She bought him flowers upon meeting, begged for sex, lavished him with gifts, then got on one knee and proposed to him. As good as she thought her intentions were, she downgraded herself, emasculated him, and removed his opportunity to seduce her, which he probably would not have anyway. He literally kisses the gifts she buys him more than he kisses her. She needs to WTFU.
Though now its getting more common for women to court men but Kim is just embarrassing. Usman is from a culture where men initiate and dominate in relationship, so if he's not initiating anything, it's really cos usman doesn't like her and is ultra confident he can make Kim twirl around his fingers without any effort.
@@jasg771 he's not in love with her, she looks like bigfoot, she's ugly, bad tempered, domineering, always angry, violent outbursts, she has to bed for sex, yeah cause she's a major turn off. i don't blame him for not wanting to kiss her in public, who would..F that.
@@notjulianne87 he's not in love with her, its not romantic, i never heard him say "i'm in love with you"..just saying "i love you"..isn't the same, i say that to my friends and family, he won't even kiss her in public, there's no affection and romance, they're like friends and lets face it, she's ugly, she looks like herman munster, she acts manly, she's bad tempered, domineering, definately not feminine.
Is she serious it's only 2 years an you propose to usman because your desperate an needy obviously he's going to marry that younger chick that can give him kids kim is just wasting time it's not ment to be at all
someone please give a reality check to Kim ! YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE SWEETHEART KIM ! please stop riding the bandwagon of desperation !! Leave the guy Use-man! and go back to states ; find someone who makes you happy and prioritizes you!
Very well said!!! Kimbaaaaaly is absolutely 💯 delusional!! Plus, she says they've been together for TWO yrs. Usman didn't file for divorce till Dec 2021? She needs to listen to her handsome son
Oh Kim :( For the sake of that poor, innocent 18 year old girl, and yourself. Please walk away from this. You deserve true happiness and inner peace, and you will NEVER get that with Usman.
Kim leaving the relationship will not save that girl, if it’s not loser usman it will be another guy, possibly older man that will barter with the mother for her. It’s a whole different way of living over there we can’t always comprehend.
@@rh7968 yeah usman is 15 years older than that girl, and Kim is only 18 years older than him. So same age difference and I think in both cases just as bad.
@@Chosenones572 that is sooooo so pathetically sad 🙄 This woman lives in her own reality. Doesn't think before she "acts", she's too OLD to be this foolish.
Thank you!!!! She says "I can't do this or that" then usman does what he wants bc he knows she's desperate and will do anything he says. She'll never leave Kim is a sexual predator that is very hard on the eye
& whoever did her hair, what did they do to it?? Looks the same…I’m sure she can find a decent hair stylist…Hell, I’d look 100 times better with the right help
She doesn’t, she seems to play the man’s role. So sad!! &Usman loves the attention but he isn’t giving her the same in return. He’s like..how far will this woman go? Give them this man an opportunity to step up& be a man. Love you, show you love, respect and pursue you.
@@katieyamanaka7042 she should’ve been able to brag abt things like how well he handles her heart, how great him & her son get along, how she feels secure and happy enough in the relationship to take it to the next step etc .. Not food and tv shows like i said . lol
This is a true statement above all others. She needs to put herself first..TOP PRIORITY!! She doesn’t understand what true love is, she’s too busy giving but doesn’t know how to receive. She gives a lot of excuses and want people to like her so much..she needs to like herself. Boundaries are so healthy but she doesn’t even know the definition of it. She sets herself up for the kill & then cry but she’s knows the consequences. Whew Lord, it’s exhausting!!
When he said "I love you to baby", his face contorted. Its like he's trying to convince himself. He knows now that he can walk all over her. She will accept anything.
From personal experience never go with your heart and soul you'll waste your time. Go with how that person treats you. Go with what you see them do for you and to you.
Kim, u said that u and Usman watched 📺, liked the same food 🍱 like the singing, etc. In both sessions I never saw u both eating or watching 📺. I saw a lot of fighting back/forth. I do not like to travel over 24 hrs, by myself and into a country that I have never visited or researched. My sister is a Vet in GA, and after she got her doctorate, she went to Zaire to help with the animals there for 9 mths. She then flew to Australia to work with their animals for 3 mths and then returned 🏡. What I am trying to say is that u should have read 🆙before going there. Kim, I think that u need to have time with Yourself. I do agree that u compromised a lot for Usman. I never saw him by flowers for u, 📞to see how u were doing, paying attn to You, etc. The only thing that he bought for u is 2 stuffed animals. U pd for a bull/cow, u pd for your ✈️ ticket, Laptop, PlayStation, clothes, jewelry, hotel and God knows what else. I know that u want someone to ❤️u so bad that at times, it brings tears to my eyes 👀. The person that u need to work on is yourself and the rest will fall into place It is not going to happen overnight, etc., but u will get there. I do not agree with the verbal/emotional abuse for either u or him. When u look back on the videos, I think that u r going to say to yourself “I cannot believe that I said or did that.” Read what the followers said about u and Usman as well as watching the show on 📺. Look at the way his family treated u. I have never heard of marrying my paternal cousin. I think Usman as well as his family needs to have common sense. I do like the new color of your hair, but if u can go back and get a lighter brown on u, it will look great.
