I am not as "territorial" about food as apparently a lot of people are, but knowing someone genuinely hates something and doing it just to test them is goddamn poisonous.
And taking time to record it (which he knows is obviously for social media) is automatically another tier of disrespect because not only does she thinks it’s cool to mess with you, she wants an AUDIENCE
@@ryanphillips5591 I don't care about people touching my food but I am territorial about my stuff. If she moves my things because she forgets, I may get annoyed but I try to be reasonable. If she does it on purpose to test me, that's a different matter.
"JOEY DOESNT SHARE FOOD!!!!!" Yea, put your hands on my food without me saying you can have it because I'm full and you're gonna get bit. Anything on my plate goes in my mouth and that includes your philanges.
"If a man is doing something on purpose just to drive you crazy, you'll know because he won't be able to stop laughing" This is 100% true, and very nice that you just put it out there as a matter of fact 🤣
Roasting one another is how men give each other reality checks and keep each other on an even keel. I remember once being SO proud that I picked up on a hint, I could have not been more wrong. It wasn't even close to a hint. I have become resigned to the fact that I am physically incapable of picking up on hints. Once I got my wife to understand this, she now says the word "Hint" and then directly says what she wants to communicate. It works every time.
thats reminds me of yet again my daughter when I ask her to do something and its me politely telling her to do it .I finish with Hint Hint. Our family hate being told what to do and will dig our heels in when someone says you must or you have to or you will do such and such and my daughter is a chip off the old block. Proud Dad.
She didn't grab his food because she wanted it; she grabbed it to ruin it for him. She was looking forward to a delicious reaction, and she turned the camera to showcase it, along with her own smug, victorious smile. This is a common female pattern. How I wish I had known when I was younger that one must not tolerate it. But even if someone had told me, I wouldn't have listened; there is no bigger fool than a young man in love.
Can't have shit 😭 Dude can't even have basic principles like "I want to eat my food" cause it'll deny her something she didn't even want before she was denied access to it
The guy with the food at the start: You can tell she does this stuff often too. She's recording being all 'cute tehee' about him not sharing, and he tells her 'babe, leave my food alone'. And she goes in with her whole hand purposely to defy his request. No damn wonder he reacted so poorly. He was already fed up with her antics. Then she's gonna cry and throw a tantrum of her own, playing victim, when she's the one who pushed his buttons until he snapped back.
snaped back? BRO. Bro literally just got up and left and you call that snapping? jesus i think your a bigger problem then the girl. thing is SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING she just didn't care SHE KNEW SHE SHOULDN'T DO THAT. you YOU ON THE OTHER HAND DONT THINK ITS WRONG. YOU THINK YOU FUCKING THINK a guy calmly walking away is SNAPPING?
I WOULDA SNAPPED MY HAND ACROSS HER FACE.. which is SIGNIFICANTLY LESS then what happens at my family dinner table. my step sis STABBED A FORK into her sisters hand over a fucking BREAD ROLL. this girl straight up dis respect her man she disrespected that food she disrespected the people who made it she disrespected starving kids and she disrespected the cow who died to make it.
Yes. That's what we do. We drink beer and we fix things. Tell us what's broken and we'll fix it. Eventually. If you need it on a specific timetable, ask for that too.
no. im a man and other man will help you when you are a dumbass BUT WILL LET YOU KNOW WHAT A DUMBASS YOU ARE WHILE DOING SO. And its fair. im a dumbass and thats the price i have to pay to get help.
The dude at the beginning was also probably fed up that she was recording herself testing him to share on social media or at minimum a couple of friends through text. That’s a disrespect multiplier
For real. No dude wants to be humiliated, period. Certainly not in front of his woman, certainly not BY his woman, and certainly not by his woman in front of all her friends who will giggle and gossip and probably share it further. That's a hard 'she don't respect you, bro'. At that point... how much further does it go? Not worth the headache and potential heartache, imo.
Thank you for the "letting it soak" womansplain. So many women in my life have criticized me for just putting things in the sink. Like I'm trying to enjoy the meal I made and enjoy time with people I'm sharing the meal with. Washing it all can come later.
Well yeah. And the whole order of operations thing. Guys are more likely to work in an environment where we have strict orders of operations, for good reason! Soaking stuck on burnt food always reduces the effort needed to clean the dish. Even if my rule is rinse and stack it neatly beside the sink so you can still use the sink
@@cloudsgolden Same, and I was taught to do it by a woman...My mother Lol So idk why more women aren't hearing of it, as I thought this was something they were being taught as well
“No, a queen is firm and direct and tells people exactly what she wants.” Perfect! Just started watching this series, but already love it! There are a few women in my past I wish I could show this to.
1) NEVER. EVER! Touch the food!!!! That gets you thrown out of the house 2) Letting things soak loosens food particles making it easier for the dish washer (washing your dishes before putting them in the dishwasher is wasted effort LOL) 3) Passive aggressive behavior gets you nothing. Communicate your needs simply and plainly! Everybody wins. EZ
The only pans I soak are aluminum clad stainless. Aluminum is just sticky enough to be annoying and need some extra chemical reaction time with water and soap. Instead of a soak, for pans that aren't non-stick and can rust (think Cast Iron or Carbon Steel) put a large glass of water in the pan, put it over a medium heat and let it boil while you eat dinner. That will get all but the most stubborn particulates off, dissolve pretty much all of it into the water, and require basically no soap after that. The worst I've ever had to use is the green scrubby side of a sponge. And because the pan is still pretty hot, it evaporates the water nearly instantaneously once you take it out to dry. And you don't want to scrub anything hard onto a teflon coated. Teflon already doesn't want to stick to anything, and that's true of the metal it's bonded to. Let it soak with hot water and soap for a while if something is too sticky even for teflon (especially eggs and cheese). It'll keep your teflon intact longer.
We love you, but we can't read your mind. Tell us what you need. Counsellor D'anna Troi was so hot on star trek because she understood, and communicated in a non-threatening way.
Listen ladies.....I'm sure 95% of you (if not more) have all watched the show Friends. When Joey yells out "JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOOOOD" this is NOT a funny part of the show. This is reality. Yo, I was angry for that guy when she did that. In my head that food gets thrown in her face and either I or her are leaving.....FOR GOOD.
@@spayderninja EXACTLY, if it's not that it will something else. Worse is RECORDING it. Personal/Family life is just THAT. Oh, and no one cares about your domestic life either....
If she would have grabbed a piece with her fingers, maybe. But the whole hand and then the smile.😡 I don't believe in hitting women, that grin could make me forget.
Please womansplain how I can subtly leave your videos lying around my house so my lovely wife finds them, subscribes to your channels, and applies your wisdom, all while believing it was her idea from the start.
I’ll be uploading my “Womansplaining Women to Men” compilations soon so send her those and tell her you learned something then watch the rest of my videos magically start showing up on her algorithm 🤣
@@thedadvocate I very rarely throw the word “genius” out there, but this idea is friggin GENIUS. 🤩😄 Not sneaky or manipulative, because I know I’m actually going to watch that compilation, and I’m certain I’m actually going to learn a few things.
I admit I actually flinched back and sort of half snarled when she stuck her hand in the food. It wasn't even mine and just sort of a solidarity reaction of "the fuck do you think you are doing?" The boob one made me laugh, because to this day I haven't met a guy whose answer to "What kind of boobs do you like" being more complicated then "Boobs." I had to explain to one of my girlfriends when I was in college that even though she was more or less completely flat it didn't really matter because even a board is fun to a guy if playing with it produces cute noises.
There's something to what you just said, about the board and cute noises. Something that activates the primal monke brain. It's like that one scene from the SpongeBob Squarepants movie where they're going down into the trench and Patrick is fucking with the steps because, and I quote: "Ehuhuh it's making noise" Obviously playing with boobs evokes a very different kind of "Ehuhuh it's making noise" than some steps, but the point still stands
A woman who I always thought of as very attractive and vivacious was very flat, but she joked about it and took comments and jokes in good humor. And as a colleague explained once, "anything more than a mouthful is wasted."
Her: "I'm really upset and want to talk" Me: "Do you want a solution to fix it or do you just want me to listen?" Men, this will save you a lot of grief, stress, and confusion
Food- Short version of my story! I was married for 14 years to a woman I dated for almost 6 years (prior to our marriage)! Around the 9 year mark of our marriage though, every Friday night we'd load her two kids into the car, and head 18 miles into town after work! She would then say "I am hungry" and I would ask "Where do you want to eat?" and her reply was always either "I Dunno" or "Whatever"! And for me, a trip to a fast food joint was a treat, because ALL week, I typically had gone without lunch, so my "once a week burger" fix WAS IN ORDER on Friday night! Meanwhile I would then drive to the local Wendy's, Burger King, of McDonald's, and EVERY TIME, my wife would wait till we were inside the store, ready to order our food, and have a complete MELT DOWN, about where SHE wanted to go!! My wife would even scream names at me, causing a huge scene like a child, then go about humiliating me IN PUBLIC loud enough so anybody in the place could hear her!! After YEARS of this behavior, I'd had enough and one Friday night, we loaded the kids into the car, drove to town and then when my wife said "I'm Hungry", I didn't even bother to ask her "Hungry for what?"!!! Instead I drove past Wendy's, past McDonald's, Pizza Hut, Arby's and the Chinese Buffet place! I drove until I got to back roads and soon, after 18 miles I was pulling BACK into the driveway of our house! I got out of the car and went inside our home, cracked open a beer and sat there drinking it! A few minutes had gone by and I had heard her car leave again! AFTER THAT Friday night, when I got out of work I'd go to the bank, stop and get myself some food, at the places I WANTED to eat at, and THEN drive home!! That way, when I got home and she'd say "Are we going to town?" I'd say "Nope I have been in town and I have no reason to go back!"!!! After all if she was going to act like a child.......I was going to treat her like a child!!!
My wife used to get mad at me for not helping her cleaning. She's a housewife, it's a hard job I get it. I said just tell me what to do and I'll do it. She always said that I should've known and did it myself and she doesn't have to tell me. Ok then, I don't know what you need and I'm not gonna guess.
Then guess what? She can see the things most husbands do by doing these things herself. Maintain and repair the lawn mower let alone cut the grass. Maintain the leaf blower as well a use it on all the leaves Clean out the gutters Maintain, wash, wax and vacuum the car(s) Change light bulbs in high locations. Paint and or repair the fence. Paint and or repair the deck. Maintain and clean the barbeque. Need I go on ladies?
I swear, my husband and I have had that same exact conversation 😂. I think it's because we do the same basic stuff day in and day out we forget how it might not be so obvious to others. I keep things from getting dirty, he waits for it to get dirty to clean it. Sure the toilet is "clean" but I want to keep it from getting dirty so I wipe it down. He just looks at it and say "what's dirty?"
As a woman with ADHD, my number one hate in life is people expecting me to mind read or getting mad at me for not doing something that wasn't explicitly asked of me.
ADHD just makes us men even more "terrible" with being able to mind read what someone wants by their sarcastic comments. We're already bad enough at it as is, but you add ADHD to the mix and it turns into a herculean task.
Bro, that just sounds like misdiagnosed autism. I know autism and ADHD share certain symptoms, but reduced social intuition is like, the biggest symptom of Autism and not even present in the ADHD criteria.
@@userequaltoNull HAHAHA It is also a massive symptom of ADHD, and the older you get the bigger the gap between the amount of social experience you have had and the amount that is normal widens, making you further behind and it even harder for you to interact socially and get the experience needed to learn these things. I definitely have ADHD but other people have also assumed that because of my overlapping symptoms I might have autism.
@@iwanebbing2642 oh, that's easy, theirs none. She wants you to take the initiative and do her life better in any way you can and ever time you can, without she asking you for it, for two reasons. 1. You are not her partner, you are her slave, it's your obligation to make her life better. 2. Since she didn't asked you explicitly to do something, then she owns you NOTHING, not even gratitude for making her life better or being nice. My recommendation is to cut that kind of people from your life, if they don't respect you like an person who who deserves recognition and gratitude, then just cut them off, the world is full of people, even if only 1% of them likes you, that's still several millions 😎👍.
I actually shave in the shower. I started in my 20s when a female coworker complained about her husband doing it and I thought, “Shit, that’s a _genius_ idea.” I never cut myself because of trying to calculate angles reversed in a mirror, I never have to clean up hair from the sink, and the whiskers are softer from the steam, giving me a closer shave. And it saves a ton of time.
@@bobbingi201 Can confirm I did this because it was annoying me to clean out the sink afterward and then having them all over the floor to because they never all fall in. I was just like well I have to shower after shaving anyways to get them off my body, why not wash them all away together
It also makes your skin not as rough afterwards because of the steam as well. I still use aftershave when I get out but it doesn't sting nearly as much as it did when I shaved in front of the mirror
@@Elriuhilu Keep your hands dry and away from the water and you can use your phone. Or just feeling around your face to figure out where needs to be shaved
My gf complains from time to time about doing the house cleaning and that I should help her with it. Every time I remind her she does the easy weekly cleaning because she won't help me with the harder more disgusting things, like dropping the basement ceiling that was full of dead mice and mice poop, unclogging the toilet and sinks, going into the crawl space, etc. I tell her I will gladly start helping as soon as she starts helping me with the disgusting projects. She always then says "i was just venting" and drops it for a few months.
My ex-wife would complain when I'd "let things soak", get OCD, and clean them. When she's out of town. I let them soak, and clean them 3-4 hours later. As for the food, putting her hands on it while smiling isn't cute, it's disrespectful at hell, and it's sad that the girl doing it was oblivious to that.
