I feel like the cameras purposefully capture the worst of it, so maybe off cam he’s a very good partner. But there is no context that can explain some of what he’s said to her.
"Usman has given me my self-worth." In the next breath, "I don't need him to give me my self-worth." Kimberly is a talking/walking contradiction and the double-talk obviously shows she's conflicted. She KNOWS that Userman Usman isn't in this for the right reasons, but chooses not to acknowledge it.
She talks a lot of blaa blaa. She is dumb and shallow so what she says doesn't need to be taken too seriously. She just says things that she thinks sound good. And we know about her choices.
she has stated, "I go by my heart, I do what my heart says." that is obvious from her actions, she is not using her head. she ignores anything negative ab her "relationship" and is almost delusional at this point.
She is an embarrassment to her son and herself She should have gotten her first clue when she had to beg that young conceited iodiot for sex He is only useing her and she is an old ugly ho He only wants that green card
That's really sad, but when you allow a man to treat you like trash on television, you're telling the world this is the level of respect you're willing to accept.
Omg she is not dillusional. She is a pathetic old hag. Check out her past relationship. She needs to be in a straight jacket. He only wants his green card. What else would he want her for. Lmao
I think the fact she spent 2k in gifts and he didn't get her a single rose pedal speaks volumes. Also, her taking gifts back bc he's not attracted to her and doesn't want sex from her. Look at the way he looked at Zara and the new woman bc they're very pretty... then in rolls Kim bc she's not attractive at all and you can tell he's not attracted to her at all. Finally is Kim pregnant bc she looked 7 months pregnant in the pink Walmart nighty...
But Usman has pretty much called her old and ugly on national TV. He also said insinuated that he is doing her a favor and that she is lucky he is talking to her when he could have better. Kim has low self esteem and is trying to buy love. She isn't a bad person and deserves better than Usman can offer. I wish she felt that way. She knows what she has with him. She is just in denial and doesn't want to face the reality and more heartbreak. She has rose colored glasses on.
You are so right. As Usman told Kim a thousand times she is just his fan and now a friend that he did nothing to prepare for her arrival..nothing as he thought of her as his fan.
@@mozartbabe I so agree Usman is not attractive or talented but very full of himself and is useing Kim for a green card He can’t stand being around her but She desperately and stupidly hangs on Why can’t she find a man her age in her own country Is she so mentally unbalanced that she can’t see how humiliating she is to her son and herself. She just can’t sink any lower
@@teresalattimore2181 She is in for a very rude awakening if she thinks she is going to be equal to his first wife. He's physically attracted to her. They share the same language, culture and religion for starters. Secondly, she will bare his babies, cook his native dishes, and quietly assume her role as his wife as he wife. Unlike Kim who demands too much attention. She is going to be constantly fighting for his attention.
I am Nigerian as well....I know disrespect when I see one...this is super super disrespectful and weird to watch...he's lashing out those foul words and attitude right in your face and in front of the world as well...cmon
A testament that Melicia *did* ask the hard questions, just with grace and tact and well, professionalism. ✨✨💕💕 Kim, a good man who sincerely loves you would MOVE MOUNTAINS to be with you, makes you the priority in all that he does, with BOTH his WORDS and ACTIONS, no questions asked. You deserve so much more, Kim, please believe that! 💗
@@diouranke lol yeah she did, remember Mohammed wouldn't kiss her to seal the deal (he blamed Ramadan), then after he got here, he took off to live his best life w other younger hotter women to which Danielle replied "you used me! You're a user Mohammed and I'm going to have your as$ deported!"
Host: How do u know you’re not being scammed ?? Kim: Because I KNOW him, no one knows how close we are. Girlfriend you live in separate countries. He could have a wife now and you’d NEVER KNOW. Everything this women says is right out of the codependency playbook. Therapy and a 12 step group for starters and maybe she’s ready for a relationship. Maybe ...
Omg her mom passed😭😭😭😭. She seemed like such a nice woman who also advised Kim the best she could! Hopefully Kim should remember her mom's words & do better regarding what she allows from a man & what she deserves
Going to the gym and eating better is self respect. Walking into something where everyone knows you’re going to be unhappy is not. 9 out of 10 people can see this. Jamaal is one.
Age and experiences doesn’t always bring wisdom. Usman speaks his TRUE feelings when he feels disrespected about her looks, age and inability to stand up for her values. Once he cools down, “she” coax him into telling her what she needs to hear to justify staying in the relationship. Just like I anticipate Michael doing, once Usman gets his green card, he’ll have multiple women and/or leave Kimberly. I don’t blame Usman or Michael, these women have been forewarned over and over.
Jamal, have a man2man conversation with Usman and let him know that itz time for to leave your mother alone!! By the time he is done using her, she will be FINANCIALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND PHYSICALLY broken!!....and he will be A GREEN CARD HOLDER LIVING HIS BEST DAMN YOUNG LIFE!!! Kim, u seem to have a beautiful, kind, selfless spirit!! Please share your life with someone who can appreciate ALL OF YOU!!!
