WIFE TALK | answering TMI questions about marriage and being a wife!

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  • // wife talk q&a! I wanted to sit down and answer juicer questions about marriage and being a wife. we talk about intimacy, love languages, relationships with in-laws, and all the in-between. I hope you enjoy this more casual, chatty TMI video about being married! #wifetalk #marriage
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    Things Mentioned:
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    Marriage Journal- bit.ly/2Tvhkmq
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    00:00 Intro
    01:25 Creating Intimacy
    02:57 Bathroom Situation
    04:15 Prioritizing Marriage
    06:08 Maintaining Friendships
    07:00 Babies!!!
    08:33 Waiting Then Not Waiting
    09:52 Cold Mother In Law
    11:35 Post-Wedding Blues
    13:25 Serving One Another
    14:43 Having It All Together
    16:49 Lingerie
    17:35 Divying Chores
    18:34 Maintaining Independence
    20:33 Different Drives
    22:13 Outro
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    Michelle Gauthier
    2825 OAK LAWN AVE
    PO Box #190733
    DALLAS, TX 75219
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    Let me know what other videos you'd like to see from me! Whether that be more week in my life vlog-style videos, week in my life in Dallas videos, Dallas videos, or lifestyle vlogs in Dallas. Or any puppy videos or golden retriever puppy vlogs. Let me know if you'd like to see more finance videos on budgeting, saving, and being financially independent in your 20s! Or more videos of me trying new things for a week, whether that be new skills or habits. Or videos on getting married, planning a wedding, or getting married young! I also make simple living, minimalism, and slow living videos as well!

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  • @catherineosullivan6208
    @catherineosullivan6208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You’re so considerate of other viewpoints, past experiences and belief systems! Your Christianity seems so wholesome (I can’t think of a better word I hope this isn’t offensive) and it’s nice to hear about it even though I’m not Christian myself, because you’re not pushy or prescriptive about it. Thank u 🙏

  • @Whoknows-mf1cv
    @Whoknows-mf1cv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Sex is a fringe benefit of relationships not the main event. It’s unfortunate to see relationships suffer because of a lack of sex. You’re perspective is awesome. I appreciate that you approached this in a thoughtful, objective way and not “spilling the tea”.

  • @complikayeted
    @complikayeted 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I love these casual sit-down videos - such a cozy vibe! I like how genuine and honest you are when answering these questions :)

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      thank you! that's always the goal with these so means a lot 💞

  • @nataliehayes4620
    @nataliehayes4620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thankful to be able to get advice from a christian perspective! Love all of your videos! On a funny side note- my boyfriend knows I love watching you and now follows you on Instagram so he can keep up with the things I like. How pure and sweet 🥺 he will even say things like “have you watched her new video yet, she posted about it on her story”

  • @hpegsrox
    @hpegsrox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for talking about the topic of differing libidos. It's something that isn't talked about a lot but is super relatable! I agree with everything you said!

  • @maryc1923
    @maryc1923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Michelle, I’ve been following you since your high school days! So crazy to see where you’ve come. I just wanna say your the only TH-camr I feel gravitated towards. Love how simple and pure your content is ❤️

  • @elizabetheigenmann4923
    @elizabetheigenmann4923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love that you're opening up while still staying true to yourself and the boundaries you've put in place regarding work/personal life. Very inspiring, as always :) Love you

  • @pollypint
    @pollypint 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Michelle, I’d love if you could do a video about how to begin your religious/spiritual journey- where to purchase a bible, useful apps etc, incorporating praying into your daily routine and everything else it entails. I’m at a point in my life where I’d like to turn to God, but it can be daunting and I don’t know where to begin! Thanks ❤️

    • @cilinderes745
      @cilinderes745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too, it would be really useful❤️

    • @creativemelanin
      @creativemelanin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love this!

    • @proverbs305kjv5
      @proverbs305kjv5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. (Romans 10:9 KJV)

    • @proverbs305kjv5
      @proverbs305kjv5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read God's pure words in the King James Version Bible. All other versions are not the pure words of God in the English language. A great book to start with is the Gospel According to John/Book of John.
      Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away. (Mark 13:31 KJV)

  • @123GitterBug
    @123GitterBug 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not Christian and not married but I love your videos! I get so much from them. I love the honesty and clarity. I find them both informative and engaging but also relaxing and rejuvenating. I’m never up to date but I love watching them! Thanks!

  • @jeanettevera-briggs8977
    @jeanettevera-briggs8977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Michelle for being so genuine. You’re lovely. Yes, I too believe in the power of prayer. Many blessings, J.

  • @colleenrumery5656
    @colleenrumery5656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love when you do these videos. You answer everything so genuine and I love that!

  • @LamarSchoell
    @LamarSchoell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed the part about serving your spouse and others. This is so true with any relationship serving each other in any way you can it's a win-win.

  • @carolinejudith1718
    @carolinejudith1718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to not watch as much of your married life/ wife content, but now I'm getting married in December and I appreciate your uploads about this subject!!

  • @carolinetmire
    @carolinetmire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you for all the effort you put into your work Michelle!!! You always make me feel so at peace and calm!

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you so much Caroline!

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the lighting! and the answers were well spoken and kind, great viewpoint. been watching you for years and I'm so thankful you're not pushy with your faith, it's refreshing(:

  • @caseykaldahl
    @caseykaldahl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I appreciate your willingness to share, Michelle!

  • @laurenhawker9028
    @laurenhawker9028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your conten! Thanks for bringing a smile to my Saturday and for being so open

  • @NinjaLmissO
    @NinjaLmissO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Michelle, I love how your content grows as you do. I have watched you from the start.

