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Alhumdulilah that’s beautiful u got married young n stayed away from zina .. May Allah continue to bless u
Khyra A thank you 😘
Whats zina?
Harleen Sandhu it’s adultery before marriage it’s a very big sin in Islam except for those who repent. :)
You can still stay away from zina without marrying. There’s no need to rush in a marriage you’re not ready for or marrying someone you’re not compatible with.
@@harleensandhu2621 its fornication
Can you do a story time on how you met your husband at 16?
Yeh me too I’d love too hear
she said in her Q+A that she met him at her older sister's wedding and they stayed in contact with eachother from then
Girl ur story is so inspiring to me!! Hope i find my prince charming😍
And can u do a hijab tutorial because i love the way you do the hijab😱🥰 mashallah!
sara suufi aww thank you for watching hun, I’ll make it a point to film a tutorial xx
I just got married and we are currently in a long distance marriage 😭 I can’t wait until we live together InshaAllah. Can you give tips on how you were able to survive it?
Munira Ahmed omg me too 😭
He’s bengoli original and I’m from Morocco.. can’t wait to live together 😢
Same here ! It’s very hard but it’ll be worth it inshallah 😩
Same I can’t wait 😊😢😢😢
Before I start watching this video I just wanted to say Masha'Allah you are so gorgeous inside and out 💕💕
krazy k awww you’re so lovely, thank you for your support 💕💕
How older you now
Yess please talk more about the year you guys were apart!! I also had my nikkah young (I had just turned 21). We wanted to have a halal relationship, but it’s so hard cause we’re not living together yet. We’re trying to focus on studies before we start a life together. People don’t realize how tuff it is , especially as a girl I feel sad that I can’t be with him more often. I’m happy that we chose to do our nikkah alhumdulillah but it would be nice to hear about someone who understands what I’m going through :)
Your story is lovely. I was 14 year old when I meet my fiancy and 2years later we decided to get married but It took my parent 2 years to say yes! And when they said yes I was 20years old and I was at my 2year of accountants at university and we just did the engagement ceremony. They said we should wait a whole year before the wedding so that will be this year and if everything goes well we will do the wedding this year and think about kids😊 thanks for sharing your story 😘
@ Z Blessing Hope your dream came true. Alhamdulillah. In Sha Allah
Mashallah you are so gorgeous....x❤
Could you do a story time of maliks birth and having a child young?
Loved watching this, as a married women it’s always nice to hear others stories and MA yours was so cute 💕
Romy Ahmed
Hi Romy I see u and zarah and queen of sabba
🙂I love you
Of course he wanted to snap you up you’re stunning Masha Allah
Zeinah you’re gorgeous masha Allah and your videos are always fireeeeee🔥🔥Allahumma bariik
Tips on your journey to buy a home. Saving for a deposit whilst young with a young family etc xx
Ma sha Allah like the way you stayed away from haram! Inspiring wallahi
The Mr. Whippy man arriving cracked me up😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
After the Divorce, i feel it's always best we listen to our Parent's as they know best.And spiritually it's guidance. Anyways life continues and thank you for been open.❤❤
You did the right thing! Well done.
ma’sha’Allah I think the parents handled it well, it’s not easy for any parents, so it was nice to hear that they listened and didn’t totally reject it at once! A nerve reduction wrecking subject for most of us Muslims lol, thanks for this helpful video, I’ve no doubt it’ll help so many ❤️❤️
Masha Allah💓 please a video about how your long distance relationship
Video on how you saved up for a house !
aliyah rose omg yes!!
