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"Impostor not a promise keeper" is a gut punch!! Your experiences in life are similar to what I've been going through and can't put into words. I'm doing things on automatic pilot and can't seem to break that stranglehold. I've got to really absorb this again. Thanks Bedros.
I'm honestly in such a deep hole right now in life. I lost my job, family, and home i was feeling like ending it until i seen this video. it really helped me take a step back and look at my life. Almost everything he said was relatable which is crazy.
It’s only temporary. Idk you and I probably live far from you but I’ve been going through awful horrible life changing things too but I won’t kill myself and neither should you. Keep on trucking along because it’ll all pass. Life has seasons
Once you hit rock bottom things can only GO UP so life beatin tf out you rn but you gotta good thru till the end then your time will come for the ride but work on you cause you are the only person you got in this life. Your born alone and die alone so don’t let other effect you you got this💯
I'm writing this a month after your comment. I hope you're still around. I get it. I've been there. Sometimes I go back and visit that thought process. But I want you to know that it Will get better! The bad times are only temporary, actually Everything is temporary. Life is temporary! But you have a chance to make that short life Incredible! You Can do it! And it doesn't have to happen all at once! A bunch of small victories add up, and over time those small things you fight thru, will lead to a great life! You just have to take small steps in the right direction and soon you'll be able to look back at your path and be happy to see how great your life has become! You can do it! We all can do it! One foot in front of the other, and repeat! I hope you are well!!
First time watching any of your videos and I was hooked on the first 5 minutes. I felt like you were talking directly to me, thank you for waking up my inner warrior
I had a full year of microdosing and psychedelic therapy. And I will say that it absolutely helped me like a blasting cap on my consciousness and spiritual understanding.... BUT it also opened the truth that my mind is the only barrier to mastering this life and being the man I am destined to be. I have focused the last few months on total commitment to address the thoughts and attitudes that occupy my mind. I am facing this sober with exercise, cold exposure, wim hof breathing and meditation. I have never felt so in control and confident in my whole life. We all have the freedom and power to CHOOSE these solutions. Blessings Bedros for another powerful message!! 🙏
Your reputation with yourself is your confidence. This really hits home coz I now realize why I feel like I've lost my flow and I know what to do. Thanks Bedros!
Thanks Bedros. I'm a new subscriber in my 60's and after more than a few major life trials, I'm still 'doing the work'.... what do they say, 'it's not over till the slim lady sings!' Thank you for your encouragement.
As a woman watching your content for the first time, your hard hitting messages are food for action and positive change. It also helps me to understand men's core needs. Thank you.
Thank you, brother. I needed this. I am meant for much more. 26 days sober and going. My youtube channeling is growing, and i am more focused. Im only 30 and still have much more life to live. Thank you.
My prayer is that every father out there could talk to his son just like you just did for these very special 20 minutes. It could change the trajectory of very very many young men out there. Thank you. May the work of your hands be blessed
Its all about money. Its all about validation. Its all about showing off. Its all about everyone doing podcasts and trying to earn easy money. Greatest societal bubble of all time imo.
I could not have came across this time at a better time in my life… I’m genuinely shocked that the algorithm could work like this. Feel like this dude knocked on my door and said everything straight to my face
7:59 Man you hit it on the nose. Stacking losses. I’ve been leaning into food. Not having a good reputation of myself. Setting low expectations results in low life. You know you were put here to help people. Words of the universe.
This is what i needed today. I have been there and know people doing these things. Trying to lift them up without falling into their pitfalls is my heaven and hell.
This has to be one of the most valuable impactful youtube video's i have ever seen... i've listened to this audio at least 20 times while working out (not exaggerating) and right now i'm making a written summary of all the gems/essences you named in this video that apply to me, to have a condensed version to read daily until they are fixed in my mind and i act accordingly. One of my addictions/vices is that i watch too many youtube video's because i tell myself i need more information and knowledge before taking action but actually it's my 'inner bitch' that is insecure and afraid to take action... Thank you so much for keeping it 1000 and being so open to us about your own scars and struggles, much respect! I look forward to meeting you one day to shake your hand and thank you in person!
You were always the answer to your problems and success. You don't need permission, just being aware and being able to navigate how you make decisions and executing intellectually and emotionally.
I needed this so much today. My relationship of 3 years collapsed on me because I was behaving poorly and I deserved it. then a few weeks later I lost my job. Not because of poor performance but because of layoffs. It all just feels overwhelming and I thought of ending it for good. And I was this close from doing it but.... I just realized sitting here alone that being alone is an opportunity to scrape the bottom and clean up the dirty stuff in order to make bigger steps. Perhaps even leaps. I always accepted less and I am not going to settle for less anymore. I never valued myself and always felt I cannot expect more and that I am broken. And broken people make broken people. Which is exactly what happened with my ex. I hate my old self. That guy had to go.
"Negotiate away your dreams" This hit hard for me. Thanks for sharing your difficult experience Bedros, I really respect your authenticity. I'm trying to improve myself daily and videos like this really help. Sure I have fears and doubts about everything. Yet, I know deep down inside that the REGRET of not becoming the person I am capable of being, is far worse than the FEAR of failing.
Every video or audio I’ve heard from you Bedros has touched me deeply. I’m a personal trainer/life coach and have been an athlete all my life but I’ve also always had a habit of sabotaging my body with carbs but I’m done with these useless pattern. Thank you for sharing your stories and reminding me God made me to be bigger than this pattern. Keep shining light and truth. Blessings!
