Staying In "Bad" Relationships | Paano Ba 'To with Iza Calzado
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ต.ค. 2024
- #PaanoBaTo: Have you ever been in a “toxic” relationship? Are you possibly in one? Why do we stay?? How do we leave? As we continue to tackle women's issues this Women's Month, I invite Iza Calzado for a conversation to address the letter of Miss Love Is A Battlefield, and we share our personal experiences of being in bad relationships and what we’ve come to learn from them.
Full version of our conversation will be on Paano Ba 'To: The Podcast by Monday, March 8, at 11PM: open.spotify.c...
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I can listen to Iza all day without saying anything..full of wisdom and sincerity. i will forever love her.
The funny thing about toxic relationship is that, at the end of the day, you still want that person nomatter what.
When you go through the toxicity, you grow and appreciate a better kind of relationship.
As much as I want to not have to go through it (because those were tough times), I wouldn’t be a strong woman today without the lessons a toxic relationship has taught me.
Nag tataka talaga ako bakit 141k followers pa din tong Channel na to!?? Grabe sobrang daming matututunan sa Channel na to! Gawing million na sana to!!!!! ❤️
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I am happy nga na this is getting traction. I mean, no offense meant to the other youtube vloggers who offer entertainment, it is high time we make sensible and insightful vlogs like this “trend”. We cannot be just taking things as a prank or as a challenge. We need to grow, reflect and continue to work on respecting ourselves and others 😍 Great job to @iamsuperbianca for the Paano Ba ‘To series 😍
That was so valuable! I loved when Ms. Iza said "we stay in these toxic relationships is because we are human", "we need to keep asking these big questions "what do I deserve?", "what does he deserve?" etc.. I agree that these needs to be constant questions because people change, the dynamic of the relationship changes and life can also become messy. Thank you for this episode, very rich in wisdom. 💙
Andami ko ng napanood dito pero ang kinatatakutan ko lang eh sana wag kong maubos lahat. GRABEHHHHH!!!!! ANDAMING MATUTUTUNAN DITO!!! 👏👏👏 Imagine inuulit ko pa ulit panoorin para maalala ko talaga yung mga WISDOM na wag sana mawala sa isip mo at posibleng iapply mo sa battle mo. Yung mga tipong mapapasabi ka na “AH DAPAT GANUN PALA” i salute to this channel. 👏👏👏
Shett. When iza calzado said, "ako pa ba to?" That really hit me to my bones and soul. Glad i watched this video. Thank you tiktok
Para sakin talaga ito e. 😭 Can’t choose a part to highlight kasi lahat ng insights nila napakatotoo. I never thought that I will be in this kind of situation pero here I am. Now, I have recognized that yes I also have my faults why those things happened in the relationship. Need to work on my insecurities to become a better me and then hopefully, someone I truly deserve comes along. Praying for healing to all of those who are in the same situation as me. Thank you Ms. Iza and Ms. B, your words are very much appreciated. 💕
I cannot sleep. Randomly, I felt so restless and I’m getting anxiety. I came across to this video and it was just the words that I needed to hear and remind myself. Thank you so much Miss Bianca and Miss Iza. This is very comforting for me.
I hope you will be ok soon.🙏😊
When B points out, you should have a voice, it so empowering. 💕
Loved Iza's confidence and sincerity as she shared the knowledge she gained from her past experiences. What she said from 4:16 - 4:48 was especially insightful - she stayed because the not-so-healthy relationships that she was exposed to at home influenced the standards by which she evaluated the quality of her relationship with her then-partner.
To: Miss Love Is A Battlefield
We stay because our expectations for our romantic relationships could be distorted by the relationships that we have or have had with family members, friends, former significant others, etc.
If we have low self-worth, we stay because we believe that it is our fate to be in bad relationships, that we don't deserve any better, and that we are not desirable to anyone else (so, we choose not to search for alternatives).
We stay because our reward for tolerating mistreatment and giving our partner additional (but, unwarranted) chances to be better is feeling loved. This is just how our brain works - it is motivated by rewards, such as feeling loved. But, sometimes, we fail or refuse to see that the means we employ to pursue that reward are unhealthy or problematic.
