While I agree with you about her being a hypocrite about alot of things, Lala made a good point in saying that Scheana and Tom were friends before he and Ariana got together. I don't think Randall knew the group until he was with Lala so he technically "came with the package" but I could be wrong
She has sooooo disappointed me well lol you know. She’s molding into Scheana spending too much time together. She now depends a lot on her. With children brook sad.
Scheana is insufferable! I can’t with every situation she centers herself. This season is so hard to watch with all the podcasts and Sandovals sideline behaviour detracting from the show being aired. It’s hard to follow the show because too much is happening in real time.
do you not know how relationships work? Its not pick a best friend. you navigate all situations. scheana is friend swith both Arian & Tom & she is just simply trying to keep both friendships. who in this group hasnt cheated? so its kinda stupid how they wanna burn Tom at the stake. Its stupid how Queen arian thinks she can threaten the group by saying she cant be friends with anybody whi is friends with Tom! Thats just absurd. Especially on an ensemble tv show where they all have to work together!
@@en6278I agree with everything you said! It is extremely immature that Ariana thinks she can control everyone by threatening to not be friends anymore with anyone who talks to Tom! 2 words:GROW UP!
Its called a boundary. None of these people are obligated to be friends with each other. If Ariana wants to not have 2nd hand contact with Tom, that is her boundary and she is completely allowed to have them---especially when it comes to something that will impact her mental health@@wouldntulike2no125
She's not wrong. But you also cannot ask people to shift their boundaries around to accommodate who *you* want in your friend group. If you want to hang out with someone who hurt me, cool. But I'm out. End of story. How is that hard for these women to figure out? They keep taking it in as "you're trying to tell me what to do" instead of "my friend was really hurt by someone and I dont want to inflict more pain on her by bringing this person around"
Stop being jealous Lala doesn't look good. You are mad because Ariana has gotten so many deals from this issue. Ariana has always been loyal and a sweet person. Do you actually understand her best friend slept with her boyfriend of 9 years. Scheana grow up and just stop. You made a lot of money from this issue. Ariana has been a good friend to you. James is the only one that makes sense and has grown up. Lala you are a bully.
Lala said she made so much money on her send it to Darrell merch that it paid for the down payment on her house. So it was all good having Arianas back when it served her.
I agree both Scheana and Lala were on there podcasts talking about Scandoval 24/7 Appeared in commercial with Ariana Didnt Scheana and Lala drop a song 2 months ago about Raquel?? The 1st one was Apples the 2nd with Lala was idk?? Uber eats commercial etc Both Lala and Scheana bought houses in LA recently They made tons of money off this Every guy Scheana liked on the show was her "best friend" over and over If someone threatens suicide you call for help and get them mentally evaluated not a hug and a trip to Tahoe Both Lala and Scheana are flip floppers I'm sure they agree that Sandoval is like George Floyyd and OJ too Absolutely insane
Why is Lala jealous because age is also calling Arianna out on her BS. Don't friends supposed to.tell you when you are moving wrong? Everyone wants to blame only Tom yes what he did was fup . However Arianna needs to own her part in the downfall of there relationship. You could see the cracks way before he cheated with Rachel. And if I as your friend can't call you on your BS when you are wrong and you do the same to me THEN WE ARE NOT REALLY FRIENDS THEN. Arianna wants a butch of yes girl you are right poor you friends. And sorry that has never been Lala if she feels like in certain situations that you are wring she will call you on it. THAT DOESN'T MEAN SHE IS JEALOUS IT MEANS SHE IS YOUR FRIEND. PERIOD.. I.E. the birthday situation how you gone tell someone they can't have a party at their house. Girl bye
Ariana? Sweet? Are we watching the same show?? U can call her ALOT of things but SWEET?! It doesn't even make the list lol she's not sweet, never has been
And LOYAL??? she and tom cheated while he was with Kristen for 6/7yrs lol she's no different or better. Actually she is a bit different, entitled is a good word to describe her. She's entitled to do the same thing Rachel did but with no repercussions like Rachel.
They're always so quick to forgive the guys on this show no matter how awful they are. The women never get the same treatment. They should change the name from Vanderpump Rules to Internal Misogyny Rules.
The first time anyone in the world knew of Scheana is when she went on TV crying about her affair with Eddie Cibrian. News had broke that he was having an affair with Leeann Rimes. So Scheana went on TV and cried about how his affair affected her. When he had a wife and children. Brandi said that TV appearance is actually how she found out about Scheana. It was the catalyst that started Vanderpump Rules. So well over a decade later, Scheana has not changed a bit. It's actually wild.
Stop with the Tom’s pity party!!!! It’s ridiculous and disgusting. Seriously I’m sick of this. If all this season is going to be poor pitiful Tom, mean bad Ariana I’m done.
@1020honey ....Is Tom the one that's keeping things going? I'm only asking because I haven't watched in a long time, but it seems like it's the other way around. I could be wrong; Some say it's him, but others are saying that it's Arianna. When is enough going to be enough?
no one wants to hate him forever....WE just want a speck of introspection or a dash of remorse or a speckle of taking responsibility...idk some humanity....rather than this PERFORMATIVE BS....
Sandoval wanted a marriage and kids, can you imagine if arians gave him that?! Holy fuck, she’d had to co parent with him. She dodged the biggest bullet of her life!
It's annoying. Why I hate watching the show now. I don't watch this show for her. When she comes on camera it's all of a sudden time to make some popcorn. LOL
That's what happens when ur life isn't grounded in truth. All these Hollywood chasers, their truth is subjective to whatever the trend is,, which is the opposite of truth.
Oh my god I can’t with Scheana, she’s so embarrassing and very “me me me me me”. Girl you didn’t get cheated on, out of everyone, Scheana was the one dragging this whole affair, podcast after podcast, and making a song where Rachel is mentioned. Why is everyone saying “Ariana keeps dragging it”. I felt like she hasn’t at all, she’s moved on, she’s doing amazing things and I can only hope she keeps on going.
I hope Ariana points that out during the reunion. Literally list the number of public statements she’s made about what happened TO HER versus how these three milked that mess. Especially Scheana and Lala.