She embarrasses herself within the first ten seconds. “Usman gives me so much self worth.” Why is she putting her self worth in the hands of someone else? You can tell she’s lead a very sad life, perpetually stuck in her teenage years, and has yet to mature. Her sad life is permanently etched into her face, that’s why she has that sad droopy look all the time. I feel bad for Jamal, he deserves a better mom.
Kim can not be helped at this point. If the whole internet thinks you are delusional, as hurtful as it is, she honestly feels we all just don't get it? Ah shame Kim.
And let’s not forget it’s so cringe. How desperate she is, even still after he chose someone else younger.. She needs to learn to respect herself and stop chasing a man who she keeps allowing to disrespect her.
I'm so sick and tired of the excuses and the multiple lies that comes out of their mouths. Nothing is going to change her desperation. You can't script stupidity when it comes to Jenny and Kim. Both of them are putting on a act to keep their so called fake storyline going until there's no more storyline to tell.
@@litrealred6840 yeah they're also selfish. Because they marry younger men that are in different stages of life where they want to have kids. They know they can no longer be pregnant but they don't want to give way.
I disagree.... one of the things that stood out in a negative way besides whatever this thing she has with Usman (who probably has more relationships like this because it's his culture), she was very quick to defend Mike's actions on the 90 Day Tell All. Mike didn't want the world to know how he met Ximena. Then when Ximena realized she didn't love him, Mike said he was going to take everything away that he bought her. and tried to say that he was the best thing that happened to her... I"m proud of Ximena for responding 'take it all" and "my children are the best thing there can be" And then Mike continued to say that 'I paid for this apartment so I'm not leaving' .......And Kim defended him....To me, it pretty much set the tone of her attitude in the current 90 Day season. Kim is going to continue with this no matter how much Usman makes a fool out of her. She lets people run her over, she praises and cheers men on who treat women like shit and threaten to take everything away... I think Usman will bend her to his will and she will become a second wife.... because as the show goes on, at the end of EVERY episode she says that she doesn't know if they can go on.... then they do.... then the next episode, she says the same thing. I hope she enjoyed making her own bed.
That's true! She probably has a problem with women in general. She chastised the other person who cheated on her boyfriend, but didn't say anything about the men and their actions. I never thought pick me women was a real thing until Kim came on this show
She will settle because she is desperate. Their marriage won't be legal if she marries him second. The USA doesn't recognize plural marriage legally so that would put a damper on him getting a visa through marriage. He would just use her to financially support him, his wife and kids. He may throw her a bone ( pun intended) once in awhile to get her to do things.
ON POINT!!!! She said in the interview, I now believe the second wife will be equally as important. If Usman ever gets a green card, the relationship is over….unless she’s supporting him financially. I only blame her. It’s a business transaction for him.
If she truly had an ounce of self respect she would of stopped chasing him a long time ago!!! She has made a fool of herself and she looks ridiculous.🤡🤡🤡
I hope that she has talked to an Immigration Attorney. He cannot come to the US if he is already married, and even if he marries her first, he could put his green card in jeopardy if he marries someone else. I feel bad for her. This relationship is very problematic .
People being mean on social media is to be expected by this point. I'm not sure what that has to do with Usman and how he treats her. Moving the goal post hard to try to justify this relationship lol... She keeps unlocking new levels of Delusion it's actually starting to get impressive.
She was worse. Extremely insecure and verbally abusive. I’m not sure why they actually broke up but she definitely doesn’t know her self worth if she was chasing a young Nigerian man and believed he loved her for her 😂
Is it just me or does Kim go in circles trying to repeatedly explain her relationship or should I say defend her relationship over and over and over?? It's exhausting. She is hallucinating that she will get more "love" being wife #1. That sucker has been playing her from day 1.
@@sunburn1013 👁 👁 👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now🤔
Wow...that's so sad- but very true! She has her heels dug in and she is not going anywhere. It does not matter what he says. I would think the one person who should be able to get through to her would be her son, and that hasn't happened as yet🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
👁 👁 👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn and she does too👀but the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now🤔
Melicia girl she don't get it. Sis really out here living in a fantacy land. Kim really thought she said something..... DELUSIONAL😑 She honestly dosen't know HOW to look for or be with someone who just wants to love her for who she is and spoil her like a man should. Instead of her spoiling a man to receive LOVE and VALIDATION.
Let’s break this down for a second. Out of all the women online, why would Usman choose her to begin with? She should really dig deep and ask herself that. Older women are easy to target because loneliness plays a big factor. Usman shows his true colors when he insinuates that she’s not attractive and of course he’s going to tell her something different in the bedroom, it’s all manipulation. People like this don’t realize what’s going on until they are left heartbroken and it’s sad that it even has to get to that point when they are blatantly being shown their partner’s true colors.