Thank you Bedros, working on the promises I make to myself. Finding worthiness is tough, but not writing your own story is tougher. taking the pen back now
WOW. Total paradigm shift!! Thank you for your words of truth!! Thank you for admitting that you crazy guys are as messed up as we crazy girls, and that we are simply feeding off each other to fulfill some deeper needs and heal some deeper hurts. Thank you for verbalizing my permission to CHANGE and literally BE everything God intends for my life!! I do believe this now. 20, 30, 40 years ago I didn’t know this. I started last summer on a TOTAL renewal of myself… my mind, heart, soul, and body. My views and ideals have taken such an intense turn… at 54 years old. Took me long enough, huh!! I’ve battled and come out victorious over addiction. I’ve dropped all bad influences and am clinging now to the basics… the state of my SOUL and how I behave toward others. Like you, I am here to serve, I have no doubt. After being out of work for three months (again), I am SO ready to tackle this budget and use my money wisely instead of it controlling me. I’m learning to appreciate me again, without someone having to validate my worth. I’m taking the fight against my past abuse seriously. I’m DONE with the excuses and the victim mentality!!!!! I could ramble on… but seriously, thanks. I have taken back the pen and I’m rewriting this story that is my life!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼💗🥰🐱
the thing is. you never were ready for this sort of input. at the earlier, stages of your life chapters. right now! you are able to see it all clearly! also, i bet you. the truth would not be as sweet if it were not, for your former bitterness ;) HAIL SATAN!!!! :D
I was molested at the age of 5 and have been healing from the mental scars ever since. There are so many of us who need to here this message. I appreciate the work you’re doing. Cheers🙌🏽
I wish you more courage. I have a question for you , What do you think of the normalisation of Pedophilia by the LGBTQ movement which came to power just 5 years ago.
I agree with the core message of reclaiming your power. No objections there. However. All these remedies of: - Healing your trauma - Talking to a therapist - Finding yourself by doing this or that All these things come with an assumption that something is indeed wrong. Which in itself is a limiting belief. Instead we need to accept deeply that the past does not exist. Only the present does. So we need to appreciate the things that we have. We need to count our blessings. We need to play with the cards we're dealt. Life is short. And we need to be relentlessly trying to achieve what we TRULY want. Not settle for the crumbs as you mentioned. We are as powerful as we make ourselves to be. Crazy stuff.
Thank for sharing that story most people would not acknowledge the molestation. I took this path few years ago finally started to embrace my inner calling to walk alone till I find worthy people to connect don’t settle for toxic negativity they bring u down. Been trying to help drowning people for too long but can only give so much before it catches on. “Law 10 avoid the unhappy and unlucky” 48 laws of power
That reeealy interpellate me in every aspect. Each one. A great friend just showed me this video based on a talk we had... and all i can say is THANKS to both of you.
I just discovered you recently and I'm so glad I did. You're one of the only speakers that I really resonate with. I've been on my self-betterment journey for years now and it's been a joy seeing my growth. There's still things I want to work on and I think listening to you will aid greatly in taking me to the next level.
Man! The first time I see your channel and this video is extremely important to get everyone out of his misery because this is really happening to a lot of us nowadays as we are procrastinating a lot in social media and in our phones. I am sure the idea you shared about is going to change a lot of us if we really apply it by killing our laziness and randomness in life. Thank you so much. We need more insights from you. I cannot live this page without subscribing in your channel.
Spoken powerfully and passionately, Bedros... as always. You're the real thing, man. And I fully agree that guys need to work with male therapists and coaches. Not that there aren't great ladies out there who can help, but because the real strength in overcoming your traumas comes from tapping into the warrior mindset, finding your pride and self-worth, and the refusal to stay down when you're knocked down. Having male heroes who would never think giving up, and not wanting to be less than the example they set, was a big part of what got me through 3 years of darkness. I've since used what I learned to help others to great effect. Keep up the good work, Bedros!
Good for you my friend for achieving such a profound change in yourself. I can and do relate to what you have to say because I have been through much of the same myself. Thanks for sharing! Kind of regards, Steve
Thank you for sharing this. This really resonated with me this morning. Just got outta relationship in which I felt like I was settling, that I was kinda out of her league so to speak and lost sight of my power and who I am as a man.
Thank you for the enlightenment and the saving of these men The greatest thing is not how much money u can make It's how much you can SELF ACTUALIZE The work u do on ur self
Big man brother, u hit alot of nerves to me and i truly needed this. Im 30 and have alot goin well for me but i can hardly overcome my habbits and addictions. I had some great days in my life and im tired of drggin my self back to my old self, and keep hitting the snooze button. Weed and food when im stressed is my biggist issues and i struggle with them to this day. Im happy to find about u as u earn my sub and pleasing attention. Thank u and keep being great!
Thank you for your message today is my 5th day after i stop doing drugs Im dealing with all the pain of detox but this motivates me and makes me feel stronger knowing im rewriting my story, much blessings to you brother
Brutally honest talk. The hardest part for depressed and un motivated people is the pain. Today neuroscience proved that emotional pain and physical pain are quiet the same. It’s like someone bits the shit out of you brakes your bones leaves you in hospital and tells you for 3 to 6 month you need to learn how to walk again. Today we know that the brain of children who were physically abused function exactly the same as the soldier who came from war. To pull trough all that it requires a lot of inner strength. There is a great book call “chatter - the voice in your head and how to harness it “ it is a fascinating book that sheds a lots of light into how we sabotage ourselves with our inner voice and why.