I really love listening to miss iza.. Dami Kong matutunan... Very smart.. 🥰
Grabe! How I would to be your younger sister na lang 🥰🥰 so much wisdom! I cringe now when I look back sa mga kagagahan ko when it comes to love. Slowly practicing and prioritizing self love. I keep in mind that you cannot pour from an empty cup. I remember an interview of Tito Boy Abunda sa Eves Drop podcast.. Till your cup runneth over dapat. 🥰
I love this! Iza is a woman of wisdom and practicality!!!
So true. We can never change anyone they need to change for themselves. ❤️ I can relate to this because when I was younger I had the same thought..
I've been in a toxic relationship. She is the "most toxic" pero pilit ko paring sinusurvive yung relationship, ako yung give ng give sa akala na magbabago sya, tama nga yung sabi ni Ms. Bianca "MAUUBOS KA". Pero naulit ng ulit yung issue nya sa ibang lalake. Nung una ayaw ko syang umalis hanggang sa hinayaan ko nalang sya and dumating yung point na narealized ko na oo nga tama sila di ko deserve ang ganung tao. I DESERVE A BETTER WOWAN!. Thank you for this episode. Happy International Women's Month!!!
I will surely let my daughter watch this vlog, Ms. Bianca. Thank you.
I love this! Kahit single, madaming matutunan! Thank you, Ms. Bianca and Ms. Iza 💛🌻
Why are you so attached to the drama?! for me, maybe because, I felt I was alone and sya yung andun for me or maybe because, it was the longing na after so many years, may nagmahal sayo, may tumanggap sayo. #SelfWorth 💘
Wow! Ang sarap lang makinig, napaka-real and sensible lahat ng nadinig ko from both Ms. Iza and Ms.B. Very inspiring and enlightening words from such beautiful women. Thank you, thank you! It's not really long, btw, I wish the vlog was much longer.
Thank you!!! Mas mahaba pa ang totoong convo, nasa podcast: open.spotify.com/episode/51WSporgtBHUXKQpnTcTVs?si=8jZQt3krTfq-2Ie9aKxDsw&
I love how self-possessed she is. This resonated with me so much ❤️ Thank you for your videos 💕
I super relate. Even if you are given the assurance. Super relate especially sa because you are insecure to begin with. And you start to question your self worth. But I'm just glad and thankful to God for going back to my old self before I reach that ubos level and I also thank God for my partner for not giving up on me. Indeed loving a person with anxiety was really hard. Im just grateful to him for not giving up on me completely and now we are Happy and He completely understood where I am coming from.
Deep Communication is really important. Self worth, self respect and self love is indeed very important in a relationship. Your partner will even love you if you are able to love and take care of yourself because you can't completely love a person if you don't know how to value and love yourself first ❤️❤️
Nice platform, Bianca. Great hosting ❤️
Happy International Women's day!!!! ❤❤❤
Totally agree with Know Your Worth. ✨ Plus, most important is RESPECT. If thats gone in the relationship then that’s a major RED FLAG for me. Bye felicia! Lol It’s easy to say than done right? especially when you’re blinded. But trust me, it will all makes sense, one day. And at the end of the day, you should be happy, secured and be respected by your partner. Always choose the right thing for yourself and everything will follow. It’s important that you really pray and ask God for wisdom. 💞
Sobrang saya nung conversation ninyo ms. Bianca, super relate ako lalo na dun sa mga signs na sinabi ninyo.. sobrang helpful po ng gnitong topics.. ☺️
12:08 love ms. Iza’s answer
I love this topic and this two women! Very powerful ❤️ Girl Power ✨
Thank you for always sharing valuable insights and experiences Miss Bianca! xoxo happy international women’s day! ❤️
I super love thsi interview!!! cause im actually in the same situation. :/ May I ask how did you have the courage to leave the toxic relationship? Thank you!! More of this pls! Happy International Women's Month to these two wonderful women!
I remember the term that Bro. Bo used to this situation of "you thought that was how love is because that's how you see love in your home or family" is Homing Instinct. You keep coming back in a toxic relationship because you're comfortable with that, you grew up with that kind of relationship. 💔
Full of wisdom!!! Thank you for sharing! Happy international women's day!