Shiiiitttt LaLa has some NERVE!! She still has a website up selling merch for Send it to Darrell with almost everything on it $60-75! I believe she said she put a down payment of 250k on her new house from merch sales! And Scheana had her top Podcast about this. These 2 are being ridiculous. This season is stupid. Lisa had to give them this storyline.
I fail to undersatnd the hate or anger towards Ariana... Jeez... the woman was publicly humiliated by her partner of 9 years and her friend for the whole world to see.. The episodes airing right now are a mere three months after that happened. Whether she moved on or not means nothing.. she is allowed to be angry and have resentment to him.. For all of you who keep saying she deserved it and wasn't loving etc.. have obviously never been in a long term realationship. Shit happens, you go through phases, the passion fades... and sometimes you break up.. but most of us try to do with dignity and not hurt and embarass the other person. Tom S. is a narcissist, who only cares about himself. He ahs always been vain and all about the appearance... I'm so happy Arianna is thriving right now and she deserves all the best! And she is entitled to only want positive people around her, and that does not include Tom S or any of his friends.. And Scheana, please shut up! Let there be one situation where you do not make it about you!!!! jesus christ!!!!
You seem to forget Arianna was messing with tom behind Kristen back. Wasn't she just thinking about herself then. Yes relationships have up and downs but they both admitted he tried to leave her and she wasn't wanting to believe it. She is the villain to everyone cause instead of moving out and REALLY moving on she wants to be in the house cause she can't stand to not have some kind of control over his life. She can be mad and have resentment but to try and destroy someone completely to the thought of suicide is not a good person.
That was 10 years go dimwits, and she didnt know Kristen, nor owe her anything. YOU seem to forget that there's a difference between that and a 10 year life partnership.@@taliawesterfield1818
I dont think Lala has grown up or matured at all... shes just comfortable in being such a bad person at this point. And Scheana is braindead. Theyre making James look so mature, which is hilarious lol.
I don’t think so. Scheana tried to warn Ariana at the beginning of her relationship with Tom that he was a liar and cheater and Ariana chose to ignore it. So now years later Tom proves Scheana right but Ariana wants people to take sides after you were clearly warned. I think Scheana can be friends with both at this point.
Schaena has been trying to make this about her from day 1.. LaLa needs to be relevant so much for not being angry and involving herself in everyone’s business. Yelling at James because he disagrees or has a different point of view.
There’s a difference between having someone’s back, and making sure a former friend doesn’t self delete. Actually, it’s probably in Ariana’s best interest to have them make sure he doesn’t commit suicide. Doesn’t mean they’re accepting his cheating nor betraying Ariana… Sheesh takes likes these make me so scared of women scaring me out of marriage. This put a whole bad look on Ariana, obviously her ex cheating is beyond horrible but she truly seems to want him self delete. Which if would happen she would be crying and in such a worse state… Sure if my girl cheated I’d hate her but in no way would want her to just self delete that’d be psych damage ten times worse than the cheating
LALA has a baby with the man she hates. She has to talk to him every day for the rest of her life and didn’t want anybody else too… ma’am you had no leg to stand on. And just be cause you’re yelling and cursing doesn’t make you right.
It’s mad that people are turning on Ariana she’s the one that got cheated on Tom created all the mess it’s sad mentally for him but a 7 month affair and not giving a care in mind for Ariana and her mental health is more then equally sad so don’t blame her so her having her own standards
He also showed he was a cheater and she thought she was different and ridiculed Doute and flaunted her relationship with Tom in front of her. She admitted to knowing he cheated on her before and chose to continue the relationship. Let’s be real Ariana has not been nice throughout the seasons. I’m sorry she was cheated on but she needs to look back at some her actions as well.
So? He’s in the show. if the others want to be friends with him, she won't die from that. It’s not a disaster and she can get over it. No one says SHE has to spend time on him. Just saying✌🏼
It’s like you all fail to realize this was all filmed 3 months after everything happened and maybe a few weeks after the reunion aired so everything is still fresh in her head. All she’s doing is setting boundaries and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Lala --- please stop it with the whole 'Ariana doesn't have a leg to stand on' crap because she was in the same house as Tom still. You obviously don't know any of the laws that exist when it comes to owning a house with someone. If Ariana just left the house, Tom could have told his lawyer and the court that she 'abandoned' their place of residence and things would likely get very, very bad for her. Why would she just give up a multi-million dollar investment like that? She'd be totally screwed! I do not blame her one bit. He blew up this relationship AND wants her to just leave him the house? I don't think so! Get a grip, Lala. It's not like they're hanging out. She won't even speak or be in the same room as that man.
Ariana's playing chess while these peeps play checkers. I absolutely believe she has wise people guiding her movements and once she got her feelings at the reunion has overall shown the most maturity and restraint this past nearly year.
To use Lala's own words: DUMMY! Lala is just jealous she wasn't smart enough to get her name on the deed with Randall. Why else would she not know SHITE about how the law works? Ariana was not staying because she didn't want to move on... She HAD to be there. I'm sure her atty advised strongly against leaving. I'm tired of Lala barking the same nonsense all season. My ears hurt!!
Does Scheana do anything about any situation ever except be about "But me, But I, Look at me how much I am suffering" 🙄 Arianna has ever right to say deal with it how you want to but don't expect her to deal with it how you want her to, ffs a friendship and the relationship she had with him are two very different things.
When she started crying to Ariana in the pool about Sandoval... no words. Then she says in this clip that Ariana's reaction to that is why she doesn't confide in certain people how's she's feeling. Seriously, how self absorbed do you have to be!?
7:49 Lala looking for a controversial or contrarian space for work. She a cute character but entirely full of shit. Honestly the friend shift to Scheana / Lala and Ariana/ Katie just intellectually and emotionally makes more sense.
She said she left him with her mom and her mom got bit and gave him to another family and they also got bit and brought the dog to the pound. Lisa was called when it was realized whose dog it was and that’s how she got him. James cried like a baby when he got him and I don’t believe for one second he’s being abused.
