She really did make herself look bad, BUT I really feel embarrassed for her son. He was probably THE most embarrassed that he's ever been in his life, poor son.
Okay but also maybe he is mature enough to know that he is an adult, his mom is an adult, and we (adults) can't judge one person on the actions of another. So he doesn't need to be embarrassed for the actions of someone else.
@@dorcasmalorcas I'm sure that most adult children would be embarrassed if that was their Mom acting like that. I would. Now, just because you would be okay with your Mom acting like THE most desperate, sex-deprived woman on national television, that's cool... but that also means that you'd likely act just as desperate as Kimberly on TV or in private, just saying.
Kimberly is not being honest with us and herself. She claims she likes giving people gifts because she is just a good person. But when she gets mad she takes them back. She thought she will buy Usman's affection and he will have sèx with her. When he didn't, she got mad and showed her true colours
Kymbaaaali !!!! no u cannot be a snatchbacker ! 😅😆. I guess that is her defense gift someone they mistreat her they break up and she takes back so she can hurt them back..
Can Melicia do the tell all? I feel like she's asking the questions the viewers really want to know. Shaun does everything 90DF and we OG viewers want new energy.
Kim is full of it. If a man acted the way she did, there would be people boycotting TLC right now. Her behavior was absolutely disgusting. She nagged, manipulated, and threaten him. Yeah, miss me with all that. 🙄😒😒
@@everybodysux4997 yup aint nobody talking about Mike 🙄 typical double standards, the masses only get mad if women do sh*t. I'm guessing most ppl think she owes him because she's basically a "gold digger", but nobody would EVER say anything bout a dude being a golddigger 😂 Although others have speculated he might have coerced her to stop whatever she was doing for money cuz he'd pay for her if she got with him, but that's a whole other story...
Girl have u seen the whole show? 😆 most guys on this show do the same shit!! Some are very creepy yea she’s weird asf for this too but guys on here do the same shit they all are weird !! lol tbh
as a r*** victim i think she understands now cause she said S A victims have come to tell her their stories. i think we should forgive her, she did not assault anyone, everyone makes mistakes. yes it's a problem that women can behave towards men like men cant towards women. i realised that i could have made many men wery uncomfartable with my actions, it they would have not been into it too. nowadays i always ask before doing anything, and respect personal space. and men are still going on with their lifes, appearing on tv etc after charges of assault etc. it's fucked up. and not consenting is almost imbossible to prove, dna proves only that it happened, not that you did not consent. obly text messages, underage etc prove it..
@@rachelle9713 Sojaboy is mere local talent! The actual Nigerian celebrities are P. Square and Flavour N'abania! Sojaboy is a wannabe!. And Kim is a delusional, selfish, lustful, desperate person. That's why she took back the gifts from him! Who is she kidding?
I wish Melicia would do the tell all for Darcey and Stacey. She would really grill them and ask the most important questions like, “Stacey why are you so caught up with what Georgie does when you forgave Florian who cheated on you??” Lol That would be worth watching!
I noticed that Kimberly has a young soul but in a old body. Her eyes speaks immaturity and anxiousness. Just like a teenager still trying to explore herself and the world around
The use of "like", etc... very insightful. I was thinking the same thing. Possible signs of abandonment issues, childhood/teenage trauma. I only say this because I have first hand experience.
@@joywebster2678 From a man based in Lagos on Reddit "Nope. Only his momma and his mates in Nigeria are aware of him." He's a bad singer too. Biniyam from Ethiopia is much better.
No Kim, just no. Any one who likes to give does not care about taking the gifts back after an argument or when they part ways. You did bribe him and begged for sex. You really need to take a hard long look at yourself.
Imagine someone filming you..... And it all goes out to the WORLD. I would say .... I'm glad she is owning up to her " mistakes " . That's what being human is. I honestly can't imagine filming me lol I bet I would make A LOT of mistakes
Of course as would I but acting the predator is not in my natural persona as obviously is in Kim's. But Kim you did try to buy Usman's love as once you had a fight the first thing you did was take back that gaudy necklace . How many apologies did you just make? Worst couple ever on 90 Day.
You would make a lot of “mistakes “. We all would. It’s quite alright. Laugh..Forgive yourself/ muse/ ourselves. Let’s just live before we can’t anymore. Please. She’s honest and that’s the opposite of a mistake..
She keeps saying "I am is a good person" when referring to her gift giving. Indulging people with gifts to win their affection does not make you a good person, it makes you a desperate person.
Not only did she look desperate. She looks disgusting, trying to buy bbc on national television with her trinkets. I hope this follows her for the rest of her life as an example to women on how NOT to act on TV, in private or in public with these younger men who care nothing for you. OBVIOUSLY he was using her for clout and click bait.
I believed her until ... I heard her say .... She doesn't need to bribe some one for sex ... But not only did u take back gifts.... U literally threw it in his face I bought u all this stuff and u won't sleep with me 🤣🤣 okay .. u can Gon ahead now Kim ..
I thought I was loosing my mind the way she was talking. Like girl did u not watch what we did. ?! Ur one way on the show and another way in the interview. She needs to stop lying to herself and admit she is clingy ASF and needs a man that can handle that kinda crazy because I felt so bad for her son and Usman. These last few episodes 🙄
@@lylablueabdul5503 She needs to stop acting like a frkn teenager groupie, and realize that guy is only using her to come out on the show, and he will continue to use older desperate women like Kim if they're not aware of it.
True. She's trying to fill some unknown void in her life. So she decides to go and bribe someone for it. You can tell she's loving all of it when she was talking about getting VERIFIED and her "TRIP" to Sea World. Saying that they had to leave because of the crowd chasing her seems like a load of BS. 💩
Once again, I would like to state that Sojaboy is NOT a celebrity in Nigeria. A handful of people watch the show and love him, but he isn't a household name. We do not appreciate foreigners telling us who our celebrities are. He's really good entertainment though.
