already explains everything... why would anyone think this video was a good idea???
These conversations are interesting to me because I’ve never had a racial preference. Attractive people are attractive, basically. I’ve probably crushed on or dated someone from every race. Their cultures and skin tone / bone structure would have been part of their allure, but mostly it would be their particular personality and looks. However, I don’t think badly of someone who does have a preference. I’m not sure how much you can help who you are attracted to
If its preference, its fine.
If its a condition, its racism.
The only thing that should really matter when it comes to choosing a partner is their heart. If you click together, the rest will fall into place. Good looks are a bonus, of course, but should be secondary, like a side objective in a videogame that's optional and doesn't affect the main story at all
Weeell, no. Looks matter a lot more than you think. Heart is how you chose friends. Heart+looks+a few more things depending on your gender/preference/etc. is how you chose a partner.
@@belivuk2526 Weeeeellll, actually, heart matters more than just choosing friends. Think about it. You could choose the sexiest person on the planet as your partner, but how well will the relationship work if they have the heart of a jackal? You need to click with your partner such that your strengths and weaknesses balance each other out, and that includes more than just looks
@@The_Ragequit_Cannon That's why I said +. You can't chose on looks alone. But you can't chose on hearth alone either. Imagine looking at your partner and never wanting them physically. It erodes the relationship instantly, unless neither of you have sexual desires but then you're no different than friends anyways
@@belivuk2526 That's why I also said that looks matter, just not as much as personality *in my opinion*. But nothing you've said runs contrary to what I said, especially that last post of yours. And like I said, if you mesh together well, then everything else will fall into place
@@The_Ragequit_Cannon You did say that good looks are just a bonus. I'm saying they're not just bonus, they're a must (well, what you consider looking good at least). You called them a side objectives, I call them a 2 requirements main quest
And this is why I PREFER to live alone!!
9:25 OH MY GOD ITS WARIO
“You mean you” killed me, I was on the floor.
I love that... "a blessing in difference"
@pegasus if im not mistaken in the past when racism was even worse in the u.s and people of color couldn’t even use the same bathrooms white people did, they were referred to as ‘colored’ so was their stuff, for ‘colored people’
i might be mistaken but i’ve heard that was the case. might be why she reacted like that
2:12 its a umpa loompa
“Flavors” Theyʻre quarks now.
I've only actually dated one person in my life and they happen to be white and I don't really want anybody else so I don't know if I have a preference aside from height, I just like women/non men who are taller than me.
The only other person I "dated" was black and it only lasted a month, the reason I ghosted him had nothing to do with race, he was really controlling and I was like 12 so I had no idea what I was even doing
that's definetely not a racial preference
Fun fact: wild horses have a colour preference when it comes to who they mate with, does that mean they’re racist?
I've never heard of that, that's cool!
@@mooma10 yeah bit of a strange but cool fun fact🤣
Boy do i love horses 👴🏻
@@astrouxx7341 😭😭😭😭
Those be some racist-ass horses 🐴
It's crazy how every race is allowed to admit that they are more comfortable with their own race and religion except white Christians.
Haha the first one.. with a small amount communication and boundaries you could have fixed that problem easily.
idk as a half black person, i’d be offended if someone called me colored…it’s clear you don’t know the history behind that term and how it was used negatively toward black people back in the day.
I mean if they don't know I don't think it should be a big deal cause they don't know...
Just let them know and if they do it again then you can
Tbh I didn't know it was an insult cause I hear "people of color" all the time... confusing that saying that is okay but calling them colored isn't
@@Lostbreva if you aren’t black i don’t expect you to understand the history behind the word colored. you don’t explicitly call a black person colored regardless of how they mean it. and if they don’t know the history then that sounds like a personal problem.
@@yanniatx you think white people are dumb or something? Why are you asking my race? I'm asking why it's offensive to call them colored but calling them people of color isn't? Yeah I know the history a little bit thanks to other comments but it still doesn't make sense.