  • @pollyamartin
    @pollyamartin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just bought this book for my husband's and my 10 year dating anniversary that's coming up. Thank your for the recommendation!!

  • @CailaVyoral
    @CailaVyoral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m getting married in February and I really appreciate your openness and sincerity. So thankful for you and your videos 💗

  • @biancap.gonzalez4894
    @biancap.gonzalez4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVED this video. MORE! MORE! MORE! 🤩

  • @halleybarry5365
    @halleybarry5365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful and great! Love this video 💜

  • @Ricky-ke5qc
    @Ricky-ke5qc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are you literally always look so put together and your place and items you use always look spotless, I can neverrrrrrr

  • @eunicekwon7586
    @eunicekwon7586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve never seen this type of video, but I loved it! Thanks for sharing Michelle ❤️

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you enjoy watching!

  • @andreaflorez509
    @andreaflorez509 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos so much!! You’re so sweet and genuine!!

  • @RachelVinn
    @RachelVinn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE this!

  • @allisontargonski9198
    @allisontargonski9198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    michelle,
    i’ve been following your videos since we were both in high school. it is so cool to see you thriving through this stage of your life. your energy and your light is so bright and pure. you are so motivating and encouraging, thank you 🤍

  • @SundayswithJamie
    @SundayswithJamie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg I’m never this early because of the time difference! Lots of love from Melbourne 💓 your videos and podcast always make my day Michelle!

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      awh I love that, thanks for following along! 💓

  • @brookemckenzie1862
    @brookemckenzie1862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Getting married in 19 days!!!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @mariamangion21
    @mariamangion21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos! Tuesday’s and Saturday’s are my favorite days because you upload 🥺🤍

  • @mayalarson8265
    @mayalarson8265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for such a wonderful and helpful video, Michelle ❤️

  • @arlenevillanueva7585
    @arlenevillanueva7585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage is about helping each other out. Working as a team. Communication is also key and may be difficult at times. Also make time for each as individuals.

  • @TimeaPusok
    @TimeaPusok 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt like you were my sister sharing some wisdom about marriage! I loved the video. And I hope you're feeling better ❤️

  • @jheuliabee
    @jheuliabee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I remember you used to date that Gunner or Hunter guy whatever his name was lol. And look at you now married and in love, im so happy for you! Keep up the good work Michelle. 🥰💕

  • @ufw_Tini
    @ufw_Tini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m always so curious as to how being a wife looks. You are so beautiful Michelle. Happy Saturday.🤎

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you Santini 💓 I hope you have a great day!

  • @soniaisabel02
    @soniaisabel02 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so good!😊

  • @alexisbynum2329
    @alexisbynum2329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video! Hope you have a good weekend.

  • @jennac823
    @jennac823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Engaged 1 month ago so this will be super helpful!!! Thanks Michelle

  • @melissaholisky7857
    @melissaholisky7857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cash in the background is so cute! I ended up not listening to you and watching him walking around lol!.

  • @antoniajagodic
    @antoniajagodic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love it ❤️

  • @3emmanuela
    @3emmanuela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not married but will definitely watch this video again when It happens ☺️

  • @cocomarineblu993
    @cocomarineblu993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    50/50 all the time in any relationship is setting you up for unrealistic expectations. Life is never halfsies, it’s always give and take and you have to learn to live with that.

  • @ameliadalton115
    @ameliadalton115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The best way to start my Saturday!!

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      awh I hope you have a great weekend!

  • @carmenpiater9782
    @carmenpiater9782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is wonderful! Thank you Michelle✨🤍

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for being here Carmen! ✨

  • @jessicareeves2574
    @jessicareeves2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video! I am getting married on October 6th do I am trying to get all the advice I can before then!

  • @Angelahhh
    @Angelahhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your place is so traditional cozy and homey!

  • @miriamingrid1302
    @miriamingrid1302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're my favourite youtuber and I always look forward to your videos:) Love from Norway

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this means so much, thank you!

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have a great morning, Michelle! Nice to see you again!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @SamTrefs
    @SamTrefs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i loved this video so so much!! this is exactly the type of content that is so important for newly married couples and the conversations that should be normalized! 🤍

  • @noorl898
    @noorl898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oohhh excited to watch x

  • @BethanyC
    @BethanyC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so excited about this video!!

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yay! thanks for watching Bethany 💓

  • @lenastojanovic8397
    @lenastojanovic8397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely person❤️

  • @ashleymuenchau7694
    @ashleymuenchau7694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Super off topic, but your sweater looks so cozy! I'm not married, but fall is my favorite season and I look forward to doing all the cute fall date things. Going to a orchard later today (never been!), and I'm excited for it.

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you! and oh my gosh, I love going apple picking- seriously so much fun. hope you have fun 💞

  • @29treslaw
    @29treslaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t believe fall is almost here

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    lol im still embarrassed to use the bathroom or even fart with someone Im seeing

  • @viktoriyamalyk5701
    @viktoriyamalyk5701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so pretty and so sweet! God bless you!

  • @hassank8912
    @hassank8912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    marriage

  • @Kiritoswordsman597
    @Kiritoswordsman597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you do another money related video please?

  • @ufw_Tini
    @ufw_Tini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was there every at any point you thought that TH-cam was just a job and never something that you love? 💞

    • @michellereedg
      @michellereedg  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      no not really! there are times when I lose inspiration / let certain aspects get me down, but it's always been a hobby first and then a job. treating certain parts of it strictly as a job has helped me put up boundaries! 💞

  • @dekuofa1054
    @dekuofa1054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi there very nice to meet you!!! Are you a wwe wrestling fan

  • @Life-ll1xs
    @Life-ll1xs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First