The main issue is people don't get on the same page as people before getting into a relationship. People who want marriage or kids should make sure the person they are about to get with is on the same page. Furthermore political and religious ideas should be the same. An uber liberal and a die-hard republican should definitely not get together. Even if they work when they have kids it would be a terrible situation. Also people who are differing on religious ideas, such as a christian and an athiest, would not work unless one of the acquiesces to the other when it comes to what they allow or don't allow in their home.
@@bryce4650 seriously. But the gunpoint thing is actually making sense to me . Why he is still in this relationship otherwise? (Other than everything they share)
No woman is worth enough for a man to sacrifice his own dream for her. As men, our dreams are what give us purpose in life. If you have no dreams, you don’t have anything in life. It strips away your purpose and reason to live
@@ReSuDa As a woman I would love a guy who focuses on his dreams, I want him to be able to do what he wants in his life without anybody getting in his way
The fact that she not even within the first minute of the video revealed this dudes personal struggle with tobacco already shows that she's more redder of a flag than that slushy she's drinking
He literally asked "What more do you want from me?" and she is basically saying "I want a ring" I mean I can see both sides of this, he thinks they're basically already married since they share most everything but she wants the official commitment - as well as a fancy symbol she can wear on her finger. But this is just reeeally awkward to watch, her big grinning face while he's sitting there with a very disapproving face.
I understand wanting a ring I guess but a legal document tying two people together is just a little bit on the top of EVERYTHING they share together. Money, home, companies, pets like what she wants is the ceremony fr not seeing that they are already basically married. Plus her "hahahahaa just kidding just kidding just kidding 🤪" seems really fake as if she's not dropping hints but trying to force him into it
Homegirl doesn't even subscribe to any religious/traditional doctrine, so it doesn't make any logical sense for her to be in any hurry have the 'married' title.
@@IneptPotatoI know this type of girl. She'll harass him for everything SHE wants, then get bored one day and leave him. She'll say "I never got to experience being with other people" or summer bs like that. You can just tell she's super toxic masquerading as the "sweet girl next door".
He knows after 6 years whether he wants to be with her or not. He clearly does NOT want to be with her, or he would have proposed. He should man-up and break the news to her. She should get her head out of her booty and have a little self-respect and leave him to find a husband before she's too old to secure one.
Yeah, the girl is vain and disrespectful talking private stuff on tiktok, but it's his fault he chose a kid and now he needs to put up with that. I don't feel nad for a guy who starter dating 14 year old girl while he was already 18!!!
Rejecting people as a guy is an essential skill. It's tempting considering it barely happens especially in a straight relationship but learning to say no helps avoid red flags
As a Nascar fan I just wanted to add that she used to wreck every week. Like EVERY week. Maybe they should just focus on their relationship then "their job". Lol
Mate, he looks so depressed. He's probably a pretty down-to-earth guy, but her filming these videos and making their relationship everybody's business must be bringing him down. She sounds like a control freak who takes all the pleasure in everything for herself. He was naive enough to fall for her.. tho hopefully he can get the hell away from her crazy ass instead of getting married and having kids involved. She literally emptied that man's energy
She's super manipulative too, that whole offhand comment about them meeting when she was 14 was uncalled for and literally just to make him look like a creep (this is of course if they really did only start dating when she was 18) she has so much power over him and wants to remind him constantly so he doesn't leave and is pressured into proposing
@@pennythoughts my thoughts exactly. Her body language too. Like each time she discusses her relationship she side eyes him then back at the camera. Honestly if the genders was reversed everyone would scream they're toxic and abusive.
- did you know I was the one when I was 14 and you were 18 - she won't leave because the dogs are in my name - he's my one and only friend - we're with each other 24/7 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Every time she asks he should say "soon" and "working on it" and disappear for a few hours to prepare the surprise. Eventually he can say "the big day is tomorrow", they go out and he hands her legal documents separating their finances and businesses lmao. When the 14 and 18 year old thing came up that shit sounded like blackmail, idk whats going on but I hope he's alright, like damn
I swear she stated they met while at nascar- so like either I got mixed up in her idiotic ramblings or she's lying and they like went to the sane school but saying that too would only give more red flags and make people think he's worse because waiting for a minor to turn legal is considered grooming. It really does feel like she said things on purpose and watch someone still say she's the victim if they do separate yet she's literally putting him on blast to a bunch of people and talking about him like he's a child "he's on edge give him a bit" like he's some child who needs a nap and is getting cranky
i am really sad for the boyfriend. he really looks like he is forced to do everything his girlfriend wants, its so sad. i wish he had a better partner beacause he is in a hidden passive aggressive relationship
@@katarzynaxx563 I can't tell if your angry because "In 99% the woman..." makes no sense. But I don't think that nearly all women give up their dreams and "life" (so they fucking die?) when they get with a guy. That sounds pretty fucking stupid.