Is no one going to be all her out when she told Ariana that tom isn't good for her???? If Tom was her best friend then she wouldn't have done that so she is talking shit
Tom Schwartz complains how much Scandoval affected him just as much as Scheana does and still is actually friend with Sandoval, but gets nowhere near the amount of hate. So weird.
It does not matter how long you live known someone, some friends I’ve had only had a couple years are WAY better friends than ppl I’ve known for decades
Not all the justification. This cast is going to ruin the show playing who’s the biggest star. If Sheana misses Tom, be friends with him. But know that comes with not being friends with Ariana. You have two options. The boundaries have been set by Ariana. Just pick now.
Lala and Sheana are always "please show me all the attention" women. Why is it always about them? Especially Scheana. I could give 2 f*cks what happens in both of their lives. Their children is what I want to see more of and hear of.
Wow, James being the voice of reason and remaining calm while Lala screams at him is so reassuring to see, maybe he is finally growing up and controlling his anger issues. And yes, a grown man should not be applauded for being a mature adult, but even still, this is the calmest I've seen him in all these years when he's getting screamed at. Usually he gets extremely defensive and starts hurling insults back at them. Lala looks positively unhinged....
Lala, you truly were my #1 Reality Star on the show. NOW... No more. I know many ppl will read this and say, " lala, Really". But yes, you were. I felt for you now, I see right through you and see what other ppl see. Sad. Manipulation is Winning as Mental Illness becomes "A WEAPON " for Sandoval. Sad.
Um, it's okay to tell people that if youre friends with this person that hurt me, then we can't be friends. It's setting a boundary, a controversial boundary. It's also okay to still be friendly with people that are friends with someone that cheated on you. I guess it really all depends. I'd choose the latter because the people I'm friends with wouldnt share personal & vulnerable life happenings, & that's all I'd really be concerned about. Other than that, do whatever. The world still turns.
The fact they try and make James feel bad for his feelings is crazy. Both lala and pick me are jealous of Ariana. Lala acts so changed but she doesn't seem to be any different. Just faker. And when it comes to the Tom's smh....I never want to be so codependent ever
Scheana is insufferable. Ariana is NOT the friend to go to when you’re worried about Tom!! The fact that she feels so salty about Ariana not giving a fuck about him just shows her lack of emotional intelligence.
Lala has such a foul mouth for absolutely zero reason. Swearing and yelling doesn't mean you're right or help you to be heard. They are all insincere, so why is she getting so hyped...attention.
Exactly everyone's acting like it's being disloyal or something. All it means is to respect keeping the distance. Just don't have them in the same environment!
Absolutely! You are free to do whatever you want! And Ariana is entitled to do and feel whatever she wants to as well! If she doesn’t want someone around her it’s her right, and it’s also her right to not agree with her friends. But she said it herself EVERYONE CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO
Scheana is actually traumatized from being afraid of her daughter being taken away due to the altercation/temporary restraining order but they're not bringing it up on the show.
There was literally a season of Scheana trying to keep Ariana from dating Sandoval and even reached out to Ariana’s mother about it. She was alone in that. She had a lot of warnings for Ariana about her “best friend”. Rewatch the seasons; they never had a best friend moment.
Scheana has always been a good friend to everyone, but she needs to stop thinking that everyone is her best friend just because they’ve worked or known each other for X amount of time. As soon as that man did not claim you as his friend, you should’ve just dropped him right there and then he showed you his true colors. I used to hang out with my friend and his friend group all the time, but I knew at the end of the day. His friends were not my friends. Just because they all hang out in a group together does not mean they are all friends. That’s why the word acquaintances, exists.
Arianna ! If Tom didn't care about scheana,why did he put thousands of dollars in her account when it was lock down, they were very close friends. She might exagerate sometimes but in this case they were good friends, people shouldnt take sides that doesnt affect them. If i fall out with someone, i dont expect my family or friends not to talk to that person too. My kids are still close with my ex of 14 yrs ( not thier real dad ) even tho we dont talk, we have an understanding and it works for us ..
Sheana was rapey with Brett, she punched Raquel, she's tried to make Scandoval about herself, and she instigated her alcoholic ex-husband into drinking. But sure, give her GrAcE Lala, whatever that means.
Lisa ordered them to put down their weapons! This is all their change boils down to. None of them have “grown” or “given grace”. You are absolutely right but he has only Tom on the show so Lisa gave BOSS’s orders
It appears people are forgetting that Ariana has been nasty in previous seasons. She has made excuses for Tom being trash. She lied /gaslit everyone about the Miami girl and Tom cheating on her (only to admit it once he cheated on her with Rachel) and tried to make people feel stupid for warning her about Tom’s ways. Scheana even warned her mother and she was down her throat about it. Tom is trash and I’m not taking up for him but Ariana took up for Tom’s trash behavior for years before and now that she got the s**t end of the stick she’s upset. But there were many signs this dude was horrible and she thought she was different and got played. so people saying scheana isn’t a good friend and makes things about her forget she tried to warn Ariana and Ariana told her to drop it and not get in their business.
Scheana, do what you want. Ariana isn't trying to control you. But she has clear, strong boundaries. Tom gutted her and wasted some of the best years of her life for a decade. She gets to say if you're his friend you can't be in her circle. You can still decide to be his friend. You can say the same thing about anyone to her. Then she will have a choice to make. Ariana has high walls and high standards, now. If you want to be inside her palace, you need to abide by her boundaries. If not, don't. Life is hard, Scheana. And it's never fair. You are always going to be faced with difficult and heart-wrenching decisions. Rewatch the S11 reunion and watch Tom telegraph that you hit Rachel on highly watched national TV. Watch him not protect a young mother to a young daughter that is you and yours. That should be the only thing you base your decision on. You cannot AFFORD Tom Sandoval as a friend, anymore, if the price is your kid. Grow up. The reason you're having a nervous breakdown is because you haven't fully committed to motherhood. Grow up. Be there for your daughter. End of story. PS: Brock was right, Lisa had no business putting you and Lala in the middle. Why do you think she didn't call Katy? Why not Ariana? She called you and Lala, the two most easily swayed softies, because yes, Lala is a softie, too, because she knew YOU TWO would capitulate. And you did. Lisa knows life isn't fair. So, she doesn't play fair.