Watching Kim and how she took "thirsty" to a whole nother level makes Darcey look a little more stable. She's surpassed Darcey, Jenny, and Danielle 🤦🏽♀️
Always love how Melicia tries to share her own personal experiences to relate to the people she interviews, it’s just so heartwarming and hints at the kind of person she is. MELICIA, YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE STAR AND WE LOVE YOU! ✨ ✨ ✨
@@Star-kq6om Agree 100%. But I suspect if she asked real/hard questions, she'd never get another interview with this delusional woman. So, I think she has to ask the easy questions so that Kim will be agree to be interviewed by Melicia again.
@@buoy5579 Then she doesnt need to be interviewed lol. If she isnt going to ask any substantial questions, then who cares about what kim says or wants? Don't interview her then. Who is Kim? Some celebrity who gets to control the narrative? Nope she's a sad woman on reality tv.
Kim seems very nice but her desperation is so apparent. Kim move on and find someone who will treat you like a queen. There should be no first wife and second wife. Be the only wife, you deserve that.
Kim didnt clarify the Handsmaids tale situation at all. All she did was confirm that she really does thinks she is going to get a handsmaid tale out of a second wife for usman. Kim is messed up in the head to treat another woman like that (considering she is a woman herself) and I feel sorry for the poor girl who falls prey to this messed up couples toxic dynamic.
Its even more disgusting because was against an "American" woman being the second wife, and forbade it, which means she's all too eager for a WoC to basically be a "breeder", which is what she basically described them as. To dehumanize someone, another woman, in order to make yourself feel better.. it doesn't sit right with me at all.
Omg , she really convinces herself that this relationship is OKAY , to her THIS is the best relationship she’s ever been in. According to her she is finally being put first , IMAGINE how bad her other relationships been !? She doesn’t know how a great / healthy relationship feels like .
Kim, it's not about viewers loving or hating you. You need to love and respect yourself. Instead of spending your money on Usman get a good therapist. You have the audacity to say other women should propose!!! My daughter and I like the same tv shows and food!!! Wow what a soul mate. This is my last comment on this delusional woman. I hope someone advises the young girls family who Usman really is. His mother's cousin is talking her words about her son without questions. Hopefully there's a father, uncle, brother who will check Usman out for themselves.
Lol....the most US play he gets is on an occasional episode on TLC!....& that right there is the problem! He really wants to be an INTERNATIONAL SUPERSTAR and he realizes that he needs a conduit; kim
It took Usman but 30 seconds to forget about kim, when he saw the beautiful young lady. Before Usman left kim to meet new lady, he said it will take him a LONG to make a connection. It took Usman 30 seconds to make a connection with new girl.
Lol funny thing is they probably don't even show the same shows over there that we have over here. And especially at her age, I'm sure she grew up watching leave it to beaver or some $hit, he wouldn't even get that show.
@@ejayemm right if I was Melica I would have said “oh really name one” because I they are so NOT on the same page and Kim has mentioned not liking the food/to spicy in other episodes. She is just tripping over her own lies to save face
@@rh7968 exactly, she has already lied to herself too many times and she can't even keep up with them anymore. The biggest lie she might believe is that usman actually "loves" her smdh
The fact Kim said the baby would CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS with her… already tells me she just wants the thought of Usman and just having a relationship… GIRL that man is MUSLIM, the mother of the Child would be MUSLIM, celebrating CHRISTMAS should NOT even escape her mouth… she is delusional
Great interview as always melcia Kimberly is the reflexion of the absence of self love to a point that she is blind sided ,and in denial. It's like addiction, you stop being the person to become the addict....
I can’t wait for Kim to see the young, beautiful and regal woman Usman went to meet. She’s definitely wife number one. Usman right away asked her for her phone number 😂
Kim and Usman done already made some arrangement. I can tell by her comments. Spending three weeks with someone is like falling in love at summer camp😂
He's talkin many children with another woman, and she's talkin marriage, he's not having 1 baby, wats he gonna leave the mother and kids to pay around with Kim???
Kim needs therapy. Her need to tell us about her past relationships where she was pushed to the side tells me she has yet to unpack WHY. Kim isn’t a victim she’s a pickme.
Nothing changes her desperation. You can't script stupidity when it comes to Jenny,Ed,Kim and Angela. They're just putting on a act to keep their so called fake storyline going until there's no more storyline to tell. I'm so sick and tired of the excuses and the lies that comes out of their mouths.
How can she truly love him when she don’t LOVE HERSELF!! She is obsessed with him , how can she have anything in common with a 33 year old . She needs to stop!! She likes The “D” and she probably going down on him but I bet he ain’t doing her !! One sides , unrequited
She really believes herself...so sad she's wasting time on him. She needs to love him enough to let him go live his life. I think she has this idea hes coming to the US with her and she'll manage his career. Thats not happening 😕
Kim proposed to Usman because she imagined it would prevent him going to meet the young lady, or maybe she even imagined it meant that she would be the 1st wife. Amazing how quickly Kim has changed her mind about being involved in Usman's children lives. Usman knows Kim will always give in.
I'm not convinced 😕IMO I think she's hung up on the excitement and experience of him not being an American, and she can call him an international "superstar"
He's not even a celebrity in Africa wtf does she think he's a international superstar!!! Kim you need a makeover and major plastic surgery. She's not in the same league as his new girl. She's absolutely stunning and beautiful, the exact opposite of Kim
@@junereader7230 I think she talks like that bc she's so old she thinks it makes her sound younger, like when she says yo... B you're in your 50s remove that word from your vocabulary
Oh Kim. Believe me, I know you love him but he doesn't love you back. Please quit with the gifts. It's like you are so desperate to be loved. What has he done for you?? You are doing all the heavy lifting. It's toyally one sided.