River Stark: On the comparative scale: He is recognized. They are Not. Not here. Nowhere. They risk a lifetime of recognition now, but with ridicule. Consequence of this exposure. He is younger. He can reframe this. Shake it off. They don't have the same resilience. Youth. This entire endeavor seems like a Tragic Waste of time. Time Lost: COLLOSAL!!!!!
Exactly. I am Nigerian and I don’t know him beyond 90 day fiance. He is not a celebrity in Nigeria and he is not a household name. He is just using Kim to get a blue passport and she is trying to use him for sex . That simple
IF he is so well known and "celebrity" in other places why does he NOT have his own ps5 chains and Mac book???????? He should have been buying her gifts. She spun herself a self destructive web of embarrassing.
Kim reminds me of Mike trying to take back stuff he bought ximena once the “love” ran out. Both Mike AND Kim are trying to buy the other person’s love, only to have it backfire on them 🤣.
@you know who da. Kim pressuring Usman to sleep with her is a whole other story. In addition to trying to buy his love, she constantly put pressure on him to give her the yam (yammy). But I feel Mike sorta put pressure on ximena to sleep with him too because he would always ask her to be intimate with him.
@CAM10. I totally agree because it’s not like Mike can take those things he bought ximena back to New York with him and I think ximena knew that. So, it’s better to just burn that shit. 🤣.
She is ridiculous. She said she was dating, but then she said friends with benefits. Friends with benefits is not dating. It's having sex with a friend, and friends don't date. And, yes, she was the second choice because Zara broke up with Usman. That should have been the end of it for her. Where is her self-respect? Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot that she doesn't have any.
She's not being honest. She made a complete fool of herself, she mashed those gifts in his face, didn't she take the chain back and say he wasn't getting it back until he proved he loved her or whatever? That's being a good person? She's not the person she was in the beginning, she switched up in so many ways, her true colors came out and now she's trying to patch it up. She made a fool of herself and her son. She even threatened him with her son, who does that? She must of said she's a good person over 100 times... Kimbaaaly stop, we all see right through you.
There's 2 things that make me bolt faster than a run: when someone tells me s/he's "Chrstian" or "Good"! You don't have to SAY a word if you're either. It simply shows.
Honestly, I can't with her. She's toxic. I don't care for her: 🔸️Minimizing her mistakes 🔸️Resorting to violence by throwing water in his face 🔸️Bribing/ Buying his attention and love, then takes it back when she's not getting her way 🔸️Entitled to his past & past relationship 🔸️Pressuring for sex 🔸️Her strange acquired mannerisms It's going to take "something big" 😉 for her to prove she's not a $hitty person.
She is a shitty person. The image of a white woman throwing water into the face of a black man is very imperialistic. If the reverse happened, Usman's ass would be toast. Disgusting. She likes/wants the "yammy" but she thinks she's better than the man.
She didn't bribe him, just pressured him like a disgusting creeper, who doesn't understand the word NO. " I'm not gonna use alcohol as an excuse " then proceeds to do so. Kim is gross 😝😐😒 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮💀💀💀💀
@@aryabolton2949 jog on loser . He should have said from the start he wasn't gonna be intimate , he's to much ...a player. Looks arnt everything's important wanted to mean more to, Solman he's a creep loves only his self he's a loser too
A giver doesn’t take gifts back…. she’s such a mess!!! ooh childddddd!!! you done did it now!!!! 😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I loved the part of “ if you don’t sleep with me my son is going to cuss you out” 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that’s like a kid saying to another if you don’t play with me, imma tell momma! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂💀💀💀
Shouldn't be *in relationships* If a woman is gonna be like this, be under the age of 25 and/or with no children. I see women like this with kids and way too old to be falling for the games these men play. Putting themselves and their children in danger or at risk of losing everything
I'm sorry but I find her delusional abusive and manipulative. How genuine and kind are you when you constantly have to tell us the whole interview how kind and genuine person you are.
When someone keeps saying I do this cause I'm such a good person multiple times thats a red flag bb I'm sorry but genuine nice ppl don't need to push how nice they are remember actions speak louder than words
Yes! Preach that! 👏👏👏 This reminds me of the girl named Alyssa on MAFS this season who got dumped by her husband, very early on this season. She kept saying that she was such a good person however, the way she treated her husband was absolutely appalling.
@@Blazian2000 exactly! Never ever trust someone who always "im such a good person" or "cause im so real" anything that's like that thats red flags and it's time to run the other way! Lol
Kimballlllayyy is still lying. She said the “I lost” was a joke, but your crying?? That’s not a joke! She seems very sweet, however, you embarrassed yourself on international television, just admit it and stop lying. This is the second time she lied in an ET interview. I love this interviewer! She asks the questions, but call her out on her lies!
Ok so everyone’s going to disagree…but to me she wasn’t just pressuring him for sex, she was using sex to pressure him to confirm his love and commitment to her. Because he showed no romantic feelings for her she wasn’t sure where she stood. Usman wouldn’t give her an answer, she hoped to get confirmation that he was at least attracted to her.
If she needs confirmation then he was never attracted. Come on, u can tell wen someone is interested n attracted. (Even wen you meet online.) The fact that he was not making any moves on her was indication of zero physical attraction.
Your so right.She was desperade for any kind of afection ,even nice words.And he didnt give anything to her.So she dith what she dith.Was it right,hell no.But even without TV ,somethings in my life i am no prout to..We all make mistakes.We all sometimes are desperade.For me he is more in the wrong.Because he never loved her.Sorry my english
not a fan of everyone saying ~if i was on camera id make mistakes too~ forgetting to check out a tiny item in self checkout at the grocery is a mistake. pressuring someone for sex is not a mistake. that's a deliberate action. usman isn't a lil cute faced angel either but kim knew what she was doing. i genuinely hope she's actually in a better headspace now though and finds a man she doesn't need to bribe for sex. 🤷♀️
TLC recruiters: "okay, we like your personality. You're awkward and entertaining AF.. people are gonna judge you and see you as a joke every single second, therefore you're gonna make GREAT TV .... and ratings." 😈 🤑🤩 Kim: "aweee, thank you soo much!!" 😊🥰🤩
Oh God here she goes everyone knows me. Really Kim you think your a star, it’s called they are grossed out. How stupid of him to not bring Zara and let Kim act like a old fool?