This Is so accurate.. thank you so much for this. My entire life has been a mess in every sides, everything has been almost impossible to enjoy. here's a guy from latin america watching you and enjoying these kind of tips, again, thank you!
not even gonna lie this has been exactly my problem my whole life. And it literally clicked with me not too long ago and now I watch this video. Synchronicity is a real thing. You described the feeling of the ceiling perfectly.
Bedros: I love you! You are a truth teller. Inspirational. You help me daily! PLEASE stop asking for likes, subscribers and bell ringers! You WILL get them if you KEEP giving content like THIS! Bald and Bankrupt NEVER asks. He earns.
Just recently found this channel a month ago. Man you don’t know how much you work have helped me. I look at you as the father figure and this right here will take me to next level I need to be at! Keep on doing this and helping us become better Men!
Great advice Bedros. Self-development and building yourself up is the key to everything. Become what you should be, you don’t want to regret not becoming what you could have been.
Hey Bedros! TH-cam recommended your channel to me this morning! It’s the first time I’ve ever heard of you or listened to your podcast, and I have to tell you, it was as if you were speaking specifically to me. It’s just what I needed this morning! Thanks for doing what you do! Stay blessed!
22:04 thanks for rooting for me! I’m so much better now since finding your content. It’s like another supplement I use to workout harder…physically, spiritually and emotionally. Thank you for your content 🙏🏼
Thank you that was powerful! I’m so glad you explained about how we lose our confidence & become average by not keeping our word to ourselves. I have work to do! Thank you!!
Man bro everything you said is POINT ON !!! I was thinking about this earlier today and I think about it often…. Those limiting beliefs projected by ppl … even family and friends.,, how I sometimes self sabotage good things subconsciously bc I think I’m not worthy of it bc of the default I have in my mind created from toxic insecurities and bullying . I have made my 2.0 but like Mike Tyson say your one foot away from the limo and the gutter. So yea lately I’ve been telling myself , reminding myself that I gotta ACT right THINK right . Thanks bro this is vid so relatable ❤. I’m here to help others
Sir you are touching on something most don’t get while here. What you are describing is the reason we are all here! To raise the consciousness on the planet by like you said evolving from the human animal, into the unlimited consciousness being that we truly are! Much love !
Thank you, Mr. K! You've just given me some perspective on something I can provide to others. I'll congratulate you in person, once my work has begun and the people I help have provided to me, the means to fly overseas and meet you. God willing, I can live up to the greatness you've inspired in me!
Bedros, you speak so authentic. I relate to many things you say. Food, crazy ex chicks, self sabotage, ..I feellike you're my brother from another mother...looking forward to reading your book. Best to you in 2023. Thanks brother!!!
I been shot from my neck down to my legs with Mt chest open, and I was labeled paralyzed I just started standing, long story short sir your message hit me hard and close to my heart, I appreciate your message and if your motive was to reach and help people truly it most definitely helped me and you have a new supporter I haven't saw any other videos or heard of you, this speaks volumes to a ex gangbanger that changed his life may God continue to work threw you with love Jovan
The whole world is going through this to a point. But it's a blessing that we have a option to listen to someone that really gets it and has made it through. I thank him for that
Thank you! God sent! I needed to hear this precisely at this time in my life... Necessary reminder! All true and in my way to growth, I have to remind myself to take out toxic friends from my life, regardless on how I feel about them. In many was I'm so blessed in so many areas ways. I also experienced some kinds of abuse. I have some trust issues, but I've learned to heal and I've become a different person... constantly working on myself without drugs nor addictive ways. It's a daily challenge, but worth it. Most times I feel happy and satisfied. I don't lower my standards anymore. Very wise words! 💚 Thank you!!! 🇵🇷
Love this, Bedros. Grateful to have found you. This is my story, but I've had extended periods of unity of mind/body/soul/wealth, but have fallen back into the warm embrace of addictions and self-destructive thoughts. I'm back on track and more focused than ever on becoming the man I was designed to be. It's funny, but all you have to do is observe the content in your feeds - they are a reflection. I found you today because the ONLY thing I'm ingesting is empowerment/motivation/mindset/wealth-building content. As if I need to hear Stairway to Heaven for the four billionth time - I don't even have time for Spotify. I just canceled my premium account. If it's not this type of food for my brain, senses and soul, I don't have time for it. Thank you for inspiring me today, bro.
Thank you for all that you do. I am a woman who has been listening to your channel and putting your words into practice these last couple of weeks. It's all a work in progress but I really feel like I am headed in the right direction.
Some shitty things have happened recently without going into it I saw your video and you were like speaking to me I felt like you were speaking to my soul - thank you brother I almost cracked open that beer and you showed me how I’m just sabotaging myself and I’m worth way more than that. I took a step in the right direction tonight thanks for the help
Thanks for sharing. I completely relate and have been stuck in period of self sabotage and self doubt for years. It's only in the past 6 months I've realized my self worth and am now making better choices, including cutting out toxic people holding me back. I want to become wealthy but even more so I want to grow emotionally. Thank you again, Bedros.
I'm glad I found this channel. I'm getting coach by a mentor right now, I was recently given the pink slip by the ex two years ago and fudged me up. I was face with reality and had no choice but to hold my self accountable and own my fair share of the end of my marriage. so here we are now working on all this aspect of life to have a meaningful future.