She wasn't oblivious, she just didn't care. Validation from her audience on TikTok meant more to her than treating her boyfriend with basic fucking decency.
@@CordovanSplotchVT She definitely knew she was doing something wrong, but she thought that she did it in a playful and cute way. It's plain as day from her facial expressions that she did not realise how much this bothered him. That stuff sadly happens when a person steps over a boundary that they didn't know the other had. Some of you guys need to calm down and stop overanalyzing. This shit happens in every relationship, especially if one of them is very new to being with someone. Don't assume evil intent when it can be chalked up to naivety.
Five seconds? A friend and I were up in the Boundary Waters Canoe Wilderness for a couple weeks on a fishing trip. Toward the end of the trip we'd eaten all the food we'd brought and were forced to fish for dinner the last couple days. We cooked up our catch and as it was being removed from the coals the pan with all our dinner fell to the ground. We looked at each other, looked at the spilled fish, realized that we couldn't pick it up to recover it, so we just sat down with our forks and ate what we could right off the ground.
When I was on deployment and I dropped some food on desert. Guess what I do? I’d pick it up, shake it so sand falls off, maybe smack it a few times to get whatever else I could off. And then eat it… idgaf
There is little that frustrates someone in a relationship more than femsplaining. GIVE US THE COMPLETE BLODDY CONTEXT!!! STOP EXPECTING US TO GUESS WHAT YOU MEAN FROM VAGUE HINTS & PRONOUNS WITHOUT NOUNS TO CONNECT THEM TO, THEN GET MAD AT *US* WHEN WE GET ANNOYED WITH YOU!!! WE AREN'T BLODDY TELEPATHS!!!
I was dragged by my wife to a wedding shower once. We were supposed to give the couple a wedding present and a piece of advice. My advice to the bride was, "You're going to have a day where you get mad because you're dropping what you think are obvious hints about something, and he's just not picking up on them. When that happens, ask yourself if a twelve-year-old boy would get the hints. If not, don't expect your husband to get them. We don't work that way."
@@MichaelDavis-cy4ok When my one male cousin got married I told his new wife "if you have to hint about it than you don't really want, care about, or need it. If it matters then you need to say it plain and clear regardless of it embarrassing you or not." She sort of blinked, asked me if I was serious. Had to tell her she was living with a man, not another woman. We don't do hints, when guys live together or hang out or even work together, if we need something or want something we ask for it directly. Would it be nice if someone would do it without asking? Sure would, but see...we are MEN. People don't do SHIT for men! Men do not experience random acts of kindness. It is rare for someone to come over and help a man for any reason unsolicited. Women experience a totally different side of society. People help them ALL THE TIME, to the point they take it for granted.
@@Nempo13 The only exception to the unsolicited help, is when it comes to raising kids. If you're a man, with children, and everyone knows your wife is going to be away for a couple of days, then the man will get all the help, even if he doesn't bloody want it, because to those people, men can't raise children...
Yup had my stepbrother’s wife put here hand in my plate. Wife took her to the restroom, stepbrother paid for my wife and I food. Then she was upset about him paying the check. My wife was correcting her “he never leave food on he’s plate”, you didn’t notice he stopped eating entirely after she had done that. Thanks for sharing. Women ruin dates because they don’t understand about “man rules”.
The blowing your nose in the shower point cracked me up because my mom complained about that when i was in high school. And my response was basically "I'm sorry the shower broke down my mucus to the point of needing to blow it and I'm saving on tissues by washing it down the drain" , never heard about it again lol
Okay the difference is when you blow the boogers onto the wall of the bathroom and then I have to scrub it off the wall. If it goes down the drain, go right ahead.
When my gf doesnt get a joke I always look at her and say "This is the part where you laugh because I was just joking" otherwise she tends to take things seriously no matter how absurd they sound.
@@monty4336that *could* be autism. I take everything literally and jokes woosh over my head all the time. It’s an ability to detect sarcasm or nuance, which is generally an autistic trait.
@@WVNDERER doesn't have to be autism, could literally just be a difference in how their families used sarcasm growing up. Don't diagnose strangers from a couple sentences.
I would have replied with “so if you were genuinely pleased with my support, why did you leave and then start texting me about how bad my support was?”
The concept I had the hardest time wrapping my head around was that women don't always want a solution to their problem, they just want a sympathetic ear! So now before offering a solution, I'll ask my wife if she wants a solution to the problem or just wants me to listen.
Yup thats mind boggling to me, its also why in my teen years i stopped going to my mother with problems and started asking my dad. Sure talking about it is nice and helps in the moment but if it doesnt solve the problem then its only a matter of time before i feel crap again. Its like bailing water out of a sinking ship.
Speaking as a guy myself, I actually enjoy doing dishes lol. It’s just really satisfying to scour away all the mess. My boyfriend, on the other hand, absolutely hates washing dishes lol. I have no problem whatsoever being the one to relieve him of having to do that task. 😊 Edit: 7:00 You really hit the nail on the head with this one. Female violence by proxy is something society really needs to be taking more seriously. If we start doing so, perhaps we’ll be seeing less war. Just maybe. Because all of a sudden “look what those evil oppressive bastards on the other side of the ocean are doing to their poor womenfolk, we need to send soldiers over there right now” won’t be as effective anymore.
"Female violence by proxy" effectively describes Prohibition. The Temperance feminists (mostly single women) committed their own violence to get the 18th (& 19th, but that's another story) Amendment passed, and then they let the government enact violence against men to enforce it. The entire "family" court system is built on a foundation of "female violence by proxy," as women often use false accusations against men as a way to get tin stars with guns to attack men.
If I order food it means I have asked my partner SEVERAL TIMES if they wanted anything. And, if they give me an answer for "Oh, just a sandwich" or "no, not hungry" or a "just a salad" I've poked and prodded for more information because I know she's lying. If she never fixes her answer then I'll probably just end up ordering extra. But, if we get the point where I'm told not to get her anything at all she's gonna get a fork in the hand the moment she tries to reach out.
You should stop enabling this stupid behavior. Tell her directly that unless she tells you what she wants, you're just going to order food for yourself, and she won't get any, and then stick to that until she starts just telling you what she wants.
I had a friend who dropped some hard candy in sand. picks it up and just pops it in the mouth. Sucks on it and spits out the sand and looked at me say "Sorry I needed to sand my candy it had some rough edges"
The food one always kills me, I saw it as a trend online a while back and it damn near made me hurl Hope that guy moved on and found someone better (provided it wasn't staged, and that didn't look too staged by their reactions)
I am an old guy and that was always one of my biggest no-nos. If a girl tried to steal off my plate she would get one stern warning, the second time it was, look for another boyfriend.
This wasn't her being hungry or wanting to have a little taste of the food. She was trying to show off to her friends online how much she could push her boyfriend around and he'd let her get away with it because she's "just so adorable".
i dont think men fuck around with food. how many hey yall watch this hold my beer clips involve wasting food? riding a bike off the roof onto a trampoline while tour friends ate on it check. cannon balling intoa. frozen lake check. driving a car with no wheels check. driving a car thats cut in half check. taking a car that has no business trying to claim a cliff check.. fucking with food.... not one of em
When my wife and I first got together she noted and agreed that she would not hint about ANYTHING she wanted me to do. This has worked almost flawlessly.
I had a woman get annoyed at me for ordering an extra plate of chips with my meal at the restaurant. It was because she never ordered her own chips and would instead pick from my plate, I was tired of it and started ordering extra chips for her. Apparently this was a bad thing to do.
Yeah because now she cannot ignore the calories she stole off of your plate because she OnLy HaD a SAlAd. I am happy for that you wrote it in past tense.
I've always had the opposite problem of the 'let it soak' thing. Depending on the food, and the cookware, I will usually just wipe out the pan with a damp cloth whilst it's still hot. It's an old chef's trick used in busy restaurants. For some reason, this also drives women mad.
Yep. I used to work in a commercial kitchen, and cleaning pans while they are hot is far quicker and better. I usually make the food super hot, and while it is sitting on the plate I just give the pans the once over. No dishes to do after eating!
Similar to deglasing? Either way, I agree, give it a quick wipe while the grease is still warm, and scrape any stuck on shit before it cools. This also reduces any fats from going down the drain, preventing future clogs.
My method too, the heat is going to keep things sterile enough as well especially if you put it back down on the heat then turn off the burner after you toss the paper towel in the trash.
I'd be wary doing that in a restaurant. I would think that could leave just enough residue to potentially cause an allergic reaction if the previous dish contained ingredients the next customer was allergic to.
One of the things my ex did wrong intentionally at every turn was with my food. When she was around I never EVER had the first bite of my food, and she had never EVER asked for it. This was a part of a pattern of disrespect and disregard for me that led to our messy, painful, horrible divorce. My current wife asks, almost always receives, and gets none of the same resentment for almost entirely the same result.
My mom told me when she was younger, she would sometimes tease the family dog when he was trying to eat, and the dog, who was very friendly and understanding would get really angry at her. Her dad told her "even a dog should be allowed to eat in peace". The first video of that guy, it's like, dude's just trying to enjoy a nice meal in peace and not only is she messing with his food, she's shoving a camera in his face so he can't have any peace... good on him if he did walk out...
To be fair, one of the ways to untrain food aggression from dogs, is to deliberately take the food away from them mid-eating. Obviously once they no longer exhibit food aggression, you shouldn't be tormenting your dogs for no good reason.
Saoking is especially helpful when dealing with rice burnt onto the rice cooker. Letting it soak fully seperated the rice from the metal of the cooker.
Had a girl that used that example you put out the boob job one. After the 3rd “ugh I think I need a boob job” I said “well I like the initiative, but you should start with the face”. Never heard of the boob job thing since prior to ending it and the best part of my roast we were watching the office and it was the roast episode and it was at the exact part where micheal says “boom roasted” timing couldn’t have been more perfect.
Knew a girl who wanted a nose job. She didn't need it, so I told her she should go see a specialist, a psychologist, because the problem was not the nose, it was in her head. A while later I met her , she had a nose job, and of course she looked worse with the new nose. The reason she did it was because she always thought she looked like some actress, but no one else saw that, so she did her nose so that everyone else realizes she looks like that actress. I told her that flies will now get up her nose, when she rides her bike.
You reminded me of a joke! GF asked BF if he ever pees in the shower & he said yeah sometimes by accident, she says eww that’s so disgusting & what do you mean by “accident” He said well these things happen when you’re having a dump! 🤣
The thing about hairs in the sink/tub was hilarious cuz I turned that complaint around one time. She said it was so gross to find little hair shavings in the bathroom. To which I responded by going to the bathroom, grabbing a long glob of female hair out of the tub drain and said “at least mine don’t clog the drain.” 🤣
I don't understand women not just ordering the food they want to eat. We are not impressed by how little you eat. We know that you're just gonna be hungry later and make us pull over somewhere or you're gonna be getting into our snack supply. If I'm on a date and I order a burger, I would much rather she order a larger burger than a damn salad. I'd take that as a challenge. Ladies, we love a good competition, especially when we win.
I laughed out loud on a few of these, thank you. The "order of operations" explanation (2:55) of the dinner prep-eat-cleanup sequence is perfect. Hell, *everything* is a process and the cyclical ones can be easily smoothed out like that. The outro scene of your Patreon board calligraphy was a surprise. The writing is so _well_ done. Brava.
My aunt would get so mad at me growing up, because I’d do things easy and not spend Hours scrubbing sandpaper on the dishes and using the entire dawn soap bottle to clean one pan with dried fried crap on it. Hell I’d plug up the sink fill it with water, take a full kettle boiled to high hell and pour that to the water with like a tablespoon of the soap. And be done with everything. but noo I should just be running gallons on gallon on gallons of water to wash a single facking spoon.
That's what my dad's joke was. He once told me "that you only need a mouthful" I didn't know it was a playful subversion of handful, cause I never heard the handful version. That last drop of pee falling into the underwear isn't a choice and dear god I wish someone told me when I was younger.
I never had it happened to me anymore the pee in underwear thing after I discovered the trick it empty all your pee from the pee tube. You have to push behind your balls upwards and you will feel getting all the pee out and will feel empty. You gotta find the right spot.
My wife and I actually had a conversation about beard chibble in the sink. She used to work at a B&B and had to clean that for a living and has some serious PTSD about some of the less respectful (being polite here) clients and what they left behind for her to deal with. Understanding this, I am always extremely careful about beard chibble, because she has an actual legitimate reason to be squicked out by it. And she responds by being thankful for me respecting that. In fact, just last week we visited a friend, and when we got home, she thanked me again for being so good about cleaning up the beard trimmings, because apparently the man of that house didn't and it squicked her out, which reminded her that she hasn't had that happen in years in our home, ever since that discussion. Communication and respect. She had an issue, she communicated the issue and why it was an issue up front and in plain english. I respected her issue, and took steps to correct and take into account her feelings. She respects that I do make certain to take her feelings into consideration in this matter. This is how a relationship works.
A very quick cure for that from personal experience is get them to clean the sink after its been laying around for a couple of days. Damn stuff glues itself to the sink and needs industrial tools to shift. A couple of times doing that and it hopefully will work wonders lol.
I honestly have to give a massive thank-you for this series. Whether or not it has helped women understand us better, it has at least helped me understand myself better.
When I was young, me and my family were at Culver's (a Midwest burger place). The family rule was that if you made the parents pay extra for something like onion rings instead of fries, you had to share them with everyone. Well, they messed up my order and gave me cheese curds that I did not order. A couple minutes into my meal, my sister reaches to grab some. She doesn't take one or two, she shoves her hand as far as possible into the bag and takes a whole fistful. It's been almost twenty years and I still haven't forgiven her for it.