The Master Manipulator of them all, trying to push the narrative that she was worried about Sandy's mental health, comparing him to her own brother's suicide for TV. How could she stoop so low as to exploit her own brother's death? Then talking about how Ariana is doing just fine. Financial opportunities do not equal emotional healing. LVP knew years ago that Ariana had mental health issues. How dare she push this fake narrative just to get people back into her bars? Idk how anyone can respect her. She is the puppet master of all of them and they all want to keep their job so they capitulate.
I see Schena’s point. She and Tom were friends, or else why would Tom send thousands of dollars to her during lockdown? Just coz Tom cheated, are we all supposed to pretend he wasn’t a true generous friend to James, Jax, Shwartz and Schena? He was always the first in the group to support people at their lowest. He was there for Lala, Schena and even Jax, when everyone else were against them. He has even showed a lot of restraint towards Kristen after the Jax drama, even after her and James hooked up. He never made it go out of hand like they do to him now.
Schwartz didn’t even say no about the message Ariana sent him after saying hug scandoval like he excepted some part of the message I don’t wanna say it but it choking on scandoval
She went to court because she physically abused Rachel. Not because of Tom. She paid legal fees because she thought it would be cool to punch Rachel in the face she literally fu’cked around and found out. She had no right to put her hands on Rachel it’s that simple.
Watch Part 1 of the Vanderpump Rules S11 E4 After Show: th-cam.com/video/eZ5Z1hxSSP0/w-d-xo.html
Why is James the only one making sense 😂
He always does. Its just that people remember the James that acts out horribly m, but he’s the one who grew up the most after getting sober.
I love how James let them know they are both delusional 😅
I love James!! “That doesn’t mean shit” haha don’t put him with these two chicken heads 😂
Hes necessary to temper their insanity
Chicken heads.... 🤣
@@csss556hu8which is saying A LOT!
Oh ok so where was this argument when Scheana was texting Ariana’s mum warning her about Sandoval?
You know it’s bad when James is the voice of reason
Yea!!!! They literally were fighting all season 4 cuz Ariana was defending sandoval
And when Lala was making bank off her send it to Darrell merch. She was all about team Ariana then.
@@HRaeN I know that’s why it doesn’t feel genuine with her.
Lala has conveniently forgotten how she reacted to her friends hanging out with Rand
They’re all a bunch of hypocrites 💯
It’s called growth! She’s grown
While I agree with you about her being a hypocrite about alot of things, Lala made a good point in saying that Scheana and Tom were friends before he and Ariana got together. I don't think Randall knew the group until he was with Lala so he technically "came with the package" but I could be wrong
Rand was also trying to get full custody of ocean tho
She has sooooo disappointed me well lol you know. She’s molding into Scheana spending too much time together. She now depends a lot on her. With children brook sad.
James being the most sensible is a real eye opener
Scheana is insufferable! I can’t with every situation she centers herself. This season is so hard to watch with all the podcasts and Sandovals sideline behaviour detracting from the show being aired. It’s hard to follow the show because too much is happening in real time.
Brillant comment! Thank you!!
@@NorthernBooi she is bad television. She needs her own show so I can turn her off!
Scheana is awful.
@@Roz-y2dmain character syndrome
But this is like her behst frehnd… like, her BEHST frehnd though *sniff*tear*
I'm soooo over Scheanna labeling everybody her best friend she is almost 40 shes still in high school mentality
She talks like it too
Sometimes, I forgot these people are almost 40's! To me they all act like teenagers!
Every guy was her best friend too Brett Max Robb etc....
Scheana,”best friends “ with Ariana, while it was good for a storyline, then when the storyline changes Scheana is just as close to Sandavol 😒
do you not know how relationships work? Its not pick a best friend. you navigate all situations. scheana is friend swith both Arian & Tom & she is just simply trying to keep both friendships. who in this group hasnt cheated? so its kinda stupid how they wanna burn Tom at the stake. Its stupid how Queen arian thinks she can threaten the group by saying she cant be friends with anybody whi is friends with Tom! Thats just absurd. Especially on an ensemble tv show where they all have to work together!
@@en6278I agree with everything you said! It is extremely immature that Ariana thinks she can control everyone by threatening to not be friends anymore with anyone who talks to Tom! 2 words:GROW UP!
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Its called a boundary. None of these people are obligated to be friends with each other. If Ariana wants to not have 2nd hand contact with Tom, that is her boundary and she is completely allowed to have them---especially when it comes to something that will impact her mental health@@wouldntulike2no125
Its so crazy to me when people say this "who in the group hasnt cheated"--well I guess who cares then right?@@en6278
SCHEANA not everything is about you
FINALLY SOMEBODY SAID IT! PLEASE LET HER KNOW. LOL
@@aliciamonger2920I think 99% of us are saying it.
@Claulma1999 Thank you!!! Scheana makes every situation about her.
It's her POV tho. What's it supposed to be about??
James standing up for everyone watching
Did LALA just say "You don't get to tell people who they can and cannot hang out with"??? 🙄
Chick is oblivious. She's in Lala world.
Fakeee fakeeee fakeeeeeeeee lala
She's not wrong. But you also cannot ask people to shift their boundaries around to accommodate who *you* want in your friend group. If you want to hang out with someone who hurt me, cool. But I'm out. End of story. How is that hard for these women to figure out? They keep taking it in as "you're trying to tell me what to do" instead of "my friend was really hurt by someone and I dont want to inflict more pain on her by bringing this person around"
@@hunterandolive2693 rem when musss Lala had her say bout ppl siding with Randalll🤯🤯🤯🤯how 2 faced. is she & sheena.. jealous perhaps h!!!!
