My Life Started When We First Met | {THE AND} Mary-Hannah & Cross

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    In love from the moment he met her, Cross (he/him) shares how deeply committed he is to his fiancé, Mary-Hannah (she/her) and how she was a catalyst for great growth and personal development after a particularly traumatic childhood. With an emotional bond that’s “hard to explain”, the pair discuss how they intend to keep working through past pain towards a future that’s full of love - and letting go.
    We'd like to thank Mary-Hannah and Cross for participating openly and vulnerably in our project. We appreciate what they've shared with us and hope you do as well.
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    With the Participation of | Mary-Hannah and Cross
    My Life Started When We First Met | {THE AND} Mary-Hannah & Cross
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  • @LunarySSF2
    @LunarySSF2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    "My Life Started When We First Met" I resonate so much with that title
    last year I met a girl which basically turned my life around, through the conversations and fun we had together
    i had done a lot of work beforehand but,
    she pulled me out of my 10-year long depression and it still feels unreal to me that I don't feel suicidal anymore
    idk where I would be if it wasn't for her
    we've parted ways months ago, but she's left me a changed man and i'll be forever greatful to her
    whoever reads this, i wish you to find someone who'll postively impact you the same way she impacted me

    • @Pencilbox-lq6os
      @Pencilbox-lq6os 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      why did you part ways?

    • @hellolucy2074
      @hellolucy2074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this.

    • @kathy2888
      @kathy2888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I miss the man who made me feel this way too

    • @LunarySSF2
      @LunarySSF2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Pencilbox-lq6os she gradually lost interest during the March lockdown

    • @iva5490
      @iva5490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      glad you were lucky to find someone like that, it doesn't matter if they don't stay, they were there when you needed it and they changed you for better. This matters.

  • @tlotlomolefe4057
    @tlotlomolefe4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    For Cross to be so open and accepting and loving despite seemingly growing up having been mistreated and uncared for by his own family is truly inspiring and beautiful ❤

    • @MsLivinglegend19
      @MsLivinglegend19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You can tell he’s such a kind and warm soul which is amazing considering what he’s been through

  • @chrcoc
    @chrcoc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Isn't life beautiful for putting those two into each other's paths?

  • @MLoveWinter
    @MLoveWinter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    “When you touch lives, you change them.” That is probably one of the most powerful words someone can say to you.

  • @maddygrimes1000
    @maddygrimes1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    This is probably my favorite couple you guys have worked with. Omg they are the definition of soul mates 🥺

    • @ki6718
      @ki6718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss. Like you can feel the love they have in their souls

  • @yenha7128
    @yenha7128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    He's the kind of person that can touch you without using his hands

  • @theamp1986
    @theamp1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    When he said it’s okay to feel. I’m teary eyed now.

  • @sianthompson8638
    @sianthompson8638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    That's a twin flame bond...absolutely beautiful...💜

    • @kkibela
      @kkibela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A real one..none of this trauma bonding runner chaser bs

  • @meriamj5150
    @meriamj5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    You can see from the first minute how much he cares and deeply in love he is with her, the way he smiles like a child and blush and how supportive he is and trying to bring the best in her .He's a keeper ✌

  • @briellecartier9732
    @briellecartier9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Gives me hope seeing a young couple being so self aware and in love with each other

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I’m 10 seconds in and I’m already tearing up what the FUVK love is beautiful

  • @How.Dare.You.
    @How.Dare.You. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What makes this relationship so special is the guy appreciating her so much. If guys were like him the world would be a better place

  • @streamsofdreams6705
    @streamsofdreams6705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Don’t forget you impact people...brb going to try to find a fiancé

  • @leah1590
    @leah1590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    These two are BEYOND adorable!

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I am really impressed by how mature and thorough these youngsters seem to understand their situation, feelings and challenges. Thank you for the video and for the couple being so open!

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for your support and comment!