My first Ex-wife said she wanted a breast reduction I told her to get one if that is what she wanted, she never got one. our divorce did not hurt my feelings.
i let dishes soak all the time, it works. just don't let them sit too long. Work smarter not harder. Sad thing is I have to explain this to women in my family still. I've been better at doing dishes than my mother and all the women in my family since I was 5yrs old. Don't dry dishes, let them dry themselves. Don't scrub like crazy, let the power of water dissolve and soften things first.
I'm glad I grew up poor, because that meant she understands what a strainer is supposed to be for. The only time we'd have to wipe down dishes was if we had more stuff to dry than we had strainer space.
Also... rinse them as you put them into the sink/ on the counter. They'll be much cleaner and may even look clean (just need soap to sterilize and get rid of grease. )
It's not just the dishes. Women generally tend to do things as they were taught without applying to much thought to what they are actually doing. My mother used to hate ironing laundry, and who doesn't? But being naturally lazy, one of the first things I figured out after moving out is that when hanging laundry up nice and straight, without using pegs, then folding it away the second you take it off the line, there are very few items that require being ironed. Taught her that rather simple, obvious "trick" after about 30 years of being her own woman, and she's not exactly stupid...
Additional information on "Letting Them Soak"... if you want to throw something in the sink, either make sure is it soaking individually or add it to an item that can contain it (like put a dirty bowl in the pot that is sitting in the sink already full or water. If you start just throwing dirty dishes in the sink, without soaking them appropriately so that they're now some horrible abomination of half soaked and half dried on food, you have made the entire sink your problem (including any dishes that were initially soaked properly but are now buried).
I have literally broken up with a girl because she messed with my food. She put something in my drink as a prank (salt and pepper or something) and was trying to get me to drink it. Others at the table were egging her on to do it. When I came back, it was obvious, and she had a dumb smirk on her face. I poured the drink out all over her plate and mine, and walked out. It was such a huge disrespect, I couldn’t even believe it. 🙄
My Dad explained soaking the dishes to both me and my Mom. My Dad may take ages to explain some of the simplest concepts, but he is a master at order of operations.
I'm sorry but there are two other of a man's things that you do NOT mess with: His car and his radio pre-sets. Those are right up there with his girl, money and food.
Who the f cares about radio pre-sets anymore..? It's 2023 bro, not the 90s. Also, if it's a marriage, the car(s) belong to the household legally. I can understand not messing with it if it's a classic or personally maintained and/or modded car with after market parts. But if it's just your everyday car, regularly serviced by the dealer or a generic mechanic, a guy's got no right to fuss.
Not quite correct. It depends on the state in the US (There's like 10 out of 50 that do communal property), and a partners car is still theirs if it was purchased before marriage. Plus, a partners car is often one of the places that isn't regularly coinhabited by the other. That becomes one of the few "their spaces" emotionally. Not to mention driving to work & back. Not that I care/have issues with this, but it's pretty easy to see where this comes from.
@@xidada666 HA ha nope, that car belongs to whoever's name is on the damn title. PERIOD. My wife has a car, I have a car. Neither of us messes with any settings we can't put back.
5:55 When a friend comes to me and starts talking about something and I hear it is a problem stop them and ask, "is this a listening problem or a solving problem". Listening problem: Am I required to listen and nod and hug and we are done, or..... Solving problem: Am I required to listen so that I can proffer advise, help, and solutions or even actions. This has saved a lot of fights from starting.
I solved it a different way. "There are no just listening problems with me. The only way you're going to get me to 'just listen' is if you are also telling me the steps you're taking, personally, to solve the problem you are complaining to me about." Women make this big deal about "I just need to vent", and I go, "then you don't actually need me around for that. You could do exactly what you're doing to the wall. Unless, all you want is for me to PRETEND I give a crap about your childish and basic problems that you will never solve and will come back to me next week to complain about them again." I don't enable childish behavior and shut it down. The women I shut this behavior down in end up far better off because they actually learn to be accountable and proactive in their own lives. They learn to solve their problems, rather than just using them as excuses to whine like children. If you talk to me about your problems, I will help you solve them. That's part of any conversation. If you don't want help with your problems, then you need to tell me that you're already actively solving them, but you want to run it by me to ensure that what you're doing is the right thing to do. I'm an adult. I have conversations. You are an adult, you don't get to just talk for the sake of talking. If talking for the sake of talking makes you feel better, then you need to grow the heck up and learn to manage your emotions better.
I learned, after several girlfriends, when my significant other wishes to talk about a problem, to ask EXACTLY that question. "Would you like me to be a good listener, or do you want my inputs on a solution?" Works every time.
@XxTaiMTxX Look, let me phrase it this way: the problem is that she's upset about something, and talking about it to a person will help her calm down. She likely also wants a hug and/or an outside perspective to see if she's overthinking or is being reasonable. This is not childish - it's a desire for connection and a place to be emotionally vulnerable. I realize a lot of men have had that desire squashed out of them, so it's difficult to understand or sympathize with, but it's a very real desire. At the very, very least, let her finish explaining the problem before jumping in with a solution. Don't interrupt her, ffs, she gets interrupted by men all day and doesn't need more of that.
@@rizahawkeyepierce1380 1. If she's upset and just wants to talk about it without input, then it shouldn't even matter if the other person is paying attention or even cares. If she wants comfort, that's another story entirely. Ask for a hug, or break down in tears to get a hug, or whatever. What you're seeking is actual human interaction at that point. But, if it's just a case of "just listen to me, and add nothing", then I'm out. I'm not dealing with such childish narcisissm. It ain't happening. If you're an adult, you talk, to people FOR THE INTERACTION. If you're a child, you speak just to hear the sound of your own voice. If you're speaking just to be speaking, then I don't have to listen to you, or care about your nonsense, and you could better talk to a wall instead. 2. If she's looking for an outside perspective, then she should ALWAYS be prepared for "the guy to fix the problem". Typically if a person needs to seek "an outside perspective" it is because they already know their perspective is incorrect to begin with. Or, they're children and just want someone to pat them on the head and agree with them. Typically, the phrase "if you have to ask..." applies to stuff like that. But, women looking for "outside perspective" will never complain about "my guy wants to fix my problems". Because, you know, they're not children. 3. It matters very much what it is she wants to "vent about". A great many women have this issue where they turn things into bigger problems than they actually are. They blow things up out of proportion and want other people to care and be as moronically invested as they are in something that is literally a non-issue. Let's go down the list of stupid crap that has been "vented to me about" over the years. -Someone doesn't like them. -Someone does something annoying to them. -They feel like they don't have friends or friends are too hard to make. -Work was stressful, but nothing actually stress inducing actually happened at work. -Didn't lose as much weight as they thought they would on the new diet. -A person they should've kicked to the curb years ago is still someone they're friends/family with and they care a lot about them, but insist on remaining in the toxic relationship and being stressed out about it. -Got in trouble at work and yes, they were the problem, despite how they tried to spin it. -A course of action that was advised against by me was taken anyway, and now they want to complain about how things didn't magically work out like they wished they would have. Because, you know... they be dumb as rocks. -Obvious stupid decision was made, and they didn't get the outcome they wanted. Because, you know, women think hope is more powerful than reality. -Complaining about a problem that isn't their problem and that nothing can be done about it. Self-stress due to the need to insert themselves into everyone's lives. Narcisissm. -Minor inconsequential thing has been bothering them a while. These are things where women are just being children and don't require "someone to vent to", but are things where "a therapist is required". 4. If you don't want interrupted, get to the dang point. Be concise in your complaint and story. No person with self-respect is going to listen to you monopolize a conversation just because it "makes you feel better" to do so. If, as a woman, you find yourself interrupted a lot... it's because you talk too much and never get to the point. You insert too much pointless crap, go off on too many tangents, and just generally monopolize all time and space for conversations with your own voice. This is a problem of narcissm not "men always interrupt you". The common denominator in "constantly getting interrupted by men" is "you" and not "men". So, you are the problem. If a man interrupts your story to give you the solution, it's because your reasons and your story are pointless drivel. They're busywork. They're the thing you're using to wind yourself up needlessly. The source of your stress in those situations is you lack the intelligence to solve the problem yourself, realize the problem is solved the second you take action, and no further thought need be wasted on the issue, because it's a solved problem. Otherwise known as: "Being a child". Or, if you prefer: "talking for the sake of hearing your own voice", which is also "narcissism".
@@XxTaiMTxX nope. Thats not the diagnostic criteria for narcissism and 2 its not childish to vent. Men and women are different in a lot of different ways, this is one of them. Women tend to externalize their emotions and men tend to internalize their emotions, so if a women constantly spews out their emotions and a guy automatically internalizes them then he'd be acting like an emotional garbage can which is toxic for him, but if the guy shuts down a woman from ever being able to express their emotions the way she needs to then he's being emotionally unavailable which is also toxic. The trick is to understand one another better and make allowances in the relationship for one another so you can both be yourselves, and get your needs met without crapping on the other person. I have a procedure i've practiced with my lady spicifically for this. I set aside time to allow her to vent but i draw boundries if she starts getting bitchy, I call her out on her bitchyness, then if that bitchyness gets directed at me i end the conversation. Giving her some time to vent while also not putting up with any shit is a more healthy approach. Sticking to that procedure constantly has tampered down the drama over time as she learned about my personal boundaries, she respects me more and our relationship has deepened because of it. So you're really missing an opertunity here if don't develop a more nuanced understanding of what's going on in these types of interactions.
Thing about the food too is how often the simple question will be asked, "I'm going to get something to eat, do you want anything?" And woman will say "no," only to then try to eat out of his once he has it. I've gone out with three women who did that, and it pissed me off to no end, because they'd keep doing it after I told them not to.
0:44 - I work in a liquor store. One night, I came back from my lunch break with a small bowl of popcorn for later. I jumped behind the register, set it behind my counter, and started working thru a rush. One of my regulars came in, walked past me to the 50mL section, and on his way back by, reached OVER THE COUNTER and helped himself. Dude didn't even ask, just reached behind the counter and put his grotty hobo-fingers in my food. When I chastised him for it, he laughed at me -- mouth still full. So I threw my now-contaminated popcorn in the trash in front of him, took his items away, and told him to leave. He was about to smart back to me when I told him "Not another word or else I can make the ban last. Try it. We'll start at a week." To his credit, he came back a day or two later and apologized, but still. This. Don't eff with someone else's food.
@@Believeinyourself8 Naw man, at that point I'd give you a pass to blast her on social media for making tons of people starve to death because she couldn't keep her hands to herself
Not only is that *obviously* sarcasm, but she said it after the fact and didn't stick around or give him the chance to change how he was responding for her.
I've noticed "Letting them soak" isn't always a male thing. Our female room mate is the biggest culprit for this, she'll let EVERYTHING soak even if it really doesn't need it. Nothing irritates me like bowls and pots full of tepid, filthy water cluttering up the whole sink
One thing she missed on the food video is that if that was a man who stuck his hands in his food, even a good friend, that guy would have gotten some hands. As a woman, his “girlfriend” didn’t have that fear, and was way more willing to push his buttons. The sound of him throwing his food away would have been the sound of him hitting any guy who did that.
Oh my god, is there somewhere I can find a woman like you? Like is there a store or something? I'm currently single after I apparently did something wrong with my gf and then got ghosted, never figured it out and she definitely wouldnt tell me. You are so on point and its so refreshing to hear a woman finally understanding our habits that we are not hiding at all
"I'm Ukrainian" As guy from Poland, this little bit of information sure explains a lot. Also the point about marksmanship is, well, on point. Once did it as a challenge at work where I talked with a dude who was taking a shower, so I almost completely stepped back from the stall while peeing, just to make eye contact with him. And before you ask: No, not a single drop was spilled that day.
Three videos in and I'm pretty sure she has nailed us. She has a dangerous level of awareness guys wish they had a fraction of understanding for women. Not only that, ideas that were previously not there are now readily available to adopt. Never heard of the laundry chair before and my life has now forever changed.
Wooow, that first one... That shit is an instant 5 fingers across the face moment for me. And a verbal ass-whooping. "Don't touch my food" means exactly that. Can't listen and respect that boundary? Then feel. Period.
4:00 "If you have a problem, they want to fix it." - And to me this goes beyond relationship. Last week a female teaching colleague (for art) was looking for a specific piece of music she wanted to use as an inspiration/background for a lesson. She only remembered a few bars and went around asking people. I was grading some exercises at that moment (lunch break). I DID recognize the melody as something I was familiar with, but not what. So I stopped correcting, went to the teacher's lounge PC and started going through lists of famous classical music until 5 minutes later I found it (Wagner's ride of the valkyries). while that was playing on the headphones I was using, she immediately went "THAT's it" (from across the room, so respect to her ears) and thanked me. I told her what it was, so she could write it down, then went back to grading exercises.
This was a really good one. I always used to let the dishes, at least the grodier pans, soak. Recently (okay, a year is recent in a 25 year mariage), my wife put her little foot down and asked that I stop doing that. The issue was not the soaking itself but the amount of time I left them soaking. I sometimes put them to soak and forgot about them until the next day or the day after when the mood took me to do the dishes. Totally fair. Also it made that sink unusable for her to do the dishes if she wanted to do them. I inevitably filled the other sink with the rest of the soiled dishes waiting to be washed. She explained that it was a discouragement and too much work to empty the sink before even starting the dishes. I can get behind leaving one of the two sinks empty to encourage someone to do dishes. My sons also make the effort of not soaking unless they intend to do the chore in the next fifteen minutes. A 15 minute soak seems reasonable to all of us. I love my wife.