I have NEVER had to beg a man for D**k and I don’t think any woman every should. She begged him for D and bribed him with all the money and gifts and he STILL didn’t make her his girlfriend till the very end.
90 day has a way of picking the WORST women to showcase with African men. The desperation was so embarrassing! She was so worried about her son and what he thinks of Usmans behavior...meanwhiiiiiile......🥴😬 Smh embarrassing example
@@jannalam6861 correct. Same of all the applications 90day chooses the worst women out of the bunch. It mocks the whole process. They should just give Angela and this chick a trailer pa spin-off
Hearing her speak shows her immaturity. As a almost 50 year old woman, I couldn’t imagine acting in such a way. Especially on television for all to see.
Of all things to be famous for and get recognised for I think begging a man for sex like she did is probably the worst thing to be famous for. And the mentioning her son I feel awful for him how embarrassing my son won't like you if you don't have sex with me, was the vibe I got from that episode. The show really done her wrong showing that episode she was clearly drunk. So embarrassed for her 😅
why she lying she begged for sex! she pleaded for affection and she bought him multiple gifts who does that?? regardless if she say they were cheap. I feel thats the only reason he felt bad and sang to her in the end. Normal women dont act the way she did. and it was brutal and so cringe to watch. even if he led her on you have to give u your self worth as a women.
I feel like she’s being genuine...and let’s be honest, if there was a camera following all of us we would definitely be ashamed of something from time to time x
I’m Muslim and if my husband ever came to me with that second wife ish I’d smack the crap outta him. Chill girl misogyny is not our culture. That’s some middles ages ish you’d do in famine or war if ur hubby died… when women were solely dependent on men… the ignorance of it all.
Uhhh, no. I know you didn't just lie like that. It's either that or you're ignorant. It is not middle aged, the rulings in Islam like polygyny are applicable until the last day. Just because you're a liberal, do not distort the religion to suit your agenda. That's something we ain't about to do. A woman is entitled to stipulate in her marriage contract whether she does not want a co-wife and if you have that preference, that is totally fine as many women would feel natural jealousy. But to claim it's not part of Islaam and paint it to be evil is downright wrong.
@@as.khan2 also in Islam it says women can marry once they have they’re periods. Is that right too? It was something done back in the day that now is considered molestation. Muhammad married Aisha at 6 he was 53 and had intercourse with her AT 9 and he was 56!!! Please try to support that… I’m waiting.
@@QuantumKittyI'm seriously questioning whether you're Muslim rn. 🤡 yes that's true but that's not the only thing that determines whether she's considered to be ready to marry in Islaam. Furthermore, yes that age gap was present. I'm fine with both but I ain't about to waste my time giving any reasoning when I'm talking to someone who claims to be a Muslim but is raising the arguments of Christian apologists... They're so easily refutable that it's laughable you're bringing it up lmaooo. Have fun with your constantly evolving morals and do me the honour of not engaging with me anymore. May Allaah guide you, Aameen.
Girllllll. Stop it. No one buys those gifts out of the goodness of their hearts.. lol. No man is getting any of that from me unless we are on our way to the chapel boo…. You better put a ring on it whilst getting all those gifts.. She is wrapped up in this little bit of fame she feels Usman is responsible for in her life. Her son is at home like can I get those gifts mom!
As she should be that was pathetic.If a man is interested you ain’t gotta do all that.All these shows show someone begging for sex. It usual comes natural they need to get a clue other person just ain’t that into them. Or is doing it for all the wrong reasons .
He keep rejecting her & She keep begging him!!! All the signs were there, She didn't mean to buy his love, but she did, & he still rejected her! NO MEANS NO‼️🤔😟😵💫
Come on, I mean Usman called her to tell her TLC is gonna give her a call? After Zara fell through, he used Kim as his plan B. He only wants to be seen on the show to get more popular. All Usman cares about is himself and his need to want his career to be something it probably will never be. He's straight up using Kim, and it's really hard to watch this train wreck. Come on Kim, your continuing to embarrass yourself, and it's hard to see.
Ok but I feel like Kim's just tootin' her own horn here by the many "I'm just a good person" statements. I understand that not everything was shown on TV but she couldn't even give an example of what was said via texts and it's so unlike Kim that I honestly don't think she had real evidence on Usman.
She completely embarrassed herself and she IS the 2nd option. Who’s she kidding? He’s simply a fame wannabe. Lmao he’s not a celebrity other than 90 day. She’s a middle aged groupie. Lmao his music is mediocre at best. If he had any real talent he’d have been signed on a major label. He’s not, and if he hasn’t from his little stint on 90 day that he managed to drag out, he won’t be. She most certainly was buying attention. Gross.
I'm reminded of herman monster from the addams family when I see her. If they put that green makeup on then dress her up like him, its on and poppin. Seriously!!!
She really did make herself look bad, BUT I really feel embarrassed for her son. He was probably THE most embarrassed that he's ever been in his life, poor son.
Okay but also maybe he is mature enough to know that he is an adult, his mom is an adult, and we (adults) can't judge one person on the actions of another. So he doesn't need to be embarrassed for the actions of someone else.
She's just embarrassed and trying to fix it now...she's gross.
@@rein2430 Yep!!! 👏👏👏
@@dorcasmalorcas I'm sure that most adult children would be embarrassed if that was their Mom acting like that. I would.
Now, just because you would be okay with your Mom acting like THE most desperate, sex-deprived woman on national television, that's cool... but that also means that you'd likely act just as desperate as Kimberly on TV or in private, just saying.