She did. She’s a messy person
If you and Tom were “such BEST FRIENDS” why is Scheana THE ONLY one fighting for this “friendship” my god … FAKE FAKE FAAAAAAKE. Respectfully. 😉
Stop being jealous Lala doesn't look good. You are mad because Ariana has gotten so many deals from this issue. Ariana has always been loyal and a sweet person. Do you actually understand her best friend slept with her boyfriend of 9 years. Scheana grow up and just stop. You made a lot of money from this issue. Ariana has been a good friend to you. James is the only one that makes sense and has grown up. Lala you are a bully.
Lala said she made so much money on her send it to Darrell merch that it paid for the down payment on her house. So it was all good having Arianas back when it served her.
I agree both Scheana and Lala were on there podcasts talking about Scandoval 24/7 Appeared in commercial with Ariana Didnt Scheana and Lala drop a song 2 months ago about Raquel?? The 1st one was Apples the 2nd with Lala was idk?? Uber eats commercial etc Both Lala and Scheana bought houses in LA recently They made tons of money off this Every guy Scheana liked on the show was her "best friend" over and over If someone threatens suicide you call for help and get them mentally evaluated not a hug and a trip to Tahoe Both Lala and Scheana are flip floppers I'm sure they agree that Sandoval is like George Floyyd and OJ too Absolutely insane
Why is Lala jealous because age is also calling Arianna out on her BS. Don't friends supposed to.tell you when you are moving wrong? Everyone wants to blame only Tom yes what he did was fup . However Arianna needs to own her part in the downfall of there relationship. You could see the cracks way before he cheated with Rachel. And if I as your friend can't call you on your BS when you are wrong and you do the same to me THEN WE ARE NOT REALLY FRIENDS THEN. Arianna wants a butch of yes girl you are right poor you friends. And sorry that has never been Lala if she feels like in certain situations that you are wring she will call you on it. THAT DOESN'T MEAN SHE IS JEALOUS IT MEANS SHE IS YOUR FRIEND. PERIOD.. I.E. the birthday situation how you gone tell someone they can't have a party at their house. Girl bye
Ariana? Sweet? Are we watching the same show?? U can call her ALOT of things but SWEET?! It doesn't even make the list lol she's not sweet, never has been
And LOYAL??? she and tom cheated while he was with Kristen for 6/7yrs lol she's no different or better. Actually she is a bit different, entitled is a good word to describe her. She's entitled to do the same thing Rachel did but with no repercussions like Rachel.
They're always so quick to forgive the guys on this show no matter how awful they are. The women never get the same treatment. They should change the name from Vanderpump Rules to Internal Misogyny Rules.
Also, another great comment!!
Emotional damage 😢
Internal Misogyny Rules? Really?
That would market well
So true!
Internal Misogyny Rules aka Male Chauvinist Pigs' Rules
So proud of James. ❤
Scheana be “Best Friends” with EVERY SINGLE PERSON in LA
James is so over her.
The first time anyone in the world knew of Scheana is when she went on TV crying about her affair with Eddie Cibrian. News had broke that he was having an affair with Leeann Rimes. So Scheana went on TV and cried about how his affair affected her. When he had a wife and children. Brandi said that TV appearance is actually how she found out about Scheana. It was the catalyst that started Vanderpump Rules. So well over a decade later, Scheana has not changed a bit. It's actually wild.
Stop with the Tom’s pity party!!!! It’s ridiculous and disgusting. Seriously I’m sick of this. If all this season is going to be poor pitiful Tom, mean bad Ariana I’m done.
yep!
So everyone needs to hate Tom’s forever? You need help. Move on omg 😮
@@Frequencychickthat’s not what the commenter is saying. My interpretation is that the person is saying the whole season is about Tom’s pity party!!!
@1020honey ....Is Tom the one that's keeping things going? I'm only asking because I haven't watched in a long time, but it seems like it's the other way around. I could be wrong; Some say it's him, but others are saying that it's Arianna. When is enough going to be enough?
no one wants to hate him forever....WE just want a speck of introspection or a dash of remorse or a speckle of taking responsibility...idk some humanity....rather than this PERFORMATIVE BS....
Sandoval wanted a marriage and kids, can you imagine if arians gave him that?! Holy fuck, she’d had to co parent with him. She dodged the biggest bullet of her life!
Schena makes herself the center of everything somehow. She's always puts herself right in the middle, victim, victim, victim
It's annoying. Why I hate watching the show now. I don't watch this show for her. When she comes on camera it's all of a sudden time to make some popcorn. LOL
LaLa used to be my favorite but I'm starting to see what everybody's talking about.... she's such a flip flopper
Me too! She was my favorite and now I’m starting to not like her and it’s sad
Yes me too
That's what happens when ur life isn't grounded in truth. All these Hollywood chasers, their truth is subjective to whatever the trend is,, which is the opposite of truth.
Oh my god I can’t with Scheana, she’s so embarrassing and very “me me me me me”. Girl you didn’t get cheated on, out of everyone, Scheana was the one dragging this whole affair, podcast after podcast, and making a song where Rachel is mentioned. Why is everyone saying “Ariana keeps dragging it”. I felt like she hasn’t at all, she’s moved on, she’s doing amazing things and I can only hope she keeps on going.
Because Scheana is a selfish fragment of a woman. It's always about her. I think she actually feels we all care.
I hope Ariana points that out during the reunion. Literally list the number of public statements she’s made about what happened TO HER versus how these three milked that mess. Especially Scheana and Lala.
Shiiiitttt LaLa has some NERVE!! She still has a website up selling merch for Send it to Darrell with almost everything on it $60-75! I believe she said she put a down payment of 250k on her new house from merch sales! And Scheana had her top Podcast about this. These 2 are being ridiculous. This season is stupid. Lisa had to give them this storyline.
I fail to undersatnd the hate or anger towards Ariana... Jeez... the woman was publicly humiliated by her partner of 9 years and her friend for the whole world to see.. The episodes airing right now are a mere three months after that happened. Whether she moved on or not means nothing.. she is allowed to be angry and have resentment to him.. For all of you who keep saying she deserved it and wasn't loving etc.. have obviously never been in a long term realationship. Shit happens, you go through phases, the passion fades... and sometimes you break up.. but most of us try to do with dignity and not hurt and embarass the other person. Tom S. is a narcissist, who only cares about himself. He ahs always been vain and all about the appearance... I'm so happy Arianna is thriving right now and she deserves all the best! And she is entitled to only want positive people around her, and that does not include Tom S or any of his friends.. And Scheana, please shut up! Let there be one situation where you do not make it about you!!!! jesus christ!!!!