May Allah bless you and your family sis. I love watching your videos because you seem so down to earth and humble 💕💕💕
I talked to my dad but I like the way he reacted,din't go wild jus a nyc advice abt finishing Uni n dat was it.Its really hard though coz I expected a really hard blow on my face😂😂
How did you guys meet ? Love you 💙💙💙
Zeinah you beautiful woman, you make me laugh especially with your facial expressions about the time you put your foot down!😂 😂 Masha Allah you're so brave and confident & it's good you was open and honest about marriage to your parents - it's important to have that relationship with your parents. Yeah, please do a video about the long distance marriage you had at 1 point & how were you sure that you was making the right decision? Only because I would've been too afraid to even think about marriage at 16 let alone approach my parents about it. You mentioned that you were both studying when you got married and neither were working so did not having financial stability concern either of you? How did you and your husband meet? I personally think it's better to get married young, less haraam and things just seem to get harder as you grow older e.g finding decent guys. May Allah (SWT) continue you to bless your marriage with lots of happiness, barakah, success & may the Almighty always shower his mercy & blessings on you both always. Aameen ❤️
My mums rules are the same to finish my education and than I can get married because my mother got married at 16 and never got to finish her education
Masha Allah I love watching ur videos ❤️❤️
Wow i got married at 17 tooo it was a love marriage as well big age gap 15 years....... Parents family was like noooooo noo no no.... To top it off my husband Muslim Pakistani... Me indian Hindu omg it was such a thing proper Indian movie drama rain fight action crying... The song was missing..... Lol 😂 anyway 8 years married now 2 sons alhumdulila everyone came back to me when my first born was born
Mashallah thank you habibty for the story it means a lot to us.
Thank you for this video. I’m currently in a similar situation.
I’m 18, 19 in a couple weeks and I’ve been speaking to a guy for a couple months now. Within 3 months of talking we decided to get the parents involved. Before telling my parents, like you said, I was planting the seed so it isn’t all of a sudden. A couple weeks before telling my parents I asked my dad what would he do if I chose my own spouse. Surprisingly he said he’s happy as long as I’m happy and it’s good family, he’s a good guy etc. So fast forward a couple weeks, I decide to tell my parents. My dad definitely took it a lot better than my mum, but the answer was a big no. They told me to block him and never talk to him again.
It’s been almost 2 months now since I’ve told my parents and the conversation hasn’t been brought up again. I guess they’ve assumed I’ve just let him go.
I’ve given them the time and space to let the bombshell sort of marinate but their reasonings for disagreeing is because he’s of a different caste. They’ve not even given the chance to get to know him or even speak to him.
It’s also long distance for us since I’m living in England and he’s in Pakistan.
Any tips would be appreciated!
Salaam,
I dont know cast system works for some muslims too, that is absolutely haram, tell your parents that Allah swt. made us all equal no matter what ethnicity, we are all human. Make them watch lectures of this, Mufti Menk has a lot of lecture on marriage, they are great, MashaAllah, in one of them he brings up the example of Musa( as.) the way he got married and the way his father in law though he was right for his duaghter, judged by his actions & character ,not his status,
family , wealth, etc.
I hope the best for you , May Allah bless you with the best marriage.
@ shamila Islam definitely bring this issue up to your parents when the moment is right maybe dessert and tea time in the evening or Saturday or Sunday morning breakfast or brunch and tell them how you really feel about this fellow and that you are not really over him and feel that the three of you made a mistake even if it was good intentions with your best interests @ heart do not make the same mistake that I made when I was 22 I was also in a similar situation I was really very into this very sweet nice young man named Jeff there were some issues but only minor which I felt could've been worked out but because they were afraid that I wasn't gonna have a great marriage and that my dreams would be crushed so with a heavy heart I had to tell him that we couldn't keep going on and I was heartbroken just like him but I then slowly started to move on I dated so many different men who unfortunately either weren't compatible with me or they were such marriage commitment phobes or just too into marriage would ask for my hand (I kid you not) on the 2 or 3 date and it caught up with me several decades later and the damn really burst forth I had a lot of pent up anger sadness and heartache I tried privately contacting him via Facebook message I think he's either married or if he's not maybe he don't feel that he can trust me because I never heard back from him I know that my Mr right is out there somewhere hopefully when I go back to school in the spring I will maybe hopefully find him (yes people can find love @ 42) I am 41 going on 42 October 16 is my birthday shamila sweetheart please sit down with your parents and nicely put your foot down with them believe me you don't want to end up being my age still searching for your Mr right it was also long distance too with me and Jeff I am in Brooklyn NY he is or was in Detroit Michigan wow there's definitely a distance between you and this fellow but looking back @ all this I wish someone would've given me advice tell your parents that yes there is the long distance issue but if two people love each other they can and will make it work and we've come a long way with all this social media take the opportunity to do all this strike while the iron is hot do not wait several decades to wake up and have guilt and regrets I had to once again slowly move along away from this fellow once again a number of years ago I do think of him every now and then but all we were just two ships passing by this doesn't have to be like that for you so please dear cousin sister do everything you can and need to do to win this guy back if things go well with your parents (I really do hope so) then you need to contact the fellow (do that asap too) va phone email fb private message or even facetime when nobody is around and discuss with him how you really feel about him apologize and ask him to give you another chance tell him that you made a mistake let's work it out the long distance shouldn't matter what matters is if you two can make the relationship work tell him you don't want to lose him again good luck with everything may g-d give you the strength and guidance peace
Tzivia Margolis thank you for sharing your story and advice! Me and the guy are still in contact, we talk everyday! We’re just waiting for my parents to get used to the idea of the fact their daughter has found someone and wants to settle. We both understand it’s a universal feeling every parent goes through in terms of acceptance of the fact their child is growing and will eventually start a life of their own. I’m just a little gutted my parents aren’t even giving him the chance to even speak to him. We both still have hope!
