ON COMPARING WOMEN | Paano Ba 'To with Pia Wurtzbach

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  • #PaanoBaTo: Do you sometimes compare yourself to others? Or do you struggle when people compare you to others? I invite the amazing Pia Wurtzbach for a conversation on this issue, still in celebration of Women’s Month! Pia shares her opinion the feeling of "inggit" and her thoughts on being pit against other women.
    If you wanna hear more from Pia, listen to our full conversation on Paano Ba 'To: The Podcast (episode will be up on March 22, 11PM!): open.spotify.c...

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  • @diane04yan34
    @diane04yan34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It's not being egocentric but the key not to be envy are... Self-awareness, self-acceptance and self-love. 🤔

  • @joharraagdigos1390
    @joharraagdigos1390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Been dealing with the question "may kulang ba sa akin" for almost 3 months now. Everyday I'm not mentally strong. But thank you for this Pia and Bianca. Women should always uplift each other and not compare other's achievements. Let's always be inspire to each other. There's always a room for everybody. Love you all beautiful ladies

  • @lalilulelo
    @lalilulelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Bakit siya isang sali niya, lang nanalo agad."
    "Kaka-graduate lang niya, nakakuha agad ng trabaho."
    Well...reality is....sometimes it is not what you know or what you did, but who you know. Connections to other people is important.

  • @Katscapade
    @Katscapade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Constant comparison from relatives during family gatherings = super toxic.
    Insensitive comments from the elders. 🤦🏻‍♀️
    If the past generations didn’t do this, we’d have a much psychologically healthy society.

    • @fearfullyandwonderfullymad8695
      @fearfullyandwonderfullymad8695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldnt agree more. Sometimes they do not know the adverse impact of what they're saying. They even make it as a joke at times...

    • @yveewong
      @yveewong 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i can take critisms from the elders in my family, but not from random rude lady who i just met a few months, telling me i'm fat and that i should shave my legs 👀

    • @marieroux6852
      @marieroux6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I super relate to this! However, we can't change or control them so let's sort of compensate for their shortcomings by filling in the gaps for the next generation. I know everybody's got a sob story and it doesn't give you the right to be a bully, but let's just be the understanding ones and keep an open mind. May you all have a great day!

  • @generosegarcia6436
    @generosegarcia6436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Ms. Bianca and Miss Pia
    Very Inspiring topic. All we need discipline, work hard and God's perfect time to meet our goal and dream

  • @rachelleannperez9029
    @rachelleannperez9029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "It's not your time yet". Really..this applies to a loooot of things in life. It's because it's really not our time but His time. #trustHistiming #trustHisplans

  • @ireenefaye8169
    @ireenefaye8169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Needed this right now. Really. Thank you Bianca and Pia! Continue inspiring us po

  • @bhadzlayosa
    @bhadzlayosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of the best episodes, as always PIA is PIA! ✨💯

  • @johannacuadra555
    @johannacuadra555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Ate Bianca and Miss Pia for the message. Honestly, I was frustrated last year because I am so close to my dream to work abroad but pandemic made me stay at work here in Philippines. I tend to compared myself also to some other people why I am still not there, why I am still in Philippines. Then I realized that I have to accept the reality, enjoy the moment and pray to God and surrender everything to Him. I know God has a plan for my future as well in these time of uncertainies.

  • @maryrosegarsula7585
    @maryrosegarsula7585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hearing this conversation made me feel relax over toxic works. Love you both.❤️

  • @maydesireejoybonocan
    @maydesireejoybonocan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May sense talaga si Pia, i like her! :)

  • @toneepolines8021
    @toneepolines8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two amazing women in one frame galing 👏👏👏 oh and Bianca I am also enjoying your Paano Ba To podcast. Best wishes Bianca

  • @kimpascual2004
    @kimpascual2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm happy to see a show that doesn't focus on religious advices when it comes to personal issues. Thank you Bianca and Pia for this wonderful episode. Such an insightful conversation from two intelligent women. Love!

    • @lalilulelo
      @lalilulelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "I'm happy to see a show that doesn't focus on religious advices when it comes to personal issues."
      Super agree! Malalaman mong magaling talaga mag inspire o motivate kapag hindi kailangan haloan ng religion or god belief ang advices.

  • @eduardochavacano
    @eduardochavacano 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pia sounds super authentic.

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bianca & Pia =

  • @annatolero3855
    @annatolero3855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I owe you Ms. Bianca for your versatility in delivering a smooth sailing conversation. It always a great inspiration to learn from your thoughts and realizations. Thank you a lot. 🥰
    To Ms. Pia.. your reflections to this episode is bulls eye to every woman's experience.. 💞 thanks queen Pia.