Kim, I honestly, don't think you're in the top 5 let alone being 2nd. There are so many men in California to choose. He's not going to make you number 1, and I feel by you telling him that you will be there no matter what will make you, his doormat.
"Im not gonna be made second priority" Okay Kim. Youve been saying this all season. Youre delusional and u are and will ALWAYS be anything but his forst priority
I am reading all the comments and I don't disagree with anyone. She needs to be institutionalized to save her from false delusions. Maybe 👀 this is all scripted and made for TV. At least Lisa was smarter and recognized a scammer when she saw one.
She proposed to him bc if she did that she thought he wouldn't go meet this other chick. She even gave him guilt about it. Which it was incredibly rude of him to see her w Kimbaaaaaly there. And w Kimbaaaaaly saying "1st wife or nothing else" in one breath, then "I'm not going anywhere" the next. She will never be the 1st wife bc BGLISA was the 1st wife. Usman is a jerk who just wants to get to the US to pursue his non-existent career. Seeing her school girl stary eyed like that is embarrassing. Polr Jamal. His reaction said it all
When he left to see the potential wife: Kim: "I love you." Userman (Usman): "Bye, babe." No love there. Kim is a means to an end for him. The mother repeatedly says that she doesn't want Userman to move to the United States, so she disapproves of an American wife. This is a 🔥 mess and Kim needs to extricate herself from it.
The issue here is she’s ‘in love’. Unfortunately love really truly is blind. However she sounds contradictory saying words like ‘I deserve to be happy too and I love him’. Make it make sense. Sometimes ‘love’ is another word for desperation, low self esteem. I hope she sees the light. I guess it’ll have to take him hurting her badly so she can finally see that this ain’t love. SMH
I wonder if she cried as much on her “private “ visit as she did on the shows visit. The next time you interview her can you ask why she always says i win? Is there a competition and if so whats her price cause he sure ain’t it. Smh
No she sits there and lies to Kim about her “beauty.” She’s way to bias. The show needs a nonbias host. Shaun is clues-less. They do need a new host but not Melicia.
@@marriejames01 Shaun never holds anyone accountable and is always biased towards the American cast. Melicia held Kim accountable for her actions and just because she complemented her knowing her confidence has wavered since Usman’s comments doesn’t mean she’s a liar. After all beauty is subjective.
Why is it the whole viewing audience can see he's always been in it for the GREEN CARD. With Kim and Lisa. If she only knew how we clearly see her desperation. Class A example of "love is blind".
I remember.... They were out eating.... And she complained that the food was very spicy and his response was not even sympathetic. This makes me feel she has created this delusional relationship which does not exit
That's exactly it! Kim thinks they're way more then they really are. He told her she's ugly and she's still there. Maybe she's use to hearing that her whole life but if I heard that I'd leave asap
Kim, Usman makes you feel like you're not sacrificing enough bc he wants you to sacrifice so much more for him. And then he'll dump you. Don't be stubborn, ppl warning you are not jealous, they mean you well.
Make sure he loves you the most?!? Trust and believe when he's with his "second wife" who has his family's blessing, is attractive, is young, and pregnant with his child he won't be thinking about her once.
Mama Usman and Mama Beauty Woman will set about with some glorious wedding plans and Kim had better not try to interfere. She is an outsider and should not raise their ire.
I am a second of three wives. Helping the first wife co-parent has made us bond SO well. My husband even said her and I act more like a married couple than he does with either of us. At the end of the day, I don't see it as HER kids and MY kids- they are my husband's kids. So I definelty think she would bond with the other wife through Usman's child. However Usman is not a quality man, especially as someone who should have some standards that are based in Islam. 😂😂😂
Exactly! And thats how it should be. It disgusts me that she doesn't have love for the other person, and basically thinks of the other woman as just a breeder. Theyre human too!
@@sabrinaxstrange I don't think she thinks of the woman as a breeder. I think she feels inadequate because she cannot personally give Usman everything he wants and needs, despite how much she loves him. So there is possibly some jealousy there because the other wife can give him something thatnshe can't, so there is a fear that it will make him love the other wife more because of the child.
For people not raised in your culture or religion this kind of arrangement is just terrible. I could never live a life like that and Im not surprised Kim wants no bonding like that either. Good luck to you though and all the best.
@@nimfiechan I am a white convert. I converted at 22 (I am now 27). Before Islam, I was a Pagan who had a TS/SCI as a translator in the military who was outsourced to the NSA. My parents are both Atheists with Christian backgrounds. My dad has killed Muslims (worked for Blackwater and other companies when I was a child; ex Army special forces). He is a MAGA. My mother is a hard core pro-LGBt ally and is super liberal. So, I wasn't raised in anything that would lead me to where I am today.
Wait until she is home alone and he is home falling in love or marrying, or on baby watch with the other wife. I would rather be alone the rest of my life than lower myself to settle for that. Kim, wake the heck UP. She needs to think about her humiliated son watching his mom degrade herself so far down. Did Useman wear his brand new engagement ring to meet the new girl?