Welp, when a lady is properly motivated.. we too can step out from the toilet and check our marksmanship, fart like beasts and be overprotective of our food goodies. If you know, you know ;) Also, I had to teach my hubby to soak dishes, it's just so much more efficient. I think this is what happens when a girl is raised in a home where the boys out number the girls 🤣😂
Its a natural evolution of: 1 Forgetting the dishes in the sink (ill do them later) 2 Getting a cool glass of water (let the water run so its cold, also soaks the dishes) 3 coming back later to find the dishes way easier to clean
#23, I laughed out loud on this one. Last week in the midst of a 13hr drive from VA back to MA we took a break at the Lombardi truck stop in Jersey. I step out of the suv and commit #23. My wife was sitting behind me and closes her door to see this happening thus inquiring to what in the hell I was doing. After explaining this to her while still shaking, she tells me to use my hand like a normal guy! hahaha
"Doo doo fingers" killed me😂😂 this is why I'm very vocal about things that bother me in my relationship and encourage her to do the same. People talk about communication's important then don't communicate about small things that bother them, they don't want to be seen as whiny or bitchy or a problem. Naw fam, I seen them seeds grow into trees, and a strong wind blow them trees down and collapse whole households. We're adults. Imma treat you like one, you treat me like one, if I do something you don't like it prolly wasn't on purpose and I prolly didn't realize it, if you don't tell me I won't know. That's an easy way for resentment to set in and love to move out. Some women might not take it well and you might spend more time single than if you didn't, all about priorities. If your priority is not single that's easy, if it's a healthy relationship you have to find someone who also wants that and that shits hard. Also empathy and understanding of cause and effect. My fiance left me a voice message talking about maybe we should move the wedding to next year. My gut response was negative and all the reasons that was a terrible idea. As I continued getting ready for work it dawned on me she might just be scared and stressed and overwhelmed and this was it manifesting. All negativity faded, I called her on the way to work, gave her the encouragement and reassurance she really needed, sometimes people just need to be told that things are ok. Relationships are hard, that's a whole ass other grown person who is as much a culmination of all their past experiences as you are of yours, you can't just project your life and feelings onto them and expect happily ever after. She ended up crying and telling me how gratefull she was to have me in her life, I didn't play superman, I told her my gut reaction and that I'm glad I figured it out before I said something destructive. That opened the door for a conversation about how I might not always read and respond to a situation as appropriately in the future and all types of discussions that will hopefully help prevent future issues due to simple misunderstandings. I don't claim to be some all knowing guru but that's my 2 cents anyway
Slavboy here, she's not _really_ Ukrainian. I would have never guessed she said a Ukrainian phrase if it wasn't for the subtitles (good try tho lol). She clearly was born and grew up in North America with little to no connection to the culture of her ancestors.
@@denisborzov8406 People trying to claim native heritage rarely ever occurs in reality.. It's more of a cynical idea that gained popularity due to things like affirmative action and diversification of all sorts of businesses and organizations.. For example, if you could somehow prove you had even a sliver of legitimate native ancestry, it could be your ticket to a better chance of being accepted at a top university or appear more attractive to a potential employer that is trying to improve their diversity statistics.. And as for that "Americans do this a lot" comment, all I can say is... that is a very ignorant and narrow minded view of why Americans reference or claim national heritage from countries they weren't born in/haven't been to, etc.. Well when you're a citizen of a country that hasn't even been around for 250 years, with a culture stitched together by groups and traditions from all over the world, sometimes we like to remember where our ancestors originally immigrated from... It can add a little bit of context to the narrative of our existence, honor/remember our ancestors, and ultimately just help us understand ourselves and others a bit more. I'm sorry if it offends you when we casually reference our national heritage in a conversation or comment, we're not trying to steal your national identity.. But I'd recommend dialing down the cultural nationalism whenever possible.. We all know what happens when Europeans drink too much of that Kool-Aid.. 😉😃
Just found this channel, a while ago, and have been bingeing on your content, for the past 2 days, and all I have to say is: I love this woman. She gets us! I hope more women listen to the stuff she says, because it is spot on. And as for the girl in the first video... DAMN! Look, I'm more the serious type, but there's three things that I definitely will NOT joke around with, and those are: my family, my work, and FOOD. When it comes to food, I want to see everybody eat a good meal; it makes me happy to know everyone's fed. Hell, you could be my worst enemy, and I'll still give you a warm meal and a glass of water! Seeing that girl just grabbing homeboy's food like that, made me so angry, because that is something that you just don't do. And to then see her smiling like that, like it was hilarious; that was like a kick to the teeth. I really hope my boy left that toxic ass bitch, because if she did that, then there is no boundary she will not cross, to get her way. Yes, respect must be earned, but that does not mean that even if you don't respect someone, that they forgoe their right to eat.
Damn, she smiles when she grabs his food? She’s smiling for two reasons. The initial funny is that she knows just how awful what she just did was. The secondary funny is that she expects not to be retaliated against for being an awful person. Notice how the smile drops the moment the consequences appear.
1st vid reaction: Omg, I’d be pissed if someone put their whole hand all over my food too! 2nd vid reaction: I soak dishes too! 3rd vid reaction: “that’s sarcasm” “nO iTs NoT!” (grroooaaaannnn) 4th vid reaction: I sneeze in the shower, and I totally make the wall of hair 😂 (cause I’m trying to avoid hairy drain)
For #4 look up something called a tub shroom. It's basically a rubber plug that allows water to pass through but traps hair. As a guy with long hair it's a fucking godsend lol.
@@mattlittke5233 Which proves women are _way_ grosser than men for this kind of thing, because they needed a whole-ass device invented to deal with their long drain hair lol - oh and drain hair has actually kept some plumbing companies _in_ business too 😁
My ex would scream at me when I would put a little soap in the pan with some water and then put it back on the burner on medium to low heat. I tried explaining to her about thermal dynamics, solvent penetration and matter dissolution. Then she screamed at me for saying she was stupid.
I just came across your videos and wanted to thank you for the kind things you say. It seems like most women just want to hate on men nowadays and it really starts to get under your skin and takes an emotional toll hearing it all day long day after day. It has started to be too much for a lot of men to hear how worthless they are all the time. So I just wanted to thank you for being kind. It means more than you know.
peeing in the shower: it goes down the EXACT same pipes as the toilet. Blowing your nose in the shower and peeing in the shower is cleaner overall. less mess, and it all ends up in the same places.
@@ssu7653 "Peeing in the shower splashes your feet with piss" not true But even if you piss on yourself, who cares? you're in the shower........ You do know what a shower is for, right (I hope)? I swear people are de-evolving before my eyes.
This woman needs to be protected and guarded at all costs! We need to form an impenetrable line around her and lay down our lives if necessary! 💂💂♂💂♀💂💂♂💂♀
Jeans are Literally designed to not be washed for extended periods. and yes, there are studies on this. Jeans use to be poor people work clothes meant to last generations of wear. Only later did they become commonplace and even a fashion statement. But they are Work clothes. The more you wash them, the faster they wear out too.
this is true, I finally broke my wife of the habit of over washing my jeans. My rule of thumb is I wear them one week and then wash unless I was doing some very dirty work of some type.
How can woman still not know that they can't touch our food? You said you're not hungry but i am and i plan to eat my fill. We could have gotten more but you can't take my food if you've decided that you don't want anything. This is like the only thing i get angry about but every woman does it.
I almost dropped my phone when she stuck her hand in his plate. I'm still pissed and it wasn't even my food. I'd of had to throw the throw pillows out the front door just to calm down enough to politely tell her we were done. So maybe they are useful after all. Who knew?
Oh, you're Ukrainian. That explains why you're so logical and communicate so clearly. I'm half Polish (a tak, mowie po polsku nie tak zle) so I get the perspective.
Presoaking is a sign of care for men actually. He had the choice of just leaving it as is and go about his business but he when the extra step of thinking, formulating, and executing it all because to make the chore little bit easier.
Especially cause, even if she gets frustrated and does it, it's still easier for her as well. Still better if we do it so they can chill, but even silent assistance is a sign of care
Oh dayum! (I really said that out loud) when she grabbed a handful of that man's food! That for me just says "I have zero respect for you", and you need to quietly pack everything she owns and put it (along with her) outside the front door...
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I am not as "territorial" about food as apparently a lot of people are, but knowing someone genuinely hates something and doing it just to test them is goddamn poisonous.
Koala Bandit glad you get it, (I am territorial with my food)but the disrespect is reason enough to not talk to her after that.
And taking time to record it (which he knows is obviously for social media) is automatically another tier of disrespect because not only does she thinks it’s cool to mess with you, she wants an AUDIENCE
@@ryanphillips5591 I don't care about people touching my food but I am territorial about my stuff. If she moves my things because she forgets, I may get annoyed but I try to be reasonable. If she does it on purpose to test me, that's a different matter.
@@koalabandit9166 Exactly. It's a boundary. You don't touch AKA disrespect someone else's things. (Without their consent)
@@D123-f9k Good point.
My chest actually tightened up when her hand went in his box. Like "that's the road you really want to go down?"
ya, if she wasn't a woman i promise no one would blink if he layed that person out for doing that.
Yep. My first thought was "do you really want to lose your man by doing that? Because that's how you lose your man."
@ellen cameron
Showed it to my wife who was like "screw her, would knock her out myself."
"This the hill you want to die on?"
"JOEY DOESNT SHARE FOOD!!!!!" Yea, put your hands on my food without me saying you can have it because I'm full and you're gonna get bit. Anything on my plate goes in my mouth and that includes your philanges.
"If a man is doing something on purpose just to drive you crazy, you'll know because he won't be able to stop laughing" This is 100% true, and very nice that you just put it out there as a matter of fact 🤣
That made me genuinely laugh in a "bird that ate the canary" kinda way. Just found this channel yesterday and she's got some perfectly worded gems.
When I'm intentionally doing something to irritate my wife, I tell her that's what I'm doing and I have a Joker grin on my face.
I'll sneak up on people, rip ass and run away while yelling "drive by" and laughing maniacally. The more extreme reaction I get the more I'll do it.
Either that or he will look annoyed when he does it because he's getting you back for something that you did.
We're are not evil, but the urge to prank lil is just so damn strong
Roasting one another is how men give each other reality checks and keep each other on an even keel.
I remember once being SO proud that I picked up on a hint, I could have not been more wrong. It wasn't even close to a hint. I have become resigned to the fact that I am physically incapable of picking up on hints. Once I got my wife to understand this, she now says the word "Hint" and then directly says what she wants to communicate. It works every time.
LOL get her to say SUDO instead, but don't explain it.
Film her reaction when she works it out.
thats reminds me of yet again my daughter when I ask her to do something and its me politely telling her to do it .I finish with Hint Hint. Our family hate being told what to do and will dig our heels in when someone says you must or you have to or you will do such and such and my daughter is a chip off the old block. Proud Dad.
@@lupaswolfshead9971 You're proud that your daughter picked up on your antisocial tendencies? That seems weird.
what refusing to be bullied or bossecd around by a neurotypical arsewie yeah i am proud @@ElyonDominus
its strange that you equate anti social with anti authoratarion that says a lot about you@@ElyonDominus
She didn't grab his food because she wanted it; she grabbed it to ruin it for him. She was looking forward to a delicious reaction, and she turned the camera to showcase it, along with her own smug, victorious smile.
This is a common female pattern. How I wish I had known when I was younger that one must not tolerate it. But even if someone had told me, I wouldn't have listened; there is no bigger fool than a young man in love.
Can't have shit 😭
Dude can't even have basic principles like "I want to eat my food" cause it'll deny her something she didn't even want before she was denied access to it
The guy with the food at the start: You can tell she does this stuff often too. She's recording being all 'cute tehee' about him not sharing, and he tells her 'babe, leave my food alone'.
And she goes in with her whole hand purposely to defy his request. No damn wonder he reacted so poorly. He was already fed up with her antics.
Then she's gonna cry and throw a tantrum of her own, playing victim, when she's the one who pushed his buttons until he snapped back.
The fact he didn't put a fist through her face was top teir restraint.
snaped back? BRO.
Bro literally just got up and left and you call that snapping?
jesus i think your a bigger problem then the girl.
thing is SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING she just didn't care SHE KNEW SHE SHOULDN'T DO THAT.
you YOU ON THE OTHER HAND DONT THINK ITS WRONG.
YOU THINK YOU FUCKING THINK a guy calmly walking away is SNAPPING?
I WOULDA SNAPPED MY HAND ACROSS HER FACE..
which is SIGNIFICANTLY LESS then what happens at my family dinner table.
my step sis STABBED A FORK into her sisters hand over a fucking BREAD ROLL. this girl straight up dis respect her man she disrespected that food she disrespected the people who made it she disrespected starving kids and she disrespected the cow who died to make it.
And you KNOW that he asked her before he ordered if she wanted anything
@@Eluderatnight He had a fork and didn't use it on her. That's restraint.
"Men will help you if you're not a dumbass", hahaha, I'm dying. I thank you on behalf of all men for saying this.
The second part of that the every man listening said was "and if you are a dumbass, they'll let you know either directly or with sarcasm."
Honestly, just need a clip of that alone and then share it anytime someone's being stupid on twitte XD
Yes. That's what we do. We drink beer and we fix things. Tell us what's broken and we'll fix it. Eventually. If you need it on a specific timetable, ask for that too.
Women need to learn this.
no. im a man and other man will help you when you are a dumbass BUT WILL LET YOU KNOW WHAT A DUMBASS YOU ARE WHILE DOING SO.
