Mastering Your Unique Style with Rita {style thoughts by Rita}
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- A very special episode of the Style POV podcast! Style chat with Rita from the Style Key system and Style Thoughts by Rita.
We dig into what is authentic personal style, how to use style systems and group communities to your benefit, and hone into our philosophies on what style can do for you. Plus we answer some listener questions and talk about our own journeys with personal style.
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Style Cycles Video by Rita: • How to improve your st...
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✨THE ✨TH-cam ✨ COLLAB ✨ OF ✨ DREAMS ✨
Totally 💯 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊❤😊😊❤❤❤
YAY! I'm so glad to hear this!
Omg are you serious!!!! I’m so happy to see a collab from you both 😍😍😍
Rita is amazing! It was so fun talking to her
@@GabriellearrudadesignI’m so happy you had fun talking to her!! I feel like you have different ways of thinking but a lot of shared values when it comes to style, it made this so interesting 😊 And really affirming too. Hearing you both talk about how low stakes style is is such a relief after growing up in a controlling religious group. Now that I’ve mostly left it doesn’t have many consequences for me anymore! It really is mainly about me because it’s my body, it’s so nice!!!!
Yes I totally see that. We have different techniques but I think we both truly value a connection in personal style. And that it should be serving the wearer, giving them something beautiful and joyful. That's a really powerful transition you underwent, and I think it's so cool to hear how your style has evolved and how you reclaimed it
Yes. My 2 favorites
The best crossover ever 🥰 You are both glowing with your beautiful, unique energies. I'm so excited!
Thank you! I hope you love the episode because I had so much fun speaking with her
2 of my favourite stylists together 😀
yay! Rita is amazing, I so excited to talk to her
The most ambitious crossover ever
Ha, I know! I feel like we barely scratched the surface, we could have talked all day
I loved the part about talking about outside opinions and feedback on your style or energy.
I loved her system because her system was the only system that did not rely on how you are perceived. Her's focused on what you are trying to project or communicate.
Yes, her system is so unique, it's fantastic
MY DREAM COME TRUEEEE. Ahhh!!! Loved to see these faces together. 💗💗💗💗
I was so honored she would do this with me, it was a blast! I plan to have more guests so if you have any future guest requests, let me know!
I looove the tip for beginners about taking just ONE thing you like about yourself and using that to experiment with your style!
I love the way I decorate my house with textures, vintage finds and natural elements and colours, so I think I might lean into this and just experiment with ‘dressing like my home’!
That sounds like a great strategy to explore!
omg!!!!!! Best Crossover ever ever ever !🌞 makes me so happy to see you two collaborating!
It was so fun! Let me know if you want anyone else to be a guest on the podcast because it was such a fun process to make this with her
Oh my my my, what a time to be alive: my favorite stylist in a single vid ❤❤❤❤
🤗🤗 hope you love it
Yes, please do it again! There's so much joy in listening to the both of you 🙂
Thank you! We will try 🤗
Are you kiddingggg me??! I love Rita! ❤ So happy for this collab! 🥳
Me too! She’s great!
Just want to say thank you both sooo much for the graceful input. It was so encouraging and enjoyable to hear you both sharing. I find both your channels really helpful and affirming. Thank you both. Much love
I’m so glad to hear this! It was so fun to collaborate
thank you 🌻
I couldn't believe my email so I just rushed to see if it was true and it is!
I can't see it right now but I already pressed the “like” button because I know I will love it! Can't wait to come back and sit with a cup of tea and enjoy this.
Thank you, thank you! 🙌
Hope you love it! 🤗🤗
Clicked on this collab so fast!! Also, I was able to reevaluate my color season as spring from autumn thanks to your recent discovery and it has transformed my style and how I see myself for the better ❤
That’s so amazing!! 🤩
What a great combo! You two are brilliant apart, together it's like a fireworks display. I think, oh, great point, then another idea comes along, oh, this one is even more brilliant! 🎆😄💖
This is so amazing to hear! Thank you 🤗 it was amazing to have her join
Thank you Gabby fro introducing some of us to Rita. I just looked at her system, and it helped me already feel more genuine! You're very beautiful by the way! Much love from Spain.