And after throwing a drink at him she tells his friend "that's really not me" Uh, yeah it is!! She says "I SWEAR TO GOD" I'm not proposing bcause he is going to meet the other woman, then immediately says "well maybe a little". She's gross, desperate and a liar.
Wake up, there is no such thing as a first or second wife.. All wife's are equal. Only if you have your children in the house as well. Kim lives in a dream world.. Her poor son is so ashamed of her.
My own mother is like this....I've lost count of the number of ridiculous but well intentioned schemes I've had to talk her out of....I feel for her son
I feel like Kim is trying to convince not only the viewers but herself of the "relationship" they have. I really hope this all for show and to make money and not what she really thinks to be real life "soulmate" like she said.
Okay girl, you do you. I am curious to know how she felt seeing him not wearing his engagement ring when he went to see his future 1st wife the following day. Didn't he leave where they were together to go see her and was he wearing it when he left?
She bought him flowers upon meeting, begged for sex, lavished him with gifts, then got on one knee and proposed to him. As good as she thought her intentions were, she downgraded herself, emasculated him, and removed his opportunity to seduce her, which he probably would not have anyway. He literally kisses the gifts she buys him more than he kisses her. She needs to WTFU.
Though now its getting more common for women to court men but Kim is just embarrassing. Usman is from a culture where men initiate and dominate in relationship, so if he's not initiating anything, it's really cos usman doesn't like her and is ultra confident he can make Kim twirl around his fingers without any effort.
@@jasg771 he's not in love with her, she looks like bigfoot, she's ugly, bad tempered, domineering, always angry, violent outbursts, she has to bed for sex, yeah cause she's a major turn off. i don't blame him for not wanting to kiss her in public, who would..F that.
Oh Marcia 😂
What does wtfu mean
@@iStorm-my5fp Wake the F up
It's so sad to watch her try to convince herself that Usman loves her.
He seems to at least pretend to
@@notjulianne87 he's not in love with her, its not romantic, i never heard him say "i'm in love with you"..just saying "i love you"..isn't the same, i say that to my friends and family, he won't even kiss her in public, there's no affection and romance, they're like friends and lets face it, she's ugly, she looks like herman munster, she acts manly, she's bad tempered, domineering, definately not feminine.
Usman loves her money 😂
Is she serious it's only 2 years an you propose to usman because your desperate an needy obviously he's going to marry that younger chick that can give him kids kim is just wasting time it's not ment to be at all
🤣🤣🤣🤣
someone please give a reality check to Kim ! YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE SWEETHEART KIM ! please stop riding the bandwagon of desperation !! Leave the guy Use-man! and go back to states ; find someone who makes you happy and prioritizes you!
hey she gets a lot of PR time so why wreck that keep the hype going Kim and Usman get paid for this! Like a live soap opera
Exacly!!
Very well said!!! Kimbaaaaaly is absolutely 💯 delusional!! Plus, she says they've been together for TWO yrs. Usman didn't file for divorce till Dec 2021? She needs to listen to her handsome son
Yep.. Debby managed to get someone
Yeah. True. She deserves better for sure.
Oh Kim :( For the sake of that poor, innocent 18 year old girl, and yourself. Please walk away from this. You deserve true happiness and inner peace, and you will NEVER get that with Usman.
Kim leaving the relationship will not save that girl, if it’s not loser usman it will be another guy, possibly older man that will barter with the mother for her.
It’s a whole different way of living over there we can’t always comprehend.
@@rh7968 yeah usman is 15 years older than that girl, and Kim is only 18 years older than him. So same age difference and I think in both cases just as bad.
@@hpoplick1 right how hypocritical
Kim we don't love you or hate you we feel sorry for you.
I don't feel sorry for her. She created this . .
Kim is a great example of how women break their own hearts, pursuing nonsense that does not serve them.
@@tbonetmjful I know right? Her friends warned her from the start and she refused to believe them and took them for granted.
@@tbonetmjful lmao exactly how I feel
She gets so excited when Malicia said 'superstar' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is obsessed with what she wants him to be and not for what he is.
Right he's not even a superstar in Africa wtf does she call him a international superstar. Nobody in America listens to him except kim
Exactly!! Sort of delusional. Kim and baby girl Lizard have him thinking he's burna boy
@@alongfellow4147 😂😂😂😂 she knows the words to all of his songs too
@@Chosenones572 that is sooooo so pathetically sad 🙄
This woman lives in her own reality. Doesn't think before she "acts", she's too OLD to be this foolish.
She’s not even thinking about how she’s embarrassing her son!!! What about him? This is so sad
She’s out of reality. She’s delusional. She contradicts herself 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Thank you!!!! She says "I can't do this or that" then usman does what he wants bc he knows she's desperate and will do anything he says. She'll never leave Kim is a sexual predator that is very hard on the eye
Yup 💯 her mouth says one thing, her actions another 🙄
Exactly !!!!
I just wrote this !
shes crazy omfg
Poor Kim. She is clueless. Clearly she doesn’t know what it feels like to be pursued and loved by a man. 😢
& whoever did her hair, what did they do to it?? Looks the same…I’m sure she can find a decent hair stylist…Hell, I’d look 100 times better with the right help
She looks nice
She doesn’t, she seems to play the man’s role. So sad!! &Usman loves the attention but he isn’t giving her the same in return. He’s like..how far will this woman go? Give them this man an opportunity to step up& be a man. Love you, show you love, respect and pursue you.