Shout out to Jamal! Nothing like being the child that raises the parent, it hit home when she said “he’s like my dad” yeah I got those vibes as an adult child who raised my mom
If delusion was a person, I can't believe she was in the military. He is using her and the fact he is getting air time too means he will string her along for as long as it is worth it to him. I sometimes wish Kim would rip of the bad aid
She can't she has no self worth. Poor thing She is in this with her eyes wide open. She enjoys putting Nigerian women down. Usman will teacher her that Nigerian women are to be loved and cherished. No I am not from that part of the world
Melecia is so kind and respectful to Kim. That speaks volumes about her. 💕💕 Melecia! Kim, please, please forget Userman. Concentrate on yourself. You matter. 🌹
Kim's right. It's not normal and just because it's normal for him should not make it normal for her. She will never be happy with the way this life will be. It will be a nightmare for her. Once he has a child does she really think he will leave the mother of the child and fly off to America to be with Kim and his other wife's child? Sounds nuts. The other wife won't like this either. He lies to her all the time. I wish she would wake up. He's like a used car salesman.
"First Wife gets all the good stuff" maybe you should take a look at or speak with, Meri, Jenelle or Christine... It seems the 4th wife came out ahead. Usman is too full of himself to make ANYONE outside of himself number 1
Great interview, Dixie was absolutely right, girl your beautiful, find someone as beautiful as you. I feel you could find it right here in the U.S., always put yourself first honey.
If u really loved yourself or knew your self worth, you would not allow to put yourself in the situation u r in. This man only cares about what you give to him and his family.
The fact that she pretends she is ok with him having a second wife, them being equal and her being "ok with it now" just shows how much shit she is willing to put up with just to be with someone who doesn't care about her. It's really sad to see how she abandons herself in pursuit of this "relationship", assuming it's not all for views. It legitimately makes me sad.
This is the outcome of her upbringing/her parents/the way life treated her. She’s hard wired to take abuse. She believes this is love. She knows nothing else.
Gosh! Imagine sharing your husband with a young, beautiful woman, that not only can give him children and have a stronger relationship with him. That woman speaks his language and will be way closer to his family than Kim will ever be. His family will never accept her or treat her equally. How can she ignore all that?
Imagine this lady trying to turn it around on the fans ?! The fans would support her if she wasn’t delusional and being played on national TV while humiliating and embarrassing her son. Disgrace
@@thatomofolo452 right. I would love to be her friend truly because she seems like someone you can have a porch talk with and just sit back for a few hours and chop it up.
Kim, girl stop being in denial. You have great support from your son. Count whatever you've invested in Usman so far a lost. Move on. I'm sorry you didn't meet Michael instead.
She doesn’t feel that being the first wife gets the most love anymore because she’s agreed not to be the first wife. She will be the secondary wife just to marry this guy. He crosses all her boundaries.
Melicia said it right. Kim deserves have someone that is into her and her only and thinks she is amazing, beautiful etc. I feel Kim is comprising a lot for the love of Usman when she will have to share it with other wives. I hope she has taken a couple steps back and truly thinks about if this whole situation is something she really wants. This is the time to be true to self and stand in your truth, period.
I think that other cultures are not taken seriously. Polygamy is real and its in the USA too.Women are meeting these men and traveling far thinking that everyone is going to adapt to a western way of life, The boldness of American women is not appreciated and accepted everywhere. Kim is not going to MAKE Usman do anything that he does not want to do. He may have feelings of love for her yet it will never erase his practice in his own culture. Just like Jenny in India, Married and still trying to get a grip.And KIM, do not bring Usman to the USA girlfriend. TROUBLE girl. You think u have it now, wait and see what happens.
@@valeriecrawley9555 very well said. I don't know if these women go and understand the culture first before getting deeply involved. I know anyone I am involved in that is of a different culture as I am, I always research and learn and evaluate if it is something I can be a part of.
Self worth comes from within! That’s why it’s called “self” worth! If she didn’t have it before him she won’t have it without him. It behooves me that when an American is dating or engaged to a foreigner that the American expects them to drop their culture and traditions. I’m in an inter-cultural relationship and it’s a beautiful thing.❤
But she IS delusional and she constantly moves her „guns“ as she likes to say, like nah she doesnt stick to herself at all Usman knows that the longer he talks about it, the more she will accept the second wife topic, so the more they talk about it and the more Usman proceeds with his second wife plans, the more she will accept it. It’s like he can do whatever he wants, as long as he makes it slowly For example meeting the potential second wife, Kim would’ve never accepted that in the first few episodes…NEVER, now look at her, excusing him for his behaviour and finding excuses for herself
Also I’m not saying you can never change your opinions, but it’s clear that she was hurt when he went to that potential wife, she was not ok with it at all
Kim is a great example of how women break their own hearts, pursuing nonsense that doesn't serve them🤦🏽♂️.