And its fair. im a dumbass and thats the price i have to pay to get help.
The dude at the beginning was also probably fed up that she was recording herself testing him to share on social media or at minimum a couple of friends through text. That’s a disrespect multiplier
For real. No dude wants to be humiliated, period. Certainly not in front of his woman, certainly not BY his woman, and certainly not by his woman in front of all her friends who will giggle and gossip and probably share it further. That's a hard 'she don't respect you, bro'. At that point... how much further does it go? Not worth the headache and potential heartache, imo.
That silent stare of disbelief. Man was deep analyzing the entire relationship and planning his exit.
Thank you for the "letting it soak" womansplain. So many women in my life have criticized me for just putting things in the sink. Like I'm trying to enjoy the meal I made and enjoy time with people I'm sharing the meal with. Washing it all can come later.
Well yeah. And the whole order of operations thing. Guys are more likely to work in an environment where we have strict orders of operations, for good reason! Soaking stuck on burnt food always reduces the effort needed to clean the dish. Even if my rule is rinse and stack it neatly beside the sink so you can still use the sink
This confused me, because when I was a kid, this was standard procedure, regardless of the person's personal plumbing.
@@cloudsgolden Same, and I was taught to do it by a woman...My mother Lol So idk why more women aren't hearing of it, as I thought this was something they were being taught as well
Bro I’m a woman and I do that
Water is a **universal solvent** for a reason. Cant fix stupid.
“No, a queen is firm and direct and tells people exactly what she wants.” Perfect! Just started watching this series, but already love it! There are a few women in my past I wish I could show this to.
Any "girl" who needs to hear this to be a proper woman, wont listen or be open to it anyway.
More woman needs to understand this more.
1) NEVER. EVER! Touch the food!!!! That gets you thrown out of the house
2) Letting things soak loosens food particles making it easier for the dish washer (washing your dishes before putting them in the dishwasher is wasted effort LOL)
3) Passive aggressive behavior gets you nothing. Communicate your needs simply and plainly! Everybody wins. EZ
Especially anything with eggs, cheese, or both (like an omelette). You need to soak that shit or spend that same amount of time scrapping it
The only pans I soak are aluminum clad stainless. Aluminum is just sticky enough to be annoying and need some extra chemical reaction time with water and soap.
Instead of a soak, for pans that aren't non-stick and can rust (think Cast Iron or Carbon Steel) put a large glass of water in the pan, put it over a medium heat and let it boil while you eat dinner. That will get all but the most stubborn particulates off, dissolve pretty much all of it into the water, and require basically no soap after that. The worst I've ever had to use is the green scrubby side of a sponge. And because the pan is still pretty hot, it evaporates the water nearly instantaneously once you take it out to dry.
And you don't want to scrub anything hard onto a teflon coated. Teflon already doesn't want to stick to anything, and that's true of the metal it's bonded to. Let it soak with hot water and soap for a while if something is too sticky even for teflon (especially eggs and cheese). It'll keep your teflon intact longer.
God didn't make me a mind reader.
We love you, but we can't read your mind. Tell us what you need. Counsellor D'anna Troi was so hot on star trek because she understood, and communicated in a non-threatening way.
If you have really nice pans, you MUST soak them. If someone starts aggressively scrubbing my nice teflon pans, I'm yelling at them.
Listen ladies.....I'm sure 95% of you (if not more) have all watched the show Friends. When Joey yells out "JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOOOOD" this is NOT a funny part of the show. This is reality. Yo, I was angry for that guy when she did that. In my head that food gets thrown in her face and either I or her are leaving.....FOR GOOD.
Some kinds of disrespect don't deserve second chances. He behavior showed him that she's not wife material.
@@spayderninja EXACTLY, if it's not that it will something else. Worse is RECORDING it. Personal/Family life is just THAT. Oh, and no one cares about your domestic life either....
@@spayderninja
It’s also telling him that this is gonna be the norm, so get used to it. Pissing people off just for fun is always wrong. ALWAYS!
If she would have grabbed a piece with her fingers, maybe.
But the whole hand and then the smile.😡 I don't believe in hitting women, that grin could make me forget.
bruh, i ws so angry when he put her hand on his food, i was about run away myself to not see that beating thats about to happen
Please womansplain how I can subtly leave your videos lying around my house so my lovely wife finds them, subscribes to your channels, and applies your wisdom, all while believing it was her idea from the start.
I’ll be uploading my “Womansplaining Women to Men” compilations soon so send her those and tell her you learned something then watch the rest of my videos magically start showing up on her algorithm 🤣
@@thedadvocate I very rarely throw the word “genius” out there, but this idea is friggin GENIUS. 🤩😄
Not sneaky or manipulative, because I know I’m actually going to watch that compilation, and I’m certain I’m actually going to learn a few things.
@@thedadvocate I think you may actually understand how The Alogirthm works better than half the sciencetubers I used to watch.
TH-cam algorithm. Borrow her phone, type this channel into the search bar, click search, and her suggested videos will have videos from this channel.
@@thedadvocate this made me love you more.
I admit I actually flinched back and sort of half snarled when she stuck her hand in the food. It wasn't even mine and just sort of a solidarity reaction of "the fuck do you think you are doing?"
The boob one made me laugh, because to this day I haven't met a guy whose answer to "What kind of boobs do you like" being more complicated then "Boobs." I had to explain to one of my girlfriends when I was in college that even though she was more or less completely flat it didn't really matter because even a board is fun to a guy if playing with it produces cute noises.
Boobs are boobs. They provide joy no matter what the shape or size.
There's something to what you just said, about the board and cute noises. Something that activates the primal monke brain. It's like that one scene from the SpongeBob Squarepants movie where they're going down into the trench and Patrick is fucking with the steps because, and I quote: "Ehuhuh it's making noise"
Obviously playing with boobs evokes a very different kind of "Ehuhuh it's making noise" than some steps, but the point still stands
@@alexquan1744man I thought I was weird for that exact reaction lol
A woman who I always thought of as very attractive and vivacious was very flat, but she joked about it and took comments and jokes in good humor. And as a colleague explained once, "anything more than a mouthful is wasted."
@@nwjh1957 Damn that's a wise-ass colleague
Her: "I'm really upset and want to talk"
Me: "Do you want a solution to fix it or do you just want me to listen?"
Men, this will save you a lot of grief, stress, and confusion
Food- Short version of my story! I was married for 14 years to a woman I dated for almost 6 years (prior to our marriage)! Around the 9 year mark of our marriage though, every Friday night we'd load her two kids into the car, and head 18 miles into town after work! She would then say "I am hungry" and I would ask "Where do you want to eat?" and her reply was always either "I Dunno" or "Whatever"! And for me, a trip to a fast food joint was a treat, because ALL week, I typically had gone without lunch, so my "once a week burger" fix WAS IN ORDER on Friday night!
Meanwhile I would then drive to the local Wendy's, Burger King, of McDonald's, and EVERY TIME, my wife would wait till we were inside the store, ready to order our food, and have a complete MELT DOWN, about where SHE wanted to go!!
My wife would even scream names at me, causing a huge scene like a child, then go about humiliating me IN PUBLIC loud enough so anybody in the place could hear her!! After YEARS of this behavior, I'd had enough and one Friday night, we loaded the kids into the car, drove to town and then when my wife said "I'm Hungry", I didn't even bother to ask her "Hungry for what?"!!!
Instead I drove past Wendy's, past McDonald's, Pizza Hut, Arby's and the Chinese Buffet place! I drove until I got to back roads and soon, after 18 miles I was pulling BACK into the driveway of our house! I got out of the car and went inside our home, cracked open a beer and sat there drinking it! A few minutes had gone by and I had heard her car leave again!
AFTER THAT Friday night, when I got out of work I'd go to the bank, stop and get myself some food, at the places I WANTED to eat at, and THEN drive home!! That way, when I got home and she'd say "Are we going to town?" I'd say "Nope I have been in town and I have no reason to go back!"!!! After all if she was going to act like a child.......I was going to treat her like a child!!!
That's a great strategy. I'm just sorry that you had to learn the hard way about single mothers.
OMFG!! I am married to her sister.
"Her kids" dude what?
How do they think that is anywhere near acceptable?
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq Man married a single mom
My wife used to get mad at me for not helping her cleaning. She's a housewife, it's a hard job I get it. I said just tell me what to do and I'll do it. She always said that I should've known and did it myself and she doesn't have to tell me. Ok then, I don't know what you need and I'm not gonna guess.
Then guess what? She can see the things most husbands do by doing these things herself.
Maintain and repair the lawn mower let alone cut the grass.
Maintain the leaf blower as well a use it on all the leaves
Clean out the gutters
Maintain, wash, wax and vacuum the car(s)
Change light bulbs in high locations.
Paint and or repair the fence.
Paint and or repair the deck.
Maintain and clean the barbeque.
Need I go on ladies?
I swear, my husband and I have had that same exact conversation 😂.
I think it's because we do the same basic stuff day in and day out we forget how it might not be so obvious to others.
I keep things from getting dirty, he waits for it to get dirty to clean it.
Sure the toilet is "clean" but I want to keep it from getting dirty so I wipe it down.
He just looks at it and say "what's dirty?"
Last time I helped with the cleaning. I got scolded for not dusting the tops of the wall mounted cabinets or cleaning the inside of the range hood...
@@justinpatterson5291 😅😅
I grew up in a military family, that's half my life right there. Took me about 5 years in my own marriage to just chill.😆
@@DigbyOdel-et3xx you're definitely single
As a woman with ADHD, my number one hate in life is people expecting me to mind read or getting mad at me for not doing something that wasn't explicitly asked of me.
ADHD just makes us men even more "terrible" with being able to mind read what someone wants by their sarcastic comments. We're already bad enough at it as is, but you add ADHD to the mix and it turns into a herculean task.
Bro, that just sounds like misdiagnosed autism. I know autism and ADHD share certain symptoms, but reduced social intuition is like, the biggest symptom of Autism and not even present in the ADHD criteria.
@@userequaltoNull HAHAHA It is also a massive symptom of ADHD, and the older you get the bigger the gap between the amount of social experience you have had and the amount that is normal widens, making you further behind and it even harder for you to interact socially and get the experience needed to learn these things. I definitely have ADHD but other people have also assumed that because of my overlapping symptoms I might have autism.
I still haven't figured out the balance between 'You NEVER take the initiative' and 'I did NOT ask tou to do that'.
@@iwanebbing2642 oh, that's easy, theirs none.
She wants you to take the initiative and do her life better in any way you can and ever time you can, without she asking you for it, for two reasons.
1. You are not her partner, you are her slave, it's your obligation to make her life better.
2. Since she didn't asked you explicitly to do something, then she owns you NOTHING, not even gratitude for making her life better or being nice.
My recommendation is to cut that kind of people from your life, if they don't respect you like an person who who deserves recognition and gratitude, then just cut them off, the world is full of people, even if only 1% of them likes you, that's still several millions 😎👍.
I actually shave in the shower. I started in my 20s when a female coworker complained about her husband doing it and I thought, “Shit, that’s a _genius_ idea.” I never cut myself because of trying to calculate angles reversed in a mirror, I never have to clean up hair from the sink, and the whiskers are softer from the steam, giving me a closer shave. And it saves a ton of time.
Thats genius, ill have to start doing that
@@bobbingi201 Can confirm I did this because it was annoying me to clean out the sink afterward and then having them all over the floor to because they never all fall in. I was just like well I have to shower after shaving anyways to get them off my body, why not wash them all away together
It also makes your skin not as rough afterwards because of the steam as well. I still use aftershave when I get out but it doesn't sting nearly as much as it did when I shaved in front of the mirror
Hang on, how does shaving in the shower mean you don't have to look in a mirror?
@@Elriuhilu Keep your hands dry and away from the water and you can use your phone. Or just feeling around your face to figure out where needs to be shaved
My gf complains from time to time about doing the house cleaning and that I should help her with it. Every time I remind her she does the easy weekly cleaning because she won't help me with the harder more disgusting things, like dropping the basement ceiling that was full of dead mice and mice poop, unclogging the toilet and sinks, going into the crawl space, etc. I tell her I will gladly start helping as soon as she starts helping me with the disgusting projects. She always then says "i was just venting" and drops it for a few months.
You need to drop HER, YESTERDAY
@@Believeinyourself8 I love this analogy holy shit
My ex-wife would complain when I'd "let things soak", get OCD, and clean them. When she's out of town. I let them soak, and clean them 3-4 hours later. As for the food, putting her hands on it while smiling isn't cute, it's disrespectful at hell, and it's sad that the girl doing it was oblivious to that.
She wasn't oblivious, she just didn't care. Validation from her audience on TikTok meant more to her than treating her boyfriend with basic fucking decency.
I don't think she was oblivious to that at all; I think that was her point
Attention seeking like that would have gotten her a place on the sidewalk. She would be finding a new man.
Honestly grabbing food wouldn't bother me much. Filming it for TH-cam would bother me. That makes the intentions clear.
@@CordovanSplotchVT She definitely knew she was doing something wrong, but she thought that she did it in a playful and cute way. It's plain as day from her facial expressions that she did not realise how much this bothered him. That stuff sadly happens when a person steps over a boundary that they didn't know the other had. Some of you guys need to calm down and stop overanalyzing. This shit happens in every relationship, especially if one of them is very new to being with someone. Don't assume evil intent when it can be chalked up to naivety.