I met my fiance when I was 22 and he was 23. I told him up front that I was looking for a future marriage partner and that I wasn't going to wait ten years once I was in a serious relationship. I don't waste my time with casual dating. Got engaged at year five.
yup, she should def leave him if she isn't getting what she wants and he looks like he doesn't even like her. She will get someone who will propose to her and make her a happy person.
@@ashleylove6840 honestly I feel bad for the guy more, she's forcing her dreams onto him and he doesn't know if he can provide, if they broke up and both went their way they'd both be happy
@@ashleylove6840to me it just looks like he needs her to get her energy out with some friends. She’s too high energy, it’s dragging him down so he doesn’t have the energy to match her
Surprised I haven’t seen anyone say this. It’s very, very possible that they have a reasonably loving relationship, but that they didn’t wait until she was 18 to mess around. I’ve seen this before. He CAN’T leave.
She’s stuck in her stupid preteen phase. They ALREADY share a house, finances, and companies, and her bringing up the ages of when they met seems like blackmail, kinda like she’s telling him “If you break up with me, I’ll call the police, report you for grooming and I’ll sue you of everything you have.” Grooming is wrong and all, but I’m 100% positive she forced him into the relationship the second she turned 18.
I also feel the manipulation from miles away. Trying to make him look bad or feel bad with all pressure from her and others on the internet. They share everything at this point, he has no way out of this without getting even more hurt. I have a feeling this girl knows this, it's like- in her face. Totally egotistical, a total manipulator. I feel bad for him. The whole get married shit she is inputting is scary bro
Spend every moment together?? As much as I'd love someone, I'd go insane eventually if I had to spend my time with them constantly. I get exhausted even if it's a few days out of a week, then again- my only experiences were as a teen, so who knows- maybe I'll grow out of it. But damn, just hearing that made the energy pour right out of me-
Nah dude that really is an issue, you need to socialize with others too, it's why when in a couple a person tries to gatekeep the other from seeing their friends, the situation is considered a red flag
I would hate spending every moment with my love. listen, I love you and want to spend that rest of my life with you don’t get me wrong, but that’s too much socializing and physical touch for me. go away and let me be for a bit
My parents spend their whole lives together, it's a miracle they go to the toilet in privacy. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle have their own (as well as shared) friendgroups and hobbies. I'd go insane in a relationship like my parents have and from a bystanders perspective, I just wanna do a mother daughter day once a year, can I please just have that. I even do mother, daughter, third wheel days with my bestie and her mother, it'd be awesome if my mum comes along. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle give me hope for relationships even with my personality.
I feel so sad for the like he was probably just chilling and then this chick starts to record him. And not to forget how awkward it was to watch imagine how awkward it was for him
This woman is type of people I got daily cringe from in high school every single day. I'm so glad nowadays these type of people I meet so much less, but this brought so many vietnam flashbacks that I'd cringe for the poor guys who thought "tee hee quirky noisy girls are so hot".
God, she reminds me of this one girl I always saw in high school laughing like this and sticking her tongue out for no reason after everything she spoke about. She just gives red flags I wouldn't talk about my partners flaws or struggles out to a million people who don't know him 🤷 🙄 . It's just plain rude and disrespectful she obviously doesn't care about him using him for emotional support most likely.
My parents always told me that sharing is caring, so if I ever had caught them in the act when I was younger I’d expect them to have kept that same energy.
Congratulations! The guy will never proposed to her now. I would not be surprised that she will have a video that they broke up and don’t understand why.