Oh, just "women" do this? 🙄🙄
She’s spent her entire life doing it. Her sad life is permanently etched into her face. She never grew up, sad.
Well said
Ouch. True 😂
She's no example for any woman
Kim is the definition of “love is blind”
Agree! 💯
😂
Too bad it’s not love ! It’s LUST
Yep she's on the wrong show lol
@@julief2830 Agree! How could she do that on national TV! 🤗😀
Kudos to the host for calling Kim out on her delusion and basically telling her that she is wrong and being played
This is why Melicia should host the tell alls!
Poor Kim, she doesn’t even know what self-worth means. She’s saying she’s receiving it from Usman 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Indeed. Its SO telling. NO ONE can give you self-worth.
Yeah. When she said he's given her a lot of self worth it shows she doesn't realize it's an inside job.
:"^ what??! Oh no
I feel like the cameras purposefully capture the worst of it, so maybe off cam he’s a very good partner.
But there is no context that can explain some of what he’s said to her.
It's called perspective. It's hard to see yourself thru the eyes of others, especially publicly
"Usman has given me my self-worth." In the next breath, "I don't need him to give me my self-worth." Kimberly is a talking/walking contradiction and the double-talk obviously shows she's conflicted. She KNOWS that Userman Usman isn't in this for the right reasons, but chooses not to acknowledge it.
She talks a lot of blaa blaa. She is dumb and shallow so what she says doesn't need to be taken too seriously. She just says things that she thinks sound good. And we know about her choices.
I keep hoping her son will talk some sense into her thick head. He’s not happy with his mother right now
Cognitive dissonance; in addition, She’s blaming the people that are reacting to the toxic situation rather than the toxic situation
she has stated, "I go by my heart, I do what my heart says." that is obvious from her actions, she is not using her head. she ignores anything negative ab her "relationship" and is almost delusional at this point.
@@roxanne2881 he's also too soft to actually say something
Mel is so great. She asks good questions and is compassionate
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More compassionate than I could be.
I like her questions more than those of the lady of the tell all.
Her son has more sense than she does!
She is an embarrassment to her son and herself She should have gotten her first clue when she had to beg that young conceited iodiot for sex He is only useing her and she is an old ugly ho He only wants that green card
@@dede.terrebonneterrebonne9914 I totally agree 👍🏾
Probably because he had to raise himself
💯 agree
Most definitely
That's really sad, but when you allow a man to treat you like trash on television, you're telling the world this is the level of respect you're willing to accept.
Yes! You teach people how to treat you.
Omg she is not dillusional. She is a pathetic old hag. Check out her past relationship. She needs to be in a straight jacket. He only wants his green card. What else would he want her for. Lmao
@@cremebrulee4759
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I think the fact she spent 2k in gifts and he didn't get her a single rose pedal speaks volumes. Also, her taking gifts back bc he's not attracted to her and doesn't want sex from her. Look at the way he looked at Zara and the new woman bc they're very pretty... then in rolls Kim bc she's not attractive at all and you can tell he's not attracted to her at all. Finally is Kim pregnant bc she looked 7 months pregnant in the pink Walmart nighty...
Exactly.
He wants a green card.
She is insecure and not all the light are on.
Don't blame him.
But Usman has pretty much called her old and ugly on national TV. He also said insinuated that he is doing her a favor and that she is lucky he is talking to her when he could have better. Kim has low self esteem and is trying to buy love. She isn't a bad person and deserves better than Usman can offer. I wish she felt that way. She knows what she has with him. She is just in denial and doesn't want to face the reality and more heartbreak. She has rose colored glasses on.
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You are so right. As Usman told Kim a thousand times she is just his fan and now a friend that he did nothing to prepare for her arrival..nothing as he thought of her as his fan.
She never matured past the age of 14, sad!
Lmao he told her he is doing her a favore and she still don't get it.
Kim doesn’t want to understand that Usman is using her and doesn’t love her. This situation will not end well.
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Pretty hypocritical to tell her son to do what she clearly will not!
@@SecretWars98 EXACTLYYYYY I STRUGGLED LISTENING TO THAT BS FROM HER
She is infatuated with his supposed fame and youth. That isn't love.
It's crazy that she doesn't see he's not attracted to her and is using her... if the Penguin and Herman munster had a love child Kim would be it!!!
sorry Kim, he is old enough to be your son, in 20 years what you will give him? This is not realistic.
Cringe af
Also what can he give her? He's a two-bit punk of the worst kind - knowingly using her.
@@mozartbabe I so agree Usman is not attractive or talented but very full of himself and is useing Kim for a green card He can’t stand being around her but She desperately and stupidly hangs on Why can’t she find a man her age in her own country Is she so mentally unbalanced that she can’t see how humiliating she is to her son and herself. She just can’t sink any lower
@@mozartbabe his yammy.