@@rein2430 yeah, I think so
So basically Zara was his first choice. Zara dumped him and Kimbaalee was a Stan who he brought in to make the show happen. It all makes sense now.
yup
Right? The whole potential thing was always nonsense
Yep. That's why all this makes sense. They weren't even a legit thing foreal foreal
@@BerryKind only in her mind were they a legit thing
Kimberly is not being honest with us and herself. She claims she likes giving people gifts because she is just a good person. But when she gets mad she takes them back. She thought she will buy Usman's affection and he will have sèx with her. When he didn't, she got mad and showed her true colours
Yeah I get that but I also get taking a gift back when the person betrays you.
100% true all old woman it's same
@@nalstyles1116 you don't take things back you have given to someone as a gift that's ridiculous LOL she was stupid enough to give it to him LOL
i agree but also she took the gifts away after Usman told her about zara i think
Kymbaaaali !!!! no u cannot be a snatchbacker ! 😅😆. I guess that is her defense gift someone they mistreat her they break up and she takes back so she can hurt them back..
He “decided” not to bring Zara to the show “due to his reasons”? Lol! That’s an interesting way of saying Zara broke up with me and I had to bring Kim
LMAO, we need Zara to come on now though
@@peacheskong2245 We do, don’t we? Lol
TLC wouldn’t cast her as she’s not a white woman in her 50s. These are seem to be TLC’s requirements 😂
@@bella3775 or you could look at it in the sense an old black lady aren't as delusional and sucked in as these old white ladies 🤷🏽♀️
@@__Ess Zara doesn’t look that old
@@angelit161 which is probably why she saw sense so quickly 😂
Can Melicia do the tell all? I feel like she's asking the questions the viewers really want to know. Shaun does everything 90DF and we OG viewers want new energy.
She would be such a great tell-all hostess!
Agree! I always feel Shaun is a bit clueless
Thank you yesss she needs to do it
@@ann2456 I like Shaun but I need the host to acknowledge the fact that we have questions that NEED answers.
She does have great energy!
Kim is full of it. If a man acted the way she did, there would be people boycotting TLC right now. Her behavior was absolutely disgusting. She nagged, manipulated, and threaten him. Yeah, miss me with all that. 🙄😒😒
True but to be fair they were using eachother….Mike was a total creep towards ximena but everyone only talked about how she was using him.
Agreed...if it is not ok for a man it is not ok for a woman to do either.
@@everybodysux4997 yup aint nobody talking about Mike 🙄 typical double standards, the masses only get mad if women do sh*t. I'm guessing most ppl think she owes him because she's basically a "gold digger", but nobody would EVER say anything bout a dude being a golddigger 😂
Although others have speculated he might have coerced her to stop whatever she was doing for money cuz he'd pay for her if she got with him, but that's a whole other story...
@@everybodysux4997 thankfully there are some channels out there that noticed the little weird things Mike was doing tho.
Girl have u seen the whole show? 😆 most guys on this show do the same shit!! Some are very creepy yea she’s weird asf for this too but guys on here do the same shit they all are weird !! lol tbh
As she should be. If it were a man doing that to a woman, he would’ve gotten his head called for. It was so disgusting and so desperate.
But it's not, it's totally different, stop comparing like it is the same.
She's despicable and desperate.
@@Temms how is it different?
as a r*** victim i think she understands now cause she said S A victims have come to tell her their stories. i think we should forgive her, she did not assault anyone, everyone makes mistakes. yes it's a problem that women can behave towards men like men cant towards women. i realised that i could have made many men wery uncomfartable with my actions, it they would have not been into it too. nowadays i always ask before doing anything, and respect personal space. and men are still going on with their lifes, appearing on tv etc after charges of assault etc. it's fucked up. and not consenting is almost imbossible to prove, dna proves only that it happened, not that you did not consent. obly text messages, underage etc prove it..
You’re right Mike just did the same thing.
Can Melicia host the reunion? She ask all the questions that we all want the answers to. Come through TLC/ET, do a collab!
Agree. The other one is a gossip monger.
I agree
Disagree. They have a highly competent lady already that keeps the right balance.
No. They should get *Wineboxpapi* to do it
I thought it said,
can Medical,
As in Medicare
host the reunion?
Poor Kim. You can tell she’s totally delusional
She’s definitely living in la la land lol
Facts!
If she was a dude you'd be calling her predator
Yes 😒😒😒😒🙄😷🤥😄
@@rachelle9713 Sojaboy is mere local talent! The actual Nigerian celebrities are P. Square and Flavour N'abania! Sojaboy is a wannabe!. And Kim is a delusional, selfish, lustful, desperate person. That's why she took back the gifts from him! Who is she kidding?
I wish Melicia would do the tell all for Darcey and Stacey. She would really grill them and ask the most important questions like, “Stacey why are you so caught up with what Georgie does when you forgave Florian who cheated on you??” Lol That would be worth watching!
She should stop doing interviews and stop embarrassing herself
EXACTLY!!!!!! She just keeps making it worse!
She gets a definite rush being recognized...now that she's a 'celebrity'. As IF.🙄
@@lindahandley5267 lol
@@rachelle9713 ☺
@@krystalbowen5427 And the sound of her voice is so irritating.
I noticed that Kimberly has a young soul but in a old body. Her eyes speaks immaturity and anxiousness. Just like a teenager still trying to explore herself and the world around
i felt the exact same thing after watching this interview... her tone, persona and slang all of a young teenage girl.
You are sickening
The use of "like", etc... very insightful. I was thinking the same thing. Possible signs of abandonment issues, childhood/teenage trauma. I only say this because I have first hand experience.
Also like baby girl Lisa.Usman seems to go for older white American women who are still teenagers in their minds.
Since when is Usman a celebrity? People only know him from 90 Days!
Right?! The way she said “he’s a celebrity” sounded like she was talking about Brad Pitt. 🤦♀️
By her standards Big Ed is an international sex symbol.
@@joywebster2678 It was the way she said it, not what she said.
@@joywebster2678
From a man based in Lagos on Reddit
"Nope. Only his momma and his mates in Nigeria are aware of him."
He's a bad singer too. Biniyam from Ethiopia is much better.
@@joywebster2678 African countries have their own celebrities, however he is not one of them.