She’s wonderful!! I’m so glad this helped you find her
*Awesome meeting of the Minds* . I've been subscribed to Rita and find her fascinating. Great collab!
She's so wonderful! It was an honor to get to speak with her
Soooo wonderful to see these two ladies chatting! Love you both!
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This conversation made me SO happy! Thank you!
You are so welcome! I was thrilled Rita came on the podcast 🥰
Two of my favourite style gurus in one video? Yes please!
Hope you like it! Rita was amazing to chat with
Ahhh my favorite people :)
hope you enjoy it!
I’ve been waiting for this one! I guessed Gaby was a Ruby.
Ooh, interesting! What made you guess that? Or is it so obvious haha
@@Gabriellearrudadesign I think the “Free Beauty” style statement is very Ruby. There is a sense of ease and “cool without trying” (even if you are trying) in your fits.
@@KDevilgal fun to see where our concepts intersect 🤗
This amazing collab made me go into a really good self-therapy session with questions about my self image and insecures and how I want to my style to evolve, and now I feel a lot better! Really greatful for you guys, without you my journey of self acceptance would not happen!
Great combination of thoughts!
My two favourites together talking about style was so refreshing and was great to hear your opinions. Thankyou for the collaborationxxxx
Yay! So glad you enjoyed it
Yeah! I love both of your channels!
I hope you like the episode!
Been waiting for the two of you to come together! ❤❤
It was long overdue!
This is amazing 😍 my two favorite style people ❤
😂 this!! ❤❤😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Two of my fave Kibbe loving FNs 🥰
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This was great!! I loved where this conversation went, the questions were fantastic and I feel inspired.
So glad to hear this 🤗
Hell yeah, two of my favorite channels!
This is awesome! Thank you both. ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was a very interesting conversation to listen to. I really liked that you both referenced your systems and the tools you use, but you didn't let that restrict the conversation, which in turn makes this convo relevant for a lot of different people with varying approaches to developing their style.
I would love a follow-up conversation or even a mini-series from you two 😍
I can’t tell u how excited I was for this!
I hope you love it!!
My two favourite beauties ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼✨💐💐
She's amazing, it was such an energizing conversation!
Wow, what a treat! 🍬 I've been following both of you for some time! Thanks so much for doing this collab 💗
It was such a fun experience! Let me know if you'd like any future guests on the show :)
@Gabriellearrudadesign Oh absolutely! the ladies from 'Sustain this podcast' comes to mind; Alyssa Beltempo (focuses a lot on shop my closet), also Christina Mychas and Signe Hansen (Use Less) and another youtuber I'd like to see a collab with would be Liz from beepworld 😎
Wow wow wow wow wow
I know, she's awesome!!
@@Gabriellearrudadesign you are BOTH awesome 😍
You both sync well. You are both spot on. Exactly what an individual's feeling should be regarding clothes in the priority. yes trying yes improving yes moving up yes the wins nail it. Thank you❤
Thank you! It was so fun to get to talk to her!
This is my first time seeing Rita. Super excited to check out more about her. Didn’t realize someone else could find that balance of both fun and depth in style like my fav Gabby. ❤
Gabby, you look so gorgeous in this video! Relaxed glamour, your shining smile (and somehow looking so cozy while also fresh and dance-y)... what a happy share from you and Rita! (Who also looks lovely. You two are such beautiful paintings side by side here!) I have to head out shortly but am definitely looking forward to coming back and watching this video. Yay!
This is so nice of you to say! I love that description and it fits what I was trying to convey 🤗 I hope you love the episode, Rita is amazing!
@@Gabriellearrudadesign Watched the episode now, and loved it! 😊 Took copious notes and especially appreciated the emphasis on intentionality (finding a "problem to solve"), and finding the flip side of things we're embarrassed about; learning to honour the things we liked "before other people told us they were unlikeable."
Thanks again for your content -- and being so engaged with your audience!
Yes, I loved Rita's advice to focus on what kind of makes you weird or interesting, it's truly the flavor of your style!
I have this idea of people having layers. I’m happy for whatever my child hood was I still own it in me as if I took it with me and it boiled into this
Ugh, I was just watching Rita's video 😂❤!