It’s got to be so draining for her to keep this craziness in her head! SMH 🤦♀️
Lmao… draining me just watching 😔
@@queent4846 I know but we find ourselves doing that 🤣🤷♀️
Why are these ppl trying the telegram scam? We know it’s not the channel yet they keep trying
@@keyanddracaryskillua6187 idk but I have reported every one I see but it keeps coming back
@@heatherreyes6461 yes I love the show but if her son can’t get it through to her then maybe no one can! And I’ve reported the scams as well
I admire the interviewers discretion with Kim she's been super kind. Kim will never listen to logic.
I hope TLC is paying Kim well for the drama she is bringing to the show
This woman is trying to fool herself. She is sad 😔.
@@teresalattimore2181 She is in for a very rude awakening if she thinks she is going to be equal to his first wife. He's physically attracted to her. They share the same language, culture and religion for starters. Secondly, she will bare his babies, cook his native dishes, and quietly assume her role as his wife as he wife. Unlike Kim who demands too much attention. She is going to be constantly fighting for his attention.
No they don’t,$1000/episode
TLC loves drama. Check out Angela
Not enough IMO lol
I am Nigerian as well....I know disrespect when I see one...this is super super disrespectful and weird to watch...he's lashing out those foul words and attitude right in your face and in front of the world as well...cmon
Is Usman really a superstar in Nigeria? It doesn’t appear so.
@@susanblack8317 loool no one knows him
@@susanblack8317 My man is Nigerian. He’s never heard of him 😂
This was a really honest but kind interview. I think you gave her a lot to think about.
She won't she is dilussional
She won't give anything another thought. She's desperate and it shows.
She talks a lot but she says absolutely nothing.
I hate when she says “ you know what I mean “ ….no Kim we don’t 😞
She IS out of her mind about this attraction she thinks he had for her.
Exactly
He called her ugly to her face. Lol
A testament that Melicia *did* ask the hard questions, just with grace and tact and well, professionalism. ✨✨💕💕
Kim, a good man who sincerely loves you would MOVE MOUNTAINS to be with you, makes you the priority in all that he does, with BOTH his WORDS and ACTIONS, no questions asked. You deserve so much more, Kim, please believe that! 💗
She's going to be like Angela/Danielle, going through all this mess, only to get married, and then to say later "he used me!!"
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I don't think Danielle ever got married
@@diouranke lol yeah she did, remember Mohammed wouldn't kiss her to seal the deal (he blamed Ramadan), then after he got here, he took off to live his best life w other younger hotter women to which Danielle replied "you used me! You're a user Mohammed and I'm going to have your as$ deported!"
Yip i agree.
You are asking for it kim! It’s just so shocking how blind she is and it’s a complete train wreck!
She is a creep.
Host: How do u know you’re not being scammed ?? Kim: Because I KNOW him, no one knows how close we are. Girlfriend you live in separate countries. He could have a wife now and you’d NEVER KNOW. Everything this women says is right out of the codependency playbook. Therapy and a 12 step group for starters and maybe she’s ready for a relationship. Maybe ...
This is called "refusing to grow up".
Omg her mom passed😭😭😭😭. She seemed like such a nice woman who also advised Kim the best she could! Hopefully Kim should remember her mom's words & do better regarding what she allows from a man & what she deserves
Usman can't give Kim her self worth, but he can surely destroy any self worth she has.
Going to the gym and eating better is self respect. Walking into something where everyone knows you’re going to be unhappy is not. 9 out of 10 people can see this. Jamaal is one.
Kim is offended by the opinions of strangers verses usmans continuous bad behaviour towards her. It's insane.
Interview was conducted so well.
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Age and experiences doesn’t always bring wisdom. Usman speaks his TRUE feelings when he feels disrespected about her looks, age and inability to stand up for her values. Once he cools down, “she” coax him into telling her what she needs to hear to justify staying in the relationship.
Just like I anticipate Michael doing, once Usman gets his green card, he’ll have multiple women and/or leave Kimberly.
I don’t blame Usman or Michael, these women have been forewarned over and over.
Exactly. But they feel that they are better they feel entitled.
I’m so glad she kept it real with Kim ❤
Poor Jamal man ! He’s got to be the adult cause his mom is an imature never learning woman ! But dang Jamal is sooooo fine !!!
Jamal, have a man2man conversation with Usman and let him know that itz time for to leave your mother alone!! By the time he is done using her, she will be FINANCIALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND PHYSICALLY broken!!....and he will be A GREEN CARD HOLDER LIVING HIS BEST DAMN YOUNG LIFE!!! Kim, u seem to have a beautiful, kind, selfless spirit!! Please share your life with someone who can appreciate ALL OF YOU!!!