@@jeanakatherine9369 I thought she looked better in the interview with Melicia than I’ve ever seen her
@@jeanakatherine9369 lighter color though, with more shades in it, which she desperately needed
All of her reasons for wanting to marry him sound so childish 🤣 “he’s funny” “we like the same stuff” … girl what??
talking abt food & tv shows like how abt him as a person?? 😭
That’s a perfectly normal response. I also want to have things in common with the person I want to marry!
😂😂😂😂
@@katieyamanaka7042 yeah but those are easy… I can lie and say I like the same tv show just for the sake of agreeing.. she needs to dig deeper
@@katieyamanaka7042 she should’ve been able to brag abt things like how well he handles her heart, how great him & her son get along, how she feels secure and happy enough in the relationship to take it to the next step etc .. Not food and tv shows like i said . lol
Kim is so used to being a doormat it’s imbedded into her nothing anyone says is going to change her mind.
Is she forgetting she still has a loving and concerned son, Jamal, still around? 🤔😂😂😫
This is a true statement above all others. She needs to put herself first..TOP PRIORITY!! She doesn’t understand what true love is, she’s too busy giving but doesn’t know how to receive. She gives a lot of excuses and want people to like her so much..she needs to like herself. Boundaries are so healthy but she doesn’t even know the definition of it. She sets herself up for the kill & then cry but she’s knows the consequences. Whew Lord, it’s exhausting!!
You can tell she’s lived a sad life. It’s permanently etched into her face.
She always wants acceptance she ALWAYS ALWAYS says "I'm a nice person ". Beloved, it takes more than that..
She's nice generally, except when she threw water at usman
@dorian norman 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 a person who always has to proclaim what they are is a red flag
@@shanette247 Exactly!!
@@jasg771 You don't have to convince anyone. Like grandma said "The proof is in the pudding. " In other words it'll show on its own
When he said "I love you to baby", his face contorted. Its like he's trying to convince himself. He knows now that he can walk all over her. She will accept anything.
Her smile tells me she HASN'T seen the hot 18 y.o. yet lol
I think so too hahaha
lol no she hasn't
From personal experience never go with your heart and soul you'll waste your time.
Go with how that person treats you.
Go with what you see them do for you and to you.
THIS!!!!
Yes, this!
Watching Kim be delusional in real time must’ve been the BIGGEST second hand embarrassment 🤦🏽♀️
Listen they like the same tv shows and food they're obviously meant to be😐
Right!
Kim, u said that u and Usman watched 📺, liked the same food 🍱 like the singing, etc. In both sessions I never saw u both eating or watching 📺. I saw a lot of fighting back/forth. I do not like to travel over 24 hrs, by myself and into a country that I have never visited or researched. My sister is a Vet in GA, and after she got her doctorate, she went to Zaire to help with the animals there for 9 mths. She then flew to Australia to work with their animals for 3 mths and then returned 🏡. What I am trying to say is that u should have read 🆙before going there. Kim, I think that u need to have time with Yourself. I do agree that u compromised a lot for Usman. I never saw him by flowers for u, 📞to see how u were doing, paying attn to You, etc. The only thing that he bought for u is 2 stuffed animals. U pd for a bull/cow, u pd for your ✈️ ticket, Laptop, PlayStation, clothes, jewelry, hotel and God knows what else. I know that u want someone to ❤️u so bad that at times, it brings tears to my eyes 👀. The person that u need to work on is yourself and the rest will fall into place It is not going to happen overnight, etc., but u will get there. I do not agree with the verbal/emotional abuse for either u or him. When u look back on the videos, I think that u r going to say to yourself “I cannot believe that I said or did that.” Read what the followers said about u and Usman as well as watching the show on 📺. Look at the way his family treated u. I have never heard of marrying my paternal cousin. I think Usman as well as his family needs to have common sense. I do like the new color of your hair, but if u can go back and get a lighter brown on u, it will look great.
Oh it is 😑
Watching Kim and how she took "thirsty" to a whole nother level makes Darcey look a little more stable. She's surpassed Darcey, Jenny, and Danielle 🤦🏽♀️
It's like watching a child explain how much she loves Disney Princes smh
im dyin of laughter. that was funny. becuz its soo true! excellent analogy!
right. She sounds like me in 2nd grade with my Danny Phantom obsession
@@kiyah540 Danny Phantom was so dope !
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Ha! 💯
Always love how Melicia tries to share her own personal experiences to relate to the people she interviews, it’s just so heartwarming and hints at the kind of person she is. MELICIA, YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE STAR AND WE LOVE YOU! ✨ ✨ ✨
Right ✅️
She could have ask the harder questions and not these easy questions
@@Star-kq6om Agree 100%. But I suspect if she asked real/hard questions, she'd never get another interview with this delusional woman. So, I think she has to ask the easy questions so that Kim will be agree to be interviewed by Melicia again.
I’m not feeling her hair but hey I’m not wearing it
@@buoy5579
Then she doesnt need to be interviewed lol. If she isnt going to ask any substantial questions, then who cares about what kim says or wants? Don't interview her then. Who is Kim? Some celebrity who gets to control the narrative? Nope she's a sad woman on reality tv.
Kim seems very nice but her desperation is so apparent. Kim move on and find someone who will treat you like a queen. There should be no first wife and second wife. Be the only wife, you deserve that.
Thank you! 💯
I agree she should move on but let's face it ladies, no man treats us like queens. Better off being alone.