And if you just say "if you're not black I don't expect you to understand" I wonder why people don't know 💀
@@Lostbreva i’m half white so why would i call white people dumb? i as a black person said it’s an offensive term so you trying to argue that with me ain’t gonna work sis
@@yanniatx you said white people wouldn't understand it basically and that's rude to white people. We understand racism too especially in this generation
9:30 wow Waluigi, never thought seeing him in real live XD
So for context I’m a white woman, 23, and would consider myself bi/pan. I used to be quite the “activist” because we all want people to be comfortable being themselves right? But i don’t support or buy into the identity politics, tribal warfare of recent years. It’s gone way too far. Bitches do be crazy. Anyways, I don’t have much of a racial preference. I will say that, from my experience, different races/ethnicities have different cultures which will affect a relationship. For (Americanized) Arabs, they tend to have really strict family values and a lot of the time are also part of a tight knit community. Indian communities are also tight knit, but families tend to be very welcoming if you’re respectful/interested in their customs and culture - though this generally comes with expectations that some may find distasteful (like cooking/cleaning/child rearing house wife). So let’s get to the point. While I’m not opposed to being involved black men, I am much more cautious than I am with other races. This is because I’ve heard about how they talk about white women, like it’s a fetish or status symbol. I’ve also had some in depth discussions about this with some of my open minded black male friends that helped me better understand this. Obviously that’s a generalization, but generalization come from somewhere. I just don’t want to be objectified based on my skin color and treated like a handbag that’s getting shown off. I think it really important that these things are talked about candidly. I don’t think someone is automatically racist for having a preference, just like you’re not transphobic for not being sexually attracted to trans people. If you’re completely against dating someone you would otherwise be interested in only because of their race, maybe evaluate that. If you have justifications for staying away, like not wanting to deal with tiger parents, certain cultural expectations, etc then that’s reasonable.
I completely agree with you. And I honestly feel like if you feel more comfortable dating a certain race (like other white people) why should that be a problem? You’re not harming anyone. You’re not committing a hate crime, you’re not using offensive language, you’re not doing any of that. The world has become way way way too strict specifically towards “white people.” Even someone in my school was yelling on social media about white people who would rather not date black people. (And he wasn’t even black.) So why is that his business? There are so many people who also don’t want to date white people but no one talks about that. Anyway, yeah, people should just do what they want and leave each other alone. Agree 100%. And I’ve seen the bad treatment of white women too (not with specifically black men but just with men everywhere who treat white women like sex objects and degrade them, specifically since the whole “Karen” thing. It’s horrible. Also the “dumb blond bimbo” stereotype. And not to mention all the endless horrible “that’s a white girl thing” stereotypes online, specifically when someone does something stupid. Everywhere in my hometown and on the internet people say to respect women better of all races except white women of course. Obviously that doesn’t help either.) the whole “woke” thing has gone way too far tbh. And I’m more liberal than conservative so this is nothing political for me. Just the attitude is so discriminatory and has become bullying so often, just created more hate.
@@m.i.zeiler2892 I think that exact thought process is exhibited pretty clearly in this video. I saw the full length one a while ago when it came out and was sooo annoyed. I mean mostly white people were saying it’s racist to have a preference - that one girl even said her dating white guys is where she thinks most of her dating problems originate from. If you said that about another race people would jump down your throat for being racist, but it’s ok because you’re demonizing white men specifically? That’s so hypocritical! What *really* matters at the end of the day is physical and emotional attraction. Different people find different features are attractive, and that’s totally ok! To be clear, I’ve dated black guys before. I just think it’s important to point out that there’s reasons why I may be more cautious feeling out those relationships because of the potential fetishization stuff. It’s really no different than being wary about certain family dynamics or religious practices imo🤷🏼♀️
@@kaia6584 I agree with you completely. And just a few days ago I heard these students of all different races laughing about “I’m going to say something racist” however they made it clear that if it’s about black people it’s not acceptable but with white people it’s totally fine. And the person said “don’t worry it’s about white people” or something like that. Or maybe it was “I see a lot of white people doing this…” and it was something really derogatory, basically like describing the cancer of society. It’s unbelievable. Like do people seriously forget that white people are people too? I honestly think people are just dumb too tbh. In my school there’s this half black boy who goes around saying sexual things about Asian women and then hating on white women, even saying he wants to kill Mexican women and the administration does nothing about it. However there was this white woman in my school who was fired for being quiet about a topic about racism. Like seriously??
3:23 Bubble off of Trailer Park Boys cleaned up real nice for this one!
I want to see this woman face up against Uncle Ruckus.