That might work in Kim's favor 😆 maybe it'll make him want her (reverse psychology)
She embarrasses herself within the first ten seconds. “Usman gives me so much self worth.” Why is she putting her self worth in the hands of someone else? You can tell she’s lead a very sad life, perpetually stuck in her teenage years, and has yet to mature. Her sad life is permanently etched into her face, that’s why she has that sad droopy look all the time. I feel bad for Jamal, he deserves a better mom.
Have anyone notice, he trys hard not to kiss her...
Kim can not be helped at this point. If the whole internet thinks you are delusional, as hurtful as it is, she honestly feels we all just don't get it? Ah shame Kim.
I agree with Melicia. Self-worth is not anything given to anyone BUT to oneself!
Give it up Kim it's so ridiculous I'm not interested in your relationship with Usman . It's embarrassing !
And let’s not forget it’s so cringe. How desperate she is, even still after he chose someone else younger.. She needs to learn to respect herself and stop chasing a man who she keeps allowing to disrespect her.
Allegedly this not her first time being with young man! 🙄
@@litrealred6840 creepy
@@marknewton6984 Yes! After I heard got a creepy feeling! 💯
@@litrealred6840 You are right! Let it go.
Self Worth does not come from outside. It comes from within. You cannot get it from others. What if they leave????
True genuine self-worth isn’t something you talk about to convince others you have!
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As they say, action speaks louder than words.
I'm so sick and tired of the excuses and the multiple lies that comes out of their mouths. Nothing is going to change her desperation. You can't script stupidity when it comes to Jenny and Kim. Both of them are putting on a act to keep their so called fake storyline going until there's no more storyline to tell.
Well said! 💯
Jenny looks more delusional. Kim feels like she's in denial
@@ryokohonda4619 amen to that! I don’t know why these women do this to their self! 🙄
@@litrealred6840 yeah they're also selfish. Because they marry younger men that are in different stages of life where they want to have kids. They know they can no longer be pregnant but they don't want to give way.
@@ryokohonda4619 Hi! True! I got a son I couldn’t do that! 🤗💯
I disagree.... one of the things that stood out in a negative way besides whatever this thing she has with Usman (who probably has more relationships like this because it's his culture), she was very quick to defend Mike's actions on the 90 Day Tell All. Mike didn't want the world to know how he met Ximena. Then when Ximena realized she didn't love him, Mike said he was going to take everything away that he bought her. and tried to say that he was the best thing that happened to her... I"m proud of Ximena for responding 'take it all" and "my children are the best thing there can be" And then Mike continued to say that 'I paid for this apartment so I'm not leaving' .......And Kim defended him....To me, it pretty much set the tone of her attitude in the current 90 Day season. Kim is going to continue with this no matter how much Usman makes a fool out of her. She lets people run her over, she praises and cheers men on who treat women like shit and threaten to take everything away... I think Usman will bend her to his will and she will become a second wife.... because as the show goes on, at the end of EVERY episode she says that she doesn't know if they can go on.... then they do.... then the next episode, she says the same thing. I hope she enjoyed making her own bed.
We all know, deep inside (pun intended), why she wants him.
That's true! She probably has a problem with women in general. She chastised the other person who cheated on her boyfriend, but didn't say anything about the men and their actions. I never thought pick me women was a real thing until Kim came on this show
She will settle because she is desperate. Their marriage won't be legal if she marries him second. The USA doesn't recognize plural marriage legally so that would put a damper on him getting a visa through marriage. He would just use her to financially support him, his wife and kids. He may throw her a bone ( pun intended) once in awhile to get her to do things.
ON POINT!!!! She said in the interview, I now believe the second wife will be equally as important. If Usman ever gets a green card, the relationship is over….unless she’s supporting him financially. I only blame her. It’s a business transaction for him.
@@CMichelleWhite He won't be able to get a marriage visa or greencard that way because their marriage wouldn't b legal
If she truly had an ounce of self respect she would of stopped chasing him a long time ago!!! She has made a fool of herself and she looks ridiculous.🤡🤡🤡
I hope that she has talked to an Immigration Attorney. He cannot come to the US if he is already married, and even if he marries her first, he could put his green card in jeopardy if he marries someone else. I feel bad for her. This relationship is very problematic .
Usman and people like him should not be allowed to emigrate to the U.S.
Of course he changes what he says when the cameras aren't rolling Kim...dang, I wish she could step outside of herself and see what we see...😔🤦🏾♀️
People being mean on social media is to be expected by this point. I'm not sure what that has to do with Usman and how he treats her. Moving the goal post hard to try to justify this relationship lol... She keeps unlocking new levels of Delusion it's actually starting to get impressive.
Anything to deflect from the truth.
People are so damn mean now. We need more compassion for each other.
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👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now 🤔
Lisa baby knew her self worth - she didn’t take any BS from Usman. Kim should call her and take some tips.
She was worse. Extremely insecure and verbally abusive. I’m not sure why they actually broke up but she definitely doesn’t know her self worth if she was chasing a young Nigerian man and believed he loved her for her 😂
Is it just me or does Kim go in circles trying to repeatedly explain her relationship or should I say defend her relationship over and over and over?? It's exhausting. She is hallucinating that she will get more "love" being wife #1. That sucker has been playing her from day 1.