You seem to forget Arianna was messing with tom behind Kristen back. Wasn't she just thinking about herself then. Yes relationships have up and downs but they both admitted he tried to leave her and she wasn't wanting to believe it. She is the villain to everyone cause instead of moving out and REALLY moving on she wants to be in the house cause she can't stand to not have some kind of control over his life. She can be mad and have resentment but to try and destroy someone completely to the thought of suicide is not a good person.
The episodes airing now are 6 months on
No, they're 12 weeks on. Google when filming picked back up. It was less than 3 months later.@@jasmineh1993x
That was 10 years go dimwits, and she didnt know Kristen, nor owe her anything. YOU seem to forget that there's a difference between that and a 10 year life partnership.@@taliawesterfield1818
@@jasmineh1993x It was actually just 3 months later
I dont think Lala has grown up or matured at all... shes just comfortable in being such a bad person at this point. And Scheana is braindead. Theyre making James look so mature, which is hilarious lol.
Scheana likes Scumdoval because she is like him. How did she get on this show in the first place? By sleeping with Brandi’s husband.
She clearly has forgotten.
Good God I have to put my glasses on I saw Brad not brandy! Lol.
Scheana being disloyal again
Harvey Dent is Jealous of Scheana
Always!
I don’t think so. Scheana tried to warn Ariana at the beginning of her relationship with Tom that he was a liar and cheater and Ariana chose to ignore it. So now years later Tom proves Scheana right but Ariana wants people to take sides after you were clearly warned. I think Scheana can be friends with both at this point.
Schaena has been trying to make this about her from day 1.. LaLa needs to be relevant so much for not being angry and involving herself in everyone’s business. Yelling at James because he disagrees or has a different point of view.
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Katie and James are the only ones that have Ariana’s back. ❤
There’s a difference between having someone’s back, and making sure a former friend doesn’t self delete. Actually, it’s probably in Ariana’s best interest to have them make sure he doesn’t commit suicide. Doesn’t mean they’re accepting his cheating nor betraying Ariana…
Sheesh takes likes these make me so scared of women scaring me out of marriage. This put a whole bad look on Ariana, obviously her ex cheating is beyond horrible but she truly seems to want him self delete. Which if would happen she would be crying and in such a worse state… Sure if my girl cheated I’d hate her but in no way would want her to just self delete that’d be psych damage ten times worse than the cheating
LALA has a baby with the man she hates. She has to talk to him every day for the rest of her life and didn’t want anybody else too… ma’am you had no leg to stand on. And just be cause you’re yelling and cursing doesn’t make you right.
Excellent point. Ariana can cut Sandoval from her life, Lala can’t and yet it’s Lala who can’t move on from her situation after 3 years
I'm confused 😕 they have to co parent somehow. She has no choice but to deal with that. Arianna has a choice. I'm seriously confused.
@jakestroll6518 still so confusing there's a baby involved- custody battle. She'll be dealing with this for way more than 3 years.
If the only way you can make your point is to overtalk someone else, yell and clap your hands... You have lost the argument. She's so ratchet.
It’s mad that people are turning on Ariana she’s the one that got cheated on Tom created all the mess it’s sad mentally for him but a 7 month affair and not giving a care in mind for Ariana and her mental health is more then equally sad so don’t blame her so her having her own standards
He also showed he was a cheater and she thought she was different and ridiculed Doute and flaunted her relationship with Tom in front of her. She admitted to knowing he cheated on her before and chose to continue the relationship. Let’s be real Ariana has not been nice throughout the seasons. I’m sorry she was cheated on but she needs to look back at some her actions as well.
So? He’s in the show. if the others want to be friends with him, she won't die from that. It’s not a disaster and she can get over it. No one says SHE has to spend time on him. Just saying✌🏼
If they will do it with you, they will do it to you.
My biggest problem beef is the whole weapomizing her mental health
It’s like you all fail to realize this was all filmed 3 months after everything happened and maybe a few weeks after the reunion aired so everything is still fresh in her head. All she’s doing is setting boundaries and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Thank you!! Everyone is watching and commenting like this happened years ago.
Lala --- please stop it with the whole 'Ariana doesn't have a leg to stand on' crap because she was in the same house as Tom still. You obviously don't know any of the laws that exist when it comes to owning a house with someone. If Ariana just left the house, Tom could have told his lawyer and the court that she 'abandoned' their place of residence and things would likely get very, very bad for her. Why would she just give up a multi-million dollar investment like that? She'd be totally screwed! I do not blame her one bit. He blew up this relationship AND wants her to just leave him the house? I don't think so!
Get a grip, Lala. It's not like they're hanging out. She won't even speak or be in the same room as that man.
Ariana's playing chess while these peeps play checkers. I absolutely believe she has wise people guiding her movements and once she got her feelings at the reunion has overall shown the most maturity and restraint this past nearly year.
To use Lala's own words: DUMMY! Lala is just jealous she wasn't smart enough to get her name on the deed with Randall. Why else would she not know SHITE about how the law works? Ariana was not staying because she didn't want to move on... She HAD to be there. I'm sure her atty advised strongly against leaving. I'm tired of Lala barking the same nonsense all season. My ears hurt!!
Does Scheana do anything about any situation ever except be about "But me, But I, Look at me how much I am suffering" 🙄 Arianna has ever right to say deal with it how you want to but don't expect her to deal with it how you want her to, ffs a friendship and the relationship she had with him are two very different things.
I agree and appreciate your comment. Thank you!
She’s so annoying but what do you expect from someone who was screwing a married man before with no empathy
Yep, good comment.
When she started crying to Ariana in the pool about Sandoval... no words. Then she says in this clip that Ariana's reaction to that is why she doesn't confide in certain people how's she's feeling. Seriously, how self absorbed do you have to be!?