  • @robdelacruz8061
    @robdelacruz8061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, she’s so smart and very beautiful ms pia wurtzbach

  • @Jaja-uy9vy
    @Jaja-uy9vy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Ate Bianca and Pia ♥️ Watching from Iloilo City ♥️

  • @bonmariano6779
    @bonmariano6779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I luv you ..💙Queen Pia

  • @SSofiatrid
    @SSofiatrid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching while im on my study break.

  • @joyceline2664
    @joyceline2664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this kind of show, I enjoy watching. Nakakatulong ito para sa lahat. Congratulations po Ate Bianca... God bless!

  • @ednaquinte5832
    @ednaquinte5832 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    *Ohmygod I just messaged my friend about this topic too. Yung feeling ng inggit and yung mga tanong na bakit ganern ganyan. Sabi ko nga sa kanya because of social media din kase kaya ganun but we eventually ended our conversation with her saying na kung para sayo, para sayo, in God's time. Tapos biglang recommended to sa TH-cam ko. Huhuhuhu alam tlga ni God pano pagaanin loob ko. This was very insightful and inspiring. Haayyy buhay! Self awareness here we GO!!!! hahahhaa*

  • @tunamushroommelt
    @tunamushroommelt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this ❤️ I don't really feel okay right now so thank you for reminding me again about self awareness.

  • @jonalynperos4687
    @jonalynperos4687 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode hits me.

  • @geraldined6468
    @geraldined6468 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yey! Thanks for this Ate Bianca. 💕 so timing

  • @kattpolancos3259
    @kattpolancos3259 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved watching your vlogs Bianca, I learned so many things in life from different people.😇
    “Self Awareness”is the key☺️
    Have a good day!!!!💞🇸🇬

  • @karencastillo2138
    @karencastillo2138 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sarap panoorin dami ko natutunan..
    Thank you so much😘❤

  • @krimohmay1858
    @krimohmay1858 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi bianca! I love watching your TH-cam because it’s very sensible💯😍

  • @ginmelove
    @ginmelove 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pia WOW 🤩 ❤️ so intelligent #missuniverse

  • @maeganv9865
    @maeganv9865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these! 😍

  • @janenicolemasalunga3568
    @janenicolemasalunga3568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine getting heart from ate bianca❤❤❤

  • @hazelguarino
    @hazelguarino 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mismo Pia Mismo...

  • @ma.gracellumbab833
    @ma.gracellumbab833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @janenicolemasalunga3568
    @janenicolemasalunga3568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello ate bianca

  • @kacoffeepodcast
    @kacoffeepodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭

  • @rysachibana1486
    @rysachibana1486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very flat talaga personality ni Bianca no? Has no commanding presence whatsoever. Ilan taon na syang host? Hmm. I guess there's a reason why ABS is not putting her to host variety and primetime shows. Mostly cable shows and English english. Aside from PBB (as co-host) wala nang mainstream shows. Anyway, I wish her well.
    PS. Pia is a bright light.

    • @iamsuperbianca
      @iamsuperbianca  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Flat personality? Hmm, if by flat you mean not bubbly and not funny, yes, I agree. But the thing is.. I also can't be so "trying hard" to be what I'm not, right? I am a very hard worker and diligent as a host, so even if I agree with you, I think it isn't nice that you condescend it being "just cable" or "just English English" because it is still a decent job that helps me provide for my family, and is still a job for a host that someone has to do, right? I would like to hear your advice, anong pwede kong gawin, paano ba 'to?!
      And yes, Pia is such a gem.

  • @jcmeducationstudioportal1994
    @jcmeducationstudioportal1994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One of your best episodes, Bianca. Pia always speaks from experience that's why a lot can relate

  • @hazelguarino
    @hazelguarino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pia is the Ms Universe na pwd sa kahit anong estado ng buhay. hehehehe

  • @JenneferEstrada
    @JenneferEstrada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    LAW OF ATTRACTION! SANA BALANG ARAW MAY MAKAKAPANSIN DIN PO SA VLOG KO AT SUMUPORTA PO SA AKIN ❣️ SAYO NA NAGBABASA NITO MAGIGING SUCCESSFUL KA SOON ❣️💚💜💛

  • @acaciaiii
    @acaciaiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is why I truly love and admire Pia not just a real Queen but a normal human. Maraming matalino, maraming magaling, maraming madiskarte, maraming strong peru iilan lng talaga ang may control sa common sense. It is always okay to feel down, hurt and lose but hey obvious INGGIT in a very wrong way is always WRONG.
    Thanks B for another nice and inspiring convo. More to usapan I know, waiting here.