She can't say one positive thing about Derek without a qualifier. She's "pretending" to defend him, then immediately gives the audience another reason to gang up on him. "We know we're each other's soul mate. Did you already know when you met me at 14, remember? When you were an adult?" She is either living the drama and attention and blatantly making him look as bad as she can to prolong it, or there's some other motivation that I'm not seeing. Maybe she's always just "negged" him, so it comes naturally. Imagine giving up your career, your goals, your future, for a someone you love, just for them to always be trying to humiliate you for those decisions later on. I feel bad for Derek, man. He seems like someone in too deep before he realized how things were really going to be, but now he's tied his entire life, every facet of it, to someone who likely makes him feel like he couldn't do it alone if he tried. I've been there, wavering between suicide and having to completely reset my life from nothing so I could finally escape. It's not as hard as the narcissist would have you believe, it's the relentless attack on your capabilities that makes it feel like that.
This is the kinda stuff me as a child would do. Mom! Why havent you bought me mcdonalds yet? Do you have plans to buy mcdonalds? Cmon why are you mad? Its only the 50th time ive obsessed over this today!!
Remember, people, just like "I love you", you don't demand a proposal, you earn it. Just like you have to be ready to say "I DO", your partner has to be ready to ask the big question. I know this may seem obvious, but it seems a lot of people forgot to put the minimal points on Common Sense at character creation.
@@vibrantgleam we dont, our genetics or something make us not find people who look like us attractive usually. thats why most people dont find their family attractive..
Seems like he was forced into this from the get go and now there is barely any control he has left over the situation. The only control he has left is the proposal and he is holding onto that for dear life. Bless him.
I feel so much for this guy, whenever my annoying ex showed me some tiktoks or other stupid unfunny shit i always was like him "When is it finally over" 🙂
This whole thing but that last quote especially sounds like codependency or an isolation tactic of domestic abuse by isolating the partner from their friends, family, and becoming the sole provider for them so they are reliant on you and are reluctant to leave because you are their only support both emotionally and monetarily.
😂 I’ve been single for 2 years now and I do want an official relationship. But looking at them makes me feel like being single is better than being stuck in this shit.
I have a "dead face" or "stone face" like this guy,but I don't always sound miserable or constantly look uncomfortable,this girl is totally doing something behind the scenes,or this guy simply thinks this girl is annoying as hell but doesn't know how to dump her
It’s kinda hard to dump someone you met when your partner is 14 though granted you should never date minors if you’re not one yourself Note: I am starting to get into the idea of not dating anyone until you’re an adult
Okay but this is literally me with my boyfriend but difference is we aren't on TikTok or any social media & in public he just doesn't like talking as it is. While I am very talkative. In private he talks more & shows more affection. Not a big fan of PDA. Edit: I would never let my boyfriend give up on what he wants to do. I just follow him around like a lost puppy. Also not constantly asking for marriage & we have our own money.
It all adds up now, she's self centered. She had him drop his dreams for her, she had him share his finances for her, and she wants him to make a grand proposal to her. She wants this relationship to be about her and her only
Your boyfriend being your bestfriend at the same time ain't really a red flag, some people either through circumstances or bad company in their childhood end up having almost no friends. It happens and it's sad, not necessarily a sign of that person being garbage
if both people are above 18 i dont care if there is an age difference as long as its not too dramatic. but this is not the way anyone should date regardless of your age. this put me in physical pain to watch. tiktok is cancer.
He looks like the kind of person that is having a revelation about the mistakes committed during his life time....i hope he gets to accomplish his own dreams....or survives at least... Meat canyon could make a parody of this.
That guy, the boyfriend, is not a male. That’s a female who is dressing and trying to sound like a male. Maybe she’s transgender, idk. But that’s clearly a video of two women.
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im finally early :D
So true
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99th like?
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Just because he dated you for 6 years doesn't mean he will propose. My cousin studied medicine for 7 years and now he's a DJ
Fr put me on to this DJ
The main issue is people don't get on the same page as people before getting into a relationship. People who want marriage or kids should make sure the person they are about to get with is on the same page.
Furthermore political and religious ideas should be the same. An uber liberal and a die-hard republican should definitely not get together. Even if they work when they have kids it would be a terrible situation.
Also people who are differing on religious ideas, such as a christian and an athiest, would not work unless one of the acquiesces to the other when it comes to what they allow or don't allow in their home.
That's tough
Broooo......