Proud of James for being accountable for his addiction wish him all the best ❤
Lala needs to be shut up…she is beyond annoying. I do not know how one deals with her on daily basis. I would be like shush, you talk too much
Yep
7:49 Lala looking for a controversial or contrarian space for work. She a cute character but entirely full of shit. Honestly the friend shift to Scheana / Lala and Ariana/ Katie just intellectually and emotionally makes more sense.
James is correct. Specially for his reaction.
Schwartz continually makes bad decisions and then asks "why me?"
I'm so pissed that Raquel would give away Graham to someone else rather than give him to James. That's disgusting
I'm so very happy that Lisa found Graham. Very touching. Good for you James ❤
THIS!!!!!!
why would she give her dog to her abusive ex boyfriend?🤔 it wasn’t disgusting at all
She said she left him with her mom and her mom got bit and gave him to another family and they also got bit and brought the dog to the pound. Lisa was called when it was realized whose dog it was and that’s how she got him. James cried like a baby when he got him and I don’t believe for one second he’s being abused.
Lala and Scheana were the LOUDEST about everything, and now they've gone 180.
Is no one going to be all her out when she told Ariana that tom isn't good for her???? If Tom was her best friend then she wouldn't have done that so she is talking shit
I wouldn't stay friends with someone like Lala who thinks it's okay to bite your head off any time she's trying to make a point.
lol what is wrong w Scheana and Lala . Fake friends. James the light of reason 😅🙌
oh boy i used to love Lala and i am fully not vibing w her anymore
UR LOSS!!!!
Yeah she is all over the place
@@BeautyXXBrittanylearn how to speak without all caps Karen you are just obnoxious
She’s such a hypocrite
Really - I am Totally the other way now!
Hated Hated her before.
Now loving how articulate/quick she is!
Tom Schwartz complains how much Scandoval affected him just as much as Scheana does and still is actually friend with Sandoval, but gets nowhere near the amount of hate. So weird.
Pretty men get away with a lot more than pretty women...
It does not matter how long you live known someone, some friends I’ve had only had a couple years are WAY better friends than ppl I’ve known for decades
Lala seems so randomly aggressive? like idk how to take her and the way she says things. maybe it’s the way she speaks?
Not all the justification. This cast is going to ruin the show playing who’s the biggest star. If Sheana misses Tom, be friends with him. But know that comes with not being friends with Ariana. You have two options. The boundaries have been set by Ariana. Just pick now.
Lala is the one who is 'out of her goddamn mind' 😂
Sheana, when people show you who they are, believe them. He's not worth it.
"SHUT UP TOM" is like my mantra when listening to this show this year.
Ariana should just let them go with scumdoval.
He will drag them down with him and if they want to go down with the ship go for it.
my gosh can lala go from 0 to 100 or what... jeez
If there was an award for making every single situation about yourself (and being the victim of course), Scheana would win it every single time.
This is such bullish, Lala and Scheana don’t care about anyone but there selfs . That’s the story they are going with. Lol
Lala and scheana are making themselves look completely stupid.
Lala and Sheana are always "please show me all the attention" women. Why is it always about them? Especially Scheana. I could give 2 f*cks what happens in both of their lives. Their children is what I want to see more of and hear of.
“That’s not very nice!” James!! Lol😂
Wow, James being the voice of reason and remaining calm while Lala screams at him is so reassuring to see, maybe he is finally growing up and controlling his anger issues. And yes, a grown man should not be applauded for being a mature adult, but even still, this is the calmest I've seen him in all these years when he's getting screamed at. Usually he gets extremely defensive and starts hurling insults back at them. Lala looks positively unhinged....
So very proud of you James. Allie seems like a great catch. ❤
Lala, you truly were my #1 Reality Star on the show. NOW... No more. I know many ppl will read this and say, " lala, Really". But yes, you were. I felt for you now, I see right through you and see what other ppl see. Sad.
Manipulation is Winning as Mental Illness becomes "A WEAPON " for Sandoval. Sad.
Same
Um, it's okay to tell people that if youre friends with this person that hurt me, then we can't be friends. It's setting a boundary, a controversial boundary.
It's also okay to still be friendly with people that are friends with someone that cheated on you. I guess it really all depends. I'd choose the latter because the people I'm friends with wouldnt share personal & vulnerable life happenings, & that's all I'd really be concerned about. Other than that, do whatever. The world still turns.
Lala gets the gold metal for the mental gymnastics she is doing.
Schena and Lala just want to stay relevant
The fact they try and make James feel bad for his feelings is crazy. Both lala and pick me are jealous of Ariana. Lala acts so changed but she doesn't seem to be any different. Just faker. And when it comes to the Tom's smh....I never want to be so codependent ever
Scheana is insufferable. Ariana is NOT the friend to go to when you’re worried about Tom!! The fact that she feels so salty about Ariana not giving a fuck about him just shows her lack of emotional intelligence.
Today is a good day to FIRE TOM SCHWARTZ and FIRE TOM SANDOVAL
Yes🙌🏻🙌🏻
I have a feeling if the tables were turned tom Sandoval would 💯 abandon Schwartz to protect his reputation.
Nah they have always been together even when Schwartz was kissing a stranger
Yup
You can have love for an old friend ship but choose not to have that friendship in your future.
Lala has such a foul mouth for absolutely zero reason. Swearing and yelling doesn't mean you're right or help you to be heard. They are all insincere, so why is she getting so hyped...attention.
I like how she changes who are friends are when it suits her! James has Ariana’s back ❤️
I love seeing this evolution of James.
No one can tell me who I can and cannot be friends with 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly everyone's acting like it's being disloyal or something. All it means is to respect keeping the distance. Just don't have them in the same environment!
Absolutely! You are free to do whatever you want! And Ariana is entitled to do and feel whatever she wants to as well! If she doesn’t want someone around her it’s her right, and it’s also her right to not agree with her friends. But she said it herself EVERYONE CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO
Scheana is actually traumatized from being afraid of her daughter being taken away due to the altercation/temporary restraining order but they're not bringing it up on the show.