Dude, the last 5 min were mad. I particularly enjoyed the last five minutes of your video, it felt like there was a lot of yourself in it. I am grateful for this content, it was great.🤘🏻🔥 Greatings from Poland 🇵🇱
Was watching this while cooking myself breakfast and gotta tell you BK my ❤ is full of love for you and this message. Tons of gold for everyone in here. Remember people you are worthy because God sent you here and knows every hair on your head so throw off your baggage and go free forwards and as in the fabulous book you squared says: Act as if it were impossible to fail. God Bless you all ❤
Thank you for everything Bedros Keuilian. I just found your pod cast. I was called snack pak in grade school. I was bigger guy in grade school but always started and excelled at any sport I was a part of. It stuck with me my whole life. Now I own several automotive repair shops and 20+ multi-family real estate properties. I definitely still have vises from it but I work my ass off because of it all.
Man this is 💯 truth. Right now im coasting through life with no purpose other than being a great dad. Im clean and have faith in Jesus which is huge from where i started but i need to break that ceiling. Great video brother this is very motivating.
I love your work and message B. Thank you for being such an example of what authentic principled masculinity looks like. You inspire me a great deal. All the best.
Bedros. Thank you so much. Your words have spoken to me in so many relatable ways today. This was devine intension in my opinion. Thank you for your down to earth approach. Please continue to share your wisdom.
Respect to him for recognizing that he was a part of the problem. None of us are victims. We’re attracted to who we are. If we are consistently in relationships with crazy people that says something about us.
This video is pure gems 💎. Shoutout to all of those who are constructing a 2.0 version of themselves. I'm also in the process of making the best version of myself and it's difficult, but that's exactly the only way to achieve great things. Don't worry if you're too old or too late, that doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is the real inner you that's waiting for you to take the big step towards your new improved life. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, create new healthy habits ans destroy the old false self that isn't helping you get to where you wanna be. Thank you Bedros for this inspiring and truthful piece of content, you're really making an impact and that's what life is all about. Greetings from Chile 🇨🇱 🙌🏽
I honestly dig your mentality and I appreciate so much your advices. I simply have one thing that slows down myself on going full on on discipline and self-respecting my inner rules. What if all of those sacrifices lead to nothing at the end? I'm going to be honest I am currently working 40h a week plus having 16 credits at college to be an electrical engineer. I manage to run in the early morning, and lift everyday. Since I began this routine at the end of last November, I feel loneliness like never before (I live alone), tired, and even though I'm optimistic about my future, I hardly see the light at the end of the tunnel and wonder if all those sacrifices are worth it. Why sacrificing sleep in the morning to run if nothing is garanteed at the end besides suffering?
be patient, I've ruined most of all good thing I could've had, just by being too impatient.. And just think that though you have no guarantee to succeed, if you quit - failure is 100 percent certainty..
Thanks for sharing Bedros. I was also sexually abused.It dosent bother me anymore but it’s awesome seeing a man like you openly talk about it and not hold back!
Agreed! Great video. I've found it's easy to build on my own successes in terms of discipline, but one slip up and watch the other slip ups follow! Watch yourself like a hawk!
No need to devalue the experiences of others, and call it "false", because it is your preference. I enjoyed what you had to say up to that judgement. Consciousness includes everything and judges nothing. We are able to choose without making what we did not choose, false or wrong.
Guys! Read “The Big Leap” by Gay Hendricks for more insight on breaking through limiting beliefs. Also, thank you all for liking, subscribing and leaving comments. This show is growing big because of YOU and our growing tribe! 👊🏼❤️
"Impostor not a promise keeper" is a gut punch!! Your experiences in life are similar to what I've been going through and can't put into words. I'm doing things on automatic pilot and can't seem to break that stranglehold. I've got to really absorb this again. Thanks Bedros.
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I'm honestly in such a deep hole right now in life. I lost my job, family, and home i was feeling like ending it until i seen this video. it really helped me take a step back and look at my life. Almost everything he said was relatable which is crazy.
It’s only temporary. Idk you and I probably live far from you but I’ve been going through awful horrible life changing things too but I won’t kill myself and neither should you. Keep on trucking along because it’ll all pass. Life has seasons
Good I hope you dominate you life keep working hard towards your goals
Stay positive dude
Once you hit rock bottom things can only GO UP so life beatin tf out you rn but you gotta good thru till the end then your time will come for the ride but work on you cause you are the only person you got in this life. Your born alone and die alone so don’t let other effect you you got this💯
I'm writing this a month after your comment. I hope you're still around.
I get it. I've been there. Sometimes I go back and visit that thought process. But I want you to know that it Will get better! The bad times are only temporary, actually Everything is temporary. Life is temporary! But you have a chance to make that short life Incredible! You Can do it! And it doesn't have to happen all at once! A bunch of small victories add up, and over time those small things you fight thru, will lead to a great life! You just have to take small steps in the right direction and soon you'll be able to look back at your path and be happy to see how great your life has become! You can do it! We all can do it! One foot in front of the other, and repeat! I hope you are well!!
First time watching any of your videos and I was hooked on the first 5 minutes. I felt like you were talking directly to me, thank you for waking up my inner warrior
nice acting bruh warrior lol
Same here.
Same. I was just about to turn into a BJs restaurant for a drink then this video started playing.
@@jaysivv436lol what?? 😂😂
I had a full year of microdosing and psychedelic therapy. And I will say that it absolutely helped me like a blasting cap on my consciousness and spiritual understanding.... BUT it also opened the truth that my mind is the only barrier to mastering this life and being the man I am destined to be.