That backfired moneywise
Please keep us updated on this dude , it looks like he's under a lot of pressure
They’re both girls
Yeah seriously he seems like he dosent wanna be there in the slightest.
If a man is stressed in a relationship, is it really a relationship?
I hope he doesn't unalive himself
What pressure? 6 years he should either do it or leave. There is no pressure for him. He goes and buys her dream ring and he knows she's going to ask
You know, women can propose too. However I hope this guy runs.
exactly
I was about to comment this feels like everybody just forgot
The issue is not who proposes, it's that this girl is not a red flag but the red sea
@@bryce4650 seriously. But the gunpoint thing is actually making sense to me . Why he is still in this relationship otherwise? (Other than everything they share)
She seems like a wackadoodle. Run boi run FAST!!
He looks like he's really upset about having to abandon his dream
No woman is worth enough for a man to sacrifice his own dream for her. As men, our dreams are what give us purpose in life. If you have no dreams, you don’t have anything in life. It strips away your purpose and reason to live
@@ShvdøwMvge totally agree. Romance should be seen as an aspect of life, not your life goal. Your dreams should come first
especially at 8:17, he looks like he's about to cry here.
Upset ? Nah man, he's way past that point, he's just dead inside now
@@ReSuDa As a woman I would love a guy who focuses on his dreams, I want him to be able to do what he wants in his life without anybody getting in his way
Always wondered how it feels to be held at gun point
It’s not fun but you try to remain chill about it
Would you like to know the feeling? :)
One day we're going to have "at camera point" 😅
It sounds really bad.
LMAOOO
I feel this man on a spiritual level. This was me with my ex girlfriend. Just fucking exhausted from all of her bs. I'm sorry for him
That’s not a man. That’s clearly a woman .
hope you’re doing better
sorry you had to go through that man
Sorry that happened
Ladies like her shouldn't ever have families, their braincells will ruin the kids.
As a guy who currently has multiple hostages in his basement, this guy's definitely in danger.
Besides the hostages in your basement, you do have a point, good day to you sir 🫡
Should I be concern?
Send my regards to your hostages.
I hope you stole them from crazies like her so they can see they're better off when she's not around them.
I couldn't keep mine anymore. I took them to Florida and released them into the wild.
The fact that she not even within the first minute of the video revealed this dudes personal struggle with tobacco already shows that she's more redder of a flag than that slushy she's drinking
i was thinking that, like what’s the purpose of saying that, nothing good
Yh I felt his soul die a little when she said that.
That red slushy is probably his family's blood 😮
I once caught my parents doing it, scared them and told them to be quiet because I couldn't sleep. Then the next day I made fun of them.
Brave non-traumatized gigachad kid
Then something snapped, something inside of me...
I didnt care anymore..
i heard them doing, didn't go there because i was playing
this is one of the most funniest stories i've ever seen on the internet
I wish people would just keep personal topics personal.
wrong century
He literally asked "What more do you want from me?" and she is basically saying "I want a ring"
I mean I can see both sides of this, he thinks they're basically already married since they share most everything but she wants the official commitment - as well as a fancy symbol she can wear on her finger.
But this is just reeeally awkward to watch, her big grinning face while he's sitting there with a very disapproving face.
I understand wanting a ring I guess but a legal document tying two people together is just a little bit on the top of EVERYTHING they share together. Money, home, companies, pets like what she wants is the ceremony fr not seeing that they are already basically married. Plus her "hahahahaa just kidding just kidding just kidding 🤪" seems really fake as if she's not dropping hints but trying to force him into it
Homegirl doesn't even subscribe to any religious/traditional doctrine, so it doesn't make any logical sense for her to be in any hurry have the 'married' title.
@@IneptPotatoI know this type of girl. She'll harass him for everything SHE wants, then get bored one day and leave him. She'll say "I never got to experience being with other people" or summer bs like that. You can just tell she's super toxic masquerading as the "sweet girl next door".
He knows after 6 years whether he wants to be with her or not. He clearly does NOT want to be with her, or he would have proposed.
He should man-up and break the news to her. She should get her head out of her booty and have a little self-respect and leave him to find a husband before she's too old to secure one.
Yeah, the girl is vain and disrespectful talking private stuff on tiktok, but it's his fault he chose a kid and now he needs to put up with that. I don't feel nad for a guy who starter dating 14 year old girl while he was already 18!!!