    • @RevAnakin
      @RevAnakin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are adults...

  • @flowersafeheart
    @flowersafeheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It feels like they've done deep therapy for each other and are so close that eachothers' pasts super matter to them. And they're into deeply knowing themselves and each other and are like therapists for each other and really encouraging eachothers' growth. And like a huge-hearted love.

  • @kendrajai
    @kendrajai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I like how healing he is for her 😍 He’s able to heal with words alone. He’s a healer 🥰. Nice couple!

  • @therubyisabel
    @therubyisabel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Manifesting this type of love for myself🥺 so beautiful.

  • @jackien1108
    @jackien1108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He has a baby face and so I would never have suspected that he struggled in his past. It goes to show that we never really know who people are, where they come from anf what they have been through until they are willing to share and until we give them the space to do that.
    This is a reminder to myself as well: let us not judge books by their covers.

  • @moonbabyhealing
    @moonbabyhealing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm shocked how young they are and the level of communication and emotional maturity is amazing. Very much reminds me of my first love

  • @HannahBee102
    @HannahBee102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I can feel their bond and connection through the screen, they seem so perfect for each other

  • @thandiwemaphanga1205
    @thandiwemaphanga1205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This is a heartwarming video. Her eyes are gorgeous 😍

  • @justicemama
    @justicemama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Gosh it’s so hard to witness an openness that we don’t share with our own spouse. It’s beautiful, but it hurts, too. Makes your heart ache for that

  • @misslettie2089
    @misslettie2089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Oh. Ohhh I love them so much! 🥺 what a beautiful connection! Wishing them every good thing ✨✨☀️

  • @59375
    @59375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Love is beautiful damn it😭

    • @How.Dare.You.
      @How.Dare.You. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky those who found it!! Really

  • @zubaasaad8443
    @zubaasaad8443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I wish I would have this kind of connection with someone one-day ❤️❤️

  • @rotienoxoxo
    @rotienoxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I come to this channel for a good cry. Their relationship is absolutely beautiful. I hope I can find a love like this 💓

  • @londonsars0234
    @londonsars0234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    They are so in love and have clearly been through quite the ride since meeting, which I’m sure helps any young relationship to know each other’s authentic self in rough times.He reminds me of Paulie Bleeker with the way he talks, so yeah I’m in love as well. Stay sweet.

  • @Sona77.
    @Sona77. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Awww, what a sweet man. He is so good to her! Love it.

  • @noodeli
    @noodeli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow the level of self awareness and healthy communication in this young relationship 🙌

  • @GreenAndTheToe
    @GreenAndTheToe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They found each other
    Right ones

  • @MsLivinglegend19
    @MsLivinglegend19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is insane, I hope for a love like this one day 🥺 I’m so happy you guys found each other ❤️

  • @snaxicakes
    @snaxicakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The power to change lives ❤️ wow so sweet.

  • @gboyricky
    @gboyricky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I’m really curious about what happened in Cross past but besides that the love he has for Mary is so beautiful ❤️

  • @nouramohsen1199
    @nouramohsen1199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is becoming one of my fav videos I love that connection between them they're so good together!

  • @jmcoffeecat7
    @jmcoffeecat7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I could be loved by someone like him. I don't believe in love for myself anymore, but it's really beautiful to see others who believe in it and live in it.

  • @victoria4638
    @victoria4638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    By far the best couple you have had on your channel. Give me a moment I was crying 😭❤️

  • @elliotross3217
    @elliotross3217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this feels so warm, so soft, so kind, wow

  • @Hope-zr8uh
    @Hope-zr8uh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The guy is so cute and the girl has such a simple yet unique beauty and their relationship is heart warming. Kudos to The Skin Deep Team

  • @padmeshpande7128
    @padmeshpande7128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm not crying, you're crying.

  • @kslucki
    @kslucki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love his hair color !! And what a beautiful match they are. They are so blessed !