Buying gifts for someone is one thing, but buying them and taking back is a whole other thing… smh shame on her
I don't blame her. If it was expensive I would have done the same and got my money back lol
I dont think she ask it back it was voluntarily given back to her 🤣
Then should couldn't even be woman enough to ask for it straight out. She had to trick him into handing it to her🙄 she so childish
Using someone isn't ok though lol
@@shannonwhite6963 no it isn’t. And it’ll come back around 💯
She behaves like a teenager
That’s probably the age she got stuck in emotionally.
@@bella3775 I agree.
It's kind of endearing but also out of sync with her chronological age...
Worse. Embarrassed for her is how I feel.
No Kim, just no. Any one who likes to give does not care about taking the gifts back after an argument or when they part ways. You did bribe him and begged for sex. You really need to take a hard long look at yourself.
exactly!
Absolutely Right 👍
Imagine someone filming you..... And it all goes out to the WORLD. I would say .... I'm glad she is owning up to her " mistakes " . That's what being human is. I honestly can't imagine filming me lol I bet I would make A LOT of mistakes
exactly.. And also remember that they only show us the most sensational parts of their time together
Exactly. People judge as if they don’t make any mistakes 🤦🏽♀️
Of course as would I but acting the predator is not in my natural persona as obviously is in Kim's. But Kim you did try to buy Usman's love as once you had a fight the first thing you did was take back that gaudy necklace . How many apologies did you just make? Worst couple ever on 90 Day.
Exactly like, I’m sure if a camera crew followed any of us, people would definitely have opinions on what we should’ve done differently.
You would make a lot of “mistakes “. We all would. It’s quite alright. Laugh..Forgive yourself/ muse/ ourselves. Let’s just live before we can’t anymore. Please. She’s honest and that’s the opposite of a mistake..
She keeps saying "I am is a good person" when referring to her gift giving. Indulging people with gifts to win their affection does not make you a good person, it makes you a desperate person.
Hello there
Not only did she look desperate. She looks disgusting, trying to buy bbc on national television with her trinkets. I hope this follows her for the rest of her life as an example to women on how NOT to act on TV, in private or in public with these younger men who care nothing for you. OBVIOUSLY he was using her for clout and click bait.
It is what a "love bomber" would do to garner some sort of physical / mental leverage over another individual. It's conditional love; a power play.
Usually, a legitimate good person doesn't say that they're a "good person" every couple of seconds.
I believed her until ... I heard her say .... She doesn't need to bribe some one for sex ... But not only did u take back gifts.... U literally threw it in his face I bought u all this stuff and u won't sleep with me 🤣🤣 okay .. u can Gon ahead now Kim ..
Yea, I wouldn't have bought him expensive stuff, then take it back. Wouldn't have bought it in the first place.
@@aananimity that part..wouldn't hv bought it in the first place!!
I thought I was loosing my mind the way she was talking. Like girl did u not watch what we did. ?! Ur one way on the show and another way in the interview. She needs to stop lying to herself and admit she is clingy ASF and needs a man that can handle that kinda crazy because I felt so bad for her son and Usman. These last few episodes 🙄
Asia Johnson
Exactly!
I believed her until she said she talked a guy down on the price of a PS5
This woman is still minimizing, and justifying her behavior. She knows it is all wrong, especially for a woman her age.
Exactly!
She’s way too old to not know better. Smh
she apologized a million times wtf do you want her to do? Gotdamn
@@lylablueabdul5503 how about quit lying . And grow up. And get off our screens. She is sick.
@@lylablueabdul5503 She needs to stop acting like a frkn teenager groupie, and realize that guy is only using her to come out on the show, and he will continue to use older desperate women like Kim if they're not aware of it.
I’m be honest… I think Kim is LIVING for the attention. She doesn’t seem embarrassed at al.
True. She's trying to fill some unknown void in her life. So she decides to go and bribe someone for it. You can tell she's loving all of it when she was talking about getting VERIFIED and her "TRIP" to Sea World. Saying that they had to leave because of the crowd chasing her seems like a load of BS. 💩
She’s not embarrassed she literally said thanks tlc for this amazing opportunity and bragged about getting verified. She definitely doesn’t care lol
Once again, I would like to state that Sojaboy is NOT a celebrity in Nigeria. A handful of people watch the show and love him, but he isn't a household name.
We do not appreciate foreigners telling us who our celebrities are.
He's really good entertainment though.
Thanks for the clarification
He is not a good singer, the guy is a joke 🤣
River Stark:
On the comparative scale:
He is recognized.
They are Not. Not here. Nowhere.
They risk a lifetime of recognition now, but with ridicule. Consequence of this exposure. He is younger. He can reframe this. Shake it off. They don't have the same resilience.
Youth.
This entire endeavor seems like a Tragic Waste of time.
Time
Lost:
COLLOSAL!!!!!
I can't stand Usman 🤮🤮 he will do anything to get back on TV even KIMBRALLY 🤮🤮
Exactly. I am Nigerian and I don’t know him beyond 90 day fiance. He is not a celebrity in Nigeria and he is not a household name. He is just using Kim to get a blue passport and she is trying to use him for sex . That simple
IF he is so well known and "celebrity" in other places why does he NOT have his own ps5 chains and Mac book???????? He should have been buying her gifts. She spun herself a self destructive web of embarrassing.
Exactly
Thank you!
If he was a true celebrity he wouldn’t even get with her in the first place
Thank you lol
@What Ever that one hurt me hahahaha
Kim reminds me of Mike trying to take back stuff he bought ximena once the “love” ran out. Both Mike AND Kim are trying to buy the other person’s love, only to have it backfire on them 🤣.
Ikr but seriously in that case I hope Mike gets everything back from ximena. Then take it right outside her door and burn 🔥 it.
But he didn't pressurise Ximena to sleep with him
@you know who da. Kim pressuring Usman to sleep with her is a whole other story. In addition to trying to buy his love, she constantly put pressure on him to give her the yam (yammy). But I feel Mike sorta put pressure on ximena to sleep with him too because he would always ask her to be intimate with him.