This girl is exactly why I have raised my son the way I have , to protect himself from the crazy......
Jesus Christmas this is insane.
You're protecting your son from that girl?
Rejecting people as a guy is an essential skill. It's tempting considering it barely happens especially in a straight relationship but learning to say no helps avoid red flags
@ImNotalwaysRight bruh 💀💀💀
@ImNotalwaysRight you must be a big fan of cupcakes
@ImNotalwaysRight ??????
She’s like a 24 years old acting like a 14 year old 😂😂
Because he met her at that age
Eww that's disgusting
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@@anniesolomon4876 why
As a Nascar fan I just wanted to add that she used to wreck every week. Like EVERY week. Maybe they should just focus on their relationship then "their job". Lol
So she sucks at it?
@@Rpzz0 correct
Really?! Lol, what's her name?
@@IIITheSTpiLotIII Natalie Decker
so why she acting like this job makes her a ton of money then? and forget the relationship that guy needs to leave her
Mate, he looks so depressed. He's probably a pretty down-to-earth guy, but her filming these videos and making their relationship everybody's business must be bringing him down.
She sounds like a control freak who takes all the pleasure in everything for herself. He was naive enough to fall for her.. tho hopefully he can get the hell away from her crazy ass instead of getting married and having kids involved. She literally emptied that man's energy
She's super manipulative too, that whole offhand comment about them meeting when she was 14 was uncalled for and literally just to make him look like a creep (this is of course if they really did only start dating when she was 18) she has so much power over him and wants to remind him constantly so he doesn't leave and is pressured into proposing
@@pennythoughts my thoughts exactly. Her body language too. Like each time she discusses her relationship she side eyes him then back at the camera.
Honestly if the genders was reversed everyone would scream they're toxic and abusive.
Both of them are weird let's be honest
@@Luzgoishzre What's weird about him?
@@Nightmare2.03 that he didn't leave her by now
- did you know I was the one when I was 14 and you were 18
- she won't leave because the dogs are in my name
- he's my one and only friend
- we're with each other 24/7
🚩🚩🚩🚩
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@@-Scrapper- 🔥+🏳️🌈=🏴
@@verlax8956 beo
She's only 24 and they share a bank account. This relationship is a red flag
It's called love
I think I don't know I'm a redditor
@@-Scrapper- we know
Why?
I'm 24 and can't even handle my own bank account
If its bothering her that goddamn much why cant she propose?
Mine did.
Exactly. Plus, rings are expensive unless you want to go with zircon or something different than diamonds.
@@WratchetDeth10mm unrelated to the video but if you said yes, congrats man, hoping for the best
ego
Good point but i don't want her mans to experience that, he needs to run tf away
Rule number 1 everybody.. Don't televise your relationships, not everything you do with each other is for the camera
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Every time she asks he should say "soon" and "working on it" and disappear for a few hours to prepare the surprise. Eventually he can say "the big day is tomorrow", they go out and he hands her legal documents separating their finances and businesses lmao. When the 14 and 18 year old thing came up that shit sounded like blackmail, idk whats going on but I hope he's alright, like damn
this is brilliant, he already wasted 6 years he should save some more😂
I swear she stated they met while at nascar- so like either I got mixed up in her idiotic ramblings or she's lying and they like went to the sane school but saying that too would only give more red flags and make people think he's worse because waiting for a minor to turn legal is considered grooming. It really does feel like she said things on purpose and watch someone still say she's the victim if they do separate yet she's literally putting him on blast to a bunch of people and talking about him like he's a child "he's on edge give him a bit" like he's some child who needs a nap and is getting cranky
i am really sad for the boyfriend.
he really looks like he is forced to do everything his girlfriend wants, its so sad.
i wish he had a better partner beacause he is in a hidden passive aggressive relationship
The guy is probably dealing with apathy it's more common these days because of all the crap going around
He really just looks like he doesn't want to be there. Honestly I would hate if my partner constantly recorded me for online videos like this
It's sad how common waiving your dirty laundry on the internet these days.
@@jadereynolds2237 "dirty laundry"?
@@Nightmare2.03 that's a term for "not so pretty stuff regarding a relationship/family/etc, which should better be kept private"
@@bonbonnie8 Ohhh okay thanks.