Anyways… I love to see the growth James has gone through
There was literally a season of Scheana trying to keep Ariana from dating Sandoval and even reached out to Ariana’s mother about it. She was alone in that. She had a lot of warnings for Ariana about her “best friend”. Rewatch the seasons; they never had a best friend moment.
Can we move James to Katie and Ariana’s room and leave LaLa and Scheana to scream into the void?
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Scheana has always been a good friend to everyone, but she needs to stop thinking that everyone is her best friend just because they’ve worked or known each other for X amount of time. As soon as that man did not claim you as his friend, you should’ve just dropped him right there and then he showed you his true colors.
I used to hang out with my friend and his friend group all the time, but I knew at the end of the day. His friends were not my friends. Just because they all hang out in a group together does not mean they are all friends. That’s why the word acquaintances, exists.
Scheana do whatever the fuck you want, just be ready to deal w the consequences then even if that means ariana not speaking to you
Arianna ! If Tom didn't care about scheana,why did he put thousands of dollars in her account when it was lock down, they were very close friends. She might exagerate sometimes but in this case they were good friends, people shouldnt take sides that doesnt affect them. If i fall out with someone, i dont expect my family or friends not to talk to that person too. My kids are still close with my ex of 14 yrs ( not thier real dad ) even tho we dont talk, we have an understanding and it works for us ..
Whoever put James with Scheanna and Lala did the Lord’s work. Just them would have been impossible to watch 😂
Sheana was rapey with Brett, she punched Raquel, she's tried to make Scandoval about herself, and she instigated her alcoholic ex-husband into drinking.
But sure, give her GrAcE Lala, whatever that means.
Ariana no one needed your approval 😂 James you're a hypocrite 😂😂😂
Calm down syco Lalaa
LaLa and James have so much chemistry 🥲🥲
Typical Scheana making everything about herself…..
Tom can get sympathy from ppl not connected to Ariana. He has enough friends.
Lisa ordered them to put down their weapons! This is all their change boils down to. None of them have “grown” or “given grace”. You are absolutely right but he has only Tom on the show so Lisa gave BOSS’s orders
No one needs your approval Ariana. I’m not team Tom, but you really need to check your ego now
It appears people are forgetting that Ariana has been nasty in previous seasons. She has made excuses for Tom being trash. She lied /gaslit everyone about the Miami girl and Tom cheating on her (only to admit it once he cheated on her with Rachel) and tried to make people feel stupid for warning her about Tom’s ways. Scheana even warned her mother and she was down her throat about it. Tom is trash and I’m not taking up for him but Ariana took up for Tom’s trash behavior for years before and now that she got the s**t end of the stick she’s upset. But there were many signs this dude was horrible and she thought she was different and got played. so people saying scheana isn’t a good friend and makes things about her forget she tried to warn Ariana and Ariana told her to drop it and not get in their business.
I’m team Ariana, but you are right about all that happened in the past.
why tf is lala so activated
Scheana, do what you want. Ariana isn't trying to control you. But she has clear, strong boundaries. Tom gutted her and wasted some of the best years of her life for a decade. She gets to say if you're his friend you can't be in her circle. You can still decide to be his friend. You can say the same thing about anyone to her. Then she will have a choice to make. Ariana has high walls and high standards, now. If you want to be inside her palace, you need to abide by her boundaries. If not, don't. Life is hard, Scheana. And it's never fair. You are always going to be faced with difficult and heart-wrenching decisions. Rewatch the S11 reunion and watch Tom telegraph that you hit Rachel on highly watched national TV. Watch him not protect a young mother to a young daughter that is you and yours. That should be the only thing you base your decision on. You cannot AFFORD Tom Sandoval as a friend, anymore, if the price is your kid. Grow up. The reason you're having a nervous breakdown is because you haven't fully committed to motherhood. Grow up. Be there for your daughter. End of story.
PS: Brock was right, Lisa had no business putting you and Lala in the middle. Why do you think she didn't call Katy? Why not Ariana? She called you and Lala, the two most easily swayed softies, because yes, Lala is a softie, too, because she knew YOU TWO would capitulate. And you did. Lisa knows life isn't fair. So, she doesn't play fair.
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Hands down the best comment I have seen regarding this situation thus far thank you so much oh my God I hope they see this
Spot on! Exactly my thought. The Boss gave the orders and the storyline.
The Master Manipulator of them all, trying to push the narrative that she was worried about Sandy's mental health, comparing him to her own brother's suicide for TV. How could she stoop so low as to exploit her own brother's death? Then talking about how Ariana is doing just fine. Financial opportunities do not equal emotional healing. LVP knew years ago that Ariana had mental health issues. How dare she push this fake narrative just to get people back into her bars? Idk how anyone can respect her. She is the puppet master of all of them and they all want to keep their job so they capitulate.
I see Schena’s point. She and Tom were friends, or else why would Tom send thousands of dollars to her during lockdown? Just coz Tom cheated, are we all supposed to pretend he wasn’t a true generous friend to James, Jax, Shwartz and Schena? He was always the first in the group to support people at their lowest. He was there for Lala, Schena and even Jax, when everyone else were against them. He has even showed a lot of restraint towards Kristen after the Jax drama, even after her and James hooked up. He never made it go out of hand like they do to him now.
Unpopular opinion but I’m all here for Schwartz and Lala’s friendship. Makes for great TV.
Yes!
Team Lala all the wayyyyyyyyyy. She is honest and does not sugar coat anything.
Did Scheana forget how we all know she does the same thing with all her “best friends” she is so damn exhausting my god! Me me me me me
With friends like these who needs enemies
Schwartz didn’t even say no about the message Ariana sent him after saying hug scandoval like he excepted some part of the message I don’t wanna say it but it choking on scandoval
Scheana girl, you went to court, paid legal fees. You don't have to bash the guy if you don't want to, but being friends with him?...Nah.
She went to court because she physically abused Rachel. Not because of Tom. She paid legal fees because she thought it would be cool to punch Rachel in the face she literally fu’cked around and found out. She had no right to put her hands on Rachel it’s that simple.