How about letting him explain why he wants to marry you
Kim didnt clarify the Handsmaids tale situation at all. All she did was confirm that she really does thinks she is going to get a handsmaid tale out of a second wife for usman. Kim is messed up in the head to treat another woman like that (considering she is a woman herself) and I feel sorry for the poor girl who falls prey to this messed up couples toxic dynamic.
Exactly! Her and Angela r truly disturbing
Exactly she is Super Werid
Agree 100%. Well said.
Definitely is just mad to think like that for another woman
Its even more disgusting because was against an "American" woman being the second wife, and forbade it, which means she's all too eager for a WoC to basically be a "breeder", which is what she basically described them as. To dehumanize someone, another woman, in order to make yourself feel better.. it doesn't sit right with me at all.
Omg , she really convinces herself that this relationship is OKAY , to her THIS is the best relationship she’s ever been in. According to her she is finally being put first , IMAGINE how bad her other relationships been !? She doesn’t know how a great / healthy relationship feels like .
Damn as much as I don't want to be alone, don't beg for someone to be with you
I feel like she’s trying to convince other people so much that she ends up losing faith herself and then doubles back to convince herself
She's not in love w Usman. She's in love w SojaBoy. Every time she says his name she has to add "international superstar aka SojaBoy"🙄🙄🙄🙄
Why did usman marry baby lisa even though his mother didn't give him the blessing?
But to marry Kim he needs his mother's blessing? 😄
K-1 visa🙄 and he is approaching it differently this time
Baby Lisa 🤣
She did give the blessing . At first she didn't but then she did.
Oh hell no! Please don't get me started on Lisa! That racist! 🤬
Just because you have a lot in common doesn’t mean your soulmates kim
So true !! 😅🤣😂
they like the same food so theyre obviously soulmates
Kim, it's not about viewers loving or hating you. You need to love and respect yourself.
Instead of spending your money on Usman get a good therapist.
You have the audacity to say other women should propose!!!
My daughter and I like the same tv shows and food!!! Wow what a soul mate.
This is my last comment on this delusional woman.
I hope someone advises the young girls family who Usman really is. His mother's cousin is talking her words about her son without questions.
Hopefully there's a father, uncle, brother who will check Usman out for themselves.
Usman thinks he is gods gift to woman,he is delusional and a user ..
“International Superstar!” lol I must be missing something.
Lol....the most US play he gets is on an occasional episode on TLC!....& that right there is the problem! He really wants to be an INTERNATIONAL SUPERSTAR and he realizes that he needs a conduit; kim
She doesn’t notice the difference between how Usman looks at her and how he looked at Fareedt? Huge differences.
Yes!
It took Usman but 30 seconds to forget about kim, when he saw the beautiful young lady. Before Usman left kim to meet new lady, he said it will take him a LONG to make a connection. It took Usman 30 seconds to make a connection with new girl.
I'm so sick of her. She's just hard up for a man. Trust n believe that Usman is going to chose his mom's choice
“We have so many things in common… we like the same tv shows and food! 🥰”
Ummm what, girl is like 50 something acting like a 15 year old with a crush.
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Yeah embarrassing
Lol funny thing is they probably don't even show the same shows over there that we have over here. And especially at her age, I'm sure she grew up watching leave it to beaver or some $hit, he wouldn't even get that show.
@@ejayemm right if I was Melica I would have said “oh really name one” because I they are so NOT on the same page and Kim has mentioned not liking the food/to spicy in other episodes. She is just tripping over her own lies to save face
@@rh7968 exactly, she has already lied to herself too many times and she can't even keep up with them anymore. The biggest lie she might believe is that usman actually "loves" her smdh
Nothing could make me like Kim after her saying Nigerian women are raised to be breeders. Kim can kick rocks
Kim he doesn’t even want to kiss your lips! He’s physically repulsed by you, move on!
Omg 💯 agree 😲
The fact Kim said the baby would CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS with her… already tells me she just wants the thought of Usman and just having a relationship… GIRL that man is MUSLIM, the mother of the Child would be MUSLIM, celebrating CHRISTMAS should NOT even escape her mouth… she is delusional
Great interview as always melcia
Kimberly is the reflexion of the absence of self love to a point that she is blind sided ,and in denial.
It's like addiction, you stop being the person to become the addict....
I can’t wait for Kim to see the young, beautiful and regal woman Usman went to meet. She’s definitely wife number one. Usman right away asked her for her phone number 😂
except she is an 18 yr old girl who he is 15 years older than
@@hpoplick1 perfect prey for him then...🤮🤦♀️
I think he’ll be bored personally
Kim and Usman done already made some arrangement. I can tell by her comments. Spending three weeks with someone is like falling in love at summer camp😂
They both want to be on TV.
He's talkin many children with another woman, and she's talkin marriage, he's not having 1 baby, wats he gonna leave the mother and kids to pay around with Kim???
Kim needs therapy. Her need to tell us about her past relationships where she was pushed to the side tells me she has yet to unpack WHY. Kim isn’t a victim she’s a pickme.
Nothing changes her desperation. You can't script stupidity when it comes to Jenny,Ed,Kim and Angela. They're just putting on a act to keep their so called fake storyline going until there's no more storyline to tell. I'm so sick and tired of the excuses and the lies that comes out of their mouths.