Girl:'It's time to pursue my dreams honey!'
Guy:'Yes ma'am.'
That meme actually sums up this couple in a nutshell
@@thevantagemain14 Yeah, because In 99% the woman is the one who give up all dreams and life for a guy.
@@katarzynaxx563 I can't tell if your angry because "In 99% the woman..." makes no sense. But I don't think that nearly all women give up their dreams and "life" (so they fucking die?) when they get with a guy. That sounds pretty fucking stupid.
I met my fiance when I was 22 and he was 23. I told him up front that I was looking for a future marriage partner and that I wasn't going to wait ten years once I was in a serious relationship. I don't waste my time with casual dating.
Got engaged at year five.
yup, she should def leave him if she isn't getting what she wants and he looks like he doesn't even like her. She will get someone who will propose to her and make her a happy person.
@@ashleylove6840 honestly I feel bad for the guy more, she's forcing her dreams onto him and he doesn't know if he can provide, if they broke up and both went their way they'd both be happy
@@bbew2914 Who said he needs to provide they both would be working? she has legs and arms she can work as well, its not the 18th century
@@ashleylove6840If he don't do it, do it yourself, ain't 16th century anymore, women can propose too.
@@ashleylove6840to me it just looks like he needs her to get her energy out with some friends. She’s too high energy, it’s dragging him down so he doesn’t have the energy to match her
She will absolutely be a bridezilla
100 percent
frrr
Surprised I haven’t seen anyone say this.
It’s very, very possible that they have a reasonably loving relationship, but that they didn’t wait until she was 18 to mess around. I’ve seen this before. He CAN’T leave.
That'd be his fault then for not being responsible
that's creepy tho
She’s stuck in her stupid preteen phase. They ALREADY share a house, finances, and companies, and her bringing up the ages of when they met seems like blackmail, kinda like she’s telling him “If you break up with me, I’ll call the police, report you for grooming and I’ll sue you of everything you have.” Grooming is wrong and all, but I’m 100% positive she forced him into the relationship the second she turned 18.
good point. that's also possible
Maybe he’s just running out the statuary limit time
the things he watches for us😂😂❤
I also feel the manipulation from miles away. Trying to make him look bad or feel bad with all pressure from her and others on the internet. They share everything at this point, he has no way out of this without getting even more hurt. I have a feeling this girl knows this, it's like- in her face. Totally egotistical, a total manipulator. I feel bad for him. The whole get married shit she is inputting is scary bro
Spend every moment together?? As much as I'd love someone, I'd go insane eventually if I had to spend my time with them constantly. I get exhausted even if it's a few days out of a week, then again- my only experiences were as a teen, so who knows- maybe I'll grow out of it. But damn, just hearing that made the energy pour right out of me-
I totally agree like me personally I set boundaries and the times we do spend throughout the week it’s not exhausting as every day
Nah dude that really is an issue, you need to socialize with others too, it's why when in a couple a person tries to gatekeep the other from seeing their friends, the situation is considered a red flag
I would hate spending every moment with my love. listen, I love you and want to spend that rest of my life with you don’t get me wrong, but that’s too much socializing and physical touch for me. go away and let me be for a bit
@@skulldog7219 exaaaactly, even I can't stand too much physical attention let alone socializing, just make me uncomfortable after awhile xD
My parents spend their whole lives together, it's a miracle they go to the toilet in privacy. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle have their own (as well as shared) friendgroups and hobbies. I'd go insane in a relationship like my parents have and from a bystanders perspective, I just wanna do a mother daughter day once a year, can I please just have that. I even do mother, daughter, third wheel days with my bestie and her mother, it'd be awesome if my mum comes along. Meanwhile my aunt and uncle give me hope for relationships even with my personality.
I feel so sad for the like he was probably just chilling and then this chick starts to record him. And not to forget how awkward it was to watch imagine how awkward it was for him
Nothing works better for a healthy relationship than discussing one of the most important steps in your life while discussing it in a tiktok...
Since she's not religious or traditional, her obsession with marriage is complete vanity.
She's eventually gonna give this dude an ultimatum, and he'll probably cave even though he clearly doesn't want to get married to her
Something about her smile, makes me scared.
This woman is type of people I got daily cringe from in high school every single day. I'm so glad nowadays these type of people I meet so much less, but this brought so many vietnam flashbacks that I'd cringe for the poor guys who thought "tee hee quirky noisy girls are so hot".