I have focused the last few months on total commitment to address the thoughts and attitudes that occupy my mind. I am facing this sober with exercise, cold exposure, wim hof breathing and meditation. I have never felt so in control and confident in my whole life.
We all have the freedom and power to CHOOSE these solutions. Blessings Bedros for another powerful message!! 🙏
I love hearing that! And thank you for watching and listening, my friend!
As a male therapist and coach I can tell you that he’s spot on. Thank you for your story and testimony.
Hey man! Would you say that men should work with male therapists? If so, why?
@@gaggag6366good question, hoping for a reply from OP as well
Your reputation with yourself is your confidence. This really hits home coz I now realize why I feel like I've lost my flow and I know what to do. Thanks Bedros!
Thanks Bedros. I'm a new subscriber in my 60's and after more than a few major life trials, I'm still 'doing the work'.... what do they say, 'it's not over till the slim lady sings!' Thank you for your encouragement.
As a woman watching your content for the first time, your hard hitting messages are food for action and positive change. It also helps me to understand men's core needs. Thank you.
Thank you, brother. I needed this. I am meant for much more. 26 days sober and going. My youtube channeling is growing, and i am more focused. Im only 30 and still have much more life to live. Thank you.
Keep it up
My prayer is that every father out there could talk to his son just like you just did for these very special 20 minutes. It could change the trajectory of very very many young men out there. Thank you. May the work of your hands be blessed
Someone should make videos of multiple bedros videos so that way when I’m listening at work, boom, 3 hours just flys by
Go to his page and click on Playlist
I agree - these need to mp3 to download onto an offline device
Clips channel
You do that. I listen.
hahaha you will be listening these videos as an alcoholic uses alcohol.
Its all about money. Its all about validation. Its all about showing off. Its all about everyone doing podcasts and trying to earn easy money. Greatest societal bubble of all time imo.
I could not have came across this time at a better time in my life… I’m genuinely shocked that the algorithm could work like this. Feel like this dude knocked on my door and said everything straight to my face
Good man!
7:59 Man you hit it on the nose. Stacking losses. I’ve been leaning into food. Not having a good reputation of myself. Setting low expectations results in low life. You know you were put here to help people. Words of the universe.
Keep doing the self work bother
@@BedrosKeuilian Saving up for the Squire program to do it with my 12 yr old son. 🙏👍🏽
You don’t know how important you are to a lot of us tryna self improve 🙏🏼 thank you
After decades of experience from living this way I have to say that this guy is dead on, 110% correct on everything he said here. Great video sir.
This is what i needed today. I have been there and know people doing these things. Trying to lift them up without falling into their pitfalls is my heaven and hell.
This has to be one of the most valuable impactful youtube video's i have ever seen...
i've listened to this audio at least 20 times while working out (not exaggerating) and right now i'm making a written summary of all the gems/essences you named in this video that apply to me, to have a condensed version to read daily until they are fixed in my mind and i act accordingly.
One of my addictions/vices is that i watch too many youtube video's because i tell myself i need more information and knowledge before taking action but actually it's my 'inner bitch' that is insecure and afraid to take action...
Thank you so much for keeping it 1000 and being so open to us about your own scars and struggles, much respect!
I look forward to meeting you one day to shake your hand and thank you in person!
Thank you brother
Of all the self improvement videos I've watched, this one hits the most. Thank you. Day 1 starts tomorrow.
Its so true. We can completely re-wire the story when we set our mind right.
You were always the answer to your problems and success. You don't need permission, just being aware and being able to navigate how you make decisions and executing intellectually and emotionally.
I needed this so much today. My relationship of 3 years collapsed on me because I was behaving poorly and I deserved it. then a few weeks later I lost my job. Not because of poor performance but because of layoffs. It all just feels overwhelming and I thought of ending it for good. And I was this close from doing it but.... I just realized sitting here alone that being alone is an opportunity to scrape the bottom and clean up the dirty stuff in order to make bigger steps. Perhaps even leaps. I always accepted less and I am not going to settle for less anymore. I never valued myself and always felt I cannot expect more and that I am broken. And broken people make broken people. Which is exactly what happened with my ex. I hate my old self. That guy had to go.
"Negotiate away your dreams" This hit hard for me. Thanks for sharing your difficult experience Bedros, I really respect your authenticity. I'm trying to improve myself daily and videos like this really help. Sure I have fears and doubts about everything. Yet, I know deep down inside that the REGRET of not becoming the person I am capable of being, is far worse than the FEAR of failing.
I like the word you said 'dominating your life'. The only way to completely turn the direction from dominating others.
Every video or audio I’ve heard from you Bedros has touched me deeply. I’m a personal trainer/life coach and have been an athlete all my life but I’ve also always had a habit of sabotaging my body with carbs but I’m done with these useless pattern. Thank you for sharing your stories and reminding me God made me to be bigger than this pattern. Keep shining light and truth. Blessings!