How can she truly love him when she don’t LOVE HERSELF!! She is obsessed with him , how can she have anything in common with a 33 year old . She needs to stop!! She likes The “D” and she probably going down on him but I bet he ain’t doing her !! One sides , unrequited
You know he's not
She really believes herself...so sad she's wasting time on him. She needs to love him enough to let him go live his life.
I think she has this idea hes coming to the US with her and she'll manage his career. Thats not happening 😕
Kim proposed to Usman because she imagined it would prevent him going to meet the young lady, or maybe she even imagined it meant that she would be the 1st wife. Amazing how quickly Kim has changed her mind about being involved in Usman's children lives. Usman knows Kim will always give in.
I'm not convinced 😕IMO I think she's hung up on the excitement and experience of him not being an American, and she can call him an international "superstar"
More evidence she's stuck as a teenager. She refers to her son as a good dude, instead of a good young man or good son.
Exactly Bomb Beauti.
@@junereader7230 yeah that was weird. My son is twenty and I would never refer to him as a "dude". wtf 😳
He's not even a celebrity in Africa wtf does she think he's a international superstar!!! Kim you need a makeover and major plastic surgery. She's not in the same league as his new girl. She's absolutely stunning and beautiful, the exact opposite of Kim
@@junereader7230 I think she talks like that bc she's so old she thinks it makes her sound younger, like when she says yo... B you're in your 50s remove that word from your vocabulary
Oh Kim. Believe me, I know you love him but he doesn't love you back. Please quit with the gifts. It's like you are so desperate to be loved. What has he done for you?? You are doing all the heavy lifting. It's toyally one sided.
Kim, I honestly, don't think you're in the top 5 let alone being 2nd. There are so many men in California to choose. He's not going to make you number 1, and I feel by you telling him that you will be there no matter what will make you, his doormat.
We do know that Usman has a sense of humor as he is still with you.
Stop lying to her, she is not beautiful!
My advice to Kim is “Stop crossing oceans for people that won’t jump a puddle for you.”
"Im not gonna be made second priority"
Okay Kim. Youve been saying this all season. Youre delusional and u are and will ALWAYS be anything but his forst priority
He is a star in his own mind only
Let's make a drinking game, take a shot everytime Kim says "Y'know?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol she thinks Usman is a international superstar 😂😂😂😂😂
He doesn’t even want her. He likes that she likes him.
Exactly!! She feeds his narcissism imo 🤷♀️
What makes us think that the beautiful Fareedet would want a woman her grandma's age anywhere around her young family?
I am reading all the comments and I don't disagree with anyone. She needs to be institutionalized to save her from false delusions. Maybe 👀 this is all scripted and made for TV. At least Lisa was smarter and recognized a scammer when she saw one.
No Kim..No one is snapping, Ok Girl*
Shaking heads while you make an even bigger fool of yourself, huge difference. 🤦🏻♀️
She sounds delusional. I hope she wakes up before she wasted all her money and her time on someone who is playing her.
She proposed to him bc if she did that she thought he wouldn't go meet this other chick. She even gave him guilt about it. Which it was incredibly rude of him to see her w Kimbaaaaaly there. And w Kimbaaaaaly saying "1st wife or nothing else" in one breath, then "I'm not going anywhere" the next. She will never be the 1st wife bc BGLISA was the 1st wife. Usman is a jerk who just wants to get to the US to pursue his non-existent career. Seeing her school girl stary eyed like that is embarrassing. Polr Jamal. His reaction said it all
Kim 👉 Usman has a great sense of humor. He is so funny 🤣 F.R.I.E.N.D.S - Joey to his niece : "You got pregnant for "funny"? Dina…if he's funny…LAUGH!
When he left to see the potential wife:
Kim: "I love you."
Userman (Usman): "Bye, babe."
No love there. Kim is a means to an end for him.
The mother repeatedly says that she doesn't want Userman to move to the United States, so she disapproves of an American wife.
This is a 🔥 mess and Kim needs to extricate herself from it.
If I just got my hair done and it looked like hers I'd insist on getting my money back!
Exactly... and she slurs when she speaks . She is delusional. She can't love him bcuz she doesn't love herself
😂
Omg 💯 😄
Be nice ..lol 😂
Kim’s living in her own world 😂 Jesus Christ
The issue here is she’s ‘in love’. Unfortunately love really truly is blind. However she sounds contradictory saying words like ‘I deserve to be happy too and I love him’. Make it make sense. Sometimes ‘love’ is another word for desperation, low self esteem. I hope she sees the light. I guess it’ll have to take him hurting her badly so she can finally see that this ain’t love. SMH
But trust me if he gets that chance to fly 27 hrs to the US that's the last of him you'll see kim
I wonder if she cried as much on her “private “ visit as she did on the shows visit. The next time you interview her can you ask why she always says i win? Is there a competition and if so whats her price cause he sure ain’t it. Smh
Kim seems to be a very good person..this whole Usman thing is so sad to watch
Petition for Melicia to host the reunion
No she sits there and lies to Kim about her “beauty.” She’s way to bias. The show needs a nonbias host. Shaun is clues-less. They do need a new host but not Melicia.
@@marriejames01 Shaun never holds anyone accountable and is always biased towards the American cast. Melicia held Kim accountable for her actions and just because she complemented her knowing her confidence has wavered since Usman’s comments doesn’t mean she’s a liar. After all beauty is subjective.
At this point, I can't feel sorry for her.. I just can't 😖😖
She TELLS you that she is a good person. Yeah right! Arrested for passing bad checks = theft. Marrying a jailed murderer. OK.