@CAM10. I totally agree because it’s not like Mike can take those things he bought ximena back to New York with him and I think ximena knew that. So, it’s better to just burn that shit. 🤣.
@Anike Julien. True but ultimately both Mike AND Kim wanted their stuff back. Who takes gifts back anyways????
She is ridiculous. She said she was dating, but then she said friends with benefits. Friends with benefits is not dating. It's having sex with a friend, and friends don't date. And, yes, she was the second choice because Zara broke up with Usman. That should have been the end of it for her. Where is her self-respect? Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot that she doesn't have any.
She barely friends with benefit...more like emotional pathetic begging , with results of pity sex!
Friends do date though, lol.
Friends with benefits is a myth. One of the two parties inevitably develops feelings.
Someone that's constantly saying they know their worth has no worth, stop trying to convince us you're so great Kim.
@@Momofukudoodoowindu not if it's done right
She's not being honest. She made a complete fool of herself, she mashed those gifts in his face, didn't she take the chain back and say he wasn't getting it back until he proved he loved her or whatever? That's being a good person? She's not the person she was in the beginning, she switched up in so many ways, her true colors came out and now she's trying to patch it up. She made a fool of herself and her son. She even threatened him with her son, who does that? She must of said she's a good person over 100 times... Kimbaaaly stop, we all see right through you.
TLC thinks the public is stupid.
There's 2 things that make me bolt faster than a run: when someone tells me
s/he's "Chrstian" or "Good"!
You don't have to SAY a word if you're either. It simply shows.
Yes, that and “ya know” lol 😂
Alyssa.0😭
Honestly, I can't with her. She's toxic.
I don't care for her:
🔸️Minimizing her mistakes
🔸️Resorting to violence by throwing water in his face
🔸️Bribing/ Buying his attention and love, then takes it back when she's not getting her way
🔸️Entitled to his past & past relationship
🔸️Pressuring for sex
🔸️Her strange acquired mannerisms
It's going to take "something big" 😉 for her to prove she's not a $hitty person.
Me Maybe you,
I absolutely agree! I don’t care for Kimbaaalee either, she’s just an old train wreck.
She is a shitty person. The image of a white woman throwing water into the face of a black man is very imperialistic. If the reverse happened, Usman's ass would be toast. Disgusting. She likes/wants the "yammy" but she thinks she's better than the man.
The show is fake though
Obviously she isn't the giver she says she is bc she takes the gifts back bc he won't have sex with her.
She didn't bribe him, just pressured him like a disgusting creeper, who doesn't understand the word NO. " I'm not gonna use alcohol as an excuse " then proceeds to do so. Kim is gross 😝😐😒 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮💀💀💀💀
sexual coercion. It's a form of sexual assault. Yes, she's repulsive for that. No means no. Regardless if a man or a woman says it.
She did bribe him
@@starynightugh6951 this comment deserves an award
@@judethaddeus9856 I'm aware of that, I was being sarcastic lol 😆
@@aryabolton2949 jog on loser . He should have said from the start he wasn't gonna be intimate , he's to much ...a player. Looks arnt everything's important wanted to mean more to, Solman he's a creep loves only his self he's a loser too
A giver doesn’t take gifts back…. she’s such a mess!!! ooh childddddd!!! you done did it now!!!! 😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I loved the part of “ if you don’t sleep with me my son is going to cuss you out” 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that’s like a kid saying to another if you don’t play with me, imma tell momma! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂💀💀💀
Messy like 12 year old child.
Kimbaaalee is a sick and desperate old woman. Very sad 😔
Kim is an absolute example of what women shouldn't be.
Noi Noi
Perfect statement. The epitome of what no woman should be.🤔🤣😏😲
So true! She is shme for all 😈😈
Shouldn't be *in relationships*
If a woman is gonna be like this, be under the age of 25 and/or with no children.
I see women like this with kids and way too old to be falling for the games these men play. Putting themselves and their children in danger or at risk of losing everything
And people like her are representing America how embarrassing LOL
Kimberly keeps flipping her hair, like a flirtatious action. You can tell she's very nervous doing this interview. She knows she's talking BS!
She wasn't ashamed when she was getting it. She's just ashamed that the world is calling her out on it.
She seems like a kindhearted woman. She did a mistake and acknowledged it, good for her! She has a joyful personality
Agree , she seems cool here . I’ll give her a second chance
Exactly people are so quick to judge.
@@CabbagePatch2002 u so right, Dany. People love to talk about negative things a lot.
Just wait, her true self will show again
She's adorable. I can tell she's a really good person and a fun friend.
She is a desperate older woman. I feel sorry for her, to think that you would have to sink that low...
There are issues at all ages unfortunately
I really enjoy the host. She's sweet and direct at the same time
She needs to be embarrassed. That was painful
Period
Kim:"I'm just such a good person" 😌😇 it's almost like she's trying to convince herself 🙄
Okayyyyyy!
That's the line from the girl Alyssa from MAFS this season who got dumped by her husband lol! She kept claiming how she was such a good person lol 🤣😂🤣
Good people don’t need to brag about themselves
@@dbuse1 yeah that's what I was thinking.
@@dbuse1 Yep! Darn Skippy! 👍👍👍
If “wisdom does not come with age” was a person. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I'm sorry but I find her delusional abusive and manipulative. How genuine and kind are you when you constantly have to tell us the whole interview how kind and genuine person you are.
TRUTH!!!
She is emotionally stunted and immature. She was never an option. She was an easy opportunity for more exposure for Usman.
@@vellabella1 YES YES INDEED!!
Yeah, since she's kind and giving. I put in a request.😊
He may be known in other countries, but he is NOT an international super star. He is a super star wannabe.
If kimbaaaaally is such a giver then why did she ask for the necklace back until he proved his love. The necklace was a gift
Cuz she realized she gave too much
@@whatever7588 nobody forced her to give that much
She should have taken PS and Laptop back too
You can tell when she’s lying 🤥 she rambles on and on...