Ooooh, lovely ♡♡♡♡ my two favorite style youtubers!
Gaby, I'd love to see you explaing how you reached the conclusion of being in the Ruby quadrant (and your other reflections on Rita's system). Maybe in a next video?
you look so shiny with that color (lipstick and sweater ) absolutely in love witht hem
Thank you!
😂 Yes absolutely, I got such a giggle from this. I had an absolute NOOOOO response even though I can see they work.. liking it more 2 years down the track and now developing my style from the inside out. I live in the tropics and bright colours are the general uniform here - so I initially felt I would be aesthetically split from my tribe. Truth is fashion, colour and experimenting is so much fun. Loved your conversation! Thank you 🙂
It sounds like you're having fun with your style and that's amazing! Glad you enjoyed the convo!
Someone shared on Gabrielle’s FB page they asked Chat GPT to describe their appearance. Although the results can sometimes be questionable, it occurred to me that it can help to see if you are projecting what you want to with an outfit. The poster said Chat GPT said they looked elegant. When I tried it, it said friendly and approachable. Well that is something I’m trying to project and is important to me. So, I thought it can be encouraging if you are going for a certain look.
My faves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope you love it!
Omg yesss I'm so excited for this!!!!! ❤
🤗 hope you enjoyed it!
My two favourite creators 😍😍😍 This will be awesome!
duro 🔥🔥
A very wise man once said “you can’t actually capture the totality of the person in one picture it’s impossible”- David Lynchburg meaning what makes you you is all th experiences and how you react in them with your corps it’s also how you see yourself and wants people to receive you I’ve found that we all have different types of beauties in us or just specifics and even not having anything (if that’s possible) is also something to show. But everyone has an attitude towards life and periods of time all this is our soul. And clothes can’t truly express it all, but who said it’s just about the clothes that’s what I feel we get wrong. I could show you people wear the same garments but none of them looked the same. It’s lifestyle tone body type expression of philosophy mixtures and intellect. Growth comes with time your evolution was so fast you lived a lifetime.
A very wise man once said “you can’t actually capture the totality of the person in one picture it’s impossible”- David Lynchburg meaning what makes you you is all th experiences and how you react in them with your corps it’s also how you see yourself and wants people to receive you I’ve found that we all have different types of beauties in us or just specifics and even not having anything (if that’s possible) is also something to show. But everyone has an attitude towards life and periods of time all this is our soul. And clothes can’t truly express it all, but who said it’s just about the clothes that’s what I feel we get wrong. I could show you people wear the same garments but none of them looked the same. It’s lifestyle tone body type expression of philosophy mixtures and intellect. Growth comes with time your evolution was so fast you live a lifetime. I have this idea tha
Anyone else here is into mbti and cognitive functions theory think that both of them are entp type? Or at least a high Ne users. Almsot sure gabrielle is an entp😅❤ and rita enxp.
I’m into MBTI, and I had a consult with Rita one time, and I asked her 😅! She’s an INFJ, I believe.
I’m actually INFJ 😂 I know I seem extroverted on TH-cam but in person I am often quiet and shy.
@@PuroAstrology that’s what I identify as well 😂
ohh wow, yes you are right being a content creator and doing it while you are alone will show a part that no one usually sees when you are around others. i failed with my guess as I dont know how infjs alone and at their most comfortable. But that makes sense now that you too have Ni and Ti as they the most analytical functions as it shows in your videos☕️✨️
okay so I actually did a bunch of research into it this spring and based on the "functions" I am a ENFJ however tbh the MBTI is not a system I am into using, I just had the compulsion to learn my type because many people ask about it
Like I had fashion moments in my life. I remember been at king dominion and wanting this band tee and as I’m heading for it my mentor says “do you even listen to them? Name one song” idk it shook me he was right right all I loved about that tee was the font colors and the fact that it was black. there and then I knew not to be part of something that wasn’t authentic to me. Now I found a tee with the same font and everything to make that decision to get it Bc it says Africa is like a character design motif almost
omg avengers assemble!!!
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She reminds me of Pam from the office so much!
Please dont insult my wife like this.