This man is hardly a regional superstar Kim, get a grip pls😂😂😂😂
Why is it the whole viewing audience can see he's always been in it for the GREEN CARD. With Kim and Lisa. If she only knew how we clearly see her desperation. Class A example of "love is blind".
I remember.... They were out eating.... And she complained that the food was very spicy and his response was not even sympathetic.
This makes me feel she has created this delusional relationship which does not exit
My point exactly
That's exactly it! Kim thinks they're way more then they really are. He told her she's ugly and she's still there. Maybe she's use to hearing that her whole life but if I heard that I'd leave asap
@@alongfellow4147 I completely agree
She has to beg for sex. That on itself screams NOT interested in her.
Kim, Usman makes you feel like you're not sacrificing enough bc he wants you to sacrifice so much more for him. And then he'll dump you.
Don't be stubborn, ppl warning you are not jealous, they mean you well.
Looking at her be delusional is sad holy cow it’s sad when everyone else can see it but she can’t
Make sure he loves you the most?!?
Trust and believe when he's with his "second wife" who has his family's blessing, is attractive, is young, and pregnant with his child he won't be thinking about her once.
She reminds me of Herman Munster 😂
yeah she looks like herman munster, to make it worse she's' domineering, bad tempered and super jealous.
So he's Ha Ha funny and you two eat the same foods and that makes you soulmates? Kim you deserve a big trophy for acting like a 15 yr old, you do.
So glad she fixed her hair differently. I hope she learns to value herself more. Best wishes to her.
Mama Usman and Mama Beauty Woman will set about with some glorious wedding plans and Kim had better not try to interfere. She is an outsider and should not raise their ire.
I am a second of three wives. Helping the first wife co-parent has made us bond SO well. My husband even said her and I act more like a married couple than he does with either of us.
At the end of the day, I don't see it as HER kids and MY kids- they are my husband's kids. So I definelty think she would bond with the other wife through Usman's child.
However Usman is not a quality man, especially as someone who should have some standards that are based in Islam.
😂😂😂
Exactly! And thats how it should be. It disgusts me that she doesn't have love for the other person, and basically thinks of the other woman as just a breeder. Theyre human too!
@@sabrinaxstrange
I don't think she thinks of the woman as a breeder. I think she feels inadequate because she cannot personally give Usman everything he wants and needs, despite how much she loves him.
So there is possibly some jealousy there because the other wife can give him something thatnshe can't, so there is a fear that it will make him love the other wife more because of the child.
For people not raised in your culture or religion this kind of arrangement is just terrible. I could never live a life like that and Im not surprised Kim wants no bonding like that either. Good luck to you though and all the best.
@@nimfiechan
I am a white convert. I converted at 22 (I am now 27). Before Islam, I was a Pagan who had a TS/SCI as a translator in the military who was outsourced to the NSA. My parents are both Atheists with Christian backgrounds. My dad has killed Muslims (worked for Blackwater and other companies when I was a child; ex Army special forces). He is a MAGA. My mother is a hard core pro-LGBt ally and is super liberal.
So, I wasn't raised in anything that would lead me to where I am today.
A true "superstar" would never be interested in a "superfan". I can't take this relationship seriously. Ugh.
Kim is not a nice person. I see her for who she really is. Her and Use-Man deserve each other.
Wait until she is home alone and he is home falling in love or marrying, or on baby watch with the other wife. I would rather be alone the rest of my life than lower myself to settle for that. Kim, wake the heck UP. She needs to think about her humiliated son watching his mom degrade herself so far down. Did Useman wear his brand new engagement ring to meet the new girl?
"I am going to be myself always, now let me explain how that wasn't me when I got negative reviews."
And after throwing a drink at him she tells his friend "that's really not me"
Uh, yeah it is!!
She says "I SWEAR TO GOD" I'm not proposing bcause he is going to meet the other woman, then immediately says "well maybe a little". She's gross, desperate and a liar.
She’s his only fan😂 …
Hahaha
Yes!!!😅🤣😂
Wake up, there is no such thing as a first or second wife.. All wife's are equal. Only if you have your children in the house as well.
Kim lives in a dream world.. Her poor son is so ashamed of her.
He loves himself enough to let it happen!! Sex,TV,and food doesn't make a marriage.
My own mother is like this....I've lost count of the number of ridiculous but well intentioned schemes I've had to talk her out of....I feel for her son
I’m so sorry you go through this.
She continues to say she loves him. Has anyone asked her what love is and how it looks to her?
The journalist is asking great questions
Tired of “you know what I mean”! She needs help
International superstar 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That Voodoo really worked.🤣🤣🤣🤣😳😳
I feel like Kim is trying to convince not only the viewers but herself of the "relationship" they have. I really hope this all for show and to make money and not what she really thinks to be real life "soulmate" like she said.
This is beyond ridiculous.
international super star? where? what planet? it's so clear and she is so sad, both are delusional.
Kim you just said the relationship is one sided MOST OF THE TIME
Okay girl, you do you. I am curious to know how she felt seeing him not wearing his engagement ring when he went to see his future 1st wife the following day. Didn't he leave where they were together to go see her and was he wearing it when he left?
he was wearing it wen he was dressing, but not wen he was meeting young proposed wife
Yup, he was! But it wasn't on when he met the new girl. No surprise there!