Shamila hun that is so great to hear anytime my pleasure again I do hope and pray that your parents do come around tell them that they are not losing you they will gaining a son in law and with in good time g-d willing grandchildren status quo should not matter @ all it's very similar in Judaism too how religious and even class status plays a huge role @ to what kingu11 said wealth status and titles shouldn't matter what matters is that the person treats you right and will love you forever shamila dear cousin sister I'm rooting and praying for you good luck with everything may g-d help you on this journey peace
Islamically parents should not be discriminating due to caste difference.
Storytime on how u handled being a young mom ???
Love listening to your marriage story
Love your videos and the consistency 🥰♥️
you look so prettyyyy!!!
I wrote my dad a letter and he was so understanding. I had plans to get married this year (I'm 22) but it's not happening anytime soon as we cant afford it. He also has family issues with his dad being very strict etc
How did you afford it so young?
I should also mention his family are Pakistani and I'm a british convert. The difference in backgrounds makes things even more challenging
You know the prophet saw married once and gave his guests dates ,
A wedding doesn’t have to be a huge elaborate affair in fact small weddings are sunnah
@@Ariannauk1 I know. That's what I'm saying.. but family and their traditions make such a simple thing difficult.
@@user-ug9hc6lt4s Yes that's true. Most couples literally don't care about the wedding and are fine with just a mosque one but it's mostly the parents wanting to throw a good looking party for the relatives and feel happy and proud. Have patience, inshaAllah kher, many of us are going through the same thing!
I am Somali and my husband is white British. I think we have many difference mainly in personality. However as I am born in Britian we share similar likes of foods and I am very well versed in his culture. He likes my culture alot and really respects me mashAllah. We are very different in characteristics. I am talkative and loud and hes quiet. Other than that we are all humans. He gets along with my mother too even though theres a slight language barrier as english is not my mother first language. I think ethnicity doesnt really matter as long as your muslim and you are happy together that all that matters.
@@beautygem3786 yeah I dont care about our differences were both muslim that's all that matters.
But at the same time I guarantee if I was pakistani we would be married by now. I've been patient for years but in sha allah soon
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Zeinah... how do you get your teeth so white?!? Tell us your secrets!!
I want to get married but i am scared and it might backfire on me . Wht do i do?🥺
No I’m quite nervous as I’m getting married in October at age 21! 🥺🥺
Hi Zeinah I love your videoss and I would love if you make a video of how you do your hijab
Marshallah sister I am so happy for you !❤️ you did the right thing and it’s always better to speak to the parents ! Very helpful video ! May Allah bless you and your family ! 😍❤️
MashAllah ans Yes please could you make a video of the « distance marriage »
Alsalamu Alakuim. You marrid young and conviced your parent's wow. 💗💗
thank you for not adding the background music,it gave me headache,was really annoying,now i can listen to you related.
And sincerely you did the best thing.
I'm from Bangladesh my sister I love you and your family ☺️☺️
Alhamdullilah
Mashaa Allah you're stunningly beautiful!!.
God bless you and your family.