Thank you Bedros, working on the promises I make to myself. Finding worthiness is tough, but not writing your own story is tougher. taking the pen back now
WOW. Total paradigm shift!! Thank you for your words of truth!! Thank you for admitting that you crazy guys are as messed up as we crazy girls, and that we are simply feeding off each other to fulfill some deeper needs and heal some deeper hurts. Thank you for verbalizing my permission to CHANGE and literally BE everything God intends for my life!! I do believe this now. 20, 30, 40 years ago I didn’t know this. I started last summer on a TOTAL renewal of myself… my mind, heart, soul, and body. My views and ideals have taken such an intense turn… at 54 years old. Took me long enough, huh!! I’ve battled and come out victorious over addiction. I’ve dropped all bad influences and am clinging now to the basics… the state of my SOUL and how I behave toward others. Like you, I am here to serve, I have no doubt. After being out of work for three months (again), I am SO ready to tackle this budget and use my money wisely instead of it controlling me. I’m learning to appreciate me again, without someone having to validate my worth. I’m taking the fight against my past abuse seriously. I’m DONE with the excuses and the victim mentality!!!!! I could ramble on… but seriously, thanks. I have taken back the pen and I’m rewriting this story that is my life!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼💗🥰🐱
the thing is. you never were ready for this sort of input. at the earlier, stages of your life chapters.
right now! you are able to see it all clearly! also, i bet you. the truth would not be as sweet if it were not, for your former bitterness ;)
HAIL SATAN!!!! :D
"The success is your duty", i will pin this words in my mind! Thank you Mr. Bedros !
I was molested at the age of 5 and have been healing from the mental scars ever since. There are so many of us who need to here this message. I appreciate the work you’re doing. Cheers🙌🏽
I wish you more courage. I have a question for you , What do you think of the normalisation of Pedophilia by the LGBTQ movement which came to power just 5 years ago.
@@BogalaSawundiris to Hell with all of them.
I agree with the core message of reclaiming your power. No objections there.
However. All these remedies of:
- Healing your trauma
- Talking to a therapist
- Finding yourself by doing this or that
All these things come with an assumption that something is indeed wrong. Which in itself is a limiting belief.
Instead we need to accept deeply that the past does not exist. Only the present does.
So we need to appreciate the things that we have. We need to count our blessings. We need to play with the cards we're dealt.
Life is short. And we need to be relentlessly trying to achieve what we TRULY want. Not settle for the crumbs as you mentioned.
We are as powerful as we make ourselves to be. Crazy stuff.
This is insane man. I can’t believe he has the courage to share such a thing though it shows such character.
You’ve gained a life subscriber good sir.
Thanks!
Thank for sharing that story most people would not acknowledge the molestation. I took this path few years ago finally started to embrace my inner calling to walk alone till I find worthy people to connect don’t settle for toxic negativity they bring u down. Been trying to help drowning people for too long but can only give so much before it catches on. “Law 10 avoid the unhappy and unlucky” 48 laws of power
That reeealy interpellate me in every aspect. Each one.
A great friend just showed me this video based on a talk we had... and all i can say is THANKS to both of you.
Thanks for sharing!!
I just discovered you recently and I'm so glad I did. You're one of the only speakers that I really resonate with. I've been on my self-betterment journey for years now and it's been a joy seeing my growth. There's still things I want to work on and I think listening to you will aid greatly in taking me to the next level.
The life coach that lived it, honestly, you got it.
Man! The first time I see your channel and this video is extremely important to get everyone out of his misery because this is really happening to a lot of us nowadays as we are procrastinating a lot in social media and in our phones. I am sure the idea you shared about is going to change a lot of us if we really apply it by killing our laziness and randomness in life. Thank you so much. We need more insights from you. I cannot live this page without subscribing in your channel.
Spoken powerfully and passionately, Bedros... as always. You're the real thing, man. And I fully agree that guys need to work with male therapists and coaches. Not that there aren't great ladies out there who can help, but because the real strength in overcoming your traumas comes from tapping into the warrior mindset, finding your pride and self-worth, and the refusal to stay down when you're knocked down. Having male heroes who would never think giving up, and not wanting to be less than the example they set, was a big part of what got me through 3 years of darkness. I've since used what I learned to help others to great effect.
Keep up the good work, Bedros!
Good for you my friend for achieving such a profound change in yourself.
I can and do relate to what you have to say because I have been through much of the same myself.
Thanks for sharing!
Kind of regards, Steve
Thank you so much Steve!
Thank you for sharing this. This really resonated with me this morning. Just got outta relationship in which I felt like I was settling, that I was kinda out of her league so to speak and lost sight of my power and who I am as a man.
This probably changed my life right now. Wow. Thank you Bedros. You don’t know the amazing work you are doing. Much love from L.A. 🤜🔥🤛
Thank you for the enlightenment and the saving of these men
The greatest thing is not how much money u can make
It's how much you can SELF ACTUALIZE
The work u do on ur self
Big man brother, u hit alot of nerves to me and i truly needed this. Im 30 and have alot goin well for me but i can hardly overcome my habbits and addictions. I had some great days in my life and im tired of drggin my self back to my old self, and keep hitting the snooze button. Weed and food when im stressed is my biggist issues and i struggle with them to this day. Im happy to find about u as u earn my sub and pleasing attention. Thank u and keep being great!
Thank you brother! Keep focusing on growth
Life changing.. started to watch your videos 3 days ago, and Im already feeling like a different man.
Thank you for your message today is my 5th day after i stop doing drugs Im dealing with all the pain of detox but this motivates me and makes me feel stronger knowing im rewriting my story, much blessings to you brother
U got it
How are you doing man? Been clean and sober for 8 months myself, shit aint easy
Brutally honest talk. The hardest part for depressed and un motivated people is the pain. Today neuroscience proved that emotional pain and physical pain are quiet the same. It’s like someone bits the shit out of you brakes your bones leaves you in hospital and tells you for 3 to 6 month you need to learn how to walk again. Today we know that the brain of children who were physically abused function exactly the same as the soldier who came from war. To pull trough all that it requires a lot of inner strength. There is a great book call “chatter - the voice in your head and how to harness it “ it is a fascinating book that sheds a lots of light into how we sabotage ourselves with our inner voice and why.