Five seconds? A friend and I were up in the Boundary Waters Canoe Wilderness for a couple weeks on a fishing trip. Toward the end of the trip we'd eaten all the food we'd brought and were forced to fish for dinner the last couple days. We cooked up our catch and as it was being removed from the coals the pan with all our dinner fell to the ground. We looked at each other, looked at the spilled fish, realized that we couldn't pick it up to recover it, so we just sat down with our forks and ate what we could right off the ground.
Here I was going to say, you know what you do if the 5 second rule gets missed? It becomes the 10 second rule.
@@ThatDamnedGamer1 I was thinking about the 5 and 10 second rules :D Pretty sure they apply to men and women in Australia :D
When I was on deployment and I dropped some food on desert. Guess what I do? I’d pick it up, shake it so sand falls off, maybe smack it a few times to get whatever else I could off. And then eat it… idgaf
Dirt don’t hurt
@@madbearforge8550 For some MREs...dirt adds some much needed flavor.
There is little that frustrates someone in a relationship more than femsplaining. GIVE US THE COMPLETE BLODDY CONTEXT!!! STOP EXPECTING US TO GUESS WHAT YOU MEAN FROM VAGUE HINTS & PRONOUNS WITHOUT NOUNS TO CONNECT THEM TO, THEN GET MAD AT *US* WHEN WE GET ANNOYED WITH YOU!!! WE AREN'T BLODDY TELEPATHS!!!
I was dragged by my wife to a wedding shower once. We were supposed to give the couple a wedding present and a piece of advice. My advice to the bride was, "You're going to have a day where you get mad because you're dropping what you think are obvious hints about something, and he's just not picking up on them. When that happens, ask yourself if a twelve-year-old boy would get the hints. If not, don't expect your husband to get them. We don't work that way."
@@MichaelDavis-cy4ok Great advice! Overclarification is a pretty tiny sin, if it even is one.
Women are supposedly great at communication, yet they can't communicate effectively with their man. They repeatedly fail to just come out and SAY IT.
@@MichaelDavis-cy4ok When my one male cousin got married I told his new wife "if you have to hint about it than you don't really want, care about, or need it. If it matters then you need to say it plain and clear regardless of it embarrassing you or not." She sort of blinked, asked me if I was serious. Had to tell her she was living with a man, not another woman. We don't do hints, when guys live together or hang out or even work together, if we need something or want something we ask for it directly.
Would it be nice if someone would do it without asking? Sure would, but see...we are MEN. People don't do SHIT for men! Men do not experience random acts of kindness. It is rare for someone to come over and help a man for any reason unsolicited. Women experience a totally different side of society. People help them ALL THE TIME, to the point they take it for granted.
@@Nempo13 The only exception to the unsolicited help, is when it comes to raising kids. If you're a man, with children, and everyone knows your wife is going to be away for a couple of days, then the man will get all the help, even if he doesn't bloody want it, because to those people, men can't raise children...
Another thing belonging to a man that you don’t mess with, his tools.
Yup had my stepbrother’s wife put here hand in my plate. Wife took her to the restroom, stepbrother paid for my wife and I food. Then she was upset about him paying the check. My wife was correcting her “he never leave food on he’s plate”, you didn’t notice he stopped eating entirely after she had done that. Thanks for sharing. Women ruin dates because they don’t understand about “man rules”.
The blowing your nose in the shower point cracked me up because my mom complained about that when i was in high school. And my response was basically "I'm sorry the shower broke down my mucus to the point of needing to blow it and I'm saving on tissues by washing it down the drain" , never heard about it again lol
I spat in the toilet and my wife complained about it. "Where would you prefer me to spit?". She never complained again
What do women do with a stuffy nose in the shower? Just live with the discomfort for an extra 5 minutes?
I have problem, I see immediate solution.
@@golf398they're probably mouth breathers anyway so they don't even notice it
@@mallencollydamn bro, I don't think I could last very long living with such ineptitude
Okay the difference is when you blow the boogers onto the wall of the bathroom and then I have to scrub it off the wall. If it goes down the drain, go right ahead.
"Play stupid games - get stupid prizes" Wow that's a piece of wisdom right here lol
Honey would have won her place on the sidewalk.
The only real way to learn this is to play stupid games for some people, and thats a big IF
"That was sarcasm"
"No it wasn't"
"Then you're welcome"
Even my girlfriend thought that was funny
When my gf doesnt get a joke I always look at her and say "This is the part where you laugh because I was just joking" otherwise she tends to take things seriously no matter how absurd they sound.
@@monty4336that *could* be autism. I take everything literally and jokes woosh over my head all the time. It’s an ability to detect sarcasm or nuance, which is generally an autistic trait.
@@WVNDERER doesn't have to be autism, could literally just be a difference in how their families used sarcasm growing up. Don't diagnose strangers from a couple sentences.
@@lumenox8541No no, as an autistic he's right, that is something we do.
I would have replied with “so if you were genuinely pleased with my support, why did you leave and then start texting me about how bad my support was?”
The concept I had the hardest time wrapping my head around was that women don't always want a solution to their problem, they just want a sympathetic ear! So now before offering a solution, I'll ask my wife if she wants a solution to the problem or just wants me to listen.
Yup thats mind boggling to me, its also why in my teen years i stopped going to my mother with problems and started asking my dad. Sure talking about it is nice and helps in the moment but if it doesnt solve the problem then its only a matter of time before i feel crap again. Its like bailing water out of a sinking ship.
Speaking as a guy myself, I actually enjoy doing dishes lol. It’s just really satisfying to scour away all the mess. My boyfriend, on the other hand, absolutely hates washing dishes lol. I have no problem whatsoever being the one to relieve him of having to do that task. 😊
Edit: 7:00 You really hit the nail on the head with this one. Female violence by proxy is something society really needs to be taking more seriously. If we start doing so, perhaps we’ll be seeing less war. Just maybe. Because all of a sudden “look what those evil oppressive bastards on the other side of the ocean are doing to their poor womenfolk, we need to send soldiers over there right now” won’t be as effective anymore.
"Female violence by proxy" effectively describes Prohibition. The Temperance feminists (mostly single women) committed their own violence to get the 18th (& 19th, but that's another story) Amendment passed, and then they let the government enact violence against men to enforce it. The entire "family" court system is built on a foundation of "female violence by proxy," as women often use false accusations against men as a way to get tin stars with guns to attack men.
If I order food it means I have asked my partner SEVERAL TIMES if they wanted anything. And, if they give me an answer for "Oh, just a sandwich" or "no, not hungry" or a "just a salad" I've poked and prodded for more information because I know she's lying. If she never fixes her answer then I'll probably just end up ordering extra. But, if we get the point where I'm told not to get her anything at all she's gonna get a fork in the hand the moment she tries to reach out.
You should stop enabling this stupid behavior. Tell her directly that unless she tells you what she wants, you're just going to order food for yourself, and she won't get any, and then stick to that until she starts just telling you what she wants.
Yes,... I'll definitely stab a bitch over my food. NO WAY I didn't offer and/or bring her something. We fighting
I had a friend who dropped some hard candy in sand. picks it up and just pops it in the mouth. Sucks on it and spits out the sand and looked at me say "Sorry I needed to sand my candy it had some rough edges"
🤣👍
The food one always kills me, I saw it as a trend online a while back and it damn near made me hurl
Hope that guy moved on and found someone better (provided it wasn't staged, and that didn't look too staged by their reactions)
I am an old guy and that was always one of my biggest no-nos. If a girl tried to steal off my plate she would get one stern warning, the second time it was, look for another boyfriend.
This wasn't her being hungry or wanting to have a little taste of the food. She was trying to show off to her friends online how much she could push her boyfriend around and he'd let her get away with it because she's "just so adorable".
@@impudentdomain Anything near my plate is considered food and fair game for a forking.
@@williamjenkins4913 or a bite.
i dont think men fuck around with food.
how many hey yall watch this hold my beer clips involve wasting food?
riding a bike off the roof onto a trampoline while tour friends ate on it check.
cannon balling intoa. frozen lake check.
driving a car with no wheels check.
driving a car thats cut in half check.
taking a car that has no business trying to claim a cliff check..
fucking with food.... not one of em
When my wife and I first got together she noted and agreed that she would not hint about ANYTHING she wanted me to do. This has worked almost flawlessly.
"You know according to some philosophers if no one was around to hear it, a man didn't even fart" its my new favorite sentence
I had a woman get annoyed at me for ordering an extra plate of chips with my meal at the restaurant. It was because she never ordered her own chips and would instead pick from my plate, I was tired of it and started ordering extra chips for her. Apparently this was a bad thing to do.
Yeah because now she cannot ignore the calories she stole off of your plate because she OnLy HaD a SAlAd. I am happy for that you wrote it in past tense.
At that point of time, I wouldn't be mad if you licked all of your chips first, if someone wants chips they can get their own damn chips
I've always had the opposite problem of the 'let it soak' thing.
Depending on the food, and the cookware, I will usually just wipe out the pan with a damp cloth whilst it's still hot. It's an old chef's trick used in busy restaurants. For some reason, this also drives women mad.
Yep. I used to work in a commercial kitchen, and cleaning pans while they are hot is far quicker and better. I usually make the food super hot, and while it is sitting on the plate I just give the pans the once over. No dishes to do after eating!
@@loveleyday Where do you think I learned that trick from. 🙂
Similar to deglasing? Either way, I agree, give it a quick wipe while the grease is still warm, and scrape any stuck on shit before it cools. This also reduces any fats from going down the drain, preventing future clogs.
My method too, the heat is going to keep things sterile enough as well especially if you put it back down on the heat then turn off the burner after you toss the paper towel in the trash.
I'd be wary doing that in a restaurant. I would think that could leave just enough residue to potentially cause an allergic reaction if the previous dish contained ingredients the next customer was allergic to.
One of the things my ex did wrong intentionally at every turn was with my food. When she was around I never EVER had the first bite of my food, and she had never EVER asked for it. This was a part of a pattern of disrespect and disregard for me that led to our messy, painful, horrible divorce.
My current wife asks, almost always receives, and gets none of the same resentment for almost entirely the same result.
That's a far better result for both of you 👍
My mom told me when she was younger, she would sometimes tease the family dog when he was trying to eat, and the dog, who was very friendly and understanding would get really angry at her. Her dad told her "even a dog should be allowed to eat in peace". The first video of that guy, it's like, dude's just trying to enjoy a nice meal in peace and not only is she messing with his food, she's shoving a camera in his face so he can't have any peace... good on him if he did walk out...
To be fair, one of the ways to untrain food aggression from dogs, is to deliberately take the food away from them mid-eating. Obviously once they no longer exhibit food aggression, you shouldn't be tormenting your dogs for no good reason.
Saoking is especially helpful when dealing with rice burnt onto the rice cooker. Letting it soak fully seperated the rice from the metal of the cooker.
Had a girl that used that example you put out the boob job one. After the 3rd “ugh I think I need a boob job” I said “well I like the initiative, but you should start with the face”. Never heard of the boob job thing since prior to ending it and the best part of my roast we were watching the office and it was the roast episode and it was at the exact part where micheal says “boom roasted” timing couldn’t have been more perfect.
Knew a girl who wanted a nose job. She didn't need it, so I told her she should go see a specialist, a psychologist, because the problem was not the nose, it was in her head.
A while later I met her , she had a nose job, and of course she looked worse with the new nose. The reason she did it was because she always thought she looked like some actress, but no one else saw that, so she did her nose so that everyone else realizes she looks like that actress.
I told her that flies will now get up her nose, when she rides her bike.
@@scratchy996 Penelope Cruz?
You reminded me of a joke! GF asked BF if he ever pees in the shower & he said yeah sometimes by accident, she says eww that’s so disgusting & what do you mean by “accident” He said well these things happen when you’re having a dump! 🤣
That's a really good one!
I thought the answer was "because peeing in the bath is gross."
now that is funny, hurt myself laughing.
The thing about hairs in the sink/tub was hilarious cuz I turned that complaint around one time. She said it was so gross to find little hair shavings in the bathroom. To which I responded by going to the bathroom, grabbing a long glob of female hair out of the tub drain and said “at least mine don’t clog the drain.” 🤣
I don't understand women not just ordering the food they want to eat. We are not impressed by how little you eat. We know that you're just gonna be hungry later and make us pull over somewhere or you're gonna be getting into our snack supply. If I'm on a date and I order a burger, I would much rather she order a larger burger than a damn salad. I'd take that as a challenge. Ladies, we love a good competition, especially when we win.
I LOVE your work! There is such wisdom and insight here, and the delivery is just perfect. More, please!
I laughed out loud on a few of these, thank you. The "order of operations" explanation (2:55) of the dinner prep-eat-cleanup sequence is perfect. Hell, *everything* is a process and the cyclical ones can be easily smoothed out like that.
The outro scene of your Patreon board calligraphy was a surprise. The writing is so _well_ done. Brava.
My aunt would get so mad at me growing up, because I’d do things easy and not spend Hours scrubbing sandpaper on the dishes and using the entire dawn soap bottle to clean one pan with dried fried crap on it.
Hell I’d plug up the sink fill it with water, take a full kettle boiled to high hell and pour that to the water with like a tablespoon of the soap. And be done with everything.
but noo I should just be running gallons on gallon on gallons of water to wash a single facking spoon.
That's what my dad's joke was. He once told me "that you only need a mouthful" I didn't know it was a playful subversion of handful, cause I never heard the handful version.
That last drop of pee falling into the underwear isn't a choice and dear god I wish someone told me when I was younger.
I never had it happened to me anymore the pee in underwear thing after I discovered the trick it empty all your pee from the pee tube.
You have to push behind your balls upwards and you will feel getting all the pee out and will feel empty.
You gotta find the right spot.