  • @wonderxses
    @wonderxses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    More people like these two angels and the world would be a better place. ♥️

  • @arvi8843
    @arvi8843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Someday, I hope i'll be able to experience such. They have something no tangible thing could ever compare. 🥰🥰👏

  • @naitsirk32
    @naitsirk32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow I am really learning stuff. These videos are such a catalyst too. Thanks

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @earlydays6358
    @earlydays6358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow... The level of love and connection!! Beautiful

  • @nso5625
    @nso5625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh dear God this broke my heart in the best way. If I can't have a love like this in the future then screw it, I don't want love at all!

  • @shafaghkamkar4009
    @shafaghkamkar4009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wanna know how she was the catalyst!!! How did she help him get to his authentic self???

  • @JJ-qz5gv
    @JJ-qz5gv ปีที่แล้ว

    His smile is beautiful the bigger it gets ❤

  • @Void0420
    @Void0420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart!! 🥰 Such a sweet couple! Wishing you guys lots of love and a long life together! ❤️

  • @areegel97
    @areegel97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a blessing it is to love so deeply!♥️ How beautiful.

  • @TlhomphoDitedu
    @TlhomphoDitedu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How do you love me ?
    “A lot.”

  • @anacristinaguillenperez9301
    @anacristinaguillenperez9301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would love to find a man who I can connect the way I see couples do on these series

  • @jamesgem1809
    @jamesgem1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One word.....beautiful!

  • @Darvelicia
    @Darvelicia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Auwwwggg you can dweep me up with a mob! When you thouch people you change there lifes and then that small light on the edges of her hair😭he is discribing his angel😇 awww for 2021 I wish love like this for all people!😘

  • @AnthonyColomboAppliedMath
    @AnthonyColomboAppliedMath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i watched the skin deep of a christian couple Corey and Lynette, and they did not have anywhere near this level of maturity and authenticity.

  • @Hope-zr8uh
    @Hope-zr8uh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    how lucky are they to find each other. Thank you universe

  • @lindymoyo9118
    @lindymoyo9118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They're such a precious couple 💕

  • @kierawestpfel7292
    @kierawestpfel7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m happy they have eachother

  • @lawansuksyiemlieh4848
    @lawansuksyiemlieh4848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best pair so far ❣️

  • @imonmyway317
    @imonmyway317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How blessed they are to have found each other. 💕

  • @elvisjoelle
    @elvisjoelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i need these set of cards!!!

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We wrote/curated these questions specifically for them, but you can find similar ones in our decks!

  • @DesireeGray1206
    @DesireeGray1206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love y’all 😫❤️

  • @sunshine173
    @sunshine173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favourite channel on youtube

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for your comment and support.

    • @sunshine173
      @sunshine173 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSkinDeep greets from germany!!!

  • @oceanwonders
    @oceanwonders 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FYI two of the captions are very incorrect. Totally wrong.
    They appear to have a very healthy relationship! Go them!

  • @jojo-dv3uy
    @jojo-dv3uy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will never get this kind of love ikr ...idk cz of what kind of karma u will be able to find a love like this....not being loved was my worst fear & slowly but surely i am towards that in my life n that's sad af

    • @nope3290
      @nope3290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well God loves you and always will. I’m sure you’ll find someone someday. Until then know that you are loved even by people you don’t know😊

    • @fw27
      @fw27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt that way for a long time and even went a solid 2 years of not so much as entertaining the thought of talking to anyone. And still nothing is guaranteed in life but to always know you have yourself and that you are enough. My only suggestion, give yourself a minute of self-pity (personal experience), then put yourself together, put yourself out there to new opportunities, not with the mindset of failure or success, but simply get to know someone new, and go from there. Every person you meet is like a blank slate, so whatever hang ups or heartbreak, or even feelings of rejection that you've felt from someone in the past, it doesn't have to carry over to the next person you meet. And also, I learned the hard way to calm all the way down, when that great opportunity presents itself.