This Is so accurate.. thank you so much for this. My entire life has been a mess in every sides, everything has been almost impossible to enjoy. here's a guy from latin america watching you and enjoying these kind of tips, again, thank you!
not even gonna lie this has been exactly my problem my whole life. And it literally clicked with me not too long ago and now I watch this video. Synchronicity is a real thing. You described the feeling of the ceiling perfectly.
Been watching these videos before work and I gotta say it’s making me take a look at myself especially on the vices
This episode changed my thinking. I love you man. Please never stop!
I’ll never stop! Our tribes continues to grow!
@@BedrosKeuilian 👏👏🫡💪
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Bedros: I love you! You are a truth teller. Inspirational. You help me daily!
PLEASE stop asking for likes, subscribers and bell ringers!
You WILL get them if you KEEP giving content like THIS!
Bald and Bankrupt NEVER asks. He earns.
Just recently found this channel a month ago. Man you don’t know how much you work have helped me. I look at you as the father figure and this right here will take me to next level I need to be at! Keep on doing this and helping us become better Men!
I appreciate that young buck! Keep evolving!
What u gonna do next now
My Friend that was the most timely video I think I've ever watched. 100% resonated with your word. Thankyou
Great advice Bedros. Self-development and building yourself up is the key to everything. Become what you should be, you don’t want to regret not becoming what you could have been.
So true!
Hey Bedros! TH-cam recommended your channel to me this morning! It’s the first time I’ve ever heard of you or listened to your podcast, and I have to tell you, it was as if you were speaking specifically to me. It’s just what I needed this morning! Thanks for doing what you do! Stay blessed!
Welcome aboard brother!
22:04 thanks for rooting for me! I’m so much better now since finding your content. It’s like another supplement I use to workout harder…physically, spiritually and emotionally. Thank you for your content 🙏🏼
Thank you brother!
Amen brother. God directed me to listen to you, and I'm going to keep listening. Thank you ❤
I love your advice on levelling up, and associating with people who are more evolved. The whole lesson was awesome too.
You really seem like a sincere and caring person. Thank you.
Thank you that was powerful! I’m so glad you explained about how we lose our confidence & become average by not keeping our word to ourselves. I have work to do! Thank you!!
Thankyou Mr Bedros
For your words of wisdom
Let the Lord bless and prosper you
Man bro everything you said is POINT ON !!! I was thinking about this earlier today and I think about it often…. Those limiting beliefs projected by ppl … even family and friends.,, how I sometimes self sabotage good things subconsciously bc I think I’m not worthy of it bc of the default I have in my mind created from toxic insecurities and bullying . I have made my 2.0 but like Mike Tyson say your one foot away from the limo and the gutter. So yea lately I’ve been telling myself , reminding myself that I gotta ACT right THINK right . Thanks bro this is vid so relatable ❤. I’m here to help others
👏 *IF you eVeR need to vibe wiTh a liKe mind know you'Re NoT aLonE jusT go ahead and reach ouT faM.!* ✌
I feel good if I can get someone to smile or laugh in the morning because I know there is a good chance it will change thier whole day for the better
Most valuable video on TH-cam. Appreciate the work this man has been through.
Sir you are touching on something most don’t get while here. What you are describing is the reason we are all here! To raise the consciousness on the planet by like you said evolving from the human animal, into the unlimited consciousness being that we truly are! Much love !
Thank you, Mr. K!
You've just given me some perspective on something I can provide to others.
I'll congratulate you in person, once my work has begun and the people I help have provided to me, the means to fly overseas and meet you.
God willing, I can live up to the greatness you've inspired in me!
I appreciate that! Never peak!
Bedros, you speak so authentic. I relate to many things you say. Food, crazy ex chicks, self sabotage, ..I feellike you're my brother from another mother...looking forward to reading your book. Best to you in 2023. Thanks brother!!!
Wise words. I have heard this advice before but never so powerfully delivered and in a way so many of us seem to be able to relate to. Thank you
I been shot from my neck down to my legs with Mt chest open, and I was labeled paralyzed I just started standing, long story short sir your message hit me hard and close to my heart, I appreciate your message and if your motive was to reach and help people truly it most definitely helped me and you have a new supporter I haven't saw any other videos or heard of you, this speaks volumes to a ex gangbanger that changed his life may God continue to work threw you with love Jovan
The whole world is going through this to a point. But it's a blessing that we have a option to listen to someone that really gets it and has made it through. I thank him for that
You are the Real Gangstar man Thanks for your time, You are such an example of a good leader with your own life stories.
Thankyou for the work you do, and the man you are in this world
🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you! God sent! I needed to hear this precisely at this time in my life... Necessary reminder! All true and in my way to growth, I have to remind myself to take out toxic friends from my life, regardless on how I feel about them. In many was I'm so blessed in so many areas ways. I also experienced some kinds of abuse. I have some trust issues, but I've learned to heal and I've become a different person... constantly working on myself without drugs nor addictive ways. It's a daily challenge, but worth it. Most times I feel happy and satisfied. I don't lower my standards anymore.