One of the best interviews!!! And too much Morena beauty in one screen ❤
off topic but can i just say that your hair Ms B in this episode is reallly reallly nice! 😍
Ganda neto. Self worth indeed.
Very relevant. I badly need to hear these 😔 dahil nauubos ko.. Thank you for atleast keeping myself uo by watching this video ❤️❤️❤️
Ang ganda ng topic na ito.
Thank you for giving us contents na sobrang worth it panoorin at daming matututunan. 💗💗💗💗💗 thank youuuu
Worth it to watch.
Thank you for the words.. you both given... ....salute to all women out there....
You nailed it once again. Thank you Bianca and Iza
super insightful! Truly thank you Miss Iza
Ms. B, I hope you reach a million subscribers!! You deserve it ❤️
watched it because it's super B's birthday!!!! 🎂🎂🎂
Hi Bianca, are you going to guest Bea Alonzo, too? I wanna hear her empowering words re: relationship. "How does it feel when someone you loved has already moved on?"
Great suggestion! 👏🏻🤗
I love the content of this interview. Galing 👍👍
Full of wisdoms Ms. Iza and Ms. Bianca. Thank you po.
As always, ang ganda na naman netong episode na to. I really love watching your vlog very insightful . ❤️❤️❤️
I super love you both. I am not a woman but, if I will be a woman in my next life I want to be like you.
Ms. Iza is so pretty❤
Super nakarelate ako. 😭🥺 Napapaisip na rin ako lalo kung ano ba dapat. Huhu. Pano po ibalik ung dating ako? 😅 Struggle is real. Hehe. Thank you. 🥺 #SelfLove #Supers #PaanoBaTo
Huhuhu thank you for the wonderful thoughts 🥺🥺🥺
OHMO,,, this video was 2 yrs ago.... DAHIL DITO ILL SUBSCRIBE YOU MS BIANCA... :) THANK YOU ALSO MS IZA.
Love this episode 🥰
I love all your contents Ms. Bianca. They are all relevant, inspiring and full of wisdom.💗
I just wanna know how can I send you a message ? I wanna ask something and hoping to be enlightened by your great advices.💞
I really appreciate this! askpaanobato@gmail.com 🤍🙏🏽
Sent already. I hope that it will be tackled in your videos one of these days.
Thank you.💗 Your channel deserves a million views and subscribers.😌
nice topic for this week!
Wow 2nd episode with ms Iza 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you po 🤍
Gandaa ❤️
Ganda nila mam iza
Good talk. ❤
I watched this video 3x to fully imbibe the thoughts... Then currently im listening to spotify podcast 😔😔
Omg thank you 🥺🥺🥺
@@iamsuperbianca I recently ended one toxic relationship. Now on a healing process.... Sadly i dont have anyone to tell this. I learned a lot from this video, it opened my eyes and accepted so many things
Love it❤
I love this!!!!
grabi... ung feeling n parang ako ung topic dito s ep n ito T_T
Worth waiting for ❤️
Self LOVE 🥰🥰🥰
sana po si papa jack next. papa jackson na sya ngayon ng energy fm😊
10:48 spot on
5:35, indeed.
Go Grace!!!! LOUDER for CHLOE & ANDENG! HAHAHAHAHA
Grabe parang ako pinag usapan. Lahat tumama sa akin. But still hindi pa rin maka alis sa relationship may 2 kidz at papel na nag uugnay. What to do?
Hi Bianca G. Paano ang gagawin ko kung gusto ko na ikasal sa 5yrs bf ko pero sya hindi pa ready dahil sa commitment sa family nya. I love him, i said everything to him pero ang response nya. Maghanap ako ng ibang mapapangasawa kung apurado ako. Haiy i feel so frustrated. Paano ba to?
👍 my vlog po b si ms. Iza. smart woman
Yes how long can you suffer with this toxicity. Eventually you’ll just get tired and just let go.
Imagine getting heart from ate bianca❤❤
#KnowYourWorth❤❤❤
Girl Power! ❤
#LessonsLearned
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tumpak miss Z and super B. thank you!!!
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"know what you deserve" "YOU HAVE TO PRIORITIZE YOURSELF" WOWOWowowowoowWww
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