  • @isabelleocampo
    @isabelleocampo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She really is our Miss Universe, Queen P! Authentic, gentle and a wise woman. She speaks so much volume with sense and with a heart..❤️ if that makes sense haha. But seriously. This is so true.. self awareness and there always room/space for everyone. Timing is everything. God’s timing. 🙏🏻💕✨

  • @maeganciarradelcastillodim1709
    @maeganciarradelcastillodim1709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Naiyak ako...Iba kapag nakaka-relate ka sa topic.

  • @roselyndefeo6577
    @roselyndefeo6577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true!! Ms. Pia was on point on this topic.. galing haha..love this vlog ms. Bianca haha

  • @findingequilibria8772
    @findingequilibria8772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the substance when Pia talks particularly in this interview. Her answer is not just beautiful because of eloquence, it's beautiful because it's relatable; it's relatable because it's authentic; it's authentic so it touches one's humanity. Bianca, you really have that great ability to bring out the best in whoever you are interviewing. Great video!

  • @colleague-ligs
    @colleague-ligs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Perfect timing. Thanks pia and bianca!

  • @MykRaffy
    @MykRaffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pia is soooo Open!
    Talking about Mj and Cat
    Amazingly done PIA!

  • @njdares
    @njdares 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pia is my Ms.Universe ♥️

  • @mamerica14
    @mamerica14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pia is so relatable that's why i stan her... This is a good topic esp nowadays that socmed are getting toxic!
    Don't compare yourself to others and get stress mentally and maybe physically because you're trying to become that person to gain self worth from your own or others... Make it more like inspiring and make other people as your role model instead (in a positive way). Every person is different on their own. Chase and build your own dream and focus on your goal, coz at the end of the day it will be just you that decide on that, and instead of dragging each other down, let's uplift each other and spread positivity. Be kind.

  • @SSofiatrid
    @SSofiatrid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think i need this, given how my insecurities tend to be portrayed in a toxic manner :(

  • @ladyagwanta3084
    @ladyagwanta3084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️❤️ fan of Pia and fan of your beauty Bianca... Bitin ang sarap lang kasi makinig kay Miss Universe Pia ❤️❤️❤️ dami mong mapupulot na real life talaga na lesson na nangyayari sa bawat kababaihan. Super hearts ang biigay ko sa episode na ito kahit bitin ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ muah!

  • @geng9664
    @geng9664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Bianca and Pia for your insights. I totally agree💯

  • @glaizamojica9912
    @glaizamojica9912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this episode. Ang sarap pakinggan ni Pia. Lahat ng sinabi nya totoo eh.

  • @gecaper1078
    @gecaper1078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What I really need to hear 💕 Good words Queen P. & Ms. B. Self-awareness + Stigma of comparison shouldn't stop. It really triggered mental state.

  • @dessreyes4655
    @dessreyes4655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow! a very nice conversation. I was amazed by Ms Pia Wurtzbach and iamsuperbianca :)

  • @maika9659
    @maika9659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pia is so humble, as seen when bianca addressed her as a wise woman ❤

  • @yveewong
    @yveewong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What Pia said about how social media is all filtered and planned, na parang everyone's having the best day of their life while here i am, depressed and full of anxiety. Pahinga tayo from social media! I deactivated my facebook and instagram because i felt like it's worsening my mental health. Na pag may makita akong post ng iba, nandon yung question na "bakit ako wala?" or "bakit sya ganito or ganyan?", not that i hate my friends on sns, i'm just dissapointed in myself. But self awareness, self acceptance and self love is the key for peace of mind! almost a year without fb and ig, never been better ❤

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    super B and Queen P, salamat as always! I get affected easily and attacked by anxiety and good thing, aware ako and I am able to deal with it. We just need someone to remind us na Normal lang yan, okay lang yan, malalampasan mo yan!!!

  • @EarlBantolo
    @EarlBantolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pia is so matalino talaga💕💕💕💕 hope to have Pia and Cat a show in ABS-CBN with Nicole Cordoves 😍

  • @marifealia1864
    @marifealia1864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing Miss Pia, been thinking a lot this past few days, kasi halos lahat ng batch mates ko kinasal na, kasal na, pinakasalan na. Feeling ko ako nalang yung hindi pa Im so down thinking kung kelan ba ako papakasalan ng partner ko may isang anak na kami. Ayoko lang din sha i.pressure ayoko din shang pilitin at lalong ayoko mamilit na pakasalan ako 😪😪😪 hayssss.. 😭

    • @iamsuperbianca
      @iamsuperbianca  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think you will like this episode last week: t.co/nSlMlDjiwA tungkol sa pressure sa timelines :)

  • @simplyrics4222
    @simplyrics4222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Edit ba ung screen ni bianca? Ang laki kasi ng ulo/mukha niya sa katawan niya.