Very wise words! 💚 Thank you!!! 🇵🇷
Love this, Bedros. Grateful to have found you. This is my story, but I've had extended periods of unity of mind/body/soul/wealth, but have fallen back into the warm embrace of addictions and self-destructive thoughts. I'm back on track and more focused than ever on becoming the man I was designed to be. It's funny, but all you have to do is observe the content in your feeds - they are a reflection. I found you today because the ONLY thing I'm ingesting is empowerment/motivation/mindset/wealth-building content. As if I need to hear Stairway to Heaven for the four billionth time - I don't even have time for Spotify. I just canceled my premium account. If it's not this type of food for my brain, senses and soul, I don't have time for it. Thank you for inspiring me today, bro.
Thank you for your service, everybody of this generation should listen what you have to say, so glad I came across your channel
Thank you for all that you do. I am a woman who has been listening to your channel and putting your words into practice these last couple of weeks. It's all a work in progress but I really feel like I am headed in the right direction.
What an amazing human you are!! Cant stop listening
Man, this podcast really smacked me in the face because it’s true. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
Some shitty things have happened recently without going into it I saw your video and you were like speaking to me I felt like you were speaking to my soul - thank you brother I almost cracked open that beer and you showed me how I’m just sabotaging myself and I’m worth way more than that. I took a step in the right direction tonight thanks for the help
Man, thank you. Thank you for your vulnerability, thank you for the encouraging words, thank you for contributing to us.
Thanks for sharing. I completely relate and have been stuck in period of self sabotage and self doubt for years. It's only in the past 6 months I've realized my self worth and am now making better choices, including cutting out toxic people holding me back. I want to become wealthy but even more so I want to grow emotionally. Thank you again, Bedros.
Seriously, one of the coolest production sets I have ever seen.
I'm glad I found this channel. I'm getting coach by a mentor right now, I was recently given the pink slip by the ex two years ago and fudged me up. I was face with reality and had no choice but to hold my self accountable and own my fair share of the end of my marriage. so here we are now working on all this aspect of life to have a meaningful future.
Dude, the last 5 min were mad. I particularly enjoyed the last five minutes of your video, it felt like there was a lot of yourself in it. I am grateful for this content, it was great.🤘🏻🔥
Greatings from Poland 🇵🇱
Thank you!!
Was watching this while cooking myself breakfast and gotta tell you BK my ❤ is full of love for you and this message. Tons of gold for everyone in here. Remember people you are worthy because God sent you here and knows every hair on your head so throw off your baggage and go free forwards and as in the fabulous book you squared says: Act as if it were impossible to fail.
God Bless you all ❤
this is great advice, thank you so much for sharing!
You're so welcome!
Thank you for everything Bedros Keuilian. I just found your pod cast. I was called snack pak in grade school. I was bigger guy in grade school but always started and excelled at any sport I was a part of. It stuck with me my whole life. Now I own several automotive repair shops and 20+ multi-family real estate properties. I definitely still have vises from it but I work my ass off because of it all.
I cant believe this big B. So much wisdom and information for free. Precious stuff!
Man this is 💯 truth. Right now im coasting through life with no purpose other than being a great dad. Im clean and have faith in Jesus which is huge from where i started but i need to break that ceiling. Great video brother this is very motivating.
I love your work and message B. Thank you for being such an example of what authentic principled masculinity looks like. You inspire me a great deal. All the best.
Grateful for the kind words brother!
Bedros. Thank you so much. Your words have spoken to me in so many relatable ways today. This was devine intension in my opinion. Thank you for your down to earth approach. Please continue to share your wisdom.
Respect to him for recognizing that he was a part of the problem. None of us are victims. We’re attracted to who we are. If we are consistently in relationships with crazy people that says something about us.
I’m so happy and grateful I found this channel…you speak the truth that noone else does
I feel he's talking straight at me,this video really hit me, this guy is something else
This video is pure gems 💎. Shoutout to all of those who are constructing a 2.0 version of themselves. I'm also in the process of making the best version of myself and it's difficult, but that's exactly the only way to achieve great things. Don't worry if you're too old or too late, that doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is the real inner you that's waiting for you to take the big step towards your new improved life. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, create new healthy habits ans destroy the old false self that isn't helping you get to where you wanna be. Thank you Bedros for this inspiring and truthful piece of content, you're really making an impact and that's what life is all about. Greetings from Chile 🇨🇱 🙌🏽
I honestly dig your mentality and I appreciate so much your advices. I simply have one thing that slows down myself on going full on on discipline and self-respecting my inner rules. What if all of those sacrifices lead to nothing at the end? I'm going to be honest I am currently working 40h a week plus having 16 credits at college to be an electrical engineer. I manage to run in the early morning, and lift everyday. Since I began this routine at the end of last November, I feel loneliness like never before (I live alone), tired, and even though I'm optimistic about my future, I hardly see the light at the end of the tunnel and wonder if all those sacrifices are worth it. Why sacrificing sleep in the morning to run if nothing is garanteed at the end besides suffering?
be patient, I've ruined most of all good thing I could've had, just by being too impatient..
And just think that though you have no guarantee to succeed, if you quit - failure is 100 percent certainty..
Wow, this is life changing. Thank you Bedros this is the first video I've watched from you
Thanks for sharing Bedros. I was also sexually abused.It dosent bother me anymore but it’s awesome seeing a man like you openly talk about it and not hold back!
Agreed! Great video. I've found it's easy to build on my own successes in terms of discipline, but one slip up and watch the other slip ups follow! Watch yourself like a hawk!
You lit a switch in a critical turning point, thank you Bedros
No need to devalue the experiences of others, and call it "false", because it is your preference. I enjoyed what you had to say up to that judgement. Consciousness includes everything and judges nothing. We are able to choose without making what we did not choose, false or wrong.