@@MeF0r3v3r You have to play with yourself to get it all out, someone stop the fuckin' presses.
@@MeF0r3v3r This is sage knowledge.
@@Yamitri forbidden secrets...
@@MeF0r3v3r This but I will also grab one square of TP (folded) and wipe the tip to be super thorough. :)
My wife and I actually had a conversation about beard chibble in the sink. She used to work at a B&B and had to clean that for a living and has some serious PTSD about some of the less respectful (being polite here) clients and what they left behind for her to deal with. Understanding this, I am always extremely careful about beard chibble, because she has an actual legitimate reason to be squicked out by it. And she responds by being thankful for me respecting that. In fact, just last week we visited a friend, and when we got home, she thanked me again for being so good about cleaning up the beard trimmings, because apparently the man of that house didn't and it squicked her out, which reminded her that she hasn't had that happen in years in our home, ever since that discussion.
Communication and respect. She had an issue, she communicated the issue and why it was an issue up front and in plain english. I respected her issue, and took steps to correct and take into account her feelings. She respects that I do make certain to take her feelings into consideration in this matter. This is how a relationship works.
I love the word "squicked". I'll be stealing that. As for "chibble", I think I'll stick with "trimmings".
I just put a paper towel over the drain so my trimmings don't clog the sink it barely takes any time yet my father cant be bothered to do the same.
A very quick cure for that from personal experience is get them to clean the sink after its been laying around for a couple of days. Damn stuff glues itself to the sink and needs industrial tools to shift. A couple of times doing that and it hopefully will work wonders lol.
I live alone and still make sure to get every little chibble. Don't need guests thinking I'm a slob.
👏👏👏👏👏👏 exactly how it's supposed to work.
Been binging soo much of these because i need that positivity for my soul
Thanks for the good vibes
I honestly have to give a massive thank-you for this series. Whether or not it has helped women understand us better, it has at least helped me understand myself better.
When I was young, me and my family were at Culver's (a Midwest burger place). The family rule was that if you made the parents pay extra for something like onion rings instead of fries, you had to share them with everyone. Well, they messed up my order and gave me cheese curds that I did not order. A couple minutes into my meal, my sister reaches to grab some. She doesn't take one or two, she shoves her hand as far as possible into the bag and takes a whole fistful. It's been almost twenty years and I still haven't forgiven her for it.
Culver's is superior and nonody will tell me otherwise 😂
My first Ex-wife said she wanted a breast reduction I told her to get one if that is what she wanted, she never got one. our divorce did not hurt my feelings.
she was an M cup she needed a reduction.
How many ex-wives do you have?
i let dishes soak all the time, it works. just don't let them sit too long. Work smarter not harder. Sad thing is I have to explain this to women in my family still. I've been better at doing dishes than my mother and all the women in my family since I was 5yrs old.
Don't dry dishes, let them dry themselves.
Don't scrub like crazy, let the power of water dissolve and soften things first.
I'm glad I grew up poor, because that meant she understands what a strainer is supposed to be for. The only time we'd have to wipe down dishes was if we had more stuff to dry than we had strainer space.
Rinse first, then soak. Always. Wish she would rinse
Also... rinse them as you put them into the sink/ on the counter. They'll be much cleaner and may even look clean (just need soap to sterilize and get rid of grease. )
It's not just the dishes. Women generally tend to do things as they were taught without applying to much thought to what they are actually doing. My mother used to hate ironing laundry, and who doesn't? But being naturally lazy, one of the first things I figured out after moving out is that when hanging laundry up nice and straight, without using pegs, then folding it away the second you take it off the line, there are very few items that require being ironed. Taught her that rather simple, obvious "trick" after about 30 years of being her own woman, and she's not exactly stupid...
Additional information on "Letting Them Soak"... if you want to throw something in the sink, either make sure is it soaking individually or add it to an item that can contain it (like put a dirty bowl in the pot that is sitting in the sink already full or water. If you start just throwing dirty dishes in the sink, without soaking them appropriately so that they're now some horrible abomination of half soaked and half dried on food, you have made the entire sink your problem (including any dishes that were initially soaked properly but are now buried).
I have literally broken up with a girl because she messed with my food. She put something in my drink as a prank (salt and pepper or something) and was trying to get me to drink it. Others at the table were egging her on to do it. When I came back, it was obvious, and she had a dumb smirk on her face. I poured the drink out all over her plate and mine, and walked out. It was such a huge disrespect, I couldn’t even believe it. 🙄
My Dad explained soaking the dishes to both me and my Mom. My Dad may take ages to explain some of the simplest concepts, but he is a master at order of operations.
I'm sorry but there are two other of a man's things that you do NOT mess with: His car and his radio pre-sets. Those are right up there with his girl, money and food.
Indeed, we don't play 'what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine.' No just no. I got things set up and you come screwing it up. Na fam.
Who the f cares about radio pre-sets anymore..? It's 2023 bro, not the 90s. Also, if it's a marriage, the car(s) belong to the household legally. I can understand not messing with it if it's a classic or personally maintained and/or modded car with after market parts. But if it's just your everyday car, regularly serviced by the dealer or a generic mechanic, a guy's got no right to fuss.
Not quite correct. It depends on the state in the US (There's like 10 out of 50 that do communal property), and a partners car is still theirs if it was purchased before marriage.
Plus, a partners car is often one of the places that isn't regularly coinhabited by the other. That becomes one of the few "their spaces" emotionally. Not to mention driving to work & back.
Not that I care/have issues with this, but it's pretty easy to see where this comes from.
Honestly, the car is probably a higher priority than the girl in some cases. I don't mind losing a girl but I'd cry if anything happens to the car.
@@xidada666 HA ha nope, that car belongs to whoever's name is on the damn title. PERIOD. My wife has a car, I have a car. Neither of us messes with any settings we can't put back.
5:55 When a friend comes to me and starts talking about something and I hear it is a problem stop them and ask, "is this a listening problem or a solving problem".
Listening problem: Am I required to listen and nod and hug and we are done, or.....
Solving problem: Am I required to listen so that I can proffer advise, help, and solutions or even actions.
This has saved a lot of fights from starting.
I solved it a different way.
"There are no just listening problems with me. The only way you're going to get me to 'just listen' is if you are also telling me the steps you're taking, personally, to solve the problem you are complaining to me about."
Women make this big deal about "I just need to vent", and I go, "then you don't actually need me around for that. You could do exactly what you're doing to the wall. Unless, all you want is for me to PRETEND I give a crap about your childish and basic problems that you will never solve and will come back to me next week to complain about them again."
I don't enable childish behavior and shut it down. The women I shut this behavior down in end up far better off because they actually learn to be accountable and proactive in their own lives. They learn to solve their problems, rather than just using them as excuses to whine like children.
If you talk to me about your problems, I will help you solve them. That's part of any conversation. If you don't want help with your problems, then you need to tell me that you're already actively solving them, but you want to run it by me to ensure that what you're doing is the right thing to do.
I'm an adult. I have conversations. You are an adult, you don't get to just talk for the sake of talking. If talking for the sake of talking makes you feel better, then you need to grow the heck up and learn to manage your emotions better.
I learned, after several girlfriends, when my significant other wishes to talk about a problem, to ask EXACTLY that question. "Would you like me to be a good listener, or do you want my inputs on a solution?"
Works every time.
@XxTaiMTxX Look, let me phrase it this way: the problem is that she's upset about something, and talking about it to a person will help her calm down. She likely also wants a hug and/or an outside perspective to see if she's overthinking or is being reasonable.
This is not childish - it's a desire for connection and a place to be emotionally vulnerable. I realize a lot of men have had that desire squashed out of them, so it's difficult to understand or sympathize with, but it's a very real desire.
At the very, very least, let her finish explaining the problem before jumping in with a solution. Don't interrupt her, ffs, she gets interrupted by men all day and doesn't need more of that.
@@rizahawkeyepierce1380
1. If she's upset and just wants to talk about it without input, then it shouldn't even matter if the other person is paying attention or even cares. If she wants comfort, that's another story entirely. Ask for a hug, or break down in tears to get a hug, or whatever. What you're seeking is actual human interaction at that point.
But, if it's just a case of "just listen to me, and add nothing", then I'm out. I'm not dealing with such childish narcisissm. It ain't happening.
If you're an adult, you talk, to people FOR THE INTERACTION. If you're a child, you speak just to hear the sound of your own voice. If you're speaking just to be speaking, then I don't have to listen to you, or care about your nonsense, and you could better talk to a wall instead.
2. If she's looking for an outside perspective, then she should ALWAYS be prepared for "the guy to fix the problem". Typically if a person needs to seek "an outside perspective" it is because they already know their perspective is incorrect to begin with. Or, they're children and just want someone to pat them on the head and agree with them.
Typically, the phrase "if you have to ask..." applies to stuff like that.
But, women looking for "outside perspective" will never complain about "my guy wants to fix my problems". Because, you know, they're not children.
3. It matters very much what it is she wants to "vent about". A great many women have this issue where they turn things into bigger problems than they actually are. They blow things up out of proportion and want other people to care and be as moronically invested as they are in something that is literally a non-issue.
Let's go down the list of stupid crap that has been "vented to me about" over the years.
-Someone doesn't like them.
-Someone does something annoying to them.
-They feel like they don't have friends or friends are too hard to make.
-Work was stressful, but nothing actually stress inducing actually happened at work.
-Didn't lose as much weight as they thought they would on the new diet.
-A person they should've kicked to the curb years ago is still someone they're friends/family with and they care a lot about them, but insist on remaining in the toxic relationship and being stressed out about it.
-Got in trouble at work and yes, they were the problem, despite how they tried to spin it.
-A course of action that was advised against by me was taken anyway, and now they want to complain about how things didn't magically work out like they wished they would have. Because, you know... they be dumb as rocks.
-Obvious stupid decision was made, and they didn't get the outcome they wanted. Because, you know, women think hope is more powerful than reality.
-Complaining about a problem that isn't their problem and that nothing can be done about it. Self-stress due to the need to insert themselves into everyone's lives. Narcisissm.
-Minor inconsequential thing has been bothering them a while.
These are things where women are just being children and don't require "someone to vent to", but are things where "a therapist is required".
4. If you don't want interrupted, get to the dang point. Be concise in your complaint and story. No person with self-respect is going to listen to you monopolize a conversation just because it "makes you feel better" to do so.
If, as a woman, you find yourself interrupted a lot... it's because you talk too much and never get to the point. You insert too much pointless crap, go off on too many tangents, and just generally monopolize all time and space for conversations with your own voice. This is a problem of narcissm not "men always interrupt you". The common denominator in "constantly getting interrupted by men" is "you" and not "men". So, you are the problem.
If a man interrupts your story to give you the solution, it's because your reasons and your story are pointless drivel. They're busywork. They're the thing you're using to wind yourself up needlessly. The source of your stress in those situations is you lack the intelligence to solve the problem yourself, realize the problem is solved the second you take action, and no further thought need be wasted on the issue, because it's a solved problem.
Otherwise known as:
"Being a child".
Or, if you prefer: "talking for the sake of hearing your own voice", which is also "narcissism".
@@XxTaiMTxX nope. Thats not the diagnostic criteria for narcissism and 2 its not childish to vent. Men and women are different in a lot of different ways, this is one of them. Women tend to externalize their emotions and men tend to internalize their emotions, so if a women constantly spews out their emotions and a guy automatically internalizes them then he'd be acting like an emotional garbage can which is toxic for him, but if the guy shuts down a woman from ever being able to express their emotions the way she needs to then he's being emotionally unavailable which is also toxic. The trick is to understand one another better and make allowances in the relationship for one another so you can both be yourselves, and get your needs met without crapping on the other person. I have a procedure i've practiced with my lady spicifically for this. I set aside time to allow her to vent but i draw boundries if she starts getting bitchy, I call her out on her bitchyness, then if that bitchyness gets directed at me i end the conversation. Giving her some time to vent while also not putting up with any shit is a more healthy approach. Sticking to that procedure constantly has tampered down the drama over time as she learned about my personal boundaries, she respects me more and our relationship has deepened because of it. So you're really missing an opertunity here if don't develop a more nuanced understanding of what's going on in these types of interactions.
Thing about the food too is how often the simple question will be asked, "I'm going to get something to eat, do you want anything?" And woman will say "no," only to then try to eat out of his once he has it. I've gone out with three women who did that, and it pissed me off to no end, because they'd keep doing it after I told them not to.
0:44 - I work in a liquor store. One night, I came back from my lunch break with a small bowl of popcorn for later. I jumped behind the register, set it behind my counter, and started working thru a rush. One of my regulars came in, walked past me to the 50mL section, and on his way back by, reached OVER THE COUNTER and helped himself. Dude didn't even ask, just reached behind the counter and put his grotty hobo-fingers in my food. When I chastised him for it, he laughed at me -- mouth still full. So I threw my now-contaminated popcorn in the trash in front of him, took his items away, and told him to leave. He was about to smart back to me when I told him "Not another word or else I can make the ban last. Try it. We'll start at a week." To his credit, he came back a day or two later and apologized, but still. This. Don't eff with someone else's food.
I"m an old man and a big fan! Your insights are flawless and hilarious...keep up the good work.
I legit had to replay the part after she grabbed his food. I blacked out. So glad I've never had to deal with that.
Had it happen. She 'thought' she was being cute on a first date. There was no second.
@@Believeinyourself8
Naw man, at that point I'd give you a pass to blast her on social media for making tons of people starve to death because she couldn't keep her hands to herself
Not only is that *obviously* sarcasm, but she said it after the fact and didn't stick around or give him the chance to change how he was responding for her.