Why am I uncomfortable on his behalf? I mean I know damn well he’s uncomfortable, and I’m uncomfortable knowing he’s uncomfortable
I couldn't be with anyone who looks directly in the camera while talking with me. The whole time!!! She seems to love herself very much.
Bro’s being held hostage
Don't worry, the dogs are in his name
He wont have to worry about not getting the dogs when leaving
If you look close enough, the whole time, you can see tears in bro’s eyes 😭
God, she reminds me of this one girl I always saw in high school laughing like this and sticking her tongue out for no reason after everything she spoke about. She just gives red flags I wouldn't talk about my partners flaws or struggles out to a million people who don't know him 🤷 🙄 . It's just plain rude and disrespectful she obviously doesn't care about him using him for emotional support most likely.
My parents always told me that sharing is caring, so if I ever had caught them in the act when I was younger I’d expect them to have kept that same energy.
Excuse me?
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Haha 😄
ayooooooooooo
Incase you thought you were down bad... this comment exists💀💀
Congratulations! The guy will never proposed to her now. I would not be surprised that she will have a video that they broke up and don’t understand why.
She can't say one positive thing about Derek without a qualifier. She's "pretending" to defend him, then immediately gives the audience another reason to gang up on him. "We know we're each other's soul mate. Did you already know when you met me at 14, remember? When you were an adult?"
She is either living the drama and attention and blatantly making him look as bad as she can to prolong it, or there's some other motivation that I'm not seeing. Maybe she's always just "negged" him, so it comes naturally.
Imagine giving up your career, your goals, your future, for a someone you love, just for them to always be trying to humiliate you for those decisions later on. I feel bad for Derek, man. He seems like someone in too deep before he realized how things were really going to be, but now he's tied his entire life, every facet of it, to someone who likely makes him feel like he couldn't do it alone if he tried. I've been there, wavering between suicide and having to completely reset my life from nothing so I could finally escape. It's not as hard as the narcissist would have you believe, it's the relentless attack on your capabilities that makes it feel like that.
This is the kinda stuff me as a child would do. Mom! Why havent you bought me mcdonalds yet? Do you have plans to buy mcdonalds? Cmon why are you mad? Its only the 50th time ive obsessed over this today!!
Damn.
Remember, people, just like "I love you", you don't demand a proposal, you earn it.
Just like you have to be ready to say "I DO", your partner has to be ready to ask the big question.
I know this may seem obvious, but it seems a lot of people forgot to put the minimal points on Common Sense at character creation.
Only 8 seconds in and i am already concerned
at about 11 seconds i disagree.i have had no dad or grandfather,cant relate i guess being fatherless has some perks.
Same
me to
Why do these couples always look like siblings bruh
istg she looks like the girl from the meme 'do you ever want to get married' and sweet home alabama starts playing
Because we kind of look for ppl who are similar to us..
@@vibrantgleam we dont, our genetics or something make us not find people who look like us attractive usually. thats why most people dont find their family attractive..
This is very disturbing to me. This is one of my worst nightmares ending up like this dude.
Her tiktok video is a police Interrogation
"Y'all share half ur saliva"😂😂😂😂
"I love her so much guys😐 I'm insanely happy."
"Yesss babe🔫🥰"
this couples videos feel like a hostage situation, dont want to see what happens after the cameras off lmao
Seems like he was forced into this from the get go and now there is barely any control he has left over the situation. The only control he has left is the proposal and he is holding onto that for dear life. Bless him.
Her smile is so unsettling there is some hidden crazy in that thing.
Hidden?? She's got that Harley Quinn smile
The more I see videos like this one, the more I love celibacy
Based! Stay pure, brother.
I feel so much for this guy, whenever my annoying ex showed me some tiktoks or other stupid unfunny shit i always was like him
"When is it finally over" 🙂
" what more do you want from me "
HIS TRAPPED!!
Blink twice if you need help, bro.
This whole thing but that last quote especially sounds like codependency or an isolation tactic of domestic abuse by isolating the partner from their friends, family, and becoming the sole provider for them so they are reliant on you and are reluctant to leave because you are their only support both emotionally and monetarily.