LOL THIS IS THE MOST RANDOM COMMENT I HAVE SEEN ON MY 6 YEARS OF TH-cam
I'm white, I prefer white men. I've only ever dated white men. There are extremely beautiful men of color and races but I've just never connected with anyone like that.
I like to compare skin colour to a hair or eyes colour, it doesn’t make you the person you are, but only how you look. The environment we grow up with, people around us, some experience- that makes us who we are not the colour of our skin. So when I say I like people with dark hair, does it mean I’m blond phobic? No, that’s dumb. So just because I prefer to date people of certain colour doesn’t mean I here everyone else.
If I love you it's for you. Not what you are
I have been attracted to people of all races, however, when I've gotten a bit serious with them, there's a kind of cultural divide. Even family traditions have caused clashes in relationships so I go into each relationship looking at everything about that person. Their race is usually not the first thing I think about. It's about the connection and cultural traditions for me at least for serious relationships.
Never seen his face before. I can at least understand where some of these people are coming from because I'm a Caucasian guy who likes African skin but also blonde hair and I ended up marrying another Caucasian for her personality and because we ended up working well. I am pedantic as well but terminology is not a deal breaker for me. What's more is that my wife and I are very different and have disagreed since day 1 but here we are. I'm also pretty sure that one lady said "preferable," not "profitable" but still a valid point on Pegasus's part.
Please don't call yourself Caucasian if you're what USAsians mean by calling someone "white". Unless you're from the Caucasus, you're not Caucasian. Caucasian people are a real group of people of multiple different ethnicities. Being of European descent does not make you automatically Caucasian and USAsians probably wouldn't even classify all Caucasian people white.
That's such an insulting way to describe your partner wtf...
@@mooma10 wdym?
@@mooma10 My point was more that we as people don't always know what we want and that you don't have to agree on everything to be "compatible." I of course meant no disrespect and she's very politically incorrect as they say so I'm sure she wouldn't be offended. I see somebody else had deleted their reply about the word "Caucasian" and my understanding has always been that it means white but apparently that person said it's a separate ethnicity. To clarify I am American and of quite heavy European descent and utterly refuse to call people "white" or "black" because to me those are skin colors, not race/ethnicity although those color terms do refer to European and African descent respectively. Of course society at large is overly obsessed with race/ethnicity which does contribute to more individual racism even if the US is less systemically racist than it was decades ago.
I feel like a lot of people would probably just have an inclination to dating people who look like the people they've seen around growing up
At 14:20 she said "it would be so much more preferable" not "profitable"
"Saying Jews love money is racist!"
Meanwhile Jewish woman: "Marriage is a business deal and union between two Jews is most profitable"
I used to say i only liked black men. I'm a white woman. And now when ppl ask me, especially men, "what's your type" I just say my husband is my only type.
That's wholesome, having one man be the one, hope you two have a lifetime well spent together!
I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again: as a white woman, I would not be offended if someone said they were not attracted to white people. Because someone else out there IS. It’s not racism (unless they make that clear that it is), it’s just preference. Like how some people like blue. Maybe someone likes the beautiful way a black womans skin glows when she wears yellow? Or the way an Japanese woman’s features are soft and gentle, but then are so animated and enthusiastic when they speak about the stuff they love. Maybe they don’t even know why they like what they do, but it just feels comfortable to them? Rejection sucks, but remember people- you don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. So just go. It hurts, but it’s a lot less of a hassle in the long run. 🤷🏻♀️
(Before anyone says anything about what I’ve said above, I’m pansexual- those are only a few simple examples from what I like about a those certain POC. Sorry if it in anyway is offensive to you- I find certain things beautiful about certain kinds of people, and I’ve been with a whole rainbow of people, so please take no offense. I have no preference except kindness and nice smiles ❤)
When she said 6'5 he got self conscious and insecure 😂
Friendly fire will not be tolerated
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to people that look like you, not even a little. I've noticed something else, maybe it's just me seeing this, but I feel like they make a huge effort to gather the strangest looking people, while including ONE person over 30! This is the silliest representation of who's out there, ever!
I have a racial preference for Asian just because my country is barely diverse. Bet a lot of people can relate to this.
which asian?
But would you say you wouldn't date anyone from any other race? Or is it just a preference.