That could just be excitement doing her interview
When someone keeps saying I do this cause I'm such a good person multiple times thats a red flag bb I'm sorry but genuine nice ppl don't need to push how nice they are remember actions speak louder than words
Yes! Preach that! 👏👏👏
This reminds me of the girl named Alyssa on MAFS this season who got dumped by her husband, very early on this season. She kept saying that she was such a good person however, the way she treated her husband was absolutely appalling.
@@Blazian2000 exactly! Never ever trust someone who always "im such a good person" or "cause im so real" anything that's like that thats red flags and it's time to run the other way! Lol
Kimballlllayyy is still lying. She said the “I lost” was a joke, but your crying?? That’s not a joke!
She seems very sweet, however, you embarrassed yourself on international television, just admit it and stop lying. This is the second time she lied in an ET interview.
I love this interviewer! She asks the questions, but call her out on her lies!
Ok so everyone’s going to disagree…but to me she wasn’t just pressuring him for sex, she was using sex to pressure
him to confirm his love and commitment to her. Because he showed no romantic feelings for her she wasn’t sure where she stood. Usman wouldn’t give her an answer, she hoped to get confirmation that he was at least attracted to her.
If she needs confirmation then he was never attracted. Come on, u can tell wen someone is interested n attracted. (Even wen you meet online.) The fact that he was not making any moves on her was indication of zero physical attraction.
Your so right.She was desperade for any kind of afection ,even nice words.And he didnt give anything to her.So she dith what she dith.Was it right,hell no.But even without TV ,somethings in my life i am no prout to..We all make mistakes.We all sometimes are desperade.For me he is more in the wrong.Because he never loved her.Sorry my english
I swear this show is so cringe. It’s so bad and yet we can’t help but watch. I hate it here 😭😭😭
not a fan of everyone saying ~if i was on camera id make mistakes too~
forgetting to check out a tiny item in self checkout at the grocery is a mistake. pressuring someone for sex is not a mistake. that's a deliberate action.
usman isn't a lil cute faced angel either but kim knew what she was doing. i genuinely hope she's actually in a better headspace now though and finds a man she doesn't need to bribe for sex. 🤷♀️
She manipulated him into sleeping with her. She manipulated him into getting anything she wanted from him
Facts
Exactly! And when she couldn't, she took the gift back. WTH
Exactly !!!!!
No she's not. She's ashamed she got called out for it. Smh.
This was horrible of her to act like that!!!.I have never been so embarrassed and this will be her legacy
TLC recruiters:
"okay, we like your personality. You're awkward and entertaining AF.. people are gonna judge you and see you as a joke every single second, therefore you're gonna make GREAT TV .... and ratings." 😈 🤑🤩
Kim: "aweee, thank you soo much!!" 😊🥰🤩
😂😂🤣
Lol, yup that sounds like Kim 😁
No offense, But…….. who would want to record and follow her??? 🤔
I don’t believe that.
This interview did not help her look any better .. I guess she really doesn’t get it 😵💫
You know.. you know.. you know.. take a shot every time she says "you know"
Am honestly tired of her 🤦🏾♀️.
Oh God here she goes everyone knows me. Really Kim you think your a star, it’s called they are grossed out. How stupid of him to not bring Zara and let Kim act like a old fool?
💯🎯 it goes to show she's deeply delusional. Still.
She has to stop doing interviews. Each one she just steps in more 💩🤦🏻♀️
Her: I don’t need to buy a man’s love or anything”
Well…you did 👀.
Her playing with her hair thing... is weird. 😬
She has zero self awareness. She speaks and behaves like a cute high school girl. The cognitive dissonance I feel watching her is on another level.
So annoying!
she act like a 15 year old teen girl
I have NEVER had to beg a man for D**k and I don’t think any woman every should. She begged him for D and bribed him with all the money and gifts and he STILL didn’t make her his girlfriend till the very end.
90 day has a way of picking the WORST women to showcase with African men. The desperation was so embarrassing! She was so worried about her son and what he thinks of Usmans behavior...meanwhiiiiiile......🥴😬 Smh embarrassing example
Those men are the ones picking them
@@jannalam6861 correct. Same of all the applications 90day chooses the worst women out of the bunch. It mocks the whole process. They should just give Angela and this chick a trailer pa spin-off
Usman is just doing this for his career🫣
if you look up desperate in the dictionary her face is there 😹😹😹
Delusional as well. She's pitiful.
Every American on that show is😂
She is a good person though.
Facts
And she is FULL of excuses. She was definitely desperate.
I really only watch these for Melicia lol. You always ask or say the best things with so much thought and depth.
Me too. I don’t even watch the show
Seriously..I don't even watch the show. I just watch these lol. Love this lady!
Same here!
How many times do you guys think Kim said "YOU KNOW" LOL to many times
Seems like you're tryin real hard to convince us that you're a good person...who are you lying to Kim? Not us!😭
You should be ashamed. If a man did the sick crap she did...
Yeah his name is no neck Ed... They're both sick
@@agangstersparadise1 ewwwww yeah. I guess I tried to block him from my memory
Melicia's hair though! Looking good as always sis 😍
I can't forget that moment when Kim surprised him with PS5 and he kissed PS5 and not Kim 😂😂😂😂
Hearing her speak shows her immaturity. As a almost 50 year old woman, I couldn’t imagine acting in such a way. Especially on television for all to see.
My thoughts exactly! It would be embarrassing if she were in her 30’s but 50?!?!
Kimbali one question ? Was the yam all you expected it to be ??? Lmfao 😂
Wait. Usman ADMITTED that Zara was supposed to be on the show?! 👀 👀 👀
Yup
Of all things to be famous for and get recognised for I think begging a man for sex like she did is probably the worst thing to be famous for. And the mentioning her son I feel awful for him how embarrassing my son won't like you if you don't have sex with me, was the vibe I got from that episode. The show really done her wrong showing that episode she was clearly drunk. So embarrassed for her 😅
How embarrassing to come back to America and everyone "KNOW" 😄😅🤣🤣
Sis 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😃
So this is a spoiler. They're not together anymore.