I've noticed "Letting them soak" isn't always a male thing. Our female room mate is the biggest culprit for this, she'll let EVERYTHING soak even if it really doesn't need it. Nothing irritates me like bowls and pots full of tepid, filthy water cluttering up the whole sink
That's not "let it soak" that's "I don't want to do the chores, but I don't want to be called lazy for not doing the chores."
One thing she missed on the food video is that if that was a man who stuck his hands in his food, even a good friend, that guy would have gotten some hands. As a woman, his “girlfriend” didn’t have that fear, and was way more willing to push his buttons. The sound of him throwing his food away would have been the sound of him hitting any guy who did that.
Oh my god, is there somewhere I can find a woman like you? Like is there a store or something? I'm currently single after I apparently did something wrong with my gf and then got ghosted, never figured it out and she definitely wouldnt tell me. You are so on point and its so refreshing to hear a woman finally understanding our habits that we are not hiding at all
"I'm Ukrainian"
As guy from Poland, this little bit of information sure explains a lot.
Also the point about marksmanship is, well, on point.
Once did it as a challenge at work where I talked with a dude who was taking a shower, so I almost completely stepped back from the stall while peeing, just to make eye contact with him.
And before you ask: No, not a single drop was spilled that day.
'And not a drop was spilled that day'
I salute you, sir!
Your to dangerous to be left alive.
I'm here to talk to you about the Avenger Initiative
@@rossjones8656 Don't make me point him at you!
@@MurasakiTsukimaru That wouldn't make for a long movie. Thanos would pack up and gtfo in 5 minutes.
Three videos in and I'm pretty sure she has nailed us. She has a dangerous level of awareness guys wish they had a fraction of understanding for women. Not only that, ideas that were previously not there are now readily available to adopt. Never heard of the laundry chair before and my life has now forever changed.
Wooow, that first one... That shit is an instant 5 fingers across the face moment for me. And a verbal ass-whooping.
"Don't touch my food" means exactly that. Can't listen and respect that boundary? Then feel. Period.
4:00 "If you have a problem, they want to fix it." - And to me this goes beyond relationship. Last week a female teaching colleague (for art) was looking for a specific piece of music she wanted to use as an inspiration/background for a lesson. She only remembered a few bars and went around asking people. I was grading some exercises at that moment (lunch break). I DID recognize the melody as something I was familiar with, but not what. So I stopped correcting, went to the teacher's lounge PC and started going through lists of famous classical music until 5 minutes later I found it (Wagner's ride of the valkyries). while that was playing on the headphones I was using, she immediately went "THAT's it" (from across the room, so respect to her ears) and thanked me. I told her what it was, so she could write it down, then went back to grading exercises.
I do love your list of "gross" things men do. Also for the first bit about not sharing food:
"JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!!!" :D
This was a really good one. I always used to let the dishes, at least the grodier pans, soak. Recently (okay, a year is recent in a 25 year mariage), my wife put her little foot down and asked that I stop doing that. The issue was not the soaking itself but the amount of time I left them soaking. I sometimes put them to soak and forgot about them until the next day or the day after when the mood took me to do the dishes. Totally fair. Also it made that sink unusable for her to do the dishes if she wanted to do them. I inevitably filled the other sink with the rest of the soiled dishes waiting to be washed. She explained that it was a discouragement and too much work to empty the sink before even starting the dishes. I can get behind leaving one of the two sinks empty to encourage someone to do dishes. My sons also make the effort of not soaking unless they intend to do the chore in the next fifteen minutes. A 15 minute soak seems reasonable to all of us. I love my wife.
I’m just happy to see that the word “grody” is still alive and well after all these years😌
My first reaction to her touching his food was 'See that? It is the door, I am going to hit you with it if you don't get out of my house fast enough.'
Ya know this is like the 20th video I've seen of you and I gotta say I absolutely love you. Practically every single advice here is COMMUNICATION.
Thank you SO much for the soaking explanation, I feel heard and validated 🙏
I came up with a solution to the nail clippings being left behind: I cut my nails outside.
Welp, when a lady is properly motivated.. we too can step out from the toilet and check our marksmanship, fart like beasts and be overprotective of our food goodies. If you know, you know ;) Also, I had to teach my hubby to soak dishes, it's just so much more efficient. I think this is what happens when a girl is raised in a home where the boys out number the girls 🤣😂
Its a natural evolution of:
1 Forgetting the dishes in the sink (ill do them later)
2 Getting a cool glass of water (let the water run so its cold, also soaks the dishes)
3 coming back later to find the dishes way easier to clean
#23, I laughed out loud on this one. Last week in the midst of a 13hr drive from VA back to MA we took a break at the Lombardi truck stop in Jersey. I step out of the suv and commit #23. My wife was sitting behind me and closes her door to see this happening thus inquiring to what in the hell I was doing. After explaining this to her while still shaking, she tells me to use my hand like a normal guy! hahaha
Never touch another man's food it's like touching a dog's dish bowl
Our girl kills it…EVERY…SINGLE…TIME!!! Dadvocate is so good and so metal!! Don’t ever stop.
"Doo doo fingers" killed me😂😂 this is why I'm very vocal about things that bother me in my relationship and encourage her to do the same. People talk about communication's important then don't communicate about small things that bother them, they don't want to be seen as whiny or bitchy or a problem. Naw fam, I seen them seeds grow into trees, and a strong wind blow them trees down and collapse whole households. We're adults. Imma treat you like one, you treat me like one, if I do something you don't like it prolly wasn't on purpose and I prolly didn't realize it, if you don't tell me I won't know. That's an easy way for resentment to set in and love to move out. Some women might not take it well and you might spend more time single than if you didn't, all about priorities. If your priority is not single that's easy, if it's a healthy relationship you have to find someone who also wants that and that shits hard. Also empathy and understanding of cause and effect. My fiance left me a voice message talking about maybe we should move the wedding to next year. My gut response was negative and all the reasons that was a terrible idea. As I continued getting ready for work it dawned on me she might just be scared and stressed and overwhelmed and this was it manifesting. All negativity faded, I called her on the way to work, gave her the encouragement and reassurance she really needed, sometimes people just need to be told that things are ok. Relationships are hard, that's a whole ass other grown person who is as much a culmination of all their past experiences as you are of yours, you can't just project your life and feelings onto them and expect happily ever after. She ended up crying and telling me how gratefull she was to have me in her life, I didn't play superman, I told her my gut reaction and that I'm glad I figured it out before I said something destructive. That opened the door for a conversation about how I might not always read and respond to a situation as appropriately in the future and all types of discussions that will hopefully help prevent future issues due to simple misunderstandings. I don't claim to be some all knowing guru but that's my 2 cents anyway
They're just pissed, pun intended, that it's harder for them to go outside without getting caught
She's Ukrainian. It explains so much.
I knew a truly western chick could never have these insights lol.
Sadly I thought the same thing, but kudos to her!
Slavboy here, she's not _really_ Ukrainian. I would have never guessed she said a Ukrainian phrase if it wasn't for the subtitles (good try tho lol). She clearly was born and grew up in North America with little to no connection to the culture of her ancestors.
@@denisborzov8406 Americans do this a lot.
@@TheSpacecraftX yeah, I know. Americans be like "I'm Cherokee!" while they are 1/16.
@@denisborzov8406 People trying to claim native heritage rarely ever occurs in reality.. It's more of a cynical idea that gained popularity due to things like affirmative action and diversification of all sorts of businesses and organizations.. For example, if you could somehow prove you had even a sliver of legitimate native ancestry, it could be your ticket to a better chance of being accepted at a top university or appear more attractive to a potential employer that is trying to improve their diversity statistics.. And as for that "Americans do this a lot" comment, all I can say is... that is a very ignorant and narrow minded view of why Americans reference or claim national heritage from countries they weren't born in/haven't been to, etc.. Well when you're a citizen of a country that hasn't even been around for 250 years, with a culture stitched together by groups and traditions from all over the world, sometimes we like to remember where our ancestors originally immigrated from... It can add a little bit of context to the narrative of our existence, honor/remember our ancestors, and ultimately just help us understand ourselves and others a bit more. I'm sorry if it offends you when we casually reference our national heritage in a conversation or comment, we're not trying to steal your national identity.. But I'd recommend dialing down the cultural nationalism whenever possible.. We all know what happens when Europeans drink too much of that Kool-Aid.. 😉😃
I felt like the prowler meme when she touched his food. From complete neutrality to unyielding rage, and I still feel pissed.
Just found this channel, a while ago, and have been bingeing on your content, for the past 2 days, and all I have to say is: I love this woman.
She gets us!
I hope more women listen to the stuff she says, because it is spot on.
And as for the girl in the first video... DAMN!
Look, I'm more the serious type, but there's three things that I definitely will NOT joke around with, and those are: my family, my work, and FOOD.
When it comes to food, I want to see everybody eat a good meal; it makes me happy to know everyone's fed.
Hell, you could be my worst enemy, and I'll still give you a warm meal and a glass of water!
Seeing that girl just grabbing homeboy's food like that, made me so angry, because that is something that you just don't do. And to then see her smiling like that, like it was hilarious; that was like a kick to the teeth.
I really hope my boy left that toxic ass bitch, because if she did that, then there is no boundary she will not cross, to get her way.
Yes, respect must be earned, but that does not mean that even if you don't respect someone, that they forgoe their right to eat.
Damn, she smiles when she grabs his food? She’s smiling for two reasons.
The initial funny is that she knows just how awful what she just did was.
The secondary funny is that she expects not to be retaliated against for being an awful person. Notice how the smile drops the moment the consequences appear.
1st vid reaction: Omg, I’d be pissed if someone put their whole hand all over my food too!
2nd vid reaction: I soak dishes too!
3rd vid reaction: “that’s sarcasm” “nO iTs NoT!” (grroooaaaannnn)
4th vid reaction: I sneeze in the shower, and I totally make the wall of hair 😂 (cause I’m trying to avoid hairy drain)
For #4 look up something called a tub shroom. It's basically a rubber plug that allows water to pass through but traps hair. As a guy with long hair it's a fucking godsend lol.
@@mattlittke5233 I don't have a long hair on my head but my beard, does the clog trick, I use that rubber thing too
@@mattlittke5233 Which proves women are _way_ grosser than men for this kind of thing, because they needed a whole-ass device invented to deal with their long drain hair lol - oh and drain hair has actually kept some plumbing companies _in_ business too 😁
Oh shit, you're Ukrainian too? No wonder I'm really enjoying your intelligence, snark, and beauty in these videos.
My ex would scream at me when I would put a little soap in the pan with some water and then put it back on the burner on medium to low heat. I tried explaining to her about thermal dynamics, solvent penetration and matter dissolution.
Then she screamed at me for saying she was stupid.
I just came across your videos and wanted to thank you for the kind things you say. It seems like most women just want to hate on men nowadays and it really starts to get under your skin and takes an emotional toll hearing it all day long day after day. It has started to be too much for a lot of men to hear how worthless they are all the time. So I just wanted to thank you for being kind. It means more than you know.
peeing in the shower: it goes down the EXACT same pipes as the toilet.
Blowing your nose in the shower and peeing in the shower is cleaner overall. less mess, and it all ends up in the same places.
less mess? Peeing in the shower splashes your feet with piss, toilet dont do that (if it does, its a user problem)
@@ssu7653 "Peeing in the shower splashes your feet with piss"
not true
But even if you piss on yourself, who cares? you're in the shower........ You do know what a shower is for, right (I hope)?
I swear people are de-evolving before my eyes.
@@chillyavian7718 Try without the shower running and see if your feet are still dry. All the shower do is rinse with water where you pee
@@chillyavian7718 That is my point, you piss your feet so you have to wash not just rinse when done.
This woman needs to be protected and guarded at all costs! We need to form an impenetrable line around her and lay down our lives if necessary! 💂💂♂💂♀💂💂♂💂♀
Jeans are Literally designed to not be washed for extended periods. and yes, there are studies on this.
Jeans use to be poor people work clothes meant to last generations of wear. Only later did they become commonplace and even a fashion statement. But they are Work clothes. The more you wash them, the faster they wear out too.
this is true, I finally broke my wife of the habit of over washing my jeans. My rule of thumb is I wear them one week and then wash unless I was doing some very dirty work of some type.
Give them the good old smell test, and see if they are visibly dirty. Pass those 2 and they are good to go 1 more day
How can woman still not know that they can't touch our food? You said you're not hungry but i am and i plan to eat my fill. We could have gotten more but you can't take my food if you've decided that you don't want anything. This is like the only thing i get angry about but every woman does it.
I almost dropped my phone when she stuck her hand in his plate. I'm still pissed and it wasn't even my food. I'd of had to throw the throw pillows out the front door just to calm down enough to politely tell her we were done. So maybe they are useful after all. Who knew?
Oh, you're Ukrainian. That explains why you're so logical and communicate so clearly.
I'm half Polish (a tak, mowie po polsku nie tak zle) so I get the perspective.
Presoaking is a sign of care for men actually. He had the choice of just leaving it as is and go about his business but he when the extra step of thinking, formulating, and executing it all because to make the chore little bit easier.
Especially cause, even if she gets frustrated and does it, it's still easier for her as well. Still better if we do it so they can chill, but even silent assistance is a sign of care
The peeing in a bottle thing can be forgiven if it is in an environment outside of your house
I'm really enjoying this series, because it's also giving me some insight into myself that I wasn't expecting.
Oh dayum! (I really said that out loud) when she grabbed a handful of that man's food! That for me just says "I have zero respect for you", and you need to quietly pack everything she owns and put it (along with her) outside the front door...