Dude she has him in a hostage situation
😂 I’ve been single for 2 years now and I do want an official relationship. But looking at them makes me feel like being single is better than being stuck in this shit.
he sounds so bored, like he's literally actually just forced to be in this relationship
I have a "dead face" or "stone face" like this guy,but I don't always sound miserable or constantly look uncomfortable,this girl is totally doing something behind the scenes,or this guy simply thinks this girl is annoying as hell but doesn't know how to dump her
i think so too
Same. Man needs help
Theres a weapon in the background
It’s kinda hard to dump someone you met when your partner is 14 though granted you should never date minors if you’re not one yourself
Note: I am starting to get into the idea of not dating anyone until you’re an adult
Girl with a tiktok = instant rejection
Okay but this is literally me with my boyfriend but difference is we aren't on TikTok or any social media & in public he just doesn't like talking as it is. While I am very talkative.
In private he talks more & shows more affection. Not a big fan of PDA.
Edit: I would never let my boyfriend give up on what he wants to do. I just follow him around like a lost puppy. Also not constantly asking for marriage & we have our own money.
If he didn't boost your career by sacrificing his, that's not true love.🤣
@@TrollMalefico1984 I mean I am good with being a housewife so idk about that
She: I wanna be the racer in the relationship.
He: okey, I'll be the racist then
Are we sure that no guns were pointed at him in his own video
That ladies and gentlemen is what I call „passion“! 😂
Bro’s eyes are lifeless, he looks drained and defeated
Her constant need for validation and reassurance is nauseating
Him:💀💀💀💀
her:😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😄😄😄😄😄😄😁😁😁😁😁😁
I think the moral of the story is it’s not healthy to post your private relationship info on TikTok or any social media lol
Bro is being held captive 💀
Its the “what more do you want from me” 😭😭😂😂
you can tell that he doesnt really want anyone to know hes getting off tobacco
either he is regretting the grooming he did or she crossed his threshold age
How's that grooming
@@-Scrapper- 14-18???
@@bugsbunnypoo they went in a relationship when she was 18
Just because they met when she was 14, doesn't mean they were hanging out or anything
@@jedip6327 doesn’t make it any better
He's not a robot; he's just dead inside.
It all adds up now, she's self centered. She had him drop his dreams for her, she had him share his finances for her, and she wants him to make a grand proposal to her. She wants this relationship to be about her and her only
Your boyfriend being your bestfriend at the same time ain't really a red flag, some people either through circumstances or bad company in their childhood end up having almost no friends. It happens and it's sad, not necessarily a sign of that person being garbage
if both people are above 18 i dont care if there is an age difference as long as its not too dramatic. but this is not the way anyone should date regardless of your age.
this put me in physical pain to watch. tiktok is cancer.
Every fortune cookie he opens says: dude, run
Dude, RUN!!! Run and don't look back
I feel like really sad for that dude..
He looks like the kind of person that is having a revelation about the mistakes committed during his life time....i hope he gets to accomplish his own dreams....or survives at least... Meat canyon could make a parody of this.
With every watch you can see how trapped he feels
How in the world do you find these videos, great work! Lovely Content!
There are people who act crazy but aren't crazy
There are people who look unenthusiastic but very enthusiastic.
God I hope that's the case here
Why cant you just propose yourself?!
This
OUR career (insert sowjet anthem)
I sensed this guy's soul is currently lightyears away. He was there but he really wish he wasn't and he's pondering how he got there.
I wouldn't allow my partner to record my personal life like this, it's very annoying.
That guy sounds like he's super tired of life at this point.
That guy is a girl, and only sounds all tired and stressed because she’s trying to make her voice sound like a guys.
@@wesside-333 what
@@wesside-333 wait.. tf
That guy, the boyfriend, is not a male. That’s a female who is dressing and trying to sound like a male. Maybe she’s transgender, idk. But that’s clearly a video of two women.
@Wes St. Clair huh..
She drains his energy like some sort of vampire
Run dude, run. Don't look back.
I mean, the ones in the wrong are the people who assume they can know what his feelings are. The guy is literally POKER FACE! HAJAJAHAJ
10:25 girl wants a ring so bad she doesn't even know which hand it goes on
Bro this dude is being held at gun point
He looks like hes waiting for the right moment to get out of the car and run away, the moment he knows hes safe