@@welwitschia3756 all asian kind i guess
@@neowolf09 you don't date anyone from any other race if you can't tho
bruh that's a fetish. you can learn about culture without having to date someone from that culture.
Flavors is an interesting way to look at it, though visual appeal only ever goes so far between people and shouldn't be the deciding factor in a relationship. Appreciate who your partner is first and the rest will follow 👍
4:36 I NEED to know where they got that shirt!!! I LOVE IT!!
I've been friends with all types of people, but was always drawn to hispanich people because we just had similar cultures and more in common.
Probably was the hardest thing she’s lived through lol
Friendly fire will not be tolerated..
I suspect they find these people by throwing a trawling net out the back of a van and driving at speed through the Bay area or possibly LA's bougie neighbourhoods.
Videos like that make me glad I'm not the person in the video.
Like whoever you like that's totally fine as long as you aren't being disrespectful about the people you aren't attracted to
9:39
"My dude is playing Portal 2 with his ears"
NGL, this one got me💀
I have heard “if she ain’t foreign, she’s boring” before… about cars though.
Hey man love your vids bro❤❤😂
I do not have a racial preference but I do have a preference. I only date smart guys. I dated black, white, singaporean and I am currently with a korean for 8yrs.
Smart Guys for me have more patience, because they tend to understand emotional stuff logically.
They think before they speak and they don't usually argue with petty things.
The only reason why I broken up with most of them is because of priorities.
None of them cheated.
Smart people don't cheat that's why I like them.
This was according to my XP.
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5:24 I really appreciate her saying that. When I was 12-15 I was being groomed and sexually harassed by a lot of Indian men online. For years I hated Indian men for that because of what those groomers did to me. I've been able to recover now but it was difficult for a long time. I had to accept that REAL men don't hurt children like that, and I shouldn't judge an entire race because of it.
Colored person = person of color. I see no differences
The fact that he called tatsumaki phsyco
My preference is how the person thinks and feels and behaves, whether we work together mentally or not. I can’t say I only like a race or whatever because I need to know the person before I can know if I like them or not. I think at the end of the day that would be how most people feel?
Edit: but in saying that I’ve only ever had one partner and I have been single since I left him in 2011 lol
"Bro just plays portal on his ears" LMFAO
9:34
Bro looks like he's gonna say "Wah, heh, heh, heh!" and drive away in a purple go-kart
Dating is inherently discriminatory. Even if you exclude whole races altogether it is ultimately your choice of who you want to be with regardless of the reasons. Going out of your way to demean a race by calling them ugly, weak, stupid, etc and using that as justification to exclude them would be racism. But if you said "I just don't find them attractive" or "I want to pass down my culture to children that look like me" then that's totally acceptable and shouldn't be shamed. Most people (whether they want to believe it or not) are attracted to their own race.
no but genuinely, what is the difference between "colored person" and "person of color"? because the latter just sounds like someone trying to hit a word count on an essay about the former, and it's starting to give me really strong sonic high school limo driver vibes.
And also, why are non-white people called people of color, is white not a color?
It’s just a very antiquated and racist term for Black people. What makes “colored person” so different is the history behind the term- it was heavily used post-Slavery in the US, especially in the South during the Jim Crow era (I.e. racial segregation). Places designated for white people was labeled “whites only” and for Black people was “Coloreds”. There’s a lot of pain behind that word hence why it’s considered hateful to use it. It’s comparable to J*w or Or*entals. It’s inappropriate and antiquated and no one really (or at least should) refer to people with such terms anymore
@@TheMODEGeekit wasn’t exclusively used for black people, but anyone who wasn’t white or fully white, so for example; I am black and white, but would be considered black/colored by default.
@@TheMODEGeek blah blah blah buzzword blah blah blah blah blah
@@mooma10 lol how is it a buzzword when it’s literal history? Pick up any American history book and it’ll cover segregation in the South after 1800s-1960s
Hi Pegasus I rlly love ur videos Ive been watching them since late 2020
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I love everyone, love is love, it doesnt matter what your skin color is.