It's not just you. She makes me dizzy going in circles the way she does.
She is not ugly and desperate- she BEHAVES ugly and desperate. There's a difference.
I think that is very well- observed. I wish Kim well
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👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now🤔
No amount of bad comments are going to get inside this womans head. That's why in her past relationships she came in second.
She's just dim.
Wow...that's so sad- but very true! She has her heels dug in and she is not going anywhere. It does not matter what he says. I would think the one person who should be able to get through to her would be her son, and that hasn't happened as yet🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
The absolute definition of 'Delusional'... The deluded, in this case Kimberly, are totally unaware of their condition. Poor old thing.
TLC needs to hire Melicia for the Reunions!
She prob don't want to lol
Kim keeps blocking the people who tells her the truth but one day she’ll be sorry she did. The truth hurts sometimes! Her eyes are totally blinded.
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👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn and she does too👀but the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now🤔
Melicia girl she don't get it. Sis really out here living in a fantacy land. Kim really thought she said something..... DELUSIONAL😑
She honestly dosen't know HOW to look for or be with someone who just wants to love her for who she is and spoil her like a man should. Instead of her spoiling a man to receive LOVE and VALIDATION.
Melcia you are a absolutely star ,and we love you great interview ❤
she might have made a few strange moves, but she's one of the nicest people that have ever been on this show... she doesn't deserve the hate
Nice with a tinge of racism and manipulation?
You've seen how she treated him by throwing drinks at him?
naw
@@ryokohonda4619 exactly! Not once, but twice
Kim is not nice , if things don't go her way she throws drinks and spaz out
Let’s break this down for a second. Out of all the women online, why would Usman choose her to begin with? She should really dig deep and ask herself that. Older women are easy to target because loneliness plays a big factor. Usman shows his true colors when he insinuates that she’s not attractive and of course he’s going to tell her something different in the bedroom, it’s all manipulation. People like this don’t realize what’s going on until they are left heartbroken and it’s sad that it even has to get to that point when they are blatantly being shown their partner’s true colors.
Baby girl Lisa is a smart woman
Shout out to Jamal! Nothing like being the child that raises the parent, it hit home when she said “he’s like my dad” yeah I got those vibes as an adult child who raised my mom
He is using her. Get someone her own age
"kimbaaly" is the definition of a female simp.
I'm just as embarrassed as Jamal (Kim's son).
She never grew out her teenage mindset godamnnn ! Lady
The lady doing the interview is really good and likeable. Her style of interviewing is actually quite different than others I have seen
She should host the 90 Day Tell All.
If delusion was a person, I can't believe she was in the military. He is using her and the fact he is getting air time too means he will string her along for as long as it is worth it to him. I sometimes wish Kim would rip of the bad aid
She can't she has no self worth. Poor thing
She is in this with her eyes wide open. She enjoys putting Nigerian women down. Usman will teacher her that Nigerian women are to be loved and cherished. No I am not from that part of the world
All we can do is pray for her.
When Usman has children withhis first wife there will be a Bond So Strong nothing will come between them 😢
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Melecia is so kind and respectful to Kim. That speaks volumes about her. 💕💕 Melecia! Kim, please, please forget Userman. Concentrate on yourself. You matter. 🌹
Kim's right. It's not normal and just because it's normal for him should not make it normal for her. She will never be happy with the way this life will be. It will be a nightmare for her. Once he has a child does she really think he will leave the mother of the child and fly off to America to be with Kim and his other wife's child? Sounds nuts. The other wife won't like this either. He lies to her all the time. I wish she would wake up. He's like a used car salesman.
Girl, these people that are calling you delusional aren’t haters, they’re trying to warn you.
No medication for stupidity.
"First Wife gets all the good stuff" maybe you should take a look at or speak with, Meri, Jenelle or Christine... It seems the 4th wife came out ahead. Usman is too full of himself to make ANYONE outside of himself number 1
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Great interview, Dixie was absolutely right, girl your beautiful, find someone as beautiful as you. I feel you could find it right here in the U.S., always put yourself first honey.
If u really loved yourself or knew your self worth, you would not allow to put yourself in the situation u r in. This man only cares about what you give to him and his family.
The fact that she pretends she is ok with him having a second wife, them being equal and her being "ok with it now" just shows how much shit she is willing to put up with just to be with someone who doesn't care about her. It's really sad to see how she abandons herself in pursuit of this "relationship", assuming it's not all for views. It legitimately makes me sad.
This is the outcome of her upbringing/her parents/the way life treated her. She’s hard wired to take abuse. She believes this is love. She knows nothing else.
Gosh! Imagine sharing your husband with a young, beautiful woman, that not only can give him children and have a stronger relationship with him. That woman speaks his language and will be way closer to his family than Kim will ever be. His family will never accept her or treat her equally. How can she ignore all that?