    • @jojo-dv3uy
      @jojo-dv3uy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nope3290 i don't believe in god anymore ..it felt like how can i trust someones existence when he never granted my wish ..but still 🤞🤞🤞🤞

    • @jojo-dv3uy
      @jojo-dv3uy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fw27 thnks for ur advice 🤞🤞 i am working on myself..i am happy with my life after so long. Just i am afraid of not being loved...

    • @jojo-dv3uy
      @jojo-dv3uy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @RothysOOTD wow u were lucky...i gave up on finding love too..but the worst thing is i don't have that much times wish i were from a western country to be able to date or find a partner even at my 30s
      I am from india n here around 30 girls should get married 🤦‍♀️ n i am 25 that's why i felt like i don't have much time left 😭😭

  • @lindsaykirschner4530
    @lindsaykirschner4530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    well. im crying.

  • @daciadrummond1982
    @daciadrummond1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the bond they share.

  • @AnnaGee347
    @AnnaGee347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing loving couple !!!!

  • @cathleendemacedo9384
    @cathleendemacedo9384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ughhhhhh i love, love man 🥺🥺🥺

  • @jasmineetienne3361
    @jasmineetienne3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary-Hannah , how lucky you are !
    Before I die. I'd liké to bé loved liké that.
    Cross you deserve all thé happiness possible

  • @lindsaydennis4871
    @lindsaydennis4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow i love them so much

  • @knolose1
    @knolose1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When a guy likes you you know it !! Period

  • @marissag.1226
    @marissag.1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She looks like Lydia McLaughlin from RHOC so much.

  • @jamiefutoran82
    @jamiefutoran82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heart feels

  • @Catholic_Fiat33
    @Catholic_Fiat33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would fail ALL of these questions, because in absolute honestly I can't do crap for another person! Haha I couldn't even save someone from diarrhea let alone suffering, aging, and death.

  • @Spiritualchar1111
    @Spiritualchar1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to watch this a 2nd time 🥰

  • @clara3727
    @clara3727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh wow

  • @Guruthosa
    @Guruthosa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're the cutest :)

  • @fridha2139
    @fridha2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    im so single 😭😭😭😭

  • @rainjstorm
    @rainjstorm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I was Cross

  • @Smile-gk5od
    @Smile-gk5od 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But what happened to him?

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hi! One of the core components of {The And} experience is to make sure our participants feel respected and open. Prior to the experience we let them know that they do not need to explain anything in detail, as long as they understand each other and what they are talking about. Their understanding and experience is the only thing that matters.

    • @gelbweisslilaschwarz
      @gelbweisslilaschwarz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      if you listen - you can find out ...not the details but...it doesnt matter what happened in the past look at him. he glows and he loves !

    • @Smile-gk5od
      @Smile-gk5od 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gelbweisslilaschwarz True

  • @Oziblue
    @Oziblue 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me and my ex should’ve played this game before we broke up maybe we would could still be together today.

    • @aliciamorales144
      @aliciamorales144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This game doesn’t encourage/strengthen relationships it just exposes what’s already there

  • @heygirlkenzie2283
    @heygirlkenzie2283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God, it's me again...

  • @lisahamrick5185
    @lisahamrick5185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This.

  • @zainmaurice8869
    @zainmaurice8869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very happy 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️

  • @lalasarahmabunda1731
    @lalasarahmabunda1731 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    TikTok?

  • @yeelee8827
    @yeelee8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The boy is so amazing, please get him a makeover ❤️❤️ can we take this comment to the top 🥺

    • @miatali1725
      @miatali1725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      He doesn't need a makeover

    • @thandiwemaphanga1205
      @thandiwemaphanga1205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Why does he need a makeover when there is absolutely nothing wrong with him. He has a genuine and beautiful spirit and you are reducing him to his looks(there is nothing with his looks by the way)