Gurll this was a beautiful story. Btw ur makeup is looking stunning 😍. How do you make your foundation look like skin? Please do an update makeup video
Abeeha .a get lorreal true match u would be surprised
@@sabrinaabdulahi5607 Does it make your foundation look like skin? I'll totally try it out :)
Abeeha .a Yh it does for me I get a lot of compliments
Mashallah i loved your video it was amazing !! how old was your husband when you met him?
You are beautiful inside and out and that's why I love you so much ❤️☺️ sometimes I cry so much because your tips your advice so nice and meaningful you are so sweet and gentle like me my sister
How did you end up convincing your parents?
Yay 😀 a new video. Your so cute Zeinah masha allh. Love ur videos❤️❤️
Could you do a husband tag with your husband.
masha allah love your story
@ farhiya jama ditto me too beautiful zeinah and Ibrahim should have many beautiful golden years together
Mashallah ur beautiful
Mansha alaah ilahay hakkuu siyaadiyo nimcada
Allahumma bariiikk
MashaAllah road to 100K 😍😍😘💖
Yay whohooo queen zeinah rules with an iron fist
Mashallah! thanks for the video.
How old are you and your husband ?
How old were you when your son was born?
Were there some points in your relationship where you regret marrying (so young)?
-Greetings from Germany!!😘
Dunja Abdul Rahman shes 25 and her husband is 30 and she was 19 when she had her first child lol she answers this on her q and a videos i dont stalk her or anything😂
saynab ali haha thanks!! Xx
Which country is your husband from??
Love you!😍♥️
Omg you’re extremely beautiful
I am 14 n I really wanna get married! I know that for sure I’m going to get married when I’m 18 n I’m 100% sure. I am going to marry because I want to marry n without anybody forcing me.
Makeup and hijab ❤❤💜
Wow beautiful mashallah 😍
💞💞💞
you always combine colours well, or it just looks good on you for some reason
So you finished college , when do you plan on going into further education or work? Obviously you’ve got two children (I understand this doesn’t stop people working)
Mansha Allah
How u met please? 🥰😍
Zienah asc let me know where you get your bed please 🙄🙄
You speak good
Hmmmm interesting.....😊
Something about the way you speak, is similar to J Lo.
Or Sandra Bullock 😁
In your 40s you will have marriage crisis because you have not lived your adult life without this guy.
A A how much do you charge for your psychic readings then? I guess it’s free seeing as no one asked you for your opinion.😂
@@ZeinahNurThree of your vlogs in and the tediousness of your life set in. You said you are introvert, do not have too many friends, married at 17, do not work, no much life experience outside of this marriage. I think you just wear a mask to portray a semblance of life, beyond your family. Once the kids grow up and once he gets bored, what then? The mask will slip!! I am a psychologist and seen too many clients with your life story, same story different faces.You put your information out there, people will comment and many will recognise the the emptiness behind your eyes. Just commenting on what I see from experience, enjoy the veil whilst it fits.
A A I assume you’re not religious. Find God before you advise someone on such matters.
@@fatimxh ok hypocrite.
@@AA-ek5kz psychologist my @&*^$#, are you God to know what the future holds???? Functional illiterate more like.
Hi sister which country u r from?
She's from somalia
No she is. From itopiya
@@joonbeel2254 don’t claim to her she’s Pure somali 🇸🇴
Is your husband Somali aswell?
MashaAllah❤
I wonder how you two came up with marriage, I wouldn't know how to break it to the person I've been talkin to and all that, maybe its because im a bit shy with ppl haha
Maybe send cute wedding photos and be like wow don’t they look pretty. How do you want to dress on your wedding day
Don’t people usually start talking with the intention of marriage? I’m not sure if you’re Muslim but if you are and the guy is Muslim as well then he should already know that you want to get married.
@@rosed7576 Honestly, true. I didn't think of that!
what’s your opinion on gay marriage¿
Riti Aggarwal what stupid question is that? I am 100% sure she is against it. It is FORBIDDEN in Islam.
Oh like...Adam and Steve....instead of Adam and Eve...😲
We should ask God that Question.....😮
Hey zeinah what tribe is your husband is he Somali of what? And I love you and your family alahumabarik❤️❤️❤️❤️
Could be wrong but I think barwaani?
Barawa
She answered this in a Q and A. He is somali
Radya Djibril I have not watched that tho can you tell me that video
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