I think „coloured person“ sounds wierd but it’s no reason to break up with someone
It’s rooted in what they were called back in the 40s-60s during segregation.
yeah i think its depends on why they said it, when i was younger i always thought "black" was racist and "coloured" wasnt. i feel like especially since it was used a lot older people still use it without knowing its wrong or they do but younger people are brought up to think its fine. tbh think things like this shouldve been taught more in schools. of course he couldve very well have been racist thought but if thats the only reason she has them theres a good chance he thought it was the right word.
Only because you're white does'nt mean you are racist, well i am racist but not because i am white
I'm also racist :D
Interesting that many of them dont understand the meaning or concept of "preferences". For them this means that people will never date a person thats not their preference, while the meaning is a totally different. I personally have a preference on dark or blond haired woman that have blue or grey eyes. That does not mean that i would never date a woman that has brown eyes. Its just a tendency thats it.
I’ve dated multiple races and I think we veer towards what we know and similar cultural, values, morals etc.
"He called me coloured, not person of colour!" They both basically mean the exact same thing, different ways of describing the exact same thing. Just one is "politically correct," and one is considered "racist." Just goes to show how dumb the woke crowd are when they can't see how stupid that term really is. And I never understood it either, I mean, we are all people of different coloured skin, and I never realised that darker shades of colour were considered as "more colourful" than lighter shades, like wtf? 🤷♂️
Uh the "only colored" signs💀
@@Mansour4reall what do you mean? I never said 'only coloured" and what signs? What are you talking about? Lol 😅
Yeah I don't get it either -
It's like saying "people of white" and "white people" and saying white people is racist? Like what?
With the person of colour vs coloured person, although I’m not very left, I can sorta see why she thought it was offensive. I think it’s like calling someone ‘an anxious person’ (meaning that’s their identity) vs ‘a person who’s anxious’ (at this time point they are anxious). But you can’t be black at a certain point and change it so it’s still kinda wild.
It's because colored people is the term we read about in us textbooks of segregation and is associated with racism. The signs that they put over the water fountains and stuff to segregate. No coloreds, white only, and stuff like that. The person of color is to specify anyone nonwhite and doesn't have that connotation, even though when it first came out, that's what it reminded people of.
It's worse than the anxiety thing because if you know anything about black people and you live in America, you should at least know not to call one a colored person, especially the one you're trying to date. She doesn't want to put in work to someone whose bar is on the floor.
@@squirrel670 welp I’m not American and I’ve never been there. Good to know :)
@@coffeecat8826 glad to help. Being of the same culture helps avoid cultural faux pas and pegasus was discrediting that.
I'm in an interracial relationship and my mom and bf fight all the time because he doesn't know how she expects him to act and my sister's boyfriends always get praised. Me and my boyfriend have mostly the culture but my sister and family are different. It's rough and I understand if people prefer not to have to put in the work, especially with someone who has negative knowledge.
Where you live can also have issues. In America if you're the nonwhite partner, you can often be called a nanny or be accused of kidnapping. Being talked down in favor of your children who they believe belong to someone else. If they haven't met someone who's worth all that, then I understand why they'd say they aren't up for it.
@@squirrel670 some people arent american and dont know. Maybe the guy was too. It just feels weird to say "oh he called me colored person once so i left them" lmao
@@EveTheRaviolo I explained that an American should know so if he wasn't, then your comment doesn't make it untrue. She didn't want to deal with that and that's valid. If she dates a black guy she probably won't have to teach him that.
Being called a discriminatory term makes people lose attraction. Doesn't matter if it's ignorance, she clearly lost feelings right there. You can have a racial preference due to attraction but heaven forbid you have an ethnicity preference which basically influenced the personality and social interaction portion of the relationship.
"Friendly fire will not be tolerated."
0:22 I'm sorry Peg. Can't watch this one. That was already too much for me.
Same I'm over it
one-punch man and mob psycho 100 are written by the same person, therefore it is completely reasonable to confuse characters from the two series.
except when Tatsumaki is involved.
Saying “Colored People” is linked to segregation that’s why it’s not socially acceptable to say. It’s similar to calling a Black person a “Negro” modern day.
Just better to say POC or African American for Black people in particular, if you dont want to risk being offensive that is. I personally prefer to be called Black as it is but I guess some people don’t like it for whatever reason.
The Jewish girl saying profitable is Eric Cartman’s dream.
A lot of these people particulary near the end of the video should say "it's enough if he/she breathe"