Sounds like it!
shocker
Big Ed and KimBaLy are perfect for each other. Self pat on her own back. In love with herself.
She’s too old for him 😉
why she lying she begged for sex! she pleaded for affection and she bought him multiple gifts who does that?? regardless if she say they were cheap. I feel thats the only reason he felt bad and sang to her in the end. Normal women dont act the way she did. and it was brutal and so cringe to watch. even if he led her on you have to give u your self worth as a women.
Keep embarrassing yourself Kim. Way to go.
I can't imagine how hard it would be watching yourself on tv. I can only imagine how judgy I would be on myself so I respect her for that!
You respect her for being delusional?
I feel like she’s being genuine...and let’s be honest, if there was a camera following all of us we would definitely be ashamed of something from time to time x
She was aware that a camera was following her and chose to conduct herself in that manner: pressuring Usman to have sex, etc..
@Ladybug right, of that was a man doing that to a woman it would have been a huge issue. Men have the sane right to say no without harrassment.
How can she say she respect his culture but then expect him to go against his culture at the same time... so delusional
I’m Muslim and if my husband ever came to me with that second wife ish I’d smack the crap outta him. Chill girl misogyny is not our culture. That’s some middles ages ish you’d do in famine or war if ur hubby died… when women were solely dependent on men… the ignorance of it all.
Great to hear!
Uhhh, no. I know you didn't just lie like that. It's either that or you're ignorant. It is not middle aged, the rulings in Islam like polygyny are applicable until the last day. Just because you're a liberal, do not distort the religion to suit your agenda. That's something we ain't about to do. A woman is entitled to stipulate in her marriage contract whether she does not want a co-wife and if you have that preference, that is totally fine as many women would feel natural jealousy. But to claim it's not part of Islaam and paint it to be evil is downright wrong.
@@as.khan2 also in Islam it says women can marry once they have they’re periods. Is that right too? It was something done back in the day that now is considered molestation. Muhammad married Aisha at 6 he was 53 and had intercourse with her AT 9 and he was 56!!! Please try to support that… I’m waiting.
@@QuantumKittyI'm seriously questioning whether you're Muslim rn. 🤡 yes that's true but that's not the only thing that determines whether she's considered to be ready to marry in Islaam. Furthermore, yes that age gap was present. I'm fine with both but I ain't about to waste my time giving any reasoning when I'm talking to someone who claims to be a Muslim but is raising the arguments of Christian apologists... They're so easily refutable that it's laughable you're bringing it up lmaooo. Have fun with your constantly evolving morals and do me the honour of not engaging with me anymore. May Allaah guide you, Aameen.
Girllllll. Stop it. No one buys those gifts out of the goodness of their hearts.. lol. No man is getting any of that from me unless we are on our way to the chapel boo…. You better put a ring on it whilst getting all those gifts.. She is wrapped up in this little bit of fame she feels Usman is responsible for in her life. Her son is at home like can I get those gifts mom!
Love it!! 😅
The way he looks at her when she walked away to fly back was like , " Thank God She Is Gone !!" 😆🤣 USER USMAN !!!🙄
I noticed his facial expression, it was like the sh.it scent finally cleared the air
I thought she said me and my son sit and watch every episode together, but after that, she says he phones out after every episode.
It's not a gift if it's conditional 🤷♀️
i dont care what anybody says, but she seems so genuinely sweet and kind. I would love to hang out with her.
I agree
I saw someone comment that she was a manager at a restaurant her friend used to work at and that shes super sweet and fun!
@@lucyding326 i absolutely LOVE that
Agreed!
Lol same
As she should be that was pathetic.If a man is interested you ain’t gotta do all that.All these shows show someone begging for sex. It usual comes natural they need to get a clue other person just ain’t that into them. Or is doing it for all the wrong reasons .
So she’s talking about them in the past tense
“Nobody knows how close we were” sooooo who is he gonna drag on the show next season?? 😂
I caught that too. They were pretending to be cool this week but I think Kim just slipped 👀
He is probably going to find another desperate middle age woman, to agree to be on the show for him... Absolutely disgusting.
He keep rejecting her & She keep begging him!!! All the signs were there, She didn't mean to buy his love, but she did, & he still rejected her! NO MEANS NO‼️🤔😟😵💫
Lol oh Kim…what is done is done. You made a fool out of yourself and now you’re trying to save face.
Come on, I mean Usman called her to tell her TLC is gonna give her a call? After Zara fell through, he used Kim as his plan B. He only wants to be seen on the show to get more popular. All Usman cares about is himself and his need to want his career to be something it probably will never be. He's straight up using Kim, and it's really hard to watch this train wreck. Come on Kim, your continuing to embarrass yourself, and it's hard to see.
Sh's so gross!! Begging for sex!!! I feel bad for his son!!! So embarrasing!!!
She is just a big “NOOOOOOO”
Huge celebrity where👀??
Right!! 😂
Did she say she was 50 years old?! 🥴 She looks older.
Ok but I feel like Kim's just tootin' her own horn here by the many "I'm just a good person" statements. I understand that not everything was shown on TV but she couldn't even give an example of what was said via texts and it's so unlike Kim that I honestly don't think she had real evidence on Usman.
She completely embarrassed herself and she IS the 2nd option. Who’s she kidding? He’s simply a fame wannabe. Lmao he’s not a celebrity other than 90 day. She’s a middle aged groupie. Lmao his music is mediocre at best. If he had any real talent he’d have been signed on a major label. He’s not, and if he hasn’t from his little stint on 90 day that he managed to drag out, he won’t be. She most certainly was buying attention. Gross.
Damn good interview Melicia! Even when the show falls flat you and Ebird keep me committed to watching because of your entertaining reviews. 🔥🔥🔥
I'm reminded of herman monster from the addams family when I see her. If they put that green makeup on then dress her up like him, its on and poppin. Seriously!!!