  • @Filipino_Ako5
    @Filipino_Ako5 ปีที่แล้ว

    many can relate to all what Pia said. It is right, there should be self check instead of looking to other. And I like also all the content of Paano Ba Ito that Bianca bring on to have a topic. Very relatable and real yong topics..

  • @krimohmay1858
    @krimohmay1858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never entered the showbiz because my dad used to tell me , I get hurt easily, although it was my dream to become an artista before..... I love how Ms. Pia used her part as an example to strengthen our predisposition as women being compared to another women.... I was inspired while watching you ladies 💯❤️😘 Thanks alot

  • @lifewithcris6461
    @lifewithcris6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks biancs.. and also pia...i just leard ... no need to compete yourself to the other woman... just know your worth .. your strenght ... as you guys said.. and every hardship will get into you.. its just that a matter of time... really inspired ate bianca... anf dami kung natutunan ... sa vlogs mo ... i love aye bianca...💓💓

  • @bazinggacooper3358
    @bazinggacooper3358 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ms. Bianca, iinvite mo din si Bella Padilla😊

  • @iloveSMILE21
    @iloveSMILE21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ang self-assuring ng episode na’to! Sobrang nakaka-inspire and gratifying yung feeling knowing that you are not alone! Thank you, Ms B for this!! 😍😍

  • @aaronarvinandrade4277
    @aaronarvinandrade4277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    exactly what i needed to hear rn

  • @defnotjanice
    @defnotjanice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grabe lang ito 'yung kailangan kong mapanood today! Thank you for this! 🥺❤️

  • @MALAYAPH24
    @MALAYAPH24 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome..so beautiful

  • @bonmariano6779
    @bonmariano6779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I luv you ..💙Queen Pia

  • @mariarosameyer6875
    @mariarosameyer6875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep it up, pia and bianca

  • @MALAYAPH24
    @MALAYAPH24 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🎉

  • @justinemachate6289
    @justinemachate6289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!Cannot wait to hear these two power women ;)

  • @_danecastillo
    @_danecastillo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So excited for this episode aaaaaahck

  • @marifealia1864
    @marifealia1864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pia is so matalino ❤

  • @bekind3050
    @bekind3050 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comparing yourself to others can be positive. For example, If she can do it, I can do it too. 💪. To all women, always improve yourself through education, training, seminars, & volunteering.

  • @YJo1223
    @YJo1223 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. Pia's journey is an open book. She's so strong to share something like that.
    I hope we can tackle the topic about Pink tax, ate Bianca? Its interesting subject we should discuss with. Thank you more powers po⚡

  • @carylr.sagliba9384
    @carylr.sagliba9384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Ms. B and Ms. Pia... Happy Women's Month... God bless you both

  • @salyndeluna2894
    @salyndeluna2894 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bitin!!!!🤩🤩🤩

  • @lukumpulainen8009
    @lukumpulainen8009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow very intellectual conversation of women. I live this one !!! Good input Pia.

  • @shellagarlitos4660
    @shellagarlitos4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Compete with yourself and not others. That result of envy. Tama ka Pia! On point.

  • @mimilg1801
    @mimilg1801 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Godbless Bianca ❤️🙏 your contents is very inspiring 💯 me and my husband are always watching your uploads.

  • @aloha6441
    @aloha6441 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Supeeer! Thanks Queen P for sharing your experience and learnings. 💕👑

  • @markdagyaw8209
    @markdagyaw8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Self Acceptance will help you take a new breath.

  • @hazelmelu5888
    @hazelmelu5888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm always watching your video ate Bianca. So inspiring 💕

  • @ruffsnowkiss
    @ruffsnowkiss 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for this video ate Bianca😍😍😍

  • @12HappyApples
    @12HappyApples 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So enlightening. Thank you Pia andBianca

  • @mctv4304
    @mctv4304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "it's not why her, it's why not me "🤔

  • @pppppggggg88888
    @pppppggggg88888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ganda ng content💯💯

  • @harvieannebaldoza2324
    @harvieannebaldoza2324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really hope, this would not end😁
    Grabeehh!! More pa..HAHAH..

    • @iamsuperbianca
      @iamsuperbianca  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Full convo on the podcast tonight!!!

  • @hazelmelu5888
    @hazelmelu5888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a faaaaan 😍

  • @joannemirando8821
    @joannemirando8821 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖💖💖

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