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To many germ swapping 🗣
Can you just stop this defense mechanism Kimberly....its as lame af...damn!!!
Poor Kim. She is avoiding the situation of how much of a bad sitiation she's putting herself in. Usman is using you! He's manipulative.
Imagine this lady trying to turn it around on the fans ?! The fans would support her if she wasn’t delusional and being played on national TV while humiliating and embarrassing her son. Disgrace
The stupid things people do in the name of love. I feel bad for Kim's son who has to deal with this kind of mother.
Dying your hair isn’t your problem, it’s inside of you that needs you to fix before you will be able be in a mature relationship in about 10 years👀🐝💜
Kim u need to realize the world ain’t wrong , u r ! Save yourself before u really lose it
Man I love the two of these chatting it up. I would definitely hang out with Kim she seems like a chill lady
Cool vibes 🕶️😎🆒
@@thatomofolo452 right. I would love to be her friend truly because she seems like someone you can have a porch talk with and just sit back for a few hours and chop it up.
@@Liv-ff9vy same here 🙋🙋 she looks easy to deal with 🕶️😎🆒😊
As a mother of a 25 year old son. She embarrassing and selfish. She knows a 33 year old man in the states wouldn’t be interested.
She defended MIKE of all people. What kind of person defends MIKE?????
Kim is delusional, the man had a happier reaction to the ps5 than he ever had for her
Kim, girl stop being in denial. You have great support from your son. Count whatever you've invested in Usman so far a lost. Move on. I'm sorry you didn't meet Michael instead.
'Delusional' is not a strong enough word! 🙄
She doesn’t feel that being the first wife gets the most love anymore because she’s agreed not to be the first wife. She will be the secondary wife just to marry this guy. He crosses all her boundaries.
She will be first wife he need that green card
@@ladydeeelmansy-john6006 very good point and bc polygamy is frowned upon over here she would have to be the first wife to get the green card. Right?
"Usman has given me a lot of self worth" no Kim that's not how it works. It comes from SELF.
i’m not sorry for her anymore. it’s just funny how she let this all through😂
I love Melicia's interview style. Honest but not attacking. It lets guests really open up.
Melicia said it right. Kim deserves have someone that is into her and her only and thinks she is amazing, beautiful etc. I feel Kim is comprising a lot for the love of Usman when she will have to share it with other wives. I hope she has taken a couple steps back and truly thinks about if this whole situation is something she really wants. This is the time to be true to self and stand in your truth, period.
I think that other cultures are not taken seriously. Polygamy is real and its in the USA too.Women are meeting these men and traveling far thinking that everyone is going to adapt to a western way of life, The boldness of American women is not appreciated and accepted everywhere. Kim is not going to MAKE Usman do anything that he does not want to do. He may have feelings of love for her yet it will never erase his practice in his own culture. Just like Jenny in India, Married and still trying to get a grip.And KIM, do not bring Usman to the USA girlfriend. TROUBLE girl. You think u have it now, wait and see what happens.
@@valeriecrawley9555 very well said. I don't know if these women go and understand the culture first before getting deeply involved. I know anyone I am involved in that is of a different culture as I am, I always research and learn and evaluate if it is something I can be a part of.
This doesn't change my mind about Kim though. 🤣
She is so chaotic
Self worth comes from within! That’s why it’s called “self” worth! If she didn’t have it before him she won’t have it without him. It behooves me that when an American is dating or engaged to a foreigner that the American expects them to drop their culture and traditions. I’m in an inter-cultural relationship and it’s a beautiful thing.❤
Kim, you are worth so much more than this. It’s so frustrating to watch you do this to yourself. Come ON girl.
Kim, stop saying “ nowatamean” Please Kim!
Lmfao I love this level of delusion from Kim. She deserves it for the way she talks about Nigerian women ♥️
Omg I can't wait until he gives her the boot.
Kim continues to be completely delusional about this relationship.
But she IS delusional and she constantly moves her „guns“ as she likes to say, like nah she doesnt stick to herself at all
Usman knows that the longer he talks about it, the more she will accept the second wife topic, so the more they talk about it and the more Usman proceeds with his second wife plans, the more she will accept it. It’s like he can do whatever he wants, as long as he makes it slowly
For example meeting the potential second wife, Kim would’ve never accepted that in the first few episodes…NEVER, now look at her, excusing him for his behaviour and finding excuses for herself
Also I’m not saying you can never change your opinions, but it’s clear that she was hurt when he went to that potential wife, she was not ok with it at all
Nobody else should give you self worth
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Kim reminds us that love sometimes is not only blind, but stupid too.
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👄 She's in her 50's he's in his 30's she's a fool he has a lot to learn the difference is what he has to learn she should know by now 🤔
She knows the truth but makes excuses for ever point that is brought up.